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50 First Dates (Bonus) Jun 29, 2024

One more episode for this season! Yippee! Remy welcomes her friend, a mystery guest, to talk about an experiment she did -- in which she went on 50 first dates in one year. They talk about why she did it, how the dates went, and what she learned from it. There *are* spoilers from the 2004 movie 50 First Dates in this episode, but it is not an episode about love and amnesia.

45 Where the Magic Happens (Ben DeMarco) Mar 31, 2024

It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* -- with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy or Ben, close to both of them, or just don't want to picture them bumping uglies it's maybe not the ep for you! You've been warned.

*Married people can still play, duh

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44 The Hot-Wife Life (John Legendary) Mar 31, 2024

Aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film icon John Legendary is here to talk EVERYTHING regarding the long-misunderstood ‘hotwife’ lifestyle-- you may have heard about "cuckolding" in porn but he gives us the inside scoop and tells us about his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand ‘bull’ in other people’s bedrooms. He goes into us how he got into the hotwifing lifestyle, how he got into porn, how hotwifing in porn differs from how it actually is in real life and SO much more.

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43 Hating Perimenopause + Loving P***y (Jade Catta-Preta) Mar 31, 2024

Actor and Comedian Jade Catta-Preta is back after many seasons and this time she has several life changes to share; she is "so much gayer now" and is also going through pre-menopause or "perimenopause." We talk about everything from getting good at gay sex, to learning to love yourself, to how she felt getting diagnosed with perimenopause. She tells us about how she has been treating it and we run through all the symptoms that come with it in case anyone is going through something similar. It is all parts educational, hilarious, and horny!

CW: SA

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42 Intuitive F*cking (Lauren Hope Krass + Rachel B) Mar 17, 2024

A very special episode with one woman who has NEVER masturbated, and another who has given up having sex with other people! Remy sits down with Lauren Hope Krass- stand up comedian and Betches content manager, podcast host, video star and humor writer, and Rachel B - comedy club veteran and host of the Dating App Disasters Podcast. They answer all questions related to why they do not/ are not partaking in their respective sexual activities and dive into body image, dating culture, after-care and so much more. It is a relatable, heart warming, hilarious and important conversation. Enjoy!

CW: Disordered eating and sexual assault

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41 The Secret Sex Lives of Muslim Women (Salma Hindy) Feb 29, 2024

Remy had the extreme pleasure talking to the hilarious and wonderful Salma Hindy -- a first-generation Egyptian-Canadian comedian, writer, actor and performer who has opened for Ken Jeong, Ramy Youssef, Beth Stelling, and Chelsea Handler. Salma tells us all about growing up in a very strict religious household and the ways in which it effected her sexuality and self-view. She tells us all about ending her relationship with people pleasing and how she pivoted to self-pleasing, with the help of therapy, comedy, and a few sex toys. She regales us with many stories of her first time experiencing all things sexual in her late 20s-early 30s and this episode is all of the things Salma is: funny, interesting, endearing, and just gets better and better as time goes on.

TW: Eating disorders, body image issues, religious trauma, sexual assault/ sexual violence, blood

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40 Relationship Do's and Don'ts (Therapy Jeff) Feb 26, 2024

Today's guest is the very funny, very handsome, and extremely anti-camping licensed professional counselor, Jeff Guenther. You may now him best from his insanely popular advise account, TherapyJeff on TikTok and Instagram -- and we're so lucky to have him here today! We're talking relationship do’s and don’ts, for people currently in relationships, people who are trying to get into relationships, and people who have no interest in relationships at all! From love bombing; how to recognize it, and how to stop yourself from doing it, to farting in front of a partner, to learning healthy relationships when they weren't modeled for you, to supporting partners with mental health issues/ body issues, to being monogamish, and several compatibility tests that we have learned from the New York Times and Married At First Sight: Australia -- this episode has it all.

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39 Chatting About Our Down Unders from Down Under (Abbie Chatfield) Feb 07, 2024

Remy is in beautiful Australia chatting with stunning entrepreneur, media personality, television host, podcast legend and sex goddess Abbie Chatfield! They discuss love on reality shows, dating in the public eye, sex in the public eye, whether Abbie thinks she is bisexual or a lesbian, open relationships, sex parties, everything she has learned about her "down under" from pelvic floor therapy, and SO much more.

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38 Achieving Sexual Confidence and Many Types of O's (Dr. Tara) Feb 01, 2024

Today's guest is Dr. Tara, a Los Angeles-based sex and relationship coach, tenured professor of sexual communication, award-winning sex researcher, TEDx speaker, TV Host of Celebs Go Dating, and the #1 sex educator on TikTok

Dr. Tara talks us through her many different first time c*mming stories-- because she can and has c*m in SO many different ways-- internal o's, external o's and CERVICAL o's as well (which we have never heard of until now)! She also teaches us how to achieve sexual confidence, how to love your body, affirmations you can say to yourself, and how to practice sexual meditation. We also chat about the different types of sex therapy, and how you know when it's time to do it.

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37 Crazy Horny Ex-GF: Limerence, Love and Lust (Rachel Bloom) Jan 21, 2024

Iconic actress, writer, and comedian Rachel Bloom stops by the podcast for a TRULY c*mazing episode and we cannot wait for you to hear it! Rachel is best known for co-creating and starring as Rebecca Bunch in musical comedy-drama series Crazy Ex-Girlfriend which won her numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe Award, a TCA Award, a Critics' Choice Television Award, and a Primetime Emmy Award.

We talk about how her character Rebecca (and Rachel and Remy) have all experienced limerence -- an all-consuming and unreciprocated crush -- and break down where limerence comes from, how to become less limerent, and the differences between limerence and love.

Rachel also opens up about her sexual health, from educating herself as a child, to current changes in her vulva post-pregnancy, attending pelvic floor therapy, a new diagnosis about her cl*t, and what she's planning to do about it!

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36 Betsy And Remy Go To A Sex Show! - Cirque Du Squirt (Betsy Carroll + Lola Jean) Nov 04, 2023

Goddess/ sex educator Lola Jean and comedian/ Remy's bestie Betsy Carroll are BACK (both returning guests from earlier seasons, but together for the first time) and they are talking about Cirque Du Squirt-- a "sex freak show/ carnival" that Lola curates and stars in to celebrate her title of the 'World Record Holder of Volume Squirting.' Remy and Betsy attended the sex show and talk about their hesitations about going (spoiler: Betsy had none, Remy had a lot), the various games they played and acts they witnessed, how Lola got her title as top squirter in the world, and how everyone feels about Remy's O drought. Maybe drought is the wrong word at this point because the orgasms HAVE occurred-- it's just not as easy anymore. So Betsy and Lola both give Remy assignments! We also talk about new classes that Lola is offering as well as sober and fun sex parties she hosts.

TW: Blood, needles, food and sex

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35 IVF - An Eggcellent Journey (Lindsey Metselaar) Oct 20, 2023

This episode is all about IVF! Remy welcomes back Season 1 Episode 2 guest and host of the popular dating + relationships podcast We Met at Acme- Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey tells us all about trying to concieve, getting diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, and her and her husband's journey with IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). We hear about the different types of IVF, what types of people might require IVF, the differences between IVF, IUI, and ICI, and a range for what the procedure can cost. Lindsey also lets us in on her experiences with pregnancy sex, sex and sobriety, masturbation after getting married, orgasm droughts and so more. Finally, she gives Remy an assignment that reminds us of her first appearance on How C*m 6 years ago!

CW: Remy discusses the current state of affairs in the Middle East from :30-6:30

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34 Drying Up! Menopause, Golden Girls, Orgasms + More (Carole Montgomery) Sep 30, 2023

Last week Samantha Jones' brief orgasm drought inspired us to talk about menopause-- even though that is not what caused *her* drought. But Cumpanions have been vying for a menopause episode for a WHILE and it's finally here! We chat with stand up comedy veteran and creator of "Funny Women of a Certain Age" Carole Montgomery about being a woman of a certain age; barriers, breakthroughs, how menopause went for her, all the symptoms that can come with menopause, how to deal with it, and the fact that sex lives DO NOT STOP after 50. We also talk about the Golden Girls and the OG Samantha, Blanche Devereaux and how her first orgasm was allegedly after menopause (shocking!) and how that could possibly be a real thing.

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33 Remy's Big O Drought (Charlotte Kassimir) Sep 20, 2023

Much like the episodes have slowed down, so too have Remy's orgasms. And OH BOY are they connected. In this episode you can hear all about Remy's FIVE month long orgasm drought; why she thinks it happened, what she has been trying to do to fix it, and what she plans to do in the future. We welcome back Season 1+2 producer/researcher and Remy's sister Charlotte Kassimir to talk about it, read Companion stories about their own droughts/ how they have fixed them, and Charlotte gives Remy a new assignment for this new chapter.

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32 Testosterone, Top Surgery, and Twitter (Kristofer Thomas) Aug 19, 2023

Before Twitter was X, Kristofer Thomas (comedian, actor, and screenwriter) shared his story of being a pack-a-day cigarette smoker for years and how the promise of top surgery is the thing that finally made him quit. We discuss that story, the benefits of gender affirming care (beyond quitting cigs), what gender affirming care means a different ages, and how many steps it actually takes to get prescribed testosterone.

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31 The Cowgirl Workout (Tyomi Morgan) Aug 19, 2023

Today’s guest is Tyomi Morgan-- a Certified Authentic Tantra Coach, sex blogger/coach and creator of The Cowgirl Workout. We are diving into the workout program she created centered around dick riding! Tyomi teaches us how to do it, the benefits of it, and how to feel comfortable getting on top. We also discuss the importance of breathing control, hip isolation, choosing the right position, and making adjustments.

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30 Attachment Styles (Dr. Joy Berkheimer) Jun 27, 2023

What goes better with Pride than Joy? We end our Pride month with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to talk about all things love, sex, and relationships. We go deep into about attachment styles and how they affect our relationships, whether we're avoidant, fearful avoidant, anxious, disorganized, or secure. Dr. Joy explains how different types of households and upbringings can affect our attachment styles, and what we need to do to heal ourselves. We discuss therapy, what goes on in couples counseling and how it's not just about trying to keep couples together, but also about finding truth and clarity. Finally we learn some spicy stuff; Dr. Joy tells us about 'lust languages', erotic blueprints, and how to have good sex (spoiler alert: it involves sleep!).

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29 Orgasm Music (Von) Jun 27, 2023

A few weeks ago we posted a video from @VonMusic about her making music by having orgasms -- and the video EXPLODED. This week we are joined by Von to talk all about HOW she makes music with orgasms, why she does it, and how she feels about people who don't like what she is doing. Von discusses her education in music as well as growing up in a religious household and how she feels about Christianity today. Finally we hear all about different songs to c*m to, songs that feel like an orgasm, songs that have orgasms in them and so many other steamy types of music (playlists c*mming soon!!)

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28 Burlesque, Backlash + Corporate Pride (Jake Dupree) Jun 12, 2023

Recently, leading luxury lingerie brand Honey Birdette received backlash after featuring non-binary model, Jake DuPree, on its Instagram. Many who do not even follow the brand quickly flocked to the post, flooding it with phobic language and leading the brand to mute the post after 10,000 comments.

We spoke to the center of the scandal; burlesque performer, dancer, model, trailblazer, and extremely positive human, Jake DuPree. Jake tells us about dealing with the backlash, growing up feeling "other" in a small town, what makes them feel gender euphoria, and the incredible beginning of their dance/burlesque career. We also discuss sports and gender and would love to hear your thoughts as well (DM us!)

Finally, we discuss 'corporate pride' on the whole and how to know which brands actually stand with the causes they feign to represent. Unlike many spineless brands we have seen this pride season, in less than 24 hours, Honey Birdette released a statement of solidarity.

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27 The Second Puberty of Queer Adults (Addis Fouché) Jun 12, 2023

We're kicking off Pride with Addis Fouché: writer, sex worker, content creator, public speaker, and founder of the inclusive learning app Bitter Blush. Addis tells us about her panel at SXSW and her theory about “The Second Puberty of Queer Adults.” What is a second puberty? Do YOU need to go through one? We discuss. Addis also tells us about her coming of age experiences at prep school, life as a queer sex worker, why she developed her app, and so much more. Finally, Addis answers the question, "How DOES fingering work with long nails?"

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26 The Joys of Journeys (Eileen Hanley) May 16, 2023

We're chatting with actor, filmmaker, and musical comedian Eileen Hanley about her journey of coming out later in life, her journey with non-monogamy, and what it's like to share it all on the internet. Eileen shares the joys of being single and queer after being in a straight relationship for 10 years, tells us a few of her favorite O stories, and finally tries to answer the question, "Are queer orgasms THAT much better? And if so... Why?"

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25 Keeping it Spicy (Vanessa + Xander Marin) Apr 29, 2023

We're chatting with Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander about their new book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. We're talking all about communicating in relationships and how to keep long term relationships spicy.

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24 Dating + Data (Dr. Helen Fisher and Dr. Justin Garcia) Apr 19, 2023

What is dating like right now, from a science perspective? We are discussing the annual 'Singles in America' study with Dr. Helen Fisher (Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and Chief Science Advisor to Match.com) and Dr. Justin Garcia (Evolutionary Biologist, Sex Researcher, Professor of Gender Studies and Senior Scientist at The Kinsey Institute and Indiana University). Dr. Fisher and Dr. Garcia give us enlightening statistics on what today's singles are looking for, what they are willing to overlook in a relationship, and the impact that Covid had romantic love.

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23 Dating + Drinks with Ariana (Ariana Nathani) Apr 08, 2023

Remy and Robyn are joined by Ariana Nathani, founder of Drinks First-- a podcast and series of dating events for New York City singles. First we discuss the genius that is the format of her podcast, in which Ariana essentially goes on a "first date" with elligible NYC daters and listeners call in to date them. We talk about different forms of how to meet people romantically in 2023 from Love is Blind to rings that signify if you are single, the truth about being approached in public, and older forms of finding long-term love such as matchmaking. Ariana also tells us about growing up first generation in an Indian household, how to know when you are finally being respected in a relationship, and why it is imperitive to move out of your parents house when dating.

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22 Adoption and Parenting (Ben Katzner) Feb 26, 2023

Today's guest is Ben Katzner, a stand up comedian and author whose debut graphic novel "Hello My Name Is Poop" is available now. Remy chats with Ben about adoption, foster care, and the importance of choosing to parent in a post Roe v Wade world. Ben shares his personal experience growing up as an adoptee, the efforts that adoptive parents should make before adopting, and his reaction to adoption TikTok. Finally we discuss the pros and cons of what we've learned about the adoption industry via media and how it could be improved.

Lots of opinions in this one from us, and we're always interested to hear yours.

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21 Coming Out As Liking Strong Women (Max Zavidow) Dec 17, 2022

This we are talking to comedian & TikToker Max Zavidow. Max shares all about his experiences with homophobia at camp, learning what m*sturbation was with a bunch of boys (yes with, not from), along with how this impacted his own first time c*mming. We talk about the societal pressure to like a certain "type" of person and Max tells us about how he felt he had to "come out" as his type being a more muscular woman. We also chat coming out as bisexual, and how helpful Max found being in a queer friendly fraternity.

Finally, we discuss Max's TikToks about pegging, hear all about how they came to fruition. We also get a sneak peek into Max's dm requests - so if you're looking to peg someone, get in line because the queue is long (😏).

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20 Penpal Cumpanion Cumgrats (Britt) Nov 18, 2022

Remy and Robyn chat with Cumpanion Britt about her unique first time story, penpals, reading erotica, and her many many toys. We discuss Roe v Wade and Britt explains the reasons she hasn't had penetrative sex with a penis and why she may never want to. Britt also opens up about her history of chronic illness, endometriosis, lack of sex ed, and experience with SA. (TW)

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19 A Taste of Diet Starts Tomorrow (Emily Lubin) Nov 04, 2022

Big announcement! Remy is taking over the iconic Betches media podcast 'Diet Starts Tomorrow,' with her NEW co-host (and Cumpanion favorite) Emily Lubin. Cumgrats to them, and don't worry-- Remy will still continue How C*m! In this episode, Remy and Emily talk about what it means to each of them to take over a wellness and body positivity podcast. Emily shares her body journey with us and how she went from an eating disorder to loving her body fully and Remy opens up about how her body image has gotten in the way of How C*m endeavors.

TW: ED, Negative self talk, SA

Post outro we talk House of Dragon (SPOILERS), and why their portrayal of foot fetishes is so much worse than the incest that happens regularly on the show.

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18 The Anti-Misogyny Podcast and The Guy Who Runs it (Cyzor Church) Sep 30, 2022

Why is there a trend of young boys being taught to hate women, who is teaching them, and how do we stop them? We talk with Cyzor Church, a boudoir photographer and creator of the "Anti-Misogyny Podcast" about how he has been combating the teachings of toxic creators through his videos. This episode was recorded right after a certain TikTok creator/ misogynistic leader/self-proclaimed "self-help guru" was ousted from all social media platforms and we chat about if the kicking off was effective, if cancelling people in real life is a thing, and other creators who are still espousing his harmful rhetoric. We also talk about how people maniupulate others, the science of learning, and how boudoir photography goes against the patriarchy in its essence.

After the outro Remy and Robyn discuss the movies "Don't Worry Darling" + "Do Revenge" and how they relate to these topics as well as how Jordan Peterson feels about incels and forced monogamy.

TW: SA, VIOLENCE, GENDERED LANGUAGE

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17 'Girls' and The People Who Cheat on Them (Lexy Panterra) Sep 23, 2022

This week the internet is aflurry with cheating scandals and we are talking to the fantastic Lexy Panterra about her latest single 'Girls,' which is about just that. We talk getting cheated on, double standards between genders when cheating is involved, and how to take back your power after a betrayal. We're also talking music; why Lexy releases hers on OnlyFans, what genres we like to bang to, and the best beats for thrusting. Remy tries a viral song that the internet swears is a horrible bang song and gives her two cents and Robyn chimes in with a special "Girls" update of her own!

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16 XXX NFTs (Nicole Aniston) Aug 24, 2022

Today's guest is Nicole Aniston, who after 12-13 years in the adult industry became a trailblazer with her project Closer to Nicole which aims to sell NFTs as access tokens to allow people to watch her ethically produced adult content, and be a part of her discord community. We discuss how she took an antiquated business model and completely revamped it, and the many reasons why NFTs are better than OnlyFans, for creator and consumer. We also talk the similarities between the fight for reproductive rights and sex worker rights, cancel culture/ the Cut's Cancelled at 17, and the patriarchy: what's it so afraid of?!

TW: Sexual assault

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15 Ta-ta to the tatas (Rayna Greenberg + Robby Hoffman) Jul 31, 2022

We're talking top surgery, breast reduction, and SO much more with two second time cummers: award winning comedian Robby Hoffman and Girls Gotta Eat co-host + Vibes Only co-owner Rayna Greenberg! We hear about the differences and similarities of Rayna's breast reduction and Robby's top surgery; how long they've wanted their respective surgeries (and why), what healing was like, scars, cost, and post-surgery sex. We talk nipple sensitivity, the first big boobs Robby has ever played with, and everyone's feelings on 69.

Finally, we celebrate National Orgasm Day (July 31) with a few of our cumpanion's favorite O stories and learn about Rayna's new O-inspiring c*mpany Vibes Only!

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14 Sex Ed For All (Mariah) Jul 01, 2022

This week we witnessed the loss of reproductive rights for millions of people in the US with the overturning of Roe v. Wade. We still maintain our rights to speak out and our right to education which is why we are elated to be joined by inclusive youth sex educator Mariah (@SexEdFiles) to discuss good sex education and how to teach consent, body autonomy, media literacy, and sexual health to children/teens of various ages. We hear about Mariah's experience as a teacher, the most common questions she gets from her anonymous question boxes, the harm that abstinence only education and purity culture can do to health, and why sex ed should start at home with parents. Finally, we bust the hymen myth and Mariah gives her advice on what do to if you haven't had an O yet.

