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When Is Flirting Creepy? (Andre Lazarus) Aug 15, 2023

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Talking about flirting and creepiness with men can be challenging sometimes. I’ve heard folks literally say you can’t even flirt anymore because it could lead to negative consequences. Today, I’m going to chat about the difference between flirting and creepiness. Spoilers: it’s all about the dynamic between two people, not about what one person is communicating.

Our guest today is Andre Lazarus, an Intimacy and Sex coach, a Surrogate Partner, and a Sacred Intimate with over 10 years of experience in non monogamy. His new project is the Open to More: How to Navigate Consensual Non-monogamy course at https://coming-closer.com/. You can find him @comingcloserwithandre on social media. Now let’s talk about fragility, defensiveness, and creepiness - and best of all, how to do your best to avoid them and channel accountability, consent, and nurturance here on Intimate Interactions.

How I got into this kind of work (Roy Biancalana) Aug 08, 2023

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Today I’m interviewing Roy Biancalana, a 62 year old white guy who was once a TV analyst from Florida. I know you’re probably not sure where this is going - usually when someone says man from Florida, you’re expecting to to be like a “man from Alberta” story but bigger, crazier, Americaner. In this case, I’m interviewing a Chicago-based relationship coach of 15 years who self-describes as having made almost every relationship mistake a cis heterosexual man can make.

This episode we’ll get to know each other a little and talk about accountability.

Site: https://coachingwithroy.com/

Book: Relationship Bootcamp

Podcast: The Attracting, Lasting Love Podcast

Blissipline, a Community Culture of Effort and Consistency (Mahima) Aug 01, 2023

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Mahima is back to talk about daily practices and consistency. Many of us say we want to be disciplined, but she uses the word “blissiplined” in that discipline need not be an onerous task or strife. She’ll discuss the importance of a community and the culture they embody and model for you. We’ll touch on the importance of play in making daily practices compelling. Finally, content warning for the word “tribe” to mean a small community of non indigneous people forming close relationships.

Resources

Simon Sinec - Start with Why

It won't change unless you do

Done w feeling busy with this story

Atomic habits

The obstacle is the way

Grit by Duckworth

Keep Sharp by Sanjay Gupta

Psilocybin and the Power to Change (Susannah Rose Stokes) Jul 25, 2023

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Psilocybin containing mushrooms are increasingly in research publications these days. In February 2022, Johns Hopkins published a follow up study suggesting the anti-depressant effects of psilocybin-assisted psychotherapy for those with Major Depressive Disorder may last at least a year for some patients, see show notes for the study.

Today we’ll be talking with Susannah Rose Stokes about metamorphosis and transformation. Our conversation will wander from sacred sexuality to church culture, from bdsm culture and brat identities back to sexuality and threesomes. And of course, we’ll talk about mushrooms from microdoses to hero doses. I’ll even share a recent mishap involving my first experience with Costa Rican mushrooms. Enjoy.

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/02698811211073759

https://www.instagram.com/susannahroses/?hl=en

https://www.linkedin.com/in/golden-rule-leadership

https://opentomore.mykajabi.com/ (Open to More course)

Intimacy Exercises without Penetration (Andre Lazarus) Jul 18, 2023

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Today we’re talking with Andre Lazarus, an Intimacy and Sex coach with over 10 years of experience in non monogamy. His new project is the Open to More: How to Navigate Consensual Non-monogamy course at https://coming-closer.com/. You can find him @comingcloserwithandre on social media. Now, let’s chat about intimate things we can do with our partners that don’t involve penetration. For those of you who love penetration, note that these exercises might improve intimacy and through that, improve the quality of the penetrative sex you have later on. Your mileage may vary, but either way good luck!

Resources

Non-Violent Communication (NVC) the book helped me with boundaries
The Assertiveness Workbook helped me with passivity and passive-aggressive communication

We talk about indie intimacy po0rn and I refer to https://Afourchamberedheart.com

Never Have I Ever VII (Juniper, Robin) Jul 11, 2023

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Robin Beatch, the Sex Positive, Lifestyle Inclusive Talk Radio host from SPLIT Radio will join us today. You can follow Robin @sexwithrobin on instagram. Robin is a queer, non monogamous sex educator, coach, consultant, former stripper, former nurse, pro domme, and parent of two. Juniper, my only ever one night stand, is also back to add her positive, fun self to the mix.

Never Have I Ever is a party game where we try to find things we haven’t done that the others have done.

Today we’ll be talking about shitting our pants, recording ourselves having sex, and faking orgasms. You can find the audio recordings of people getting off here at Sounds of Pleasure dot Tumblr dot com.

Peace of the Moment (Mahima) Jul 04, 2023

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Mahima is back, the woman who grew up in apartheid Zimbabwe and now introduces herself as Europe’s number one self mastry expert. Today we’ll talk about her journey through love and intimacy from 26 where she meets a new man precipitating a spiritual awakening. We talk about dancing with shadow energy for your whole life and giving much less of a fuck since turning 21. Content warnings for body image and weight loss. Don’t worry, we’ll end on a body positive note and giving far less of a fuck.

Sex Surrogates and Therapists (Andre Lazarus) Jun 27, 2023

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Today we’re talking about sexual surrogacy: what is it, who does it, how does it work, and is it sex work. Andre Lazarus, a Surrogate Partner and Sacred Intimate himself with over 10 years of experience in non monogamy, joins us to give us the goods. His new project is the Open to More: How to Navigate Consensual Non-monogamy course at https://coming-closer.com/. You can find him @comingcloserwithandre on social media.

Resources

IPSA (International Professional Surrogacy Association)

https://www.surrogatetherapy.org/

Twice Have I Ever II (Melody Anne, Sara) Jun 20, 2023

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We’re back with At Least Twice Have I Ever with Melody Anne from Erotic Education with Melody Anne, and Ms. Sara Blaze, a woman of many identities from mom to conference organizer to dominatrix.

Twice Have I Ever is a party game where we try to pick something we’ve done at least twice that the others have not done.

Today, we’ll talk about being choked out during sex, recording porn, having group sex, and lots more!

From Marine Corps to Sacred Sexuality (Susannah Rose Stokes) Jun 13, 2023

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Sacred Sexuality is a simple idea and sometimes a convoluted topic. Susannah Rose is back today to talk about how intimacy and relationships are shaped by our culture and origin story: monogamy, religion, military service, bdsm, and lots more. We’ll talk a bit about unicorn fostering, distinguish between bottoms and subs in bdsm, and talk about designing relationships. It’s going to be fun!

https://www.instagram.com/susannahroses/?hl=en

https://www.linkedin.com/in/golden-rule-leadership

https://opentomore.mykajabi.com/ (Open to More course)

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