Stay ConnectedLive From Bed is your official invitation to hide from the world with me and unravel out loud.
Every Wednesday, I pull my favorite people under the covers—from internet icons to actual experts—to celebrate our bad habits, vent about friendships that fizzled, plans we’re praying get canceled, and milestones we’re nowhere near.
No unsolicited advice. No forced optimism. Just the thoughts we all have but wish someone else would say first—and a whole lot of commiserating.
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Disclaimer: you don’t have to know or like anything about basketball to enjoy this interview ;)
Jeanie Buss is the controlling owner and president of the LA Lakers - and quite frankly, the road she took to get there could be a season of ‘Succession’. As the owner and president of the Lakers, she’s one of the most powerful people in professional sports — and the true story of the Lakers is her origin story as well.
Her father, Jerry Buss, was the majority owner of the Lakers from when he bought the team in 1979 until he died in 2013. His 66% controlling ownership was eventually distributed amongst his six children through a trust, with each of them being granted an equal vote, and installing Jeanie as the Lakers’ governor and the team representative at NBA Board of Governors meetings. Per her father’s succession plan, Jeanie was chosen to take over as president and controlling owner and later became the first female controlling owner to guide her team to an NBA championship.[4]
We spoke about the ways Jeanie has steadfastly paved the way for herself in a male-dominated industry, specifically how she unapologetically embraced her femininity by doing things like posing in Playboy the same year as becoming president of The Forum…*chefs kiss*. She shot her pictorial in the stadium the Lakers played - where her father worked – and well, I just live for that kind of ballsiness.
We talked about her relationship with the former head coach of the Lakers, Phil Jackson, as well as their breakup, her decision not to have children, about the last memory she has of Kobe Bryant and how that tremendous loss impacted her. She opened up about the parts of her childhood she had to heal from, the surprise of gaining a full-blood sibling she didn’t know existed until a couple years ago, and the impossible aspects of working for the family business.
Needless to say, working so intimately with your family leaves room for conflicts, and the Buss family has definitely had their fair share. Many of you are probably familiar with a specific conflict between Jeanie and her brother Jim that resulted in her firing him, because, in short, she was worried he'd make trades the Lakers couldn't recover from. In response Jeanie’s older brothers sued her and mounted a campaign to remove Jeanie from her position. We talked about making that decision and where she and her brother stand today.
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Fun fact: I grew up next door (like actually next door) to the Playboy Mansion. So, to me, the girls next door really were the Girls Next Door.
It added another layer to my already colorful childhood, with parties and peacocks that kept me up for all hours of the night.
Then, one incredible day in 2005 E! Released a brand new show called…THE GIRLS NEXT DOOR, and the lives of every millennial girl changed forever. If you lived under a rock and have never seen this show (stop what you’re doing and go watch immediately), The Girls Next Door was a reality show about The Playboy Mansion, Hugh Hefner and his three girlfriends Holly, Bridget and Kendra. These dynamic women quickly became the stars of the show, and captured the hearts of families and young women nationwide. The show gave us a look inside the wild lifestyle of three very different women with one common interest: their boyfriend. It showed their extravagant costumes, the parties they’d host, vacations and day trips all over the world, their butlers, lavish lifestyle, and many, many dogs.
But, as with most things, their lives weren’t quite what they seemed. In addition to all the fun and playfulness the show captured, there was jealousy, manipulation, body issues, infighting, and a dark side to the boyfriend they were basically employed by.
And damn, did we GO THERE… Holly and Bridget joined me on this week’s episode, and were so honest and real about the years they lived at the mansion, dated Hef, and starred in (in my opinion !!!) one of the best reality shows of all time. Not only did we reminisce on the years we spent as neighbors, but they let me in on the secrets of the mansion, Hef’s world, the parts they’d rather forget, and everrrrryyything in between.
We explored Holly’s neurodivergence, some of the sexual aspects of the girls’ relationships with Hef, how they feel about his death, and how it impacts the way they think about him now. They told me all about the drama inside the mansion, the excuses they’d use to get out of going out or sex, diet culture within the house, the rules they were expected to follow, and answered ALL our burning, behind-the-scenes questions we’ve spent the last decade dying to know. Don’t quote me on this, but this might be one of the juiciest TMAI episodes of all time.
