Living Vision with Aaron Velky

7 HUGE Mistakes Emotionally Blocked Entrepreneurs Make Oct 21, 2025

Are you constantly hitting an invisible wall in your business or personal life?

I'll show you the 7 HUGE mistakes emotionally blocked entrepreneurs make. These patterns are often hard to see from the inside.

Whether you're burning out, stuck in solo mode, or trapped in "I'll do it myself" thinking, this video reveals how your subconscious beliefs, emotional triggers, and internal blocks might be the real reason you’re not growing.

🔥 You’ll learn:

Why emotional walls are harder to break than business problems
How anger and defensiveness reveal the truth about your mindset
The hidden cost of trying to grow without help
Practical steps to decode your emotional triggers and move forward

This isn’t just about strategy. It’s about inner transformation that sets you free.

The Hidden System Behind Taylor Swift’s Success Oct 14, 2025

Taylor Swift is more than pop culture. She is a living playbook for growth, resilience, and scaling yourself without clones. In this episode, Aaron and Marty break down the “messy middle” that Swift publishes through her albums and tours, and translate it into practical frameworks for founders, creators, and CEOs. From identity shifts to operational scale, from public evolution to repeatable delivery, this is a masterclass in reinvention you can apply to your business today.

What you will learn:

How to navigate the gap between where you are and where you want to be
Why showing your process can build trust and momentum
Lessons from touring scale, logistics, and delivering the same product with excellence
Using doubt as a tool and asking better questions to unlock growth
Leadership that evolves in public instead of pretending to have all the answers

Chapters:

0:00 Why Taylor Swift models the messy middle

0:41 Dating an NFL star and navigating new arenas

1:13 Internet reaction and the Swifties effect

1:50 Swift as a business case for entrepreneurs

2:08 Reinvention and the gap to your next level

3:30 Headlines vs what leaders should notice

4:54 Composure, hardship, and resiliency

5:19 Publishing the messy middle through albums

7:34 Touring scale and delivering consistency

9:13 Scaling yourself without clones

10:18 Avoiding the weeds and building operators

12:16 Getting good by being bad first

13:03 Not every song is a hit and why that is okay

14:02 Public evolution and protected private life

15:58 Narrative identity and reframing

16:52 Telling the story of where you are going

18:05 Fear, commitment, and getting stuck in the middle

19:31 Beliefs, identity, and freefall

20:13 The self doubt loop founders face

21:35 Programs evolve and so should you

22:39 Doubt as a tool and better questions

23:27 Blank Space and perspective shifts

24:44 Why artists change the world

26:21 Evolving as a leader with your team

27:51 Optics, imperfection, and real leadership

29:12 Getting people from A to B

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You're Not Burned Out: Why Everyone SEEMS To Be Crushing It But You’re Drowning Oct 07, 2025

You’re putting in the hours. You’re doing everything “right.” So why does it still feel like you’re stuck, exhausted, and barely holding it together?

In this raw and transformational conversation, Mike Christensen, a veteran and custom home builder, shares how he went from total burnout to building the life and business he actually wanted.

We talk about:

The hidden warning signs of burnout that high-achievers ignore

Why chasing revenue can destroy your vision

What happens when you finally let go of control

How Mike scaled his company and launched a nonprofit without losing his weekends

The difference between being a boss and being a visionary leader

If you’ve ever felt like you're the only one drowning while everyone else seems to be thriving, this is your wake-up call.

🔗 Learn more about Mike’s nonprofit: freedom4heroes.org

🔗 Check out his business: peakonebuilders.com

STOP Delivering Flat Presentations. Tell These Stories Instead. Sep 30, 2025

In this powerful episode of The Living Vision Show, host Aaron Velky sits down with master storyteller and presentation coach Kyle Gray for a true masterclass on authentic communication, storytelling for visionary leadership, and turning personal struggle into magnetic influence.

Kyle shares how stories shape vision, build authority, and create deep emotional connection whether you’re leading a team, growing a business, or just trying to be seen. From the boardroom to bedtime stories, this episode reveals the human power behind every effective message.

What We Talk About:

How storytelling builds trust and authority

Turning shame and pain into influence

Vision casting through emotional narrative

The #1 mistake high achievers make when communicating

Why your personal story is your greatest asset

Real-life storytelling frameworks from a world-class coach

🔥 Whether you're a CEO, an entrepreneur, or someone who wants to connect more deeply with others, this episode will change how you think about your story forever.

🌐 Website: https://www.thestoryengine.co

This Is What Happens When Free Speech Gets Politicized Sep 23, 2025

What do Jimmy Kimmel, Charlie Kirk, and the FCC have in common? In this explosive episode, we explore the dangerous intersection of free speech, political censorship, and the true cost of speaking out as a public figure.

What We Talk About:

The Jimmy Kimmel suspension controversy
FCC involvement in media censorship
Free speech vs. professional consequence
The illusion of freedom without responsibility
Why modern leaders are afraid to lead
Cancel culture’s new corporate form
The real meaning of servant leadership

If you’re a CEO, entrepreneur, or visionary:

This conversation will challenge you to rethink your relationship to power, risk, and public voice. It’s time to lead with courage AND care.

Join the conversation below:

What part of this episode hit you hardest? Do you think Kimmel should have been suspended?

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Charlie Kirk Wasn’t a Politician. He Was a Mirror. Sep 16, 2025

In this episode of The Living Vision Show, Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi discuss the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk. This is not a political debate. It’s a deep dive into the reality of leadership, risk, and responsibility in a time where speaking out can come at the highest cost.

They explore what it takes to share your beliefs publicly, the fear leaders now face, and the pressure of building a movement in a culture that often punishes strong opinions.

Whether or not you agreed with Charlie Kirk, this moment reflects a bigger truth about leadership, courage, and silence.

What you'll learn:

The personal cost of public leadership

Why more leaders are choosing silence

How to build psychological safety for your team

The risks of visibility in the digital age

What real courage looks like in leadership today

If you lead a team, own a business, or are building a platform, this conversation will challenge how you think about influence and impact.

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The EQ Playbook for Leaders with Stanford’s Carole Robin Sep 09, 2025

Discover how emotional intelligence shapes leadership, business, and relationships in this powerful conversation between Aaron Velky and Dr. Carole Robin, coauthor of Connect and longtime Stanford Graduate School of Business professor.

Carole is known for teaching the legendary “Touchy Feely” course on interpersonal dynamics at Stanford GSB. In this episode she explains how leaders can move beyond contact into real connection, why the 15% rule transforms relationships, and how feedback done right builds trust instead of resentment.

Aaron and Carole dive into:

Why people do business with people, not products

The question every leader must ask: “Why should anyone follow you?”

The difference between independence and interdependence in teams

How to practice authenticity at work without oversharing

Feedback frameworks that create stronger teams

What emotional intelligence (EQ) really means and how to develop it

If you want to lead with clarity, inspire others, and build exceptional relationships at work and at home, this episode is for you.

📘 Learn more about Carole Robin’s book Connect: Building Exceptional Relationships with Family, Friends, and Colleagues

🌐 Explore Leaders in Tech: leadersintech.org

Retire Retirement: Why “Later” Is Ruining Your Life | Derek Coburn Sep 02, 2025

Most people chase retirement and postpone life. Derek Coburn says that plan backfires. In this Living Vision conversation with Aaron Velky, we break down the un-retirement movement, purpose vs happiness, $50,000 moments, and how to enjoy life now while still playing the long game.

In this episode:

- Why traditional retirement leaves people empty

- Work longer by choice so you can live better today

- Purpose beats “personal happiness” for health and longevity

- The fun recession and how to fix it

- The $50,000 moments you’re missing with family

- A practical money shift that frees time today

Want to connect with Aaron? - www.living.vision

Trapped in a Role You Hate? Listen To This. Aug 26, 2025

Are you stuck in a role you’ve outgrown? Feeling trapped at work, forced to play a part that no longer fits who you are? In this raw conversation, Aaron Velky shares the painful reality of shrinking into a role, losing your identity, and what it takes to break free.

We talk about:

Why so many leaders feel boxed in by their role
The cost of wearing a “mask” at work
How to recognize when you’ve outgrown your position
Practical steps to evolve, expand, and reclaim authenticity

If you’ve ever felt stuck, burnt out, or trapped in a job title that no longer defines you, this episode will give you the tools and mindset to grow beyond the box.

👉 Learn more about our programs and resources: https://www.living.vision

WARNING: Your Success May Be Killing Your Relationships Aug 19, 2025

You’ve built the business. You’re chasing bigger goals. On paper, it all looks like success.

But behind the scenes? Your relationships are strained. You're burned out. And you're wondering why it still feels... empty.

In this episode, we expose the hidden cost of the arrival lie, the belief that happiness comes after the next milestone.

We’ll show you why the pursuit of more can quietly destroy the very things that matter most: your family, your health, and your peace of mind.

If you’ve ever said "I’ll fix that when I make more" or "I’ll slow down when I get there," this is your wake-up call.

The Best Business Lessons Came From My Parents Aug 12, 2025

When my family stayed with me for a week, I didn’t expect it to turn into the best business course I’ve ever had.

In this episode of Living Vision with Aaron Velky, I share the surprising leadership and mindset lessons I learned from people who know nothing about my business. From avoiding echo chambers to mastering acceptance and staying grounded while growing, this story blends family chaos with powerful entrepreneurial insights.

Whether you’re a founder, creative, or leader, you’ll walk away with practical takeaways for your vision, your business, and your relationships.

Want to Level Up Your Vision? - www.aaronvelky.com

Escape the Grind: The CEO Shift From Doing to Designing Aug 05, 2025

If your calendar is overloaded, your team depends on you for everything, and time off doesn’t feel like rest, this episode is for you.

We’re talking about the shift from being the one who does everything to becoming the one who designs the system. You’ll learn how to step out of the weeds, break free from burnout, and build a business that can grow without your constant involvement.

In this episode, we cover:

• How to know if you’ve outgrown your role

• What “the tunnel” is and how to recognize it

• The real reason your breaks don’t feel like breaks

• The mindset shift from doing to designing

• A simple framework to delete, automate, or delegate

• Why visionary leadership starts with stepping back

If you’re serious about scaling with clarity and building a business that doesn’t rely on your every move, don’t miss this one.

Want the free FOCUS tool mentioned in this episode?

DM “FOCUS” on Instagram [@aaronvelky]

$150M Offer Strategist Reveals What’s Actually Stopping Your Growth Jul 29, 2025

Most entrepreneurs build offers that trap them. Zac Palmer helps you avoid that.

In this episode of Living Vision with Aaron Velky, Zac Palmer reveals how he helped generate over $150 million in sales by helping coaches and founders create scalable, aligned offers. You’ll learn why MVPs (minimum viable products) matter, why clarity beats complexity, and how to rethink your business model based on what you actually want, not what the market says you should chase.

We also dive into why more revenue isn't always the answer, how to use frames in leadership and sales, and the specific tweaks that turn chaos into freedom.

What you'll learn:

- Why starting small leads to massive results

- The mindset shift behind every scalable offer

- How to identify your bottlenecks in sales and fulfillment

- The difference between business growth and personal alignment

- How to simplify your offer without losing value

If you’re building a business and feel stuck, this episode will rewire how you think about scale.

3 Friendship MISTAKES That Are Holding You Back From Success Jul 22, 2025

Are your friendships helping you grow or keeping you stuck?

In this episode of the Living Vision Show, we cover the 3 biggest mistakes people make when choosing friends and how those mistakes can quietly block your success, happiness, and progress.

If your friends aren’t pushing you to grow, holding you accountable, or aligned with your goals, you're likely underperforming without even realizing it.

What you'll learn:

How to recognize convenience-based friendships

Why execution and vision matter in your inner circle

3 questions that will instantly upgrade your relationships

Whether you're an entrepreneur, a leader, or just committed to growth, this episode gives you the tools to build stronger, intentional, and aligned friendships.

I Built a 7-Figure Business and Nearly Lost My Son Jul 15, 2025

In this deeply personal episode, I unpack the three lessons fatherhood has taught me that business never could:

- Why compartmentalization, the skill that helped me succeed in business almost destroyed me as a father

- How learning to respond instead of react changed everything

- What true presence really looks like (and why it’s the ultimate leadership flex)

Whether you're a founder, a father, or just someone caught between work and what matters most, this conversation will challenge you to rethink success and redefine presence.

🎧 We cover:

- The cost of being a high-performing dad

- How to stop “toggling” and start living whole

- Lessons from parenting that make you a better CEO

- What your team and your child actually need from you (hint: it's the same thing)

👶🏽 This one's for every parent, every leader, and anyone learning how to show up better for your team, your family, and yourself.

Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aaronvelky

How To Rewire Your Brain—Without Using AI Jul 08, 2025

Most entrepreneurs are burnt out, overwhelmed, and completely disconnected from themselves—and they don’t even realize it. In this raw and powerful episode, Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi break down the real reason every business owner needs to take a solo trip. Not a vacation. Not a weekend with the family. A true separation from your business, your habits, and the chaos you’ve normalized.

Aaron shares the three rules that make solo trips transformational and explains why they’ve been the single most valuable practice of his life. Marty adds decades of wisdom from leading retreats, confronting burnout, and navigating solitude as a spiritual leader and entrepreneur.

You’ll learn:

Why entrepreneurs secretly fear being alone

The neurological and psychological benefits of solo travel

How space creates clarity—and why your growth depends on it

The exact steps to plan your own solo trip (and what not to do)

Whether you’re wired for stress or just can’t seem to unplug, this episode is a direct challenge: Book your solo trip. Block the time. Change your life.

Timestamps:

0:00 Why solo trips matter more than ever

4:30 The hidden impact of small business owners

14:40 The 3 rules of a successful solo trip

26:00 What entrepreneurs are really afraid of

32:00 How solitude increases clarity and creativity

44:00 Why structured unstructured time works

1:02:00 Aaron’s Mario Kart metaphor for integration

1:06:00 Final challenge: block your solo trip now

If this episode hits you, share it with someone who needs to unplug.

Follow Aaron: @aaronvelky

Follow Marty: @martynocchi

Why The Perfect Moment Doesn't Exist. Jul 01, 2025

What if the life you really want is just one commitment away?

In this powerful episode of Living Vision, Aaron Velky sits down with Eric Nelson, founder of Wild Oak Capital, to unpack the uncomfortable truth: waiting for the perfect time will keep you stuck forever. Eric shares the full story behind moving his family to Spain, restructuring his businesses remotely, and letting go of control to become a better leader, father, and visionary.

This conversation is a roadmap for anyone sitting on the edge of change. Whether you're considering moving abroad, stepping back from your business, or hiring a team that’s better than you, this episode will challenge you to stop waiting and start walking into your vision.

🎙 What You’ll Learn:

- Why most people sabotage their vision before they start

- The hidden grief that comes with leveling up

- How to stop micromanaging and become a true visionary

- The real fears behind hiring someone better than you

- What happens when you actually commit

🔥 Key Quote:

"The only way to go is to go. And then you'll see how awesome it is — and want to do more of it." — Eric Nelson

📍 Connect with Eric:

https://www.ericnelsoncoaching.com

This Is Why AI Is Slowly F***ing Your Brain Jun 24, 2025

AI Is Making You Dumber (And You Don’t Even Know It)

MIT released a study that should terrify every entrepreneur, leader, and thinker. It shows how AI tools like ChatGPT are actively weakening your brain, your memory, your creativity, your ability to think critically. In this episode, Aaron Velky and Marty break down how AI dependence is quietly wrecking your cognitive function and what to do about it before it’s too late.

🚨 Key Topics Covered:

The dark side of using ChatGPT for everything
MIT’s study on how AI kills brain activity
Why leaders are outsourcing thinking and what that’s costing them
How AI use is lowering memory, strategy, and decision-making
The right way to use AI as a partner, not a crutch
Warning signs you're becoming intellectually lazy

🔍 If you’re a business owner, creative, or high-performer, this conversation will challenge your entire relationship with AI.

The Ugly Truth About Why You Have No Real Friends Jun 17, 2025

Most entrepreneurs didn’t build businesses. They built bunkers.

In this episode of Living Vision, I expose the real reason high-performing men feel lonely and why it's not about being alone, but being emotionally disconnected.

This isn’t another fluffy mindset talk.

It’s a brutal reality check for the entrepreneur who has it all except real connection.

Why most successful men over-identify with achievement
How loneliness is not solved by more meetings or masterminds
What real connection looks like (and why you’re likely avoiding it)
The science behind social pain and chronic isolation
Why “family-like business teams” are a myth hurting your growth
How to escape the fortress you’ve built and start building your kingdom

Whether you're a founder, CEO, solopreneur, or leader scaling a business, this episode will hit you in the gut. If your calendar is full but your soul feels empty, this is for you.

🧠 Backed by psychology.

🔥 Delivered with honesty.

👥 Designed to help you reconnect to yourself, and others.

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Start building a vision beyond the bunker: https://www.living.vision

How I'm Using AI in 2025 to Transform My Life Jun 10, 2025

Marty takes centre stage today and shares a deeply personal journey through grief, change, and identity and the unexpected role AI played in helping him rediscover who he truly is.

Marty, a former pastor turned business integrator, opens up about the three ways AI has transformed his life:

- It gave him language for emotions he couldn’t articulate

- It brought clarity during upheaval and transition

- It offered insight he didn’t expect from a machine

Whether you're skeptical about AI or already using it in your business, this conversation will change how you think about technology’s role in emotional healing, self-awareness, and leadership.

What You’ll Learn:

- How AI can be more than just a business tool

- The connection between inputting your truth and receiving meaningful output

- Why integration of head and heart is key to purpose and fulfillment

-How grief and transformation are sacred doorways into identity

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Share your thoughts in the comments or message us directly how has AI helped you grow?

The SECRET To GREAT Ideas in Business and Life Jun 03, 2025

If your best ideas still come while sitting at a desk, you're stuck.

In this episode, you'll learn why getting out of the office isn't optional for high-performing leaders. Whether you're running a team of two or two hundred, staying stuck in your workspace kills creativity, vision, and strategic thinking.

Here's what we cover:

Why stale environments block original ideas
The real reason your team isn't leveling up
How to stop being the bottleneck in your own business
The 4 things that must be on your calendar every week
A simple test to spot groupthink in your company

This is the same advice I give inside our Accelerator program. It's tactical. It's proven. And it might piss you off. That means it's probably for you.

Next Accelerator kicks off July 2025. Only 10 seats.

Apply here: https://www.aaronvelky.com/accelerator

Stop managing. Start leading.

Hit play. Then get the hell outside.

#visionaryleader #outofoffice #entrepreneurmindset #leadershippodcast #founderlife

Build a Business That Pays for Travel May 28, 2025

I want to share what 10 years as an entrepreneur has taught me about one essential truth: if your business isn't giving you freedom, you're doing it wrong.

You’ll learn:

- How to reverse-engineer your dream adventures using points

- Why most CEOs postpone joy until it’s too late

- The exact process to align your credit cards, spending, and schedule to fund the lifestyle you actually want

- How to create “forcing functions” that turn your calendar into a tool for freedom

- Real talk on grief, burnout, and the lies entrepreneurs tell themselves about "someday"

This episode is a wake-up call for business owners who are stuck in the grind with nothing to show for it but stress. Whether you’re earning $5K/month or $500K/month, this conversation will help you stop deferring life and start living your vision now.

Timestamps:

0:00 – Are you trading your freedom for cash?

3:04 – The truth about travel hacking

10:55 – A $1,160 trip that changed everything

4:38 – Book the trip: how vision gets real

36:58 – The single most important thing to put on your calendar

47:32 – Building your business backward from the life you want

Want hands-on help?

Join our next Living Vision Accelerator — an 8-week program to rewire your business for adventure, clarity, and cashflow. Plus, gain exclusive access to 7D Travel Concierge for high-end logistics and bookings most people only dream about.

💬 DM @aaronvelky on Instagram or visit www.aaronvelky.com to apply.

Understanding AI for Business Before It's Too Late... May 20, 2025

In this episode, Kevin Brenner breaks down exactly how he's using AI to actually drive revenue, not just save time. After a decade in the Air Force and a successful run at Active Duty Passive Income, Kevin pivoted hard. He launched PropertyBots.ai, a business solving one of the biggest problems in real estate: speed to lead.

Kevin didn’t come from a tech background. He just started building. Now he's helping real estate investors, flippers, and home service pros implement AI-powered voice and text bots that book qualified appointments in seconds. Literally.

We talk:

- How AI became his secret sales weapon

- The transition from military life to entrepreneurship

- Why most business owners are stuck watching the AI wave instead of riding it

- Tactical tips for integrating AI without burning it all down

- Why "legal cheating" might be the future of lead conversion

👁‍🗨 Want to see it in action?

Try Kevin’s demo at: https://www.propertybots.ai

📌 If you run a real estate business and you're still qualifying leads manually... you're already behind.

🧠 This isn’t a conversation about AI theory. This is boots-on-the-ground, client-generating tech that works right now.

Nintendo Played It Safe And Blew It. Are You Doing the Same in Your Business? May 13, 2025

The Nintendo Switch 2 just launched, and it's a complete failure in innovation. But this episode isn’t about gaming. It’s about you.

Because if you're making small tweaks, minor updates, or chasing “better” versions of a business you don’t even like anymore, you're falling into the same trap Nintendo did. And it won’t work.

In this episode, we unpack:

Why incremental change is a trap

How the world’s best companies create quantum leaps

What’s keeping you stuck in a business you secretly resent

A tool we use to help entrepreneurs design from a blank slate, not a broken model

If you want to create a business that fuels your life instead of draining it, this episode will hit hard.

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Why Most People NEVER Learn From Their Mistakes w/Aaron Hale May 06, 2025

We don’t learn anything from winning. We learn everything from pain.

That’s what Aaron Hale taught me in this episode.

Aaron is a former Army EOD technician who lost his eyesight to a roadside bomb and years later lost his hearing to bacterial meningitis. But what he gained in that darkness is what this conversation is really about: purpose, identity, and a deeper understanding of what true vision looks like.

In this raw, deeply human episode, Aaron shares how he rebuilt his life from the ground up. How he became a father, a husband, an endurance athlete, a chef, and a speaker with no sight and limited hearing. We talk about internal vision, how to stop fighting what you can’t control, and how pain can become your greatest teacher if you’re willing to listen.

If you're navigating identity, change, grief, burnout, or just want to hear from someone who turned unimaginable loss into powerful service, this episode is going to hit hard.

Listen if you're ready to:

• Learn how to find meaning through suffering

• Reconnect with your deeper purpose

• Stop running from change and start using it

• Turn emotional pain into your blueprint for success

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Tactical Vision: How to Turn Dreams Into a Strategic Roadmap Apr 29, 2025

Most CEOs build their vision like they're writing a fantasy novel: inspiring but useless when it comes to execution. If you're serious about scaling your business, your vision can't just live in the clouds. It needs to become a tactical, actionable roadmap.

In this episode, I break down the real process behind creating a vision that drives decisions and results. You'll learn:

- Why your org chart MUST be part of your vision

- How your calendar reveals what you truly value

- Where and how you should invest time, money, and energy

- How to define your role and leadership to stay out of the operational weeds

If your vision is just a motivational poster, it’s holding you back. It's time to build one that actually scales your business and your life.

👉 Need help sharpening your vision? Reach out: https://living.vision

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How Saying Yes Nearly Destroyed One of the Most Iconic Brands Ever Apr 22, 2025

Most people know LEGO as a global icon. What they don’t know is how close LEGO came to total collapse.

In this episode, I’m telling the real story, the business near-death experience LEGO faced, what caused it, and how a razor-sharp vision brought them back from the brink. This isn’t just a toy company comeback. It’s a masterclass in focus, leadership, and saying no.

If your business feels chaotic, distracted, or spread too thin… you need to hear this. Because what almost killed LEGO is what’s killing most companies right now: too many false yeses and not enough commitment to vision.

I’ll walk you through:

- How LEGO lost their identity chasing too many ideas

- The exact moment they turned it around

- How YOU can use the same strategy to align your business, your team, and your future

- Why “vision” isn’t a fluff statement, it’s a daily operating system

This is personal. I’ve lived the wide, chaotic, soul-sucking version of entrepreneurship. And I’m telling this story because I don’t want you to go through the same thing.

If you want my free Focus Exercise or Vision Blueprint, DM me the word “FOCUS” on Instagram and I’ll send it over. No strings attached.

👀 And yes... if you’re watching on YouTube, that’s a 3,500-piece LEGO Lamborghini I’m building. Worth every hour.

If you’re building something that matters, this episode is for you.

Scientists Just Did The Impossible... Apr 15, 2025

Scientists just brought dire wolves back from extinction. But this episode isn't really about wolves. It's about vision.

What kind of person decides to bring back a species that’s been gone for 13,000 years? The kind of person who sees possibility where everyone else sees limits. This is a conversation about thinking bigger, committing to the long game, and building something extraordinary when everyone else is playing it safe.

If your goals feel too small or your life feels too predictable, this is your wake-up call.

