Get Out of Your Own Way with Aaron Velky

Confronting Your Darkness: The Secret to True Growth Nov 19, 2024

In this episode of Get Out Of Your Own Way, Marty and I sit down with the remarkable Nathan Kohlerman—a man whose journey through grief, trauma, and inner darkness has shaped him into a true leader and healer. This conversation goes deep. We explore the raw and often uncomfortable process of facing your shadows and transforming pain into purpose.

Nathan shares his incredible story of publishing his book, a project born out of his own experiences with loss and healing. We talk about what it means to hold space for grief, navigate life’s darkest moments, and find meaning in the chaos.

This isn’t your typical personal development chat. Nathan challenges us to redefine leadership and authenticity, showing that true growth only comes when you embrace your entire self—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Together, we explore:

Why embracing your pain is essential for growth.
How grief and loss can become powerful tools for transformation.
The importance of "range" in leadership and life.
Why the strongest leaders are those who’ve faced their inner demons.
Practical tools to navigate your own shadow work.

This episode is for anyone who’s ready to stop running from their struggles and start leading with authenticity and courage. It’s not always easy, but it’s the work that leads to real, lasting change.

Connect with Nathan Kohlerman: https://www.instagram.com/nathankohlerman/

Final Thoughts:

This episode is a powerful reminder that the road to personal transformation is messy, but it’s worth every step. If you’re ready to stop getting in your own way and step into the life you’re meant to lead, this conversation is for you.

Listen, reflect, and take action. Your journey starts now.

The Vision Framework To TRANSFORM Your Life Nov 12, 2024

Vision doesn't just shape your business, but your entire life.

Today, Marty and I will explore the critical difference between pursuing what you love versus running from what you don’t. Many entrepreneurs start by enduring the grind for a future payoff, but at some point, you need to ask: When do I start loving what I do?

We’ll break down our vision framework—a practical triangle that consists of Vision, Void, and Values—to help you define what you truly want, identify what’s holding you back, and align your core priorities with your actions.

In this episode, we cover:

- Why your vision is the key to navigating challenges and making better choices.

- The importance of defining your "perfect day" and how it serves as a blueprint for your ideal future.

- How to recognize and let go of limiting beliefs and habits that no longer serve you.

- Why vague goals like “financial freedom” won’t cut it and how to replace them with concrete, actionable visions.

This is more than just another conversation about success; it’s about becoming the visionary leader of your life.

📥 Want a copy of our Vision Framework or Values Workbook? Send us a DM on Instagram, Facebook, or TikTok, and we’ll get it to you.

How To Have A Perfect Day Nov 08, 2024

This is the second part of our Vision Framework: the Perfect Day. It’s time to get intentional about your daily routine—not just those rare, idyllic days on vacation, but the everyday Tuesday. What does your ideal normal day look like?

We’ll explore why grounding yourself in the morning sets the tone for the rest of the day and how building a routine around what matters most can create true fulfillment. Whether it’s meditation, time with family, or simply designing your day in a way that brings energy and joy, the Perfect Day is your foundation for success.

This isn’t just theory; it’s the framework I use with clients, in retreats, and in my own life. If you’re stuck in a rut, plateauing, or unsure of what’s next, this episode will give you actionable steps to align your daily life with your bigger vision.

What You'll Learn:

- Why vision isn’t just for your business, but for your entire life

- How to structure your day for maximum fulfillment and productivity

- The four segments of the Perfect Day and how to optimize each

- Practical tips to implement your ideal routine starting now

Stay tuned for more in this series of Vision and taking control of your life once and for all.

Without THIS, You Cannot Succeed - Finding Vision Oct 29, 2024

Welcome to a new series all about Vision. Marty and I dive deep into the real meaning of vision. Vision isn’t just about goals or aspirations—it’s a way of life. Without it, you’re adrift. With it, everything becomes clear.

We’ll explore why vision is the core of any successful journey, in business and beyond. Most leaders think they have a vision, but we’re challenging you to think bigger. Forget the usual frameworks. We’re laying out our own six-part method that’s helped our clients at the top tiers redefine what’s possible. In this series, we’ll unpack the path from Horizon to expanding your comfort zone, from defining your future self to creating lasting habits.

It’s time to see your potential, not just as a leader but as a true visionary.

#vision #entrepreneurship #motivation

Take THIS seriously before it's too late... Oct 22, 2024

This episode is all about why your health is the foundation of your success as an entrepreneur, business owner, or leader. Without it, you're screwed. I’ve seen it time and again: if you’re wealthy but not healthy, you're not truly wealthy.

