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No More Disrespect: 4 Magic Words That Make A Guy Change Jul 07, 2021

Tired of talking yourself to death about your feelings and boundaries when a guy is disrespectful? I will give you four (science backed!) magic words to communicate your point without sounding desperate, naggy or needy—and put the ball back in his court!

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Lean Back Part 2: The Benefits of Burnout Jun 30, 2021

Last week we talked about when to stop leaning in and take a pause to lean back, and this week we’ll outline 4 steps to cope with burnout and use it as a set up to being your most authentic self!

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Screw Your Lean In: The Necessary Art of Leaning Back Jun 23, 2021

There’s a time to lean in…but there’s a time to step away. If you’re feeling anxious about reentering society, burnt out on socialization, exhausted by relationship, or just need a little bit of a pause for yourself, I will tell you how to disengage and embrace a self-serving season!

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Hot Girl Summer: Small Boobs and Big Bucks Jun 09, 2021

We all want to have a hot girl summer but…what exactly does that mean? For me, it means not needing approval or rescuing from any guy or even society. I’ll break down how to deal with body shamers and why gettin’ yo bag is the key to happiness!

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Friends In Low Places: When Everyone You Know Is Coupled Up Jun 02, 2021

Putting yourself out there is crucial to making friends…but what do you do when your coupled up galpals aren’t reciprocating the effort? This week we’ll help a Shalligator who is the odd (single!) girl out in a sea of loved up ladies.

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How To Get The Guy: Turning A Booty Call Into A Boyfriend May 26, 2021

This week on YouTube I explained why silence is your main weapon if you want an ex back, but here we’ll delve a little deeper into the strategy behind it. Plus, we’ll follow up to my tale about a booty call that became a wife, and what precisely she said to him to get out of the sex zone and into an engagement ring!

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The One Who Got Away: How To Let Go Of Past Regret May 19, 2021

This week we talk to a Shalligator who wants to rekindle things with a guy she rejected (twice!) and another who wants her husband to morph back into the man she married, and not the mega douche he's become. I'll help you let go of regret and knock some sense into guys who are letting you slip away!

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Spring Cleaning: Why Alpha Females Don’t Chase Guys May 12, 2021

With summer around the corner, it’s easy to have spring fever about boys and dating. But before you start swiping, texting or hooking up, I’ll give you a pep talk on why we NEVER CHASE. Plus, I’ll help a Shalligator who isn’t sure if she’s worked through her issues enough to get out in the dating game.

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Tinder 101: Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore May 05, 2021

Dating apps are a great way to meet guys…and an excellent way to completely waste your time with f*ckboys! I’ll tell you red flags to look for in a boy’s profile, plus help one Shalligator who isn’t sure if her new Bumble boy is all in or all trouble!

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Defeating Your Inner Neurotic & Coping With Change You Don’t Want Apr 28, 2021

Change sucks. Change is the worst when it’s change you didn’t particularly ask for...but isn’t MOST change out of your control? I’ll give you five tips on becoming more resilient instead of bitter and erotic, and talk to one shower gator whose ex just dropped a bomb about the change in his own life!

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Finding Friends For Your Boyfriend...And Yourself Apr 21, 2021

Do you find yourself attracting guys who don’t really have a social life of their own? Or are your “friends” flaky, frazzled and forgettable? I’ll give you tips on getting a life for him AND yourself!

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How To Be Happy Even When Things Go Wrong Apr 14, 2021

We should all be visualizing what we want out of our future but what do you do when imagination goes bad? If you struggle with romanticizing things at the expense of reality, I’ll give you the two keys to happiness and help you pump the breaks on a runaway emotional train!

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Spring Cleaning: Beta Males & Business Blahs Apr 07, 2021

This week, we’ll break down the psychology of beta males who neg amazing women, plus share some lessons from our Shalliterature book club selection, “Essentialism,” and help you walk away from “perfect” opportunities that don’t feel so perfect after all.

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Spring Cleaning: Revamping Your Friendships Mar 31, 2021

As we emerge out of the pandemic, we have the unique opportunity to remake things into a new normal, from our job situation to our friendship. I’ll tell you how to rejigger dynamics that are/aren’t working, plus talk to a Shalligator who worries that she may have followed “Why Men Love Bitches” a little TOO closely!