In this episode:

- Why most visions die before they ever start

- The difference between convergent and divergent thinking

- How to think like an artist and lead like a CEO

- Why your vision needs to sound impossible at first

This isn't theory. It's a call to get serious about what you're building. The impossible is already happening. You're either in the game or you're watching from the sidelines.

The Brutal Collapse of Starbucks (No One Talks About This) Apr 08, 2025

In this episode, Marty and I unpack how a global giant like Starbucks drifted from its purpose and what it took to bring it back. From tables vanishing to culture falling apart, to a complete return to standards that actually mean something.

This isn’t just about coffee. It’s about culture, leadership, and the standards your business lives or dies by.

I walk you through:

What culture actually is (hint: it’s not a vibe)
How CEOs screw it up by confusing energy with standards
The real cost of a $3 mistake
Why “values” don’t matter without actions

If your team doesn’t know exactly what to do without you watching, you don’t have culture, you have chaos.

I’ll show you how to fix it.

Back to standards. Back to systems.

Back to Starbucks.

If you’re serious about building a company that lasts, listen to this episode. And if you need help rebuilding your culture from the inside out, reach out. We do this work every day.

Let’s make your vision real.

The TRUTH About Fear Nobody Tells You Apr 01, 2025

Fear is not your enemy. It is your signal. In this episode, we reveal the truth about fear that most people avoid. If you're building something meaningful or chasing a bigger life, fear is going to show up. What matters is what you do next. We break down the four fears that quietly hold high performers back: inferiority, rejection, control, and loss. Through the story of Steven Spielberg's early rejections and the imperfect action that led to his success, you'll see why waiting for the perfect moment is a trap. Action is the only way forward.

What This Episode Covers:

This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, hesitant, or unsure how to move forward. Fear is often disguised as logic, delay, or perfectionism. We expose the real patterns that stop people from making decisions and show you how to push through.

What You’ll Learn:

Why being "fearless" is a myth
How fear keeps you passive and silent
The 4 fears that dominate high performers
Why imperfect action beats overthinking
What Spielberg's career can teach you about rejection and resilience
How to move when you're mentally frozen

The Four Fears Discussed:

Fear of inferiority: thinking you need to be the smartest person in the room
Fear of rejection: believing failure defines your worth
Fear of control: gripping so tightly you squeeze the life out of your business
Fear of loss: imagining a worst-case scenario that will never happen

The antidote to fear is action. Not perfect action. Just forward motion. If you're overwhelmed, it's likely because you're trying to solve an action problem with more information. That never works.

Want More?

If you're tired of standing still and you're ready to create a clear path forward in your life or business, go to www.living.vision. We'll help you build your vision, take action, and stop spinning in place.

This Terrifying Exercise Changed How I See Everything Mar 25, 2025

In this raw and vulnerable episode, we explore what it really feels like to lose your vision, not just physically, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually as a leader and entrepreneur.

Suspended 40 feet in the air, blindfolded, relying solely on the voices of others to guide him across a ropes course… this wasn’t just a physical challenge. It was a brutal metaphor for what happens when we lose clarity in business, in life, and in ourselves.

You’ll hear:

- What true helplessness feels like when your strength no longer matters

- Why most entrepreneurs are silently panicking behind the scenes

- The dangers of staying in “limbo” and how it kills momentum

- The difference between a coach who’s read the mapm and one who’s walked the terrain blind

How to rebuild trust in yourself when the path disappears

This episode isn’t about fear. It’s about transformation. And it’s a must-watch for any entrepreneur navigating uncertainty, doubt, or the “I should have it all figured out by now” phase.

If you’re in that dark space, professionally or personally, don’t go it alone. We’ve been there. We see you. And we can help.

Speed Is Killing Your Business: Here's What to Do Mar 18, 2025

As a CEO, your biggest mistake might not be moving too slow. It might be moving too fast.

I've learned this firsthand. My speed, built from years playing soccer and growing successful businesses, once felt like my greatest strength. But eventually, I realized moving too fast was hurting my company, my team, and myself.

In this video, I share the Paradox of Speed for CEOs. I'll show you why doing more doesn't always mean doing better. You'll discover:

- Why speed can be your secret weapon and your biggest weakness.

- How moving too quickly creates more problems than it solves.

- The clear signs it's time to slow down.

- Key questions to ask yourself about your pace and its impact.

- How to find the perfect speed to grow without burning out your team.

Stop racing and start leading. Watch now to learn how slowing down can help you reach your goals faster and smarter.

If you head over to my Youtube channel, you can see all the graphs and diagrams I'm describing.

Going Viral is Easier Than You Think with Nick Uhas Mar 11, 2025

Meet the man behind 267 MILLION views in a single video... Nick Uhas.

In this power-packed episode of Living Vision, viral YouTube sensation Nick Uhas reveals exactly how he skyrocketed his channel from zero to over 8 MILLION subscribers, generating videos with hundreds of millions of views. If you've ever wondered how to harness social media to transform your personal brand, career, and life, this episode is your ultimate blueprint.

You'll Learn:

- How Nick Uhas tapped into short-form content to gain 267 million views on a single video.

- The exact strategy to engineer your social media success (yes, it's actually possible!).

- How Nick transitioned from aspiring doctor and stunt rollerblader to a full-time YouTube powerhouse.

- The secrets behind creating content that truly goes viral, straight from the mind of a man who generated 75 million views per month!

PLUS: Aaron and Nick have a special, exclusive event coming up in Phoenix, Arizona, on March 24th. Only 30 seats are available for this private event, featuring an intimate Q&A, dinner, and drinks, giving you unprecedented direct access to Nick’s full playbook for personal branding success.

Want a SPECIAL DISCOUNT to attend? DM me on Instagram @AaronVelky to get a personal discount code.

Don't miss out! If you're serious about growing your brand, going viral, and mastering social media in 2025, click play and get ready to learn from the best!

How to Get Unstuck: Do This to Create the Future You Want Mar 04, 2025

Feeling stuck? It happens to all of us. Whether you're trapped in a cycle in your business, your relationships, your finances, or your mindset, breaking free can feel impossible. The harder you push, the deeper you sink.

But there is a way out.

In this episode, Marty and I dive deep into what it truly means to be stuck and, more importantly, how to break free. We start with the incredible, real-life story of Aron Ralston, a mountaineer who faced the ultimate test of being stuck. He was pinned under an 800-pound boulder for five days. His journey to freedom is a powerful metaphor for what it takes to move forward in life and business.

We’re talking about:

- Why most people stay stuck for years

- The surprising truth about how to escape when you feel trapped

- The key mindset shifts that make all the difference

- The one thing you must cut in order to create the future you want

The answer is not always about doing more. Sometimes, it is about subtraction. What do you need to let go of? What is holding you back from real progress?

By the end of this episode, you will have a clear action plan to take your first step toward real change.

Ready to get unstuck? Hit play now.

The Hidden Role That Built Disney (And How It Can Build Your Business) Feb 25, 2025

In this episode of Living Vision, Marty Nocchi and I dive into one of the most powerful but often overlooked dynamics in business: the Visionary and Integrator partnership.

If you're a Visionary like me, you know how hard it can be to manage your team while trying to bring your big ideas to life. You might feel like you're constantly in your own way, slowing down your business growth. I’ve been there. That’s why having an Integrator isn’t just helpful, it’s essential.

Marty and I unpack what makes the Visionary-Integrator duo the ultimate growth accelerator. We share real examples, like the untold story of how Roy Disney was the driving force behind bringing Walt Disney’s vision to life. This conversation is about unlocking your next level by letting go and trusting the right person to help carry your vision forward.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- Why every great Visionary needs an Integrator

- The truth about Disney’s rise and the power of a strong partnership

- How Integrators turn chaos into clarity and ideas into reality

- Why Visionaries often sabotage their own businesses without realizing it

- How to find the right Integrator and build a sustainable future

If you're a founder, CEO, or creative mind who struggles with execution, this episode is for you. It might be the breakthrough you need.

Need help building your vision?

DM me on Instagram @aaronvelky and I’ll send you one of our tools to help you get started.

Why You're BEST People Are Leaving You in 2025... Feb 18, 2025

If your best employees keep leaving, you’re not alone. In this episode of Get Out of Your Own Way, we’re diving deep into why A-players are quitting – and what you can do about it. High achievers don’t leave for just a paycheck… they leave because they feel stuck. If they don’t see growth, they’ll find it somewhere else.

Here’s what we cover:

The #1 mistake leaders make that pushes A-players away
Why great employees check out before they quit
How to create a culture where top talent wants to stay
The real reason people leave (hint: it’s NOT always money)

If you’re a leader, business owner, or entrepreneur – this episode is a wake-up call. Don’t wait until your best people walk out the door. Watch now and learn how to attract, develop, and keep the best talent in 2025.

Action Step: Text one of your long-term employees. Ask them what they love about their job, what’s working, and what could be better. You’ll learn a lot about where you stand as a leader.

Who ACTUALLY Won Super Bowl 59 Feb 11, 2025

The Super Bowl isn’t just about football—it’s about vision, strategy, and leadership. In this episode of Get Out of Your Own Way, I'm back with Marty to break down the hidden lessons business owners, entrepreneurs, and leaders can take from Super Bowl 59.

What does a super bowl-winning quarterback and a successful ceo have in common?

Why is vision the #1 tool for elite athletes and high-performing business owners?

How do championship teams maintain their dominance year after year?

We’re diving into:

- The $7 million super bowl ads and how they control attention

- How top quarterbacks use vision to win games—just like the best entrepreneurs

- The Kansas city chiefs' dynasty and what makes their success repeatable

- Business strategy lessons from the nfl—why leaders must stop "kicking field goals" and start coaching

Whether you’re a business owner, entrepreneur, or someone trying to win your own "super bowl," this episode will change how you think about long-term vision, leadership, and success.

follow Aaron & Marty:

Aaron Velky: @AaronVelky

Marty Nocchi: @MartyNocchi

The No.1 Habit Billionaires Do Daily Feb 04, 2025

Are you holding on too tight? Are you gripping control so hard that you're blocking your own success? It’s time to confront your control freak.

In this episode, I’m diving deep into why letting go is the key to growth—in your business, your personal life, and your vision. If you want more, you have to create space for it, and that starts with learning how to release.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

- Why holding on is keeping you stuck

- The 4 hidden beliefs that stop you from letting go

- How to move from control to trust

- Why failure and change are part of the process

- The power of The Void—and why stepping into the unknown will set you free

Letting go isn’t easy, but it’s necessary. Whether you’re a high-level CEO, an entrepreneur, or just someone who wants to level up, this conversation is for you.

If you’re ready to build a bigger vision and stop getting in your own way, let’s work together. DM me on Instagram (@aaronvelky) or check out our resources below.

Why TikTok’s Ban Reveals the Truth About Freedom and Control Jan 28, 2025

What does a TikTok ban have to do with freedom, control, and even Peter Pan? In this thought-provoking episode of Get Out Of Your Own Way, myself and and Marty dive into the controversies surrounding TikTok’s ban and explore its surprising connection to personal growth, responsibility, and modern culture’s obsession with freedom.

We break down:

The real reasons behind TikTok’s ban and what it means for control over our lives.
How the “Peter Pan Syndrome” is keeping so many of us stuck.
Why true freedom isn’t about avoiding responsibility—it’s about embracing it.

This episode will challenge your perspective on technology, culture, and the choices we make every day. If you’ve ever felt conflicted about freedom, control, or how to grow personally and professionally, this conversation is for you.

Tune in now to uncover the truth and take one step closer to breaking free.

Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs it!

If You Feel STUCK in Life, Listen To This. Jan 21, 2025

Feeling stuck? Unsure of your next move? Whether it's deciding to hit the gym, call your mom, or tackle a big business goal, your indecision might point to something deeper... a lack of vision.

Today I dive into the symptoms of life without vision—reactivity, scarcity, and passivity—and how they hold us back from growth and purpose. Without a clear vision, every decision becomes a struggle, and every path feels like wandering aimlessly through life.

I’ll share why vision isn’t just for big-name entrepreneurs like Elon Musk or Steve Jobs. Visionaries exist in your neighborhood, in your family, and even in your small business. More importantly, YOU can become one.

We’ll break down how to:

- Recognize the signs that you're stuck in the familiar.

- Escape the cycle of shiny object syndrome and scarcity thinking.

- Build a vision that guides every decision—personal and professional.

If you're tired of reacting to life and ready to take control, listen to this all the way through. This year, we’re going all-in on helping you craft a life and business vision that inspires action and delivers results.

Ready to get started? Drop a comment below or connect with me on Instagram @aaronvelky. I’ll send you the tools, workbooks, and strategies you need to build your vision and escape the grind of familiarity.

If you can tell me what you want, you can have it. If you can’t, you’ll stay stuck. Vision is the answer.

How Will Los Angeles Recover? Jan 14, 2025

California is in crisis. 11,000 homes gone, billions in damages, and entire communities shattered. In this episode, I'm with my good friend and integrator Marty to dive into the heart of the issue: what happens after the fire?

This isn’t just a conversation about disaster recovery—it’s about the bigger picture. Whether you’re navigating the aftermath of a wildfire, the chaos in your business, or a personal challenge, the lesson is the same: vision is the only way forward.

We explore:

- Why reactionary thinking traps us in cycles of failure.

- The hard truth about what it takes to rebuild—not just homes, but hope.

- How businesses and individuals can learn from California’s struggle to create a resilient future.

This episode is about more than California—it’s about the fires in your own life. What’s burning, and how will you rebuild? Join us as we tackle tough questions, challenge assumptions, and remind you of one thing: the only way out is through a bigger vision.

Listen in, reflect, and let’s start shaping the path forward—together.

Got thoughts or feedback? Reach out. I’d love to hear what resonated with you.

4 Habits to Make 2025 Your Best Year Yet Jan 07, 2025

It’s 2025, and we’re kicking off the year with a conversation that might just change how you approach growth, progress, and transformation. If you’re saying “New Year, New Me” and hoping for a fresh start, this episode is for you. But be warned—we’re not sugarcoating it.

Here’s the truth: Real change doesn’t happen because the calendar flipped to January. It happens when you stop hitting reset, start taking ownership of your vision, and commit to building systems that fuel long-term growth. In this episode, we break down why the “New Year, New You” mentality might be holding you back—and how you can shift your mindset to create a life of real progress and impact.

What you’ll learn:

- Why starting over isn’t the answer to building a big, meaningful life.

- The importance of seeing your year as a comma, not a period.

- How systems—not willpower—drive sustainable success.

- Why vision is your ultimate tool for long-term growth.

If you’re tired of the same resolutions and are ready to design a life fueled by purpose and clarity, this conversation is for you.

Ready to take your next step? If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of where you’re going, let us help you build your vision. Visit www.aaronvelky.com to learn more about how we work with ambitious individuals like you to create a roadmap for success.

STOP Making These Goal Setting Mistakes in 2025! Dec 31, 2024

It's New Years Eve and if you're like most people, it's time to set goals and look ahead. Well, in this episode, I'm joined by Marty and our good friend Bo for a unique perspective on setting goals for 2025. This might be the kick up the butt you've been waiting for.

Ever wonder why you always set goals every year and achieve nothing? Maybe you're the problem!

Thank you to everyone who supported the show this year, it's been a blast. My mission is to give you the tools to forge your dream into a reality. We've worked with so many incredible people this year and seen so many jaw dropping results. Here's to 2025 and everything it holds ahead for all of us!

Want to Achieve Your Goals in 2025? YOU NEED This Dec 17, 2024

Are you ready to make 2025 your most transformative year yet? Let’s talk about how to set real goals and create a clear, powerful vision for your future. In this episode, I’ll guide you through the three key tips you need to design your best year ever:

Stop Recycling the Past – Don’t base your vision for 2025 on what you did in 2024. Instead, carve out time to dream big and ask the most important question: What do you truly want?
Simplify Your Goals – Too many goals = fragmented focus. Focus on building habits and trust in your ability to follow through. I’ll share how setting fewer, impactful goals can create a positive feedback loop that drives real progress.
Face Your Fear – Your biggest opportunities often lie in what scares you most. What are you avoiding? What feels impossible? Let’s uncover the magic waiting in your discomfort.

I’m passionate about helping entrepreneurs and visionaries like you create clarity in their goals and their lives. Vision isn’t just about dreaming; it’s about setting clear criteria to guide your choices and create alignment.

Want to dive deeper into building a vision for your life and business? Check out The Vision Summit on my website AaronVelky.com. This transformative retreat combines actionable vision planning with breathwork and health insights to set you up for a remarkable 2025.

Let me know in the comments:

What do you want for 2025?

Where are you stuck in creating your vision?

Follow me on Instagram @aaronvelky and DM me your thoughts or questions—I’d love to hear from you.

Let’s make 2025 the year you truly get out of your own way.

Don't forget to rate, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who’s ready to crush their goals next year.

STOP Doing This ONE Thing and WATCH Your Life TRANSFORM Dec 10, 2024

In this episode, Marty and I dive into the paradox of pursuing a vision and the discomfort it inevitably brings. Growth demands change, and change often feels risky—but is staying where you are actually the bigger risk?

We explore the internal resistance that arises when faced with the unknown and why your next level requires letting go of old habits, beliefs, and comforts. From personal stories to lessons learned working with hundreds of clients, we unpack the real cost of vision—and why it’s always worth it.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the tension between wanting more but fearing the leap, this episode is for you. We’ll help you shift your perspective to see growth not as a threat but as an opportunity to honor your potential.

Key Topics Covered:

- Why vision feels risky (but isn’t).

- The discomfort of growth and how to embrace it.

- Letting go of the old to make room for the new.

- Building a vision that integrates both business and life.

- Why waiting for "it’s bad enough" is a trap—and how to act before it’s too late.

Ready to stop playing small and create a life aligned with your biggest vision? Let’s go.

👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to never miss an episode.

Why Goal Setting is FAILING You w/Marty Nocchi Dec 03, 2024

If you're a high performer feeling stuck in the endless pursuit of goals, this episode is for you. In the 4th instalment of our Vision series, Marty Nocchi and I dive deep into why having a vision is essential before setting goals. Without it, you’re reactive, overwhelmed, and spinning your wheels on an endless treadmill.

We explore:

- Why setting goals without vision leads to burnout.

- How to align your goals with a larger, fulfilling purpose.

- The power of vision to guide your decisions, actions, and success.

- Real stories of transformation from our clients.

A vision isn’t just about what you want—it’s about why you want it. It’s the anchor that keeps you focused and aligned, the compass that points you toward a meaningful, fulfilling life.

Here’s the truth: Goals without vision are hollow. If you’ve ever felt like your goals are eating you alive, it’s time to reset. We’ll show you how to create a vision that energizes and inspires you, not just in business but in your personal life too.

Excited to dive deeper? We’re hosting an exclusive Vision Summit with tools and strategies to help you master your vision for 2025 and beyond.

Let us know your biggest takeaways from this episode in the comments!

Confronting Your Darkness: The Secret to True Growth Nov 19, 2024

In this episode of Get Out Of Your Own Way, Marty and I sit down with the remarkable Nathan Kohlerman—a man whose journey through grief, trauma, and inner darkness has shaped him into a true leader and healer. This conversation goes deep. We explore the raw and often uncomfortable process of facing your shadows and transforming pain into purpose.

Nathan shares his incredible story of publishing his book, a project born out of his own experiences with loss and healing. We talk about what it means to hold space for grief, navigate life’s darkest moments, and find meaning in the chaos.

This isn’t your typical personal development chat. Nathan challenges us to redefine leadership and authenticity, showing that true growth only comes when you embrace your entire self—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Together, we explore:

Why embracing your pain is essential for growth.
How grief and loss can become powerful tools for transformation.
The importance of "range" in leadership and life.
Why the strongest leaders are those who’ve faced their inner demons.
Practical tools to navigate your own shadow work.

This episode is for anyone who’s ready to stop running from their struggles and start leading with authenticity and courage. It’s not always easy, but it’s the work that leads to real, lasting change.

Connect with Nathan Kohlerman: https://www.instagram.com/nathankohlerman/

Final Thoughts:

This episode is a powerful reminder that the road to personal transformation is messy, but it’s worth every step. If you’re ready to stop getting in your own way and step into the life you’re meant to lead, this conversation is for you.

Listen, reflect, and take action. Your journey starts now.

The Vision Framework To TRANSFORM Your Life Nov 12, 2024

Vision doesn't just shape your business, but your entire life.

Today, Marty and I will explore the critical difference between pursuing what you love versus running from what you don’t. Many entrepreneurs start by enduring the grind for a future payoff, but at some point, you need to ask: When do I start loving what I do?

We’ll break down our vision framework—a practical triangle that consists of Vision, Void, and Values—to help you define what you truly want, identify what’s holding you back, and align your core priorities with your actions.

In this episode, we cover:

- Why your vision is the key to navigating challenges and making better choices.

- The importance of defining your "perfect day" and how it serves as a blueprint for your ideal future.

- How to recognize and let go of limiting beliefs and habits that no longer serve you.

- Why vague goals like “financial freedom” won’t cut it and how to replace them with concrete, actionable visions.

This is more than just another conversation about success; it’s about becoming the visionary leader of your life.

📥 Want a copy of our Vision Framework or Values Workbook? Send us a DM on Instagram, Facebook, or TikTok, and we’ll get it to you.

How To Have A Perfect Day Nov 08, 2024

This is the second part of our Vision Framework: the Perfect Day. It’s time to get intentional about your daily routine—not just those rare, idyllic days on vacation, but the everyday Tuesday. What does your ideal normal day look like?

We’ll explore why grounding yourself in the morning sets the tone for the rest of the day and how building a routine around what matters most can create true fulfillment. Whether it’s meditation, time with family, or simply designing your day in a way that brings energy and joy, the Perfect Day is your foundation for success.

This isn’t just theory; it’s the framework I use with clients, in retreats, and in my own life. If you’re stuck in a rut, plateauing, or unsure of what’s next, this episode will give you actionable steps to align your daily life with your bigger vision.

What You'll Learn:

- Why vision isn’t just for your business, but for your entire life

- How to structure your day for maximum fulfillment and productivity

- The four segments of the Perfect Day and how to optimize each

- Practical tips to implement your ideal routine starting now

Stay tuned for more in this series of Vision and taking control of your life once and for all.

Without THIS, You Cannot Succeed - Finding Vision Oct 29, 2024

Welcome to a new series all about Vision. Marty and I dive deep into the real meaning of vision. Vision isn’t just about goals or aspirations—it’s a way of life. Without it, you’re adrift. With it, everything becomes clear.

We’ll explore why vision is the core of any successful journey, in business and beyond. Most leaders think they have a vision, but we’re challenging you to think bigger. Forget the usual frameworks. We’re laying out our own six-part method that’s helped our clients at the top tiers redefine what’s possible. In this series, we’ll unpack the path from Horizon to expanding your comfort zone, from defining your future self to creating lasting habits.

It’s time to see your potential, not just as a leader but as a true visionary.

#vision #entrepreneurship #motivation

Take THIS seriously before it's too late... Oct 22, 2024

This episode is all about why your health is the foundation of your success as an entrepreneur, business owner, or leader. Without it, you're screwed. I’ve seen it time and again: if you’re wealthy but not healthy, you're not truly wealthy.

What You'll Learn:

- Health is the foundation for everything: Your health fuels better decisions, creative problem-solving, and longevity in both life and business.

- Stress and immune system management: If you're not taking care of your health, you're losing days to stress and illness that could be spent building your vision.

- Creativity and decision-making: A healthy body and mind allow you to think outside the box and make better, quicker decisions.

- Presentation matters: People make instant judgments based on how you take care of yourself. Showing up healthy signals discipline and commitment.

- Your Challenge: Today, make one decision about your health. Whether it's starting a fitness routine, booking that doctor's appointment, or improving your diet—take action!

- Let’s be real: you're an entrepreneur playing the long game. If you don't make health a priority now, you're going to pay for it later. Make the choice today.

You can follow me on Instagram @AaronVelky for more insights. Let’s keep getting out of our own way—together.

Listen to these 52 minutes if you want to be a millionaire in 2025.. Oct 15, 2024

In this episode I sit down with Brett Gilliland, founder of Elite Entrepreneurs, to unpack the strategies and mindset shifts that help business owners go from seven figures to eight—and beyond. Brett’s journey is unique. He didn’t set out to become an entrepreneur, but he found himself building a $100 million company and learning firsthand the grit and emotional fortitude it takes to scale a business. In this conversation, we dive deep into that emotional journey and the real-life challenges of growing a successful company.

Brett shares incredible insights on what it takes to become “elite,” why resilience is essential, and how to lead a business through tough times. We also talk about the dangers of constantly "moving the goalposts," the importance of celebrating milestones, and how to create a team culture that scales alongside your business. One of the most powerful themes we hit on is finding harmony between business growth and personal well-being—because what’s the point of building a great company if you’re burning yourself out in the process?

This episode is packed with practical takeaways and inspiring lessons for entrepreneurs at all stages. Whether you’re looking to level up your business, build a stronger team, or find more balance in your life, you’re going to want to tune in!