TW: Childhood SA

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13 The Liar, the Witch, and the Woman (Maggie Lalley) Jun 14, 2022

TW: Childhood SA

Stand up comic and musical comedian Maggie Lalley joins Remy to talk about her solo show 'Sex Witch The Musical' which has been featured in the Edinburgh Fringe Festival and New York Comedy Festival. We discuss the childhood assault that happened to Maggie which the musical is based off of, what assault between two childreen can look like, as well as how she healed and turned trauma into art.

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12 Imposter Syndrome + Yoga (Jessamyn Stanley) May 23, 2022

Why do people feel the need to comment on "unhealthy bodies" when they don't comment on health elsewhere? This week we are joined by award-winning yoga instructor, entrepreneur, and author Jessamyn Stanley talking body diversity in yoga, overcoming imposter syndrome, and the journey to self-acceptance.

Jessamyn also tells about growing up in the Bahá’í faith, what coming out to her family was like, and why she transitioned from being a religious person to being a spiritual one.

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11 Vasectomies, Male Fertility and Sexual Health (Dr. Justin Houman) Apr 30, 2022

We're talking penis problems and how to solve them with Dr. Justin Houman, a urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist in Beverly Hills. Dr. Houman's practice is focused on male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction, male fertility, vasectomies, male incontinence, and Peyronie’s disease. As a minimally-invasive microscopic surgeon, he specializes in microsurgical varicocelectomies, vasectomy reversals, sperm retrievals, penile implants, and more.

Dr. Houman’s practice is centered on enhancing men’s quality of life through hormone management, improving sexual function, and achieving reproductive goals. We learned so much!

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10 Cumpanion Cumgratulations Apr 20, 2022

Remy and Robyn welcome "Molly," a cumpanion who is coming to this weekend's DC show and who can now come -- because of this podcast!! She tells us about doing the assignments, failing, the episodes that inspired her, and the thing (or person) that eventually got her there! She also suggests an OMAZING book called The Adventure Challenge: For Couples.

We also chat briefly with Remy's "second mom" Lucy about why she thinks having pimples means you are in love and why Robyn should come back to the US immediately.

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9 Birth Control and Bridgerton (Katie Hannigan) Apr 10, 2022

Hilarious comedian Katie Hannigan joins us to talk about her birth control journey; the side effects that she has endured on different modes of BC (including losing her libido and losing her mind), and what she is on now. We talk about how her body healed, getting her libido back, and how horny Bridgerton makes us. Seasons 1 + 2 SPOILERS ahead, in case you haven't finished yet.

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8 Non-Monogamy + The Academy Slap (Gabrielle Alexa Noel) Apr 01, 2022

This week the internet was ablaze with the scandal that took place at this year's Academy Awards this past Sunday and the jokes made in its aftermath. How To Live With the Internet and Not Let It Ruin Your Life author Gabrielle Alexa Noel guides us through as we discuss jokes, nuance, and why picking a side has felt so imperative recently. Gabrielle gives us a behind the scenes account of her guest appearance on the Red Table Talk , what it was like discussing polyamory with Will, Jada, + Willow, and tells us her own personal journey of coming out as poly as well. Follow us @HowCumPodcast

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7 Feet, Fetish & Kink (Gigi Engle + Corey Rodrigues) Mar 26, 2022

We're talking FEET and sex on this long awaited episode with certified sex educator and award-winning author Gigi Engle and comedian and actor Corey Rodrigues. Corey tells us about his relationship with feet; what he likes about them, how old he was when he realized he had a foot fetish, his red flags when it comes to dating and whether he would want to be with someone who had a foot fetish of their own! We also dive into the differences between fetish and kink and how what is viewed as "normal" is determined by society instead of what is actually common (foot fetishes are apparently EXTREMELY common!)

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6 Girl Jackass (Rachel Wolfson) Mar 16, 2022

This week we are joined by Rachel Wolfson, the first female cast member of the Jackass movies and the only female cast member in the new movie, Jackass Forever. We are discussing how she felt getting DMd by Johnny Knoxville, being the only female cast member, life on set and how Covid impacted filming, along with the pranks/stunts she participated in. Follow us @RemyKassimir and follow Rachel @rachelwolfson

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5 Wendi's Cumgratulations (Wendi Starling) Mar 03, 2022

Our first guest EVER comedian Wendi Starling is back for a series of cumgratulations and we couldn't be more proud. Hear how she went from infamously stating that "love was not in the cards" for her in episode 1 to now in love, living her boyfriend, and expecting a baby! We discuss when and why she quit sex work (OnlyFans and working as a sugar baby), how she met her boyfriend, and the romantic way they first said, "I love you." Follow us @RemyKassimir @wendi.starling

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Save the Children (Ukraine Relief)

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4 Remy and Robyn Say Goodbye Mar 03, 2022

(For now!) Robyn's US visit has cum to an end and she is off to the UK. She and Remy recap the highs and lows of the 6-week trip and we learn about who Robyn Kennedy was before the podcast -- or, pre-cum, if you will. We also talk Euphoria, Ukraine, Remy + Robyn's plan to "Pluck Putin," the suppression of teaching CRT in 36 states, voting rights, the anti-trans mandates in Texas, and the "don't say gay" ban in Florida.

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3 Ranch Reboot Retreat (Nicoletta Heidegger, Lisa Reider + Ashley Manta) Feb 21, 2022

This episode is full of woo-woo, magic, meant to be moments, and rejuvenation. Remy and Robyn chat with our new friends Nicoletta Heidegger + Lisa Reider and our old pal Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) about the Ranch Reboot Retreat that Nicoletta threw in LA in January that we got to attend! As a Licensed Therapist and Sexologist who utilizes Equine Therapy, Nicoletta put together a restorative and enlightening day filled with yoga, breathwork, erotic wellness, goal setting, animal assisted learning, past life regressions + soundbaths. We talk about each of the events, how they shaped us and have informed how we are going to navigate this year better and more embodied.

TW: Suicidal Ideation

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2 Scandal and the City (Gabrielle Bluestone + EJ Dickson) Feb 11, 2022

This episode is all about New York City sex and scandal. First, Remy and Robyn discuss what was wrong with the finale of And Just Like That and what WE would have done as the writers of this season of the Sex and The City reboot. Then we are joined by NYC natives and Remy's childhood friends Hype writer, Fyre Producer, and author of the recent "What Danielle Miller Learned at Horace Mann and Rikers" for NY Mag, Gabrielle Bluestone as well as senior writer at Rolling Stone (covering internet culture) EJ Dickson. We discuss who Danielle Miller was when she became a New York City "legend" in eighth grade, the incident that changed her life, and her life now as reported by Gabrielle in a series of exclusive interviews. TW: SA, Child P*rn, Revenge P*rn Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @RobynKennnedy

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1 How Tantra Turns You On (Henika Patel) Feb 03, 2022

We're back! Season 5 kicks off with Remy and Robyn together in the USA for the first time. They recount the last few weeks and are joined by Henika Patel, founder of the School of Sensual Arts to talk Tantra. Henika combines ancient Indian wisdom of tantra and yoga with western psychology and living to turn body numbness and shame into orgasmic abundance and celebration! We're discussing tantra as a path to healing shame, embracing your body, and creating space to C*M. Henika shares how she conquered body numbness and her first energetic orgasm done using only sound waves without genital stimulation.

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Hey, It's Not Che Diaz! (Bonus) Jan 11, 2022

Robyn has landed in LA and she and Remy are back for a special bonus episode to celebrate A BUNCH OF STUFF: Our first time meeting in-person after working together for 2 YEARS, How C*m being back on the Top Comedy charts because of a Tik Tok (!!) and our upc*mming live shows in LA + NYC!! We're discussing all the precautions we are taking to make these shows safe and fun AF for you, and c*mfortable enough for us to do them, the promises Remy made to Robyn's mom before she left NZ, and how our shows will differ from Che Diaz' comedy concerts.

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40 How C*m We Idolized Carrie? An AJLT Acc*mpaniment (Ashley Ray + Paris Campbell) Dec 31, 2021

Spoiler Alert: Sex And The City, And Just Like That

For our final episode of season 4 and 2021 we are joined by two comedians and television aficionados Paris Campbell and Ashley Ray to discuss all things ‘And Just Like That.' We talk about what we loved and hated about the original Sex and The City, the psychology behind why we 'hate watch' things, and HOW did we ever idolize Carrie Bradshaw? We unpack the difficulty of originally having to fit into a Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, or Charlotte, what the writers got wrong in this new series, and break down the new character 'Che' as well as whether or not the writers are just trying to have token diversity in the new series. Finally we discuss the writer's missed opportunities, and what we would like to see in the c*mming episodes.

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39 How Toxic (Dr. Natalie Jones) Dec 31, 2021

Therapist, writer and mental wellness consultant Dr. Natalie Jones is here to talk TOXICITY! We discuss what it means to be toxic, what fear based dating is and why we do it, why we overlook red-flags in romantic relationships and friendships, what defines unhealthy behaviors in relationships, narcissistic traits to look for in others and ourselves, and how to overcome all of it.

THEN Robyn shares her most recent PURELY MENTAL full body c*mgrats and we are SO PROUD!!

TW: Abuse, narcissism. However, Dr. Jones turns painful experiences of narcissistic abuse into healing nuggets and we highly rec*mmend this episode.

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38 How Tantric (Sarrah Rose) Dec 17, 2021

Sarrah Rose, founder of Tantric Activation joins us to discuss how to do Tantric Sex solo and partnered. We discuss why she got into tantric sex after giving birth to her daughter, how she used it to feel more energized and to facilitate many big awakenings in her life. Sarrah shares about how using breath, sound, movement, and focus together can change the way you have s*x. Finally we discuss bringing meditation into sex, the difference between tantric and non-tantric orgasms, along with how to achieve intense tantric orgasms.

Before Sarrah, we have fantastic c*mpanion Stephanie on to talk about having her first O at 28 years old and then posting about it ON THE GRID on Instagram. We are so proud!

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37 How To Bec*m Financially Independent (@NoBudgetBabe) Nov 30, 2021

Today's guest is Nicole Victoria, financial expert, money coach, and CEO of the international financial literacy company No Budget Babe. We're talking the importance of being financially independent and all the ways to get there, including getting rid of debt, paying off student loans and investing in both property and stocks. Nicole shares how she went from $40,000 in debt to a millionaire, why she believes budgets are like diet pills and why "The Makin Money Moves Method" (her 3-month coaching program) is a better way to master your finances without a budget and without restriction.

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36 How ADHD Affects Sex + Relationships (Dr. Ari Tuckman) Nov 20, 2021

Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and author of 'ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship' Dr Ari Tuckman joins us as we explore the connection between ADHD and relationships. We talk about how late in life diagnosis' can affect your relationships, finally realizing you aren't "crazy, stupid, or lazy", and the importance of understanding your or your partners ADHD. We're discussing the ways that ADHD can impact relationships where only one partner is diagnosed, and Dr Tuckman tells us about how ADHD can impact both your solo and partnered s*x life.

Get yourself a copy of Dr Tuckman's books and keep up with his work at adultadhdbook.com

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35 How to Open Up Your Relationship (@QueerSexTherapy + Khalid Rahmaan) Nov 05, 2021

Spoiler Alert: ‘You’ Season 3

We're talking OPEN RELATIONSHIPS with creator of the IG account @queersextherapy & CEO of The Expansive Group, AASECT certified sex therapist Casey Tanner and comedian Khalid Rahmaan.

Casey guides us through the different types of non-monogamous relationships, how to ask for one, how to tailor them to better suit your current relationship, and things to consider before opening up and how therapy can help you and your partner create a good foundation. Casey shares her experience with open relationships, including making the decision to close it temporarily.

Then we 'katch up with Khalid' and c*mgratulate him on his first open relationships! We discuss what his dating life was like before open relationships, how he approached the topic with partners, and what his dating life is like now. We hear about some of the challenges he has faced throughout the experience and Khalid gives some advice on overc*mming them.

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34 How Was The Abortion Oct 21, 2021

We decided to do this episode following Texas legislature enacting their stringent abortion law (SB8) and it is more necessary than ever now, with more than 100 abortion restrictions enacted just this year.

We hear from six incredible C*mpanions from all over the US (and one in Peru) who share unique stories of abortion; either their own, a parent's, or a friend who they helped.

Thank you to Kelsea, Hayley, Noelle, Ilana, Kaylee & Giulia

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33 How to Get Your Orgasm Data (Anna Lee) Oct 13, 2021

We are honored to have Anna Lee, co-founder and Vice President of Engineering at Lioness on to talk about the world's first smart vibrator that helps improve your orgasms through biofeedback technology; using it to track, compare, and deliver you your orgasm data!

We discuss the three different types of orgasms; the avalanche, volcano, and the ocean, what they look like on a graph and how the features that you can use to explore your orgasm data further. We discuss how the toy can be used anally and in conjunction with other toys and still track your orgasm, as well as the many experiments Anna has performed. Finally, we discuss the features of the Lioness app and how user's can opt-in to share their data with researchers to help further what we know about sexual health.

Four our c*mgrats this week we have a National Coming Out Day exclusive with c*mpanion Abby! We hear all about their experience topping a girl for the first time and making her c*m. Abby talks about what their coming out journey was like, including coming out to themself, their mum, and their friends. Finally, we discuss solo sex, what toys Abby prefers, and the struggle with manual masturbation.

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32 How Bald Part Deux (Dr. Joel Kassimir) Oct 01, 2021

Last week we talked to comedian Dylan Palladino about balding and his newly shaved head; this week we are getting a medical expert's knowledge on all things hair-loss.

Our guest is extremely special; none other than New York Board Certified Dermatologist with 42 years of experience, son to Nanny, and dad to Remy and Charlotte (and their brothers), Dr. Joel Kassimir.

The iconic 'Dr. K' teaches us about everything you need to know about hair-loss; the different types and causes, various methods on how to fix it including hair transplants, medication, topical creams and wigs, and many other incredible questions from the Cumpanions.

We also get to learn his journey into dermatology, how he feels about his own hair-loss, and then a story from our Cumpanion Sydney about shaving her head and donating her hair!

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31 How Bald (Dylan Palladino) Sep 27, 2021

We're talking balding with comedian+ podcaster Dylan Palladino!

Dylan tells us about his momentous decision to shave his head and his hair-loss journey that led him to it. We discuss the emotional side of hair loss, the efficacy of Propecia, and the myths about its connection to erectile disfunction. Dylan tells us about his own bouts with ED and the importance of bringing up taboo/embarrassing conversations amongst cis men and the benefits of sharing stories.

Finally we talk body hair, beards, and pube maintenance!

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30 How Peg (Luna Matatas, Lola Jean + Brian) Sep 21, 2021

This week we are talking anal penetration and "Peg The Patriarchy," a slogan coined by sex educator Luna Mattatas but made uber viral by Cara DeLevigne last week, wearing the stolen phrase in a Dior outfit on the red carpet of the Met Gala.

We talk to Luna about what she intended the phrase to mean when she coined it in 2015 and what Cara has taken it to mean as well as the Twitter discourse surrounding it and how she felt seeing it stolen. We also discuss why the term "pegging" itself can be problematic, its origin story with former guest Dan Savage and various other terms to use instead.

We then learn all about pegging welcuming back Lola Jean, sex educator and instructor of Remy's masturbation class, who teaches us about using fingers, using a strap on, and toys to use when first experiencing anal. We also talk to Brian who receives anal often from a cis female partner and tells us about how he got into it as well as his preparation for a date.

TW: Sensitive content

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29 How Greek (Jordyn Fischer) Sep 10, 2021

We're talking Greek Life this week! Sororities, Fraternities, rushing, hazing and why people do it-- with one of Remy's best friends and college roommate of 3 years Jordyn Fischer! Jordyn is the VP of programming at the creative video company Jellysmack and though she was not in a sorority in college, was enthralled by "Rush Tok" or "Bama Rush" taking over Tik Tok a few weeks ago. We discuss the viral phenomenon, the PNM's in the videos, as well as how our college experiences differed. We also talk about the financial barriers to joining a sorority or frat, and how joining may or may effect your future. Finally, Remy reveals her story of how she started a sorority senior year (and then was swiftly asked not to come to events anymore) and Jordyn recounts what it was like being her roommate at the time.

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28 How Only Fans Changed Their Minds (Billy Procida, Anya Volz, Kenneth Pabon + Ben DeMarco) Aug 31, 2021

Only Fans this week announced that they would no longer be allowing adult content and then took it back after swift internet backlash. We are talking to Anya Volz (comedian, podcaster, OF creator), Billy Procida (comedian, podcaster, OF creator), and Kenneth Pabon (Tik Tok sensation and OF creator) about how they were feeling during the impending ban and how credit card companies and social media sites are still suppressing sex workers and their content. Yes, cumgrats to us for bringing OF back, but what else can we do to help sex workers?

Also, cumgrats to comedian and Remy's boyfriend Ben DeMarco who is back to celebrate his 35th birthday and the fact that he knew OF would take it back.

TW: SA, human trafficking

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27 How Much Money Do You Make? (Nicole Lapin) Aug 21, 2021

New York Times bestselling author of ‘Rich Bitch’ and ‘Boss Bitch’ Nicole Lapin joins us to talk about taking control of your finances. We discuss the taboo around money conversation and how to alleviate some of the secrecy by talking about your situation first. Coming from an immigrant family with money struggles, Nicole tells us about her journey towards being financially literate including experiences with entitled “hedge-fund bros.” We discuss her new podcast ‘Money Rehab’ and Nicole gives us an overview of how to take back control of your money, tips for budgeting and the importance of goal setting. Finally, we discuss the struggle of being a strong financially independent woman today, the deep-rooted sexism within some companies, and how to get the raise you deserve.

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26 How Often Do You Shower (Gianmarco Soresi, Andrea Allan + Emily Lubin) Aug 16, 2021

The internet is abuzz with celebrities from Jake Gyllenhall to Mila Kunis + Ashton Kutcher revealing how often or how little they shower from so you KNOW it's time for Dirty Girl Privilege Part Deux with our friends and Hot Mess Comedy Hour hosts Emily Lubin and Andrea Allan! The girls are back and this time they are joined by comedian/ The Downside host Gianmarco Soresi, who went viral this week for a literal Twitter feud with Dwayne The Rock Johnson about hygiene!! Cumazing. We talk all things showering, the celebs who don't, why some of us don't like to, the conspiracy theories behind why these celebs are divulging this stuff and whether a baby wipe really is enough to clean you.

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25 How Gymnasty (Sylvie Borschel + Dylan Adler) Aug 10, 2021

This week Simone Biles dropped out of competing for US gymnastics in the Olympics this week due to mental health concerns and we talked to TWO comedians and former gymnasts, Sylvie Borschel and Dylan Adler (welcum back!) about how they feel about Simone dropping out, the internets response to it, and the gymnastics culture in general. The good, the bad, the dark ugly, and how it shaped them as children.

TW: Sexual Assault/ childhood SA

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24 How Do We Still Love Twilight (Gabby Bryan) Aug 03, 2021

Remy and fellow Twihard comedian/podcaster Gabby Bryan dig into The Twilight Saga (now on Netflix) and WHY we love it so much despite its heteronormative, hyper religious, borderline pedophilic themes. We talk about how it affected us as teens as well as how we've started seeing things differently and changed our minds on a great deal of things ie Edward or Jacob and what age would we want to get turned at?

CW: We've got more bleeps in this episode about A TWEEN BOOK than we have in any other episode because of the repeated casual mentions of SA.

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23 How to Eat Ass (Christiana Jackson) Jul 26, 2021

You've ass-ked and we've delivered: we're teaching you how to eat ass with the comedian who puts the ass in passionate and the host of the Stout Lusty Wench podcast, Christiana Jackson!

We discuss positions, preparation, the importance of reciprocity and so much more. We also celebrate Christiana's recent birthday and how turning 40 has changed how she views sex.

Thanks SO MUCH also to our Cumpanion Molly for sharing her cumazing story about OCD and working at a sex shop!

CW in this episode: suicidal ideation, some disturbing intrusive thoughts, revenge porn

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22 How Far She's Cum (Poutine Levine) Jul 18, 2021

A trip down memory lane with Remy's longtime friend, writer and drag performer Poutine Levine. We talk about the importance of changing your mind and changing paths, Poutine's journey to drag and gender fluidity, the importance of long term friendships and how they evolve over the time.

