How’s Your Sex Life?

Talk dirty to me with Dr. Carol Queen Oct 30, 2024

How do I talk dirty? Are people actually having safe oral sex? How can I explore dating and sexuality in my 60s?

Dr. Carol Queen is an author, sex-positive activist, and the staff sexologist at Good Vibes. This week she joins Myisha to take on your questions about dirty talk, anilingus, and exploring dating and sexuality in your 60s. Plus, hear which of your dating horror stories left us truly mortified. 👻

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Naked at Our Age by Joan Price

Exhibitionism for the Shy by Carol Queen

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Find Dr. Carol Queen at Good Vibes

📩 Want sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

For a transcript of this episode, visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Screw the dating scene with Dylan Tupper Rupert Oct 23, 2024

Does listening to music during sex actually change the experience? I’m meeting my bestie’s boyfriend for the first time! Should I give up on dating?

Dylan Tupper Rupert explores the world of the Sunset Strip's most legendary rock n’ roll groupies in the newest season of KCRW’s Lost Notes. She joins Myisha to talk sex playlists and why she says f*** the dating scene. Plus, Dylan shares the dating mishap that still haunts her.

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📩 Need advice about sex or dating? Drop us an email at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode and we'll keep you anonymous.

For a transcript of this episode, visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Yearning for love with adrienne maree brown Oct 16, 2024

Am I just another scary straight guy? How do I find pleasure in a world that feels devastating? I’m yearning for intimacy!

adrienne maree brown is an author and activist. Their latest book Loving Corrections is about the importance of holding people and systems accountable to create honest relationships. adrienne joins Myisha to talk about why men shouldn’t solely rely on other men for dating advice and yearning for connection.

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P.S. This spooky season we want to hear all about your worst dates! Drop us an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might feature your story on the show, you get to vent, and we'll keep you anonymous. It's a win win!

For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Sex just isn’t my thing with Tuck Woodstock Oct 09, 2024

My partner isn’t interested in sex. My husband’s political views turn me off! How do I explain to my family that I’m nonbinary?

Tuck Woodstock explores the vast diversity of trans experiences on his podcast Gender Reveal. He joins Myisha to talk about navigating a conversation around sex when your partner is asexual. Plus, Tuck shares all the times his crushes have fizzled out.

P.S. What's the worst date you've ever been on? This spooky season we want to hear all about your bad dates. Share your story with us by dropping an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org and we might feature it on the show. You'll get to vent and we'll keep you anonymous. It's a win win!

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For a full transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Send us your dating horror stories! Oct 02, 2024

Have you ever been catfished on a date, ghosted, or worse? This month we want to hear your dating horror stories. Drop us an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org and we might feature it on the show. We’ll keep you anonymous.

More than friends with Jordan Gonsalves Sep 25, 2024

Should I tell my friend I have feelings for them? Do I tell the guy I’m seeing that I had an OnlyFans? Is it time to leave my relationship?

Jordan Gonsalves hosts But We Loved, a podcast that dives into queer history through conversations with LGBTQ+ elders. Jordan joins Myisha to talk about crushes on friends and toxic relationships. Plus, Jordan shares his dating horror story.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Retiring from kinky sex with Brontez Purnell Sep 18, 2024

I love kinky sex, but I need a break! Is faking an orgasm evil or generous? How do I get my libido back?

Author Brontez Purnell writes about sex and queerness. His book ‘100 Boyfriends’ was awarded the 2022 Lambda Literary Award in Gay Fiction. Brontez joins Myisha to talk kinky sex in midlife and if it’s ever okay to fake an orgasm. Plus, Brontez shares what he doesn’t tolerate in relationships.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Situationships aren’t all bad (right?) with Dylan McKeever Sep 11, 2024

Why can’t people accept that you can be romantic and casual? I adore my partner, but our bedroom is dead… help! Should I tell my crush I like them or play it cool?

Dylan McKeever uses humor to talk about trans identity and queerness in her work. She joins Myisha to talk situationships and why non-monogamy isn’t for everyone. Plus, Dylan shares the best lesson she’s learned in relationships.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

I love him, but I feel trapped! with Matteo Lane & Nick Smith Sep 04, 2024

My ex-friend is hooking up with my brother-in-law! Will I regret having sex with only one person my whole life? Is it okay to get back in touch with an old flame?