What We Cover:

The mindset shift required to scale from seven to eight figures
How to cultivate emotional resilience as a business owner
Building a purpose-driven culture that helps your team thrive
Finding balance between personal growth and business success
The importance of stopping to celebrate your wins before chasing the next goal

Join us for an authentic, inspiring conversation that will challenge you to think differently about leadership, culture, and the way you approach growth.

If you don't have VISION, you don't have a business. Oct 08, 2024

In this episode, Marty Nocchi and I sit down to tackle one of the biggest challenges entrepreneurs face—creating a clear and compelling vision. We explore why so many entrepreneurs get stuck, thinking their vision is just an extension of their current reality. The truth is, to build a vision that truly excites you, you need to break free from what’s comfortable and dive into the unknown.

We also dig into the importance of having a deeper purpose beyond just financial freedom—because trust me, if you don't have a vision that's meaningful, even success will feel empty.

What We Cover:

- Breaking Free From the Past – The hardest part of building a vision is letting go of the past. Most entrepreneurs extend their current path, but real growth comes from leaving old habits behind and stepping into something new.

- Vision Is Not Just About Money – Financial freedom is great, but without a vision that drives you beyond dollars, you're likely to feel lost, no matter how much money you have.

- Vision Demands Change – Growth is optional. If you’re stuck or feel unfulfilled, it’s time to challenge yourself with a new vision. One that forces you to evolve and inspires you to wake up excited each day.

If you’re ready to get out of your own way and build a vision that lights you up, this episode is for you. Reach out to us for our vision framework, and start designing the life and business you truly want.

Don’t forget to subscribe and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! Your feedback helps us keep delivering content that brings value to your entrepreneurial journey.

Connect with Us: Website: https://www.aaronvelky.com

How to Stop Trying So Hard and Start Attracting What You Truly Want Oct 01, 2024

In this episode of Get Out Of Your Own Way, I'm with Dalin Bernard to dive deep into the entrepreneurial journey, overcoming challenges, and embracing authentic connections in business and life. Dalin shares his unique "golf cart method" to networking and marketing, emphasizing the power of approachability over flashiness.

From navigating business obstacles to staying true to oneself, Dalin provides actionable insights on:

Handling business problems as growth opportunities
Balancing ambition with realistic expectations
Building genuine connections through authenticity
Using innovative strategies to stand out in saturated markets

Whether you're an entrepreneur looking to grow your business or seeking a fresh perspective on networking, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you get out of your own way and level up your success.

Join us for this insightful conversation, and learn how to elevate your brand, connect with others authentically, and make smarter business decisions.

Follow Dalin Bernard & Social Hustle:

Instagram: @hellacasual

Stop Wasting Your Life With Toxic Language! Sep 24, 2024

Are you unknowingly wasting your life with divisive language? In this episode, we dive deep into the power of words and how the language you use every day could be silently sabotaging your success, relationships, and future. Whether in the workplace, at home, or within your own mind, divisive language creates conflict, limits growth, and holds you back from reaching your full potential.

We’ll explore real-life examples of how toxic words can destroy teams, ruin company culture, and trap you in a cycle of negativity. We also share insights on how to shift from a "win-lose" mindset to a more powerful "win-win" approach that can change your leadership, business, and life for the better.

If you feel stuck, unfulfilled, or like you're wasting your potential, this conversation could be the key to breaking free and reclaiming your life.

Key Takeaways:

- Why divisive language is more dangerous than you think

- How subtle words can ruin your company culture and success

- Strategies to transform your mindset and reclaim control of your life

👉 If you’re ready to take back control and stop wasting your life, hit that subscribe button for more transformative insights every week!

I figured out Apples sales secret! Sep 20, 2024

Marty is back on the show for this special 50th episode and this one is a doozy! I have figured out Apple's sales secret and there are some big lessons you can learn from it for your own business.

In this episode, you'll learn:

The Art of Problem-Solution Marketing: Understand how Apple's approach identifies user frustrations and offers innovative solutions.
The Value of Simplicity: Learn why simplicity is a key differentiator for Apple and how this principle can benefit entrepreneurs.
Navigating the Coaching Industry: Discover parallels between Apple's strategies and the coaching landscape, emphasizing the importance of choosing the right partner for your journey.
The Android vs. Apple Debate Revisited: Gain perspectives on the strengths and weaknesses of both platforms from seasoned entrepreneurs.

What's your take on all this? We'd love to hear from you. DM me on Instagram @aaronvelky

Don't forget to Get Out of Your Own Way!

The Brutal Truth About Feedback: You NEED to Hear It (Even When it Hurts) Sep 13, 2024

In this episode, I team up with Marty to dive into the art of finishing projects and the crucial role feedback plays in the creative journey. We use Eric Cantona's memorable speech as a metaphor for knowing when to stop talking and start reflecting. Together, we tackle the hurdles of perfectionism, the fear of criticism, and the significance of getting outside perspectives.

Key Takeaways:

Iteration thrives on feedback: Don't get stuck in the cycle of endless editing by yourself. Real improvement happens when you invite external feedback.
Embrace the feedback loop: Seek it out, learn to filter it, and use it effectively. Your relationship with feedback determines how much you can grow.
Step into the spotlight: Get comfortable with imperfection and the possibility of criticism. The market and your audience are your best sources of insight.
Reflect and iterate: Make time to process feedback and make impactful changes. Reflection is often the greatest teacher.

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Remember, feedback is the fuel for growth. So don't hesitate—put your work out there, and embrace the feedback loop.

From Creative Writing to Chief of Staff: Sentari Minor's Journey to Impactful Leadership Sep 06, 2024

It was fantastic to reconnect with Sentari Minor, a true leader and friend who I had the pleasure of meeting when I first moved to Arizona. In this episode, we dive deep into his unique journey from a creative writing background to becoming a driving force in the healthcare industry. Sentari shares powerful insights on self-awareness, letting go of control, and building a culture of mental well-being.

What You'll Learn:

Break free from limitations: Discover how understanding your own patterns and embracing curiosity can lead to personal and professional breakthroughs.
Lead with empathy: Learn how prioritizing mental health in the workplace fosters a thriving and productive team.
Build trust authentically: Sentari shares his secrets to building trust through transparency, vulnerability, and genuine connection.
Craft your personal brand: Uncover the importance of developing your own brand while staying aligned with your organization's values.
Achieve work-life integration: Find the balance that fuels your success and happiness, both in and out of work.

Highlights of our Conversation:

Sentari's inspiring career path and the lessons he learned along the way.
The critical role of mental health in leadership and building a positive company culture.
Practical strategies for effective communication and influence.
The importance of self-reflection and understanding your triggers.
Insights on navigating the challenges and rewards of entrepreneurship.

Don't miss this insightful conversation filled with actionable advice for anyone looking to get out of their own way and achieve their full potential.

Connect with Sentari:

LinkedIn: Sentari Minor

Website: https://www.sentariminor.com/

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Is Work-Life Balance A Lie? Aug 30, 2024

Today I'm joined by Gary Lipsky, a seasoned entrepreneur who has built a life that blends passion, productivity, and a healthy work-life balance. From scaling businesses to living by the beach, Gary has mastered the art of integrating personal and professional fulfillment.

Key Takeaways for You:

- Build Momentum Incrementally: Start small and build gradually. Success isn’t about climbing Mount Everest in a day but about taking consistent steps towards your goals. Focus on building momentum with each step, and before you know it, you’ll be achieving your bigger objectives.

- Prioritize Health and Lifestyle: Don’t defer your life for success. Gary emphasizes the importance of integrating your passions, health, and relationships into your daily routine. Remember, health is wealth, and a well-balanced life will make you a better entrepreneur.

- Leverage Your Team and Delegate: Understanding the value of your time and learning to say no is crucial. By focusing on tasks that truly matter and delegating the rest, you can align your work with your life goals and maintain a sustainable pace.

Join us as we explore what it means to truly get out of your own way, embrace change, and build a life that is not just successful, but also deeply satisfying. This conversation is a must-watch for any entrepreneur looking to balance ambition with a meaningful, well-rounded life.

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Website: https://breakofdaycapital.com/

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How Sauna Therapy Challenges Everything We Know About Disease Aug 20, 2024

What's the point in building an empire if you're not healthy enough to enjoy it? If you know me, you know I take health and wellness very seriously. That's why I brought on a special guest today to talk about it. Today I'm joined by Brian Richards, founder of SaunaSpace. We talk about the power of saunas, near-infrared light therapy, and their incredible benefits. Brian shares how he went from real estate to wellness innovation, highlighting how following his passion led to founding a company that merges ancient healing practices with modern technology.

What We Talk About:

Sauna Benefits: Regular sauna use can extend your health span by detoxifying at the cellular level and promoting cellular rejuvenation.
Near-Infrared Light Therapy: Discover how this therapy penetrates deep into the body, supporting everything from brain health to overall cellular function.
The Power of Passion: Brian’s story underscores the importance of following your heart, even when it means facing uncertainty and setbacks.
Rebranding with Heart: SaunaSpace’s upcoming rebrand reflects a deeper alignment with its mission to promote wellness through love and intention.
Practical Wellness: Brian shares how integrating wellness practices into daily life can be effortless and transformative, encouraging a balanced approach to self-care.

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Website: SaunaSpace

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You're NOT OK, and that's OK! Aug 13, 2024

In this episode, Marty and I dive deep into the art of being okay with not being okay. We explore the importance of self-acceptance, embracing your limits, and the courage it takes to be vulnerable. We also share the journey of connecting with a musician whose work has profoundly impacted my life, both personally and professionally. From discussing the challenges of meeting your heroes to the balance between creativity and entrepreneurship, this episode is packed with real talk. Tune in and remember—it's okay to not have it all together

Navigating Pain and Finding Healing with Nahko Bear Aug 06, 2024

Navigating Pain and Finding Healing with Nahko Bear

It's a privilege for me to sit down today with renowned musician Nahko Bear for an honest and open conversation about life. Nahko's music has played a significant role in life, especially the song "We Are On Time". Nahko shares insights about listening to your intuition, the importance of trying and enjoying the journey regardless of the outcome, and how to find lessons in mistakes. We dive deep into personal growth, confronting your history, and the balance between self-care and responsibility.

Nahko also touches on his complex family history, his experiences with forgiveness, and the transformative journey of meeting his father’s murderer.

If you want to navigate the pain and find healing in your life, learn about the relationship between art and identity, and the ongoing challenge of aligning personal and professional growth, you will LOVE this episode.

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nahkobear

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nahkoandmedicineforthepeople

Deadpool and Marty - Living Life with Maximum Effort Jul 30, 2024

For this episode to have MAXIMUM effect, we'd love for you to watch it on YouTube. We promise you'll love it!

Welcome to "Deadpool and Marty," where less Aaron and Marty means more Deadpool and Marty! I'm Aaron Velky, here with Marty Nocchi, and we're diving into today's episode with maximum effort.

What We Talk About:

- National Tequila Day: We're celebrating with Casamigos Jalapeño Tequila. Shoutout to Total Wine for the supply!

- Deadpool Hype: The new Deadpool movie drops in two days. We dissect our excitement and what we expect from the film.

- Life of Actors: We explore how actors balance their on-screen personas with real life, inspired by an interview with Rebecca from Ted Lasso.

- Reinvention: The parallels between actors morphing into characters and how we morph in business and relationships.

- Comic Book Themes: How X-Men and superhero stories resonate with our experiences of feeling different and finding our place.

- Wolverine Love: Discussing Wolverine's character depth and the anticipation for his portrayal in the new movie.

- Personal Development: How comic books teach us about reinventing ourselves and the importance of evolving our characters in life.

Join us as we navigate these topics with humor, depth, and a bit of tequila. Cheers to new beginnings and finding joy in the journey!

Subscribe, like, and share your thoughts with us. Let's get out of our own way and live life with maximum effort!

How to Blend Purpose and Profit w/Reef Colman Jul 23, 2024

In this episode, I have a thought-provoking conversation with Reef Colman, an entrepreneur committed to blending purpose with business. Reef’s journey from personal challenges to impacting global communities is both inspiring and practical.

Today, we’re exploring the critical elements of empathy, relationship dynamics, and integrating mission with work. Here’s what we’re unpacking:

The importance of viewing relationships through both masculine and feminine lenses.
Reef’s transformative journey of emotional regulation and self-discovery.
Blending mission with profitability in business and the innovative approach of We Assist.
Practical insights into setting boundaries and fostering healthy relationships.
The role of continuous learning and education in personal and professional development.

This episode is a deep dive into the experiences of a man dedicated to making a difference, both in his personal life and in the world.

