Let’s Talk About It with Ashley

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Healing Ever After: A God-Size Story Of Redemption and Grace Aug 04, 2025

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In this heartfelt episode, Ashley talks with Kristie Guard about her book, Healing Ever After. They discuss the transformative power of sharing personal testimonies and the journey of healing through faith. Kristie shares her experiences of childhood trauma, the struggles in her marriage, and the importance of finding identity in Christ. They explore the concept of generational curses and the steps necessary for healing, emphasizing the need for honesty with God and the significance of community support. The discussion highlights the hope that exists for women feeling broken or unloved, reminding listeners that healing is possible and that they are never too far gone for God's grace.

Takeaways

Sharing testimonies can encourage and uplift others.

Reading faith-based books can enhance one's spiritual journey.

Healing often requires revisiting painful past experiences.

God can work miracles in broken relationships.

Our identity should be rooted in Christ, not in our past.

Generational curses can be broken through faith and surrender.

Practical steps to healing include prayer, reading scripture, and seeking help.

It's important to acknowledge and own our struggles to heal.

God is always present, even in our darkest moments.

Healing is a journey that takes time and patience.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

04:59 Kristie's Journey to Writing Healing Ever After

09:16 The Lies We Believe

13:59 Writing for the Brokenhearted

19:10 Encouragement for the Stuck and Ashamed

23:43 God's Work in Restoration

29:44 The Miracle of Marriage and Healing Journeys

38:33 Inviting God into Hidden Spaces

44:33 Finding Fulfillment in Jesus

48:56 The Hope of Healing Ever After

Kristie's Book "Healing Ever After"

https://a.co/d/2MEtQma

Kristie's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@kristieguard

Kristie's Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/kristie.addair.guard

Ashley's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkaboutitwithash

Ashley's YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@LetsTalkAboutltwithAsh

Order In The House: A Biblical Look At Church Leadership Jul 28, 2025

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In this episode, Ashley discusses the biblical structure of the local church, emphasizing the roles of pastors, deacons, and women within the church. She highlights the importance of Christ as the head of the church and the shepherding role of pastors. The conversation also delves into the responsibilities of deacons as servant leaders and the various roles women can play in the church, advocating for their value and contributions.

Takeaways

Christ is the head of the church.

Pastors serve as shepherds, caring for and guiding their flock.

Deacons are appointed to serve and support the pastor and church community.

Women have significant roles within the church, contributing to its mission.

Understanding the structure of the church helps in fulfilling its purpose.

Pastors should preach the truth of God's Word, not personal opinions.

The church needs both men and women to fulfill its mission effectively.

Engaging with scripture personally is essential for spiritual growth.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections

06:17 The Role of Pastors in the Church

17:11 The Role of Deacons in the Church

24:07 Understanding Women's Roles in the Church

32:54 Women in Leadership: Perspectives and Responsibilities

37:01 Empowering Women to Serve in the Church

Ashley's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkaboutitwithash

Ashley's YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@LetsTalkAboutltwithAsh

Kristie's Book "Healing Ever After"

https://a.co/d/2MEtQma

Church: Why Being In The Room Matters Jul 21, 2025

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In this episode, Ashley explores the significance of church attendance and community in a Christian's life. She addresses common misconceptions about church, emphasizing that while one can have a relationship with Jesus outside of church, being part of a local church is essential for spiritual growth and community support. The discussion includes biblical references to the nature of the church, the importance of fellowship, and the need for accountability among believers. Ashley encourages listeners to overcome past church hurts and to recognize their unique contributions to the church community.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Importance of Church

01:48 Understanding the Biblical Concept of Church

11:45 The Role of Community in Church

17:16 Why We Need the Church

29:41 The Church Needs You

30:48 Conclusion and Call to Action

Ashley's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkaboutitwithash

Ashley's YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@LetsTalkAboutltwithAsh

Forgiveness: Letting Go and Letting God Jul 14, 2025

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In this episode, Ashley explores the complex yet essential topic of forgiveness, emphasizing its biblical foundations and the importance of extending grace to others as God has done for us.

The conversation delves into the nature of God's forgiveness, the command to forgive, and the personal journey of forgiving oneself.

Through scriptural references and personal insights, Ashley encourages listeners to embrace forgiveness as a means to live in freedom and peace.

Takeaways

Forgiveness is an intentional decision to let go of resentment and anger.

God's forgiveness is unconditional and for everyone willing to accept it.

Forgiveness reflects God's character and nature.

We are commanded to forgive others just as God has forgiven us.

The parable of the unforgiving debtor illustrates the importance of extending forgiveness.

Forgiveness is not always forgetting or reconciliation.

Forgiveness is necessary for personal healing and freedom.

We can forgive even when an apology is not given.

Holding onto unforgiveness can lead to bitterness and anger.

Self-forgiveness is crucial for moving forward in life.

Chapters

00:00 The Complexity of Forgiveness

01:57 Understanding Biblical Forgiveness

03:11 The Command to Forgive

07:35 The Model Prayer and Its Implications

10:49 The Parable of the Unforgiving Debtor

14:31 The Limitless Nature of Forgiveness

16:49 What Forgiveness Is Not

20:48 Forgiveness and Reconciliation

22:06 The Personal Nature of Forgiveness

26:34 Forgiving Yourself

28:25 Living in the Freedom of Forgiveness

Ashley's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkaboutitwithash

Ashley's YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@LetsTalkAboutltwithAsh

Amazing Grace: A Deep Dive Into God's Unmerited Favor Jul 07, 2025

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In this episode, Ashley and Kristie explore the profound concept of God's grace within the Christian faith. They discuss the definitions of grace and mercy, the importance of understanding our state before Christ, and how grace is a transformative force in our lives. Through biblical examples such as the Prodigal Son and the woman caught in adultery, they illustrate how grace is extended to us and how it should inspire us to extend grace to others. The conversation emphasizes that grace is a free gift that leads to salvation and transformation, encouraging listeners to reflect on their understanding and application of grace in their lives.

