Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Episode 220: The Ever-Present Confusion of Our Early 20s Nov 21, 2022

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Forget the hierarchies you’ve been taught! Here are other beliefs you should free yourself from: you need to save the people you love from their own sadness, your relationship was perfect “except for that one tiny detail…” (like living in different cities and not wanting an LDR), and that a speedboat’s trajectory is better than a sailboat’s.

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BLIND DATE: The Great Believers

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The Meaning of Sex: An Interview with Angela Chen Nov 17, 2022

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Angela is a journalist, editor, and author of Sam's favorite book, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex. The conversation covers emotional bravery, compulsory sexuality, and nuanced consent.

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BLIND DATE: Vespertine by Björk

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Episode 219: Too Much Self-Awareness Can Make Our Tummies Hurt Nov 14, 2022

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We can’t move through this world without hurting people. Here’s what we CAN do: create new holiday traditions and hope our parents are okay with that, see our partners for who they are NOW and not who their exes say they were, and either shoot our shot or get off the pot (or simply say good to our nine-year vague-posting back-and-forth dumpster fire).

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BLIND DATE: timeshel

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Episode 218: This is Not the Horrible Corpse You Think It Is Nov 07, 2022

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If your cucumber is in brine, you can still stop it before it becomes a pickle. Effective interventions include: accepting that other forms of sex may be more available to and successful for you, communicating your boundaries actively, firmly, consistently, lovingly, and long before they’re needed, and working toward self-love that feels nothing like settling.

(apologies for Sierra's audio! stuff happens! it'll be fixed next week!)

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BLIND DATE: timeshel

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Penile Diversity: An Interview with Oscar Montoya Nov 03, 2022

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Oscar is an actor, podcaster, and improviser from LA. Most recently, he played Richie on the hit HBO show Minx. The conversation covers male nudity in media, multi-dimensional queer characters, and learning body positivity through acting.

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BLIND DATE: The Bread

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Episode 217: Are You More of An Ariel or Eric (or… Ursula)? Oct 31, 2022

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There is no path, just a forest full of trees. As you make your way through the woods, remember: your ex deleting pictures of you is not the same as erasing the memory of you, being right doesn’t mean it’s your right to interject, breakups are destabilizing and devastating and we WILL get through them, and Jafar is totally camp.

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BLIND DATE: timeshel

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Episode 216: As If The Human Experience Wasn’t Hard Enough Oct 24, 2022

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Dignity? A thing of the past! The new thing is: holding firm to what you want in a relationship even if that means your current one ends, not letting one good night of conversation eclipse three years of harmful behavior, and going to therapy to work through retroactive jealousy (or just in general, if you have the means!).

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BLIND DATE: Queer For Fear

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Episode 215: Universal Chillness is Not Your Cross to Bear Oct 17, 2022

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We all tell ourselves stories. Just make sure you’re not using them to: avoid accountability for your actions, gaslight yourself into thinking your very reasonable discomfort is irrational jealousy, invalidate your future hardships because you’ve seen others go through worse, or, under any circumstances, justify buying a kitten for your ex.

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BLIND DATE: Dang! That's Weird

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Episode 214: We May Not Have Control, But We Do Have Power Oct 10, 2022

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You don’t need to change someone’s perception of you to be valid. Here’s what you can do instead: sit with the discomfort that you’re the villain in someone else’s story, find ways to meet your needs without extracting them from other people, and refuse to give relationship nostalgia more weight than it needs (or say fuck it and shoot your shot—it worked for Sierra and her wife!).

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BLIND DATE: Invisiblia - The P Word

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Episode 213: “Agree to Disagree” Is For Books, Not Lived Experiences Oct 03, 2022

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Sometimes you just have to learn a lesson until it’s learned. Worthwhile lessons include: trust is not the absence of jealousy, it’s not on you to turn your partner into the person you need them to be, true love is neither butterflies nor settling—it’s stability, contentment, fulfillment, vulnerability—and no, you probably don’t have a good reason to unblock-block-block your ex.

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BLIND DATE: Savage Appetites by Rachel Monroe

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