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Mary’s Example—A Woman Who Understood Her Gender Identity Dec 19, 2021

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Episode Summary. As God-designed men and warriors, we need to know how the idea that gender is a social construct is corrupting the very children singing this weekend and next about Mary, Joseph and baby Jesus. If we do nothing, many will reject God’s gender design and bring enormous pain into their lives. Mary, the mother of Jesus is a striking example of all that God designed a woman to be. We need the daughters of Christ to SEE THAT. This episode makes some suggestions about defeating transgender ideology in the public arena of ideas and then takes a close look at Mary, a paragon of godly womanhood that our daughters need to admire

For Further Prayerful Thought:

Why is it important for Christian men today to take a stand against the transgender ideology spreading across our schools and nation?
How would you seek to be persuasive about the harm of transgenderism in the public arena of discussion?
How could you do a better job of encouraging the women in your life when they demonstrate beauty of heart--especially meekness, having a quiet spirit, purity, and wanting to please God rather than men?

Resources Used in this Episode

Is Transgenderism Logical, What Would You Say Series, Colson Center.
Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters, Abigail Shrier.

Past Episode Series Highlight: Leadership Lessons from Jesus’ Dad S 2 #6, 12/12/2020.

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Our Mission to Enjoy God Dec 12, 2021

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Episode Summary. God is so committed to our well-being that he commands us, “Don’t get so busy that you aren’t taking time to find joy in your relationship with me!” That is the Yagel translation of Psalm 37:4, Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart,and Philippians 4:4, Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice. In both texts, we are commanded not to be passive but to take action to FIND JOY in our relationship with God. This episode focuses on enjoying God because of who he is—one who has adopted us into his family, becoming our FATHER.

For Further Prayerful Thought:

Why do we have so much trouble believing that when we confess our sins to God he actually separates us from them as far as the east is from the west? Once we’ve brought our sin to God to confess it, which do you think brings stronger motivation not to sin again—continuing to feel guilty or knowing Christ’s blood was shed to fully pay for this sin?
Why can God being a perfect disciplinarian lead to joy, since no trial or discipline is enjoyable?
Why does it produce joy to realize God doesn’t rebuke you for your weakness but wants you to ask him to be the show his power through that weakness?
What life examples lead you to agree or disagree with CS Lewis, who argues that expressing our enjoyment of God to Him in praise is the final step to completing our enjoyment of Him?

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What Jesus’ Unanswered Prayer Teaches Us Dec 05, 2021

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Episode Summary. On the night before he died, in the Garden of Gethsemane our Lord pled with the Father, “If it is possible, let this cup pass from me.” Jesus pled with the Father to make a way so that he would not have to go to the cross. God said, “no.” God refused to rescue Jesus from the suffering he would endure. Many times, our God refuses to rescue US from the painful difficulties and trials he has ordained for us. Why? For the same reason he didn’t rescue Jesus. This episode examines this reason, which points to God’s purpose for us. Better understanding that purpose can draw us TO God when his path takes us through daily difficulties, instead of AWAY FROM him.

For Further Prayerful Thought:

What are the chief obstacles that keep you from choosing to be positive about irritations and frustrations that God is using in your life to make you more Christ-like?
Do you agree that your attitude is based upon your perspective? If so, what needs to change in our perspective about everyday difficulties, irritations and trials in order to view those positively?
Verse 4 in James identifies four ultimate objectives that persevering through difficulties and trials accomplishes—better glorifying God, putting your roots deeper into Christ, pleasing Christ more, and becoming a better representative of Christ. Which of these four is most motivating to you?

Past Episode Series Highlight: Becoming More Like Jesus: Beatitudes 1-6 (so far) Season 1 Episodes #8-#11 (12/29/19-1/19/20) and Season 2, Episodes #3 and #4, (11/22/20-11/29/20).