What You'll Learn:

- Health is the foundation for everything: Your health fuels better decisions, creative problem-solving, and longevity in both life and business.

- Stress and immune system management: If you're not taking care of your health, you're losing days to stress and illness that could be spent building your vision.

- Creativity and decision-making: A healthy body and mind allow you to think outside the box and make better, quicker decisions.

- Presentation matters: People make instant judgments based on how you take care of yourself. Showing up healthy signals discipline and commitment.

- Your Challenge: Today, make one decision about your health. Whether it's starting a fitness routine, booking that doctor's appointment, or improving your diet—take action!

- Let’s be real: you're an entrepreneur playing the long game. If you don't make health a priority now, you're going to pay for it later. Make the choice today.

You can follow me on Instagram @AaronVelky for more insights. Let’s keep getting out of our own way—together.

Listen to these 52 minutes if you want to be a millionaire in 2025.. Oct 15, 2024

In this episode I sit down with Brett Gilliland, founder of Elite Entrepreneurs, to unpack the strategies and mindset shifts that help business owners go from seven figures to eight—and beyond. Brett’s journey is unique. He didn’t set out to become an entrepreneur, but he found himself building a $100 million company and learning firsthand the grit and emotional fortitude it takes to scale a business. In this conversation, we dive deep into that emotional journey and the real-life challenges of growing a successful company.

Brett shares incredible insights on what it takes to become “elite,” why resilience is essential, and how to lead a business through tough times. We also talk about the dangers of constantly "moving the goalposts," the importance of celebrating milestones, and how to create a team culture that scales alongside your business. One of the most powerful themes we hit on is finding harmony between business growth and personal well-being—because what’s the point of building a great company if you’re burning yourself out in the process?

This episode is packed with practical takeaways and inspiring lessons for entrepreneurs at all stages. Whether you’re looking to level up your business, build a stronger team, or find more balance in your life, you’re going to want to tune in!

What We Cover:

The mindset shift required to scale from seven to eight figures
How to cultivate emotional resilience as a business owner
Building a purpose-driven culture that helps your team thrive
Finding balance between personal growth and business success
The importance of stopping to celebrate your wins before chasing the next goal

Join us for an authentic, inspiring conversation that will challenge you to think differently about leadership, culture, and the way you approach growth.

If you don't have VISION, you don't have a business. Oct 08, 2024

In this episode, Marty Nocchi and I sit down to tackle one of the biggest challenges entrepreneurs face—creating a clear and compelling vision. We explore why so many entrepreneurs get stuck, thinking their vision is just an extension of their current reality. The truth is, to build a vision that truly excites you, you need to break free from what’s comfortable and dive into the unknown.

We also dig into the importance of having a deeper purpose beyond just financial freedom—because trust me, if you don't have a vision that's meaningful, even success will feel empty.

What We Cover:

- Breaking Free From the Past – The hardest part of building a vision is letting go of the past. Most entrepreneurs extend their current path, but real growth comes from leaving old habits behind and stepping into something new.

- Vision Is Not Just About Money – Financial freedom is great, but without a vision that drives you beyond dollars, you're likely to feel lost, no matter how much money you have.

- Vision Demands Change – Growth is optional. If you’re stuck or feel unfulfilled, it’s time to challenge yourself with a new vision. One that forces you to evolve and inspires you to wake up excited each day.

If you’re ready to get out of your own way and build a vision that lights you up, this episode is for you. Reach out to us for our vision framework, and start designing the life and business you truly want.

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Connect with Us: Website: https://www.aaronvelky.com

How to Stop Trying So Hard and Start Attracting What You Truly Want Oct 01, 2024

In this episode of Get Out Of Your Own Way, I'm with Dalin Bernard to dive deep into the entrepreneurial journey, overcoming challenges, and embracing authentic connections in business and life. Dalin shares his unique "golf cart method" to networking and marketing, emphasizing the power of approachability over flashiness.

From navigating business obstacles to staying true to oneself, Dalin provides actionable insights on:

Handling business problems as growth opportunities
Balancing ambition with realistic expectations
Building genuine connections through authenticity
Using innovative strategies to stand out in saturated markets

Whether you're an entrepreneur looking to grow your business or seeking a fresh perspective on networking, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you get out of your own way and level up your success.

Join us for this insightful conversation, and learn how to elevate your brand, connect with others authentically, and make smarter business decisions.

