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140: Keeping Score Jul 17, 2023

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We all seem to do it sometimes... so let's talk about keeping score. Is there any benefit to this in a marriage? Is it a useful tool? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat all about it- tune in now!

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139: Spontaneous Sex VS Scheduled Sex Jul 10, 2023

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The great debate is finally happening. The Kingdom Sexuality Team finally discusses the pros and cons of scheduling sex vs keeping sex spontaneous! You won't want to miss it!!

Links from today's episode:

ONE Extraordinary Marriage

Episode 133: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids

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138: The Female Cycle & Pleasure Jul 03, 2023

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Ladies, do you notice your energy or mood change throughout your cycle? Did you know there are certain times in your cycle your body is more "ready" to be intimate?? Tune into this casual chat with Alana and Tiera as Tiera guides us through the female cycle and how it impacts pleasure! Links from today's episode: - Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book - Beloved Fertility use the code KSFOLLOWER to get $50 off any package! - TempDrop Fertility Tracker Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want more? Come hang out with us!

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137: God, Sex, & Your Marriage with Dr. Juli Slattery Jun 26, 2023

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You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode where Alana and Kyle sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery and talk about her new book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage. They talk about how, when it comes to Christian sexuality and marriage, there are common issues like a lack of intimacy and communication and that being "sexually active" isn't the same as being "sexually intimate." Juli explains how, to build intimacy, couples can talk openly and seek help if needed. And how, in a Christian marriage, it's about finding a balance of passion and pleasure, not just ticking off "marital duty" boxes. God cares about our sexual growth and maturity, focusing on respect, understanding, and having fun along the way! You won't want to miss this one!

If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!

Links from today's episode:

Juli Slattery's website: authenticintimacy.com

God Sex and Your Marriage book

Java with Juli Podcast

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136: Creating a Radical Relationship with Kim and Darlene Unrau Jun 19, 2023

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You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana did with Kim and Darlene Unrau. Combining all of the training these two have creates this incredible Jesus-loving, marriage-equipping, and very wise couple! So tune in and enjoy the wealth of knowledge that Kim and Darlene bring!

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Links from today's episode:

Kim and Darlene's Website

Books mentioned on today's episode:

Awaken Love

The 5 Love Needs of Men & Women

The Gift of Sex

Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

Eight Dates

Good Pictures Bad Pictures - Young Kids

Good Pictures Bad Picture - Junior

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135: A Clinical Psychologist Answers YOUR Questions! with Dr. Josh Kruse Jun 12, 2023

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Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! In this Dr. Josh Kruse, a Registered Psychologist at Dr. Josh Kruse & Associates Counselling & Consulting, and Pastor at Village Church (@thisisvillagechurch) in Surrey, Canada, answers all of these questions and more! Kyle and Alana bring the questions that YOU asked over on Instagram. Dr. Josh is a wealth of knowledge, you're not going to want to miss this one!! - What is counseling actually like? (5:30) - When to go to counseling? (8:00) - What if one spouse wants to go and the other refuses? (9:20) - What should/does premarital counseling look like? (14:00) - How to set up the wedding night for sexual success? (17:40) - What to do when one of the couple has previous sexual experience and the other doesn’t? How much to disclose to your spouse about your sexual past? (20:40) - If my marriage is in a good place, what purpose does it serve to see a counselor? (24:55) - How to rebuild connection when I feel like it’s gone? (28:40) - How to manage emotions and stay present during conflict/tough conversations? (31:15) - How to be a supportive wife when I feel like his work and projects take up all his time? (35:55) - How to get over resentment towards my spouse from unmet expectations? (38:35) - What to do when you feel like you can’t bounce back after an argument? Or when neither person will back down and it’s a stalemate? (40:45) - How to maintain the marriage when your spouse is battling depression? (45:00) - How to feel loved when my spouse won’t love me by my love language? (47:35) - What is the biggest difference you see between couples that are doing great vs those that are struggling? (51:15) - How to handle when one spouse wants something but the other doesn’t? (54:00) - How to manage when one spouse has a much higher sex drive than the other? Or when it seems like one spouse is apathetic towards sex? (58:55) - How can women turn their mind off and just enjoy sex? (1:02:25) - How to talk about past sexual trauma with my spouse? (1:06:25) Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Links from today’s episode: Dr. Josh Kruse: Website Instagram Podcast

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134: Can You Affair-Proof Your Marriage? with Unrelenting Pursuit Jun 05, 2023

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You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview with Unrelenting Pursuit!! In this episode, Alana and Tiera sit down with Brad and Lisa Valencia and explore the intricacies of affairs and their impact on relationships. Brad and Lisa share their story and then they discuss what constitutes an affair and the difference between emotional and physical affairs. The concept of "affair-proofing" a marriage is debated, along with thoughts on friendships with the opposite sex and whether porn addiction can be considered an affair. Signs of infidelity are explored, along with insights on self-blame and handling judgment from others. Also, in the episode they provide guidance on confessing, deciding whether to stay or divorce, and how to start rebuilding trust. You're not going to want to miss this one. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Unrelenting Pursuit

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133: PATRON'S CHOICE: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids May 29, 2023

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Shout out to our lovely patrons who decided on this week's podcast episode topic! Want to know more about Patreon? Check it out here!

In this episode, Alana, Tiera, and Kyle explore ways to maintain intimacy when you have young kids. From feeling "touched out" to co-sleeping dilemmas, they've got you covered. Discover whether it's acceptable to have a romantic encounter while the little ones are in the room and learn how to spark desire even when you're utterly exhausted. They also tackle the awkward scenario of kids walking in at the wrong moment and how much PDA is acceptable around your kids! With practical advice like scheduling date nights, flirty texts, shared hobbies, and creative use of spaces, you'll find plenty of inspiration to keep the romance alive amidst the chaos of parenting.

Links from today's episode:

Birds & Bee's (use the code KINGDOM for 20% off the course!)

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132: Honeymoon Hangover- Family + Finances May 22, 2023

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Join the KS Team as they explore the challenges faced by newlywed couples in navigating changing family dynamics and dealing with finances in this new season. They discuss the concept of "leaving and cleaving," highlighting three important aspects: financial leaving, emotional leaving, and spiritual leaving. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle also emphasize the importance of open communication and setting boundaries with families, while maintaining empathy and understanding. Additionally, the Team provide insights into managing finances as a married couple, including tithing, joint bank accounts, bill payments, regular financial check-ins, and aligning spending priorities. Overall, this episode aims to equip newlyweds with practical tools to navigate the complexities of family dynamics and financial management in their marriage journey. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Ruthless Elimination of Hurry book Love Your First Year (use code KINGDOM15 for a discount!) Faithful Counseling

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131: Advice We Wish We'd Gotten During Engagement May 15, 2023

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Engagement is an exciting time, but it can also be stressful and confusing. Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about advice they DID receive during their own seasons of engagement and advice they WISH they had gotten while they were engaged. Some tips they shared were; when it comes to sex, take your time and learn each other's anatomy, find trusted mentors to help keep you accountable during dating and engagement, have conversations about "sexpectations" before AND after the wedding, get good premarital counseling, and be explicit with each other about your needs and wants. These tips can help make your engagement easier and more enjoyable. And remember, the wedding is just the beginning of your journey together!!

Links from today's episode:

Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Run Down

Faithful Counseling

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