Takeaways

Grace is when we get what we don't deserve.

God's grace is given to us when we do not deserve it.

Nobody is ever too far gone for God.

Grace covers our sin and mistakes.

Grace doesn't wait for us to clean ourselves up.

Grace is the foundation for our salvation.

We are no different than the prodigal son.

Grace is supposed to change our hearts.

What would Jesus do in this situation?

Grace is not our default mode.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Overview of Grace

01:35 Understanding Mercy vs. Grace

04:19 The Nature of Humanity Before Christ

06:18 The Role of Grace in Salvation

08:05 Grace in Action: The Prodigal Son

13:45 Grace in Action: The Woman Caught in Adultery

17:30 Understanding Grace and Forgiveness

21:37 The Transformation of Grace

28:02 Living Out Grace in Daily Life

32:40 Reflecting on Grace and Future Conversations

Ashley's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkaboutitwithash

Ashley's YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@LetsTalkAboutltwithAsh

Kristie's Book "Healing Ever After"

https://a.co/d/2MEtQma

Kristie's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@kristieguard

Kristie's Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/kristie.addair.guard

Walk In Purpose Jun 30, 2025

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In this episode, Ashley and Kristie explore the themes of identity in Christ, purpose, and the importance of spiritual gifts in fulfilling God's calling. They discuss how understanding our identity helps us recognize our purpose on earth, which is to make God known. The conversation emphasizes that ministry begins at home and extends to wherever we are. They also delve into discovering and utilizing our spiritual gifts to serve others and glorify God, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique calling and live with purpose.

Takeaways

We are called and forgiven as children of God.

Understanding our identity in Christ is crucial for knowing our purpose.

Our primary purpose is to make God known to others.

Ministry starts at home with our families.

Each person has a unique spiritual gift given by God.

We should discover and use our spiritual gifts to serve others.

Our ministry is wherever we are, not just in formal settings.

God equips us with gifts to fulfill our calling.

Living with purpose means impacting others for God's glory.

Embracing who God created us to be leads to fulfillment.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Our Purpose in God

03:35 The Great Commission and Our Calling

08:34 Ministry Starts at Home

13:55 Discovering Spiritual Gifts

25:32 Understanding Purpose and Impact

30:39 Embracing Your Gifts and Surrendering to God

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Ashley's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkaboutitwithash

Ashley's YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@LetsTalkAboutltwithAsh

Kristie's Book "Healing Ever After"

https://a.co/d/2MEtQma

Kristie's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@kristieguard

Kristie's Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/kristie.addair.guard

Who Are We? Jun 23, 2025

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In this episode Ashley Anderson and Kristie Guard delve into the profound theme of identity in Christ. They explore how women often define themselves by their roles, such as being a mother or a wife, rather than recognizing their true identity as children of God. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding one's identity in Christ, which leads to freedom from societal pressures and expectations. Through scriptural references, they discuss concepts of redemption, forgiveness, and the unconditional love of God, encouraging listeners to embrace their identity and calling in Christ.

Takeaways

Our identity should be rooted in Christ, not in our roles.

Identifying by roles can lead to exhaustion and confusion.

Understanding our identity in Christ changes our perspective.

We are chosen, holy, blameless, and adopted by God.

Forgiveness through Christ means we are free from sin.

God's love for us is unconditional and everlasting.

We are called to participate in God's purpose.

Our identity informs our purpose in life.

We must compare our beliefs about ourselves to God's Word.

Embracing our identity in Christ leads to true freedom.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Our Identity in Christ

08:18 The Dangers of Role-Based Identity

15:29 Scriptural Insights on Identity

25:05 The Assurance of Being Chosen and Adopted

29:46 The Nature of Forgiveness in Christ

38:18 Our Calling and Purpose in God's Kingdom

41:21 Walking in Freedom and Identity in Christ

Ashley's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkaboutitwithash

Ashley's YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@LetsTalkAboutItwithAsh

Kristie's Book "Healing Ever After"

https://a.co/d/2MEtQmq

Kristie's TikTok

https://www.tiktok.com/@kristieguard

Kristie's Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/kristie.addair.guard

Podcast Introduction Jun 20, 2025

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Keywords

faith, community, podcast, Christian journey, personal testimony, encouragement, identity in Christ, spiritual growth, discipleship, grace

Summary

In this episode, Ashley Anderson shares her personal journey of faith, discussing her transformation after meeting Jesus in her thirties. She emphasizes the importance of community in the Christian walk and introduces her new podcast, aiming to encourage and support listeners in their faith journey. Ashley expresses her desire to share her experiences and insights while inviting others to join her in exploring key Christian themes.

Takeaways

I did not actually meet Jesus for myself until I was in my early thirties.

My salvation was nothing I did. He saw me, he sought me out.

The biggest thing he has taught me is that we all need Jesus and we all need each other.

The Christian walk is not an easy walk and God never intended us to walk this road alone.

If you continue to ask God for those friends, He will send them to you in His perfect timing.

I am by no means perfect. I'm not a theologian.

You will walk through one open door at a time.

Either God will bless this podcast or he will redeem it.

We may be mutually encouraged by each other's faith.

You have a place here. You have a seat at this table.

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