Follow Dalin Bernard & Social Hustle:

Instagram: @hellacasual

Stop Wasting Your Life With Toxic Language! Sep 24, 2024

Are you unknowingly wasting your life with divisive language? In this episode, we dive deep into the power of words and how the language you use every day could be silently sabotaging your success, relationships, and future. Whether in the workplace, at home, or within your own mind, divisive language creates conflict, limits growth, and holds you back from reaching your full potential.

We’ll explore real-life examples of how toxic words can destroy teams, ruin company culture, and trap you in a cycle of negativity. We also share insights on how to shift from a "win-lose" mindset to a more powerful "win-win" approach that can change your leadership, business, and life for the better.

If you feel stuck, unfulfilled, or like you're wasting your potential, this conversation could be the key to breaking free and reclaiming your life.

Key Takeaways:

- Why divisive language is more dangerous than you think

- How subtle words can ruin your company culture and success

- Strategies to transform your mindset and reclaim control of your life

👉 If you’re ready to take back control and stop wasting your life, hit that subscribe button for more transformative insights every week!

I figured out Apples sales secret! Sep 20, 2024

Marty is back on the show for this special 50th episode and this one is a doozy! I have figured out Apple's sales secret and there are some big lessons you can learn from it for your own business.

In this episode, you'll learn:

The Art of Problem-Solution Marketing: Understand how Apple's approach identifies user frustrations and offers innovative solutions.
The Value of Simplicity: Learn why simplicity is a key differentiator for Apple and how this principle can benefit entrepreneurs.
Navigating the Coaching Industry: Discover parallels between Apple's strategies and the coaching landscape, emphasizing the importance of choosing the right partner for your journey.
The Android vs. Apple Debate Revisited: Gain perspectives on the strengths and weaknesses of both platforms from seasoned entrepreneurs.

What's your take on all this? We'd love to hear from you. DM me on Instagram @aaronvelky

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The Brutal Truth About Feedback: You NEED to Hear It (Even When it Hurts) Sep 13, 2024

In this episode, I team up with Marty to dive into the art of finishing projects and the crucial role feedback plays in the creative journey. We use Eric Cantona's memorable speech as a metaphor for knowing when to stop talking and start reflecting. Together, we tackle the hurdles of perfectionism, the fear of criticism, and the significance of getting outside perspectives.

Key Takeaways:

Iteration thrives on feedback: Don't get stuck in the cycle of endless editing by yourself. Real improvement happens when you invite external feedback.
Embrace the feedback loop: Seek it out, learn to filter it, and use it effectively. Your relationship with feedback determines how much you can grow.
Step into the spotlight: Get comfortable with imperfection and the possibility of criticism. The market and your audience are your best sources of insight.
Reflect and iterate: Make time to process feedback and make impactful changes. Reflection is often the greatest teacher.

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Got ideas for topics, guests, or feedback? Let us know what you’d love to hear on the show.

Remember, feedback is the fuel for growth. So don't hesitate—put your work out there, and embrace the feedback loop.

From Creative Writing to Chief of Staff: Sentari Minor's Journey to Impactful Leadership Sep 06, 2024

It was fantastic to reconnect with Sentari Minor, a true leader and friend who I had the pleasure of meeting when I first moved to Arizona. In this episode, we dive deep into his unique journey from a creative writing background to becoming a driving force in the healthcare industry. Sentari shares powerful insights on self-awareness, letting go of control, and building a culture of mental well-being.

What You'll Learn:

Break free from limitations: Discover how understanding your own patterns and embracing curiosity can lead to personal and professional breakthroughs.
Lead with empathy: Learn how prioritizing mental health in the workplace fosters a thriving and productive team.
Build trust authentically: Sentari shares his secrets to building trust through transparency, vulnerability, and genuine connection.
Craft your personal brand: Uncover the importance of developing your own brand while staying aligned with your organization's values.
Achieve work-life integration: Find the balance that fuels your success and happiness, both in and out of work.

Highlights of our Conversation:

Sentari's inspiring career path and the lessons he learned along the way.
The critical role of mental health in leadership and building a positive company culture.
Practical strategies for effective communication and influence.
The importance of self-reflection and understanding your triggers.
Insights on navigating the challenges and rewards of entrepreneurship.

Don't miss this insightful conversation filled with actionable advice for anyone looking to get out of their own way and achieve their full potential.

Connect with Sentari:

LinkedIn: Sentari Minor

Website: https://www.sentariminor.com/

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Is Work-Life Balance A Lie? Aug 30, 2024

Today I'm joined by Gary Lipsky, a seasoned entrepreneur who has built a life that blends passion, productivity, and a healthy work-life balance. From scaling businesses to living by the beach, Gary has mastered the art of integrating personal and professional fulfillment.

Key Takeaways for You:

- Build Momentum Incrementally: Start small and build gradually. Success isn’t about climbing Mount Everest in a day but about taking consistent steps towards your goals. Focus on building momentum with each step, and before you know it, you’ll be achieving your bigger objectives.

- Prioritize Health and Lifestyle: Don’t defer your life for success. Gary emphasizes the importance of integrating your passions, health, and relationships into your daily routine. Remember, health is wealth, and a well-balanced life will make you a better entrepreneur.

- Leverage Your Team and Delegate: Understanding the value of your time and learning to say no is crucial. By focusing on tasks that truly matter and delegating the rest, you can align your work with your life goals and maintain a sustainable pace.

Join us as we explore what it means to truly get out of your own way, embrace change, and build a life that is not just successful, but also deeply satisfying. This conversation is a must-watch for any entrepreneur looking to balance ambition with a meaningful, well-rounded life.

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Connect with Gary Lipsky:

Website: https://breakofdaycapital.com/

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/AaronVelky

How Sauna Therapy Challenges Everything We Know About Disease Aug 20, 2024

What's the point in building an empire if you're not healthy enough to enjoy it? If you know me, you know I take health and wellness very seriously. That's why I brought on a special guest today to talk about it. Today I'm joined by Brian Richards, founder of SaunaSpace. We talk about the power of saunas, near-infrared light therapy, and their incredible benefits. Brian shares how he went from real estate to wellness innovation, highlighting how following his passion led to founding a company that merges ancient healing practices with modern technology.

What We Talk About:

Sauna Benefits: Regular sauna use can extend your health span by detoxifying at the cellular level and promoting cellular rejuvenation.
Near-Infrared Light Therapy: Discover how this therapy penetrates deep into the body, supporting everything from brain health to overall cellular function.
The Power of Passion: Brian’s story underscores the importance of following your heart, even when it means facing uncertainty and setbacks.
Rebranding with Heart: SaunaSpace’s upcoming rebrand reflects a deeper alignment with its mission to promote wellness through love and intention.
Practical Wellness: Brian shares how integrating wellness practices into daily life can be effortless and transformative, encouraging a balanced approach to self-care.

Connect with SaunaSpace:

Website: SaunaSpace

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You're NOT OK, and that's OK! Aug 13, 2024

In this episode, Marty and I dive deep into the art of being okay with not being okay. We explore the importance of self-acceptance, embracing your limits, and the courage it takes to be vulnerable. We also share the journey of connecting with a musician whose work has profoundly impacted my life, both personally and professionally. From discussing the challenges of meeting your heroes to the balance between creativity and entrepreneurship, this episode is packed with real talk. Tune in and remember—it's okay to not have it all together

Navigating Pain and Finding Healing with Nahko Bear Aug 06, 2024

Navigating Pain and Finding Healing with Nahko Bear

It's a privilege for me to sit down today with renowned musician Nahko Bear for an honest and open conversation about life. Nahko's music has played a significant role in life, especially the song "We Are On Time". Nahko shares insights about listening to your intuition, the importance of trying and enjoying the journey regardless of the outcome, and how to find lessons in mistakes. We dive deep into personal growth, confronting your history, and the balance between self-care and responsibility.

Nahko also touches on his complex family history, his experiences with forgiveness, and the transformative journey of meeting his father’s murderer.

If you want to navigate the pain and find healing in your life, learn about the relationship between art and identity, and the ongoing challenge of aligning personal and professional growth, you will LOVE this episode.

Follow Nahko Bear:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nahkobear

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nahkoandmedicineforthepeople

Deadpool and Marty - Living Life with Maximum Effort Jul 30, 2024

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Welcome to "Deadpool and Marty," where less Aaron and Marty means more Deadpool and Marty! I'm Aaron Velky, here with Marty Nocchi, and we're diving into today's episode with maximum effort.

What We Talk About:

- National Tequila Day: We're celebrating with Casamigos Jalapeño Tequila. Shoutout to Total Wine for the supply!

- Deadpool Hype: The new Deadpool movie drops in two days. We dissect our excitement and what we expect from the film.

- Life of Actors: We explore how actors balance their on-screen personas with real life, inspired by an interview with Rebecca from Ted Lasso.

- Reinvention: The parallels between actors morphing into characters and how we morph in business and relationships.

- Comic Book Themes: How X-Men and superhero stories resonate with our experiences of feeling different and finding our place.

