Marriage on a Tightrope

***Relocation Update*** for MOAT and Allan and Kattie’s Content! Nov 22, 2023

Although “Marriage On A Tightrope” content is still hosted here, Allan and Kattie and new content are now independently operating and being hosted outside the Mormon Discussion Inc. umbrella.

For their latest updates and valuable resources on mixed-faith marriages, we recommend connecting with them at the following locations:

YouTube: Marriage on a Tightrope
Instagram: Marriage on a Tightrope

They continue to be exceptional sources for support in mixed-faith relationships, and we encourage you to explore their incredible content.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 138: See you later (not a goodbye!) Aug 13, 2023

On this Episode, Kattie and Allan explain some big changes that have occurred over the past few months.

You may be surprised to hear, that this will be the final episode of Marriage on a Tightrope to appear on this podcast feed! However, do not fear! The Tightrope lives on! You can follow Marriage on a Tightrope and all of their future episodes, meet ups, events, workshops and more in all of the following places.

New Podcast Feed: Subscribe to our new podcast feed by the same name in your favorite podcast apps. The name is the same, with a “Allan & Kattie’s version” after the title in the new logo! Note: As of August 12, 2023 the podcast is still not on Google Podcasts. We expect that to happen in the next 2 weeks.

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New Youtube Channel: That’s right! Marriage on a Tightrope is now producing episodes on video! Subscribe to our Youtube channel! Leave us a comment, and like the videos we’ve put out. It helps!
Workshop on a Tightrope:

Don’t miss out on the 10th session of “Workshop on a Tightrope”!

This 6 week online course has helped over 200 couples learn the tools and strategies they need to thrive in their mixed faith marriage. Enrollment is open for our next course that begins August 27th. You’ll get weekly live Zoom sessions with Natasha Helfer, licensed Marriage and Family therapist, Allan and Kattie, and 24 other couples.

Register here

Email us at marriageonatightrope@gmail.com

We’d like to express our deepest gratitude to Bill Reel and the entire Mormon Discussions family for an amazing 5 years. The last 5 years making this podcast has changed our lives for the better and we couldn’t have done it without our good friends at Mormon Discussions!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 135: Carol Lynn Pearson (The Love Map) Apr 17, 2023

Today we’re joined again by author, screenwriter, song writer, and general wonderful human being, Carol Lynn Pearson. We discuss her new book The Love Map. But there is so much more in this episode. We discuss putting “love” above differences and have get some wonderful insights from Carol Lynn about mixed faith marriage.

We hope you join us on Sunday April 23rd at 7pm Mountain on Zoom as we give our presentation from Thrive St. George on creating meaningful Sundays. On that Zoom we’ll also be telling you all about what we have planned for Marriage on a Tightrope for 2023 and beyond. Use this Zoom link (https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83850918477?pwd=eDRzMkJBb3ZnZ0EvVitkVGx6bUdnQT09) or check our Facebook and Instagram accounts on the day of the event. Put it in your calendars!

We’re excited to have Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife present in person on Monday May 8th at 7pm at the Alianza building in Pleasant Grove, Utah. She will be presenting for 60 minutes on the topic of “Differentiation: The Key to Navigating Mixed-Faith Relationships”. This event will be in person only. To reserve your spot, Venmo $25 per person to @marriageonatightrope. In your Venmo comment, include “JFF” and your email address. Space is reserved to 100 people!

Workshop on a Tightrope – We’re happy to announce our 9th session of Workshop on a Tightrope. Starting Sunday June 4th, we will be joined live via Zoom with Licensed therapist Natasha Helfer, every Sunday evening from 7pm-9pm mst. The demand for this workshop is through the roof, so register now through Thinkific. Early registration ($50 off) ends May 10th. Sign up now and receive a 7th bonus week (Sex & Intimacy) at no additional cost.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 134: Introducing MOAT 2.0 Apr 10, 2023

Kattie and Allan are excited to announce the next phase of Marriage on a Tightrope. From weekly video episodes (!!!), to more events, online and in person meetups, another Workshop on a Tightrope with Natasha Helfer starting soon, Marriage on a Tightrope 2.0 is shaping up to be huge for the mixed faith space.

Join us on Sunday April 23rd at 7pm Mountain on Zoom as we give our presentation from Thrive St. George on creating meaningful Sundays. On that Zoom we’ll also be telling you all about what we have planned for Marriage on a Tightrope for 2023 and beyond. Use this Zoom link (https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83850918477?pwd=eDRzMkJBb3ZnZ0EvVitkVGx6bUdnQT09) or check our Facebook and Instagram accounts on the day of the event.

We’re excited to have Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife present in person on Monday May 8th at 7pm at the Alianza building in Pleasant Grove, Utah. She will be presenting for 60 minutes on the topic of “Differentiation: The Key to Navigating Mixed-Faith Relationships”. This event will be in person only. To reserve your spot, Venmo $25 per person to @marriageonatightrope. In your Venmo comment, include “JFF” and your email address. Space is reserved to 100 people!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 133: Jana Spangler Feb 12, 2023

Jana Spangler joins Kattie and Allan to talk about her work at Symmetry Sols, her time as a student under Richard Rohr, and so much more. Jana’s professional and personal experience combined with her training makes her an expert in the field of faith transitions. She is a sought-after podcast guest, speaker, presenter, and retreat leader. She is passionate about helping her clients find and trust their inner compass and make sense of challenging and misunderstood stages of spiritual growth. Her approach to wellness as an Integral Coach utilizes developmental, personality (enneagram), and other lenses. We are so lucky to have her on the show!

Workshop on a Tightrope – We’re one week away from our 8th session of Workshop on a Tightrope and there are only a few spots left! Starting Sunday February 19th, we will be joined live via Zoom with Licensed Therapist Natasha Helfer, every Sunday evening from 7pm-9pm mst. Over 200 couples have completed this Mixed Faith Marriage course and found it invaluable to their relationship. The demand for this workshop is through the roof, so register now through Thinkific. If you’re interested but need more info, email us at marriageonatightrope@gmail.com or message us on Instagram.

Saturday February 25th – Kattie and Allan will be the opening speakers at Thrive St. George.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 132: Chelsea Homer from Lost and Found Club Jan 30, 2023

Friday February 3rd 7pm – Dan McClellan will be be joining Kattie and Allan to speak on “Negotiating with the Bible”. While the event is sold out, check our Facebook group event page on the day of the event for a Zoom link to join remotely. This event is free, we’re asking for a small donation to help us cover speaker fees, venue costs, and other expenses associated with the event. Venmo us @marriageonatightrope if you’re able to donate.

Workshop on a Tightrope – We’re happy to announce our 8th session of Workshop on a Tightrope. Starting Sunday February 19th, we will be joined live via Zoom with Licensed therapist Natasha Helfer, every Sunday evening from 7pm-9pm mst. The demand for this workshop is through the roof, so register now through Thinkific. Early registration ($50 off) ends February 1st. Sign up now and receive a 7th bonus week (Sex & Intimacy) at no additional cost.

Saturday February 25th – Kattie and Allan will be the opening speakers at Thrive St. George.

In this episode, Chelsea Homer joins the Mounts to discuss her Facebook group Faith Journey Meetups and her recently established non-profit Lost and Found Club.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 131: New Year, New Sunday Routine Jan 15, 2023

Marriage on a Tightrope is starting 2023 with a BANG. So many events and announcements to share.

Sunday January 29th – We will be joining Sunday Service to collect food for the Utah Food Bank. Search for handle sunday.serv on Instagram for details.

Friday February 3rd 7pm – Dan McClellan will be be joining Kattie and Allan to speak on “Negotiating with the Bible”. Space is EXTREMELY limited. Go to Eventbrite to reserve your spot. If full, email us at marriageontightrope@gmail.com to get on the waiting list. While this event is free, we’re asking for a small donation to help us cover speaker fees, venue costs, and other expenses associated with the event. Venmo us @marriageonatightrope if you’re able to donate.

Workshop on a Tightrope – We’re happy to announce our 8th session of Workshop on a Tightrope. Starting Sunday February 19th, we will be joined live via Zoom with Licensed therapist Natasha Helfer, every Sunday evening from 7pm-9pm mst. The demand for this workshop is through the roof, so register now through Thinkific. Early registration ($50 off) ends February 1st. Sign up now and receive a 7th bonus week (Sex & Intimacy) at no additional cost.

Saturday February 25th – Kattie and Allan will be the opening speakers at Thrive St. George.

In this episode, Kattie and Allan take a look back at their Sundays in 2022 and reflect on how their goals for 2023 are vastly different. They discuss the challenges of balancing different religious beliefs within a mixed faith family and share practical tips on how to make Sundays more meaningful for your family.

One of the key elements of their new Sunday routine is the concept of “words of the year.” Kattie and Allan share how they each chose a word that resonates with them personally and how they plan to integrate these words into their new Sunday routine. They also discuss the importance of encouraging their kids to explore new ideas, discover what “speaks” to them personally and how Sundays are the perfect opportunity for quality time together as a family.

Whether you’re part of a mixed faith family or not, this episode is packed with valuable insights and inspiration for making Sundays more meaningful for your family. Don’t miss it!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 130: Handling the Holidays Dec 05, 2022

Join us Saturday December 17th at 6pm for our Marriage on a Tightrope Couples Christmas party. It will be at Enlisted Design, 345 Pierpont Ave, Salt Lake City. It will be potluck style. Bring something to share, and cans of food for donation to the Utah food bank.

Our annual fundraising drive ends on December 9th. If you would like to contribute, you can donate here or via Venmo @Marriageonatightrope.

How do you handle the holidays? Are certain traditions more difficult, painful or uncomfortable than before? In this episode, Kattie and Allan discuss how they handle the holidays, teaching about Santa Claus, Christmas music, and tell their story of attending a Christmas concert.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 129: Aubrey and Tim Chaves Nov 22, 2022

Aubrey and Tim Chaves are the hosts of the Faith Matters podcast and part of its executive board. They grew up near Salt Lake City, Utah and went to both middle school and high school together. Tim served an LDS mission to Montevideo, Uruguay. He attended BYU for his undergraduate studies before earning an MBA from Harvard Business School, and is now an entrepreneur working in Utah County. Aubrey received a degree in Elementary Education from Utah State before teaching fourth grade; she now owns a cake decorating business. Tim and Aubrey are the parents of four children.

Please consider donating to Marriage on a Tightrope on the National Day of Giving on Tuesday November 29th. We’ll have a Facebook post where you can donate, or you can donate to us via Venmo @marriageonatightrope

Thank you for your support!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 128: Margi and John Dehlin Nov 07, 2022

Margi Dehlin graduated from BYU with a major in English and philosophy. She did both cross country and track there as well. She loves the beauty of the outdoors, reading a good book and creating deep abiding connections to those she loves most. She is a certified life coach through the Life Purpose Institute, specializing in life transitions. You’ll also see her as a co-host on Mormon Stories. You can learn more about Margi at beautyinthenow.org

Dr. John Dehlin is the host of Mormon Stories, the longest running podcast in Mormonism, a non-profit CEO, activist, public speaker, and religious transitions coach. He is an expert in understanding and supporting people experiencing religious faith crises/transitions. John has a Master’s degree in Instructional Technology and a Ph.D. in Clinical and Counseling Psychology. His clinical training focus on navigating religious faith crises, mixed-faith marriages and religious and or LGBTQ identity conflict.

The Dehlin’s live in Holliday and have 4 children.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 127: Investing in your Marriage and Yourself Sep 25, 2022

Kattie and Allan discuss how they have invested in their marriage over the years. From date nights to walks around the neighborhood, there are plenty of ways we can all invest in our own marriages.

Kattie also talks about her experience at the Art of Desire retreat she attended with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and how that has helped her with her own self development.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 126: We’re Back! Aug 27, 2022

We’re back from our summer hiatus! We spent a MONTH in the UK and we’re finally back on American soil. Hear how the trip went, how Kattie’s summer break from church attendance went, and how she felt going back to church for the first time.

Registration for the September 2022 session of Workshop on a Tightrope is now OPEN!

Want to hear what past attendees of the course have said? Join this Marco Polo group to see testimonials and ask questions!

Join us for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course with therapist Natasha Helfer! Over 175 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course! If you need help knowing how to make your mixed faith marriage work, this is a great path to take. You get face time with an experience professional, additional stories and advice from Allan and Kattie, practical exercises to do at home, and you’ll see 20+ other couples expressing similar struggles and victories.

Our first session will be September 11, 2022 at 7pm Mountain.

Go to Thinkific to register today.

If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with the note “Scholarship”.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 125: Mount Family Update Jul 08, 2022

It’s been a while since Kattie and Allan have given an update on what’s going on in their Mixed Faith Marriage. In this episode Allan talks about reducing the religious content he posts on TikTok. Kattie talks about some of the difficult aspects of church attendance. Their 10 year daughter Zara joins them at the beginning to share some of her feelings as well!

Registration for the September 2022 session of Workshop on a Tightrope is now OPEN!

Want to hear what past attendees of the course have said? Join this Marco Polo group to see testimonials and ask questions!

Join us for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course with therapist Natasha Helfer! Over 175 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course! If you need help knowing how to make your mixed faith marriage work, this is a great path to take. You get face time with an experience professional, additional stories and advice from Allan and Kattie, practical exercises to do at home, and you’ll see 20+ other couples expressing similar struggles and victories.

Our first session will be September 11, 2022 at 7pm Mountain.

Go to Thinkific to register today.

If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with the note “Scholarship”.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 124: Leslie and Ben (Jehovah’s Witnesses) Jun 22, 2022

Leslie and Ben are a Marriage on a Tightrope first! They are a mixed faith couple from the Jehovah’s Witness faith. They were brave enough to record this all on their own. We know you’ll enjoy their story!

Registration for the September 2022 session of Workshop on a Tightrope is now OPEN!

Join us for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course with therapist Natasha Helfer! Over 175 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course! If you need help knowing how to make your mixed faith marriage work, this is a great path to take. You get face time with an experience professional, additional stories and advice from Allan and Kattie, practical exercises to do at home, and you’ll see 20 other couples expressing similar struggles and victories.

Our first session will be September 11, 2022 at 7pm Mountain.

Go to Thinkific to register today.

If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with the note “Scholarship”.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 123: Madison and Tommy Johnson (@thetomsters) May 26, 2022

Madison and Tommy Johnson join us for a conversation about being in a mixed faith marriage and newly married. You may have seen Tommy’s very popular Tik Tok channel @thetomsters which causes people to constantly ask him – so are you in or are you out of the church? Tommy has a large following on social media and his humor pokes fun at many cultural nuances in our church.

Madison and Tommy have great insight and gives others a look in to what it’s like to go through a faith transition shortly after marriage, and how they’re handling their future.

For fun – check out Tommy’s Tik Tok and his series on what Mormons think judgement day will be like. Enjoy.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife May 18, 2022

We are delighted to have Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife back on Marriage on a Tightrope! Dr. Fife is a relationship and sexuality educator and coach. She teaches online courses and live workshops to individuals and couples seeking to develop their capacity for deeper emotional and sexual intimacy.

Dr. Fife has created a space for couples to be more honest and show up in their relationships for each other. In addition to her courses and workshops, she has a series of in person retreats coming up this year. We were grateful for her time to talk us through what these retreats look like, and how we can benefit from them.

She has provided our listeners with an a additional code for those who sign up!

Type in code “moat” which will give listeners $100 off for the partial week couples retreat or $200 off a full week couples retreat ticket for the June 9-15th retreat.

The Art of Loving for Men, The Art of Desire for Women, and the 2022 Couples’ Retreat in Spain can also get you a free mini course with the code “moat”.

Join me, Kattie, at The Art of Desire for Women Retreat. I would love to see you there!

To sign up and for more information you can go to:

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/workshops

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 121: At Last She Said It Interview May 11, 2022

Susan Hinckley and Cynthia Winward are the hosts of the popular “At Last She Said It” podcast. They are growing in both popularity and in content and we were delighted to interview them about their podcast. We feel strongly that there are amazing content creators out there who provide a myriad of support for others in this space and Susan and Cynthia fall in to that category. It is our goal to share with our listeners as many resources at any level we can to continue to support continued growth. We hope you love these conversations as much as we enjoyed them!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 120: David Ostler & Bridges Second Edition May 02, 2022

David Ostler joins Kattie and Allan for a 2nd time to discuss the 2nd edition of his book Bridges: Ministering to Those Who Question. This second edition dedicated to Mixed Faith Marriage and relationships is available NOW!

Go to bridgeslds.com to download the new chapter on Mixed Faith Marriage today. We’d also encourage you to purchase the book for yourselves, your parents, other family, and local church leaders. It is a GEM of a resource.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 119: The Baptisms Apr 22, 2022

Kattie and Allan give all the details on their double baptism with their children Zak and Zara.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 118: Vow Renewals Feb 14, 2022

Allan and Kattie were involved with a vow renewal for dear friends and a fellow mixed faith couple. Allan was honored to officiate the ceremony and the couple was kind enough to give permission for Allan to read what he said to listeners of Marriage on a Tightrope.

Want to tell your story on the podcast? Schedule an interview here

Join us for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course with therapist Natasha Helfer! Over 150 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course! If you need help knowing how to make your mixed faith marriage work, this is a great path to take. You get face time with an experience professional, additional stories and advice from Allan and Kattie, practical exercises to do at home, and you’ll see 20 other couples expressing similar struggles and victories.

Our first session will be February 27, 2022 at 7pm Mountain.

Go to Thinkific to register today.

If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with the note “Scholarship”.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 117: Connection, Healing, Growth Feb 07, 2022

Kattie and Allan recap an eventful weekend. From the Women’s Retreat to deaths of two individuals close to the Mount’s. All shared with a focus on connection, healing, and growth.

We’d love to have you in our 6 week online mixed faith marriage workshop with Natasha Helfer. Our first live session will be February 27, 2022 and there are a few spots left. Join before Valentine’s day and get free entry into the bonus Sex and Intimacy week.

Sign up here

Want to tell your story on Marriage on a Tightrope? Record your response to the following questions with your spouse and send the audio to Marriageonatightrope@gmail.com

What was your upbringing in (or out of) the church like?
Tell us about your relationship leading up to one spouse experiencing their shift in beliefs (how you met, how you practiced your faith as a couple)
Briefly describe the transition of belief. (The focus here should be on what it was like and less about the details of what caused the shift).
What have been the most difficult challenges in your mixed faith marriage? (Include what you’re currently still working through)
What have been the greatest wins in your mixed faith marriage? (Include how long it took to feel that you were in a better place, and/or what made you stay in your marriage)
What advice would you give to other mixed faith couples just starting out?

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 116: Mixed Faith Survey Results Jan 26, 2022

A few months ago we asked our listeners to answer a few questions about their mixed faith marriage. Well, we’re here to report on the results!

Last we have a few spots left for our women’s retreat Feb 5, 2022. Follow the link and join us. This is for any women, anywhere on their faith journey.

Want to tell your story on the podcast? Schedule an interview here

Join us for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course with therapist Natasha Helfer! Over 150 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course! If you need help knowing how to make your mixed faith marriage work, this is a great path to take. You get face time with an experience professional, additional stories and advice from Allan and Kattie, practical exercises to do at home, and you’ll see 20 other couples expressing similar struggles and victories.

Our first session will be February 27, 2022 at 7pm Mountain.

Go to Thinkific to register today.

If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with the note “Scholarship”.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 115: New Year, New Goals Jan 12, 2022

Kattie and Allan discuss what 2022 looks like for the Mount’s.

Also, the last episode of Marriage on a Tightrope was a bit tense. We received quite a lot of feedback expressing concern, and even a few messages that went a bit too far in their advice for how Kattie should proceed in the marriage. On this episode, Allan and Kattie provide an update on how things have been since the last episode, an a reassurance that their marriage is juuuuuuust fine!

Want to tell your story on the podcast? Schedule an interview here

Join us for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course with therapist Natasha Helfer! Over 150 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course! If you need help knowing how to make your mixed faith marriage work, this is a great path to take. You get face time with an experience professional, additional stories and advice from Allan and Kattie, practical exercises to do at home, and you’ll see 20 other couples expressing similar struggles and victories.

Our first session will be February 27, 2022 at 7pm Mountain.

Go to Thinkific to register today.

If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with the note “Scholarship”.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 114: Shifting Gears Dec 15, 2021

Kattie and Allan discuss the latest tricky chapter in their Mixed Faith Marriage. Kattie asks for a “break” in discussing certain topics, Allan’s TikTok channel causes some hurt feelings, and the Mount’s do what they’ve come accustomed to doing over the past 4 years…work it out in front of the microphone.

Join us for our 6 week online course with therapist Natasha Helfer starting Sunday February 27th, 2022! Over 150 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course!

Go to Thinkific to register today.

If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with the note “Scholarship”.

Last we have a few spots left for our women’s retreat Feb 5, 2022. Early Bird Registration ends Nov.30th and then the price goes up. Follow the link and join us. It also makes an amazing gift to your loved one. This is for any women, anywhere on their faith journey.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 113: Giving Day Nov 30, 2021

November 30th is Giving Day! Help Kattie and Allan in their efforts to continue their work in the mixed faith arena by donating today.

Donations can be made on the official fundraiser page or via venmo (@marriageonatightrope).

On this episode Kattie and Allan share a few unique emails and fun connections they’ve made through the podcast over the past few years.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 112: United in our Differences Nov 22, 2021

Happy Thanksgiving! This weekend can bring so many emotions to the surface when spending time with your family and loved ones. In this episode we share our Thrive presentation with all of our listeners.

How can we have closer relationships with those friends and family we would like to keep in our lives? We give you 5 strategies you can implement now just in time for the busiest season of the year and most family filled. Here’s a link to the slide presentation!

Also we would love for you to participate in our Giving Day Tuesday, Nov. 30th by donating to Marriage on a Tightrope! We make a single push every year to ask for donations that directly impact the podcast! You can donate to us directly through Venmo @marriageonatightrope. You can also donate through Mormondiscussions.org on our behalf!

Last we have a few spots left for our women’s retreat Feb 5, 2022. Early Bird Registration ends Nov.30th and then the price goes up. Follow the link and join us. It also makes an amazing gift to your loved one. This is for any women, anywhere on their faith journey.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 111: Making Decisions without God Nov 05, 2021

How does the decision making process change when one spouse no longer believes in God? Allan and Kattie discuss the challenges they have experienced as Allan no longer prays in major life changing decisions.

Join us for the 2022 ‘You’re Not Alone’ Women’s Retreat! Registration opens Monday 11/8/21

Saturday, February 5th 2022, 8 am – 4pm

Alianza Building, 5th Floor

1064 North County Blvd, Pleasant Grove, Utah

Line up for the retreat:

Speaker; Jana Spangler – IPC, Symmetrysols Provider;

“The Power of Vulnerability and Inner Authority”

Speaker; Allison Pond – Founder of the Transformational Writing Project & Award Winning Journalist

“Writing as a personal tool for growth, healing, & change”

Speaker; Carol Lynn Pearson – Author, Speaker & Poet

LIVE Zoom Q&A and Poetry Selections

Musician; Amanda Cox

Purify Wellness Center – 45 minutes Gentle Release Yoga, 45 minutes Gentle Release Sound Bath

On the 1st floor of the Alianza building is Utah’s largest and voted best Yoga studio in Utah Valley. We will rotate in groups as we experience two hours of meditation, yoga, and journal writing as we reflect on the day, what we’ve learned, and our intentions leaving.

In Addition:

Journaling (journals and pens included) & Break out groups

Breakfast & Lunch provided (Delicious catering by The Fleuriste Studio, and desserts by Simply Bliss Desserts)

Also join us Friday February 4th at 7pm (same location) for an Ice Breaker event! Kate Brown is going to lead us in Zumba. There will be great music, water bottles, and snacks for all. Come get to know the ladies who will be with us for the conference and let’s just have fun!

Cost: $107 Early Bird Registration

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 110: Laura and Matt Hunter (Part 2) Oct 15, 2021

Matt & Laura Hunter

Laura grew up in a devout Christian home in Texas. After dating a few Mormon boys, she decided to take a deep dive into learning about the LDS church.

She met Matt when he showed up on her doorstep as a missionary to give her the discussions. Their story takes us through Laura’s fascinating background that is as unconventional as we’ve heard yet.

This two part episode will keep you guessing what happens next. It includes how Matt & Laura got together, their adoptions of 3 little girls, Matt’s call to the bishopric, and Laura’s departure from the church.

We thank Matt & Laura for their willingness to share their story! Enjoy these episodes

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**Marriage on a Tightrope: 109: Laura and Matt Hunter (Part 1)** Oct 11, 2021
Matt & Laura Hunter

Laura grew up in a devout Christian home in Texas. After dating a few Mormon boys, she decided to take a deep dive in to learning about the LDS church.

She met Matt when he showed up on her doorstep as a missionary to give her the discussions. Their story takes us through Laura’s fascinating background that is as unconventional as we’ve heard yet.

This two part episode will keep you guessing what happens next. It includes how Matt & Laura got together, their adoptions of 3 little girls, Matt’s call to the bishopric, and Laura’s departure from the church.

We thank Matt & Laura for their willingness to share their story! Enjoy these episodes

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 108: Tara and Tyler Briggs Oct 04, 2021

Tara and Tyler Briggs join Marriage on a Tightrope to tell their Mixed Faith story. You’ll love this inspiring interview.

Join us in Pleasant Grove Utah on Saturday October 9th at 7pm for a mixed faith meetup and special presentation by Kattie and Allan! Bring a dessert to share and chat with other mixed faith couples.

Location: Alianza HQ – 1064 N County Blvd Suite 500, Pleasant Grove, UT 84062

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 107: Kattie sits down with “M” Sep 08, 2021

Kattie sits down with fellow believing wife “M”. “M” has hosted events, helped moderate the MOAT Facebook group, and so much more to create invaluable community for Mixed Faith Marriages. She imparts some WISDOM on y’all in this episode!

Join us for our 6 week online course with therapist Natasha Helfer! Over 130 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course!

Go to Thinkific to register today.

If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with the note “Scholarship”.

Already taken the course and are looking for additional support? Join our continued support workshop here!

Come meet Kattie and Allan on September 12, 2021 at 2pm at the Red Lion in St. George! They will be presenting on Mixed Faith Marriage and answering questions. It’ll be a HOOOOOT!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 106: What Happens When Kattie Agrees With Allan? Aug 30, 2021

In this episode, Kattie and Allan explore the topic of when spouses agree on certain church related topics. It may not be as straightforward as it seems.

Join us for our 6 week online course with therapist Natasha Helfer! Over 130 couples have gone through this course and we’re excited to meet with 20+ more couples in the next course!

Go to Thinkific to register today.

If you’d like to help sponsor a couple that needs financial assistance for the workshop, please venmo @marriageonatightrope with the note “Scholarship”.

Already taken the course and are looking for additional support? Join our continued support workshop here!

Come meet Kattie and Allan on September 12, 2021 at 2pm at the Red Lion in St. George! They will be presenting on Mixed Faith Marriage and answering questions. It’ll be a HOOOOOT!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 105: 3 Reassurances for those new to Mixed Faith Marriage Aug 20, 2021

After taking the summer off, Kattie and Allan are back with an update of the past few months.

They also give 3 reassurances for those couples just starting off their mixed faith marriage.

Want to share your story on the podcast? Click the link to book your interview!

Kattie and Allan will also be speaking at the Red Lion Inn in St. George on September 12th at 2pm. Details are on the events page of the Facebook group.

They are also bringing back their 6 week mixed faith marriage workshop with Natasha Helfer starting September 26th. Click here to register

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 104: Connecting Post Faith Transition May 25, 2021

How can you connect as a couple after a spouse transitions away from former beliefs?

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 103: Uplift Kids with Jon Ogden Apr 27, 2021

Jon Ogden joins Kattie and Allan to discuss his new solution to the question, “How do we go about teaching our children in a mixed faith family?”

Jon and his partners have developed Uplift Kids, a great online teaching resource for families of any religious situation.

On Uplift Kids, you have over 30 existing lessons, and a new lesson each week. Allan and Kattie have signed up for the service, done their first lesson, and absolutely LOVED IT!

Head to Upliftkids.org and use promo code “tightrope” to receive 10% off your annual subscription. This offer is good through May 10th.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 102: Kattie’s Kansas Experience Apr 20, 2021

Kattie gives an account of her experience traveling to Kansas to be a witness in the Membership Court of her dear friend Natasha Helfer.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 101: Supporting a Friend in Need Apr 14, 2021

Kattie and Allan discuss the tender topic of supporting a friend through an official LDS Disciplinary Council.

Friend of the podcast, Natasha Helfer has been summoned to a Membership Council (Disciplinary Council) on Sunday April 18th. Kattie and Allan discuss their support of Natasha and how you can support as well.

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 100: Then vs. Now Mar 08, 2021

Kattie and Allan look back at the three years that have passed since the first episode of Marriage on a Tightrope. They check in with 3 couples they met early on in the podcast to see how things have changed in their mixed faith marriage.

Thank you for sticking with Marriage on a Tightrope for 3 full years. You, the listener, is what keeps us going.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 099: Sexual Shaming in Marriage Feb 04, 2021

Trigger Warning: Discussion surrounding sex, pornography use, and the guilt/shame that often accompanies those topics.

Disclaimer: Kattie and Allan Mount are not certified relationship or sex therapists. In this episode they share their experiences on the topic of sex, and when advice is given, they try to keep the advice centered on healthy communication surrounding these topics.

Second Disclaimer: As with all episodes of Marriage on a Tightrope, Kattie and Allan try to remember the listener while talking about their experience. You may have a STRONG opinion on this topic, and may experience anxiety when Allan or Kattie doesn’t seem to go far enough to defend one side of the other.

If you’d like to share your experience, please email us at Marriageonatightrope@gmail.com.

Want to hear what an actual Sex Therapist says on this topic? Have questions on this topic you would like to ask a therapist? Join us for our Sex & Intimacy Masterclass. We still have a few spots left!

Join us on February 11th, 2021 at 7pm Mountain for a special Sex & Intimacy Masterclass presented by licensed Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer and Allan and Kattie.

What’s included:

2 hour online presentation by Natasha Helfer, Allan and Kattie on Sex & Intimacy
90 minute Zoom Q&A on February 11th, 2021 at 7pm Mountain
4 “Your Tightrope in Action” at-home exercises to put into practice what you learned during the presentation and Q&A

All of this for just $69. Yep….we did that on purpose.

Go to marriageonatightrope.thinkific.com to register!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 098: Shane and Ashlee Jan 27, 2021

Ashlee and Shane tell their Mixed Faith Marriage story. They provide such a unique yet familiar perspective. We know that so many will appreciate this great couple!

Looking to improve your sexual intimacy? Not sure how to negotiate changes in sexuality in a mixed faith marriage? Join us on February 11th, 2021 at 7pm Mountain for a special Sex & Intimacy Masterclass presented by licensed Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer and Allan and Kattie.

What’s included:

2 hour online presentation by Natasha Helfer, Allan and Kattie on Sex & Intimacy
90 minute Zoom Q&A on February 11th, 2021 at 7pm Mountain
4 “Your Tightrope in Action” at-home exercises to put into practice what you learned during the presentation and Q&A

All of this for just $69. Yep….we did that on purpose.

Go to marriageonatightrope.thinkific.com to register!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 097: Megan and Alex Rosenhan Jan 22, 2021

TRIGGER WARNING: Suicide attempts, suicidal ideation, mental illness.

Alex and Megan Rosenhan sit down to tell their mixed faith story. Much of the episode focuses on Alex’s diagnosis of Schizoaffective Disorder, how that correlates and in ways led to his faith transition, and how they both have been able to navigate this “new normal.”

Looking to improve your sexual intimacy? Not sure how to negotiate changes in sexuality in a mixed faith marriage? Join us on February 11th, 2021 at 7pm Mountain for a special Sex & Intimacy Masterclass presented by licensed Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer and Allan and Kattie.

What’s included:

2 hour online presentation by Natasha Helfer, Allan and Kattie on Sex & Intimacy
90 minute Zoom Q&A on February 11th, 2021 at 7pm Mountain
4 “Your Tightrope in Action” at-home exercises to put into practice what you learned during the presentation and Q&A

All of this for just $69. Yep….we did that on purpose.

Go to marriageonatightrope.thinkific.com to register!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 096: One on One with Chris Rich Jan 07, 2021

Active believing member Chris Rich sits down with Kattie for a one on one chat. What story are you telling yourself?

Do you want to share your story on Marriage on a Tightrope? Sign up here on Calendly

Do you need some help strengthening your mixed faith marriage? Join us for Workshop on a Tightrope! This 6 week course is taught by marriage therapist Natasha Helfer and Kattie and Allan.

There are 3 options available:

6 week course starting January 19th. Join 24 other couples and learn how to strengthen your mixed faith marriage.
“At Your Own Pace” course. Not ready for a group setting? Have a difficult schedule? This is the choice for you. Watch the video presentations at your own pace, download the “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and put what you learn into action. A great option for those not ready for the full course.
Sex & Intimacy Masterclass. Certified Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer teaches this course via 2 hour pre-recorded presentation. You’ll also gain access to 4 “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and receive an invitation to the Q&A Zoom session on this topic (To be held in February).

To learn more or reserve your spot in any of these courses, go to Marriageonatightrope.thinkific.com

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 095: Mixed Orientation Marriage with Jim and Pam Dec 30, 2020

Disclaimer: This episode focuses on one couple’s experience in a Mixed Orientation Marriage. This is not meant to be represented of the all mixed orientation marriages, or the general experience of LGBTQ individuals. Each individual’s experience is valid. Marriage on a Tightrope fully supports the LGBTQ community, LGBTQ individuals, and hopes for dramatic changes in culture, policy and doctrine concerning LGBTQ in the church.

Trigger warning in this episode: Suicide attempt

In this important and groundbreaking interview, Jim and Pam join the podcast to tell their story as a mixed faith and mixed orientation marriage. Their commitment and love for one another shines throughout the entire episode. Listen and share this episode with those around you. It’s such a needed message!

Do you want to share your story on Marriage on a Tightrope? Sign up here on Calendly

Do you need some help strengthening your mixed faith marriage? Join us for Workshop on a Tightrope! This 6 week course is taught by marriage therapist Natasha Helfer and Kattie and Allan.

There are 3 options available:

6 week course starting January 19th. Join 24 other couples and learn how to strengthen your mixed faith marriage.
“At Your Own Pace” course. Not ready for a group setting? Have a difficult schedule? This is the choice for you. Watch the video presentations at your own pace, download the “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and put what you learn into action. A great option for those not ready for the full course.
Sex & Intimacy Masterclass. Certified Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer teaches this course via 2 hour pre-recorded presentation. You’ll also gain access to 4 “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and receive an invitation to the Q&A Zoom session on this topic (To be held in February).

To learn more or reserve your spot in any of these courses, go to Marriageonatightrope.thinkific.com

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 094: A Love Story: Wendy and Shane Adamson Dec 08, 2020

Shane and Wendy Adamson join Marriage on a Tightrope to tell their Love Story. This episode is especially relevant for transitioning women. The Adamson’s provided us with such a beautiful episode, we hope you all enjoy!

Do you want to share your story on Marriage on a Tightrope? Sign up here on Calendly

Do you need some help strengthening your mixed faith marriage? Join us for Workshop on a Tightrope! This 6 week course is taught by marriage therapist Natasha Helfer and Kattie and Allan.

There are 3 options available:

6 week course starting January 19th. Join 24 other couples and learn how to strengthen your mixed faith marriage.
“At Your Own Pace” course. Not ready for a group setting? Have a difficult schedule? This is the choice for you. Watch the video presentations at your own pace, download the “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and put what you learn into action. A great option for those not ready for the full course.
Sex & Intimacy Masterclass. Certified Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer teaches this course via 2 hour pre-recorded presentation. You’ll also gain access to 4 “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and receive an invitation to the Q&A Zoom session on this topic (To be held in February).

To learn more or reserve your spot in any of these courses, go to Marriageonatightrope.thinkific.com

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 093: Kaity and Andrew Maughan Dec 01, 2020

Andrew and Kaity Maughan join the podcast to tell their mixed faith story. This great couple is just a few months into their mixed faith marriage and already have some great lessons learned they wanted to share with all of you.

