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Season 8, Episode 3: When You Have Different Ways of Connecting with God Feb 07, 2025

How do you and your spouse connect with God? For many couples, the methods of how you spend time with God might be very different. John, Greg and Erin will encourage you to keep seeking God together, even if you prefer a different church from your spouse. You'll also hear from Focus President Jim Daly and Jodie Berndt on how to pray for your spouse when you have contrasting personalities.

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Season 8, Episode 2: Realistic Goals for Spiritual Growth Jan 31, 2025

One of the best motivators to grow spiritually in your marriage is to have goals. But how can your ambitions be realistic when life is hectic? Greg shares with John and Erin about how he's learned from a goal he set that didn't go so well. Then, you'll hear Jim Daly speak to Dr. Josh and Christi Straub, as they discuss how parenting challenges have led them to show each other grace and helped them grow together. Finally, a few members of our staff will give you ideas for connecting spiritually with your mate, even when your schedule is busy.

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Season 8, Episode 1: Why Spiritual Connection Matters Jan 24, 2025

Is having a strong relationship with God the most important ingredient of succeeding in marriage? We tackle that very question on this week's episode of Loving Well. John, Greg and Erin share what a spiritual connection is, and why it's never too late to develop one with your mate. You'll also hear from a few friends of ours, who address the significance of a spiritual bond with your spouse.

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Season Eight Preview Jan 20, 2025

We're excited about our brand new season 8 of the Loving Well Podcast! Join John Fuller, Dr. Greg Smalley, and Erin Smalley as they preview the upcoming season of Loving Well, which will focus on helping you develop a strong spiritual connection in your marriage.

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Season 7, Episode 4: Oh No! I Missed Valentine's Day Feb 16, 2024

Did you accidentally forget to celebrate Valentine's Day? The truth is, we all make mistakes in our marriages, but if you forgot to celebrate February 14th, you'll be encouraged by the tips John, Greg and Erin give. They'll share how to make the most of missed opportunities. Also, some of our own staff members describe the need to show your spouse grace after a mistake.

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Season 7, Episode 3: Making Valentine's Day Amazing Feb 09, 2024

How are you planning to celebrate Valentine's Day this year? To give you some ideas, John, Greg and Erin each share their opinion on an ideal Valentine's Day date. You'll also hear from a few Focus staff members, who tell about their favorite Valentine's Day memories. Plus, if you're in a spot where you can't afford to spend a lot of money, John, Erin and Greg will give you a few helpful perspectives.

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Season 7, Episode 2: Pulling the Plug on Busyness Feb 02, 2024

You long for romantic dates with your spouse, but how are those possible when the schedule is full? John and the Smalley's share how they've navigated busy seasons in their marriages. Courtney Ellis describes how she dealt with a full season in her family. Also, Jodie Berndt offers ideas for how to pray for your mate, even when life is busy.

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Season 7, Episode 1: Making a Marriage Happy Jan 26, 2024

How would you define a "happy" marriage? John, Greg and Erin explore that very question. You'll also hear Ted Lowe discuss some of the components of a good relationship. Also, Lisa Jacobson and her friend Phylicia Masonheimer share about a concept called, "biblical flirtation."

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Season Seven Preview Jan 22, 2024

What's your favorite thing about Valentine's Day? John and the Smalley's share what they enjoy most about this special holiday, and get you ready for season 7 of the Loving Well Podcast.

Season 6, Episode 4: Appreciating Your Mate Feb 10, 2023

Learning to see your spouse through the lens of God’s love is one of the best ways to keep your marriage strong. John talks with Erin and Greg about why being humble is good for your relationship, and how you can appreciate the way God made your mate.

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Season 6, Episode 3: Healthy Habits for a Godly Marriage Feb 03, 2023

Good habits are a necessary foundation for your relationship. To help you and your spouse develop healthy habits, John, Greg and Erin share how to make prayer, saying “I love you,” and other simple things regular parts of your daily life.

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Season 6, Episode 2: Walking Through Seasons Together Jan 27, 2023

Just like the ways the weather changes, your marriage will experience seasons. Greg, Erin and John offer some helpful perspectives on how you and your spouse can grow together during the changing seasons of life.