- Wolverine Love: Discussing Wolverine's character depth and the anticipation for his portrayal in the new movie.

- Personal Development: How comic books teach us about reinventing ourselves and the importance of evolving our characters in life.

Join us as we navigate these topics with humor, depth, and a bit of tequila. Cheers to new beginnings and finding joy in the journey!

Subscribe, like, and share your thoughts with us. Let's get out of our own way and live life with maximum effort!

How to Blend Purpose and Profit w/Reef Colman Jul 23, 2024

In this episode, I have a thought-provoking conversation with Reef Colman, an entrepreneur committed to blending purpose with business. Reef’s journey from personal challenges to impacting global communities is both inspiring and practical.

Today, we’re exploring the critical elements of empathy, relationship dynamics, and integrating mission with work. Here’s what we’re unpacking:

The importance of viewing relationships through both masculine and feminine lenses.
Reef’s transformative journey of emotional regulation and self-discovery.
Blending mission with profitability in business and the innovative approach of We Assist.
Practical insights into setting boundaries and fostering healthy relationships.
The role of continuous learning and education in personal and professional development.

This episode is a deep dive into the experiences of a man dedicated to making a difference, both in his personal life and in the world.

Connect with Reef Colman:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reefcolman/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reefcolman/

For those looking to merge impact with their business endeavors and improve personal relationships, follow Reef for ongoing insights and inspiration.

Do THIS to ATTRACT your DREAM LIFE Jul 16, 2024

In this episode of "Get Out Of Your Own Way", we sit down with Chelsko, a multi-talented artist, and entrepreneur. Discover how she juggles her passions in art, music, and acting while staying true to her purpose and living her dream life.

What You'll Learn:

- Purpose doesn't have to be grand. It can be simple, immediate, and evolving.

- Embrace your journey and learn from your experiences.

- Balancing art and business is challenging but possible.

- Say no to distractions and stay focused on your goals.

- Authenticity is crucial in art and life.

- Finding joy and what you’re good at can help you discover your purpose.

- Building a brand around your true self is essential.

- It’s okay to prioritize yourself and your goals over social obligations.

About Aaron Velky:

Aaron Velky is dedicated to helping individuals break free from self-imposed limitations and achieve their dreams. Join us every Monday for new episodes filled with actionable advice and inspiring stories.

Stay Connected:

Website: https://getoutofyourownway.coach/

Instagram: @aaronvelky

Follow Chelsko - https://www.instagram.com/chelskomusic

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DO THIS For 6 Days To Manifest The FUTURE OF YOUR DREAMS Jul 09, 2024

In this incredible conversation, I got to sit down with Tom McCarthy, an expert in breakthrough performance and author of "The Breakthrough Code." It's one of my favorite books!

This episode will show you how to transform your subconscious mind to manifest the life of your dreams. Dream partner? New job? Money? Whatever it is, we can program ourselves like a GPS to get it.

What You'll Learn:

The Power of the Subconscious Mind: Tom reveals how our subconscious programming dictates our reality and how changing these programs can lead to success in business, relationships, and personal fulfillment.

Simplicity in Complexity: Discover the art of breaking down complex ideas into simple, actionable steps. Tom shares his approach to making sophisticated concepts easy to understand and apply.

Three Big Ideas: Learn about Tom's three foundational principles for achieving massive breakthroughs and living a life without limits.

Focus and Obsession: Understand the importance of focusing on fewer things but with greater intensity to achieve extraordinary results.

Intuitive Action: Tom emphasizes the significance of taking effective actions guided by intuition rather than sheer effort.

Tom McCarthy is a leading authority on breakthrough performance and personal development. As an author, speaker, and coach, Tom has transformed countless lives with his insights into the power of the mind and effective action.

Resources Mentioned:

Book: "The Breakthrough Code" by Tom McCarthy

Websites: TomMcCarthy.com

Instagram: @TheTomMcCarthy

This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice on how to manifest your dreams. Don't miss out on the opportunity to learn from one of the best in the field. Tune in, take notes, and start your journey towards a life of limitless possibilities today!

If You Want To Be SUCCESSFUL In Life, Master This ONE SKILL! Jul 02, 2024

In this powerhouse episode, I deep dive with Alex Thielman to learn the secret to absolute success: specialization. We discuss why and how focusing on one skill will elevate you to greater heights, and yet, staying in your lane is the absolute key to personal and professional growth.

Alex shares his journey of the many roles he has been a part of within the SaaS space, building himself back amidst crippling challenges to the realization that you have to focus on your core strengths.

