IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

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7 Strange Things IMPACTFUL Parents Do Differently Part 2 Jun 06, 2024

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🙋‍♀️ Ready for the second part of our game-changing series on what impactful parents of teens do differently? In this episode, we're diving into three more powerful strategies that will transform your parenting journey! 🌟

First up, these parents know how to focus on what they CAN control, instead of stressing about what they CAN'T. 🎯 They use a simple but effective tool to shift their energy and attention to where it matters most. Want to know what it is? Tune in to find out! 😉

Next, we'll reveal the secret weapon that these parents use to create lasting change in their own behavior and their teen's. 🔐 Here's a hint: it involves a lot of practice, but not the kind you might expect! 😄

Finally, we'll explore the most powerful thing you can do to impact your teen's life - and it's not what you think! 😮 These parents know that actions speak louder than words, and they use this knowledge to their advantage. 🎬

But wait, there's more! We've got a special bonus for you that ties it all together and will help you become the parent of your dreams. 🌈 Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity to transform your parenting and your relationship with your teen. 💕

Ready to take your parenting to the next level? 🚀 Tune in now and discover the unique strategies that set these impactful parents apart! 🎧😊

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Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.
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7 Strange Things IMPACTFUL Parents Do Differently Part 1 May 30, 2024

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Are you ready to elevate your parenting game? 🚀 Well, buckle up, because we've got a two-part series that's going to introduce you to a whole new way of thinking about parenting! In this episode, we'll unveil four of the seven things that parents who make a real impact do differently. From finding joy in unexpected places to prioritizing something that might surprise you, these parents have cracked the code to creating a strong bond with their kids. 🔐 And wait until you hear about the fourth thing - it's a total game-changer! 🎮 Feeling intrigued? Come back next week to learn the last three insights and get a cool bonus that will help you put these ideas into action! 🎉
Full show notes here: https://benpughcoaching.com/208

Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?

Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.

https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

How to Improve Your Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health May 23, 2024

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Ready to boost your teen’s health without losing your mind? Tune in for a fun, quick guide to improving mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
Discover why a simple walk, gym time, or even a pillow fight can make a difference. Learn the secrets to better sleep, whether it’s sleeping in or taking a nap.
Find out why eating protein, fats, and staying hydrated are crucial. Understand the importance of high-fives and hugs, and how showers and bubble baths can bring mental clarity.
Boost your emotional intelligence by understanding your feelings and turn your thoughts into actions with effective mind management. Be the change you want to see—hit play now and become the ultimate health sidekick!
full show notes at: https://benpughcoaching.com/207

Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?

Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.

https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

5 Minutes to Better Connection with Your Teen May 16, 2024

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In this episode, we 're talking about a powerful, yet simple, habit that can transform your relationship with your teen in just 5 minutes a day.
Discover how practicing gratitude reflection can shift your focus from conflicts and challenges to appreciation and positivity. By taking a few moments each day to acknowledge three things you're grateful for about your teen, you'll foster a more positive mindset, reduce stress, and build a stronger emotional connection.
This habit not only enhances your relationship with your teen but also empowers you to become the parent you've always wanted to be. Tune in to learn how this unexpected practice can lead to less correction and more connection in your daily interactions.

Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?

Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.

https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

Is Your Teen Fitting In or Belonging with Teen Life Coach, Lindsay Law May 09, 2024

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Join me and guest coach, Lindsay Law as we explore the journey of self-love and acceptance in teenagers.
In this insightful episode, we delve into the crucial role of parental support, the distinction between belonging and fitting in, and the empowerment of teens to embrace their authentic selves.
Discover practical insights and valuable tips to foster a positive environment for teen self-discovery and growth. Tune in to unlock the keys to nurturing confident and resilient teens.
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Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?

Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.

https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

My is Teen Viewing Porn. Now What? May 02, 2024

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When it comes to discovering your teen viewing pornography, approach the situation with humor and confidence rather than panic.
Focus on open dialogue and empowerment rather than fear. Encourage your teen to separate pornography from solo sexual activity, potentially breaking the habit.
Above all, provide support without coercion, respecting your teen's autonomy and readiness for help, while setting boundaries and offering resources in a supportive manner.
Full show notes: https://benpughcoaching.com/204

Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?

Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.

https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

Rights and Privileges for Better Boundaries Apr 25, 2024

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In this podcast, we're tackling the difference between rights and privileges. It's a biggie, especially since many teens (and adults!) are a bit fuzzy on the distinction.

I'll share insights from my own family life, like how dinner together is non-negotiable (yep, no skipping meals!), but dessert? That's a privilege. And let's talk about earning privileges—like staying out late with friends, which my teens have to work for by being responsible.

But sometimes, rights can turn into privileges, like when we had a foster child needing extra support.

The key? Open, empowering conversations with your teen. Ask them their thoughts on rights versus privileges and let them help set boundaries.

So get ready to dive into this important—and dare I say, fun?—topic with your teen. It's not just necessary, it's downright awesome!
Full show notes at benpughcoaching.com/203

Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?

Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.

https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

Need Advice About Boundaries? Apr 18, 2024

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Are you tired of the endless battle with your teen over boundaries that seem to go nowhere? Well, guess what? There's a light at the end of the boundary tunnel, and it's not a freight train of frustration!
If you've been struggling to set boundaries effectively or if your teen seems to have a PhD in boundary-breaking, fear not! I've got just the remedy for you. Join me for an awesome FREE workshop where we'll dive into the art of boundary-setting like never before.
No more futile attempts at control—let's empower both you and your teen to create boundaries that actually work.
From practicing in conversation to tying boundaries to positive consequences, we've got all the tricks up our sleeves.
So, are you ready to bid farewell to boundary battles and hello to harmony? Step right up, register for the workshop, clear your schedule, and let's kiss those boundary blues goodbye once and for all!
Full show notes at: https://benpughcoaching.com/202

Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?

Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.

https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

3 Reasons Parents & Teens Hate Boundaries Apr 11, 2024

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Today's episode is all about boundaries with your teens. It can be tough, right? But here's the thing: you're not alone in this struggle.

I've been hearing from a lot of parents who are feeling overwhelmed by the constant battle of setting boundaries with their teens. And honestly, I get it. It's hard to strike that balance between authority and understanding.

But here's the good news: there's a better way to approach boundaries with our teens. It's not about control; it's about collaboration.

Join me for some real talk about why boundaries matter, why they're so challenging, and most importantly, how we can navigate them in a way that strengthens our relationships with our teens.

So, if you're ready to ditch the power struggles and build a stronger connection with your teen, stick around. I've got some tips and insights to share that just might change the game for you.
Full show notes: https://benpughcoaching.com/201
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Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?

Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.

https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

How to Set Better Boundaries Apr 04, 2024

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In this episode, we're diving deep into setting boundaries with your teen. We're all about making sure these boundaries aren't about control, but instead, they're all about empowering both you and your teen.

Here's what we're gonna cover:

No Control Games: We're not here to control our teens. We're here to guide them. Let's understand that our teens are on their own journey, and that's totally okay.
Guidelines, Not Dictates: Boundaries? They're more like guidelines, not hard and fast rules. It's not about saying, "You can't do this." It's more like, "If this happens, here's how I'll respond."
Power Talks: Let's chat with our teens. Not the usual "I'm-the-boss" talk, but real, empowering conversations. We'll listen to their thoughts and ideas while still being the parent in charge.
Lead by Example: Setting boundaries isn't just for them; it's for us too. We're showing our teens how to stand up for themselves and what they believe in, even when it's tough.
Your Rules, Your Way: Don't just follow the crowd. Let's set boundaries that feel right for us and our teens. It's all about being authentic and true to ourselves.

So, join me in this episode as we navigate the world of boundaries with our teens, making sure they're a source of empowerment and growth for both of us!
Full show notes at: https://benpughcoachinig.com/200

Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?

Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.

https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

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