Living Vision with Aaron Velky

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The No.1 Habit Billionaires Do Daily Feb 04, 2025

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Are you holding on too tight? Are you gripping control so hard that you're blocking your own success? It’s time to confront your control freak.

In this episode, I’m diving deep into why letting go is the key to growth—in your business, your personal life, and your vision. If you want more, you have to create space for it, and that starts with learning how to release.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

- Why holding on is keeping you stuck

- The 4 hidden beliefs that stop you from letting go

- How to move from control to trust

- Why failure and change are part of the process

- The power of The Void—and why stepping into the unknown will set you free

Letting go isn’t easy, but it’s necessary. Whether you’re a high-level CEO, an entrepreneur, or just someone who wants to level up, this conversation is for you.

If you’re ready to build a bigger vision and stop getting in your own way, let’s work together. DM me on Instagram (@aaronvelky) or check out our resources below.

Why TikTok’s Ban Reveals the Truth About Freedom and Control Jan 28, 2025

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What does a TikTok ban have to do with freedom, control, and even Peter Pan? In this thought-provoking episode of Get Out Of Your Own Way, myself and and Marty dive into the controversies surrounding TikTok’s ban and explore its surprising connection to personal growth, responsibility, and modern culture’s obsession with freedom.

We break down:

The real reasons behind TikTok’s ban and what it means for control over our lives.
How the “Peter Pan Syndrome” is keeping so many of us stuck.
Why true freedom isn’t about avoiding responsibility—it’s about embracing it.

This episode will challenge your perspective on technology, culture, and the choices we make every day. If you’ve ever felt conflicted about freedom, control, or how to grow personally and professionally, this conversation is for you.

Tune in now to uncover the truth and take one step closer to breaking free.

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If You Feel STUCK in Life, Listen To This. Jan 21, 2025

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Feeling stuck? Unsure of your next move? Whether it's deciding to hit the gym, call your mom, or tackle a big business goal, your indecision might point to something deeper... a lack of vision.

Today I dive into the symptoms of life without vision—reactivity, scarcity, and passivity—and how they hold us back from growth and purpose. Without a clear vision, every decision becomes a struggle, and every path feels like wandering aimlessly through life.

I’ll share why vision isn’t just for big-name entrepreneurs like Elon Musk or Steve Jobs. Visionaries exist in your neighborhood, in your family, and even in your small business. More importantly, YOU can become one.

We’ll break down how to:

- Recognize the signs that you're stuck in the familiar.

- Escape the cycle of shiny object syndrome and scarcity thinking.

- Build a vision that guides every decision—personal and professional.

If you're tired of reacting to life and ready to take control, listen to this all the way through. This year, we’re going all-in on helping you craft a life and business vision that inspires action and delivers results.

Ready to get started? Drop a comment below or connect with me on Instagram @aaronvelky. I’ll send you the tools, workbooks, and strategies you need to build your vision and escape the grind of familiarity.

If you can tell me what you want, you can have it. If you can’t, you’ll stay stuck. Vision is the answer.

How Will Los Angeles Recover? Jan 14, 2025

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California is in crisis. 11,000 homes gone, billions in damages, and entire communities shattered. In this episode, I'm with my good friend and integrator Marty to dive into the heart of the issue: what happens after the fire?

This isn’t just a conversation about disaster recovery—it’s about the bigger picture. Whether you’re navigating the aftermath of a wildfire, the chaos in your business, or a personal challenge, the lesson is the same: vision is the only way forward.

We explore:

- Why reactionary thinking traps us in cycles of failure.

- The hard truth about what it takes to rebuild—not just homes, but hope.

- How businesses and individuals can learn from California’s struggle to create a resilient future.

This episode is about more than California—it’s about the fires in your own life. What’s burning, and how will you rebuild? Join us as we tackle tough questions, challenge assumptions, and remind you of one thing: the only way out is through a bigger vision.

Listen in, reflect, and let’s start shaping the path forward—together.

Got thoughts or feedback? Reach out. I’d love to hear what resonated with you.

4 Habits to Make 2025 Your Best Year Yet Jan 07, 2025

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It’s 2025, and we’re kicking off the year with a conversation that might just change how you approach growth, progress, and transformation. If you’re saying “New Year, New Me” and hoping for a fresh start, this episode is for you. But be warned—we’re not sugarcoating it.

Here’s the truth: Real change doesn’t happen because the calendar flipped to January. It happens when you stop hitting reset, start taking ownership of your vision, and commit to building systems that fuel long-term growth. In this episode, we break down why the “New Year, New You” mentality might be holding you back—and how you can shift your mindset to create a life of real progress and impact.

What you’ll learn:

- Why starting over isn’t the answer to building a big, meaningful life.

- The importance of seeing your year as a comma, not a period.

- How systems—not willpower—drive sustainable success.

- Why vision is your ultimate tool for long-term growth.

If you’re tired of the same resolutions and are ready to design a life fueled by purpose and clarity, this conversation is for you.

Ready to take your next step? If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of where you’re going, let us help you build your vision. Visit www.aaronvelky.com to learn more about how we work with ambitious individuals like you to create a roadmap for success.

STOP Making These Goal Setting Mistakes in 2025! Dec 31, 2024

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It's New Years Eve and if you're like most people, it's time to set goals and look ahead. Well, in this episode, I'm joined by Marty and our good friend Bo for a unique perspective on setting goals for 2025. This might be the kick up the butt you've been waiting for.