Connect with Reef Colman:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reefcolman/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reefcolman/

For those looking to merge impact with their business endeavors and improve personal relationships, follow Reef for ongoing insights and inspiration.

Do THIS to ATTRACT your DREAM LIFE Jul 16, 2024

In this episode of "Get Out Of Your Own Way", we sit down with Chelsko, a multi-talented artist, and entrepreneur. Discover how she juggles her passions in art, music, and acting while staying true to her purpose and living her dream life.

What You'll Learn:

- Purpose doesn't have to be grand. It can be simple, immediate, and evolving.

- Embrace your journey and learn from your experiences.

- Balancing art and business is challenging but possible.

- Say no to distractions and stay focused on your goals.

- Authenticity is crucial in art and life.

- Finding joy and what you’re good at can help you discover your purpose.

- Building a brand around your true self is essential.

- It’s okay to prioritize yourself and your goals over social obligations.

About Aaron Velky:

Aaron Velky is dedicated to helping individuals break free from self-imposed limitations and achieve their dreams. Join us every Monday for new episodes filled with actionable advice and inspiring stories.

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Website: https://getoutofyourownway.coach/

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DO THIS For 6 Days To Manifest The FUTURE OF YOUR DREAMS Jul 09, 2024

In this incredible conversation, I got to sit down with Tom McCarthy, an expert in breakthrough performance and author of "The Breakthrough Code." It's one of my favorite books!

This episode will show you how to transform your subconscious mind to manifest the life of your dreams. Dream partner? New job? Money? Whatever it is, we can program ourselves like a GPS to get it.

What You'll Learn:

The Power of the Subconscious Mind: Tom reveals how our subconscious programming dictates our reality and how changing these programs can lead to success in business, relationships, and personal fulfillment.

Simplicity in Complexity: Discover the art of breaking down complex ideas into simple, actionable steps. Tom shares his approach to making sophisticated concepts easy to understand and apply.

Three Big Ideas: Learn about Tom's three foundational principles for achieving massive breakthroughs and living a life without limits.

Focus and Obsession: Understand the importance of focusing on fewer things but with greater intensity to achieve extraordinary results.

Intuitive Action: Tom emphasizes the significance of taking effective actions guided by intuition rather than sheer effort.

Tom McCarthy is a leading authority on breakthrough performance and personal development. As an author, speaker, and coach, Tom has transformed countless lives with his insights into the power of the mind and effective action.

Resources Mentioned:

Book: "The Breakthrough Code" by Tom McCarthy

Websites: TomMcCarthy.com

Instagram: @TheTomMcCarthy

This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice on how to manifest your dreams. Don't miss out on the opportunity to learn from one of the best in the field. Tune in, take notes, and start your journey towards a life of limitless possibilities today!

If You Want To Be SUCCESSFUL In Life, Master This ONE SKILL! Jul 02, 2024

In this powerhouse episode, I deep dive with Alex Thielman to learn the secret to absolute success: specialization. We discuss why and how focusing on one skill will elevate you to greater heights, and yet, staying in your lane is the absolute key to personal and professional growth.

Alex shares his journey of the many roles he has been a part of within the SaaS space, building himself back amidst crippling challenges to the realization that you have to focus on your core strengths.

What We Talk About:

Why the world rewards specialists over generalists.
Identify and focus on your core strengths to build a successful career.
Boundary setting for the clear notion of expertise.
Overcoming Fear of Specialization
The fears that may be harbored as a person becomes a specialist include the fear of failure and success.
And so much more...

Actionable Steps You Can Take Today For Greatness:

Identify Your Lane: Take time to map your lane of specialization and ensure that you become the master of it.
Set boundaries: learn to say no to things that don't resonate with your core strengths.
Make a name for yourself: Prove your expertise and let partners come that balance out what you bring to the table.
Develop Adaptability: Use your adaptability to problem-solve and add value in whatever area you specialize in.

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This Mindset Shift Will UNLOCK Your Business Jun 25, 2024

Today, we want to discuss some defining things that can transform your entire entrepreneurial journey. Mainly, why being an entrepreneur is a creative adventure and what happens when we shift our perspective to that of an artist.

Here’s what we’re exploring:

- The bold mindset shift that can revolutionize your business approach.

- Recognizing when you've mastered your craft and why it might be time to move on.

- Embracing the artist within every entrepreneur and why it’s crucial for innovation.

- The courage to step out of your comfort zone and tackle bigger challenges.

- Practical strategies to merge creativity and business for sustained success.

- Balancing personal fulfillment with professional growth for a holistic approach to life.

This episode is a deep dive into unlocking your potential and breaking free from the status quo. We will give you the actionable steps to transform your mindset and elevate your business to new heights.

Connect with Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi:

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Instagram: @martynocchi

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Are You Running Out Of Time? Jun 18, 2024

Today, Marty and I tackle the concept of "Running out of Future". That feeling of "Am I out of time?" and "Is this it?" We've all been there and crippled by this.

Here’s what we’re unpacking:

- The concept of "running out of future" and its implications on personal and professional growth.

- Recognizing when you've hit a plateau and understanding why it can be more than just a temporary phase.

- The importance of asking the right questions to discover what you truly want in life, beyond societal expectations.

- How to redefine your future vision and break free from the cycle of complacency.

- Setting up boundaries to stay present and build a life that's more than just entrepreneurial achievements.

This episode is a deep dive into how to reignite your passion for the future, giving you actionable steps to transform your mindset and uncover a vision that excites you.

Connect with us! We want to take you to the next level.

https://www.aaronvelky.com

Subscribe to our podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify for more insights and inspiration. Let’s get out of our own way and create a future that excites us!

Are You in a Midlife Crisis? Jun 11, 2024

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the midlife crisis. Join us as we go through the strategies to help you unf**k your life, navigate uncertainty, and start living more meaningfully. This is a deeply personal conversation that I hope will inspire you to open up and confront your own BS. (Belief Systems!)

Here’s what we’re unpacking:

- The necessity of recognizing your role in your current situation and seeking new perspectives.

- Understanding the illusion of fulfillment through societal expectations and material pursuits.

- Navigating midlife crises and how they serve as a bridge between the person you thought you had to be and the person you could become.

- The importance of asking for help and the necessity of support during times of intense difficulty and transformation.

- Embracing change by evolving the way you think, act, and choose to create meaningful progress in your life.

This episode is a comprehensive guide for anyone feeling stuck or unfulfilled, offering invaluable insights and actionable advice to help you get out of your own way and start living a more meaningful life.

Recommended Reading:

"Let Your Life Speak" by Parker Palmer
"Will" by Will Smith
"The Way of the Peaceful Warrior" by Dan Millman
"Celestine Prophecy" by James Redfield
"Zero to One" by Peter Thiel
"The Second Mountain" by David Brooks

Connect with us:

Website: https://www.getoutofyourownway.coach

For those ready to take actionable steps towards a more fulfilling life, follow us for ongoing inspiration and guidance.

Fearless Transition: A Guide to Pursuing Your Passion Jun 04, 2024

In this episode, I'm excited to welcome Eric Seidelman, a long-time corporate employee turned aspiring entrepreneur. With over 20 years in digital marketing and account management, Eric is now venturing into the world of e-commerce to chase his dreams of time freedom and flexibility. Isn't that something we all want to do? Then I think you're going to love this tactical and actionable conversation.

Here’s what we’re exploring:

-Eric's background in corporate America and his decision to pursue a more fulfilling career

- The process of identifying the first step in launching an e-commerce brand through product and market research.

- Overcoming the feeling of overwhelm by breaking down the entrepreneurial journey into manageable steps.

- Building self-trust and confidence by focusing on progress and learning from each step taken.

- Addressing and managing the fear of financial loss and the unknowns that come with starting a new venture.

- Balancing a long-term vision with actionable, day-to-day steps to move forward effectively.

- How to avoid paralysis analysis.

I hope this episode reflects parts of your journey and makes you realize there is a way to live your dream life!

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Why Grit Alone Won't Save You with Lara Jones May 28, 2024

I'm joined today by Lara Jones, author of "Hunt or Be Hunted" and creator of the Global Grit System. In this episode, Lara shares her profound journey of grit, resilience, and self-discovery, discussing how her understanding of grit evolved through personal tragedies and professional challenges.

From coaching young athletes to navigating the profound grief of losing her son, Lara’s experiences have shaped her unique perspective on grit. She introduces the four elements of grit - Get it done, Reframe thinking, Impact others, and Take responsibility - and how they can transform leadership and personal growth.

If you want to learn how to harness your inner grit, overcome life's challenges, and lead with empathy and strength, you'll get a lot out of this episode.

What You'll Learn:

- The true meaning of grit and how it can evolve.

- The four elements of grit and how to apply them in your life.

- How to balance pushing through challenges with the need for rest and self-care.

- The impact of emotional intelligence on leadership and personal growth.

- Techniques for navigating grief while maintaining professional and personal responsibilities.

- And so much more!

Follow Lara Jones:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officiallarajones

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/officiallarajones

Special Offer: Text GRIT to 55444 for Lara’s exclusive Grit Global Guide!

The Harsh Reality of Fitting In with Millionaires May 21, 2024

Have you ever felt like an outsider? Perhaps imposter syndrome? Like you're a puzzle piece in the wrong box? Then I think you'll get a lot out of our conversation.

In this live coaching session, Oliver Perry shared his experiences and internal struggles with fitting into high-level circles of millionaires. Despite being a part of elite groups, Oliver feels like an outsider trying to find his place.

What We Talk About:

The Puzzle of Fitting In: Oliver shares his feelings of being a misfit among millionaires, despite having access to their circles. We talk about the contrast between the high-stakes problems of millionaires and Oliver's more relatable day-to-day issues.

How Your Background Shapes Your Perspective: Oliver reflects on how his background in the military and current status might contribute to his feelings of alienation.

Desire for Recognition: Oliver expresses a longing for recognition and the internal conflict between wanting to be celebrated for his uniqueness versus fitting into the existing group dynamics

And So Much More...

This session is designed to give you practical advice and encouragement to overcome that feeling of not belonging and overcoming imposter syndrome. It's a problem most of us face in various situations, but it doesn't have to be that way.

Want to be coached by me? Check out the links below:

Website: https://getoutofyourownway.coach/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aaronvelky/

Themes: Personal Development, Entrepreneurship, Career Transitions, Self Worth, Millionaire Mindset, Money

We're in Austin! Behind the scenes of our big event May 14, 2024

Join me and Marty (or Marti as Starbucks seems to think), as we dive into the behind-the-scenes preparations for our elite event in Austin, hosted by GoBundance.

Despite the foggy "Gotham-like" weather, I'm excited to share the extensive effort that goes into making events like these successful. From managing health and energy to creating custom workbooks, I want to give you a behind-the-scenes look at what it takes to provide value at the highest level.

If you're an aspiring speaker or a seasoned entrepreneur, this episode offers valuable insights and a glimpse into the dedication required to create memorable experiences.

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Bulletproof Intuition: How a SWAT Cop Became a Relationship Guru May 07, 2024

In this episode, we’re thrilled to have Dylan Warter, a former SWAT detective turned relationship coach. From dodging bullets to guiding hearts, Dylan’s journey is nothing short of dramatic. Now he uses his hard-earned wisdom to help men lead with robust, healthy masculinity in their relationships.

Today, prepare to explore the crucial intersections of intuition, leadership, and personal transformation. Here’s what we’re unpacking:

- Dylan’s gripping SWAT experiences and the life-altering decisions that followed.

- The path from acute PTSD to profound peace and how intuition guided that transition.

- The art of leveraging masculine energy for relationship harmony and personal growth.

- Real-life insights into harnessing intuition for pivotal life choices.

- Strategies for navigating and healing personal relationships with wisdom and empathy.

This episode is a deep dive into the life of a man who’s faced extraordinary challenges and emerged with invaluable insights on living courageously and loving wisely. 

Connect with Dylan Warter:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dylanjwarter/

For those looking to embrace a bold, intuitive approach to personal and professional relationships, follow Dylan for ongoing inspiration and guidance.

Meditations with Marty: Boundaries Apr 30, 2024

Marty leads us with another powerful meditation all about boundaries. Boundaries are the structure of our lives, so we must pay attention to this common blind spot in people's lives.

Sit back, close your eyes, and relax, while Marty guides you on a 10-minute meditation on overcoming and setting boundaries.