Also, thank you to our SURPRISE guest for stopping by!

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21 Late Bloomers and Gay Ass Movies (@FatCarrieBradshaw + Eric Williams) Jul 08, 2021

A cumazing episode all about late blooming, coming out/dating later in life, and "gay ass movies" that shaped us with Gay Ass Podcast host/ comedian Eric Williams and Betchlor host/comedian Chris Burns, AKA @FatCarrieBradshaw.

Thank you to our Cumpanion Jaclyn for sharing her cumgratulations as well as her own late blooming story!

Gay Ass Movies Mentioned: Center Stage, Clueless, Drop Dead Gorgeous, First Wives Club, Grease 1+2, Hocus Pocus, Mean Girls 1+2, My Best Friend's Wedding, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, My Fair Lady, Parent Trap, Practical Magic, Sister Act 1+2, Stardust, The Fifth Element, The Greatest Showman, Troop Beverly Hills

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20 How Animals Do It (Richie Redding + Dr. Lisa Lippman) Jun 25, 2021

We're talking about the birds and the bees-- and how SO many other animals get it on with one of the most socially influential veterinarians in the United States Dr. Lisa Lippman, and her partner/ We Don't Deserve Dogs podcast co-host and stand-up comedian Richie Redding (HBO)!

Learn how different animals bang, reproduce, who has got the "weirdest" genitalia, which animal gives birth out of their cl*t, and why mammals have a specific number of nipples.

TRIGGER WARNING: incest, r*pe, beastiality (don't do it!)

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19 How Not Horny (Irene Tu) Jun 16, 2021

We're talking to stand-up comedian and actor Irene Tu, who has NEVER had an orgasm and is probably okay with that! Irene tells us about how she is "almost never horny" and how the societal pressure for her to cum lead to her going down a rabbit hole that nearly ruined her life. Irene shares with us why she feels she may be Asexual, though she does want companionship, and we discuss the importance of emotional intimacy and foreplay leading up to a sexual experience. We hear about why she prefers giving orgasms to receiving them, and if she thinks SHE could date someone who doesn't cum. Finally we discuss constantly crushing, Irene's coming out story, and Remy receives a rec*mmendation from Irene!

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Recummendations in this episode: Portrait of a Lady on Fire

18 How Gen Z/ How Friend Part Deux (Marissa Meizz + Drew Hardin) Jun 08, 2021

New Tik Tok besties Marissa and Drew (!!) c*m on to talk about their whirlwind Tik Tok friendship [inspired by Drew’s viral video overhearing Marissa’s friend’s talking sh*t on her]— what Marissa did when she found out, how she finally met Drew, and the new meetup/friendship group that she started in the aftermath; @nomorelonelyfriends.

We discuss making new friends; how to do it, where to do it, and why rejection therapy can be really helpful! Finally we discuss one of our guest’s EXTREMELY Gen Z first time c*mming story and the other’s delightfully recent cumgratulations!

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Recummendations in this episode: Bo Burnham’s Inside (Netflix)

Hacks (HBO Max)

Pushing Daisies (HBO Max)

17 How Pivotal (Coach Carey) May 29, 2021

We're talking pivotal life moments with life coach and motivational speaker Raia Carey (better known as "Coach Carey") and How C*m's own Social Media superstar and recent college graduate Raechel Murray. Raechel joins us for CumGRADuations to celebrate the graduating classes of 2020 and 2021 and talk about graduating during the pandemic, what school has been like since the beginning of Covid, the college experiences she feels she missed out on, and her future plans now that she has graduated.

Then we chat with Raia about life coaching; when to do it, how it can help to bridge the gap between therapy and psychiatry, and how it encourages clients to break down and accomplish their goals. Finally, Raia tells us about coming out as a "Hybrid" in fourth grade, Instagram's new feature that allows you to put your pronouns in your bio, along with learning how to politely ask for someone's pronouns.

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16 How Understanding (Eman El Husseini + Jess Salomon) May 22, 2021

We're talking Israel + Palestine with your favorite Jewish/Palestinian lesbian married couple, OR the only one you know -- the "El Salomons!" Comedians Jess Salomon and Eman El Husseini join us to discuss how they met, what it was like for them in the early stages of their relationship, coming out to their families and how the history between Jews and Palestinians helped bring them closer together. We discuss what is currently going on in Israel and Palestine, and the importance of educating yourself instead of just blindly following the media/ erratic social media posts. Jess and Eman tell us about how Jews and Palestinians view the LGBTQ+ community, both in the past and presently, and the effects this has had on their relationship; Eman shares why her parents didn't come to their wedding and Jess shares the difficulties her family had to overcome with her dating a Palestinian.

CW: The Holocaust, ethnic cleansing, homophobia

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15 How Unexpected (Ester Steinberg) May 13, 2021

Comedian and season 1 guest Ester Steinberg is back for a special cumgratulations: we are celebrating her first Mother's Day! She tells us about the bizarre techniques that the internet suggests for inducing labor, how often she masturbated during pregnancy, and what breastfeeding was like for her. Finally, hear why Ester recommends everyone have an open relationship with their partner before they get engaged.

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14 How Sad and Sexy - SSRIs ( Andrew Collin + Dr. Barbara Bartlik) May 06, 2021

You've requested it, and it's FINALLY HERE! We're talking anti-depressants and sexual dysfunction with psychiatrist + sex therapist Dr. Barbara Bartlik and comedian Andrew Collin! Andrew tells us about his journey with anxiety, depression and medication. We cover the sexual frustration that comes with the loss of orgasms while on SSRIs and how he has learned to cope, with sex positions that work best for him. We discuss weighing out the pros and cons when it comes to maintaining sexual and mental health, and Dr. Bartlik offers advice for anyone dealing with similar issues.

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13 How Sensitive (JR De Guzman) Apr 28, 2021

We’re talking sensitivity with comedian crooner JR De Guzman (Netflix, Kevin Hart’s Hart of the City). From his heart to his uncircumcised head JR knows sensitivity and joins us for a heartfelt conversation on falling in love deep and fast, the 5 love languages, and the importance of talking about these topics among other men. We get confronted about our relationship with ourselves and our capacity to love others while learning to establish healthy boundaries. How to change the narrative from finding someone to learning how to be, love, and care for yourself as “the one”.

We get existential while we consider our purpose as humans on this earth and how we have gotten so disconnected from nature’s balance (especially in urban contexts). Finally, we discuss uncircumsized dick shaming, and how high school was hell for everyone with “abnormal” genitalia when actually, we all had shitty Sex Education and didn’t really know what “normal” reproductive organs actually look like.

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Environmental things:

Learn further about the causes and effects of climate change, and what short and long-term solutions there are. FutureLearn and edX are some sites that offer (mostly free) environmental science courses.
Keep up with current events. You can begin by following @cnnclimate, @intersectionalenvironmentalist, and @unclimatechange on Instagram.
DONATE to or spread the word about climate justice organizations such as The Coalition for Rainforest Nations, 350.org, and Direct Relief International.
Articles: How to Stop Global Warming (NRDC), Why the Fight for Climate Justice is a Fight for Justice Itself (Landscape News)
Documentaries: How the Climate Crisis and Systemic Racism are Deeply Connected (Youtube), Environmental Racism Explained (Youtube) A Life on our Planet (Netflix), Kiss the Ground (Netflix)

12 How Motherhood Happened (Jessica Kirson) Apr 21, 2021

Undeniably hilarious comedian and producer of FX’s new documentary ‘Hysterical,’ Jessica Kirson joins us on this exciting episode. We discuss her new film, in which she stars in alongside fellow iconic female stand-ups. Hysterical chronicles the endeavor of reaching success in a male-dominated industry (which is relevant for all women, honestly) and the importance of lifting each other up, and recognize that there is space for everyone.

We learn how Jessica was personally selected by Robert DeNiro to teach him how to perform stand up comedy on the set of The Comedian, and how she subsequently became a producer.

We also discuss Jessica's sexual journey: Cumming early in life, coming out later in life, having sex with men but no orgasms, as well as how she became a mother of four daughters when she never intended on having children at all!

She shares why she never wanted to have kids as well as why she is so happy that she did.

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11 How Accessible (Pamela Rae Schuller) Apr 14, 2021

This week we are joined by internationally known disability advocate and stand-up comedian Pamela Rae Schuller. Pamela tells us about growing up as a person of short stature with Tourettes and OCD, "The cute kind of Tourettes!" But also the kind that caused a tic strong enough to break her neck. We discuss the portrayal of disability in the media and how it perpetuates misconceptions that promote stigma. We talk about how children with all kinds of disabilities struggle to fit in and often get thrown into special ed, and the differences between the structural shaming of these kids in public school and the boarding school that helped her fall in love with comedy by fully embracing who she is. Pamela tells us about her experiences talking in schools and the difference between the way adults and kids respond to her talks. She spills the tea about her experience with Peloton Bikes and the hate she received after her New York Post article, which was meant to raise awareness around inclusion and accessibility for fitness brands, especially during this pandemic. Finally, we hear about imposter syndrome and discuss finding the balance to nail new opportunities. Also on this episode: Cumpanion Cumgratulations! Thank you to Becky (40s, Florida) for sharing your stories with us. CW: Sexual Violence, Offensive Language

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10 How Photogenic (Dave Krugman + Jenni Walkowiak) Apr 07, 2021

This week witnessed Khloe Kardashian's unedited photo "scandal" and we talked to two NYC photographers, Dave Krugman and Jenni Walkowiak, about the hyper-visual age we live in and the psycological effects it has on us.

The need for better online personas has made photoshoots an ordeal we must all go through, whether it’s for LinkedIn, your CV or your new Instagram profile picture. Have you ever had a meltdown because you couldn’t communicate with your photographer? Or because you looked like shit and you felt awkward ‘cause you don’t really know how to pose for your body type? Or your nose looked crooked? Well, we have. We talked to our two photographers about taking better pictures from a male and female perspective. They give us useful tips on how to pose, and tricks for a more comfortable photoshoot (spoiler alert: a pet helps with anxiety). Will this help with our body image issues? Join us for this awesome and eye-opening episode.

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9 How Betchy (Sami Sage) Apr 01, 2021

We have a special cumgratuations: Celebrating Betches Media 10 year anniversary with Co-Founder and Chief Creative Officer Sami Sage! Betches is a female-founded and led entertainment brand that provides a space for all women to get real. Join us to learn about how they started as an anonymous blog between friends and grew into a profitable multi-faceted media source (with 11 brands under their belt) that we love because of their ability to adapt to societal change.

Sami tells us about Betches’ process of evolving as creators and leaders, the many factors of coming from a place of privilege; and deciding to use that privilege for good. We also discussed the toxic positivity surrounding “Girl Boss Culture” and how a Girl Boss differs from a Business Betch.

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8 How Dare You (Dominique Nisperos) Mar 25, 2021

Trigger warning: this episode discusses the increase of violence against AAPI folks.

Join us for this important conversation around the intersection of racism and sexism around hate crimes and white terrorism. In the wake of Atlanta’s recent tragedy and the rise of violence against the Asian community, Dominique Nisperos is a comedian and doctoral candidate in sociology that wants Asian-Americans to know that their experience is valid. She aces putting her feelings into words and shining a light on what BIPOC and white allies can do to help.

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Books Mentioned by Dominique: Killing Rage - Bell Hooks Slave Patrols - Sally Hadden W.E.B Du Bois (anything by) Angela Davis (anything by) A Litany for. Survival - Audrey Lord The Retreat from Race - Dana Y Takagi The Opening of the American Mind - Lawrence W. Levine The Ethnic Myth - Stephen Steinberg Inequality by Design - Claude S. Fischer Myth of the Model Minority - Rosalind S. Chou My Grandmother's Hands - Resmaa Menakem

7 How Fit (Melody Afkami, Nicole Pearce + Riley Lassin) Mar 18, 2021

Only 6 more days until hot girl summer!! How to get washboard abs in just 7 days! -- And other fitness headlines that will make you click, but won't work. We're talking fitness with personal trainer and fitness instructor Nicole Pearce and CEO and founder of DanceFit Melody Afkami. We talk exercise clickbait, binging and quitting, and the dangers of only working out to look hot. Melody and Nicole teach us how to work out for the right reasons and find workouts that actually work for us.

Our Cumpanion cumgrats is a special one as we welcum back comedian and former guest Riley Lassin (S1E19 Merry Vaginismus Part II) for an exciting NEW cumgrats!

CW: Brief mention of the terrorist attack in Atlanta, Georgia

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6 How Exciting (Ben DeMarco) Mar 10, 2021

Remy welcums Ben back to celebrate their 1 year anniversary of accidentally living together, a year in review for all the craziest news from March 2020-March 2021, and to tell you about an exciting little cumgrats of their own.

We are also joined by cumpanion Rick (50) who tells us about SEVERAL cumgratulations that he has had/given that were inspired by How C*m.

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5 How Fake (Gabrielle Bluestone, Wylie Heiner + Sophie Ross) Mar 04, 2021

We're talking social media and celebrity; how fake they can both be, and how scammers, grifters, and con artists are taking over the internet-- and why we're following so intently. Remy welcomes back Emmy-nominated producer and 'Hype' author Gabrielle Bluestone, as well as pop culture writer and critic Sophie Ross, and one of the 3 stars of HBO's new documentary 'Fake Famous' Wylie Heiner.

We talk pop-culture scandals, internet culture vulture's, how to spot someone's PR team in the press, and what Wylie learned from his time on Fake Famous

Trigger Warning: Sexual Abuse

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4 How Body Negative (Maddy Smith + Jordan Jenson) Feb 26, 2021

This week we are celebrating self love through self loathe with comedians and co-hosts of the Flat Bottom Girls podcast, Maddy Smith and Jordan Jenson. We talk about all the reasons we hate ourselves and how to not do that so much!

Trigger Warning: Eating Disorders

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3 How Manly (Stan Talouis) Feb 19, 2021

We're talking manliness vs. toxic masculinity this week with our sweet friend, Comedian Stan Talouis as well as an awesome South African Cumpanion named Tom. We discuss how early life experiences and certain cultural ideals about "manliness" effected them both and how much they've grown since unlearning those things.

TW: Sexual Assault, Violence, Suicidal Ideation

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2 How Squirt (Wednesday Martin PhD + Kenneth Play) Feb 12, 2021

We are joined on this momentous episode by NYTimes Best Selling Author Wednesday Martin PhD and 'World's Best Sex Hacker' Kenneth Play to answer EVERY question you've EVER asked us about ~*squirting*~ ! Is it pee? How do I do it? Are there special sheets I can buy? (There are!)

Wednesday tells us about having her first squirt recorded LIVE for her podcast -- and Kenneth tells us what it was like giving it to her! It is a wet and wild ride + we hope you love it as much as we do.

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1 How Curious (Margaret Cho) Feb 02, 2021

Season 4 kicks off with comedian, activist, musician, and forever sexually curious icon Margaret Cho. We discuss the importance of maintaining sexual curiosity throughout life and why we shouldn't just let our sex lives get stale or "plateau." Margaret tells us about what she's tried recently and introduces us to SO MANY sex toys + sexercises we've never heard of.

Finally, we talk dungeons, dominatrixes, and sexual innovation in times of plague; Margaret tells us that leather became popular in BDSM during the AIDS crisis because fluid bonding wasn't possible, and we wonder: will gas masks become a new kink post-Covid?

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Promising Young Women (Bonus) Jan 23, 2021

Remy and Ben are back to discuss rape-culture, Armie Hammer's cannibalism "scandal" and abuse of upward of 200+ "Kittens" (young women) and Emerald Fennell's powerful and radical new anti-rape film, Promising Young Woman.* (SPOILERS)

TW: Rape, assault, abuse, cannibalism, violence

*This film is now considered "required viewing" by the How Cum team. Rent it on YouTube or search google for where it is streaming in your country if not available there

Instagram accounts mentioned: @houseofeffie @soph_ross

Rolling Stone Article mentioned

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40 Cumgratulations/ How Friend (Marie Faustin + Sydnee Washington) Dec 29, 2020

Hi best friends! For our season 3 finale we are celebrating C*mgratulations and FRIENDSHIPS! Two things that got us through this wildly tough year. We're joined by two amazing Best Friends, hilarious Stand-up Comedians and co-hosts of the 'Unofficial Expert' podcast, Sydnee Washington and Marie Faustin. Sydnee and Marie tell us about how they met and fell in friend love, making friends as adults, working with friends, and what it takes to make a great long-lasting friendship work. Remy talks about it being hard to be friends as an insecure person, and why it is important to be there for them rather than roast them. Finally, we cover the importance of your friends getting along with your partner easily; along with having different friends for different things while still having a 'home base friend'.

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39 How Cult (Brooke Arnold) Dec 22, 2020

Trigger Warning: Rape/Sexual Assault/Cults

This week we are joined by comedian, writer and professor Brooke Arnold. Brooke tells us all about her experience of growing up in a cult that has been called "The world's most woman-hating cult" from the ages of 7 to 17, how she escaped and what adjusting to life afterwards was like. We get a look deep inside her former cult-- The Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP) and its ‘7 Non-Optional Life Principles’ - and how those principles (Design, Authority, Responsibility, Suffering, Ownership, and Freedom) were constructed to justify and perpetuate a pyramid scheme of abuse and sexual assault. We discuss what makes something a cult, how to tell if something is a cult, and what makes people vulnerable to being sucked in. Finally Brooke tells us how cults are just indicators of larger culture, why she prefers a psychedelic approach to therapy and how a recent trip to her former cult leader Bill Gothard’s house led her to a healing revelation.

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38 Female Healthcare (Dr. Jolene Brighten) Dec 14, 2020

We're talking hormones and women's healthcare with a prominent leader in women's medicine and author of 'Beyond The Pill,' Dr Jolene Brighten.

Dr Brighten tells us how she combines naturopathic and conventional medicine to treat various hormonal imbalances and runs us through different options of birth control for women depending on how their bodies respond. She tells us about PCOS (Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome), which can occur after coming off of birth control and how she and other women have been misdiagnosed with it.

Finally, Dr Brighten tells us about navigating health issues for the trans community, a horrifying TikTok trend that sheds light on how the US healthcare system is failing women and sexual abuse survivors, and how to better advocate for yourself in medical situations.

TW: Sexual Assault/Rape

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Book Mentioned - Medical Apartheid Movie Mentioned - Meet Your Meat Contraception Guide - Contraception Guide

37 Hypocrites and Idiots (Joey Dardano + Irene Morales) Dec 08, 2020

This week we are joined by two hilarious comedians to talk about advice and whether the people who dish it out can be trusted.

Joey Dardano, host of 'Help From A Hypocrite' podcast and Irene Morales, host of 'Dear Nana: Advice From An Idiot' talk the best advice they've received on their respective podcasts, gaining life experience in order to give advice and how to properly take on any advice that someone gives you. Joey and Irene both tells us about about growing up as Cuban Catholics and we discuss how God/ The Universe plays a factor in people's lives differently. We talk about Irene's miraculous recovery from Spinal Meningitis and Joey tells us about recovering from a break up and why casual sex doesn't work for everyone. Finally, we talk Joey's IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) and how he became TikTok famous because of it, as well as the difficulties surrounding bringing it up with a new partner.

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36 Weed + Sex (The Cannasexual, Chanel Ali, and Courtney Reynolds) Dec 01, 2020

We're talking two of our favorite things- sex and weed with award-winning sex educator and coach Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) and comedians and regular cannabis consumers Chanel Ali and Courtney Reynolds. We're talking everything from using weed as a tool to help relax you during sex, to using it to help conversation about sex flow freely afterwards in the debrief. Ashley tells us all about the effects of CBD, THC, and even CBN; and gives advice on how to incorporate these into your sex lives, both alone and partnered. Courtney and Chanel tell us all about their relationship, and why weed was such a monumental part of forming the foundation for it. Chanel tells us about her 'smoking safety net' and why it is so important for her to be comfortable with someone if she wants to be high around them.

