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    Haystacks & Hell

    Stories about growing up Seventh-day Adventist, leaving faith behind, and building new, fulfilling lives.

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    Latest Episodes:
    S2:E8 - Charli: Escaping her Adoptive SDA Parents - Pt. 3 Nov 18, 2023
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    Support the Dunk Family • Support the Show
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    3rd and final part of Santiago's interview with Charlotte Hayes (Charli), a Gen-Z ex-Adventist. After escaping her abusive home, Charli discovered she didn't have proof of her U.S. citizenship, so she had to get a green card and worried about possibly being deported. We also discussed her journey of healing and leaving the faith she grew up in.

    Charli's Links:
    TikTok @charli.hayes
    Instagram @charlihayes_
    YouTube @charlihayes_

    Resources / Topics Mentioned:
    Maskrosbarn ("Dandelion Child")
    Mental Health and Therapist Resources

    Support for Victims of Abuse:
    RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline
    Childhelp - National Child Abuse Hotline
    The Hotline - National Domestic Violence Hotline

    Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes
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    Credits: Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) • Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License


    S2:E7 - Charli: Escaping her Adoptive SDA Parents - Pt. 2 Nov 12, 2023
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    Part 2 of Santiago's interview with Charlotte Hayes (Charli), a Gen-Z ex-Adventist. She was adopted from Russia and brought to the U.S. as a baby by an Adventist couple. Growing up, Charli experienced horrific things at home. The police and Child Protective Services investigated, but nothing happened, so she ran away from home at 18. She now has over 500k people on TikTok who have been following her life story.

    Charli's Links:
    TikTok @charli.hayes
    Instagram @charlihayes_
    YouTube @charlihayes_

    Resources / Topics Mentioned:
    Little Duck Diner - Savannah, GA
    Hostel in the Forest - Brunswick, GA
    Hostelworld - Find hostels around the world

    Support for Victims of Abuse:
    RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline
    Childhelp - National Child Abuse Hotline
    The Hotline - National Domestic Violence Hotline

    Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes
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    S2:E6 - Charli: Escaping her Adoptive SDA Parents - Pt. 1 Nov 04, 2023
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    Santiago interviews Charlotte Hayes (Charli), a Gen-Z ex-Adventist. She was adopted from Russia and brought to the U.S. as a baby by an Adventist couple. Growing up, Charli experienced emotional, physical, and sexual abuse at home. The police and Child Protective Services investigated, but nothing happened, so she ran away from home at 18. She now has over 500k people on TikTok who have been following her life story.

    Charli's Links:
    TikTok @charli.hayes
    Instagram @charlihayes_
    YouTube @charlihayes_

    Resources / Topics Mentioned:
    VeggieTales - Jericho Slushies
    Battle (Genocide) of Jericho - Wikipedia
    IBLP - Wikipeda
    Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets
    Alisa Williams' Thread on SDAs & Shiny Happy People
    Katie Morton - Licensed Therapist, YouTuber
    Religious Trauma-informed Therapists & Other Resources

    Support for Victims of Abuse:
    RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline
    Childhelp - National Child Abuse Hotline
    The Hotline - National Domestic Violence Hotline

    Kati Morton Videos:
    Abuse Topic Playlist
    Sexual Abuse: How do we recover & how long does it take?
    What is Consent, Assault & Harassment?
    What's considered sexual abuse?
    Struggling with childhood sexual abuse?
    Healing from Sexual Abuse & Incest

    Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes
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    S2:E5 - Adventist "Halloween" or Nah? Oct 28, 2023
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    Santiago and Saoirse discuss their very different childhood experiences with Halloween and read some stories from the ex-Adventist subreddit. Abby, Ami, and friends talk around a bonfire (bone fire?) about their experiences with Halloween. That last part of the episode is a little loud, but there's some fun stuff if you're patient.

    Topics Mentioned:
    Scared Straight | Hell House - How Gay Thou Art Podcast
    The Addams Family - Wikipedia
    Wednesday (Netflix Show)
    The Addams Family (1991 Film)
    Addams Family Values (1993 Film)
    Beetlejuice (1988 Film)
    Killer Klowns From Outer Space (1988 Film)

    Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes
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    Credits: Abby and Ami, creators of the Seventh-day Atheist Podcast • Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) • Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License


    S2:E4 - Meet Will: ex-SDA Husband, Dad, Lawyer - Pt. 2 Oct 21, 2023
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    Part 2 of 2: Santiago interviews Will James, an ex-Adventist husband, dad, lawyer, and TikToker based in the U.S. state of Oklahoma. We discuss writing wills for SDA church members, Will's deconstruction from Adventism, telling his parents, and navigating his own parental responsibilities after deconstructing at just the right moment.

    Topics Mentioned:
    Will's Law Practice Website
    Will's TikTok (@will.i.jam)
    Ada Lois Sipuel Fisher
    Iyanla Vanzant "The past is present"
    Rachel Held Evans (Author)
    Peter Ennes (Author)
    Non-binary Gender
    Singular They
    Left-handedness

    Other Episodes Mentioned:
    Melissa Duge Spiers Interview (S1E10 - Part 1)
    Melissa Duge Spiers Interview (S1E11 - Part 2)
    Matthew Vollmer Interview (S1E16 - Part 1)
    Matthew Vollmer Interview (S1E17 - Part 2)
    Race, Slavery, and Racism in Christianity and Adventism (S1E19)
    The Amalgamation of Man and Beast!? (S1E20)

    Adventist Estate Stories:
    Bahamian Family Alleges $30 Million Fraud Involving 3ABN
    SDA Church Stealing Estates
    Grandma’s money went to 3ABN

    Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes
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    S2:E3 - Meet Will: ex-SDA Husband, Dad, Lawyer - Pt. 1 Oct 14, 2023
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    Part 1 of 2: Santiago interviews Will James, an ex-Adventist husband, dad, lawyer, and TikToker based in the U.S. state of Oklahoma. We discuss his parents' conversion to Adventism (along with 30 of their friends?!) when he was two years old. Will grew up with a very literal interpretation of the Bible and Ellen White's writings, and eventually deconstructed everything.
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    Topics Mentioned:
    Will's TikTok (@will.i.jam)
    Oh No, Ross and Carrie - Amazing Facts Series
    David Steward Amazing Facts Profile
    Will's Blog - Broken Plates and Baptisms
    Inception (Movie)

    Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes
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    S2:E2 - From SDA Student Missionary to Agnostic: Morgan Clae Oct 07, 2023
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    Santiago interviews Morgan Clae, an ex-Adventist director, producer, and singer-songwriter based in Los Angeles. We discuss purity culture, her time at Walla Walla University, being a student missionary, deconstruction, and becoming agnostic. We also explore the meaning behind the lyrics of Wilder Things, Morgan's song on deconstruction and coming out.

    Morgan's Links:
    Morgan Clae Linktree
    YouTube
    Spotify
    TikTok

    Morgan's Music Mentioned:
    Stay (Music Video)
    Wilder Things
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    Resources & Topics Mentioned:
    Born Again Again Podcast
    exAdventist Subreddit
    The Greatest Showman
    Jesus and John Wayne
    Conservatives are upset their kids don’t want to spend Christmas with them

    Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes

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    S2:E1 - Meet Erika: ex-SDA Teacher, Mom, Survivor of Abuse Sep 30, 2023
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    Santiago interviews Erika Miller, an ex-SDA teacher, mom, and survivor of abuse. As a young child, Erika was abused by a deacon's son at her home church. She shares her amazing story of resilience, attending Newbold College in the UK, and eventually leaving the Adventist church.

    Resources Mentioned:
    Erika's email: swimlass [at] gmail.com
    Therapists and Mental Health Resources
    Unbelievable - Netflix Show

    The Netflix show linked above is not about Erika's story, but it's linked here as we briefly discussed Erika’s desire to go into law (timecode 44:32). She was discouraged by her parents, who said the legal profession isn't suitable for a Christian woman. I mentioned the show because it’s based on a true story of a serial r*pist who got away with his crimes in part by committing them in different cities or counties, and the police departments didn’t share any information with each other.

    The show centers on a woman who was the most recent victim and spoke to the police, but the two male detectives who questioned her didn’t believe her and ultimately gaslit her into recanting her testimony. It wasn’t until a female detective began noticing a pattern and believed the victim that they finally were able to put the pieces together and catch the r*pist.

    The show is relevant because it illustrates how discouraging women from entering certain professions has put us at a disadvantage, and why listening to victims is incredibly important.

    Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/S2E1

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    S1:E20 - The Amalgamation of Man and Beast!? Season 1 Finale Jun 03, 2023
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    For the final episode of Season 1, Santiago does a deep dive on the "amalgamation" quotes. Abby and Ami talk about bigotry in the Seventh-Day Adventist church and particularly in the southern United States culture of the church. The conversation covers racism, homophobia, dating, trans issues, segregated conferences, and "the amalgamation of man and beast."

    Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes

    Sources Mentioned:

    2021 Poll: 94% of Americans Approve of Interracial Marriage

    "Base Crime" Definition from 1858 Dictionary

    Racist book from 1867: The Negro, what is his ethnological status?

    Uriah Smith's Defense of Ellen White's Amalgamation Quotes

    James White promoting Uriah Smith's Book

    Adventist Responses:

    Adventist Today - Was Ellen White an Infallible Theologian?

    Dr. Benjamin Baker - Ellen White on Amalgamation

    Terrie Aamodt (59:00), Benjamin Baker (1:32:30) on Amalgamation

    Ellen White Estate - Amalgamation by Francis D. Nichol

    Tunkhannock SDA Church on Amalgamation
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    Credits: Abby and Ami, creators of the Seventh-day Atheist Podcast • Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) • Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License


    S1:E19 - Race, Slavery, and Racism in Christianity and Adventism May 28, 2023
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    Santiago covers a brief history of race, slavery, and racism in the context of Christianity and Adventism. We look at the Bible, Ellen White's writings, and the history of how the Adventist church created a segregated conference system in the United States. Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes

    Race, Pseudoscience, and Science

    Adam Hochman - Is ‘race’ modern?

    Gregory Slack - The Medieval Origins of 'Race'

    Historical origins of racial classification

    Limpieza de sangre

    Scientific Racism

    National Academies - Stop using race

    Did Evolutionary Theory Cause Genocide?

    Charles Darwin on Racism, Slavery, and Eugenics


    Racism within Christianity and Adventism

    Christian views on slavery

    Christian abolitionism

    'The Curse of Ham': Slavery and the Old Testament

    German and Austrian churches apologize for Holocaust actions

    Adventism’s White Supremacy

    Why are there Regional Conferences?

    Protest & Progress Speech - Dr. Calvin B. Rock

    A House on Fire Panel Discussion

    ​James Kemuel Humphrey

    Byard, Lucille (1877–1943)


    Reparations

    Reparations for slavery in the United States

    The Truth Behind ’40 Acres and a Mule’

    Forty acres and a mule

    Ellen White on Reparations


    Recommended Reading

    A House on Fire

    Protest & Progress

    Seventh-day Adventists and the Civil Rights Movement

    How to Be an Antiracist

    How to Raise an Antiracist

    How to Be a (Young) Antiracist

    Antiracist Baby

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