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Latest Episodes:

How to Move from Survival Mode to Thriving: Jon Rosemberg on Agency, Stress, and Success Mar 12, 2026

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What if the version of “success” you’ve been chasing is actually keeping you stuck in survival mode?

In this episode, I sit down with author and coach Jon Rosemberg to talk about what it really means to move from high-functioning survival into genuine thriving. Jon shares his deeply personal story of growing up in Caracas, Venezuela, living in chronic vigilance, and eventually discovering that achievement and productivity were not the same thing as peace, agency, or well-being.

This conversation hit me on a very personal level. So much of what Jon shares mirrors my own journey of questioning performance-based definitions of success, asking whether external accomplishments actually create the feeling I’m looking for, and realizing that thriving often has much more to do with connection, meaning, and agency than with metrics.

We talk about the body’s role in helping us recognize survival mode, how to challenge the beliefs that keep us trapped in proving and performing, and Jon’s practical AIR framework: Awareness, Inquiry, and Reframing.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the “right” things but still feel off, disconnected, or chronically on edge, this conversation is for you.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

Thriving is not the same as success
Survival mode can look high-functioning
Somatic awareness matters
Agency can be practiced
Connection is essential to thriving

LINKS

Follow Jon on Instagram
Visit Jon's website to learn more about his book
Meaningful Work with Tamara Myles and Wes Adams
Defining and Feeling Success

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The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

Aging as a Female Endurance Athlete: Perimenopause, Strength Training & Adapting with Jenny Smith Feb 26, 2026

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I’ve known Jenny Smith since the early 2000s, back when I was a brand-new pro mountain biker watching her absolutely dominate at Nationals. She’s been a mentor, a competitor, a mom who kept racing when that wasn’t common, and someone I’ve always admired for her longevity in sport.

In this episode, Jenny and I talk honestly about aging as female endurance athletes, especially navigating perimenopause, hormone changes, recovery shifts, strength training, anxiety, inflammation, and evolving expectations.

We discuss how training needs to change as estrogen fluctuates and why strength training becomes even more important for bone health, metabolic health, and performance. Jenny shares the reality of needing more recovery, setting goals that reflect your life stage and responsibilities, and how to embrace aging with flexibility, wisdom, and self-compassion instead of fear. Plus, we cover hormone replacement therapy and getting medical support.

This conversation is for women who love endurance sport and want to keep performing, not by pretending nothing is changing, but by adapting. Aging doesn’t mean decline, it can mean agency.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

Perimenopause changes training needs
Strength training is non-negotiable for aging athletes
Recovery matters more than ever
Goal setting must evolve with life stage
Aging brings wisdom and agency

LINKS
Follow Jenny Smith Coaching

Learn more about Aim High Performance

Authenticity and managing pressure with Sarah Sturm
Aging athletes with Joel Friel

How women should train differently with Dr. Stacy Simms

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The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

How to Be a Better Communicator: The OARS Framework from Motivational Interviewing Feb 19, 2026

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The most valuable skill I’ve ever learned isn’t about performance, mindset, or even resilience. It’s communication.

In this solo episode, I’m teaching you one of the most powerful tools I use as a coach, mentor, professor at the University of Pennsylvania, keynote speaker, parent, and partner. It comes from motivational interviewing and it’s called OARS: Open-ended questions, Affirmations, Reflective listening, and Summarizing.

These skills have completely changed how I show up in conversations. They’ve made me a better coach, teacher, partner, mom, and human.

Motivational interviewing is a client-centered communication approach designed to guide people toward what matters most to them. Instead of telling someone what to do (which often undermines autonomy and competence), this framework helps people feel heard, understood, and empowered to make their own decisions.

In this episode, I walk you through what active listening really means (and why most of us aren’t actually doing it) and how to ask open-ended questions that deepen conversations. I discuss how affirmations and reflective listening builds trust and shared understanding. I also give real-life examples you can use immediately with your partner, your kids, your team at work, or your friends.

And yes, we talk about AI. Because as AI handles more intellectual tasks, our human communication skills will matter even more.

If you want stronger relationships, better conflict management, and deeper connection in your personal and professional life, this episode gives you one skill to practice today.

Top 5 Takeaways:

Communication is a partnership, not a directive
Open-ended questions deepen conversations
Reflective listening builds trust
Affirmations reinforce strengths and values
In an AI-driven world, human communication skills are a competitive advantage

LINKS

- Learn about meditation from Oren Jay Sofer
- Episode on how to be a better communicator

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The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

Brownout vs. Burnout: Relieving Pressure, Reclaiming Energy, and Realigning Your Life with Jessie Reese Feb 12, 2026

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Many of us know what burnout looks like: exhaustion, cynicism, and the feeling that we simply can’t keep going. But there’s another state that shows up far more often and it’s easier to miss. It’s called brownout.

In this episode, I sit down with Jessie Reese, leadership and executive development specialist and positive psychology practitioner, to unpack the critical difference between brownout and burnout, and why so many high-achieving people, especially women, are quietly living in that in-between space.