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Spring Cleaning: How To Clear Away Bitterness Mar 24, 2021

We can’t control what happens to us in life, and it doesn’t seem like we can control our subsequent bitterness either – but we can. This week I’ll talk to Shalligators dealing with unfair situations at work, and also in the realm of sexual trauma, and share some practical, easy tips to help them let go of bitterness

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Spring Cleaning: 3 Tips To Fighting Fair Mar 18, 2021

This week will continue our spring cleaning series on tossing out thoughts and behaviors that belong in the trash heap. Will help a Shalligator in a toxic fight-loop with her boyfriend of four months. Are his criticisms valid? Or are they squabbling about surface level topics and not core issues? I’ll break it down and give you three ways to fight fair!

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Spring Cleaning: Axing Awful Friends Mar 10, 2021

As life (sorta) starts to return to normal and the weather shifts, it’s time to take stock of who we’re keeping in our lives—and why. This week, I’ll talk to two Shalligators who don’t know whether to keep or toss old friends who’ve turned into frenemies.

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How To Stop Feeling Desperate & Clingy Mar 03, 2021

Are you oh so independent and confident…until you catch feelings? I’ll help a Shalligator who finds herself morphing into a clingy girlfriend and isn’t sure how to stop it. But is there such a thing as TOO independent? I’ll break down how to stop feeling desperate in a relationship and uncover what the fear voice is telling you!

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Polite Ways To Say No & How To Deal With The Ick Feb 24, 2021

This week on the YouTube channel we’ve been talking about how to say no and set up boundaries, but sometimes bellowing NO causes more stress than just doing the thing...or, doing the person. If you’re struggling with this concept, I’ll give you some practical real world examples of how to turn someone down, and why The Ick is a terrible byproduct of a boundary-less life!

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How To Snap Someone Out Of Their Victim Narrative Feb 17, 2021

This week, we’ll hear from an exasperated Shalligator Who is stuck on vacation with a complainer. When dealing with an emotional and social terrorist, do you fight fire with fire? Do you ignore them and walk away? I’ll tell you the best way to deal with a victim mentality that protects your peace—not politeness.

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Banking & Boobs: A Pre-Shallentine’s Day Special Feb 10, 2021

This week, I’ll help a Shalligator sort out whether or not it’s wise to have a joint bank account with a man who doesn’t respect your cash flow. And, since Shallentine’s Day is coming up, I’ll give you some pro tips on picking great (cheap!) lingerie and what guys really think when you wear it!

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Birthdays, Bad Sex and Boundaries Feb 03, 2021

This week we tackle two seemingly unrelated issues—ruined birthdays and STDs—and explore why a lack of boundaries can lead us right into both!

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To Let A Ghoster Go…Or Not? Jan 27, 2021

If a friend vanishes out of your life, do they deserve to get let back in? I’ll help a Shalligator who is wondering if a long lost pal wants another chance or if it’s time to let things go. ALSO! Listen to XO Radio every Wednesday on the Stationhead app (free!) where I play my fave tunes and break down their lessons. AND! Subscribe to my intimate new blog, Eat Prey Love.

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He’s Just Not That Into You: How To Read Between The Lines Jan 20, 2021

This week, a Shalligator is at her wits end with guys who seem to break up with her because they “can’t give you what you need.” But the gag is, she doesn’t really need that much! Is this just a line guys are handing her, or is she portraying herself has way more high maintenance than she is? I’ll decode it all!

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Octopus vs. Unicorn: How To Pick A Career When You’re Interested In Everything Jan 13, 2021

When you are a bad ass chick, as we are here in the Shallontourage, it can be hard to focus on just one career or even just a manageable handful of hobbies. I’ll help one Shalligator sort through her maze of interests and explain why recklessly spending energy will leave you bankrupt!

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New Year, New You? How To Start Over Jan 06, 2021

To kick of 2021, I'll help you embrace the past (yes, even 2020) and tackle a question by a Shalligator who thinks she's starting absolutely from scratch after a tough and trying year. I'll give her some tough love but also 3 actionable, science-backed steps to improving her self-esteem, getting back to her authentic self, and leaving the misery behind!