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35 Sex and New York City (EJ Dickson + Julia Moshy) Nov 23, 2020

New York natives EJ Dickson, culture writer for Rolling Stone, and Julia Moshy, Socialite and tastemaker join us this week to talk growing up in New York City in various social circles, high school sex scandals, which celebrities are the most attainable, and the generational differences between Millenials and Gen-Z due to social media.

EJ tells us about a few of her articles including, "No Voting, No Cumming" a small movement started by a dominatrixes in order to encourage their subs to vote blue, and Julia tells us how she's been trolled by Trump supporters for supporting Joe Biden despite her former friendship with Tiffany Trump.

Finally, we discuss "Deepfakes," the artificial intelligence software switching many underage TikTokers faces onto the faces of pornstars.

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Check out some of EJ's articles that we mentioned here:

An Oral History of ‘Ratatouille: The Musical’

Why Sexual-Abuse Survivors Are Getting Sucked Into QAnon

How a Pro-Trump ‘Stop the Steal’ Group Became ‘Gay Communists for Socialism’

People Are Impossibly Horny for Fivey, the FiveThirtyEight Fox

‘Not Voting? Not Cumming!’: Meet the Dominatrixes Getting Submissives to Vote Blue

TikTok Stars Are Being Turned Into Deepfake Porn Without Their Consent

Why Did Everyone Act Like I Was Crazy When I Decided to Have a Baby in My 20s?

34 Womb Havers (Ashley Gavin + Gara Lonning) Nov 17, 2020

Why don't cis men know about the flat tongue technique, and why won't some people take advice once you tell them how you like it? We're breaking it down with the host of ‘We’re Having Gay Sex’, Ashley Gavin and her 'Youth in the Booth' Gara Lonning. These two hilarious comedians discuss how their podcast blew up and how Gara keeps Ashley from getting cancelled. Gara gives us tips on being in an open relationship while Ashley gives some advice on her favored techniques for giving oral, and shines a light on common mistakes people make when going down on a vulva. Finally, everyone talks about their grooming situations, and how showered or un-showered they want a partner to be before going south.

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33 The One About TV Shows (Ashley Ray) Nov 10, 2020

Recorded on the day the election was over, this is a chill joyous episode to celebrate. It's been a stressful week of news watching so we're winding down and making a list of our favorite TV shows; for laughing to, crying to, and getting horny to. Comedian and 'TV, I Say' host Ashley Ray comes by to spill her favorites, tell us about the tweet that got her banned from Twitter today, living as a solo poly person and her cumazingly millennial first time story.

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32 Jokes by Survivors (Dylan Adler + Kelly Bachman) Nov 03, 2020

Trigger warning: Rape/Trauma/PTSD/Assault

This week we are joined by Dylan Adler and Kelly Bachman, standup comedians and co-hosts of “Rape Jokes by Survivors.” Dylan and Kelly tell us about their individual experiences as rape survivors; how they cope and heal, how doing comedy and starting their show helped them to see themselves as survivors rather than victims, and finally their new music video about how extremely horny they both are.

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31 How To Live F*ck Boy Free (Mary Beth Barone) Oct 29, 2020

Comedian Mary Beth Barone joins us this week to talk politics and 'Drag His Ass' her fuck boy treatment and redemption program (and live show/meme account.) We delve into fuck boys; how are they created, are they redeemable and how do you ween yourself off of them? We learn about how many days Mary Beth has been living fuck boy free, why she needed to create the program, as well as what growing up as a Catholic Republican was like, and how that affected her sexuality and coming out journey.

Remy tries to redeem Ben for his fuck boy behavior at the top of their relationship and everyone urges you to VOTE!

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30 Herpes, Tall Men, and Big Misconceptions (Erica Spera) Oct 19, 2020

Comedian and Shooters Gotta Shoot podcast host Erica Spera stops by to talk sex and dating while having herpes and the most common things people get wrong about the extremely common STI. We learn how she got it, the succinct and effective way she tells people she has it, the support group she started for it, and why herpes is not as big of a deal as we've all been taught to think. Finally Remy talks about the STI's she has had and we end with some tall guy vs. short guy tips from Erica.

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29 Daddy Couture (Matthew Camp) Oct 12, 2020

This week we're talking to gorgeous gay icon, Matthew Camp. We learn how he became one of the original pioneers of Instagram modeling as well as co-owner queer clothing company Daddy Couture (with Rebecca More-D*cks of the notorious C*ck Destroyers). We also chat about his wildly successful OnlyFans and adult films. We talk about coming out, Go-Go dancing in NYC, Matthew's late mentor, and the importance of having people who believe in you.

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28 Pregnancy and Covid (Giulia Rozzi + Will Miles) Oct 05, 2020

We’re talking pregnancy during a pandemic with hilarious comedians and new parents Giulia Rozzi and Will Miles. We discuss having a newborn during Covid, pre-birthing classes via Zoom, delivering a baby with a mask on, and Giulia's experience as an ‘older’ mother. We discuss Chrissie Tiegen's recent pregnancy loss and dig into the insensitive Twitter backlash that ensued afterwards. Finally Will and Giulia tell us about how their sex life has changed since having a baby, their work-life balance, and how Covid can actually have a positive effect on being a new parent.

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27 Walking Red Flag (Chris Barnett) Sep 28, 2020

This week we are joined by Tik Tok heart throb and self-proclaimed ‘Starry-eyed Storyteller,’ Chris Barnett. This model/actor, turned TikTok sensation is best known for his POV videos, and his ‘Vintage Acting Challenges’. We discuss how he feels about people falling love with him on the internet because of his acting and how different he is from his characters. We talk DracoTok, thirsty comments, and the myriad of wild fan requests that Chris gets. ("Redo this video but with your shirt cut in half!" "OK!") Finally, he tells us about his love life during Covid, why he won't start an OnlyFans, and the many reasons he considers himself a ‘Walking Red Flag’.

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How Cum: Cumming Out Day LIVE FORUM (October 11)

feat. PAIGE COLE, ASHLEY GAVIN + GARA LONNING

26 Cheaters (Ashley Madison) Sep 21, 2020

That's right, a cheating episode. Tune in as we dive behind the scenes of one of the most controversial online dating sites, Ashley Madison and talk to members and staff about why various people cheat and have affairs. We hear the unique story of Bobby Goldman, a widow (70s) who turned to the website after her husband (a Broadway and Academy award-winning writer) died.

Bobby tells us why she prefers married men to single ones and how she turned her experience of dating 6 men at once into the successful Off Broadway show, The Curvy Widow. We chat with member "Nikki" (40s) who joined just over two years ago with her husband’s knowledge and is technically a “hotwife” as her husband encourages her to have sexual relationships with other men because it excites him.

Finally we are also joined by Isabella Mise, Communication Director of Ashley Madison, about the ins and outs of the website, their response to the 2015 data breach, and her own views on cheating.

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Recommendations:

The Last Five Years (Movie)

The Secret Life of the Cheating Wife (Book)

New York Times Article on Bobby (here.)

25 Sugar Dating (Amanda) Sep 16, 2020

For our 100th episode we are joined by Remy’s good friend, former Sugar Baby and frequent user of ‘Seeking Arrangements,' “Amanda” who takes us on fabulous sugar dating adventures and explains why she no longer works in sex. We discuss how “Regular Dating” differs from “Sugar Dating”, and the precautions you should take when looking into becoming a sugar dater. She tells us about how she became comfortable accepting gifts, what it is like to be flown out to Vegas, and why she wouldn’t sugar anywhere but New York. We learn about how often she came with her paying dates as well as some insider information on average rates within the field. Finally, Amanda divulges how a leap of faith led her to meet her new amazing boyfriend!

TW: SA

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24 Mendy (Sarah Afkami) Sep 08, 2020

This week we are joined by Los Angeles screenwriter and standup comedian, Sarah Afkami. Sarah has just wrapped on a Lionsgate project called "The Look" airing on Starz soon. We chat about Sarah's gender identity, fear of transitioning, and alter-ego "Mendy." We talk strap-ons, body dysphoria, and the isolation of pansexuality as well as how Sarah's early sexuality with women was interpreted by Sarah's parents. Finally, Sarah defines the non-binary paradigm and Remy explain the Bella Thorne Only Fans Scandal / how it is putting sex workers' income in jeopardy.

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23 Catcalls of The World (Sophie Sandberg) Aug 31, 2020

Founder of @CatCallsofNYC Sophie Sandberg comes on to talk about the various types of street harassment and how her grassroots initiative (which started as a class project) has exploded into a global effort with over 200 Catcallsof-- Instagram accounts.

TW: Harassment + SA

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Movies to watch: On The Basis of Sex

22 Coming Out as Straight (Lucas Connolly) Aug 24, 2020

Comedian Lucas Connolly comes all the way from New York for this outrageously funny and didactic episode. He regales us with stories about being one of the earliest 'queerspawn;' growing up with four moms in Laramie Wyoming. We talk about Lucas' hooking up with guys just to make sure he wasn't gay, his Craigslist virginity loss story and a concerning trend he came across on Tik Tok.

Finally, him and Remy discuss the differences in discussion of body image and plastic surgeries in their households, fantasize about the "Genital Olympics," and wonder whether they are 'hot enough' to make it in comedy.

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21 Good Trouble (Michelle Hope) Aug 17, 2020

We are talking to Sexologist and Activist Michelle Hope about what it means to get into "good trouble." We discuss protesting, actionable items for allies, understanding generational trauma, and the importance of voting from the bottom.

Michelle teaches us about body autonomy, a terrifying history of the US using BIPOC women's bodies to develop birth control and medical tools, the complexities of drinking and consent, and feminism vs. intersectional feminism.

We also hear about how working in a strip club shaped Michelle's views of female sexuality and talk about the ways in which she has healed from physical and emotional trauma.

Trigger Warning: r*pe and racial slurs

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*This week please DONATE to Beirut charities after their tragic explosion

Homework from the episode-- check out:

Eloquent Rage by Brittany Cooper

White fragility- Robin DiAngelo

"Misogynoir"- Kimberly Crenshaw

The Girls Guide to Sex Education

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

White fragility

20 What About Ben's Balls? (Ben DeMarco) Aug 10, 2020

It's a penis and balls episode! Ben is back to talk about why him and Remy don't bang often anymore, the famous 90's toy he used to masturbate with as a child, and a genital surgery he might need to undergo in the future. Gavriel tells us about the time they had emergency testicular torsion surgery and Ben almost faints; twice.

We also uncover a rampant lie that Ben has been telling about his own "virginity loss" story, Ben reveals to the Cumpanions how he blew up his hand this week and Remy accidentally blurts out one of the weirdest time-traveling fantasies of all time.

Trigger Warning: Injuries, surgeries, and beatboxing

*This week please DONATE to Beirut charities after their tragic explosion

*And join us at our Zoom Comedy Show August 16th which will benefit The Okra Project

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19 I'll Miss You Most of All (Charlotte Kassimir) Aug 03, 2020

The Kassimir sisters reunite (after recently separating) and discuss the reason for Remy's bittersweet move out of NYC/ Nanny's apartment and Charlotte's plans for the future. They take a trip down memory lane talking childhood diaries, video games they've played for years (Paper Mario, Zelda), and what they plan to do with their matching Deathly Hallows tattoos now that they live on opposite coasts. Remy's cat Grace also makes a cameo to let everyone know how she is settling into life in Oregon.

Finally, one of our teammates shares a very exciting Cumgratulations!

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Rec*mmendations to watch: Disclosure (Netflix)

18 Cumpanion Q+A (Part 2) Jul 27, 2020

Remy, Robyn and Gavriel are answering more of your submitted questions and taking a trip down memory lane to learn all about how every team member became part of the crew.

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This month is disability awareness month! We recommend watching Crip Camp and Love on the Spectrum on Netflix

17 Sluts and Whores (Arielle Kaplan + Lorrae Jo) Jul 20, 2020

We're honored by the presence of TWO of our favorite sex-meme creators this week; Lorrae Jo of @SluttyGrlProbs and the woman behind @Whorgasmic, Arielle Kaplan. We're talking jizz, the Gizzney collection, feminisim + the patriarchy, being poly, balls, different ways people wipe after pooping, Nick Cannon, and like so many other things. It's a lot learning and a lot of fun.

TW: sexual assault, violence and r*pe

CW: Heteronormative language

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16 The Dream Episode (Dr. Dylan Selterman) Jul 13, 2020

Anybody else been having the craziest dreams lately? We have and needed to dig into why. We are talking dreams and nightmares with Dylan Selterman, Senior Lecturer in the Psychology Department at the University of Maryland and manager of the DREAM Lab (Dreams, Relationships, Emotions, Attractions and Morality) there. We discuss what certain types of dreams mean-- if anything, our recent sex dreams, Cumpanion submitted dreams, and how dreams we have while sleeping can affect our relationships with people in our awake lives. We learn about lucid dreaming and how to start doing it and finally Dylan tells us about his recent study and invites all of us to participate in scientific research about dreams during the coronavirus/COVID-19 pandemic here.

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15 The Legendary Syd Xtravaganza (Sydney Baloue) Jul 06, 2020

Our first Ballroom episode! Sydney Baloue (AKA Syd Xtravaganza) is a ballroom archivist and historian as well as a producer of HBO Max's Legendary who joins us to define Ballroom Culture and discuss how it is crossing over to the mainstream. We define Ballroom terms; the different categories of Vogue, Dip vs. Deathdrop, Shade vs. Reading, and the various types of Queens. We talk 'Realness' and Trans identity in ballroom, how sex and sexuality are expressed in ballroom, and finally Sex Work, lack of protection, and discrimination in the ballroom community. This week we encourage Cumpanions to donate to The Okra Project and For the Gworls. DM your receipts for a personalized video!

Not familiar with Ballroom? We encourage you to watch Paris is Burning if you haven’t already before you listen.

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14 Cumpanion Q+A with Remy and the HC Team Jun 29, 2020

This week Remy is joined by some members of the extremely international How Cum team, Robyn Kennedy and Gavriel! We're getting to know the team and answering YOUR submitted Cumpanion questions! Gavriel is a sexual wellness coach and our new producer bringing you research cumming all the way Israel. Robyn, our social media maven cums to us from New Zealand and offers amazing insight that only our resident Gen-z Kiwi could! We’re talking everything from mismatched libidos, the difference between coercion and consent, deep-throating techniques for those who want to do it, what to do when your jaw hurts, dating while asexual, and finally Remy’s Ultimate Guide to going down on a vulva. You DON'T want to miss this one.

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13 Horny at Hogwarts (Neko White + Will Posnan) Jun 22, 2020

Our Harry Potter episode is finally HERE! Our favorite researcher (the magical Charlotte Kassimir) is back to talk witchcraft + wizardry with her sister Remy and the two hosts of the Potterhood podcast, comedians Will Poznan Neko White! These four Potterheads talk sex and romance in the Wizarding World; Which couples did we wish we'd seen hook up? Who at Hogwarts would be the best in bed? Are wizards using contraceptives and if so, what does THAT spell look like? Also, Charlotte shares a Cameo that she got from the incredibly gorgeous James Phelps (Fred Weasley) for her 27th birthday, and we get a behind the scenes fun fact about filming. Finally we discuss J.K. Rowling's recent and wildly insensitive tweets towards trans people, the backlash she has faced, and why it takes time to form a sincere apology.

CW: Transphobia, heteronormative language, JK Rowling

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12 Beauty and The Sink (Cas Humes + Nasser Khan) Jun 15, 2020

Remy and Ben talk about Remy's sexuality and how Ben feels about dating someone who is not entirely straight! Woohoo! Then we go back in time to May 2019 in NYC at Charlotte's apartment and Remy has a grand ole' time with comedian couple Cas Humes and Nasser Khan right before their big move to LA and eventual marriage. We discuss not wanting kids, Nasser and Cas tell us about their similarities from being raised in conservative Christian and Muslim households, and Remy reveals how a trip to Ripley's Believe it Or Not may have awoken her sexuality, believe it or not. We also talk humping inanimate objects as kids, Harry Potter erotica fan fiction, and the weird movies we ALL watched.

Note: A few months after this episode Cas Humes cames out with They/Them pronouns. Cumgrats!

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Also, scroll down to the bottom for a list of great BLM and LGBTQ charities to donate to!

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Charities to Donate to for BLM/LGBT:

The Bail Project, a nonprofit that aims to mitigate incarceration rates through bail reform.
Black Visions Collective, a black, trans, and queer led social-justice organisation and legal fund based in Minneapolis-St.Paul.
The National Bail Fund Network has a directory of community bail funds to which you can donate, along with a COVID-19 rapid response
A Gas Mask Fund for black youth activists in Mineapolis
The NAACP Legal Defense Fund, which supports racial justice through advocacy, litigation, and education.
Communities United Against Police Brutality, which operates a crisis hotline where people can report abuse; offers legal, medical, and psychological resource referrals; and engages in political action against police brutality.
Northstar Health Collective, a St. Paul–based organization that provides health services and support at protests.
The ACLU, which provides legal services and support for a broad range of people with civil rights complaints.
Free Them All for Public Health, which aims to free incarcerated people amid the coronavirus pandemic, is raising money for people who have been arrested during New York City protests over the weekend. What doesn’t go toward local bail will reportedly be sent to other cities, and COVID Bailout NYC.
The Atlanta Solidarity Fund is raising bail and bond money for jailed protestors in Atlanta.
No New Jails NYC aims to keep the city from constructing new jails, and to instead divert funds that currently go toward the police and incarceration toward housing, ending homelessness, mental health, and other community support systems.
The Know Your Rights Camp, an organization founded by Colin Kaepernick that provides education and training in black and brown communities, set up a legal fund for Minneapolis protestors.
Fair Fight, an organization founded by Stacey Abrams that aims to end voter suppression and equalize voting rights and access for fairer elections.
The Pride Fund to End Gun Violence is a Political Action Committee (PAC) that supports candidates who will act on sensible gun policy reforms while championing LGBTQ safety and equality. Founded in the wake of the Pulse nightclub shooting in Orlando, America’s deadliest mass shooting in modern history, the Pride Fund to End Gun Violence took action to rally the LGBTQ community and allies in a call for common sense gun reforms. On their website, they note that LGBTQ individuals suffer more hate crimes than any other protected group, which makes disarming hate a crucial LGBTQ issue.
The National Center for Transgender Equality is the nation’s leading social justice advocacy organization winning life-saving change for transgender people. They work at the local, state, and federal level to advance transgender equality. Their services also include resources for trans people on navigating legal issues such as changing the name and gender on their identification documents and an About Transgender People resource hub, where family members and other allies can go to find information to learn about and support the transgender people in their lives.
Equality Federation is the movement builder and strategic partner to state-based organizations advocating for LGBTQ people. From Equality Florida to Freedom Oklahoma to Basic Rights Oregon, we amplify the power of the state-based LGBTQ movement. They collaborate on issues such as workplace equality and anti-transgender bathroom bans, in addition to intersectional issues such as reproductive justice and immigration, to ensure that LGBTQ people of all ages and walk of life have fair and equal opportunity to thrive. By training and supporting strong local leadership, they ensure that LGBTQ leaders on the ground in their states can fend off attacks and advance protections for LGBTQ people in their legislatures.
GLSEN (pronounced "glisten") is a the leading national education organization that works to transform K-12 schools into safe and affirming environments and ensure that LGBTQ students are able to learn and grow in a school environment free from bullying and harassment. 8 out of 10 LGBT students are still harassed at school each year because of who they are, but GLSEN is working to change that through researching and developing evidence-based solutions, and providing resources for educators to use in their school communities.
The LGBTQ Victory Fund is the only national organization dedicated to electing openly LGBTQ people to all levels of government. Victory Fund was founded in 1991, when less than 50 openly LGBTQ individuals held elected office at any level across America. Today they provide campaign, fundraising, and communications support to LGBTQ candidates with the goal of increasing representation and passing pro-equality legislation.
NQTTCN is a healing justice organization that works to transform mental health for queer and trans people of color. They provide a community for resource sharing, connection, and learning among queer and trans people of color committed to improving mental health for their communities. The organization also operates a Mental Health Fund for Queer and Trans People of Color, which provides financial assistance in order to increase access to mental health support and address the economic barriers many queer and trans people of color face within the healthcare system.
Transgender Law Center is the largest national trans-led organization advocating self-determination for all people. They are a multi-disciplinary organization that uses litigation, policy advocacy, education, movement building, and direct service to meet the needs of transgender communities. Their programs include the Detention Project, which works to end the abuses transgender people experience in prisons, jails, immigration detention, and at the hands of law enforcement, the Legal Resistance Network, which provide pro bono legal services, the Transgender Immigrant Defense Effort, which provides legal services to transgender immigrants, and more.
The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ young people under 25. The Trevor Project was founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR, and since then, hundreds of thousands of young people in crisis have reached out to The Trevor Project’s multiple in-person and online life-saving resources, including 24-hour mental health hotline, webchat, and text message services.
The Gill Foundation is one of the nation’s leading funders of efforts to secure full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. The foundation offers grant funding to nonprofits that work to advance equality through research, education, policy, and the legal system. Their focus lies in securing change to administrative policies at the state level. Founded in 1994 by philanthropist Tim Gill, the foundation has since invested more than $335 million in programs and nonprofit organizations throughout the country.
The It Gets Better Project is a nonprofit organization dedicated to uplifting, empowering, and connecting LGBTQ youth across the globe. In 2010, Dan Savage and his partner, Terry Miller, started a global movement with these three words. It began as a widespread social media campaign to provide hope, encouragement, and community to LGBTQ youth, and has now evolved into a major platform, reaching millions of young people each year. Their ultimate goal remains the same: showing LGBTQ youth that although growing up isn’t easy, no one has to do it alone.

Protesting Safely:

What to wear

Nondescript, solid colour, layered clothing, cover identifying tattoos
Goggles and mask
Heat resistant gloves
Hair tied up
Emergency contacts written down

What to bring

Water for drinking and tear gas
Snacks
Cash/change and ID
Washcloth
Bandages and first aid supplies
Ear plugs
Protest signs

Don’t Bring

Cellphone without first turning off Face/Touch ID, going on airplane mode, and disabling data
Jewelry
Anything you don’t want to be arrested with
Contact lenses

11 Coming Together (Jay Jurden) Jun 08, 2020

Remy and comedian Jay Jurden (The Tonight Show, Comedy Central, HBO's High Maintenance) discuss fluid sexualities, coming out, equality and how to come together for BLM during this unprecedented Pride month. We also re-live our horniest bi-sexual realizations and Jay rattles off a great list of male butts in movies. You'll laugh, you'll learn, you'll love it.

CW: Discussions on exclusion

Follow Jay on Instagram @JayJurden + download his album

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Charities to Donate to for BLM/LGBTQ+:

The Bail Project, a nonprofit that aims to mitigate incarceration rates through bail reform.
Black Visions Collective, a black, trans, and queer led social-justice organisation and legal fund based in Minneapolis-St.Paul.
The National Bail Fund Network has a directory of community bail funds to which you can donate, along with a COVID-19 rapid response
A Gas Mask Fund for black youth activists in Mineapolis
The NAACP Legal Defense Fund, which supports racial justice through advocacy, litigation, and education.
Communities United Against Police Brutality, which operates a crisis hotline where people can report abuse; offers legal, medical, and psychological resource referrals; and engages in political action against police brutality.
Northstar Health Collective, a St. Paul–based organization that provides health services and support at protests.
The ACLU, which provides legal services and support for a broad range of people with civil rights complaints.
Free Them All for Public Health, which aims to free incarcerated people amid the coronavirus pandemic, is raising money for people who have been arrested during New York City protests over the weekend. What doesn’t go toward local bail will reportedly be sent to other cities, and COVID Bailout NYC.
The Atlanta Solidarity Fund is raising bail and bond money for jailed protestors in Atlanta.
No New Jails NYC aims to keep the city from constructing new jails, and to instead divert funds that currently go toward the police and incarceration toward housing, ending homelessness, mental health, and other community support systems.
The Know Your Rights Camp, an organization founded by Colin Kaepernick that provides education and training in black and brown communities, set up a legal fund for Minneapolis protestors.
Fair Fight, an organization founded by Stacey Abrams that aims to end voter suppression and equalize voting rights and access for fairer elections.
The Pride Fund to End Gun Violence is a Political Action Committee (PAC) that supports candidates who will act on sensible gun policy reforms while championing LGBTQ safety and equality. Founded in the wake of the Pulse nightclub shooting in Orlando, America’s deadliest mass shooting in modern history, the Pride Fund to End Gun Violence took action to rally the LGBTQ community and allies in a call for common sense gun reforms. On their website, they note that LGBTQ individuals suffer more hate crimes than any other protected group, which makes disarming hate a crucial LGBTQ issue.
The National Center for Transgender Equality is the nation’s leading social justice advocacy organization winning life-saving change for transgender people. They work at the local, state, and federal level to advance transgender equality. Their services also include resources for trans people on navigating legal issues such as changing the name and gender on their identification documents and an About Transgender People resource hub, where family members and other allies can go to find information to learn about and support the transgender people in their lives.
Equality Federation is the movement builder and strategic partner to state-based organizations advocating for LGBTQ people. From Equality Florida to Freedom Oklahoma to Basic Rights Oregon, we amplify the power of the state-based LGBTQ movement. They collaborate on issues such as workplace equality and anti-transgender bathroom bans, in addition to intersectional issues such as reproductive justice and immigration, to ensure that LGBTQ people of all ages and walk of life have fair and equal opportunity to thrive. By training and supporting strong local leadership, they ensure that LGBTQ leaders on the ground in their states can fend off attacks and advance protections for LGBTQ people in their legislatures.
GLSEN (pronounced "glisten") is a the leading national education organization that works to transform K-12 schools into safe and affirming environments and ensure that LGBTQ students are able to learn and grow in a school environment free from bullying and harassment. 8 out of 10 LGBT students are still harassed at school each year because of who they are, but GLSEN is working to change that through researching and developing evidence-based solutions, and providing resources for educators to use in their school communities.
The LGBTQ Victory Fund is the only national organization dedicated to electing openly LGBTQ people to all levels of government. Victory Fund was founded in 1991, when less than 50 openly LGBTQ individuals held elected office at any level across America. Today they provide campaign, fundraising, and communications support to LGBTQ candidates with the goal of increasing representation and passing pro-equality legislation.
NQTTCN is a healing justice organization that works to transform mental health for queer and trans people of color. They provide a community for resource sharing, connection, and learning among queer and trans people of color committed to improving mental health for their communities. The organization also operates a Mental Health Fund for Queer and Trans People of Color, which provides financial assistance in order to increase access to mental health support and address the economic barriers many queer and trans people of color face within the healthcare system.
Transgender Law Center is the largest national trans-led organization advocating self-determination for all people. They are a multi-disciplinary organization that uses litigation, policy advocacy, education, movement building, and direct service to meet the needs of transgender communities. Their programs include the Detention Project, which works to end the abuses transgender people experience in prisons, jails, immigration detention, and at the hands of law enforcement, the Legal Resistance Network, which provide pro bono legal services, the Transgender Immigrant Defense Effort, which provides legal services to transgender immigrants, and more.
The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ young people under 25. The Trevor Project was founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR, and since then, hundreds of thousands of young people in crisis have reached out to The Trevor Project’s multiple in-person and online life-saving resources, including 24-hour mental health hotline, webchat, and text message services.
The Gill Foundation is one of the nation’s leading funders of efforts to secure full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. The foundation offers grant funding to nonprofits that work to advance equality through research, education, policy, and the legal system. Their focus lies in securing change to administrative policies at the state level. Founded in 1994 by philanthropist Tim Gill, the foundation has since invested more than $335 million in programs and nonprofit organizations throughout the country.
The It Gets Better Project is a nonprofit organization dedicated to uplifting, empowering, and connecting LGBTQ youth across the globe. In 2010, Dan Savage and his partner, Terry Miller, started a global movement with these three words. It began as a widespread social media campaign to provide hope, encouragement, and community to LGBTQ youth, and has now evolved into a major platform, reaching millions of young people each year. Their ultimate goal remains the same: showing LGBTQ youth that although growing up isn’t easy, no one has to do it alone.

Protesting Safely:

What to wear

Nondescript, solid colour, layered clothing, cover identifying tattoos
Goggles and mask
Heat resistant gloves
Hair tied up
Emergency contacts written down

What to bring

Water for drinking and tear gas
Snacks
Cash/change and ID
Washcloth
Bandages and first aid supplies
Ear plugs
Protest signs

Don’t Bring

Cellphone without first turning off Face/Touch ID, going on airplane mode, and disabling data
Jewelry
Anything you don’t want to be arrested with
Contact lenses

10 I Love You More (Caitlin Peluffo + Steve Rogers) Jun 01, 2020

Remy is joined by her boyfriend comedian Ben DeMarco to interview another comedy couple; Caitlin Peluffo and Steve Rogers. We discuss our recent blowout fights, which one of us lies about his dick-size, who said 'I love you' first, and everyone's horrendous first impressions of each other.

Trigger Warning: In our introduction this week we discuss police brutality, how important the Black Lives Matter movement is, and what to wear/bring to a protest. We also list several charities to donate to, which are listed below our partners.

Follow Caitlin and Steve on Instagram @CaitlinPeluffo @NotSteveRogers

Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir and Ben @BennyDNYC

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Check out our website for live shows & merch!

Charities to Donate to:

The Bail Project, a nonprofit that aims to mitigate incarceration rates through bail reform.
Black Visions Collective, a black, trans, and queer led social-justice organisation and legal fund based in Minneapolis-St.Paul.
The National Bail Fund Network has a directory of community bail funds to which you can donate, along with a COVID-19 rapid response
A Gas Mask Fund for black youth activists in Mineapolis
The NAACP Legal Defense Fund, which supports racial justice through advocacy, litigation, and education.
Communities United Against Police Brutality, which operates a crisis hotline where people can report abuse; offers legal, medical, and psychological resource referrals; and engages in political action against police brutality.
Northstar Health Collective, a St. Paul–based organization that provides health services and support at protests.
The ACLU, which provides legal services and support for a broad range of people with civil rights complaints.
Free Them All for Public Health, which aims to free incarcerated people amid the coronavirus pandemic, is raising money for people who have been arrested during New York City protests over the weekend. What doesn’t go toward local bail will reportedly be sent to other cities, and COVID Bailout NYC.
The Atlanta Solidarity Fund is raising bail and bond money for jailed protestors in Atlanta.
No New Jails NYC aims to keep the city from constructing new jails, and to instead divert funds that currently go toward the police and incarceration toward housing, ending homelessness, mental health, and other community support systems.
The Know Your Rights Camp, an organization founded by Colin Kaepernick that provides education and training in black and brown communities, set up a legal fund for Minneapolis protestors.
Fair Fight, an organization founded by Stacey Abrams that aims to end voter suppression and equalize voting rights and access for fairer elections.

Protesting Safely:

What to wear

Nondescript, solid colour, layered clothing, cover identifying tattoos
Goggles and mask
Heat resistant gloves
Hair tied up
Emergency contacts written down

What to bring

Water for drinking and tear gas
Snacks
Cash/change and ID
Washcloth
Bandages and first aid supplies
Ear plugs
Protest signs

Don’t Bring

Cellphone without first turning off Face/Touch ID, going on airplane mode, and disabling data
Jewelry
Anything you don’t want to be arrested with
Contact lenses

09 Freedom For All (Katie Ford) May 25, 2020

Trigger Warning: physical /sexual abuse, slavery, and child torture. We begin with idiotic banter and spontaneous beat-boxing from Remy and Ben as they chat about how Rick and Morty continues to inspire this podcast, Remy's new obsession with Madison Beer, and a deep dive into the Call Her Daddy scandal, ultimately both questioning: could this all be a hoax a la LonelyGirl15?? Then we jump back in time to September when Remy and Charlotte had the extreme honor of interviewing Katie Ford at Nanny's. Katie (former CEO and Chairman of Ford Models) tells us about how she sold Ford in 2007 to work as founder and CEO of the non-profit Freedom for All, which focuses on fighting sex trafficking, debt bondage, forced labor and child labor. We discuss how Freedom for All and their partner organizations have been able to save over 10,000 people but also discuss the tragic number of people who still need help being freed from various forms of suffering. Finally we discuss what growing up with models all around her house was like (Katie's parents started Ford Models in 1946) and what giving up the business meant to her. If you or someone you know is in trouble (sex trafficking/modern slavery/ etc.) contact: The Polaris Project 888-373-7888

Follow Katie on Instagram @FreedomForAll

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08 Anal 401 (Usama Siddiquee + Pranav Behari) May 18, 2020

Remy is joined by her friends and fellow NYC comedians, the ridiculously funny hosts of Mango Bae; Pranav Behari and Usama Siddiquee. Prepare to guffaw on this wild LOLercoaster full of truly one-of-a-kind wet dream stories from BOTH of our guests, a WAY too in depth look at Tik Tok, and a rousing (arousing?) game of "Should You Put This In Your Ass?" Pranav and Usama compete for the title 'How Cum's Sexiest Man' as they talk feminism, treating people properly in bed, and why the best men value successful funny women, instead of being intimidated by them. Finally our guests talk about growing up in Hindu and Muslim households with immigrant parents and how those experiences impacted their sex lives. Also, we get a deeper look into the Kama Sutra; spoiler alert- it's NOT ONLY sex positions! Enjoy.

CW: Heteronormative/ gendered language

Follow Usama on Instagram @UsamaStandsUp Pranav @pranahaha and their podcast @YourMangoBae

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Mentioned in the episode:

Buzzfeed Quiz: Should You Stick This Up Your Butt?

Richard Gere and The Hamster/Gerbil Urban Legend

07 The Reality of Fake People (Chanel Omari) May 11, 2020

This week Remy, Ben and How Cum were featured on Bravo's The Real Housewives of New York City in the wildest clip we could've ever expected! In the beginning of our episode, Remy and Ben discuss behind the scenes drama + how they feel about what went down and then we jump back in time for Remy's interview with woman/ reason it all happened; Bravolebrity and podcast host Chanel Omari, star of Princesses: Long Island. Our guest waxes poetic on how to be 'cool' while Remy asserts that Chanel's perceived vulnerability and openness is what made her so relatable on her 2013 show. Chanel reveals how a public breakup on national TV brought on insecurities that affected her cumming ability, and why feeling safe with a partner plays such a big role sexual experiences for her. Chanel also discusses what dating is like as a celebrity, the hardships that come with being treated as an achievement, and why it is important to be your most authentic self in all aspects of life. She has recently started a podcast with Dina Lohan called, "Listen to Me, The OG Mama D."

Follow Chanel on Instagram @ChanelOmari and her podcast @ChanelinThe

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06 Tank's Good News (Tank Sinatra) May 04, 2020

Trigger warning: suicidal ideation, substance abuse and death- but it's a really fun one, we swear!

This week we’re joined by Instagram God, Legend, "Daddy," (whichever you prefer--)Tank Sinatra - AKA George Resch; the man behind the memes and @TanksGoodNews. In this episode we discuss Nanny's legacy, how Remy is coping with her very recent death (recorded in early December 2019), and George tells us how his relationship with his late grandmother shaped him for the best.

We talk about dealing with loss, why death exists, and how to stay positive through dark times. Tank talks us through his sobriety journey, hitting rock bottom, and how to turn your life around by seeking out the good. We discuss how to go from co-dependent to healthy committed relationship, and why you shouldn't search for someone to "complete" you. Finally we talk family drama, parenting tips, stoic philosophy, and almost as if Nanny had requested it herself: GOSSIP. Why do we love it, and is it what makes us human?

CW: Heteronormative + binary language

Follow George/Tank on Instagram @TankSinatra and @TanksGoodNews

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Check out our website for live shows & merch! Extras on Patreon.com/howcum

Books and Authors mentioned:

The Missing Piece - Shell Silverstein

The Obstacle is The Way- Ryan Holiday

The Daily Stoic- Ryan Holiday

Authors/ Thinkers:

Emmet Fox

Ekhart Tolle

Neale Donald Walsch - Conversations with God

Dale Carnegie- How to Win Friends and Influence People

05 Abstinence + Outercourse (Taylor Tomlinson) Apr 26, 2020

We’re talking *comedy couples*, Christianity, and confusing cums this week with hilarious standup comedian Taylor Tomlinson. Currently quarantined with her new (also comedian) boyfriend Sam Morril, Taylor tells us about how living together unexpectedly has been and how a joke she made led to their Web-Series “New Couple Gets Quarantined."

We also talk about Taylor's Christian upbringing, and how an abstinence-only education may have led her to have "better sex" than her friends but also the guilt it caused within her sex-life. We hear about the difficulties of staying "pure" as well as how she opened the floodgates’ after receiving head in a parked car on a dimly lit suburban street. Taylor tells us how she has learned to set boundaries in order to filter out bad relationships and what phrase lets you know that you're dating a keeper. We also hear about Remy's new family dynamic, forgetting what your exes' bodies look like naked, and all the UTIs vulva owners are getting while banging inside.

CW: Heteronormative language

Follow Taylor on Instagram @TaylorTomlinson

Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir.

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Today's theme song was covered by our Cumpanion Maja. Find her on Spotify under "Maja and the Missing Orchestra"

04 Love In Lockdown (Vanessa Marin) Apr 20, 2020

We’re talking love and relationships in the time of quarantine with none other than sought after psychotherapist Vanessa Marin, who specializes in sex therapy and couples therapy.

She gives us insight into maintaining a happy relationship while working and living in such close quarters, navigating new relationships while being quarantined separately, and dating in quarantine as a single person. (How?!)

Finally we discuss Vanessa’s online programs that help you transform your sex life from ordinary to extraordinary, all from the comfort and privacy of your own home. [Courses like The Passion Project: A Couples’ Blueprint To Rediscovering Desire And Reigniting The Spark and Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm.] Open up those ears and legs, and hopefully we will all emerge revived and more sexually equipped. Enjoy!

Follow Vanessa on Instagram @VanessaMarinTherapy

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Also mentioned in this episode:

The Domestic Abuse hotline: If you or someone you know is stuck in a situation that is unhealthy please reach out to https://www.thehotline.org/help/

03 The Two Week Rule (Andrew Schulz) Apr 12, 2020

Bit of a trigger warning on this episode with the flagrant and unfiltered (yet wildly empathetic) comedian Andrew Schulz. Andrew goes deep into why he thinks women like true crime, his innovative dating strategy for deciding someone is going to be his girlfriend ("The Two Week Rule"), and his views on pegging, the male g-spot, rim jobs, and queefs.

We get to travel back in time for this one [recorded in October] and Andrew tells us all about his *new* girlfriend >> fast forward THIS week is their 1-year-anni (!!) Cumgrats.

Finally we talk growing up in NYC, how to know a guy is cumming without verbal cues and Andrew describes a sex position that he says is '8/10 guaranteed to make a woman squirt.'

TW- Heteronormative/binary/homophobic/trans exclusionary language + body shaming

Follow Andrew on Instagram @AndrewSchulz.

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mentioned in this episode:

Vanity fair article about city kids in groups

Creative story ‘Twelve’

02 How To Have Hot Sex (Dr. Emily Morse) Apr 05, 2020

Legendary sex therapist, podcaster and host of SiriusXM's Sex With Emily, Dr. Emily Morse stops by to dispel sex myths and teach us how to have the hottest sex of our lives!! Strap in, strap on, this one is going to be CUMAZING.

We learn about "The Kivin Method," (a wildly erotic and way more effective new way to go down on a vulva), prostate milking, and the best ways to store your sex toys. Dr. Emily then teaches us about navigating boundaries and asking to do new stuff, the biology of the honeymoon period, and how to get out of your head during sex with another person. We hope you enjoy this one as much as we do!

Follow Emily on Instagram @SexwithEmily.

Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir.

Check out our website for live shows & merch! Extras on Patreon.com/howcum

Toys/ Books Mentioned in the Episode:

Toys: We Vibe Touch, We Vibe Rave, Unbound bullet, Doc Johnson bullet, Je Joue Gii kii, Je Joue Mimi, Womanizer, Satisfyer, Plus One, Sweet vibrations, Crave Vesper, & Aneros Prostate toy.