Want to meditate with us in person? Check out our retreats - https://getoutofyourownway.coach/

Earlier in the year, we covered the basics of meditation, which you can listen to here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-to-do-when-you-meditate/id1721234559?i=1000641988341

How To Eliminate Self Doubt Forever Apr 23, 2024

Welcome back to Get Out of Your Own Way with me, Aaron Velky!  Are you going through a major life transition and are plagued by self-doubt and overwhelmed? Then you’ll get a lot of out today's coaching session.  This week, I’m sharing a coaching call I had with Chuck Robinson. Chuck is a prime example of someone wanting to go to the next level but is in their own way. In this session, we unpack the mental and emotional challenges that come with such a significant life transition.

Today, we'll explore several compelling themes:

- The "speeding train" metaphor: I’ll discuss how to manage the daunting pace of success and the anxiety that often accompanies it.

- Facing fears of failure and success: I’ll provide insights into how these fears can both hinder and motivate us and how to navigate them.

- Strategic decision-making: I’ll share effective strategies for making pivotal life decisions with confidence.

- Embracing entrepreneurship: Tips for transitioning from a side hustle to a main career focus.

This session is designed to give you practical advice and encouragement for facing similar challenges in your life. You'll see firsthand how I guide Chuck through these complex dynamics, emphasizing the psychological tools necessary for successful personal and professional development.

Want to be coached by me? Check out the links below:

Website: https://getoutofyourownway.coach/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aaronvelky/

Themes: Personal Development, Entrepreneurship, Career Transitions, Mindset Mastery

How To TRULY Accept & Love Your Partner with Dr. Kelly Flanagan Apr 16, 2024

Today, I'm joined by best-selling author and psychologist Dr. Kelly Flanagan. Dr. Kelly has personally transformed my life and I had to have him on the show to show you how transformative his work is.

We talk about the intricate dance between boundaries, resentment, and acceptance, as well as the keys to fostering healthy relationships and embracing our true selves.

In this incredible conversation, we'll explore:

- The revelation that resentment often arises from unspoken boundaries.

- Embracing acceptance as a catalyst for self-love and personal growth.

- Kelly's own journey of confronting inner voices of shame and finding authenticity.

- The parallels between setting boundaries in relationships and navigating the entrepreneurial world.

- Practical strategies for balancing personal boundaries with external expectations.

This conversation will challenge your perspectives and equip you with actionable insights to get out of your own way and live a more fulfilling life.

I highly recommend Dr. Kelly's book "Loveable". It changed my life...

Follow Dr. Kelly Flanagan:

Website: https://drkellyflanagan.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkellyflanagan

Connect with Me:

Website: https://getoutofyourownway.coach/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aaronvelky/

Entrepreneurship Is So Hard That Most People Give Up! Apr 09, 2024

Welcome to another powerhouse episode of Get Out of Your Own Way, I'm Aaron Velky, and today, we dive deep with our "integrator extraordinaire" Marty Nocchi.

Marty joins us to unravel the intricacies of entrepreneurship, shedding light on the often-overlooked emotional and psychological battles that define the journey of building and sustaining a vision.

Together, we’re peeling back the layers on topics that challenge the conventional fabric of entrepreneurship, including:

- The profound loneliness and unique challenges entrepreneurs face, setting them apart from the rest of society.

- The essential pursuit of aligning life around your core values and the quest for authenticity amidst a sea of societal and self-imposed expectations.

- Insights from our recent retreat, and the recurring questions we kept getting

- We also give some practical advice for anyone who's at a crossroads of life and needs to make a significant decision. Spoiler: There's always a way.

You know we love having Marty on the show as he brings a unique perspective on the trends and internal shifts that we need to navigate our lives.

This episode is a call to action for entrepreneurs and individuals alike to embrace the journey toward authenticity, redefine success on their terms, and make conscious choices that resonate with their deepest values.

Themes: Entrepreneurial Mindset, Decision-Making & Strategy, Social Dynamics & Community Support, Mental Health, Leadership, Personal Development.

Tools to Say No: Start Putting Yourself First: | Matt King Apr 02, 2024

Welcome to a powerhouse episode of Get Out of Your Own Way, I'm Aaron Velky!

In this episode, we're diving into the mind and journey of Gobundance CEO Matt King, a visionary who's carved out a path of intentional living and goal-setting that's anything but ordinary. Matt, often seen as an underdog, shares his insights on intuition, the strategic power of "no," and the relentless pursuit of excellence that has defined his rise to success.

Matt pulls back the curtain on the practices and mindsets that have propelled him from a place of self-doubt to a position of influence and accomplishment. He challenges the conventional, pushing us to reconsider the narratives we've been sold about success and personal growth.

Prepare to level up yourself, as we explore themes like:

- Intuition as an unlearned language we all possess

- The liberating power of saying "NO"

- The Art of Continuous Addition and why "adding on" and never settling are keys to lifelong achievement.

Today's episode is for anyone looking to redefine their approach to life and leadership. Matt's story is a testament to the power of belief, resilience, and strategic action in the face of adversity. Another fun fact is, as you might have heard in the episode, Matt was kind enough to give us his time on his birthday, so thank you, Matt!

Follow Matt King:

Instagram: @mattking.atx

Website: https://www.gobundance.com

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Dive deeper into our content, browse past episodes, and discover the wealth of knowledge we've shared on overcoming obstacles to help you get out of your own way.

Themes: Entrepreneurship, Mindset, Leadership, Personal Development, Goal-Setting, Intentional Living.

How to Embrace the Unknown to Succeed with Anssi Viljanen Mar 26, 2024

Meet Anssi Viljanen – not your average insurance agent. Former preacher turned introspective entrepreneur, Anssi is on a quest to infuse every aspect of his life with meaning and significance. Join us Aaron as he uncovers our special guest's intriguing journey. Expect conversations on the intersections of faith, personal development, purpose, and so much more!

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00:00 From dedicated preacher to dominating in insurance claims.

03:13 The dark side of financial independence.

07:47 Are you wasting your time? Say ‘goodbye’ to input overload for good!

11:04 The opposite of faith is FEAR.

14:37 We must embrace the unknown and trust others.

17:15 Make choices despite uncertainty. Or, choose to stay stuck.

23:37 Run your business as if your employees would die for you.

26:20 Hot take on leadership.

33:44 How a game led to self-reflection on setting boundaries and being present.

37:02 We must say ‘no’ to good things, even in friendships.

41:40 Stop hustling for worthiness!

46:16 Phone usage is a blessing for self-awareness and habit-building.

48:33 How to bring more intellectual honesty in your life.

52:01 Journaling is CRITICAL for growth.

56:18 Closing thoughts.

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The Truth About Chasing Perfection Mar 21, 2024

Do you want to break free from the chains of perfectionism? In this episode, Aaron will help you step into a future filled with the growth and success you’ve been dreaming of. This eye-opening discussion will challenge everything you think you know about success as you discover the dangers of pursuing perfection and the empowerment that comes with progress. Tune in now and unlock your full potential!

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00:00 From panic to perseverance: Aaron’s journey.

05:32 The truth about chasing perfection.

08:38 The hidden danger of holding out for the ‘right’ investor.

10:22 How to make big life changes with just a few steps.

13:25 Stop sabotaging your future with this one simple tip.

17:06 The secret ingredient to unstoppable progress.

21:11 The ultimate wake-up call to move forward.

24:07 How a single step can transform your life forever.

26:21 Escape regret and transform your future!

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Overcoming Shiny Object Syndrome And Finding Fulfillment With Renee Bacon Mar 19, 2024

Do you constantly find yourself jumping from one thing to the next, unable to focus on a single pursuit?

In today’s episode, Aaron live coaches Renee Bacon, unveiling methods for overcoming shiny object syndrome, honing in on goals, finding professional fulfilment, and so much more. Oh and Renee is not just a multi-talented professional; she's also a supermom of four, who knows what it means to juggle the demands of parenting with personal ambition. Tune in for her stories that will touch your heart and strategies that will inspire your mind!

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00:00 Stop bouncing around and find your true calling!

06:36 Prioritizing competing goals in real time.

11:03 Stop making excuses and see all of your options clearly.

15:11 Unpacking “purpose.”

21:42 The good news about the seemingly never ending pressure of time and money.

27:29 Stop limiting yourself to constricted binaries aind a third route.

33:14 Be cautious of the emotional waves of the intensity/burnout cycle.

38:28 When “grinding” backfires.

44:22 Burnout vs. building: Aaron’s hot take.

49:52 How to set goals that you’ll ACTUALLY stick to.

54:30 The trick to finding fulfillment.

56:36 Success is IMPOSSIBLE without these two things.

01:03:53 You don’t need a lot going on. One thing is enough.

01:09:08 Keep moving by focusing on these key pieces.

01:13:02 Give this uncomfortable challenge a try to discover what focus REALLY looks like.

01:17:39 How Aaron finds peace, outside of meditation.

1:18:19 Closing thoughts.

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Meditations with Marty: Embracing New Standards Mar 14, 2024

A lot can come up when raising your standards. In this meditation, Marty guides you through a visualization that will empower you to embrace change, challenge fears, and foster self-growth. So, get in a comfortable place and learn to integrate all aspects of yourself with this powerful session.

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00:00 Marty and Aaron discuss changes that come with new standards.

07:18 Meditation begins.

17:47 You are enough, you are lovable.

21:18 Meditation ends.

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Create Success Through Self-Prioritization with Mycal Anders Mar 12, 2024

Are you ready to LOVE every step of the process? In today’s episode, seasoned coach and self-betterment aficionado Mycal Anders shares his tips on overcoming fear, making challenging decisions, and keeping promises to ourselves. Whether you're teetering on the edge of a big decision or looking for that nudge to prioritize self-improvement, this episode has got you covered.

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00:00 How to win your day by 10am every single day.

05:55 How to ensure success by prioritizing YOU.

11:13 The biggest opportunity for change.

20:16 How to increase awareness to make good choices,

23:53 The truth about progress.

29:09 Are you trapped in your comfort zone?

33:33 Success is not simply an outcome of education or experience.

39:51 No one has all the answers.

45:56 From expulsion to redemption: an unlikely journey.

48:21 A candid talk of struggle and success.

56:40 How to take the first step.

01:02:59 The secret to cultivating REAL courage.

01:09:18 STOP living in SCARCITY and REGRET!

01:15:33 The power of simplicity.

01:16:56 Recognize negativity and CHOOSE to change.

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Meditations with Marty: You Are Worthy Mar 07, 2024

Listen to this meditation in a quiet place, free of distraction, and enjoy this time to create a life and future you desire.

The meditation culminates with a journaling exercise to reflect on the experience and identify other areas of opportunity.

Join Marty as he helps you realize your inner worth and take steps to get out of your own way.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Introduction.

1:35 Meditation begins.

17:30 Conclusion, journaling.

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The Cost of Comparison in Your Business with Leon Wright Mar 05, 2024

The path of personal development ain’t always easy, folks. In this episode, transformed businessman Leon Wright explores the hurdles that comparison, distraction, and a fear of stillness pose to growth. In this episode, Aaron and Leon guide you to overcome the noise of comparison and build a life that truly resonates with your values.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Overcoming comparison.

08:30 Feeling behind or stuck?

16:01 The perfect recipe for shame.

19:55 Putting an end to the blame game.

27:42 The cost of comparing.

33:22 Choose THIS over comparison.

38:23 How Leon turned it all around.

44:22 What are you saying “no” to?

48:08 Escape comparison with this radical technique.

54:38 How to face fears and unhealthy coping mechanisms.

58:09 The challenge of stillness.

01:05:23 Transform your life with this simple practice

01:09:10 Closing thoughts and support.

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How to Shed The Victim Mentality with Amad Osman Feb 29, 2024

Today, we’re welcoming the inspiring Amad Osman to the show. In just one year, Amad went from self-declared insanity to completing two half marathons. Tune in as we hear about his year of triumphs in health, business, and international travel, all highlighting a deep gratitude for life's greatest freedoms. Brace yourselves because this episode is a masterclass in how to shed the victim mentality, set powerful intentions, and take daily steps to self-improvement!

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 2 half marathons after multi-decade running break.

04:26 What are you taking for granted?

07:10 23 years of genetically manipulating snakes.

12:40 The consequences of negative beliefs.

15:12 Prison during the crack epidemic became a life-changing meditation retreat.

18:35 The life-or-death decision faced in the hood.

23:23 From “I can't have anything” to “I can have it all.”

26:59 How prison fostered immense personal growth.

28:05 How to finally move on.

32:16 Leaving toxic relationships.

35:06 The life-changing results of gratitude.

39:18 Are you stuck in a dangerous comfort zone?

43:11 Key factors for business growth.

45:01 Trying to maximize your income?

49:06 How a childhood confession sparks transformation.