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Intentions & Instagrams Dec 16, 2020

It’s our last podcast of 2020 and it’s time to set intentions for the new year. I’ll tell you my easy, 3-tiered approach to goal setting and manifestation. Plus, we’ll tackle the topic of guys who slide into your DMs, and how to craft the perfect Instagram!

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Moving On When You Can't Actually Move Dec 09, 2020

Whether you're in a small town, small college or small office, getting over someone you have to see all the time is an exercise in agony. I'll give you some practical tips on moving forward, and we'll talk to a Shalligator who's in a quandary about how to find a good therapist!

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Merry Money Mayhem: How To Reset Your Financial Attitude Dec 02, 2020

‘Tis the season to…go into debt making buying presents, right? NOPE. Not this year. We’re going to look at the silver linings of 2020, reset our attitude toward money, dial down expectations, and come out of the holidays feeling rich in every possible way!

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A Tale of Porn and Payments Nov 25, 2020

Is cheating actually cheating if it’s with a sex worker? And can sending a guy nudes prevent him from straying? I’ll explore this sexually tense situation, plus help another Shalligator sort out who exactly should pay for the date, and when to start pitching in!

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How To Become An Alpha Female Nov 11, 2020

This week we’re focusing on just one topic: turning yourself into an alpha female. Specifically, I’m breaking down the three major shifts I made in my life to go from cold blooded to independent, bulletproof, and ultimately, very happy and satisfied no matter what my circumstances. This weeks motto: “No thank you.”

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EVIL WEEK BONUS: How To Gather Intel On Your Enemies Nov 04, 2020

Halloween may be over, but we're keeping the sinful fun going with an Evil Week bonus, where I break down easy tricks to gather information on your enemies and haters so you can craft the most effective strategy against them. Plus, I'll tell you some sanity-saving tips on surviving election season with this week's motto: Do Not Disturb.

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EVIL WEEK BONUS: How (and Why) to Embrace Wickedness Oct 28, 2020

EVIL WEEK BONUS: How (and Why) to Embrace Wickedness

Evil Week is in full swing but it can be hard to fully step into the shoes of sin, right? I'll give you a perditious little pep talk on how evil and intuition walk hand in hand. Plus: we'll sorting out what exactly makes for great sex (and how to get it!) and ranting about...Emily Ratajkowski?

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Evil Week Preview: The Art Of Revenge Oct 21, 2020

Evil Week begins on October 25 on YouTube and Infstream, and the Shallontourage deserves a little...appetizer, don’t you think? This week I’m talking all about revenge — how to get it, who to tell, what it looks like, and the two different strategies for annihilating your enemies.

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Moving On & Moving Up Oct 14, 2020

This week our mantra is: stay true to yourself. Sometimes it’s necessary to look at the reality of the situation, a person, or even a town and say… You know what? This just isn’t good enough for me anymore. Plus, I’ll tell you how to cultivate what I call celebrity energy to insulate you from beta males who neg you on dating apps and IRL!

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There’s Freedom In Restraint: How To Be Your Own Savior Oct 07, 2020

This week we’re talking to a Shalligator who feel stuck in her current college circumstance, plus another trapped by a friend who just won’t listen to her advice, and another who ponders the age old question: if we sleep with a guy in the first date, is it the kiss of death? I’ll break it all down!

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Love Bombing Boys & Draining Disaster Friends Oct 02, 2020

This week, we’re learning how to see the reality of the situation — not what we hope it is, or what fear tells us it is. One Shalligator is getting ghosted by a guy with unclear intentions, while another is debating whether or not to cut off a toxic friend. I’ll sort it all out and give you a soothing new mantra!

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Heroin Highs & Nerdy Needs Sep 24, 2020

We’ve all been there with the guy who felt like drugs—every text and every hook up gave us that dopamine insanity. One Shalligator offers her tip on how to clip the cravings, then another ask a crucial question: when we are finally finished with fuck boys, where can you find a hot quality nerd? I’ll tell you a fun and easy way to magnetize quality characters into your life and how to avoid potential pitfalls!

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Fear of Success...And Fear Of A Booty Call Sep 04, 2020

This week we’re talking to a Shalligator dealing with a perfect-on-paper-life… But a whole bunch of moody malaise. And another chickadee is trying to turn the tide and get out of the booty call category. Is it possible? We’ll break it all down!

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How To Tell If A Guy Is Using You Aug 26, 2020

Is there magic in moderation? Is the middle path the key to happiness? This week I’ll help identify the warning signs that a guy is using you as his own emotional getaway car, and how to get things back on track. Plus, will break down what it really means when a guy is sarcastic – is it a sign of gaslighting, or are you just being too sensitive?

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Boundaries & Bitch Lessons pt. 4 Aug 19, 2020

This week, we’re exploring the life changing power of: I am not afraid to leave. Plus, I’ll break down the classic f*ckboy trajectory and why ICE COLD is the only way to get a guy back!

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Boundaries & Bitch Lessons pt. 3 Aug 12, 2020

This week, our mantra is: “Do what works for ME.” We’re talking to three chicks struggling to put themselves first and are instead listening to their panic-based “Snooki brain” about everything from blow jobs to broke boys.

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Boundaries & Bitch Lessons pt. 2 Aug 05, 2020

This week, we continue to read from our Shalliterature book club selection, “Why Men Love Bitches” and get tips on how to handle ghosting, how to turn the tables on a guy trying to make you jealous, and why being humble is a very bad idea. Pick up the book at the link below and head to the Shalligator reddit thread to chat about what you’re learning!

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Boundaries & Bitch Lessons Jul 29, 2020

Last week we kicked off the Shalliterature book club selection,

“Why Men Love Bitches” and today I’m reading the first chapter, plus telling a Tinder tale that WMLB helped me navigate in a way I probably wouldn’t have. Pick up the book at the link below and head to the Shalligator reddit thread to chat about what you’re

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Why Men Love Bitches: A New Shalliturature Book Club Selection! Jul 23, 2020

It’s time for a new book club selection and what better read than my own personal bible, “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argov! We’ll also talk to two girls in “Fliratationships” who can’t untangle their emotions.

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Setting Boundaries: An Exercise In Agony Jul 16, 2020

This week we’re helping a girl who got dumped out of nowhere figure out the best course of action. And, I’m taking you through the highs and lows of stating your standards, setting boundaries, and letting the chips fall where they may!

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How To Keep A Guy Chasing You & Satisfying Selfishness Jul 08, 2020

This week we’re focusing on doing what’s best for US—not making things easy breezy for everyone else. I’ll help you set boundaries with guilt trippin family, toxic roommates and guys who stop pursuing you!

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How to Deal With Boundary Breachers Jun 25, 2020

When will I stop talking about boundaries? When we all have them perfectly under control—A.k.a., never. I’ll help two girls dealing with friends who want too much, and one chickadee that can’t shake a creepy guy!

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How To Ditch A Psychotic Friend Jun 17, 2020

This week we’re tackling just one topic: the lunatics in our lives. If you’re afraid to drop someone because of the potential fall out, I’ll give you a blueprint on exactly how to leave, and a big ol’ peptalk on why you need to!

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Career Quandaries & Surrogate Girlfriends Jun 11, 2020

Is it normal for an FWB situation to include dates and endless texts? Is a guy one month post divorce fit to date? Is mom going to lose her mind when I tell her I’m switching careers? I’ll unravel these riddles and more!

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The Not-So-Subtle Art Of Letting Go Jun 05, 2020

This week, I’ll help a too-flirty chick undo a sticky situation,

help another see what her boyfriend means when he says he needs to sow his wild oats, and talk about the perfect time to have sex when you’re dating someone new!

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Quarantine Spirals: Divorces, Dudes and Diapers May 21, 2020

With all of us battling some form of 'Rona related existential dread, I'll talk four Shalloners off the cliffs of insanity, whether they're dealing with their parents' divorce, a fantasy flirtation, the worry that they "owe" their mom a grandchild!

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First Time Fiascos & Flirting Gone Wrong May 14, 2020

This week, we’ll help two lovelorn Shalloners get over the trauma

of losing their virginity to, well, losers, and give advice to another who flirted herself into a corner with a married man...and now has an unhinged wife on her tail!

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The Art Of Apologizing & Females Flirting With Your Fella May 07, 2020

This week two Shalloners find themselves needing to issue major apologies to their boyfriends, but another

is demanding an explanation for her man’s female “friend” who can’t keep her trashy hands to herself!

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Quarantining With Parents: Criticisms & Catholicisms Apr 30, 2020

This week we’re helping Shalloners stuck in lockdown with family situations that are...less than ideal, shall we say. From a literal list of things to change for a suddenly-super religious father, I’ll tell you how to navigate sticky family situations without losing

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Quarantine Stress: Family Fiascos & Moving Mayhem Apr 23, 2020

Sanity is unraveling at a rapid pace, and that means parental feuds and snarky roommates. I’ll help you channel your anxiety into something productive, and help two other Shalloners who can’t fathom why guys stick with lackluster rebounds and deadbeat chicks!

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Quarantine Dating: Setting The Pace & Getting Back The Guy! Apr 15, 2020

This week I’ll help a Shalloner wanting to knock an ex’s socks off when she sees him post-lockdown, tell another one how to set the pace for online chit-chat with a guy she just started talking to, and help another recognize a predator in her midst!

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Divorced Douchebags & Miniscule Men Apr 01, 2020

Is a heartbroken guy serious about you or just using you as a free therapist? I’ll read the writing on the wall for a confused Shalloner, help another who can’t seem to make friends, and give tall answer to a girl dating a short boy!

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Coworker Crucifixions and A Vanishing Boyfriend Mar 26, 2020

This episode, we’ll boss up a babe who needs help crushing an uprising, sort out a soul-crushing ghosting, and talk to a guy who’s boytoy isn’t ready to come out of the closet!

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Post-Grad Problems & Skittles vs Salads Mar 19, 2020

This episode, I’ll start by sharing my quarantine mantra to stave off coronavirus, then deal with two young ladies struggling to find their career path, and help another caught in a friends-with-benefits spiral differentiate between eating skittles and salads!

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Creatives In Chaos & A Wakeup Call For Your Booty Call Mar 11, 2020

This week I’ll help a Shalloner in a tizzy over where to take her creative career, and another who isn’t exactly feeling warm and fuzzy about her new workmates. We’ll also help a doting daughter set up boundaries for her boozy mom, and give a friend with benefits

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Of Rome and Revenge Mar 04, 2020

What’s worse than being stuck near your ex? Being stuck near your ex while studying abroad in Italy and he’s hooking up with your detested roommate! I’ll tell this molto triste student how to not feel so Veni, Vidi, Vicious, help another trust again after hurt, and help a seething Shalloner sort out her plans for vengeance.

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How To Listen To Your Intuition...And How To NOT Date Rappers Feb 26, 2020

It’s easy to tell someone to listen to their gut instinct…but it’s a lot harder to hear it inside of ourselves. I’ll give you actionable clear-cut steps to picking up what your intuition is trying to put down, help another Shalloner fix her friends fractured self-esteem, and lay down the law

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Boundaries, Burnout and Bitchy Business Feb 19, 2020

Can you burn out at 21? Oh yes, yes you can. I’ll help a frazzled Shalloner who is feeling used by everyone in her life, another who can’t seem to get her mom off her back, and a business-minded boss babe dealing with snakes in the grass!

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Shallontine’s Day Special: Your V-Day Horror Stories! Feb 14, 2020

In this special bonus Shallontine’s Day episode, I’ll break down some truly heinous Valentine’s horror stories you shared with me, from a love-bombing loser and a dollar-store romeo, to the many, MANY dudes who have many, MANY excuses for why they didn’t get you a gift!

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The Trap Of “Just Friends” & Dating With Disabilities Feb 12, 2020

Should you be “just friends” with a guy who isn’t ready to commit? UH NO. I’ll break down the trap of endless friendship, plus help a Shalloner dealing with a physical limitation and a follow up to a saga about a guy who won’t say “I love you!”

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Getting Unstuck & Catfishing On Tinder Feb 05, 2020

Do you feel stuck in stagnant? I’ll tell you how to reverse-engineer your life to get out of a rut and back on track, talk to a girl dealing with an in-and-out ex fiancé, plus help a Shalloner who met a dude by… catfishing him?

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Weddings, Funerals, and Trauma Bonding Jan 29, 2020

Life isn’t always sugar and pom-poms. This week we’re tackling some heavy topics from family obligations to family loss. Plus, I’ll help a confused Shallonee sort out the nuances of trauma bonding and you have another one a plan to get away from an abusive ex

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Career Quagmires & The Truth About Being An Empath Jan 22, 2020

This week, I’ll help a fan narrow down her career options, explain some hot and cold behavior from a guy who won’t put out, and we are the pros and cons of coming clean about kissing your friends fella. Plus, I’ll dismantle the idea that being an empath is a good thing… Because it is not.

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Vacationships & Being A Beta Jan 15, 2020

Did you fall for a guy on a getaway? I’ll unravel a fiasco with a “vacationship” and help a girl who realized that SHE is the beta. Plus, we’ll tackle toxic family members, and feeling like the odd chick out in a trio of friends!

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Oral Fixations and Moms With Dramz Jan 08, 2020

This episode we’ll debate why some dudes won’t go downtown, and why others let their moms run their life. Plus, I’ll help a Shalloner who’s guy won’t drop the ILY, and why those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing...

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How To Play A Player Jan 01, 2020

This episode we’ll explore how to get revenge on an ex, a player, and a guy who had the AUDACITY to move on after a break up! Plus, I’ll remind you why we are bait, and not fish!

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How To Make A Guy Like You & The Truth About One Night Stands Dec 20, 2019

Can we turn a wishy-washy guy into marriage (or at least boyfriend) material? And what happens when you realize too late that you like a guy from a one-night stand? Can you turn that ho into a housewife? I'll tell you when to keep trying and when to keep it moving!

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How To Ho 101 & Chasing Neglect Dec 11, 2019

This week I'll talk to a teen who wants to unleash her inner maneater, plus several other chickadees who recognize that they’re entangled with awful a-holes...but can’t quite let go of them for some reason! Are they chasing neglect? I’ll break it all down....

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Forgiving A F**kboy, Jealous Judgement & Unraveling The Ick! Dec 05, 2019

If a f**kboy grows up, should you give him another chance? I'll tell it like it is to one Shalloner pondering a

player, plus help another make friends in a jealous environment, and explain whether or not it's normal to be occiasionally icked out by the guy you're dating!

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Young Guy Problems & Old Friend Fiascos Nov 27, 2019

'Tis the season to break up with friends who annoy you! I'll help two Shalloners untangle themselves from

friendships that no longer serve them, plus help a 28-year-old virgin decide if she should tell her 20-year-old booty call that he's her first...

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Desperation Dating & Birthday Blues Nov 20, 2019

This week I'll help two Shalloners who can't seem to craft the relationships they want. One is constantly striking out at the bars while another is fuming over a fumbled birthday celebration. I'll share some tips on attracting the right kind of guys and why sometimes a birthday blow up is about something much, much deeper...

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Deceptive Dudes & Marrying Our Mothers Nov 13, 2019

This week I'll help two Shalloners who are more than a little suspicious that their oh-so-perfect boyfriends are

anything but. Plus, I'll help a 20-year-old hottie shut down backhanded compliments from her older friends, break down the effects of growing up with a single parents and explain why "restful" is your new mantra!

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Penis Problems & Mama Drama Nov 06, 2019

Is "vanilla sex" a dealbreaker? We'll decode what a guy means when he dogs his own sexual performance,

and what YOU mean when suddenly you can't stand a boy you used to have the hots for! Plus, we'll untangle family boundaries and shut down some office awfulness.

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Supposedly Shy Guys & Dudes Who Don't Plan Dates Oct 30, 2019

Is there anything more annoying than a guy who "can't" plan a date? No, and I'll give you a script to nip it in the bud. Plus, I'll break down a booty call brouhaha and help a girl raise her standard, and dispel the self-defeating myth of the shy guy!

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Good Guy F*ckboys & Pity Parties Oct 23, 2019

This episode, two girls are dealing with depressive dudes...but when does love turn into enabling? I’ll straighten ‘em out like a piece of wire, plus break down the warning signs that a “nice guy” is actually a good guy f*ckboy in disguise!

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