Books:

Women Code - Alisa Vitti

Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight! - Emily Morse

Good Vibrations Guide: The G-Spot - Cathy Winks

01 Stay Safe + Stay Sane (Kelsey Darragh) Apr 01, 2020

We’ve cum back! No, it’s not an April Fool’s Joke, we wouldn't do that to you during this nightmarish pandemic.

We kick off the season by taking a much needed deep dive into mental health with comedian and mental health advocate, Kelsey Darragh. The topic? Maintaining sanity. During quarantine as well as when we’re back in “normal life.” We talk stress, depression, anxiety, suicidal tendencies and how to develop coping mechanisms for when the going gets tough. Kelsey talks us through her experience with panic attacks and how a simple ‘how-to’ list for her boyfriend went viral. Remy makes a list of her own to help you laugh through the pain and see the positive side of being stuck at home. We hope that you love this episode as much as we do. Stay safe, stay sane. Welcum to Season 3!

Follow Kelsey on Instagram @KelseyDarragh and her podcast @ConfidentlyPod.

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Check out our website for show dates and merchandise.

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37 Cumgratulations! (Season 2 Finale with Remy & Charlotte) Sep 02, 2019

Remy and Charlotte close out the season by calling Cumpanions from around the globe to Cumgratulate them on their new accumplishments this year.

Wow -- that's a lot of cum puns and it's only the first sentence! We chat with people from South Africa, to New Jersey, to L.A. and Michigan. First ever orgasms, first squirts, first partnered orgasms, anal orgasms, AND a cumpanion swipes her v-card.

This episode, like this season was/is cumazing.

Thanks for cumming & listening; we will miss you all!

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Stay in touch with us while we're away! @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @charkasstic

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36 BDSM is Chic (Mistress Couple & Rachel Sennott) Aug 25, 2019

This week we are talking BDSM! Everything from being a Sub, Dom--to both, to catching a whip with your genitals and exploring your sexual fantasies. Remy welcomes NYC stand-up comedian Rachel Sennott to learn about BDSM and we are joined by Professional Dominatrix and sexpert Mistress Couple. She guides us through her initiation into the world of bondage and dominance and her first night moving into La Domaine Esemar, the oldest BDSM chateau in the world.

We talk about the importance of consent within the BDSM community, and how it has changed over the years, the psychological aspect of behind being a Dom, and what your fantasies say about you. We also discuss how your senses can heighten sexual pleasure and how you can train to use them to your advantage – even through something as simple as eating a bowl of spaghetti or an egg-roll.

Finally, we discuss different types of instruments and types of play; psychological, financial domination, tickling, and the importance of aftercare. We also discuss what a balloon fantasy is and which of our guests has one!

Stay tuned for a sneak peek of our Live Podcast about Herpes at the end of the episode, and head on over to Patreon to listen to the full episode.

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Join us for our next LIVE podcast September 26th 9pm at The Stand about losing your orgasm and finding it again- with special guests Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin!

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35 Periods! Period. (Miki Agrawal and Nadya Okamoto) Aug 18, 2019

This week we are talking about a bodily function that effects our lives and helps to give life: our PERIODS! We are joined by two giants in the period space;

Miki Agrawal, co-founder of THINX and Tushy and Nadya Okamoto, founder of Period. The Menstrual Movement, which aims to end period poverty and period stigma.

We commiserate about how we have felt about our respective periods, from first periods to now. We talk about the various methods we’ve used for them; from tampons, to cups, to pads, period panties, and more. We discuss navigating sex with periods, how various religious practices contribute to period stigma, and how/why these two women started their companies. We talk about the meaning of feminism and how it isn’t women against men, it’s gender equality. And finally, we talk about pooping.

CW- Heteronormative / gendered language

Follow us: @MikiAgrawal @NadyaOkamoto @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic

Read Nadya's Book Period Power: A Manifesto for the Menstrual Movement and Miki's Book Disrupt-Her: A Manifesto for the Modern Woman

Check out ‘Approved, Not Approved’ and play their game to see what advertising the MTA will and won’t allow.

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34 The Boobies Episode (Suzannah Weiss & Meshelle) Aug 11, 2019

We're discussing all things BOOBS this week: How we feel about them in society, how we've felt about our own, and every question you've ever wondered about yours, but were too afraid to ask!

Remy is joined by Suzannah Weiss, a freelance sex writer for Glamour, Teen Vogue, Playboy, and New York Magazine, as well as Meshelle, the hilarious “Indie Mom of Comedy” and recipient of the prestigious Soros Fellowship award. We’re talking everything from nipple hair to nipple sensitivity (for men AND women), the shape and size of your boobs to instructions on how to properly play with them, breastfeeding, and breast cancer and the BRCA gene. Meshelle shares her experience with a less traditional, all-natural route for treating her breast cancer; and Suzannah tells us about how her recent experience in an Ayahuasca retreat in Europe helped her to appreciate her own boobs more.

CW- Gendered/ binary language

Follow us: @MeshelleComedy @SuzannahWeiss @Howcumpodcast @RemyKassimir @charkasstic

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33 I'm a New Bitch (Syd Wilder) Aug 08, 2019

Trigger Warning: rape, suicide and abuse. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners.

We talk to Syd Wilder, comedian, insta-model and host of the “Girl Instarupted” podcast. We’re talking everything from surviving suicide to growing up at the Playboy Mansion and everything in between. Syd opens up about her sexual assault, suicide attempts and previous sexual and family relationships; as well as her experience in a psych-ward. We discuss how she has turned her darkest moments into an empowering experience rather than a spiteful situation that controls her life. She shares stories of her first marriage, what it's like dating different “types” of guys, how she contracted HPV and Cervical Cancer and has triumphed over it all and learned how to love herself along the way. We also talk BDSM and *SPOILER ALERT* we have a new ASSIGNMENT!

If you or someone you know may be struggling with suicidal thoughts, you can call the U.S. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) any time day or night, or chat online.

Crisis Text Line also provides free, 24/7, confidential support via text message to people in crisis when they dial 741741.

Follow us: @Sydwilder @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic

We still have tickets for our LIVE show in NYC August 14th!

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32 Sexless Marriage to Sexuality Doula (Ev'Yan Whitney) Aug 04, 2019

This week’s guest is Ev’Yan Whitney: sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman. Ev'yan has helped thousands of women and femme-identifying people step out of shame, fear, and trauma and into sexual liberation through online courses, in-person workshops, and one-on-one sessions. In this episode we hear Ev'yan's story of how personal traumas and struggles of enjoying sex with her husband led to helping others-- and herself. We talk about her growth, what it means to be a queer person in a heteronormative seeming relationship, what being “ready” for sex really means, and how Ev’Yan and her husband took the steps to enter into an open relationship. We also discuss some of the assignments Ev'yan gives clients, as well as favorite success stories.

CW- Heteronormative language

NOTE: Ev'yan came out with they/them pronouns a few years after this episode, cumgrats!

Follow us: @Evyanwhitney @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic

We still have tickets for our LIVE show in NYC August 14th!

CUM JOIN US. *Don't forget to sign up with your email or tickets will NOT process!

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31 Is There Still Sex In The City? (Candace Bushnell) Jul 28, 2019

OMG we could not be more excited for this guest!! Remy sits down with (and fan-girls over) the original Carrie Bradshaw, Candace Bushnell; icon, it-girl and critically acclaimed, international best-selling author of nine books, including the infamous Sex and the City.

We discuss her new book, Is There Still Sex in the City?, how sex throughout life changes, and what life after divorce is like. Candace regales us with stories about sexually coming of age in the 70s and 80s, celebrity encounters, and dalliances with older and younger men. She defines new dating terms from her book like, "bicycle boys," "cubbing," and "super-middles." We also hear about her first orgasm and losing her virginity just to lose it. You do NOT want to miss this one!

CW: Gendered, heteronormative, binary language

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30 Catch Up With Rem (And Char) Jul 21, 2019

Sadly, Remy couldn’t be here to host this episode… because today, she is our GUEST. This week Charlotte interviews Remy about her biggest takeaways from the season and where she's at now, SEXUALLY. Also, the Cumpanions submitted amazing, important questions and they are ALL answered in this episode: from cumming tips & tricks, to how to tell a partner about your struggle to orgasm, to more personal questions about depression and the importance of vulnerability. There is ALSO a sneak peek into upcoming episodes, so hang on tight cause this one is a wild ride.

CW: Heteronormative + binary language

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29 CROSSOVER EPISODE! with We Really Love Island (Chris Williamson) Jul 18, 2019

Warning: This episode contains deep thoughts and SICK banter.

In this VERY EXCITING How Cum/ We Really Love Island crossover event Remy, Charlotte, and comedian Lili Michelle (Remy's WRLI Season 2 Co-host) interview Season 1 Love Island UK contestant,

Chris Williamson!

Chris calls in via Skype to talk love, sex and secrets behind the making of Love Island. We also chat about how to dump someone properly, the importance of honesty and external accountability, and his wild "first time" story.

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CW- Gendered, binary, trans exclusionary, racism

Follow us @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @lilsmichelle @ChrisWillx

To hear more from Chris, check out his podcast Modern Wisdom.

Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH!

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28 The E.D. Doctor (Dr. J Francois Eid) Jul 14, 2019

We're talking all things PENISES! Remy and Charlotte interview Dr. Eid, a board-certified urologist focusing on the treatment of advanced erectile dysfunction. He specializes in penile implant surgery, and also treats urinary incontinence after prostate cancer. He is one of New York's leading penis prosthesis surgeons and is here to answer YOUR questions! We are talking why E.D. occurs, how to treat it, and how sometimes it might be an indication of a larger medical problem. Dr. Eid also answers Cumpanion questions ranging from; "are there medical benefits to circumcision?", "do you need a boner to come?", "is “blue balls” really so bad?" and more!

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CW: Gendered/ trans exclusionary language

Follow us @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic

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27 It's a Cocktus! (Maria Del Russo & Alexandra Fine) Jul 07, 2019

An unbelievable conversation with sex/ love writer and recent author, Maria Del Russo and Co-Founder of sex toy company Dame Products, Alexandra Fine.

We discuss themes from Maria’s new book, “Simple Acts of Love;” relationships & singlehood, why you should treat single time as a destination instead of a layover, how your dating past actually does not mean anything for your dating future, and the age old question; "Did I bang enough people when I was single?” We also talk about gender discrepancies in advertising and why Dame is currently suing the MTA.

CW: Gendered/binary language

This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum

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26 We're Having Gay Sex (Emma Willmann, Jade Catta-Preta, & Ashley Gavin) Jun 30, 2019

...is the name of one of our guest's new podcast AND what we are doing on this episode! Remy and comedians/actors Emma Willmann (Crazy Ex Girlfriend/ Inside The Closet Podcast), Jade Catta-Preta (MTV's Ladylike and GirlCode), and Ashley Gavin (We're Having Gay Sex) chat girl on girl sex in this fun informative episode. Our hilarious guests answer all of your questions about strap-ons, STIs, and whether "lesbian sex is all just scissoring." (It's not!) It is such a treat to end pride month with these three talented humans; follow them and go see them live.

ALSO: If you're in D.C. go see Remy perform at the Drafthouse Theater, July 10 7:30PM!

CW: "STD" instead of STI/ Gendered/ Trans exclusionary language

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @emmawillmann @thejademovie @AshGavs

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25 Audio Erotica (Quinn & Feel Good Filth) Jun 23, 2019

We're taking you into the world of audio porn this week and it is SO GOOD. Remy and Charlotte talk to Jim; the orgasmic voice behind FeelGoodFilth.com, as he explains how he makes audio porn and why he started. Remy also invites CEO of Quinn and senior at Stanford University, Caroline Spiegel to talk her new audio erotica website which features everything from guided masturbations to ASMR. This episode has everything: phone sex, dirty talk, Daddy Dom/Little Girl role play, mental health, and one of our guests give us our FIRST fully clothed first-time-cumming story on the pod!

Caution: This episode features some ACTUAL audio erotica and may get you extremely horny.

Trigger warning: we also touch on abuse & eating disorders.

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @quinntakeover @feelgoodfilth

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24 He Wrote a Note to His Penis (Logan Pierce) Jun 16, 2019

We are in LA with wildly talented author and adult film star Logan Pierce! Logan tells Remy about the way he pursued a career in porn, how his “boy next door” look recently came into fashion in the porn industry, and what defines “porn for women.” We discuss scary firsts from his book, gang bang scenes, and surgically enhanced penises. Logan talks about confusing sexual chemistry for intimacy while on the job, the pros & cons of having relationships with people with the same job as you, and how often he gets tested for STIs. We also hear a cute story about Logan's attempt to have a sex dream as a child, and finally when he figured out that women could cum!

--ALSO because we love you so much, we just released an amazing must-hear BONUS episode with former adult film star Chris Zeischegg (Danny Wylde) & current adult film star Tyler Nixon; the surfer boy with 1 BILLION downloads on Pornhub. Want to listen? It is CURRENTLY available on Patreon for a discounted price! We talk about why Chris quit, how Tyler got started, the homophobia around people who have done "crossover porn" (gay and straight), misogyny in the industry, and a scary Cialis-induced penis condition called "priapism."

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @who_is_logan @instalurk @chriszeischegg and read Logan's book, Between The Sheets: Rise of a Working Stiff

as well as Chris's books : Body to Job, The Wolves that Live in Skin & Space, and Come To My Brother

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23 Healing Pelvic Pain (Dr. Tayyaba Ahmed & Dr. Allyson Shrikhande) Jun 09, 2019

In this week’s episode we have two brilliant doctors of physical medicine and rehabilitation, Dr. Tayyaba Ahmed and Dr. Allyson Shrikhande, who specialize in pelvic pain. They teach us about a very gender neutral organ; the pelvic floor, and many different causes of pelvic pain. We learn about endometriosis, the seriousness of pudendal nerve/ pudendal entrapment, and why kegels aren't always the answer. The doctors answer questions from the Cumpanions and talk thrush, anorgasmia, penis burn, clitoral adhesions, and more. Ahmed and Shrikhande also share their personal experiences as women, mothers, and students during medical school, as well as their first time stories!

Learn more about their work at pelvicrehabilitation.com

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Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow the doctors @DrTayAhmed @pelvicrehabilitation @doctorallyson

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

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22 You Wanna Play? You Gotta Pay. (Jared Freid) Jun 02, 2019

This week Remy welcomes hilarious comedian, J-Train/U Up? podcaster, and naturally good advice-giver Jared Freid. Jared answers all of your dating questions and explains the difference between guys who neg and guys who flower, why people are watching your Instagram stories and why they stop, and why you can’t put your standard’s into someone else’s hands. Jared explains what is everyone doing wrong on dating apps, why kibbutzing is important for men and women, getting messy during sex, and why he (and Remy) LOVE reality shows. He also tells us about his sexual past; his first time cumming, getting rescued from “virgin island” and why he has dubbed himself the “Rosa Parks of Anal Play.” ALSO, THERE IS YELLING! (But it's fun yelling.) Wooo!

This episode is also VERY special because Remy’s first cumming day was 2/22 and this episode is 2,22!

Hip hip hooray. Everybody masturbate.

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Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow Jared @JaredFreid

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21 Mr. Angel (Buck Angel) May 26, 2019

Pardon this late-in-the-day post, we were celebrating Charlotte’s 26th BIRTHDAY but this one is amazing and worth the wait. Remy sits down with the amazing Buck Angel. This motivational speaker, film maker, human rights activist, adult film star, and the first transgender man to win AVN’s Performer of the Year award in 2007 has completely stolen our hearts.

We discuss so many aspects of the trans male experience and dive into Buck’s past and personal experiences; undergoing top surgery at a time where it was not common, a messy divorce with a woman who challenged his gender identity, and Buck’s childhood relationship with his dad and how it has grown. We discuss if changes in gender affect changes in sexuality, what “binders” and “pack-and-pees” are and if they are safe to use, the safety of different medical sex-change procedures, how to hook up with a trans man, dealing with periods as a trans man, and so much more.

Buck preaches loving yourself and has created an amazing brand of sex toys and a dating website buckangeldating.com, all with trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming people in mind. We talk pussy power and a crazy story about Buck’s appearance on The Tyra Banks Show. And of course, Buck shares his first time cumming and squirting stories - it’s a blast.

Trigger warning: mutilation, rape, and abuse are all mentioned during this episode

Click to watch Buck’s films: Sexing the Trans Man, Conversations with Transmen, & Mr. Angel Click to see Buck’s TMZ appearances

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Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow Buck @BuckAngel

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20 What About Ben’s Roommates? (Ben DeMarco and Cenk & Volkan Eryaman) May 19, 2019

Episode 20 of every season means Ben is here! Remy talks to her boyfriend and his ROOMMATES; brothers Volkan and Cenk, who she essentially lives with as well. We discuss sharing a living space (especially with siblings), everyone’s weird pooping habits, and having sex with other people in the apartment. We chat about what signs might mean that your roommate is fucking, losing your virginity in a foreign country, and who the messiest one in the apartment is!

We also deep dive into Charlotte's research on the recent wave of abortion restrictions, decipher what they individually mean, and suggest ways in which you can donate your time and money to help. Remy opens up about her own abortion, the beginning of her relationship with Ben, and how Charlotte made Ben define the relationship with Remy.

Also, coming soon: How Cum website and merchandise!

***FOR INFORMATION ON HOW TO HELP, SCROLL TO THE BOTTOM!

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Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic and follow Ben DeMarco @bennydnyc and his shows @fatbabylive

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WHAT TO DO TO HELP RE ABORTION BAN:

https://www.thecut.com/2019/05/how-to-help-alabama-6-week-abortion-ban-georgia.html

...Donate to local, grassroots organizations

Niationwide organizations: Planned Parenthood, NARAL, and the ACLU help but it is more important to go local.

Local Organizations:

Access Reproductive Care - Southeast: ARC is a volunteer organization that helps families in 12 states across the southeast access reproductive care.

National Network of Abortion Funds: NNAF is a network of more than 80 funds in at least 38 states that seeks to eliminate economic barriers for low-income individuals seeking an abortion.

The Yellowhammer Fund: Based in Alabama, Yellowhammer not only provides funding for abortions at one of the city’s three clinics, but also helps with other barriers to access patients may face, such as travel or lodging. (Yellowhammer is part of NNAF.)

Mississippi Reproductive Freedom Fund: Run entirely by volunteers, the Mississippi Reproductive Freedom Fund helps people access abortion, and provides both support and resources to parents.

Women Have Options: This Ohio-based organization provides financial assistance and support to low-income patients seeking reproductive care, abortion included.

National Asian Pacific American Women’s Forum: NAPAWF is a multi-issue community-organizing and policy-advocacy organization that fights for policy changes that would benefit women, transgender, and non-binary Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders.

Volunteer as a clinic escort.

If you live in a state with a restrictive abortion ban — or nearby one — one tangible way to support abortion rights is to become a clinic escort. Find out more here.

19 Ramy & Remy (Ramy Youssef) May 12, 2019

This week Remy sits down with her wildly talented, hilarious, and similarly named friend Ramy Youssef. This stand up/writer/actor has not only been on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, has a stand-up special coming out on HBO, but he also has a new Hulu TV series out (called Ramy) that the New York times has called a “revolutionary comedy.” Having grown up Egyptian-American in a Muslim family, Ramy tells Remy about grappling with his faith while being surrounded by the pressures and temptations of the average 20-something. We chat about everything from the anxieties of casual sex to how Ramy’s sense of self was affected after 9/11. He’s the best.

ALSO Ramy tries Charlotte’s Helix mattress and loves it. Everyone should get one.

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Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @ramy

We are so excited to partner with Helix this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

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18 The Nanny Named Fran (Fran Drescher) May 05, 2019

Trigger Warning: rape and assault. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners.