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A Prerequisite For Drawing Near to God Nov 28, 2021

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Episode Summary. In Hebrews 11:6, God reveals to us a profound, universal truth. Whoever would draw near to God must believe that he…rewards those who seek him. Here, God reveals that the prerequisite for drawing near to Him is an assumption about his nature—that the time, risk, and energy spent seeking to have a relationship with him is a worthwhile investment—that it is beneficial to seek God, that his goodness causes him to enrich those who seek him. If this principle is true—that confidence in God’s benevolent character is a requirement for drawing near to him—no wonder Satan planted doubts in Eve’s heart about God’s goodness. No wonder the difficult circumstances of life so easily bring not just a complaining attitude, but subtle doubts about whether God really is as good as we had believed. This episode seeks to build biblical certainty into our hearts that God always rewards those who seek him

For Further Prayerful Thought:

Why does is make sense that in order to draw near to God we must believe that he is a rewarder of those who seek him?
David, among all biblical heroes, had one of the closest walks with the Lord and expressed his love for God’s Law most profusely. Why might these be related?
If you sensed that someone was generally interested in how God could be loving and still ordain a world with so much suffering, how would you answer?

Resources Used in Today’s Episode

The Reason for God: Belief in an Age of Skepticism, Timothy Keller.
The Case for Faith: A Journalist Investigates the Toughest Objections to Christianity, Lee Strobel.

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A Practice That Turns Our Heart to Christ Nov 21, 2021

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Episode Summary. This episode is about a specific attitude that is so simple to understand that most of us have never given it much thought—yet its practice has enormous power to draw our hearts continually towards Jesus. And that is what this new series is about: “A Closer Walk with Jesus.”

For Further Prayerful Thought:

Why would the practice of giving thanks work to warm your heart towards Jesus like the practice of turning up the thermostat of your home.
In what ways does it make sense or not make sense that an unwillingness to give thanks to God is one of two roots of sin?
Which benefits of radical gratitude stood out most to you?

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Satan's Tactics for Defeating Eve Nov 14, 2021

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Episode Summary.
“You actually believe in a literal devil,” the professor laughed. “Does he wear a red suit and sometimes carry a pitchfork, or is he a talking snake?” Unless we expect to protect our children and grandchildren from the real world for the rest of their lives, we can pretty much count on such ridicule coming their way if they let others know that are Christ-followers. This episode looks at how we might prepare the rising generation to respond confidently to such attacks and examines some characteristics of the Evil One that help us make sense of the origin and moral impact in our world of Adam and Eve’s rebellion against God.

For Further Prayerful Thought:

What stood out to you about how we might equip the rising generation with confidence to respond to one belittling his belief in a real devil?
Which of the 4 tactics followed by Satan to get Eve to rebel against God stands out to you?
Which of the 4 tactics does Satan seem to have success with, in your life?
What might God be calling YOU to do to help the rising generation not be squeezed into the world’s mold?

Past Episode Series Highlight:
Winning Spiritual Battles Because We Use Our Spiritual Weapons. Begun Jan 3, 2021, S2 E #9. Continues through E #21 3/28/21.
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The Loudoun County Bathroom Incident From a Biblical Worldview Nov 07, 2021

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Episode Summary. Just about anyone who has been listening to the news knows about the vote of the Loudoun County school board this last August “to allow transgender students to use school bathrooms matching their gender identity, and Loudin County resident Scott Smith’s attempt to speak at a schoolboard meeting prior to that decision about the sexual assault of his daughter in Stone Bridge HS girl’s restroom by a boy wearing a skirt. In an interview with the Daily Wire, Smith claimed that he had attempted to bring up the assault on his daughter at a school-board meeting on June 22, but he was arrested by police before he could speak. This past week, the 15-year-old boy about whom Smith was speaking was convicted by a Loudoun County judge of the sexual assault of his daughter. Although it is always hard to get at the facts, especially in a red-hot political battle going on at the time for the governorship of Virginia, we still must ask, How can Christians view this event through a biblical worldview lens and help our rising generation of teens do the same? This episode makes some suggestions.