Matteo Lane and Nick Smith are comedians, frenemies, and hosts of the I Never Liked You Podcast. They join Myisha to talk about redefining monogamy and revisiting an old hookup. Plus, Matteo and Nick share their funniest sex mishaps.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Is my partner addicted to porn? with Tomás Mier Aug 28, 2024

I’m sick of dating apps but it’s hard to meet people in person! How do I talk to my partner about his porn habits without sounding like a prude? And when do I pose the infamous: ‘what are we?’

Tomás Mier, Rolling Stone journalist and pop culture content creator, talks Only Fans and queer dating with Myisha. Plus, he shares his own dating standards including when to bring a partner to family dinner.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Good luck, bb gayz! with AmbersCloset Aug 21, 2024

I’m new to dating other women! Is it ok to look for traits my ex had in future partners? How do I deal with an ex who keeps sending me mixed signals?

Amber Whittington, aka AmbersCloset, is a content creator and LGBTQ+ activist. This week, she joins Myisha to talk about being true to yourself as a baby gay. Plus, Amber shares how an ex helped her through her grief.

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Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Is my vibrant sex life…vanilla? with Tracy Clark-Flory Aug 14, 2024

Is my sex vanilla just because I don’t want a threesome? My ‘no strings attached’ sex life is not as fulfilling as I thought. I don’t want to be a sex doll! How do I navigate external validation and what I really want?

Tracy Clark-Flory explores desire in her book Want Me and weekly newsletter. This week, she joins Myisha in tackling personal versus external desires. Plus, Tracy gives advice to her younger self.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Read the full transcript on our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

How’s your friend life? with Ann Friedman Aug 07, 2024

I don’t see my friends unless I organize the hangout and I’m over it! How can I rebuild my connection to my long-distance bestie? My friend thinks I betrayed them, help!

This week we’re answering your friendship dilemmas with Ann Friedman, co-author of Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close. Plus, Ann shares ways to support your friends who are in lousy relationships.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

Perimenopause is making me horny! with Virgie Tovar (Part 2) Jul 31, 2024

Author and activist Virgie Tovar is back with her own questions about sex dreams, perimenopause, and masturbating in the sun. Plus, Virgie shares how she got over her sexual hang ups.

Visit the podcast feed for part one of our conversation with Virgie about dating cis men, fatphobia, and unrequited crushes.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

Dating and fatphobia with Virgie Tovar Jul 24, 2024

How do I get over someone I never dated? I date cis men and fatphobia is our unwelcome third wheel.

Virgie Tovar (author, activist, and weight-based discrimination expert) gives advice in the first of this two part episode! We talk about the pain of unrequited crushes and setting boundaries as a plus-size dater.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

Friends with benefits with Ro ‘Wyldeflower’ Contreras Jul 17, 2024

I want to be more than friends with benefits! How do I keep things romantic with my spouse? Is pegging in my future?

KCRW DJ Rocio ‘Wyldeflower’ Contreras dishes advice. We talk about when to walk away from being friends with benefits, the importance of setting aside one-on-one time with your spouse, and one listener’s pegging guilt. Plus, Ro shares why she appreciated her single era.

P.S. We’re taping a special friendship episode of the podcast. What advice do you need about the friendships in your life? Drop us an email at sexlife@kcrw.org with friendship in the subject line. We'll keep you anonymous.

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For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

I’m in a sexless marriage! with Cindy Gallop Jul 10, 2024

Is there such a thing as too much masturbation? How can I talk to my partner about reigniting our intimacy? My husband’s sex drive is gone and he doesn’t want to talk about it!

Cindy Gallop, founder of Make Love Not Porn, gives advice. We talk about the panic people feel when it comes to masturbation, how intimacy is about more than having sex, and how sex changes as you get older. Plus, Cindy shares her go-to sexual fantasy.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

I’m Queer and Here — Just Not to My Parents. Help! (from “Dear Prudence”) Jul 03, 2024

Today we’re sharing an episode from our friends at Dear Prudence, Slate’s advice podcast.

