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Life on the Farm Wasn’t What We Expected #HMAY Ep. 240 Apr 29, 2025

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Sometimes you gotta move to find your peace. 🏡✨

Last year? Whew. It was a whole lot.

We moved out to the farm thinking it was gonna be this beautiful new chapter for our family… and listen — some of it was. 🌻 But some of it? Straight up survival mode. 💀Fast forward to now — we’re in Fallbrook.

And it finally feels like home. 🖤🌴

We’re breathing different. Living different. Smiling different.

God really knows how to set you up when you trust Him with the whole story. 🙏🏾

Thanks for rocking with us through all the ups and downs.

This next chapter? We ready. 🏁

Drop a comment and tell us — what’s a season you thought would go one way but ended up growing you in a way you never expected? We’d love to hear your story. 🖤

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My Husband Refuses to Brush His Teeth! #HMAY Ep. 239 Apr 22, 2025

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“My man only brushes his teeth once a week… and still wanna kiss me in the mouth?!” 😩🪥

This listener wrote in with a situation that had us both shook—and honestly?

Sis, you’re not asking for too much.

She’s pregnant 🤰🏾, in PJs most days, not feeling her cutest—and her husband is still calling her beautiful and trying to love on her real close.

The only problem? His breath is breathin’. 💨👃🏽

She’s brought it up, but he says brushing isn’t his focus right now. He’s thinking about bills, baby prep, and just trying to make it through.

But affection without hygiene? That’s a tough love language to translate.

In Episode 239, we talk about:

🗣️ When the “little things” feel big

🧼 Why personal care isn’t shallow—it’s sacred

💞 How to hold space for your spouse and still speak your trut

😤 Navigating love when the vibes ain't vibin'

🎥 Watch the full episode to hear our take—and why we think she’s more than fair for bringing it up.

Comment below:What’s one “small” thing in your relationship that turned into a BIG conversation?

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I Probably Shouldn't Have Married Him…Now What? #HMAY Ep. 238 Apr 15, 2025

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He gave up his best friend for love… but was it worth it? 💍💔And what do you do when marriage hits hard just four months in? 😬

In this episode, we’re diving into two real-life relationship updates that had us both nodding... and hollering. 😭😂

First up: remember the fiancé who asked her man to choose between her and his female best friend? 👀 Well—he called back with an update.Spoiler: there's a wedding date on the books 💒... but was the friendship loss worth it?

Then, we hear from a newlywed who’s four months into marriage and struggling.They did all the prep—counseling, mentorship, community—but real life ain’t reading like the workbook. 📖💥Now she’s wondering: did I marry the wrong man? Or is this just part of the process?

We’re sharing the truth about what Year One really felt like for us, what kept us going, and how to know when it’s time to press in—or possibly peace out.

Tune in for the real, the raw, and the reminders that choosing love takes work... but you’re not alone.

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He Planned on Letting Her Find Out at His Funeral! #HMAY Ep. 237 Apr 08, 2025

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What do you do when God is the one exposing the truth in your marriage? 😳💔

In Episode 237, we’re diving into one of the wildest calls we’ve received yet. A woman finds out her husband has a hidden child, a secret past, and no desire to tell the truth—so God starts revealing it in her dreams. 👀

We talk trust, spiritual red flags, emotional safety, and the power of redemption—even when it feels impossible. Plus, what do you do when you’re still in love with someone from your past? Whew. Let’s talk about it.

🎧 Tap in for real stories, real faith, and real conversations that just might hit you right where you are.

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I’m Tired of Having to be the Bigger Person #HMAY Ep. 236 Apr 01, 2025

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Feeling like you’re always the bigger person in your relationship? The optimist, the problem solver, the one carrying all the weight? 😮‍💨

In this episode, we’re talking about how to handle that dynamic—how to keep going without burning out, set boundaries without resentment, and create balance in your relationship. Because love shouldn’t feel one-sided.

Tap in and let’s talk about it. 💬

Ever felt like you’re carrying more of the relationship? Drop a 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏾‍♂️ in the comments!

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Is He Marriage Material? #HMAY Ep. 235 Mar 25, 2025

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Is he marriage material? 💍

In today’s episode, we tackle the question of whether emotional connection is enough to build a future. Her man is her best friend, they vibe as artists, but he’s a hermit who won’t make an effort for her social life, family, or future plans. 🧐

Yvette and Glen break down what she should be asking herself and him—and share how misalignment showed up in their own relationship.

🎤 How do you know when your partner isn’t on the same page?

🎤 What questions should you ask to understand if they’re ready for marriage?

Watch the full episode and drop your thoughts in the comments! ⬇️

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The Cheeks Gotta Get Clapped #HMAY Ep. 234 Mar 18, 2025

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Worried your wedding night might be whack? 😩

One listener wrote in with a big concern—she’s marrying a virgin and is nervous about what that means for their intimacy. So we’re diving ALL the way in on what it really looks like to navigate intimacy when experience levels don’t match.

Yvette shares what it was like being a virgin bride—not just the emotions, but the mechanics (or lack thereof 😭). We get real about our awkward first night, our struggles with incompatibility, and how we finally figured it out. Because let’s be real… being “experienced” doesn’t mean anything if you’re still learning a brand-new person.

This episode is raw, honest, and full of the convos we wish we had before marriage. Tap in now! ⬇️

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Somebody is Gonna Have to Submit #HMAY Ep. 233 Mar 11, 2025

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In this episode, we’re diving into the real-life dilemmas y’all are facing—like when to make sacrifices for your partner, how to balance your career with your relationship, and when to put dreams on hold (or go for it all). 💭💍

Some of the questions we’re tackling:

“Should I give up my grad school dreams for my partner?” 🤔

“Can you really have a career and a successful marriage without losing yourself?” 💼💖

“How do you know when it’s time to sacrifice for love, or go after what you want?”

We’re keeping it 100 about relationships, career goals, and those hard decisions. Drop your thoughts below and let’s talk about how you handle love and dreams. 💬

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The Hardest Audience Questions We've Ever Answered 😮‍💨💭 #HMAY Ep. 232 Mar 04, 2025

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What do you do when trust is broken, expectations aren’t met, and life just keeps piling on—loss, grief, addiction, betrayal, finances, job stress—like, can we catch a break?! 😩💸

We’re getting real in this episode:

💭 When is it time to walk away—from a marriage, a career, or any situation that is no longer honoring or beneficial?

💭 What does leadership & responsibility really look like when the pressure is on?Marriage, career, LIFE—sometimes it’s too much. 😮‍💨💭

If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or just straight-up lost on what to do next, this one’s for you.

🎧 Listen in now & let’s figure this out together! ⬇️

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