Matthew and Paul

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The Paul Castle Project: Life Before Diagnosis Jan 09, 2023

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In this, Part 2 of The Paul Castle Project, Paul describes the “8 awkward years” between the first signs of blindness at age 8 and his final diagnosis at age 16. From failing at sports, to random embarrassing moments (like jumping into a strangers car), Paul explains why he began to identify as “clumsy” without realizing that he saw the world differently than his peers.

On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul dive deeper into those 8 awakes years. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/76983850

Gay and Interabled: How Disability Shapes Our Relationship REVISITED Jan 02, 2023

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Matthew and Paul are talking about their lives as an interabled couples. Paul explains how his visual impairment affected his dating experience, while Matthew explains his initial thoughts and concerns upon meeting Paul. Matthew and Paul also describe ways in which being disabled both hinders and helps their relationship in unique ways.

On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul reflect on some of the more humor moments born out of being interabled. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/76660903

What Did 2022 Teach Us? Dec 27, 2022

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Matthew and Paul are wishing you a Happy New Year, as well as taking a look back to answer the question: What did 2022 teach us?

Unlock extended episodes: Patreon.com/hisandhis

Dating and Relationship Questions Dec 19, 2022

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In Part 2 of their conversation, Matthew and Paul continue using the virtual deck of cards created by the Gottman Institute in order to deepen connection and improve intimacy.

On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul open the Intimate Questions cards. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/76084295

Fight or Flight: How We Recover Dec 12, 2022

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Matthew and Paul use a special deck of cards created by the Gottman Institute in order to deepen their connection and increase intimacy.

On the extended episode Matthew and Paul answer questions from the “spicy” salsa cards. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/75811110

Has Marriage Changed Our Relationship? Dec 05, 2022

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As Matthew and Paul celebrate 3 years of marriage (and a total of 6 years together) they answer the question, “Has marriage changed our relationship?”

On the extended episode Matthew and Paul reveal the regrets they have about their wedding day. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/75539403

Our Wedding Day REVISITED Nov 29, 2022

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Matthew and Paul reflect on the day they became husbands. Matthew reveals the one thing that stressed him our the most, while Paul recounts a moment that left everyone in tears. At the end of the episode, Matthew and Paul offer an updated reflection, 3 years later!

Unlock extended episodes here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/75236822

Gay Books: Stories That Inspired Us Nov 21, 2022

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Matthew and Paul are discussing the gay-themed books that inspired them during important life moments. Matthew talks about discovering the book “Call Me By Your Name” by Andre Aciman, while Paul explains why he fell in love with “A Home at the End of the World” by Michael Cunningham.

On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul discuss the movie adaptations of their chosen books. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/74836201

One Year With Mr. Maple Nov 14, 2022

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Matthew and Paul celebrate one year with Paul’s guide dog, Mr. Maple. Matthew describes his relationship with Paul’s service animal, while Paul discusses the many positive changes Maple has made in his life.

On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul reveal the results of Paul’s latest gene therapy clinical trial. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/74622273

Paul Castle Project: The First Sign of Blindness Oct 31, 2022

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Introducing a new brand new series chronically Paul’s unique experience with a rare form of blindness. In this first episode Paul describes the very moment he knew something was wrong with his vision, and the reason he kept it a secret.

On the extended episode Matthew joins Paul for a conversation about overcome fears. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/73945844

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