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268: What If Your Struggles Are Trying to Tell You Something? with Jay Stringer Dec 29, 2025

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Tune in as the KS team interviews Jay Stringer to explore the profound impact of childhood on adult behaviors. Jay shares insights from his book "Unwanted," discussing how understanding our past can lead to healing and growth. You're in for a candid conversation that blends personal stories with expert advice!

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Introduction to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast- 00:41

Guest Introduction: Jay Stringer- 01:05

Verse of the Day: Psalm 139:17- 01:14

Jay's Background and Work- 03:04

Discussion on Childhood and Behavior- 04:51

Jay's Journey to Becoming a Counselor- 09:22

Overview of Jay's Book 'Unwanted'- 13:34

From Shame to Curiosity to Healing- 16:30

Counseling and Childhood Influence- 24:41

Closing Prayer- 41:02

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267: Have A Spicy Christmas + Get To Know The Team! Dec 22, 2025

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Curious how to keep things spicy over the holidays?? We share how YOU guys keep things spicy and intentional despite the busyness of the Christmas season. Plus we share some of our own Christmas traditions and even how we all met!

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[00:36] Introduction and Welcome

[01:04] Verse of the Day

[01:12] Christmas Episode Ideas

[01:19] Listener Suggestions

[02:00] Practical Tips
[02:06] Past Episode Reference [02:40] Personal Stories [10:52] Christmas Traditions

[10:59] Favorite Christmas Movies and Songs [11:30] Christmas Cookies and Traditions 11:40] Closing Prayer

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266: Ask A Pastor! with Phil Collins Dec 15, 2025

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You asked, and a pastor answered! Join Tiera and Alana as they dive into an enlightening conversation with Pastor Phil Collins, exploring the intersection of faith, intimacy, and personal growth. Discover how sex can be a form of worship, the importance of mutual care in marriage, and the role of the church in addressing sensitive topics.

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00:43.3 - Introduction and Welcome

02:30.8 - Phil Collins' Background

05:54.6 - Pastors and Sexual Intimacy

08:31.3 - Church and Sexuality

14:09.3 - Sex as Worship

20:27.9 - Convictions About Sexual Acts

40:51.6 - Mutual Care in Marriage

46:10.9 - Intimacy Beyond Intercourse

48:29.2 - Incorporating Spiritual Practices

51:46.1 - Common Counseling Issues

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265: Christmas Q&A: Making Christmas PJs Sexy, Disagreeing About Family Time, and The Post-Holiday Letdown Dec 08, 2025

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Christmas is all fun and games until you realize you haven’t had sex since the Elf on the Shelf showed up. In this special Q&A we dive into holiday stress, low desire, full houses, and how to actually prioritize each other during the chaos. Cozy up, this episode is real and super helpful!

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(00:00:00) Introduction and Episode Overview

(00:03:00) Impact of Family Dynamics on Intimacy

(00:09:00) Managing Holiday Stress and Expectations

(00:15:00) Creative Ways to Maintain Connection

(00:21:00) Balancing Family Obligations and Personal Traditions

(00:27:00) Post-Holiday Letdown and Planning Ahead

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264: Less Phone, More Intimacy - with Joey Odom Dec 01, 2025

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Is your phone stealing more from your marriage than you realize? Joey Odom from Reclaimwell joins us to unpack the data, the spiritual side of self-control, and how couples and churches can use tech without losing intimacy. Such a needed conversation in a world that never stops buzzing.

Note: Joey & his team have moved on from Reclaimwell/Aro and we have included his new info below.

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(0:00) Introduction

(1:31) Verse Discussion

(3:01) Guest Introduction

(4:01) Joey's Story

(10:01) Reclaimwell's Journey

(15:01) Cultural Impact

(20:01) Spiritual Implications

(30:01) Practical Advice

(40:01) Impact on Relationships

(50:01) Final Thoughts and Prayer

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263: She Got Her PhD in Purity Culture with Ashley Hudson Nov 24, 2025

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Purity culture shaped a lot of us… but what happens when those old messages start showing up in your marriage? In this episode, therapist Ashley Hudson breaks down how shame, fear, and performance pressure sneak into intimacy and what healing can actually look like. If you’ve ever wondered why sex still feels complicated even though you’re married, this one’s going to hit home.

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262: Can One Weekend Transform Your Marriage? Nov 17, 2025

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Tune in as we share our experience from the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat! We answer the questions you sent in on Instagram like: - what actually happens at a retreat? - how much does it cost?, - what if your spouse doesn't want to go? - how were our marriages impacted from this weekend away?

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261: How Often Are Couples Having Sex? Nov 10, 2025

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In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest questions couples ask: how often should we be having sex? We’ll break down what research actually says about sexual frequency, why comparison steals joy, and how to find a healthy rhythm that fits your marriage and season of life. This conversation will help you let go of “normal” and focus instead on connection, communication, and grace.

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260: Surrendering Sexuality with Dr. Juli Slattery Nov 03, 2025

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In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins Alana and Tiera to talk about what it really means to surrender our sexuality to God. They unpack why so many Christians struggle to trust Him with their desires, how intimacy points to something deeper, and what surrender looks like in everyday life.

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259: How Stress Impacts Your Sex Life Oct 27, 2025

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Can stress really kill your sex life? Yep- but the flip side might surprise you. We’re breaking down the science of stress, the power of intimacy, and God’s design for connection in hard seasons.

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