Jess shares her environmental alignment model, a practical framework that helps you see how all parts of your life (work, caregiving, relationships, health, identity, and invisible labor) draw from the same energy reservoir. Together, we explore why adding more self-improvement often backfires, and why the most powerful move is often asking a different question: “What is the most impactful thing I can do to relieve pressure right now?”

We also talk about the cultural pressure to “do it all,” why trying to make everything a top priority leads to depletion, and how real alignment requires honest reflection on your values, not an external definition of success or a past version of yourself.

If you’re feeling stretched thin, quietly overwhelmed, or wondering why rest doesn’t seem to work anymore, this conversation will help you name what’s happening and give you a clearer path forward.

My Top 5 Takeaways

Brownout often comes before burnout and it’s easier to miss because you’re still functioning.
Your energy reservoir is shared across your whole life, not just work.
Relieving pressure is more effective than adding habits when you’re depleted.
You can’t make everything the #1 priority and trying to do so leads to misalignment.
True fulfillment requires redefining “having it all” based on your current values, constraints, and season of life.

Jessie's Links and Work:

Connect with Jessie on LinkedIn
Read Jessie's MAPP Capstone The Tipping Point: Executive Burnout, Brownout, and Realignment
MAPP Magazine Article - Running on Half Power: Why Women Burnout and How to Reclaim Alignmentby Jessie Reese

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The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

Mindfulness in Action: Burnout, Drive, and How to Build Real Human Connection Jan 29, 2026

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In this Mindfulness in Action episode, I’m sharing a spontaneous trail-side reflection on something that’s been very present for me lately: how we manage drive without burning out and how we stay truly connected in a world that keeps telling us to “go bigger.”

I talk about rethinking social media impact, why I’m increasingly prioritizing local and real-time connection, and how and asking better questions can completely change the quality of our relationships. I also share some simple practices I’ve been using, like voice memos and short phone calls, to stay meaningfully connected without adding more pressure or noise.

Synchronous, human connection matters so much for feeling valued. That's why I wanted to explore how curiosity helps us move beyond surface-level interaction, and why small, intentional shifts can have a bigger impact than trying to reach everyone, everywhere.

I close with a short mindfulness practice you can do anywhere to help you reconnect with your body, reflect on when you feel most connected to others, and take one small step toward more meaningful connection in your everyday life.

You'll learn to:

Ground into your body, even while in motion
Reflect on when you feel most connected to others
Identify one small step you can take to create deeper, more meaningful connection offline

Other meditations:

– Slowing Down the Rush
– How to Regulate Your Emotions for Resilience and Performance
– How to Combat Self-Criticism

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The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

Empathy, ADHD, and Mindfulness: Practical Tools for Anxiety, Burnout, and Emotional Well-Being with Corinne Kneis Jan 15, 2026

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One of the things I love most about podcasting is getting to have the conversations I wish more people could hear, especially the ones that normalize what so many of us quietly struggle with.

I sit down with my friend and fellow MAPP grad Corinne Kneis, a psychotherapist and wellness educator whose work beautifully bridges empathy, mindfulness, ADHD, and anxiety.

Corinne and I first met during the Master of Applied Positive Psychology program at the University of Pennsylvania, and I’ve long admired how she brings both science and humanity into her work. In this conversation, we explore what empathy really looks like in therapy and everyday life, why so many women mask ADHD with anxiety and perfectionism, and how mindfulness can help create space between emotional overwhelm and thoughtful response.

We also talk openly about sensitivity, burnout, overfunctioning, and the strengths that often come with ADHD—like curiosity, passion, and love of learning. Corinne shares practical tools therapists use (and that anyone can apply) to regulate the nervous system, manage anxiety, and build healthier relationships with their emotions.

Whether you’re navigating anxiety, ADHD, burnout, or simply want more emotional clarity and self-compassion, this episode offers grounded insight and actionable strategies you can start using right away.

Top 5 Takeaways

Empathy has two forms. Understanding the difference between affective (emotional) and cognitive empathy can reduce burnout and increase compassion.
Many women mask ADHD with anxiety. Perfectionism and overfunctioning are often coping strategies, not character flaws.
Mindfulness creates space. Simple practices can help separate emotional reactions from cognitive responses.
ADHD is not a deficit. Differences often come with powerful strengths like curiosity, passion, and creativity.
Structure + play matter. Routines, humor, and nervous system regulation are essential tools for emotional well-being.

Learn More about Corinne Below:

Flourish Psychotherapy by Corinne Kneis
Follow Along with Corinne on Instagram
Connect with Corinne on LinkedIn

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The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

The Science of Gratitude: Striving, Meaning, and Why Entitlement Steals Our Joy with Dr. Bob Emmons Jan 08, 2026

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Gratitude is one of the most researched, and misunderstood, topics in psychology.

In this episode of Grow the Good, I sit down with Dr. Bob Emmons, one of the world’s leading gratitude researchers, for a candid, nuanced conversation about what gratitude really is, where it comes from, and how it shapes our striving, relationships, and sense of meaning.