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Season 6, Episode 1: The Beauty of Romance & Intimacy Jan 20, 2023

Romance is a wonderful blessing in your marriage, and is a great gift to help keep your relationship strong. John, Erin and Greg discuss why romance and intimacy can help with the long-term health of your marriage.

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Season Six Preview Jan 16, 2023

We all have those married couples we look up to. There’s something special about a marriage that goes the distance. Join John Fuller, along with Greg and Erin Smalley who’ll share about some of their favorite couples, and preview the upcoming season of the Loving Well podcast, which launches January 20th.

Season 5, Episode 4: Answering Marriage Questions Feb 11, 2022

There’s no such thing as a bad question! Today, John and the Smalley’s answer questions about marriage on a variety of topics.

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Season 5, Episode 3: Loving by Words and Actions Feb 04, 2022

Sometimes, you don’t need to do something extravagant to improve your marriage. It might be that giving a simple complement, or a seemingly small act of love can take your relationship to the next level. Join John and the Smalley’s as they discuss how words and actions can make a difference in your relationship.

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Season 5, Episode 2: Loving Your Best Friend Jan 28, 2022

Marriage is a unique and special opportunity to build a lifelong friendship. John, Erin, and Greg share some of the ways they’ve learned to be friends with their spouse and discuss how you can cultivate a friendship as a couple.

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Season 5, Episode 1: Love Without Expectations Jan 21, 2022

Is it possible to love your spouse without expecting something in return? John Fuller and Greg and Erin Smalley share how they’ve learned to rely on God’s love in marriage and offer a practical perspective on what it means to truly love your mate.

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Season Five Preview Jan 17, 2022

Welcome to Season 5 of the Loving Well podcast! Join John Fuller as he chats with Greg and Erin Smalley about how God’s love helps you to love your spouse through simple and creative actions. Throughout this season, we’ll explore how a relationship with Christ can influence the ways you love and treat your spouse.

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Season 4, Episode 4: Developing Spiritual Connection Feb 12, 2021

Connecting spiritually and emotionally with your spouse are some of the most important things you’ll do together. John talks with Greg and Erin about spiritual goals for you and your spouse. Plus, Ryan and Selena Frederick explain how practicing transparency can bless your marriage.

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Season 4, Episode 3: Rekindling Simple Romance Feb 05, 2021

Romantic moments aren’t limited to the most picturesque settings. In fact, they can come from the simplest places. John, Greg and Erin discuss why romance is important, Matt and Lisa Jacobson tell a fun story about how an ordinary moment turned romantic, and Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey give some creative acronyms for finding connection in your marriage.

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Season 4, Episode 2: Connecting in the Busy Times Jan 29, 2021

When life gets busy, keeping your marriage a top priority requires intentional effort. John Fuller talks with Greg and Erin Smalley about how they stay connected in busy seasons, Mark and Susan Merrill discuss simplifying your schedule, and Matt and Lisa Jacobson describe the different ways husbands and wives desire connection.

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Season 4, Episode 1: Love & Laughter Jan 22, 2021

Having fun and laughing together are some of the greatest joys of marriage. When you find reasons to enjoy life, it can lead to some wonderful memories as a couple. Join John Fuller as he talks with Greg and Erin Smalley about how laughter has helped their marriage. Plus, comedian John Branyan tells funny stories about himself and his wife, and Pastor Ted Cunningham explains why laughter is healthy for your marriage.

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Season Four Preview Jan 18, 2021

Welcome to season 4 of the "Loving Well" podcast! For this season, we'll explore ways to rekindle joy in your marriage through laughter, simple connections, romance and affection, and good spiritual habits. Featuring Focus on the Family broadcast guests like Greg and Erin Smalley, John Branyan, Pastor Ted Cunningham, Ryan and Selena Frederick and more.

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Season 3, Episode 4: God's Plan for Your Love Life Feb 15, 2020

Happy Valentine's Day! As you celebrate your marriage, we want to encourage you to build your relationship on the foundation of God's love. Call-in guests share their best marriage advice; Rhonda Stoppe talks about her favorite Bible couple; and Ryan and Selena Frederick describe how God sustained them through a trying season.

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Season 3, Episode 3: Loving Your Spouse (Part 2) Feb 07, 2020

Inspiring husbands to love their wives with practical ideas and finishing the discussion on principles for a healthy marriage.