What We Talk About:

Why the world rewards specialists over generalists.
Identify and focus on your core strengths to build a successful career.
Boundary setting for the clear notion of expertise.
Overcoming Fear of Specialization
The fears that may be harbored as a person becomes a specialist include the fear of failure and success.
And so much more...

Actionable Steps You Can Take Today For Greatness:

Identify Your Lane: Take time to map your lane of specialization and ensure that you become the master of it.
Set boundaries: learn to say no to things that don't resonate with your core strengths.
Make a name for yourself: Prove your expertise and let partners come that balance out what you bring to the table.
Develop Adaptability: Use your adaptability to problem-solve and add value in whatever area you specialize in.

Follow Aaron Velky on Instagram: @AaronVelky

Visit our website -https://www.aaronvelky.com/

This Mindset Shift Will UNLOCK Your Business Jun 25, 2024

Today, we want to discuss some defining things that can transform your entire entrepreneurial journey. Mainly, why being an entrepreneur is a creative adventure and what happens when we shift our perspective to that of an artist.

Here’s what we’re exploring:

- The bold mindset shift that can revolutionize your business approach.

- Recognizing when you've mastered your craft and why it might be time to move on.

- Embracing the artist within every entrepreneur and why it’s crucial for innovation.

- The courage to step out of your comfort zone and tackle bigger challenges.

- Practical strategies to merge creativity and business for sustained success.

- Balancing personal fulfillment with professional growth for a holistic approach to life.

This episode is a deep dive into unlocking your potential and breaking free from the status quo. We will give you the actionable steps to transform your mindset and elevate your business to new heights.

Connect with Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi:

Instagram: @aronvelky

Instagram: @martynocchi

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Are You Running Out Of Time? Jun 18, 2024

Today, Marty and I tackle the concept of "Running out of Future". That feeling of "Am I out of time?" and "Is this it?" We've all been there and crippled by this.

Here’s what we’re unpacking:

- The concept of "running out of future" and its implications on personal and professional growth.

- Recognizing when you've hit a plateau and understanding why it can be more than just a temporary phase.

- The importance of asking the right questions to discover what you truly want in life, beyond societal expectations.

- How to redefine your future vision and break free from the cycle of complacency.

- Setting up boundaries to stay present and build a life that's more than just entrepreneurial achievements.

This episode is a deep dive into how to reignite your passion for the future, giving you actionable steps to transform your mindset and uncover a vision that excites you.

Connect with us! We want to take you to the next level.

https://www.aaronvelky.com

Subscribe to our podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify for more insights and inspiration. Let’s get out of our own way and create a future that excites us!

Are You in a Midlife Crisis? Jun 11, 2024

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the midlife crisis. Join us as we go through the strategies to help you unf**k your life, navigate uncertainty, and start living more meaningfully. This is a deeply personal conversation that I hope will inspire you to open up and confront your own BS. (Belief Systems!)

Here’s what we’re unpacking:

- The necessity of recognizing your role in your current situation and seeking new perspectives.

- Understanding the illusion of fulfillment through societal expectations and material pursuits.

- Navigating midlife crises and how they serve as a bridge between the person you thought you had to be and the person you could become.

- The importance of asking for help and the necessity of support during times of intense difficulty and transformation.

- Embracing change by evolving the way you think, act, and choose to create meaningful progress in your life.

This episode is a comprehensive guide for anyone feeling stuck or unfulfilled, offering invaluable insights and actionable advice to help you get out of your own way and start living a more meaningful life.

Recommended Reading:

"Let Your Life Speak" by Parker Palmer
"Will" by Will Smith
"The Way of the Peaceful Warrior" by Dan Millman
"Celestine Prophecy" by James Redfield
"Zero to One" by Peter Thiel
"The Second Mountain" by David Brooks

Connect with us:

Website: https://www.getoutofyourownway.coach

For those ready to take actionable steps towards a more fulfilling life, follow us for ongoing inspiration and guidance.

Fearless Transition: A Guide to Pursuing Your Passion Jun 04, 2024

In this episode, I'm excited to welcome Eric Seidelman, a long-time corporate employee turned aspiring entrepreneur. With over 20 years in digital marketing and account management, Eric is now venturing into the world of e-commerce to chase his dreams of time freedom and flexibility. Isn't that something we all want to do? Then I think you're going to love this tactical and actionable conversation.

Here’s what we’re exploring:

-Eric's background in corporate America and his decision to pursue a more fulfilling career

- The process of identifying the first step in launching an e-commerce brand through product and market research.

- Overcoming the feeling of overwhelm by breaking down the entrepreneurial journey into manageable steps.