In this episode, host Jenée Desmond-Harris is joined by Dan Savage, host of the Savage Lovecast. The two get into how to tell your sibling you think they’re in an emotionally abusive marriage, how to share with your parents you’re omnisexual, and how to approach a serious relationship with someone who lets her pre-teens sleep in her bed.

I ❤️ my vibrator with Anna Lee Jun 26, 2024

What dating app should I use? How do I talk to my partner about using sex toys together? How can I explore my sexuality as someone who had no sex ed?

Anna Lee, co-founder and CEO of Lioness, takes a break from engineering smart vibrators to dish advice. We talk about why you should see sex toys as collaborators, not competitors and how to move past sexual mishaps. Plus, Anna shares how her career has helped her learn to enjoy her body.

Read the full transcript on our website.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Anna Lee: @annaisaverage

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Is zodiac compatibility real? with Isa Nakazawa Jun 19, 2024

I’m scared to date women my age! Is zodiac compatibility real? My partner isn’t into astrology like I am, are we a bad match? Astrologer Isa Nakazawa weighs in.

Shoot your shot! with Allison Behringer Jun 12, 2024

Can women initiate sex? I’m thinking of breaking my celibacy, but men scare me. How do I set boundaries with my parents about my sex life?

Come as you are with Emily Nagoski Jun 05, 2024

How can I get my husband to do foreplay? I’m tired of my wife turning me down for sex. Is squirting real? Sex educator Emily Nagoski answers your questions.

Ghosting sucks! with Heather Chelan May 29, 2024

How do I get more comfortable with dirty talk? What type of person ghosts someone? What type of person gaslights? And I can only orgasm with a vibrator — am I alone?

Comedian Heather Chelan gives advice and talks about choosing honesty over ghosting, learning not everyone comes from penetrative sex, and how she’s finally having shame free sex.

Read the full transcript here.

Need advice for your love life? Send Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. You’ll be kept anonymous.

Getting laid over 40 with Jane Marie May 01, 2024

How do I talk to my wife about my desires? I’m a 51-year-old virgin and I don’t know where to start! And is there sex after divorce?

Falling in love and falling apart with Jonathan Bastian Apr 24, 2024

This week Myisha and Jonathan Bastian, host of KCRW’s Life Examined, dig into the science of love and heartbreak.

Help, I’m in love with a cowboy! with Elle Chase Apr 17, 2024

Is monogamy or my sexual fantasy the problem? How common is a sexless marriage? I’m Gen X, why are young people trying to date me?

Sex after death with The Hood Witch Apr 10, 2024

How do I stop dating avoidant people? I’m grieving the death of my partner. Will I connect with someone sexually ever again? And the art of sex magic.

Creatively kinky with Tina Horn Apr 03, 2024

Hormone therapy has tanked my libido, but I’m hornier than ever! How can I stay creative in my kinky relationship?

Trust issues with Zakiya Gibbons Mar 27, 2024

How to deal with trust issues? Am I terrible for thinking my partner isn’t hot anymore? How do I tell someone I hooked up with that I just want to be friends?

Tackling Mismatched Libidos with Erica Chidi Mar 20, 2024

How to enjoy intimacy again after a miscarriage? How to handle mismatched libidos in long term relationships? And getting turned off by messy sex.

Are My Sexual Fantasies Misogynistic? with Diosa Femme Mar 13, 2024

How can I nurture my bisexuality in a straight passing relationship? How do I reconcile my sexual fantasies with my beliefs? Plus learning new bedroom skills.

How Do I Get Over My Ex? with Brandon Kyle Goodman Mar 06, 2024

How do I navigate casual dating? How do I get over my ex? And is dating possible when I’m asexual?

You Deserve Better Sex with Dr. Akilah Cadet Feb 28, 2024

How to deal with sex and chronic pain? When to bring up a mental health condition in a relationship? And the best and worst parts of dating with a disability.

Porn Literacy with Holly Randall Feb 21, 2024

Where to watch feminist porn? Do women actually like roleplay? Holly Randall, host of the Holly Randall Unfiltered podcast, talks porn literacy and shares her hot takes on porn tropes.