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What To Do When You’re Afraid to Fail Feb 27, 2024

With extensive experience in the real estate and hospitality industries, Jason Reagan exemplifies the spirit of modern entrepreneurship. In this episode, Aaron and Jason talk everything from facing fears, to supporting others, to coaching, and much, much more. This episode will not only challenge you to confront your fears but, will also provide a blueprint for growth and fulfillment in both your personal and professional lives. Let’s go!

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Managing multiple businesses and THRIVING.

05:19 Fear of failure and feel fear of success go hand in hand.

07:10 The key to finally overcoming your fears.

11:18 REMEMBER: You have control over your choices.

16:55 Do THIS to face fears when making a decision.

19:20 What to do when you’re afraid to fail.

22:59 This Japanese concept will help you find purpose in life.

26:18 What businesses REALLY need to grow.

28:34 Facing the realities of growth.

32:29 The game-changing approach to confronting your fears.

35:26 Control your adversaries and WIN.

38:42 Eliminate your fears by FACING them.

44:24 What you need for progress and success.

47:20 An unbelievable transformation in just three months.

49:27 Where to find support.

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Power vs. Force Feb 22, 2024

Today Aaron and Marty shed light on the personal transformations that shifted them from exhaustion to empowerment. Tune in to this deep conversation surrounding forceful leadership versus powerful collaboration, and the key moments that prompt us to choose authenticity over hollow success. Will you push with force or align with power?

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00:00 The inspiring story of maintaining resilience through hardship.

05:09 Taking a stand and inspiring action when no one else wants to.

06:45 What happens when you embrace potential persecution.

10:11 Force burns us out.

15:35 What makes go-getters so attractive?

17:53 Overcoming force with abundance and love.

20:49 Revelations from adversity.

26:50 Prioritize YOUR values, not what the world tells you to value.

27:44 How to endure challenges while staying true to your beliefs.

32:32 The limits of force. Yes, you can ask for help.

36:12 The only person who can validate your power.

38:02 Approaching diverse perspectives.

41:27 Supporting and empowering others with positive language.

45:42 The keys to retaining team members.

49:04 The power of small changes.

51:41 How embracing invitation over force leads to empowerment.

53:15 What to do when you feel trapped.

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Stop Letting Fear Get in Your Way with Dr. Anthony Balduzzi Feb 20, 2024

In today’s episode, Aaron engages in a deep, thought-provoking conversation with renowned guest Dr. Anthony Balduzzi. Together, they explore the transformative power of taking a stand, confronting inner fears, and aligning personal beliefs with business leadership. Dr. Balduzzi shares his wisdom on creating a resonant and consistent internal message, the importance of personal alchemy in navigating change, and nurturing leadership-level individuals within organizations. Join us as we delve into the concepts of directional efficiency, the evolution of business dynamics, and the role of authentic human connection in driving productivity. You won't want to miss this enriching dialogue that provides actionable insights and transformational perspectives.

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00:00 The inevitable part of our path that no one wants to talk about.

09:10 How to stop running away from change.

12:10 The power of adversity

18:01 The importance of balancing masculine and feminine energy.

21:44 Don’t be afraid to polarize.

27:04 Why feel restricted?

36:16 Stop letting fear get in your way!

38:23 Distraction: Fear’s best friend.

43:45 Redefining “focus.”

49:52 The keys to team success.

57:28 Why you must prioritize open time, delegation, and creativity.

01:01:14 How to cultivate faith and trust.

01:06:05 Unlock your power with internal alignment.

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Meditations with Marty: Worthy of a New Standard Feb 15, 2024

Create lasting change in your life with the support of this powerful meditation led by Marty. Listen to this meditation in a quiet place, free of distraction, and enjoy this time to create a life and future you desire.

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The Power of Emotional Regulation and Finding Your Purpose with Dave Van Der Laan Feb 13, 2024

Aaron chats with Dave Van Der Laan, the Chief Operating Officer of Nourish Housecalls.

Dave shares the importance of understanding and managing your emotions and how he transitioned from his highly successful, high-stress law career to a more fulfilling and purposeful life. Dave talks about the challenges and rewards of this major life change and how you can navigate potential career changes that come your way. -

Chapters:

00:00 Structured morning routine and business planning practice.

05:19 Transitioning to purposeful work.

12:49 Challenges of working with a romantic partner.

17:20 Reflecting on courage and overcoming self-doubt.

22:53 Transitioning from law to entrepreneurship.

30:42 How to find joy in your work.

35:31 Optimizing health AND business goals.

43:07 Invest energy wisely.

47:10 Parenting challenges with atypical child behaviors.

50:21 Complexities of human behavior and feeling secure.

55:46 Committing to shadow work while raising children.

01:01:46 Emotional regulation as a coach.

01:09:06 Using a visual aid to understand emotions.

01:14:37 Reflecting on daily interactions and refining behavior for positive change.

01:19:34 Taking the leap into a new career.

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Create More Abundance in Your Life with This Mindset Shift Feb 07, 2024

Aaron and Marty dive deep into the difference between lack and love and how it impacts your ability to create abundance in your life.

The guys also share the impact of your words in creating abundance, how to invite others into your mission to promote change, and why your entrepreneurial goals should come from a place of love, not lack.

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Chapters:

00:00 While lack leads to toxic feelings, love leads to abundance.

03:40 How to invite others to a bigger mission and promote change.

09:50 Why choose love over external pressure for fulfillment?

12:28 Navigating growth through style and self-confidence.

15:34 Embracing desires without needing to justify anything.

16:52 Entrepreneurial goals should stem from love.

21:47 The atonement theory and its implications.

26:11 The time and work behind discovering oneself.

28:15 How to architect and design a life of abundance.

31:44 The power of cultivating childlike joy.

36:08 Setting goals based on vision of success.

42:45 Reflection and the goal-setting process.

45:16 Passion, pursuit, and personal growth.

47:09 Closing thoughts

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Is Grit is Holding You Back in Your Business? Jan 31, 2024

Grit has always been promoted as a defining trait of successful entrepreneurs but is it holding you back in your business?

Aaron brings it today on Get Out Of Your Own Way by taking the concept of grit head on. He shares the dangers of equating grit to not quitting, why you should embrace tough decisions, and how to overcome victim mentality in your business.

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00:00 Growing up with grit.

06:01 Seeking growth through suffering.

08:09 Redefining grit.

11:38 The victim mentality.

14:17 Sometimes, quitting is necessary for personal growth.

18:52 Making tough choices and, defining freedom.

20:36 Maintaining toughness.

23:12 You’re worthy.

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Master Your Fears with Polar Explorer Akshay Nanavati Jan 24, 2024

In this episode, we have the privilege of welcoming Akshay Nanavati, a remarkable individual who has conquered his own fears and challenges to embark on extraordinary journeys. Akshay shares his personal journey of transformation, from battling fear and addiction to finding courage and purpose. The conversation delves into the concept of embracing fear, the importance of self-awareness, and the pursuit of a worthy struggle. Akshay's upcoming 110-day solo, 1,700-mile crossing of Antarctica is discussed, along with the mindset and preparation involved in such a monumental endeavor. Join us as we explore the transformative power of confronting fear, embracing pain, and finding the courage to get out of your own way.

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00:00 Overcoming fear, PTSD, depression, and addiction to become an adventure athlete pushing his limits.

08:47 Embracing the greater struggle.

13:36 How courage is key to mastering any virtue.

20:14 Fear is okay.

23:42 Overcoming fear and embracing life fully.

28:47 Calculated actions towards personal growth and discomfort.

34:30 Seek transcendence, embrace discomfort, and redefine suffering.

40:28 Struggle with worthiness, enoughness, and lovability.

45:48 Challenging worthiness and love in relationships.

48:24 How strong relationships are built on self-worth and trust.

53:12 Seeking fulfillment through connection, not materialism.

58:16 Gratefulness and positive surroundings.

01:03:45 Changing questions changes answers.

01:08:56 Finding meaning in mortality.

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How To Meditate And Why Jan 17, 2024

In this episode, Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi take us on a journey to understand the true essence of meditation and its significance in our lives. They share personal insights, reflections, and offer a unique meditation session that will help you center yourself and tap into your inner voice. Join us as we explore the transformative impact of meditation and learn how it can empower us to navigate life's challenges with clarity and purpose.

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00:00 Common struggles with meditation and letting go of thoughts.

03:47 How creating space allows for mindful responses.

08:06 How the world shapes our beliefs about ourselves.

11:18 A guided meditation: Find comfort in 10 minutes.

14:12 Directing breath to a tense space to let go and embrace.

17:25 The unstoppable fire inside.

22:19 You are enough, worthy, and lovable.

24:58 Experience your own integration of business and life.

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Overcoming Disappointment and Setbacks: The Power of Adjusting Goals and Moving Forward Jan 10, 2024

In this episode, hosts Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi dive deep into the emotional challenges of setting and missing goals, the crippling effects of negative self-talk, and the resilience needed to adapt and continue pursuing our dreams.

From personal anecdotes to practical advice, they open up about their own experiences and guide listeners toward a path of self-discovery and intentional goal-setting. Join us as we navigate the complexities of self-doubt, fear, and regret, and learn how to move forward with purpose and self-trust.

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Why Embracing Change is the Key to Success with Adam La Barr Jan 03, 2024

Adam La Barr joins the show to discuss the importance of making intentional choices, being disciplined in order to achieve freedom, and why your decisions should be made through the lens of your core values.

Tune into find out how you can use change to help you achieve more in 2024!

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Overcoming Your Fear of Rejection is Your Answer to Success Dec 27, 2023

Welcome to the "Get Out Of Your Own Way" podcast, where we help you conquer the obstacles holding you back and achieve your full potential. In this episode, hosts Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi delve into the fear of rejection and the fear of success, two common challenges that can hinder personal and professional growth. They discuss the impact of these fears on entrepreneurship, personal development, and the importance of navigating rejection for success. Through their insightful conversation, they provide valuable tips on overcoming these fears and embracing rejection as a catalyst for growth. Join us as we explore the transformative power of confronting fear and stepping into the path of success.

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Escape the 9 to 5 and Reclaim Your Identity with Jamie Gruber Dec 19, 2023

Aaron Velky is joined by the one and only Jamie Gruber.

Jamie Gruber is the leader of Gobundance Emerge, which has produced over 40 millionaires and also the host of the Tribe of Millionaires podcast, one of the top podcasts in the world.

Jamie fearlessly shares his experiences of making life-altering decisions, from quitting a job to starting a business, and the personal growth and transformation that ensued.

In their poignant exchange, Aaron and Jamie offer wisdom and practical advice for navigating life's transitions and embracing personal growth, providing compelling insights and inspiration to help listeners on their own journeys of self-discovery and empowerment.

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Meditations with Marty: Visualizing Your Future Self Dec 19, 2023

Marty Nocchi leads you on a powerful meditation that will help you focus on visualizing and becoming your future self. Listen to this meditation in a quiet place, free of distraction, and enjoy this time to create life and future you desire.

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How to Uncover and Overcome Self-Sabotage: A Deep Dive into Wealth, Health, and Relationships Dec 19, 2023

In this episode, Aaron and Marty share their insights on recognizing and overcoming self-sabotaging behaviors and beliefs, emphasizing the importance of taking responsibility for initiating change.

The guys also touch upon the role of money and how it ties into one's sense of worth, as well as addressing the fear of change and the impulse to self-sabotage when confronted with it.

Stay tuned to learn how to navigate the intricacies of self-sabotage and Get Out of Your Own Way!

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The Power of Saying No: Embracing Boundaries for Personal Growth and Success Dec 19, 2023

Aaron Velky is joined by Get Out Of Your Own Way Integrator, Marty Nocchi, as they delve into the transformative practice of saying no and cutting ties with things that no longer serve a purpose.

Together, they share personal experiences, offer practical advice, and emphasize the impact of letting go to make room for meaningful opportunities. They also discuss why you should say no more often and how to identify an opportunity versus a distraction.

Tune into this week's episode to learn how to set personal boundaries so you can grow and attract success in your business and life.

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The 5 Ways You Get In Your Own Way Dec 19, 2023

In this episode, host Aaron Velky delves into the five ways individuals unknowingly hinder their own progress.

From aligning goals with values to breaking free from societal expectations, Aaron shares valuable insights and personal anecdotes to help listeners navigate their own paths to growth.

Join us as we explore the power of rewriting our own stories and embracing change for a brighter future.

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Welcome to Get Out of Your Own Way Dec 12, 2023

Aaron Velky, a transformational coach, introduces himself and his mission to help listeners solve their biggest problem—themselves.

With a blend of personal development, business insights, coaching, learning, and laughter, Aaron and his team coach leaders, entrepreneurs, teams, and companies to reach their next level of success and impact.

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