Do you want to share your story on Marriage on a Tightrope? Sign up here on Calendly

Do you need some help strengthening your mixed faith marriage? Join us for Workshop on a Tightrope! This 6 week course is taught by marriage therapist Natasha Helfer and Kattie and Allan.

There are 3 options available:

6 week course starting January 19th. Join 24 other couples and learn how to strengthen your mixed faith marriage. Sign up by December 1st for $50 off and reserve your place in the Sex & Intimacy Masterclass at no additional cost.
“At Your Own Pace” course. Not ready for a group setting? Have a difficult schedule? This is the choice for you. Watch the video presentations at your own pace, download the “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and put what you learn into action. A great option for those not ready for the full course. Sign up by December 1st for $50 off.
Sex & Intimacy Masterclass. Certified Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer teaches this course via 2 hour pre-recorded presentation. You’ll also gain access to 4 “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and receive an invitation to the Q&A Zoom session on this topic (To be held in February).

To learn more or reserve your spot in any of these courses, go to Marriageonatightrope.thinkific.com

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 092: Gratitude Nov 26, 2020

Kattie and Allan have a special Thanksgiving episode and discuss gratitude. They read multiple listener posts about gratitude and wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving!

Join the next Workshop on a Tightrope in January 2021. This 6 week course is taught by certified therapist Natasha Helfer, and Allan and Kattie. In this course, you spend 3 hours per week with the three instructors, and 24 other couples. Lessons learned include: Negotiating behavioral changes, intimacy & communication, parenting, understanding a faith transition, and more.

Sign up by December 1 and gain access to a special 2 hour presentation and 90 minute Q&A on Sex & Intimacy with certified Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer.

If you aren’t ready to meet with others, but still want to learn through the content, you can also choose the “At Your Own Pace” option. All of the content and “homework” is the same as the full course, but without the twice weekly zoom sessions.

Go to marriageonatightrope.thinkific.com to register!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 091: Pressing Issues in a Mixed Faith Marriage Nov 17, 2020

Kattie and Allan asked listeners on Facebook and Instagram “What is the most pressing issue in your Mixed Faith Marriage?” On this episode, Kattie and Allan discuss what you, the listeners, responded.

Most of the comments fit into 3 general groups:

Communication & Intimacy
Children
Negotiating the Tenders (behavioral changes)

Also…back by popular demand, Workshop on a Tightrope! This 6 week course is taught by marriage therapist Natasha Helfer and Kattie and Allan.

There are 3 options available:

6 week course starting January 19th. Join 24 other couples and learn how to strengthen your mixed faith marriage. Sign up by December 1st for $50 off and reserve your place in the Sex & Intimacy Masterclass at no additional cost.
“At Your Own Pace” course. Not ready for a group setting? Have a difficult schedule? This is the choice for you. Watch the video presentations at your own pace, download the “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and put what you learn into action. A great option for those not ready for the full course. Sign up by December 1st for $50 off.
Sex & Intimacy Masterclass. Certified Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer teaches this course via 2 hour pre-recorded presentation. You’ll also gain access to 4 “Your Tightrope in Action” exercises and receive an invitation to the Q&A Zoom session on this topic (To be held in February).

To learn more or reserve your spot in any of these courses, go to Marriageonatightrope.thinkific.com

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 090: Healing Nov 10, 2020

Kattie and Allan discuss healing for your marriage, yourself, family relationships, and church relationships.

Want to be a guest on Marriage on a Tightrope and tell your story? Send us an email at Marriageonatightrope@gmail.com and check our availability here on Calendly

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 089: Conference and Zara Baptism Update Oct 12, 2020

Kattie and Allan give an update on how General Conference weekend went. They also talk about a recent chat with their 8 year old daughter Zara about her baptism, and explain how they are “taking her lead”.

If you’re in Arizona, Kattie will be visiting and holding a Ladies meet up on Thursday November 5th. For more info, join the Marriage on a Tightrope Facebook Group and look in the Events section.

Has Marriage on a Tightrope been helpful in your marriage? Help keep the podcast alive by donating to @marriageonatightrope on Venmo.

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 088: General Conference & Knowing Your Limits Sep 29, 2020

In this episode:

Kattie talks about how her approach to General Conference has progressed over the last 3 years
Allan and Kattie address a listener email about the believing spouse having to change to make space for their transitioning spouse
Allan talks through a recent physical breakdown and how important it is to “know your limits”

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 087: Garments & Sexuality with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife Sep 16, 2020

Dr. Jennifer Finslayson-Fife joins Allan and Kattie again to discuss garments and sexuality in a mixed faith marriage.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 086: Suicide Prevention with Jon and Rachel Sep 10, 2020

September is Suicide Prevention Awareness month. In this episode Kattie and Allan are joined by Jon and Rachel to discuss their experience with severe depression and suicidal thoughts.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 085: Miracles and Fear Sep 02, 2020

In today’s episode Allan & Kattie explore the topics of miracles and fear. How can they have a respectful conversation with out tearing each other down when they clearly disagree?

We have a couple spots left for our September course. Go to Eventbrite to find Workshop on a Tightrope event or click the links through our Facebook group or Instagram bio.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 084: Anne Buckle Aug 26, 2020

Anne Buckle is an episcopalian who found herself head over heels for a Mormon boy. She sits down with Kattie to tell her mixed faith marriage story as someone who has never been a member of the LDS church.

Sign up for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course “Workshop on a Tightrope”. The last session of this year begins September 22nd. For more info and to register, go to Eventbrite and search “Workshop on a Tightrope” or follow this link.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 083: Q&A with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife Aug 20, 2020

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife was kind enough to join Kattie and Allan for a 1 hour Q&A.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a relationship and sexuality educator and coach, as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois with a Ph.D in Counseling Psychology from Boston College. She wrote her dissertation on LDS women and sexuality, have taught college-level courses on human sexuality, and currently teach online relationship and sexuality courses and live workshops to LDS individuals and couples. She offers coaching services to individuals and couples who have benefitted from my podcasts and courses and are looking for more direct input on improving their lives and relationships.

She is a frequent contributor on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, and spirituality to LDS-themed blogs, magazines, and podcasts, including the “Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist” podcast series. She maintains a private coaching and counseling* practice in Chicago where I live with my husband and three children. Dr. Finlayson-Fife is an active member of the LDS church.

Finlayson-Fife.com

Sign up for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course “Workshop on a Tightrope”. The last session of this year begins September 22nd. For more info and to register, go to Eventbrite and search “Workshop on a Tightrope” or follow this link.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 082: Family Milestone Events Aug 17, 2020

In this episode, Kattie and Allan talk about how they handled their “back to school” blessings for their 4 childrens. They also give a number of tips on how to approach family milestone events. This can be sibling baptisms, ordinations, etc. Temple sealings is the example that Kattie and Allan spend the most time speaking about in this episode.

Sign up for our 6 week online mixed faith marriage course “Workshop on a Tightrope”. The last session of this year begins September 22nd. For more info and to register, go to Eventbrite and search “Workshop on a Tightrope” or follow this link.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 081: Self Care Aug 05, 2020

Kattie presents her portion of a session she helped present at Sunstone Symposium this year. The topic of the session was “Reframing Your Mixed Faith Marriage”. Kattie spoke specifically about her experience and advice on Self Care in a mixed faith marriage.

Registrations for the September session of our 6-week online course “Workshop on a Tightrope” are open now! Spots fill up quickly, so sign up now on Eventbrite while there is still room

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 080: A New Style of Prayer Jul 27, 2020

Allan and Kattie discuss Allan’s new style of prayer and other ways that a non-believer can strike remain an active part of the LDS community while not sacrificing authenticity.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 079: Carol Lynn Pearson (Love Anyway) Jul 14, 2020

Carol Lynn Pearson sits down with Kattie and Allan to share her life experience. So many of the lessons and wisdom shared by Carol Lynn ties directly to how to flourish in a Mixed Faith Marriage.

Go to carollynnpearson.com to see her impressive body of work and to purchase a signed copy of any number of her books.

We will also be giving away 5 signed copies of her new book “I’ll Walk With You”. To win, tag @marriageonatightrope on IG with #IllWalkWithYou and show us how you are loving and accepting everyone around you. We can’t wait to send this book out to 5 couples!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 078: Jason Mount (Brother and Bishop) Jul 02, 2020

Jason Mount, older brother to Allan and current LDS Bishop, sits down with Kattie and Allan to discuss faith transitions and mixed faith marriage.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 077: Interracial Marriage (Jen & Jameson Holman) Jun 19, 2020

On this episode, Jen and Jameson Holman talk about their experience being an interracial couple in America in 2020.

We feel that race is too important of an issue not to dedicate some time on the podcast.

We hope you all enjoy learning from the Holman’s.

We also have just a few spots left in our “Workshop on a Tightrope” 6-week online course. Go to eventbrite for more details and to sign up!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 076: Word of Wisdom Part 3 (James Ott) Jun 10, 2020

James Ott joins the program to discuss the Word of Wisdom. James uses his expertise in addiction recovery to help us understand the issue from a clinical perspective. He also walks through a brief history of the Word of Wisdom.