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Season 3, Episode 2: Loving Your Spouse (Part 1) Jan 31, 2020

A wife can encourage her husband's heart by choosing to respect him. John and the Smalleys give some great thoughts for how a wife can practically bless her husband; Dave and Ashley Willis unpack the communication differences between men and women; Fawn Weaver talks about lessons she learned from interviewing married couples around the world; and Rhonda Stoppe shares the desire of every wife's heart.

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Season 3, Episode 1: Love Stories Jan 24, 2020

Sharing heartwarming love stories and discussing healthy boundaries for a romantic relationship.

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Season 3 Preview Jan 17, 2020

Valentine's Day is the perfect time to reflect on your love story. What better way to rekindle those warm feelings and special memories than with a romantic song? Join John Fuller, Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley as they preview Season 3 of the Loving Well podcast and talk about their favorite love songs.

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Season 2, Episode 4: Valentine for a Lifetime Feb 14, 2019

Even after the children leave home, your spouse will still be there. Dr. Gary Chapman talks about how mature couples can thrive in the second half of marriage, and Bob and Cheryl Reccord offer tips for you and your spouse to stay active during the later stages of life.

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Season 2, Episode 3: Parenting Together Feb 07, 2019

Kids change a marriage, but they can also strengthen the bond with your spouse. Arlene Pellicane explains how you can keep your romance alive amongst the busyness of parenting, and Dr. Gary Chapman talks about how to keep your priorities in order during the cold seasons of marriage.

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Season 2, Episode 2: When Everything is New! Jan 31, 2019

The early years of marriage are filled with changes. Pastor Ted Cunningham explains how couples can transition well after leaving their parents' home, Dr. Juli Slattery talks about working through the sexual dynamics of marriage, and Bill and Pam Farrel discuss how young couples can learn how to communicate with each other.

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Season 2, Episode 1: Date-Nights and a Diamond Jan 24, 2019

Young love is exciting, but it must be built on a solid foundation in order to flourish. Join John, Greg and Erin as they share their engagement stories. You'll also hear from guests Roger and Diane Ingolia about the importance of having a marriage mentor, and Gary Thomas on how to find a godly spouse.

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Season 2: Preview Jan 21, 2019

Focus on the Family is celebrating Valentine's Day with a new season of the Loving Well Podcast! Join John Fuller, Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife, Erin, as they discuss how to embrace and enjoy your romance journey, no matter what part you find yourself in.

Season 1, Episode 6: Lasting Love Feb 14, 2018

A strong and lasting marriage is a beautiful thing. In this final episode of our ‚ÄúLoving Well‚Äù podcast series, Gary Thomas and Dr. David Clarke describe what you can start doing today to build a marriage that will stand the test of time.

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Season 1, Episode 5: Intimate Love Feb 12, 2018

True intimacy is essential for a marriage to thrive. In this episode, Dr. Cliff and Joyce Penner, along with Bill and Pam Farrel, explain ways you and your spouse can develop deeper physical, emotional and spiritual intimacy.

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Season 1, Episode 4: Loving Fun Feb 09, 2018

Whether it‚Äôs an inside joke or a big night out, having fun with your spouse can re-energize your marriage. Join us as we hear from Pastor Ted Cunningham and Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley about simple ways husbands and wives can make fun a priority in their relationship.

Season 1, Episode 3: Romantic Love Feb 07, 2018

Love can take many forms, but few are as meaningful as romantic love between husband and wife. We‚Äôre exploring that love today with the help of Cindy Dagnan and Pastor Ted Cunningham, who will reveal fun and simple ways to add more romance to your marriage.

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Season 1, Episode 2: Showing Love Feb 02, 2018

Showing love to your spouse doesn't take large or elaborate gestures, sometimes simple things are best! On today's Loving Well, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, along with Kathi Lipp, will describe how you can find ways to express your love in meaningful ways to your spouse.

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Season 1, Episode 1: Loving the Differences Feb 02, 2018

Your spouse is unique, and understanding what makes him or her special can radically improve your marriage. Learn how to appreciate your differences as a husband and wife with the help of marriage experts Dr. Walt and Barb Larimore and Dr. Josh and Christi Straub.