For Further Prayerful Thought:

Why do you think the Biblical answer to the question, What is wrong with the world, is relevant today. How might you winsomely introduce this biblical answer into conversations at your workplace?
Which of the four aspects of the fall seem most relevant to your everyday life?
Would you say it is critical for our Christian children and grandchildren to understand that sin darkens human understanding. If so, why?
Which biblical worldview principles seemed most important in understanding the Loudoun County bathroom incident

Past Episode Highlight:

Wisely Protecting Your Child from Gender Confusion S2 E #23 4/11/21

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Responding to Our Culture’s Devaluing of Marriage Oct 31, 2021

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Episode Summary. As we continue our series, Guiding Our Loved Ones into a Biblical Worldview, this episode examines six biblical truths about God’s marriage design that are rooted in Genesis 2:24-25. There we read, Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.

For Further Prayerful Thought:

Why is marriage different from all other relationships, making it the foundational institution of society?
What does Genesis 2:24-25, the text we looked at, say about why God’s design of sex is profoundly tied to the institution of marriage?
How does the biblical view of marriage suggest that the biggest problem in our cities is probably neither racism or nor poverty, but fatherlessness?

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Resources Used in Today’s Podcast

The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God, by Tim Keller
Same Sex Marriage: A Thoughtful Approach to God’s Design for Marriage, by Sean McDowell and John Stonestreet
Psychology Today Article, Sexual Satisfaction: Does Marriage Help It or Hurt It,by Michael Castleman

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Past Episode Highlight: In another podcast, Season 2 Episode #25 I answer the question: What do you say to your daughter who says, “Wives being told they must submit to their husbands feels like girls are inferior to boys?” I identify nine things to say. That’s Season 2, Episode 25 “Help Your Loved Ones Celebrate God’s Design of Male & Female.” 4/25/21

Raising Fearlessly Feminine Girls Oct 24, 2021

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Episode Summary. This episode identifies many common destructive narratives our rising young women are hearing about their feminine identity that will squeeze them into its mold if we do nothing. Then the episode takes a brief glimpse at God’s design of the magnificent creature called, WOMAN.
For Further Prayerful Thought:

What are the unbiblical statements that you hear about gender differences and gender roles?
How would you prove to a young Christian that the biblical view of womanhood is that she is equal to a man in worth and dignity, despite being called to different roles?
What aspect of true femininity as described in Genesis 2 do you think is being lost today?

Resource Used in Podcast: Gary's book: Anchoring Your Child to God's Truth in a Gender-Confused Culture: Helping Our Children Embrace Their Calling to Godly Manhood or Womanhood. Click for more info. Available in print and Kindle at Amazon.

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Past Episode Highlight: In another podcast, Season 2 Episode #25, I answer the question: What do you say to your daughter who says, “Wives being told they must submit to their husbands feels like girls are inferior to boys?” I identify nine things to say. That’s Season 2, Episode 25 “Help Your Loved Ones Celebrate God’s Design of Male & Female" 4/25/21.

Manhood As It Was Supposed to Be Oct 17, 2021

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Episode Summary. One of the greatest treasures given by God to his people is his revelation of how he created man and woman differently in Genesis 2. This episode examines God’s perfect design for masculinity. Christ wants to redeem every Christian man’s fallen, self-centered masculinity and restore him to the original design God displayed in creating unfallen Adam as a male. Christ came to fix everything that is broken in this world, including manhood. In Christ, the Second Adam, men are empowered to become the Christ-like man Adam was designed to be.

For Further Prayerful Thought:

What are the two toughest things about living our lives with a focus on helping others reach their potential?
When you consider the call to protect those under your care from spiritual and emotional harm, what are the biggest challenges you need to overcome?
If you are married, what can you do inside your own heart to treasure your wife more?
What might Satan use in your life to cause you to be passive, instead of taking the initiative to lead your wife and marriage?

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Past Series Highlight: Anchoring Our Kids to Biblical Truth About Gender