Here is James’ bio in his own words as found on the Red Willow Counseling website

“I started my professional career in 1993 working with chronically mentally ill persons in a community mental health center in Portland, Oregon. I received my Master’s of Social Work degree in 1997 from New Mexico State University, whereupon I worked in a number of mental health agencies providing help to individuals and their families in crisis, providing services to the homeless, and connecting people with HIV/AIDS to health resources. After moving back to Utah, I was employed with the University of Utah Neuropsychiatric Institute (UNI) as a clinical social worker. I worked at UNI for 10 years providing assessments, utilization review, individual and family counseling, group therapy, and case management. I worked for the last 4 years on the medical detox unit; specifically helping people through the detox process, providing education to family members about addiction and treatment, and setting up appropriate services for when they discharge. I was the daily psychotherapy group facilitator and also the point therapist for the Interpersonal Reconstructive Therapy (IRT) clinic. At UNI I was able to gain understanding and skills in working with people with a wide variety of mental illness, which increased my competency and compassion for all those whose lives are impacted by mental illness and addiction.

Since 2010 I have contracted my services with a medical drug and alcohol detox center and an addiction treatment facility. I was also recruited as the Clinical Director for a startup substance abuse residential treatment center (drug and alcohol rehab), where I created the clinical programming, authorization procedures to secure payment from insurance companies; and the policy and procedure for the day to day operations–including managing the patient medications. I also supervised all clinical and frontline staff. My most recent endeavor was to write and review all policy and procedure for several local residential treatment centers and take them through the steps necessary to receive Joint Commission accreditation.

I started my private practice in 2000 which is my main passion. In this, I am able to support people directly in getting well. I enjoy working with people individually and with their families in identifying unhealthy patterns and changing them. As part of this, I provide education about addiction and mental illness to individuals and families as well as church clergy, to strengthen the family and stop enabling and co-dependent actions, however well intentioned.

I also provide services as an interventionist, working with families to assist a loved one to receive treatment for substance abuse or process addictions, whether in residential care or outpatient groups. I am trained in the ARISE invitational intervention model; which has been clinically proven to be the most effective method for having an addicted person admit and complete treatment. I am also well connected to local substance abuse treatment programs, and network with a number of national referral sources to help people identify the most appropriate treatment program for the addicted person.”

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 075: Zara Mount (Baptism Part 1) Jun 05, 2020

On this episode, Kattie and Allan sit down with their 8 year old daughter Zara. They discuss why she wants to be baptized, why she wants Allan to perform the baptism, and mostly gives one word answers….which is understandable for an 8 year old!

There are still spots left in our 6 week online course “Workshop on a Tightrope”. The first session is Tuesday July 28th. Pre-register for a discount and bonus masterclass on Sex and Intimacy.

Search “Workshop on a Tightrope” on Eventbrite or follow this link for details.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 074: Word of Wisdom (Part 2) May 31, 2020

Allan and Kattie talk in detail about their experience with the Word of Wisdom. They cover their experience, share lessons learned, and discuss some of the tools that couples can use to negotiate the Word of Wisdom.

Many of the tools shared come from our “Workshop on a Tightrope”, a 6-week online course taught by Natasha Helfer Parker, Allan and Kattie. Pre-registration for the course is open now until June 11th at eventbrite.com.

Those that register before June 11th receive $30 off the course, and will receive the additional Sex and Intimacy Masterclass at no additional charge.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 073: Word of Wisdom (Part 1) May 28, 2020

In this first of three episodes on the Word of Wisdom, Allan and Kattie are joined by Bret & Rachel Cooper, Ryan & Jessica Magnusson, and Astrid & Aaron Holland. We explore how each of these four couples have handled the Word of Wisdom in their mixed faith marriage.

Part 2 will be an in depth look into how Allan and Kattie’s experience with the Word of Wisdom

Part 3 Allan and Kattie will be joined by therapist James to round out our discussion from a clinical perspective.

The second Workshop on a Tightrope is now open for pre-registration! Go to Eventbrite.com and search for Workshop on a Tightrope to hold your spot for our July/August workshop with Natasha Helfer Parker.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 072: Chelsea and Danny Anderson May 20, 2020

Chelsea and Danny Anderson tell their story as a mixed faith couple. Chelsea shared a recent talk she gave in Sacrament meeting in its entirety.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 070: Quarantine Update May 02, 2020

Join Kattie and Allan as they discuss how things have been for them during the quarantine. They discuss General Conference, Easter, and have some words of wisdom for Mixed Faith Marriages during these stressful, lockdown days.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 069: Elaine Mount Apr 20, 2020

On a very special episode of Marriage on a Tightrope, Allan sits down with his mother Elaine. They discuss Elaine’s upbringing, history with the church, and her experience with 4 of her children leaving the church in a span of 12 months.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 068: Free Mixed Faith Marriage Mini Class Apr 11, 2020

Kattie and Allan join with Natasha Helfer Parker to provide a free mini class on Mixed Faith Marriage. This also served as a final preview of our online 6 week mixed faith marriage course, Workshop on a Tightrope. This was streamed live and contains questions and comments from live listeners.

We hope everyone is doing well during these crazy times!

If you would like to sign up for Workshop on a Tightrope, you can register here.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 067: Facing Conference Head On Apr 04, 2020

Sometimes our episodes are more of an update about where we are at, as opposed to an episode with laid out advice. This is one of those episodes. Kattie discusses her anxiety going into conference and her decision to face Conference head on, instead of escaping on yet another Disney trip….not that that’s an option right now!

Venmo: Marriageonatightrope

Sign up for Workshop on a Tightrope our 6 week Mixed Faith Marriage online course with MFT Natasha Helfer Parker

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 066: My Missionary is Coming Home! (w/Glen & Karin Brown) Mar 27, 2020

Around the world, many missionaries are returning home early. Some of those missionaries are returning to families where one parent has transitioned away from the church while they were away. Now those mixed faith couples have to scramble to figure out how to tell their missionaries.

On this episode, Karin and Glen Brown explain how they handled telling their missionary son that their father had left the church while he was in Argentina.

There are a couple spots left for our online mixed faith marriage Workshop on a Tightrope.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 065: Option B Mar 21, 2020

All of our best laid plans have come to a screeching halt. Coronavirus, earthquakes, mixed faith marriage…How can we slow down and come out stronger in the face of adversity?

Allan and Kattie discuss some thoughts about their situation being at home as a family for extended periods of time.

Anthony Miller, also joins for a portion of the show to discuss one way of finding optimism without needing a reason for the crazy events unfolding.

Mentioned in this episode:

Unpacking Ambiguity – Anthony Miller’s blog

Option B by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant

Love for Imperfect Things by Haemin Sunim

Workshop on a Tightrope – Allan and Kattie are joined by Natasha Helfer Parker for a 6 week Online course on Mixed Faith Marriage. Registration is open until April 10th.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 064: Sarah and EJ Morin Mar 13, 2020

Sarah and EJ Morin join Marriage on a Tightrope to tell their story. The Morin’s are unique on the podcast, in that they found themselves in a mixed faith marriage just 2 months after getting married. That was 3 short years ago.

Don’t miss out on our 6-week online Workshop on a Tightrope. More info and sign up here

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 063: Introducing Workshop on a Tightrope Mar 04, 2020

Nearly a year in the making, Kattie and Allan are excited to announce their partnership with Natasha Helfer Parker to bring you a 6 week online workshop to help fortify your Mixed Faith Marriage

To sign up to go the Eventbrite event page, or search for “Workshop on a Tightrope” on Eventbrite (Make sure to change your search to an Online Event instead of a geographical location)

Here are the details of the 6 week course:

Monday night 9pm MST a lecture presentation followed by questions – 90 mins. Watch LIVE or download to watch later at your convenience.
Wednesday night 9 pm MST Release of weekly homework assignments to help you put into practice what you’ve learned.
Sunday night 9 pm MST we will have a Q&A about the weeks course work – 60 mins.

By the end of the course you will learn:

How to understand how faith transitions happen and how they affect your situation.
How to communicate respectively around typically tender topics: doctrine, life-style changes, church attendance, expectations, grief, etc.
How to experience your mixed-faith status as an asset to your relationship instead of a divider.
How to stay unified in your common values and goals.
How to parent effectively in a mixed-faith family.
How to effectively communicate with family and friends about what you are going through in a way that will edify, not threaten, your relationship.

Due to the interactive nature of the workshop, space is limited to 20 couples. Registration is per couple.

The content is prepared and presented by:

Natasha Helfer Parker LCMFT, CST, and CSTS: Natasha is the owner and founder of Symmetry Solutions. She is a Licensed Clinical Marriage & Family Therapist and a Certified Sex Therapist. Natasha has been in practice for over 20 years where she has specifically worked with and developed an expertise around a mixed-faith marriage population, as well as those going through faith transitions and different types of spiritual journeys.