During this emotional, inspiring, (and still incredibly funny) episode, the incomparable Fran Drescher (The Nanny!) opens up about how she turns pain into purpose: surviving uterine cancer and the struggle of attempting to convince doctors of the pain she was feeling; managing herself and her emotions through two divorces, having a gay ex-husband, and living through the trauma of the sexual assault and violence she suffered throughout her life. We discuss how she has recently started/ and is crushing stand up comedy, the comedians who inspire her, and the extremely important work she is doing with CancerSchmancer.org. Fran shares her thoughts about sex toys, finding fantasies to get your mojo running, her mother catching her with her hands "down there" as a child and how much she loves penises, now and forever. We discuss how "Women of a Certain Age" DO still love sex, why it may be beneficial to have "a man for every chapter," and Fran gives us a life altering tip from her Shaman on self care. Also, Remy smokes a joint in Fran’s house!

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We are so excited to partner with Helix this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

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17 Hamiltoe & The Holocaust (Eitan Levine) Apr 28, 2019

Thank you, thank you to everyone who came out our first ever LIVE show this past Thursday. We SOLD out and are definitely going to do more of these bad boys. Follow us @howcumpodcast for updates about future shows! In this episode Remy talks to comedian Eitan Levine about how he won an AVN award (porn award!) for his Hamilton inspired film: Hamiltoe. Charlotte’s voice is out from all the fun at the live show but Eitan tells us about surviving cancer as a child, growing up as a grandchild of Holocaust survivors, and an incredible story about his kickass grandmother.

We also talk learning about sex through rabbinical stories, being actively celibate until late in life, who is fucking at the circus, male infertility & male birth control.

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LISTEN TO NANNY! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

I 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

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16 Berned & Bluestoned (Hannah Berner & Gabrielle Bluestone) Apr 21, 2019

Nanny and Remy’s house flooded TWICE this week but it’s ok because our LIVE show is Thursday and we c*nt wait to meet you guys. We ALSO got to record this awesome episode with Remy’s two powerhouse women: 1) Hannah Berner, host of the comedy mental health podcast Berning in Hell, star on this season of Summer House on Bravo and badass bitch who opted out of professional tennis, and 2) Gabrielle Bluestone, Writer and Executive Producer of FYRE: The Greatest Party That Never Happened" on Netflix.

We discuss very universal topics such as going to the Hamptons and playing tennis, and more relatable topics such as how competition in sports applies to life and how traditional gender roles affect us. Hannah gives us a peek behind Summer House's walls, and Gabrielle explains our "keeping up with the Joneses" culture. We also talk about pets, people who seem successful but might just have a trust fund, and how to be your realest self in a world of facades.

*Stay tuned until the end of the episode: this one has some post-song goodies!

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Don't miss the LIVE SHOW! Join us at Stand Up NY on April 25 at 7:30. Use our promocode “How Cum” for a 25% off discount.

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @beingbernz @g_bluestone(T) @gbluestone (IG)

This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

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2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

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Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

15 Anal 101 (The Pleasure Mechanics) Apr 14, 2019

Tickets are almost sold out for our first live podcast/ stand up show! Join us at Stand Up NY on April 25 at 7:30. Use our promocode “How Cum” for a 25% off discount. ...AND GET EXCITED! This episode is one that many of you have requested. Partners in love and life, Chris and Charlotte Rose; aka the Pleasure Mechanics teach us ANAL 101! After hearing what they have to say, you’ll know what to put in your basic (anal) tool kit, how unlikely “gaping” actually is, and how to answer, “is there a ‘wall of shit’ waiting for me?” The Pleasure Mechanics explain how our culture damages the idea of manliness and anal play, as well as its pornification. They brilliantly clue us into the two anal sphincters, how anal can be pleasurable for anyone, and give us tricks for good prostate play, pegging & anal masturbation. Men: We teach you what “Man Box” is and how your dick is bigger than you think!

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AGAIN: LIVE SHOW! 4/25 at Stand Up NY in NYC! Use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 25% off tickets.

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

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3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

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14 Life Can Be A Drag (Katya Zamolodchikova) Apr 07, 2019

Make sure to get your tickets for our first LIVE PODCAST & stand up show on April 25th at 7:30. (Doors open @ 7) Use our promo code “How Cum” for a 25% off discount.

Until then, listen to this awesome episode with wildly hilarious entertainer & RuPaul’s Drag Race All Star alumnus Katya Zamolodchikova, also known as Brian McCook. This episode is EVERYTHING! We touch on drag life and a dish soap make up remover tip. We also discuss fearing competition, lacking a gay mentor, the pros and cons of hooking up with fans, and experimentally sticking a finger in the ass. Katya explains how a recent relapse in addiction occurred and the effect it had on her/Brian's lives. Also we shared our experiences with the seriousness of mental health issues and how we cope with it all.

Follow Katya and her podcast Whimsically Volatile: @Katya_Zamo/ @katyaandcraig and and go see her NOW on her tour "Help Me I'm Dying" , on Viceland's The Trixie and Katya Show and on VH1's Grown & Sexy.

Follow us at @RemyKassimir, @Charkasstic, & @howcumpodcast

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AGAIN: LIVE SHOW! 4/25 at Stand Up NY in NYC! Use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 25% off tickets.

We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Roman, Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season!

Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

Keep Roman Swipes in your back pocket for longer, better sex and get yours fast with FREE 2-day shipping by visiting Getroman.com/HOWCUM

Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

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13 Fuck Boy Tendencies (Lev Fer) Mar 31, 2019

We are gearing up for our FIRST LIVE SHOW and couldn't be more excited. Buy your tickets, use promo code "How Cum" and we will see you on April 25th in NYC for a night of PURE JOY!

But until then, enjoy this awesome episode with comedian & host of the "Yung Daddy" podcast; Lev Fer! We attempt to define what a "fuck boy" is, and how it compares to a "slut." We cover how Lev deals with receiving overwhelming amounts of nudes, talk about different butthole colors, discover a new dating term called “mosting”, and ponder about losing weight & losing boners.

We also chat body issues, grooming, and why McDonald's is so very important.

Follow Lev @LevFer and us @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic

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COME TO OUR FIRST LIVE SHOW! 4/25 at Stand Up NY in NYC! Use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 25% off tickets.

We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Roman, Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season!

Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum

Keep Roman Swipes in your back pocket for longer, better sex and get yours fast with FREE 2-day shipping by visiting Getroman.com/HOWCUM

Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

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Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

12 Slutever (Karley Sciortino) Mar 24, 2019

This one is a banger. We get to chat with the one, the only, the amazing and stupendously slutty host of Viceland's Slutever Karley Sciortino. We talk about everything from Karley’s re-definition of the word “slut”, witches on broomsticks (aka magic dildos), the switch from vagina shame to pussy power, having an “anti-social clit”, VR porn, and so much more.

Also, Remy has a sexual experience that she never has before AND Remy & Karley were both named "Innovators" in Cosmopolitan's first ever Sexcellence Awards!

Karley's book Slutever is out now, you can read her Vogue column Breathless and follow her @KarleySlutever

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This episode has a TON of bonus content. To access 40 min of Kirill and Jax uncensored become a $5 Patron on Patreon- Extras will be posted 3/20

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

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11 The Slut Whisperer (Kirill Bichutsky & Jax Dell'Osso) Mar 17, 2019

On the day that he celebrated "10 years of being a professional degenerate," Kirill Bichutsky's 1 million+ follower account @slutwhisperer was yanked off of Instagram. This controversial social media personality recently starred in Netflix's revealing documentary American Meme and his half-naked champagne facial parties are legendary, but we wanted to know: who really IS the Slut Whisperer? What is real versus just social media, and how do we use social media in a healthy, less stressful way?

Kirill and Remy's mutual friend & comedian Jax Dell'Osso joins us to answer these questions. We talk slut-shaming, online personas, working as an exotic dancer and the Fyre Festival.

Trigger warning: A guest opens up about a childhood trauma & we have a conversation about child sexual abuse & the HBO documentary Leaving Neverland.

RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization; donate or seek help here

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Follow Kirill on Instagram for now @KirillWasHere & Jax Dell'Osso @funnygirljax

We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season!

This episode has a TON of bonus content. To access 40 min of Kirill and Jax uncensored become a $5 Patron on Patreon- Extras will be posted 3/20

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

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10 The Virgin Bachelor (Ray Gootz & Freddy G) Mar 10, 2019

“Nobody’s sex life is anybody’s business…except on this podcast.” So, we chat with comedians & sexual “late bloomers” Freddy G and Ray Gootz. Ray tells us about losing his virginity at 37 to a sex worker at the Bunny Ranch & Freddy explains how and why he didn’t have an awake orgasm until he was 23.

We define several terms; incel, refractory period, and a “delivery boy” attitude. We keep it funky and fresh and talk pre/post sex vomit stories, Kelly Kapowski from Saved by the Bell, & a few times Ray mentions his friend Kristy Steffano; who is better known as comedian Chris DiStefano. This one’s a blast.

Thank you for all the love over the past year. We couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome BONUS EPISODES and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

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Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

09 The C.O.U.G.A.R. & Her Cub (KarenLee & Cam Poter) Mar 03, 2019

We sit down with the amazing and hilarious mother son duo, KarenLee and Cam Poter from the hit podcast Sex Talk With My Mom. We cover A LOT with these kindred spirits of ours: how peoples’ “orifice hierarchies” can vary, sexless marriages, KarenLee’s personal definition of "cougar", Cam’s "pregnancy scare," and of course, “anal anal anal.” We also find out that KarenLee gets wet at the first note of a saxophone, Cam tells us a WILD “ball-breaker” story, and magically, Cam finds out something he DIDN’T know about his mom.

ALSO: This is our first CROSS OVER episode! That's right, didn't get enough of the four of us? Listen to Remy and Charlotte on Sex Talk With My Mom HERE!

WANT EVEN MORE?

We ended up calling OUR DAD and talking about sex with him. Check that out HERE!

Thank you for all the love over the past year. We couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome BONUS EPISODES and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

08 The Girl Without A Clit (Mystery Guest & Crystal Beth) Feb 24, 2019

Wow. This. Episode. We call Remy's friend, comedian Crystal Beth; AKA "The Girl Without a Clit" and catch up with our anonymous friend from the bonus episode. This episode has everything: trips down memory lane, people's assumptions about bisexuals, and an insanely hot story about an insanely hot threesome with two insanely hot guys.

Also: can you cum without a clit? We find out.

Want more?

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast & @thecrystalbeth And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, rate and visit our Patreon for exclusive extra content and to donate!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

07 BONUS/THROWBACK EPISODE! Feb 20, 2019

We reached 500 reviews on iTunes and are thanking everyone who has rated & reviewed with a BONUS EPISODE! You guys are gonna die. We thought this episode had been lost forever due to sound issues-- BUT WE SALVAGED IT! (Thanks Alex Pischera!)

This episode was SUPPOSED to be episode 4 of season 1; which means it was recorded BEFORE REMY CAME. (Pre-cum!) It is so crazy to hear how much things have changed. Seriously, you'll be shocked.

Our guest's voice and named have been changed to protect her anonymity; she is a powerful, high ranking woman in Finance, who also attends all-women sex parties for queer and curious women.

You're gonna love it. (And thank you again!)

Want more?

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, rate and visit our Patreon for exclusive extra content and to donate!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

06 She Cums First (Dr. Ian Kerner) Feb 17, 2019

Get ready for this amazing episode with Dr. Ian Kerner, psychotherapist and author of the best-selling book, and cunnilingus how-to guide, “She Comes First.” You’ll learn SO much and laugh along the way.

We talk about everything: mismatched libidos, the distinction between spontaneous and responsive desire, and how privileging intercourse over outercourse can be problematic. We ask a bunch of listener questions, get to real solutions and make lots of sound effects in the process.

Want more?

Visit Dr. Kerner's Website and check out his books

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

05 Eff’n Up Sex (LeClerc Andre & Khalid Rahmaan) Feb 10, 2019

Valentines Day is coming up and BOY do we love these guests. We brought in hilarious comedians LeClerc Andre and Khalid Rahmaan (Eff’n Up Podcast) to talk about how they have eff’ed up sex and how they learned the ropes. They hit it all: ball play, “begrudging blowies”, and more.

Want more?

Follow LeClerc, Khalid and their podcast on Instagram:

@LeClercAndre @khalidsays @effnup

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

Check out Khalid's Conan Set & LeClerc's Tonight Show Set here!

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

04 A Shower Thought (Rayna Greenberg & Ashley Hesseltine) Feb 03, 2019

We sit down with Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg from the top 20 comedy & dating podcast Girls Gotta Eat. We talk about it all: happy endings, sizing up a guy’s load (the more the better for Rayna), dirty talk, butt stuff, fan erotica, and fingering with long nails. Charlotte also joins us to talk about what to eat vs. what not to eat on a date. You’ll laugh, you’ll learn, you’ll eat.

SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

*Toys mentioned in this episode: The Perfect Match & Girls Best Friend

Want more?

Follow Rayna, Ashley, and their podcast on Instagram: @onehungryjew @ashhess @girlsgottaeatpodcast

Follow us @Remy Kassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

03 Human Prozac (Dr. Helen Fisher) Jan 27, 2019

We interview Dr. Helen Fisher! She is a Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, Chief Scientific Advisor to the dating site Match.com, and all around amazingly COOL person. We discuss her extensive research on the evolution and future of human sex, love, marriage, & gender differences in the brain. She also teaches us how your personality style shapes who you are and who you love. We talk about millennial dating culture and "slow love", how to get over a break up, the evolution of trust, and how too many choices can leave us with nothing at all. We also hear an INCREDIBLE story about a rickshaw and Dr. Fisher answers questions that nobody else has EVER asked her (including but definitely not limited to her first time story). ALSO: This is the first episode we've ever let Nanny listen to and she LOVED it.

Follow Dr. Fisher on Twitter @DrHelenFisher and find her work/books on helenfisher.com

Follow us on Instagram/Twitter @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us: Like, review, 5-star rate us !

Want extras? Go to our Patreon for extra content & to donate! We are going to be adding all sorts of bonus content this season and giving SHOUTOUTS! Woo!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

02 The Vanderhump Rules (Ariana Madix) Jan 20, 2019

Charlotte had an accident and has to sit this one out but Remy is in LA interviewing Vanderpump Rules' Ariana Madix, who famously stated that she hates her vagina on reality TV. We discuss how that hate came to be, whether it is still around and what it is like to be a perfectionist with body issues.

We also dive into the rocky waters of emotionally abusive exes and skin cancer. We explore how the show has changed throughout the years; especially in this new political climate. Finally, we discuss weed lube, having a relationship on reality TV, and "first orgasm of 2019" stories.

I also tell a story that involves me looking at my own butthole.

Follow Ariana Madix on Instagram @Ariana252525

Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content & to donate!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

Want more?

Listen to the parts we couldn't say on the podcast:

Extras on Patreon include:

Ariana discusses the beginning of her and Tom's relationship, "the cheating scandal," the night her dad died and how it brought her and tom together. We discuss cheating more in depth and Ariana reveals a secret about one of Jax’s cheating scandals that any Vander-fan would DIE to hear (but I don't want Bravo to sue me). Ariana reveals an embarrassing Twitter habit and we discuss donating to charity on Facebook & rape in the comedy community.

01 An Absolute Savage (Dan Savage) Jan 13, 2019

We're back baby!! Season two kicks off with with Remy and Charlotte welcoming the nationally syndicated sex advice columnist Dan Savage. Equal parts brilliant, hilarious and kind, Dan explains how to communicate and give instructions during sex, how self-touch isn’t a negative reflection on your partner, what the campfire rule is, and how if we fake it, we will likely NOT make it. Dan also tells us why we should “WATCH THE GAY PORN” (we can all learn quite a bit from it) and discusses the Babe.net Aziz Ansari article from last year, explaining how we can meld male and female perspectives together to understand each other a little better.

We also discuss the "It Gets Better Project", and growing up Irish Catholic and gay. (IN A TWIST, DAN HAS THE BEST STORY EVER ABOUT HIS CHILDHOOD PRIEST). We finish up with a chat about how and when to tell kids about sex, why sex is not just about reproduction, and Dan’s sex-positive film festival HUMP!

Want more?

Follow Dan Savage on Instagram @DanSavage

Follow us @Remy Kassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content & to donate!

Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!

Thanksgiving Surprise! Nov 21, 2018

HELLO MY CUMPANIONS! I miss you so much. Just wanted to say hi and give you some updates. Also, how sick that we have an official name now? "Cumpanions." Some of you voted for "Cumrades" on the Instagram poll and I do still think that's pretty clever.

((Were you not part of the vote? Are ya pissed? Follow us @howcumpodcast on Instagram and participate in all the polls! Send questions, comments, all that stuff.))

MISS MY VOICE?! We Really Love Island (My NEWEST podcast) cums out tomorrow but How Cum listeners get to hear it TODAY!!! Listen/review/ subscribe & follow us @wereallyloveisland

AND HEY! Have you rated/reviewed/subscribed to this pod? Please dew that!

35 Cumgratulations! (Season 1 FINALE! With Remy & Charlotte) Oct 29, 2018

One gigantic celebration for our Season 1 finale episode! Remy and Charlotte are back together and calling How Cum listeners from all around the world to CUMGRATULATE them on their first orgasms, and hear how they happened. We get a sick update from former guest Molly Brenner who just had HER first O too! She had to re-write her one woman show “Molly Brenner is Not Coming,” and now performs “I’m Coming!” Also, Remy has her first INTERNAL orgasm! This episode is LONG so if you want to break the stories up, we’ve included time stamps below.

Thank you so much for everyone who has gotten this podcast to where it is, we couldn’t do it without you. We don’t know when Season 2 will come out so follow @howcumpodcast & SUBSCRIBE for updates. (Did I hear there may be a pArTy soon?! YES YOU DID!)

SHARE with your friends! No excuses, play like a champ. Talk about the pod, talk about orgasms, you could change someones life! We LOVE YOU & thank you again for listening.

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34 Him Too (Will Winner, Casey James Salengo & Patrick Schroeder) Oct 21, 2018

This week's guests are the three hosts of the only male-run podcast with only female guests; The Good, The Dad, & The Ugly! Comedians Will Winner, Casey James Salengo, & Patrick Schroeder came over so I could thank them (specifically Will) for introducing me to the Womanizer on their podcast many months ago.

We discuss many things including "The Him Too Movement", penis pumps, TLC shows from the early 2000s, dating new people, masturbating with roommates in the house, and copying sex stuff you've seen in movies.

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33 Welcome to Sex Ed (Dr. Andrew Porter & Andrea Barrica) Oct 14, 2018

Did you know that only 20% of schools in the US are teaching Sex Ed right now? That is not enough schools. To fix that I talked to two sex educators, Dr. Andrew Porter (The Sex Wrap Podcast) & Andrea Barrica, founder of O.School.

We talk how to manage STIs, good ways to introduce toys to people for the first time, and what the internal structure of the clitoris actually looks like! Did you know doctors only discovered it in 1998? This is crazy. We also answer some fan questions!

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32 Stories From A Superfan Oct 08, 2018

I interviewed "Liz," a How Cum SUPERFAN who is staying anonymous. Liz is a long time listener and did ALL of my pre-orgasm assignments (1-6).

We discuss how all of the assignments went for her and then we talk about what we did last night... I took her to a sex party! It was crazy.

You will learn about sensation play, ASMR, electric shocks, and what went down (pun VERY intended).

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31 Sex & Disability (Hannah Soyer, Chris Crespo & Spencer Williams) Sep 30, 2018

This week I have THREE amazing guests. First, journalist Hannah Soyer calls in & we talk about her article, "What Sex Is Like With A Disability" from Cosmopolitan Magazine. Hannah, the creator of the This Body is Worthy Project discusses living with Spinal Muscular Atrophy, the dangers of being a disabled woman surrounding sex, and finding sexual agency with masturbation.

I then talked to comedian Chris Crespo & writer Spencer Williams. Chris was born with Complicated Syndactyly & stars in the awesome web series Hand Jobs, despite being born with no forearms. Spencer has Cerebral Palsey and is currently writing about sex & disability for Vice. We talk about services that assist with sex for the disabled, fear of rejection, sex positions that are the most comfortable and wheelchairs: giant cockblock, or wonderful accessory?