- Building self-trust and confidence by focusing on progress and learning from each step taken.

- Addressing and managing the fear of financial loss and the unknowns that come with starting a new venture.

- Balancing a long-term vision with actionable, day-to-day steps to move forward effectively.

- How to avoid paralysis analysis.

I hope this episode reflects parts of your journey and makes you realize there is a way to live your dream life!

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Why Grit Alone Won't Save You with Lara Jones May 28, 2024

I'm joined today by Lara Jones, author of "Hunt or Be Hunted" and creator of the Global Grit System. In this episode, Lara shares her profound journey of grit, resilience, and self-discovery, discussing how her understanding of grit evolved through personal tragedies and professional challenges.

From coaching young athletes to navigating the profound grief of losing her son, Lara’s experiences have shaped her unique perspective on grit. She introduces the four elements of grit - Get it done, Reframe thinking, Impact others, and Take responsibility - and how they can transform leadership and personal growth.

If you want to learn how to harness your inner grit, overcome life's challenges, and lead with empathy and strength, you'll get a lot out of this episode.

What You'll Learn:

- The true meaning of grit and how it can evolve.

- The four elements of grit and how to apply them in your life.

- How to balance pushing through challenges with the need for rest and self-care.

- The impact of emotional intelligence on leadership and personal growth.

- Techniques for navigating grief while maintaining professional and personal responsibilities.

- And so much more!

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The Harsh Reality of Fitting In with Millionaires May 21, 2024

Have you ever felt like an outsider? Perhaps imposter syndrome? Like you're a puzzle piece in the wrong box? Then I think you'll get a lot out of our conversation.

In this live coaching session, Oliver Perry shared his experiences and internal struggles with fitting into high-level circles of millionaires. Despite being a part of elite groups, Oliver feels like an outsider trying to find his place.

What We Talk About:

The Puzzle of Fitting In: Oliver shares his feelings of being a misfit among millionaires, despite having access to their circles. We talk about the contrast between the high-stakes problems of millionaires and Oliver's more relatable day-to-day issues.

How Your Background Shapes Your Perspective: Oliver reflects on how his background in the military and current status might contribute to his feelings of alienation.

Desire for Recognition: Oliver expresses a longing for recognition and the internal conflict between wanting to be celebrated for his uniqueness versus fitting into the existing group dynamics

And So Much More...

This session is designed to give you practical advice and encouragement to overcome that feeling of not belonging and overcoming imposter syndrome. It's a problem most of us face in various situations, but it doesn't have to be that way.

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Themes: Personal Development, Entrepreneurship, Career Transitions, Self Worth, Millionaire Mindset, Money

We're in Austin! Behind the scenes of our big event May 14, 2024

Join me and Marty (or Marti as Starbucks seems to think), as we dive into the behind-the-scenes preparations for our elite event in Austin, hosted by GoBundance.

Despite the foggy "Gotham-like" weather, I'm excited to share the extensive effort that goes into making events like these successful. From managing health and energy to creating custom workbooks, I want to give you a behind-the-scenes look at what it takes to provide value at the highest level.

If you're an aspiring speaker or a seasoned entrepreneur, this episode offers valuable insights and a glimpse into the dedication required to create memorable experiences.

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Bulletproof Intuition: How a SWAT Cop Became a Relationship Guru May 07, 2024

In this episode, we’re thrilled to have Dylan Warter, a former SWAT detective turned relationship coach. From dodging bullets to guiding hearts, Dylan’s journey is nothing short of dramatic. Now he uses his hard-earned wisdom to help men lead with robust, healthy masculinity in their relationships.

Today, prepare to explore the crucial intersections of intuition, leadership, and personal transformation. Here’s what we’re unpacking:

- Dylan’s gripping SWAT experiences and the life-altering decisions that followed.

- The path from acute PTSD to profound peace and how intuition guided that transition.

- The art of leveraging masculine energy for relationship harmony and personal growth.

- Real-life insights into harnessing intuition for pivotal life choices.

- Strategies for navigating and healing personal relationships with wisdom and empathy.

This episode is a deep dive into the life of a man who’s faced extraordinary challenges and emerged with invaluable insights on living courageously and loving wisely. 

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For those looking to embrace a bold, intuitive approach to personal and professional relationships, follow Dylan for ongoing inspiration and guidance.

Meditations with Marty: Boundaries Apr 30, 2024

Marty leads us with another powerful meditation all about boundaries. Boundaries are the structure of our lives, so we must pay attention to this common blind spot in people's lives.