Allan & Kattie Mount: Hosts of the Award-winning podcast Marriage on a Tightrope. They’ve presented at numerous conferences on the topic of mixed faith marriage. Their journey began 3 years ago when Allan had a faith transition. Through conversations with thousands of listeners and working through the challenges of a mixed faith marriage in their own lives, Kattie and Allan bring a unique skillset to this course. They will give you practical ways they’ve applied clinical knowledge in fortifying their marriage. Kattie also practices as a Life Coach with Symmetry Sols specializing in mixed faith marriage.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 062: Hayden Gets the Priesthood Feb 28, 2020

Hayden received the Priesthood just 3 days before this episode was recorded. How did that experience go? Kattie and Allan discuss their experience, including missteps that they made.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 061: Noah Rasheta Feb 18, 2020

Noah Rasheta joins the podcast to tell his story, and talk about Secular Buddhism.

See more of Noah and Secular Buddhism at secularbuddhism.com

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 060: Priesthood update; Home Church Feb 09, 2020

Kattie and Allan give an update on the situation with their son’s priesthood ordination. We also hear how their first “Home Church” went down.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 059: Anthony Magnabosco Feb 03, 2020

Anthony Magnabosco drops into Marriage on a Tightrope to discuss Street Epistemology. Street Epistemology is a conversational tool that helps people reflect on the reliability of the methods used to arrive at their deeply-held beliefs.

Anthony has interviewed over 1000 individuals using Street Epistemology. We were lucky to have him on the show!

Anthony Magnabosco’s Top 10 Talks

Using Street Epistemology with Loved Ones

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 058: Stop it and say something nice Jan 28, 2020

A spontaneous episode. Sometimes you need to stop what you’re doing and say something nice to your spouse.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 057: “Dad, Will you give me the Priesthood?” Jan 20, 2020

With their 11 year old turning 12, Kattie and Allan talk about how they have navigated the issue of their son Hayden receiving the Priesthood. Included is a brief talk between father and son.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 056: A New Year Jan 06, 2020

Kattie and Allan provide an update on their December after a months break from recording the podcast. They also talk about themes/words of inspiration for the new year.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 054: Belonging Nov 21, 2019

Kattie and Allan discuss their experience at the Thrive Conference in SLC. A full day of growing, healing, and community. Kattie expected to be uncomfortable at a post-Mormon conference, but was pleasantly surprised at many of the positive experiences she had as well. Allan expected to feel right at home, but was surprised when he also experienced some difficult moments to go along with the positive.

Stick around at the end for a silly little parody song about Mixed Faith Marriage and Kattie and Allan performed at the Thrive Karaoke Night!

“You only are free when you realize you belong no place – you belong every place – no place at all. The price is high. The reward is great.” – Maya Angelou

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 053: Listener Q&A Nov 12, 2019

Kattie and Allan take questions from listeners. Topics include: Alcohol, continuing church attendance, celebrating Christmas, saying a new type of prayer, and more.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 052: Dr. Julie de Azevedo Hanks on Teenage Children Nov 01, 2019

Dr. Julie de Azevedo Hanks joins Kattie and Allan for the second of two episodes. On this episode, she talks about the challenges of raising kids in a mixed faith marriage. Special attention is given to teenagers.

For more information, check out this article on teaching Modesty

We also mentioned two of Julie’s great books!

The Assertiveness Guide for Women

The Burnout Cure: An Emotional Survival Guide for Overwhelmed Women

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 051: Jana Riess Oct 23, 2019

Jana Riess talks about the findings of her book “The Next Mormons: How Millennials are Changing the LDS Church”. Jana also discusses how mixed faith marriage plays into her research and shares some of her own mixed faith marriage story.

We can’t recommend Jana’s book enough! Buy it here on Amazon.

You can learn more at thenextmormons.org

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 050: Dr. Julie De Azevedo Hanks on Communicating with Family Oct 10, 2019

Dr. Julie de Azevedo Hanks joins Kattie and Allan for the first of two episodes. On this episode, she talks about communicating with family. What is the best way to tell your family that you or your spouse no longer believes? How much detail should you give?

For more information, check out these two articles that Julie wrote on this very topic:

Left the Church? 25 Things NOT to Say to a Believing Loved One (& what to say instead)

25 Things NOT to Say to Loved One Leaving the LDS Church (& what TO say instead)

We also mentioned two of Julie’s great books!

The Assertiveness Guide for Women

The Burnout Cure: An Emotional Survival Guide for Overwhelmed Women

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 049: Handling General Conference Oct 01, 2019

Allan doesn’t want to watch General Conference. Kattie is feeling like an old tradition is slipping away. Life Coach Claudine Gallacher sits down with Allan and Kattie to discuss how they can handle the upcoming General Conference.

Full disclosure: This was a difficult episode for Allan. Some episodes focus more on one side of the faith spectrum and this episode focused more on how Allan could support Kattie’s desire for them to watch General Conference together. This could be difficult for the spouse that has transitioned away from the church. As you listen, we strongly recommend reading through this guide by Claudine.

Follow Claudine’s other fantastic work at postmormonmentalhealth.com

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 048: Bret and Rachel Cooper Sep 23, 2019

Rachel and Bret Cooper tell their mixed faith marriage story.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 047: David Ostler Sep 17, 2019

David Ostler joins the podcast to discuss his new book “Bridges: Ministering to Those Who Question”

The book can be found on Amazon, Deseret Book, Kofford Books, and at bridgeslds.com

David also helps run a Facebook group for parents of children who have left the church.

Go to the Marriage on a Tightrope Facebook group if you’d like a chance to win 1 of 5 signed copies of Bridges.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 045: Children’s Blessings Aug 31, 2019

How should a mixed faith couple handle blessing their children? Kattie and Allan share their experience blessing their children before school got back in session.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 044: Back to Church Part 7 (Allan and Kattie) Aug 25, 2019

Allan heads back to church to see how it feels after an 8 month absence. Kattie and Allan are joined by the kids for a conversation about how church went and we hear from each member of the Mount family.

This is the 7th in a series of episodes that will explore what it is like to attend church on Sunday as a non-believer and as a spouse of a non-believer. Matt and Lindsay Kjar are also sharing their experiences with Lindsay going back to church. Those episodes will be released separately.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 043: Back to Church Part 6 (Lindsay and Matt) Aug 21, 2019

Lindsay Kjar goes back to church for the first time in months. What was her experience like? How was it for her believing husband Matt?

This is part of a series of episodes that will explore what it is like to attend church on Sunday as a non-believer and as a spouse of a non-believer. Allan and Kattie will also be sharing their experiences with Allan going back to church. Those episodes will be released separately.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 042: Back to Church Part 5 (Allan and Kattie) Aug 20, 2019

Allan heads back to church to see how it feels after an 8 month absence. Kattie and Allan are joined by the kids for a conversation about how church went and we hear from each member of the Mount family.

This is the 5th in a series of episodes that will explore what it is like to attend church on Sunday as a non-believer and as a spouse of a non-believer. Matt and Lindsay Kjar are also sharing their experiences with Lindsay going back to church. Those episodes will be released separately.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 041: Back to Church Part 4 (Allan and Kattie) Aug 15, 2019

Allan heads back to church to see how it feels after an 8 month absence. Kattie and Allan are joined by the kids for a conversation about how church went and we hear from each member of the Mount family.

This is the 3rd in a series of episodes that will explore what it is like to attend church on Sunday as a non-believer and as a spouse of a non-believer. Matt and Lindsay Kjar are also sharing their experiences with Lindsay going back to church. Those episodes will be released separately.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 040: Back to Church Part 3 (Lindsay and Matt) Aug 13, 2019

Lindsay Kjar goes back to church for the first time in months. What was her experience like? How was it for her believing husband Matt?

This is part of a series of episodes that will explore what it is like to attend church on Sunday as a non-believer and as a spouse of a non-believer. Allan and Kattie will also be sharing their experiences with Allan going back to church. Those episodes will be released separately.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 039: Back to Church Part 2 (Lindsay and Matt) Aug 09, 2019

Lindsay Kjar goes back to church for the first time in months. What was her experience like? How was it for her believing husband Matt?

This is part of a series of episodes that will explore what it is like to attend church on Sunday as a non-believer and as a spouse of a non-believer. Allan and Kattie will also be sharing their experiences with Allan going back to church. Those episodes will be released separately.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 038: Back to Church Part 1 (Allan and Kattie) Aug 08, 2019

Allan heads back to church to see how it feels after an 8 month absence. Kattie and Allan are joined by the kids for a conversation about how church went and we hear from each member of the Mount family.

This is the first in a series of episodes that will explore what it is like to attend church on Sunday as a non-believer and as a spouse of a non-believer. Matt and Lindsay Kjar will also be sharing their experiences with Lindsay going back to church. Those episodes will be released separately.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 037: Not So Happy New Year Jul 11, 2019

Kattie reads a journal entry from January 1st 2018, two weeks before she and Allan recorded their first episode. She talks about how things have changed for the better since those dark days.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 036: Justin and Polly Brown Jun 25, 2019

Soon after the first episode of Marriage on a Tightrope released in January 2018, Allan and Kattie went to dinner with their very first couples. Justin and Polly Brown were one of those couples! Enjoy learning Justin and Polly’s story in this face to face interview.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 035: Richard Ostler Interview Jun 21, 2019

Allan and Kattie were guests on Richard Ostler’s Listen, Learn, Love podcast. Listen, Learn, Love largely focuses on LGBTQ issues, but Richard also likes taking on faith crisis, mixed faith marriage, and other difficult topics. He is a faithful member of the church and is a wonderful example of a LGBTQ ally.