(CW) Gendered language, r*pe culture, cheating, Leonardo DiCaprio, offensive language

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29 Polyamory with an Expert (Charyn Pfeuffer) Sep 30, 2018

What is polyamory and how do you do it?*

I asked writer Charyn Pfeuffer, who practices polyamory and open relationship styles. Over the past two decades, Charyn's sex-positive writing has appeared in more than 100 media outlets, including Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery29, The Washington Post, Thrillist & Forbes.

On this episode we discuss it all:

Are people born poly? Can you be polyamorous and married? What about having children? We also define different types of polyamorous relationships and terms such as "primary partner", "nesting partner", and "fluid bonding."

*This episode is a redo, sorry for the re-post, but was necessary. (Explained in ep)

Books Charyn recommends for those curious about in entering into polyamory:

1. The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

2. More Than Two by Eve Rickert

3. Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan

4. Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski

5. Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory by Cunning Minx

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30 Catch Up With Rem Sep 23, 2018

This week I am answering YOUR questions. Things like: "how do you sit when you use ___ sex toy?" "What really went down during that tantric massage?" "Is it normal if I used to cum and can't anymore?" and more!

CW: Gendered language, offensive language, fatphobic language

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28 Five Years Sober Off Dick (Seamus Kirst, Sydnee Washington, & Britni Diamond) Sep 09, 2018

Celebrating my birthday with a jumbo episode about sex, sobriety, and the joy of handjobs! Seamus Kirst, journalist and author of Shitfaced joins me as I interview him and my friend; comedian Sydnee Washington! We talk about sober dating, going to rehab in highschool, delayed ejaculation and the Real Housewives we’re most worried about.

Then Seamus and I (both Virgos) are joined by ANOTHER Virgo friend Britni Diamond. We talk mutual masturbation, revealing strange fantasies to people, and maintaining friendships after becoming sober!

CW: Relapse, gendered language, trans exclusionary language, gay slurs, fatphobia, depression/suicide/ suicidal ideation, SA fantasy, mention of pedophiles, Mel Gibson, "virginity"

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27 I'm So Proud of How Far You've Cum (Sofia Rose & Alyssa Limperis) Aug 26, 2018

This week's episode features adult entertainer Sofia Rose & Actress/Comedian Alyssa Limperis (Crazy In Bed Podcast) . Body positivity is on the menu; we discuss everything from being a BBW (big beautiful woman) to battling an eating disorder and what body image can do to your sex life.

We also talk old-school MySpace, ugly armpits, depression, & how you don't have to find the right person, you just have to find the right person for right now.

CW: eating disorders, fatphobia, gendered language, "virginity," and suicidal ideation

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26 It Hit The Ceiling (Jeena Bloom & Pauline Murphy) Aug 19, 2018

NYC comedians Pauline Murphy and Jeena Bloom stop by and we have a heated debate regarding dick preference; to circumcise or not to circumcise? That is the question. We also discuss what it is like to live as a trans woman and be able to have EVERY type of orgasm. We also talk about Pauline's predicament - she's only cum four times. Ever. How Cum? Let's find out.

CW: Transphobia, slurs, gendered language, fatphobia, shooting, dark humor

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25 Girl Power Squad (Ariel Elias, Molly Rubenlong, & Jen Winston) Aug 12, 2018

This week is GIRL POWER week! Comedians Ariel Elias & Molly Ruben-Long (Well Behaved Podcast) and Instagram blogger Jen Winston (@girlpowersupply) join me to talk about what feminism actually means, dating in the current political climate, what to do when your heroes are perverts and more! It's a great episode.

TW: SA, Louis CK

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24 Two Christians (John Fugelsang & Christian Finnegan) Aug 05, 2018

Comedians John Fugelsang (SiriusXM's Tell Me Everything) & Christian Finnegan (VH1's Best Week Ever) discuss Christianity! How does Jesus feel about sex, abortion, homosexuality etc. according to the Bible? We discuss that, growing up as a Christian, faking orgasms as a man, cyber sex in AOL chatrooms, and more!

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23 Orgasm is a Human Right (Corinne Olympios) Jul 29, 2018

Corinne Olympios, the notorious Bachelor contestant turned podcaster & clothing line owner lets us into her world off-camera.

We talk about hang-ups with masturbation, long distance relationships, what to do if you dislike oral sex & more. Corinne’s boyfriend Jon also joins us on the mic for an interesting look into the male perspective.

CW: gendered language

Assignment: Rub back and forth on a soft surface or pillow

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22 Made In Manhattan (Alik Alfus) Jul 22, 2018

Alik Alfus, one of the stars of British reality show Made in Chelsea, (and childhood friend of mine!) joins me and Charlotte to talk about growing up in New York City, falling in (and out) of love while being in the public eye, first loves, and Alik's first blowjob (a LEGENDARY tale in NYC). I also have a breakthrough in self realization and we do some expert sound effects with our mouths.

If you went to high school with us-- don't worry, all names are BLEEPED but you'll know exactly who we're talking about.

Except Gunnar. Hi Gunnar!

CW: gendered language

@howcumpodcast @remykassimir @al_alfus @charkasstic

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21 Group Sex, Drugs, and Rock & Roll (Ralph Sutton & Lindsey Jennings) Jul 14, 2018

Ralph Sutton (Owner of GaS Digital Podcast Network) & Lindsey Jennings (Comedian/Suicide Girl) join me to discuss masturbating in public, threesomes, doing stuff for the story, dating people who work in sex, and much more.

CW: Gendered language, fatphobia, suicidal ideation

Lots of stories got cut for time but are available on Patreon.com/HowCum

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20 What About Ben?! (Ben DeMarco, Toni & Chuck) Jul 08, 2018

You've asked for it, and here it is! My boyfriend Ben DeMarco (Comedian & Creator of Fat Baby) joins me to talk about his side of the How Cum journey, first loves, first blowjobs & his late in life circumcision.

We interview two fans of the podcast about THEIR story- Toni & Chuck. Toni is a 50 year old woman who had never had an orgasm before listening to How Cum. Chuck is married to Toni and has WILD stories of his own.

We had the best time, I can't wait for you guys to hear this one.

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19 Merry Vaginismus! Part II- N.Y.C. (Molly Brenner & Riley Lassin) Jul 01, 2018

Molly Brenner Is Not Coming! Is a show about how Molly Brenner-- is not coming. But she came on this show! Comedian Riley Lassin joins us as we dive deeper into Vaginismus.

We also talk about whether ghosts are watching you have sex, making barbies have sex, and how much we miss HBO's True Blood.

CW: Gendered language

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18 Merry Vaginismus! Part I - L.A. (Missy Modell, Nicole Aimee Schreiber & Jamie Manelis) Jun 24, 2018

These three hilarious LA comedians chat with me about NY vs. LA dating, giving people yeast infections, banging people who look like you & “vaginismus;” a disorder that doesn’t sound so merry.

CW: SA, transphobic slur, fatphobia, CNC, racial slur

** At the end one of our guests mentions OM- is has now been outed as a super problematic ponzi scheme/ cult

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16 The Marvelous Ms. Macofsky (Ester Steinberg & Ali Macofsky) Jun 10, 2018

We're still in LA for this one as Ester Steinberg (Comedian from the upcoming season of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel) and I coach 'Kill Tony' comedian Ali Macofsky on how to cum.

That's right, there are still women out there who can't! WHO KNEW?!

me.

that's who.

Enjoy! (Follow up ep on Patreon )

CW: Gendered language, weight talk, surgery, SA

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15 Let's Have a Kai Kai (Rhea Litre) Jun 03, 2018

I'm in LA!! These next few eps I am out here having the BEST TIME and talking to a barrage of UNREAL west coast guests.

My first is drag superstar Rhea Litre, one of the most requested Drag Queens for RuPaul's Drag Race; who has sky rocketed to fame seamlessly, without having to appear on the show. ::gasp::

Rhea comes from a line of famous Drag Race Queens, her mothers include Raja and Mayhem Miller. She and her sister Willem dropped "Let's Have a Kai Kai" which blew up on Youtube with over 3.1m views.

This description is not doing this ep/ Rhea justice but rest assured, we talk about it ALL: Banging in drag vs banging out of drag, the art of tucking, F to M porn, and losing your virginity to someone who doesn't know that they're taking it.

We laughed, we loved, we Kai-Kai-ed.

CW: Offensive language, gay/misogynistic slurs, gendered language, size shaming

Assignment: Watch FTM porn (Specifically Victor Belmont)

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The Sum Up Cum Down (Part 2) May 31, 2018

In This Part: In part 1 we left off at my orgasm after ep 6. In part 2 I re-cap episodes 7-14. Now that I can cum alone-- how do I do it with a person? What other stuff is interesting about sex? We delve into the different topics [below] and I play some highlights from those episodes, and let you know what the assignments were all in one spot.

Guests on these episodes: Melissa Vitale (NSFW), Betsy Carroll, Polly Rodriguez (CEO, Unbound), Dan Soder (Showtime's Billions), Mark Normand (Amy Schumer Presents Mark Normand), Lisa Raduszynski, Robby Hoffman (The Chris Gethard Show), David Yarus (Founder, J Swipe), Emily Lubin/ Andrea Allen (Hot Mess Comedy Hour Podcast), Melanie Cristol (CEO, Lorals) Ian Fidance (You Up, Sirius XM), Jes Tom (Pleasurechest), @yasmingomez.official & @deeguerra

Sex Parties (Ep 7)

SexTech (Ep 8)

Laughter & Orgasms (Ep 9)

Communication (Ep 10)

Religion (Ep 11)

Gender & Sexuality (Ep 12)

Hygiene (Ep 13)

Love (Ep 14)

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The Sum Up Cum Down (Part 1) May 27, 2018

A mid-season summary of my journey so far!

This is Part 1: I go through episodes 1-6 with you and relive the journey from How Cum to How Came!

Guests: Corinne Fisher & Krystyna Hutchinson (Guys We Fucked Podcast), Alia Janine (Comedian/ Former Porn Star), Emily Wilson (Babe.Net), Napoleon Emill (Caroline's March Madness Winner), Lindsey Metselaar (We Met At Acme/ @dontexpectsalads), Alex Pischera (Sound Guy/ Comedian), Charlotte Kassimir (Sister/ Research/ Last Week Tonight), An Anonymous Nurse Named Talya, Wendi Starling (Jammerz/ The Old Pro Pod), David Goldberg (Time Out New York), and Lola Jean & Dominus Eros (3F Studios/ NSFW).

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14 The Three Types of Sex (Yasmin Gomez & Danae Guerra) May 20, 2018

Instagram poets Yasmin Gomez (Words with Yaz/ Words with Queens) & Danae Guerra (DeeGuerra) join me in a discussion about how love and sex are intertwined! Do you know what oxytocin is? You need to. Listen to this ep because it's prob fuckin wit ya life!

We also talk about arranged marriages, physical and emotional abuse, parents who are on drugs, jackhammer sex, being spiteful, & instagram stalking.

CW: fatphobia, abuse, childhood abuse/ SA

Assignment for Men/Mascs: Give the person you are with BODY WORSHIP during sex

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13 Dirty Girl Privilege (Andrea Allan, Emily Lubin, & Melanie Cristol) May 13, 2018

God f*cking damnit this episode is so funny. Comedians/ my friends Andrea Allan & Emily Lubin from the Hot Mess Comedy Hour podcast stop by to talk HYGIENE and **spoiler alert**-- two of us are VERY gross. And one of us I might say, is TOO clean.

We had the pleasure of interviewing CEO Melanie Cristol via telephone (we're so high tech!!) about her company Lorals-- which make revolutionary latex panties, ideal for giving/receiving oral sex!! Their Indiegogo campaign came and went quicky (heh heh) but you can still order Lorals on their website.

((Obv we talk about cumming, and some insanely hilarious stories involving poop and strap-ons. ))

CW: Heteronormative language, "STDs" instead of STIs, SA

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12 They came, they saw, they conquered (Ian Fidance & Jes Tom) May 06, 2018

Unreal episode with some comedian pals: Ian Fidance (You Up with Nikki Glaser, Sirius XM) and Jes Tom, "weird queer comedy babe."

Orgasms vs. cumming. The difference between sex & gender. What it's like to be non binary, bisexual, or both. We talk about this stuff, growing up closeted, dating assholes, and assholes in general.

Also, where is the line when it comes to writing jokes? Should comics be allowed to say anything they want if it's funny or do we need to be more careful?

File this one under very educational with a lot of heart.

CW: Gendered language, gay slur, r*pe culture

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11 A Double Mitzvah! (Robby Hoffman & David Yarus) Apr 29, 2018

Religion shapes a lot of how we how we think of relationships and sex. On this episode we delve into the religion I was born into, JUDAISM!(Le'Chaim!)

Two formidable, accomplished, & brilliant Jewish humans join me:

Robby Hoffman: Comedian & Emmy nominated writer for The Chris Gethard Show on TruTV
David Yarus: Founder of the dating app Jswipe

We talk jews vs non jews in the bedroom, being gay/ coming out, dating apps, leaving Hasidic Judaism, and some stuff I learned on Birthright that I had questions about. (Specifically the Mikva. If you don't know what that is, don't worry-- neither did I!)

David also asks me to explain my never published dating manifesto "Date Like You Have a Boyfriend." and I give you all some dating tips! Mazel Tov! (Oy Vey.)

CW: Heteronormative language

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10 La Petite Mort (Lisa Raduszynski) Apr 22, 2018

Have you ever been uncomfy asking for what you want during sex? Have you ever tried it in another language?! This week we get a lesson on how to bang en Français (In French) from Paris comedian Lisa Raduszynski!

Fun, oui? Oui!

CW: Binary/ gendered language

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09 Andrea The Giant (Dan Soder & Mark Normand) Apr 15, 2018

Dan Soder (From Showtimes's Billions/ The Bonfire on Sirius XM) and Mark Normand (Comedy Central Hour Special/ Tuesdays with Stories Podcast) are both hilarious, successful, objectively attractive comedians.

On this episode we discover how similar laughing and cumming are, which they'd prefer to make a girl do, and which they'd prefer to do themselves. We discuss former relationships, banging fans, what a "chuckle fucker" is— and how to avoid one.

We discuss an article from The Atlantic called "Why Men Don't Like Funny Women" and the guys get a special treat-- they get to meet my grandmother!

CW: Binary/Gendered/Heteronormative lanugage

Assignment: Use a buttplug

Follow us at @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @dansoder @marknorm

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08 The Shape of Water and Lube (Polly Rodriguez) Apr 08, 2018

Polly Rodriguez, the hilarious CEO of Unbound chats with Remy about different sex toys BESIDES the Womanizer and the importance of lube. They get a *tiny* bit side tracked during a debate about interspecies banging (a la "The Shape of Water"), discuss a poop snafu that happened during sex, and talk about Polly's battle with cancer and how that shaped her work.

We also discussed my assignment- masturbating with a Chakrub. Enjoy!!

CW: Binary/ gendered language, bestiality, illness, SA

Assignment: Watch Erika Lust made porn and masturbate WITH LUBE

-EPISODES ARE NOW WEEKLY. GET EXCITED!-

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07 Remy Goes To A Sex Party (Melissa Vitale & Betsy Carroll) Mar 25, 2018

NSFW has been dubbed "the Soho House of Sex" by Vice.com Their 800 members range from busy New Yorkers, Fortune 500 executives to international models and entrepreneurs. The Brooklyn-based private club and digital agency connects like-minded millennials with vice-category brands in sexual wellness, cannabis and adventure. NSFW (The New Society for Wellness) hosts monthly adventures ("SEX PARTIES"!!) including Clubhouse, Dankquet and Playdate with curated experiences at a 4 story townhome in Williamsburg. Remy got to attend one of those events and brought her friend and fellow comedian Betsy Carroll. In this episode we tell you what went down as we interview Melissa Vitale, independent PR goddess for NSFW. CW: Gendered language, SA, female circumcisison Follow us on Instagram @HowCumPodcast @MelissaavitalePR @betsycarroll @remykassimir Extras on Patreon.com/HowCum

06 Remy's Cumgratulations! (Krystyna Hutchinson + Corinne Fisher) Mar 11, 2018

Mission ACCUMPLISHED! Remy had her first orgasm and welcums her sister Charlotte (HBO's Last Week Tonight) back to talk about exactly how it happened and what toys she recummends. Then we talk tantric massages and female masturbation classes with comedians and co-hosts of Guys We F****d' Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson!

CW: gendered language

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Toys mentioned in this episode: The Womanizer, The Airpulse Arouser from PlusOne, The Satisfyer Traveller Pro AND-- The GBF from Sweet Vibrations

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05 Sexual Healing, Literally (David Goldberg, Dominus Eros & Lola Jean) Feb 25, 2018

O.M.G. This episode is so chock full of goodness. David Goldberg (LGBT/Comedy/Things to Do Editor @ Timeout NY) co-hosts and introduces Remy to his favorite sexual healers, Lola Jean & Dominus Eros (3FStudios) and we learn about all of the sexual healing classes they offer, including but not limited to:

BDSM, Wrestling, Tantric Massage, Masturbation Classes, Tantric Massage, Couples Classes etc.

We also chat about life as a gay person, life as a pan sexual, and what it means to be polyamorous/ polysexual. THIS EPISODE IS JUICY. Get excited.

CW: Eating issues, the Holocaust, size shaming, gendered language

Follow @Howcumpodcast & write in questions for us! @remykassimir @goldberghawn @lolajean @dominuseros

04 Can You Say Dyspareunia?? (Emily Wilson & Nurse Talya) Feb 11, 2018

Seriously, try pronouncing dyspareunia. I still can't-- but now I know what it means! PAINFUL SEX. On this episode we sit down with Talya, a nurse in training who guides us through the ins and outs of the vagina. We also discuss 'The Female Price of Male Pleasure'-- an article by TheWeek.com that comes on the heels of another viral article-- The Aziz Ansari piece from Babe.net.

I invited Emily Wilson, Comedian and Babe.net producer to guest co-host and discuss all of this with us!

CW: Vulva shaming, gendered/heteronormative language, fatphobia

Follow us @Howcumpodcast @remykassimir @charkasstic @therealemilywilson

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03 Fluffers Don't Exist (Alia Janine & Alex Pischera) Jan 28, 2018

The Internet is for PORN! Watching it, talking about it, and for some of us - doing it! This episode features Alia Janine, porn star turned stand up comic.

Remy and guest co-host Alex Pischera interview Alia about her life on porn sets, webcamming, and BDSM as Remy discusses her own journey down the rabbit hole that is PornHub.com including discovering that she is into trans porn, as well as finding Mia Malkova, a porn star making loving videos with her loving husband.

What is Remy's assignment this week? She must look at The "Man in the Mirror."

CW: Gendered language, age differences in relationships

Follow @Howcumpodcast & write in questions for us! @remykassimir @alia.janine @alex.pischera

02 It Was A Hot Day (Napoleon Emill & Lindsey Metselaar) Jan 12, 2018

Men are from mars, women are from venus-- let's talk about my vagina, her vagina & also his penis! On this hilariously entertaining episode of How Cum we get the man's angle on all things sex.

Remy & guest co-host Lindsey Metselaar (We Met At Acme podcaster & social media queen) talk about how Remy's first assignment went & interview the big man on comedy campus, Napoleon Emill. We discuss men's likes and dislikes (Do you like being called "daddy"? What about stretch marks?) and ask the age old question-- are we really that different?

Remy also get's another exciting assignment that we encourage you to follow along with!!

CW: Childhood SA, gendered language, size shaming, fatphobia, and heteronormative language

Follow us @HowCumPodcast @remykassimir @wemetatacme @lindzmetz @napoleonemill

Extras on patreon.com/howcum

01 Professional Cumming (Wendi Starling & Charlotte Kassimir) Dec 24, 2017

Those who can't do-- interview. I'm pretty sure that's how that saying goes. Ep one starts with a BANG! (PUN VERY INTENTIONAL)

Remy and her sister/ guest co-host for this episode, Charlotte Kassimir sit down with Comedian Wendi Starling. We discuss multiple orgasms, squirting, selling panties, and being a sugarbaby-- all things Wendi has done. And THEN Wendi gives Remy a tantalizing 'assignment' for next week!

CW: Binary/ heteronormative/ trans exclusionary language

Follow us @Howcumpodcast @remykassimir @charkasstic @wendi.starling

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