Kiss and Tell with Tyler Boudreaux Feb 14, 2024

How to deal with a bad kisser? How soon is too soon to take a relationship exclusive? And how to stay close with long distance friends. KCRW DJ Tyler Boudreaux joins us to dish advice and share her Top 3 love songs.

You don’t need an orgasm to have good sex ft. Sam Sanders Dec 20, 2023

Sam Sanders, co-host of Vibe Check, drops in for our final episode of the season! Sam gives advice on disclosing STIs, separating sex from your self-worth, and he chats with Myisha about what he’s tired of hearing on first dates.

We’ll be back in the new year! Be sure to follow the show to be notified when new episodes drop. Got questions about solo sex, finding your sexual self, relationships, or friendship woes? Drop us an email at sexlife@kcrw.org. Be sure to include some background info and your question may be answered on the show.

Write Your Own Love Story ft. Damona Hoffman Dec 13, 2023

Damona Hoffman, host of the Dates & Mates podcast, drops by to answer your questions alongside Myisha. Should you lie about your age on dating apps? What are the pros and cons of changing your last name when getting remarried as a widow? Plus we dig into Bumble’s list of dating trends to expect in 2024!

Will there ever be Viagra for women? Dec 06, 2023

Why isn’t there a Viagra type drug for women? What happens when your porn habits impact your dating life? When it comes to sex the answers aren’t always so simple.

Why Does Playing Hard to Get Work? Nov 29, 2023

How do you explore a nature kink? Why does playing hard to get work? How do you talk to your partner about unprotected sex? This week Myisha answers questions speed round style at On Air Fest!

Read the full transcript here.

Got a question for Myisha? Send an email or voice memo to sexlife@kcrw.org with some background info and your question may be answered on the show.

Send us your sex and dating questions Nov 22, 2023

While we’re off this week, you can catch up on past episodes about kink, self-love, and orgasms right here in the podcast feed. And send your sex and dating questions to sexlife@KCRW.org.

Polyamory for Beginners (with guest co-host Ashley Ray) Nov 15, 2023

How do you open up a monogamous relationship? What to do when your spouse comes out of the closet? How do you date in your 40s? Ashley Ray, comedian and host of Earwolf’s TV, I Say, joins Myisha to talk dating while poly, supporting your partner, and how to not be poly-shady.

The Good and The Smelly Nov 08, 2023

Doubts about your small penis? Exploring a new kink? Love smelling your partner, but they’re not into it? This week we’re kicking shame to the curb and embracing our bodies.

What Makes Something Kinky? Nov 01, 2023

Our first guest of the season! Queer cartoonist and scholar Justin Hall joins us to talk about how a kink can create or block intimacy in a relationship. Plus we play a game to test what makes something kinky or not kinky. Got a question for Myisha? Send an email or voice memo to sexlife@kcrw.org with some background info and your question may be answered on the show.

Let's Talk Libido Oct 25, 2023

Frustrated with your low sex drive? Want sex more often than your partner? Trying to keep your long distance relationship spicy? This week Myisha tackles the highs and lows of libido.

Got a question for Myisha? Send an email or voice memo to sexlife@kcrw.org and your question may be answered on the show.

Self-Love 101 Oct 18, 2023

How do you know if you want a casual or committed relationship? What’s a good first vibrator? Can you experience sensuality without a partner? Host Myisha Battle helps you explore what YOU truly want out of sex and dating.

Dating Apps Broke My Brain Oct 11, 2023

Sick of dating apps? Avoiding a tough conversation around sex? Hitachi leaving you numb? Sex and dating coach Myisha Battle is here to help.

Read the full transcript here.

Coming and Going Oct 04, 2023

How do you tell your partner what you really want in bed? Is it okay to think about your ex while climaxing? You guessed it, we’re talking orgasms.

Queers Need Queers Oct 04, 2023

First episode baby! Host Myisha Battle gives advice on queer dating, a 12 year booty call gone wrong, painful sex (ouch), and dating while broke. We’ve all been there.

Introducing How’s Your Sex Life? Sep 29, 2023

Are you disheartened by dating or running into sexual incompatibility in your otherwise thriving relationships? Too much connection… or not enough? KCRW and sexologist Myisha Battle wants to know, how’s your sex life?

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