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Executive Producer Nick Stumpf
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*Trigger Warning* This episode contains extensive conversation about sexual abuse.
After two long weeks we (you and I) are finally back together, and I’m not going to spoil it, but we have an unnnnnreeeallll season coming your way…
Our guest this week is Jeannie Mai Jenkins, who you probably recognize from her eight seasons on The Real, Dancing with the Stars, or her new show Holey Moley!
This episode is extremely special because of how honest Jeannie was, and I know there is so much shared healing that will happen as a result of her openness.
To give you a little background: when Jeannie was nine years old, a family member that would frequently babysit her and her siblings began to sexually abuse her. The abuse lasted for years and ultimately, when Jeannie mustered up the courage to tell her mom what this man was doing to her, her mom doubted Jeannie’s described experience.
This interaction caused an eight-year-long rift between Jeannie, and her mom and they didn’t reconcile until years later. In an extremely raw and ground-breaking episode of Jeannie’s YouTube show Hello Hunnay, Jeannie invited her mom on the show to discuss, for what would be her first time in front of a camera, what had happened between them. The healing that happened in that episode was nothing short of inspiring, and something that I think all mothers and daughters should watch.
Jeannie and I talked about breaking traumatic chains and how to avoid passing your traumatic past on to a new generation. We discussed the difficult and complex task of healing mother daughter relationships, with or without going to therapy, how to know if you’re people-pleasing and how to stop it, depression and anxiety both pre- and post-partum, and the truth about how her traumatic childhood memories still affect her today.
Jeannie is remarkable, and I swear I had chills during this entire interview so, as always, let me know what you think and how you relate to what we talked about!
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After many requests from you guys. I finally convinced Dylan, my fiancé, my forever roommate, the old ball & chain, to return for a second episode!!
We talked about our biggest fears, what counts as cheating, how to deal with your significant other’s mental illness, and how we met.
There is so much oversharing to be enjoyed in this episode, as well as some major TMI insight into our relationship…
After this episode we’ll be taking a two week break to cook up some incredible new episodes for you! We’ll be back with a brand new season (and some of our best guests ever) on October 11th!
xxx
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I’ve been dying to talk to you guys about something…
In this episode, we talk about “Reparenting”: a concept I’ve been steadily working on for a few years now. And, not to be dramatic, but it saved my life. We talk about getting in touch with our inner child, what the process of reparenting actually looks like, and concrete ways for you to try it yourself.
Here are a couple questions to ask yourself:
- Do you feel like you’re a victim of the childhood you had, and what it lacked?
- Are you self-critical and overly harsh with yourself?
- Are you too permissive with yourself – do you have trouble setting limits, or consistently allow yourself to do things that are unhealthy or unsafe?
- Do you ignore your feelings, have trouble expressing your needs, or regulating your emotions?
- Do you find it hard to treat yourself with love and compassion?
We also talked about why we should avoid putting people on pedestals, and why seeing someone else post that they “have such an exciting announcement coming up…” is up there with the worst feelings ever.
Resources for today’s episode:
Hoffman Institute: Quad Checks
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Life update: My brother just got married!!!
I ugly cried my way through his wedding weekend and it was truly one of the most special weekends of my life.
SO, I thought this week we’d stick with the wedding theme, and listen back to one of my all-time favorite episodes with none other than icon, legend, and crop-top queen GWEN STEFANI.
We recorded this episode last summer, a week after Gwen married Blake Shelton - and we were the first people she talked to after the wedding. I’ve known Gwen my entire life, and seeing her so happy and getting to capture her elation after such a huge occasion was incredible. This episode is responsible for putting TMAI on the map and we’ve come far since then!
Not to be emo but…If you’ve been listening to this show since the Gwen episode, thank you! I’ll never be able to express my gratitude or love, you’re my favorite.
PS We’ll be back with a brand new episode next week!