What makes this conversation especially rich is Bob’s journey. Long before he became known for gratitude research, his work focused on striving, goals, and purpose. It’s a foundation that deeply informs how he thinks about gratitude today. Bob and I explore how research often reflects our own life questions (“research is me-search”), and how gratitude emerged for Bob not just as an academic interest, but as a personal turning point.

We unpack why gratitude isn’t about forced positivity, how entitlement quietly erodes well-being, and why authentic gratitude helps us see what (and who) we might otherwise take for granted. We also discuss the emotional depth of gratitude: how fully waking up to life means experiencing both joy and sorrow more deeply.

As we head into a new year, this episode is for anyone who wants a more honest, grounded understanding of gratitude. I hope it brings you an understanding that strengthens relationships, deepens meaning, and supports growth without bypassing real emotion.

Top 5 Takeaways

Gratitude is deeper than thankfulness
Entitlement is the enemy of gratitude
Gratitude can coexist with hardship
Healthy gratitude requires balance
Gratitude strengthens relationships and mentorship

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The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

Mindfulness in Action: Letting Go, Embracing What Matters Next Jan 01, 2026

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In this special Mindfulness in Action episode, I’m sharing a very personal reflection from the trails of Squamish, BC where muddy puddles, forest quiet, and time on the bike create space for clarity.

For the first time in over 22 years, I’ve made the decision to step away from competitive bike racing. Not because I can’t race, but because my life, priorities, and sense of fulfillment have shifted.

In this off-the-cuff, honest conversation, I reflect on what it means to let go of an identity you’ve held for decades, how task-focused mindfulness has shaped my thinking, and why courage sometimes looks like choosing less instead of more.

This episode isn’t just about sport. It’s about transitions, motivation, family, mattering, and learning to listen to yourself when something inside is asking for change.

If you’re navigating a transition, feeling stretched thin, or questioning what really matters in this next season of your life, I hope this episode helps you slow down, reflect, and reconnect with what’s true for you.

Top 5 Takeaways

Mindfulness isn’t passive, it’s active presence. Being fully engaged in the task at hand (not self-evaluation) can unlock clarity and joy.
Identity transitions are uncomfortable, but necessary. Letting go of who you’ve been creates space for who you’re becoming.
Motivation changes with life seasons. What once fueled you may no longer fit, and that’s not failure.
Doing less can be a powerful choice. Fulfillment doesn’t always come from pushing harder or doing more.
Reflection reveals values. Emotions like envy, fatigue, or resistance often point toward what truly matters.

Other Mindfulness in Action Episodes:

- Slowing Down the Rush
- How to Regulate Your Emotions for Resilience and Performance
- How to Combat Self-Criticism

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The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

Nature Connectedness & Well-Being with Molly Peterson & Dr. Holli-Anne Passmore Dec 19, 2025

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What if improving your well-being didn’t require more time, effort, or productivity, but simply a deeper relationship with the world around you?

I’m your host Sonya Looney, and in this episode of Grow the Good, I’m joined by nature connectedness researcher Dr. Holli-Anne Passmore and well-being practitioner Molly Peterson for a rich, science-backed, and deeply human conversation about how our relationship with nature shapes our mental health, meaning, and sense of presence.

Together, we explore what nature connectedness really means, and why it’s not about hiking more miles or living in the wilderness, but about attention, intention, and emotional connection. Sonya shares personal stories about how nature has helped her regulate, heal, and reconnect during demanding seasons of life, while Molly and Holli-Anne bring powerful research and practical tools listeners can use immediately.

This episode is for anyone feeling overstimulated, disconnected, or craving more meaning in everyday life, whether you live in the mountains, the city, or somewhere in between.

Top 5 Takeaways

Nature connectedness is about relationship, not time
Small, daily moments with nature (plants, clouds, light, birds) can significantly boost well-being and presence.
Technology can either enhance or erode nature connection, depending on how intentionally we use it.
Character strength amplify nature’s benefits, increasing meaning and transcendence.
Early and intentional exposure to nature, especially in childhood and family life, predicts lifelong well-being and environmental care.

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The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

The Science of Brain Fatigue: How to Balance Ambition, Recovery, and Life Transitions with Scott Frey & Brent Bookwalter Dec 11, 2025

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Why do we sometimes feel mentally exhausted even when our bodies are rested? I’m your host Sonya Looney, and in this episode of Grow the Good, I’m joined by neuroscientist Dr. Scott Frey and former professional cyclist Brent Bookwalter to dig into the science of central (brain) fatigue, life transitions, and how to balance performance with well-being.

Through stories from elite sport, neuroscience, and personal growth, Scott, Brent, and I explore how understanding brain fatigue can help us better navigate change, maintain motivation, and thrive through life’s transitions.

I’ve been through this. You’ll hear about when I realized that my high need for mental stimulation was impacting my racing performance, and how learning about mental fatigue helped me reframe training and recovery in both sport and life.

Whether you’re an athlete, professional, or parent trying to “do it all,” this conversation will help you understand your brain’s limits and unlock tools to work with your mind, not against it.

Top 5 Takeaways: