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385: Spouse Resentment: Why You’re Feeling It & What to Do Jul 10, 2025

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Ever feel like you're one eye roll away from packing a bag, faking your own disappearance, and letting your family figure out how to survive on cereal and chaos? Then this episode on Spouse Resentment was made for you.

If summer has turned into a nonstop parade of snack prep, carpool duty, and invisible tasks while your partner breezes through like it's business as usual, you're not imagining things—and you're definitely not alone. We’re breaking down why that bubbling frustration hits so hard this time of year, how to recognize what it’s really trying to tell you, and what to actually do about it (no rage-cleaning required).

From unfair chore loads to weaponized incompetence, you'll get real talk, fresh perspective, and game-changing strategies to help you reset the dynamic, speak your truth, and finally claim the personal space you deserve. Because you're not just "too emotional"—you're carrying too much. Let’s fix that.

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BONUS REWIND: 6 Invisible Tasks that Add to Your Mental Load Jul 09, 2025

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Ever walked into a room and forgotten why you’re there—only to remember it was to solve someone else’s crisis, not your own? Yeah, same.

That’s the mental load in action, and moms carry a lot more of it than we realize. It’s not just grocery lists or appointments. It’s being the emotional safety net, the vibe-checker of the household, the one constantly predicting meltdowns before they happen. This kind of “invisible labor” adds up fast and drains what experts call your “body budget,” meaning your sensory and emotional bandwidth gets maxed out.

In less than ten minutes, you'll learn about six sneaky mental tasks that could be pushing you closer to burnout without even knowing it. You’ll also get insight from the book Brain-Body Parenting by Mona Delahooke, which helps decode why even small things can suddenly feel too much. The good news? You’ll walk away with tools to spot these hidden stressors, challenge outdated assumptions, and reclaim some balance before you hit that mental red zone.

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⁠Stop Doing It All Checklist!⁠ - This FREE checklist will help eliminate tasks that cause guilt and eat up time.⁠

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384: Go from Chaos to Calm: The ADHD Mom's Guide to Actually Getting Your Act Together with Robyn Buchanan Jul 08, 2025

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Do you ever open your fridge, take one whiff, and slam it shut like you’re dodging a crime scene? Or maybe your “junk drawer” is now a junk cabinet... plus the hall closet? If you feel like you're constantly losing track of your keys, your time, or your sanity—hi, welcome, you're among friends.

In this episode, we sit down with Robyn Buchanan, ADHD mom of three, former ER nurse, and owner of Minimalist Home & Business, who knows firsthand that organization systems and calm don’t come naturally when your brain is a pinball machine. She shares her signature “MIGHTY” method to help moms triage the chaos, simplify their stuff, and actually create systems that work—even if everyone in the house has ADHD (including you).

Spoiler: it’s not about perfection. It’s about one tiny, bite-sized change at a time. You know, like cutting your kid’s bagel in half so you can actually leave the house before 9.

If you’ve ever felt like you were failing at all the things, this one’s for you. Let’s get your act together... ADHD-style.

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383: Default Parent on Vacation (A.K.A. Mom): Why Your Family Trip Feels Like a Business Trip Jul 03, 2025

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Ever come back from a “vacation” more exhausted than when you left — and with an extra suitcase full of resentment? Yeah, same.

In this episode, JoAnn and Brie spill the sunscreen-slicked tea on why family vacations often feel like just another unpaid gig for moms. From packing every single toothbrush (only to have your teen forget theirs anyway), to mediating mid-flight meltdowns, they’re calling out the myth of the relaxing mom-cation and replacing it with real, doable strategies.

JoAnn shares her minimalist, “they’ll survive” approach, while Brie admits to scheduling activities with military precision and still being the family glue. Whether your crew is full of moody teens or snack-demanding toddlers, they’ll help you reclaim a slice of peace — even if it’s just a solo iced coffee with your name on it.

So if your idea of paradise includes a nap without being touched or questioned, hit play. You’ll laugh, nod in solidarity, and finally learn how to make your next trip feel a little less like work.

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Turn "I'm bored" into "Look what I built!" with our digital kids course, Not So Bummer Summer! Get all the details HERE!Use the code PODCAST50 for 50% off your purchase!

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382: 8 Simple Words That Can End Family Fights with Tera Wages Jul 01, 2025

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Are you done with the emotional roller coaster? The meltdowns (theirs and yours), the silent treatments, the nagging feeling that you're just not connecting? Trust me, we've been there, staring at our closet, wondering what to wear when our brain is already on overload.

But what if we shared with you simple emotional regulation tools for families that can actually end the drama in just four minutes a day? Seriously, four minutes! We’re chatting with Tera Wages, CEO of Connection Codes, and she's got the secret sauce.

In this episode, you'll discover her Core Emotion Wheel, an absolute game-changer for understanding those wild feelings that pop up. Think "Inside Out 2" but, like, for real life. You’ll learn that emotions aren't "good" or "bad" – they’re actually signals telling you what you need. Loneliness? That's your cue for connection. Hurt? Time to step away from the pain. And anger? Believe it or not, that can be your superpower, kicking you into action when something needs to change!

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381: The Invisible Load Doesn’t Take a Summer Break – Here’s How to Lighten It Jun 26, 2025

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Why does summer break feel less like a break and more like running a 24/7 snack bar, cruise ship, and emergency repair hotline—with zero staff but you?!

If you’ve ever packed 12 snacks, 4 swimsuits, and all the sunscreen only to forget your kid’s shoes—or found yourself negotiating screen time while unclogging a toilet—this episode is your new best friend.

In this episode, we’re diving into how to lighten the invisible load for moms during summer, when the mental chaos hits peak levels. You’ll laugh, you’ll nod, you might even text this episode to your BFF with the words “OMG THIS IS ME.”

We’ll be serving up easy (but powerful!) shifts to help you stop solving everyone’s problems, name that mental chaos out loud, and even sneak away guilt-free—because yes, you deserve magic moments too.

If you’re tired of being the default parent slash camp director slash snack locator… this one’s for you. Listen and learn how to lighten the invisible load for moms—because it’s time for you to enjoy summer too.

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380: Upstanders vs. Bystanders: Embracing Allyship for LGBTQ Families Everywhere with Jaimie Kelton Jun 24, 2025

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What do you get when you mix voiceover talent, musical theatre chops, and two kids made with a lot of love (and even more paperwork)? You get Jaimie Kelton—host of the LGBTQ family podcast The Queer Family Podcast and all-around awesome human.

In this episode, we dive into allyship that actually shows up, why inclusivity isn’t optional (especially in parenting), and how representation helps us all raise better humans. Oh—and did we mention the cupcakes at school board protests? Yeah, that happened. Also, Jaimie literally brought her sperm donor out of retirement. No big deal.

If you've ever wondered how to be a better ally—or just want to hear real talk with a lot of heart and a few giggles—this one’s for you. 💖🏳️‍🌈

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Turn "I'm bored" into "Look what I built!" with our digital kids course, Not So Bummer Summer! Get all the details HERE!

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379: The Summer Reset: Creating Calm With Simple Daily Rituals Jun 19, 2025

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Ah, summer break—that magical time when you think you’re going to have Pinterest-worthy pool days and sweet bonding moments over popsicles... but instead, you're refereeing sibling fights in 100-degree heat while Googling “how many hours of Roblox is too many?” Sound familiar?

If the lack of routine makes you feel like your sanity is slowly melting into the sidewalk, this episode is your reset button. We’re ditching the pressure to create a perfect summer and replacing it with simple, doable rituals that bring just enough structure to keep the chaos in check. Whether it’s a morning moment around the breakfast table or a “fake it ‘til you leave” timer trick to end a playground visit without tears (yours or theirs), you’ll walk away with realistic, guilt-free ways to create a summer rhythm that actually works.

Because you can enjoy summer with your kids… as long as nobody expects you to be fun 24/7.

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Join the Summer Vision Board Contest! We will be giving away daily prizes when you post your summer vision board on social media and tag us @noguiltmom. Get started HERE!

Check out our Summer solution for your kids HERE!

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BONUS REWIND: 137: What To Do When Your Kid is Lying Jun 18, 2025

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You catch your kid in a lie and suddenly you're spiraling. Is this the first step toward a life of crime? Did you mess up somewhere along the way? Are you raising a future con artist who’s going to scam their way through life and end up on a Netflix documentary? Deep breath, friend. You are not alone—and your kid is not broken.

Turns out, lying is a totally normal part of growing up (and honestly, adulthood too... ever said “I’m on my way” when you were still in pajamas?). Kids lie because they’re scared of getting in trouble, they don’t want to disappoint us, or sometimes because, well, cookies are delicious and bedtime is dumb.

In this episode, we will tell you the real reason most kids lie, the best way to handle it when they do lie by talking you through 3 very common situations where kids lie and share with you exactly what you can do to get them to stop lying and get stronger relationship in the meantime.

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⁠ No Guilt Mom Podcast Episode #063 How You're Self-Sabotaging Discipline at Home⁠

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378: The Perfection Trap: How ‘Having It All’ Can Leave You Empty with Cameo Elyse Braun Jun 17, 2025

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You’re doing all the things—the clean house, the school pick-ups, the perfect Instagram smile—but inside, you feel like you’re falling apart. Sound familiar?

In this episode, we’re joined by Cameo Elyse Braun, author of The Reset Button and host of The Cameo Show Podcast, who shares her powerful story of breaking free from the pressure to be the “perfect” mom, wife, and woman.

She opens up about a personal crisis that forced her to hit pause, get real, and start living on her own terms. No more chasing gold stars. No more shrinking to fit.

You’ll walk away with a roadmap for ditching the guilt, redefining success, and finding your identity again—even if it’s been buried under years of “shoulds.”

Because having it all doesn’t mean losing yourself in the process.

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Learn more about Cameo and her work here!

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