If you are familiar with the basic timeline of Allan and Kattie’s story, skip to around the 35 minute mark.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 034: Natasha Helfer Parker Jun 07, 2019

Natasha Helfer Parker is a certified Marriage and Family Therapist and Sex Therapist. She sits down for a chat with Kattie and Allan to discussed mixed faith marriage tips and sex therapy.

You can check out some of the many projects Natasha is working on below!

Transitioning Mormon Cruise w/Natasha!

Mormon Therapist Blog

Sex Talk With Natasha

Mixed Faith Book on Amazon

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 033: Merry and David Gravett May 31, 2019

Merry and David Gravett sit down to share their story.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 032: 6 Tips for Supporting Your Unbelieving Spouse May 23, 2019

Kattie gives 6 tips she has found helpful in supporting Allan in his transition.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 031: 6 Tips for Supporting Your Believing Spouse May 16, 2019

Allan speaks to the spouse in his position about 6 tips for supporting your believing spouse. Kattie will do a similar episode for the spouses in her position.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 030: Jackson Mount (12 year old son) May 10, 2019

Kattie and Allan are joined by their 12 year old son Jackson. They have an open conversation with Jackson about what the last few years have been like to see his Dad leave the church. Has it been hard? Did he struggle with his Dad not ordaining him to the priesthood?

Kattie and Allan ask Jackson questions they have never discussed with him before. The hope here is that listeners that aren’t sure how to talk about these things with their children will feel more comfortable after hearing Kattie and Allan talk with their son Jackson.

Join us at Saturday Salon on Saturday June 18th at 6pm at Thanksgiving Point. Go to saturdaysalon.com for more details.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 029: Matt and Tricia Harward May 08, 2019

Matt and Tricia Harward tell their story as a mixed faith couple. Tricia stepped away from the church in 2018. Both are moderators of the Mormon Mixed Faith Marriage facebook group and have great insights in this crazy mixed faith world we live in!

For those in Northern Utah, we’ll be attending an event called Saturday Salon on May 18th at 6pm at Thanksgiving Point in the Velvet Room. Register at saturdaysalon.com. We give more details at the beginning of this episode as well.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 028: Fear vs. Love Apr 24, 2019

Strap in for an emotional episode. The first weekend in April was an emotional one for Kattie. She opens up about some painful experiences and how support from Allan and her friends helped her through a difficult time.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 027: Sunstone Podcast Interview Apr 13, 2019

In March 2019, Allan and Kattie sat down with John Larsen on the Sunstone Podcast.

Allan and Kattie tell John their story but also get into some topics that they’ve never covered before.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 026: Vacations, Coffee, and Policy Updates Apr 05, 2019

Kattie and Allan dig into a few heavy topics in this episode:

Allan introduces coffee into the Mount home
The recent LGBTQ revelation reversal
Their oldest son attending Priesthood session of conference?

They also discuss a few situations they found themselves in while on a recent vacation to California.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 025: TWiM interviews Allan & Kattie Mar 13, 2019

In this crossover episode, Allan and Kattie are interviewed on the This Week in Mormons podcast. Allan and Kattie discuss their story, and what they’ve learned over the past few years as a mixed faith couple.

Check out thisweekinmormons.com for more content from our friends over there, and subscribe to their podcast!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 024: Kristen and Tanner Arnett Mar 07, 2019

Kristen and Tanner Arnett sit down with Kattie and Allan to tell their story.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 023: Colton and Richelle Baines Feb 21, 2019

Allan and Kattie are joined by Colton and Richelle Baines. The Baines are relatively new to mixed faith marriage and are using this podcast as a way of telling their family and close friends about the shift in Colton’s beliefs.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 022: Listener Email Feb 15, 2019

Allan records a short episode about an email exchange with a listener. You have until 2/16 to vote for Marriage on a Tightrope as Best New Podcast at mainstreetplaza.com!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 021: Gina Colvin and Nathan McCluskey Feb 07, 2019

MOAT has been nominated for a Brodie Award for Best New Podcast! Head to mainstreetplaza.com to vote.

Kattie and Allan sit down with Gina Colvin and Nathan McCluskey to hear the perspective from a veteran mixed faith couple. We loved chatting with Gina and Nathan and found so many valuable insights in what they shared. Get your notepad ready, there are lots of quotable moments!

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 020: Chelsea and Nick Homer Jan 26, 2019

Allan and Kattie sit down and interview Chelsea and Nick Homer. You may recognize Chelsea’s name as the author of a February 2018 lds.org article about her experience being the believing spouse in a mixed faith marriage. We hope you enjoy this interview with the Homer’s as much as we did!

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Marriage on a Tightrope 019: The First Year Jan 20, 2019

Kattie and Allan look back at 2018, marking the one year anniversary of the first episode of Marriage on a Tightrope.

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Marriage on a Tightrope 018: Going Public Dec 24, 2018

Kattie and Allan share their recent experience posting publicly about Allan’s shifting beliefs on Instagram and Facebook. They talk about what Christmas is like in a mixed faith couple, and talk about a few “firsts” they’ve had to reconcile.

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Marriage on a Tightrope 017: Matt and Lindsay Kjar Dec 11, 2018

Allan and Kattie sit down with Matt and Lindsay Kjar for an interview. Yet another mixed faith couple is thriving!

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Marriage on a Tightrope 016: James and Denise Stevenson Nov 25, 2018

Allan and Kattie sit down with James and Denise Stevenson for the first in a series of couples interviews. James and Denise bring a ferociously positive attitude to the podcast and we can’t wait for you all to hear their story!

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Marriage on a Tightrope 015: Supporting Each Other Oct 14, 2018

It can be difficult to support your spouse in something that you disagree with or don’t find value in. In this episode, Kattie and Allan share how they have tried to support each other in spite of their differences. They also invite you, the listener, to come on the show to tell your mixed faith marriage story.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 014: An Unexpected Update Aug 27, 2018

A few emotional conversations lead to this unexpected update from Kattie and Allan

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 013: Updates, and Emails, and Ramblings OH MY! May 21, 2018

Sometimes you have to hit record and just talk it out. Kattie and Allan give a brief update on the latest in their lives, Kattie answers a commonly asked listener question, and Allan teaches primary on Mother’s Day.

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 012: Question and Answer May 03, 2018

Listeners submitted common questions and comments they receive from their spouse, friends, and family members about their faith transition and mixed faith marriage. Allan and Kattie try to answer the questions the best they can from their experience.

Disclaimer: Allan and Kattie speak from their experience and are not giving professional advice or counseling.

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 011: Teaching Our Children (Part 2: Gaining Confidence) Apr 27, 2018

In this episode, Allan shares an emotional story of connecting with their oldest son and trying to help him properly respond to failure.

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 009: Setting Goals Apr 08, 2018

What does it look like to set goals and not feel they have to be centered around “obedience” or “what you should be doing”? Goals can help each spouse see that the other wants to reinforce the same values and purpose in your family. Allan and Kattie give a few examples of goals they have set for their marriage and family.

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 008: Talking to Family and Friends Apr 03, 2018

Talking to friends and family about a change in beliefs can be difficult to say the least. In this episode, Kattie and Allan talk about their experience talking to their families, friends, and ward members.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 007: Teaching Our Children (Part 1: Being Alone with Adults) Apr 03, 2018

Allan and Kattie introduce the first in a multi-part series, Teaching Our Children. In this first edition, they talk about their experience teaching their children it isn’t appropriate to be alone with an adult that isn’t their parent or grandparent.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 006: Letter to Kattie Mar 17, 2018

As part of his faith transition, Allan wrote Kattie a short letter highlighting his beliefs and all of the positive aspects of this journey. In this episode, Allan reads that letter. Many times the simple process of putting pen to paper can be extremely therapeutic.

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 005: What Does Kattie Know? Feb 23, 2018

When one spouse experience a transition in faith, it’s common to see their research and study to occur completely independent of the believing spouse. Allan and Kattie discuss their experience of learning about troubling information about the church and how much of that process they have done together.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 004: Love Feb 14, 2018

When one spouse experiences a crisis of faith, it is easy to feel that their feelings for their spouse are in crisis as well. Kattie and Allan discuss how they are strengthening their love for one another and are not allowing Allan’s faith crisis dictate how they feel towards one another.

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Marriage on a Tightrope: 003: Feeling Overwhelmed Feb 04, 2018

Going through a faith transition can lead to both husband and wife feeling overwhelmed for many reasons. In this episode, Allan and Kattie talk about feeling overwhelmed, and the ways that they have been able to cope with those feelings.

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 002: Church Attendance Jan 29, 2018

In this episode, Allan and Kattie discuss finding value at church as a mixed faith couple. They discuss the difficulties, the benefits, and how they’ve learned to be more respectful of each others perspectives regarding church attendance.

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Marriage On A Tightrope: 001: Allan & Kattie Jan 21, 2018

Today we introduce a new podcast “Marriage On A Tightrope”. Co-hosts Allan & Kattie, husband and wife, introduce themselves and introduce their podcast which focuses on navigating a mixed faith marriage. With so many Mormons entering faith shifts, more and more helpful conversations around mixed faith marriages are needed and Marriage on a Tightrope is tackling this cause.

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