Ever wonder why you always set goals every year and achieve nothing? Maybe you're the problem!

Thank you to everyone who supported the show this year, it's been a blast. My mission is to give you the tools to forge your dream into a reality. We've worked with so many incredible people this year and seen so many jaw dropping results. Here's to 2025 and everything it holds ahead for all of us!

Want to Achieve Your Goals in 2025? YOU NEED This Dec 17, 2024

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Are you ready to make 2025 your most transformative year yet? Let’s talk about how to set real goals and create a clear, powerful vision for your future. In this episode, I’ll guide you through the three key tips you need to design your best year ever:

Stop Recycling the Past – Don’t base your vision for 2025 on what you did in 2024. Instead, carve out time to dream big and ask the most important question: What do you truly want?
Simplify Your Goals – Too many goals = fragmented focus. Focus on building habits and trust in your ability to follow through. I’ll share how setting fewer, impactful goals can create a positive feedback loop that drives real progress.
Face Your Fear – Your biggest opportunities often lie in what scares you most. What are you avoiding? What feels impossible? Let’s uncover the magic waiting in your discomfort.

I’m passionate about helping entrepreneurs and visionaries like you create clarity in their goals and their lives. Vision isn’t just about dreaming; it’s about setting clear criteria to guide your choices and create alignment.

Want to dive deeper into building a vision for your life and business? Check out The Vision Summit on my website AaronVelky.com. This transformative retreat combines actionable vision planning with breathwork and health insights to set you up for a remarkable 2025.

Let me know in the comments:

What do you want for 2025?

Where are you stuck in creating your vision?

Follow me on Instagram @aaronvelky and DM me your thoughts or questions—I’d love to hear from you.

Let’s make 2025 the year you truly get out of your own way.

Don't forget to rate, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who’s ready to crush their goals next year.

STOP Doing This ONE Thing and WATCH Your Life TRANSFORM Dec 10, 2024

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In this episode, Marty and I dive into the paradox of pursuing a vision and the discomfort it inevitably brings. Growth demands change, and change often feels risky—but is staying where you are actually the bigger risk?

We explore the internal resistance that arises when faced with the unknown and why your next level requires letting go of old habits, beliefs, and comforts. From personal stories to lessons learned working with hundreds of clients, we unpack the real cost of vision—and why it’s always worth it.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the tension between wanting more but fearing the leap, this episode is for you. We’ll help you shift your perspective to see growth not as a threat but as an opportunity to honor your potential.

Key Topics Covered:

- Why vision feels risky (but isn’t).

- The discomfort of growth and how to embrace it.

- Letting go of the old to make room for the new.

- Building a vision that integrates both business and life.

- Why waiting for "it’s bad enough" is a trap—and how to act before it’s too late.

Ready to stop playing small and create a life aligned with your biggest vision? Let’s go.

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Why Goal Setting is FAILING You w/Marty Nocchi Dec 03, 2024

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If you're a high performer feeling stuck in the endless pursuit of goals, this episode is for you. In the 4th instalment of our Vision series, Marty Nocchi and I dive deep into why having a vision is essential before setting goals. Without it, you’re reactive, overwhelmed, and spinning your wheels on an endless treadmill.

We explore:

- Why setting goals without vision leads to burnout.

- How to align your goals with a larger, fulfilling purpose.

- The power of vision to guide your decisions, actions, and success.

- Real stories of transformation from our clients.

A vision isn’t just about what you want—it’s about why you want it. It’s the anchor that keeps you focused and aligned, the compass that points you toward a meaningful, fulfilling life.

Here’s the truth: Goals without vision are hollow. If you’ve ever felt like your goals are eating you alive, it’s time to reset. We’ll show you how to create a vision that energizes and inspires you, not just in business but in your personal life too.

Excited to dive deeper? We’re hosting an exclusive Vision Summit with tools and strategies to help you master your vision for 2025 and beyond.

Let us know your biggest takeaways from this episode in the comments!

Confronting Your Darkness: The Secret to True Growth Nov 19, 2024

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In this episode of Get Out Of Your Own Way, Marty and I sit down with the remarkable Nathan Kohlerman—a man whose journey through grief, trauma, and inner darkness has shaped him into a true leader and healer. This conversation goes deep. We explore the raw and often uncomfortable process of facing your shadows and transforming pain into purpose.

Nathan shares his incredible story of publishing his book, a project born out of his own experiences with loss and healing. We talk about what it means to hold space for grief, navigate life’s darkest moments, and find meaning in the chaos.

This isn’t your typical personal development chat. Nathan challenges us to redefine leadership and authenticity, showing that true growth only comes when you embrace your entire self—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Together, we explore:

Why embracing your pain is essential for growth.
How grief and loss can become powerful tools for transformation.
The importance of "range" in leadership and life.
Why the strongest leaders are those who’ve faced their inner demons.
Practical tools to navigate your own shadow work.

This episode is for anyone who’s ready to stop running from their struggles and start leading with authenticity and courage. It’s not always easy, but it’s the work that leads to real, lasting change.

Connect with Nathan Kohlerman: https://www.instagram.com/nathankohlerman/

Final Thoughts:

This episode is a powerful reminder that the road to personal transformation is messy, but it’s worth every step. If you’re ready to stop getting in your own way and step into the life you’re meant to lead, this conversation is for you.

Listen, reflect, and take action. Your journey starts now.