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What’s worse: feeling shitty when everything in your life is going badly, or feeling shitty when nothing is seemingly wrong but you’re still unhappy?
Or when you’re “supposed to be happy”... but aren’t!
This week we dove head first into all the reasons I’m Sick and Tired:
Hot weather and sweating through my depression: Why tank tops and depression don’t mix.
Long Distance Friendships: feeling like I have too many friends, and no friends, all at the same time. And why these hour-long catch ups with my friends might be the death of me.
Hiding my period from full grown men (and children). Are we seriously still doing this?
Using birth control: What kind of birth control method are we all actually using? Condoms? The pill? Spray and Pray?
We also talked about saying goodbye to the women we’ll never be, and how to start hating yourself for who you actually are instead.
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Executive Producer Nick Stumpf
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I don’t know about you, but I’ve always found some aspects of the body positivity movement to be impossible to apply to my real life. From reciting affirmations in the mirror to feeling this daunting pressure to radically love every inch of myself, I just couldn’t get on board - it never felt realistic or achievable to me. But then I discovered Gabi Fresh’s content on Instagram and learned about the concept of body neutrality: which leaves room for the times we find it hardest to love ourselves and our physical body, rather than feeling like we have to be obsessed with the way we look 100% of the time. I knew after watching a few of Gabi’s videos, I had to have her on the show to commiserate about the days we just hate ourselves–to put it bluntly–and how to navigate our often-tumultuous relationship with our body, brain, and being.
Gabi Gregg AKA @gabifresh, to her almost-a-million Instagram followers is a creative director, writer, former blogger, designer, and the self-titled ‘OG Fat Girl’. Not only has she been posting her glam outfits for over a decade, she’s also, interestingly, one of the very first influencers to ever get into the brand collaboration space. From designing revolutionary swimsuits to creating stylish and highly-coveted plus-size clothing collections, there are very few things Gabi hasn’t done.
Gabi and I talked about the moments from our childhood when we first became aware of our body’s supposed shortcomings, and why we still remember those comments so sharply. I asked her if she feels Facetune and body neutrality are mutually exclusive, and how to confront people in your life, from your mom to your neighbor, that still insist on commenting on your body. We talked about feeling jealous when your friend loses weight, dating and being fetishized, reclaiming words like fat, and feeling like rejections are all rooted in people’s judgment of your body. Gabi shared her experience with both chronic illness and mental illness, how those impact her physical health, and why some people feel very strongly about her weight.
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Executive Producer Nick Stumpf
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This week’s Live From Bed is a little different, we’re LIVE from my office where Catherine and I sat down (together, in person for the very first time on tape) - and went deeper than we ever have.
Starting with an absolutely humiliating story, I answered tons of questions you submitted on my latest AMA and shared things I never have before. Like details about my parents divorce, all my tattoos, and how to make friends as an adult. We discussed fighting with your in-laws and how to navigate that shitty experience, when we lost our virginities/what it’s meant for our sex lives as adults, and dove into Jade’s latest obsession: the enneagram.
LOVE U xx
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things i’d rather not live without:
(These are just things I love, not sponsored!)
Today TikTok sensation Victoria Paris is on the show, and she blew my mind. She so articulately walked me through her messy past, and the dark side of the “fuck-you-success” she’s acquired, seemingly overnight.
Just 23, Victoria amassed over 1.7 million followers and counting across TikTok and Instagram. After losing her job and ending a relationship, Victoria moved to New York City in the middle of the pandemic and started her TikTok account to promote her Depop store, but found her passion in making videos. With content dedicated to fashion, fitness, and NYC lifestyle simultaneously, her dedicated fan base (dubbed “The Victorians”), look to her every move as she displays her intimate connections - including coming out as bisexual. She posts dozens of times a day, drawing viewers in with her stream-of-consciousness relatability, vlog-like filming style, and “cool girl” factor.
A minor note: Victoria is in the process of moving to LA, (a great decision…), so for her privacy, her neighborhood will be bleeped out in our conversation.
LOVE U xx
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Executive Producer Nick Stumpf
Produced by Catherine Law
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