Sit back, close your eyes, and relax, while Marty guides you on a 10-minute meditation on overcoming and setting boundaries.

Want to meditate with us in person? Check out our retreats - https://getoutofyourownway.coach/

Earlier in the year, we covered the basics of meditation, which you can listen to here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-to-do-when-you-meditate/id1721234559?i=1000641988341

How To Eliminate Self Doubt Forever Apr 23, 2024

Welcome back to Get Out of Your Own Way with me, Aaron Velky!  Are you going through a major life transition and are plagued by self-doubt and overwhelmed? Then you’ll get a lot of out today's coaching session.  This week, I’m sharing a coaching call I had with Chuck Robinson. Chuck is a prime example of someone wanting to go to the next level but is in their own way. In this session, we unpack the mental and emotional challenges that come with such a significant life transition.

Today, we'll explore several compelling themes:

- The "speeding train" metaphor: I’ll discuss how to manage the daunting pace of success and the anxiety that often accompanies it.

- Facing fears of failure and success: I’ll provide insights into how these fears can both hinder and motivate us and how to navigate them.

- Strategic decision-making: I’ll share effective strategies for making pivotal life decisions with confidence.

- Embracing entrepreneurship: Tips for transitioning from a side hustle to a main career focus.

This session is designed to give you practical advice and encouragement for facing similar challenges in your life. You'll see firsthand how I guide Chuck through these complex dynamics, emphasizing the psychological tools necessary for successful personal and professional development.

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Themes: Personal Development, Entrepreneurship, Career Transitions, Mindset Mastery

How To TRULY Accept & Love Your Partner with Dr. Kelly Flanagan Apr 16, 2024

Today, I'm joined by best-selling author and psychologist Dr. Kelly Flanagan. Dr. Kelly has personally transformed my life and I had to have him on the show to show you how transformative his work is.

We talk about the intricate dance between boundaries, resentment, and acceptance, as well as the keys to fostering healthy relationships and embracing our true selves.

In this incredible conversation, we'll explore:

- The revelation that resentment often arises from unspoken boundaries.

- Embracing acceptance as a catalyst for self-love and personal growth.

- Kelly's own journey of confronting inner voices of shame and finding authenticity.

- The parallels between setting boundaries in relationships and navigating the entrepreneurial world.

- Practical strategies for balancing personal boundaries with external expectations.

This conversation will challenge your perspectives and equip you with actionable insights to get out of your own way and live a more fulfilling life.

I highly recommend Dr. Kelly's book "Loveable". It changed my life...

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Entrepreneurship Is So Hard That Most People Give Up! Apr 09, 2024

Welcome to another powerhouse episode of Get Out of Your Own Way, I'm Aaron Velky, and today, we dive deep with our "integrator extraordinaire" Marty Nocchi.

Marty joins us to unravel the intricacies of entrepreneurship, shedding light on the often-overlooked emotional and psychological battles that define the journey of building and sustaining a vision.

Together, we’re peeling back the layers on topics that challenge the conventional fabric of entrepreneurship, including:

- The profound loneliness and unique challenges entrepreneurs face, setting them apart from the rest of society.

- The essential pursuit of aligning life around your core values and the quest for authenticity amidst a sea of societal and self-imposed expectations.

- Insights from our recent retreat, and the recurring questions we kept getting

- We also give some practical advice for anyone who's at a crossroads of life and needs to make a significant decision. Spoiler: There's always a way.

You know we love having Marty on the show as he brings a unique perspective on the trends and internal shifts that we need to navigate our lives.

This episode is a call to action for entrepreneurs and individuals alike to embrace the journey toward authenticity, redefine success on their terms, and make conscious choices that resonate with their deepest values.

Themes: Entrepreneurial Mindset, Decision-Making & Strategy, Social Dynamics & Community Support, Mental Health, Leadership, Personal Development.

Tools to Say No: Start Putting Yourself First: | Matt King Apr 02, 2024

Welcome to a powerhouse episode of Get Out of Your Own Way, I'm Aaron Velky!

In this episode, we're diving into the mind and journey of Gobundance CEO Matt King, a visionary who's carved out a path of intentional living and goal-setting that's anything but ordinary. Matt, often seen as an underdog, shares his insights on intuition, the strategic power of "no," and the relentless pursuit of excellence that has defined his rise to success.

Matt pulls back the curtain on the practices and mindsets that have propelled him from a place of self-doubt to a position of influence and accomplishment. He challenges the conventional, pushing us to reconsider the narratives we've been sold about success and personal growth.

Prepare to level up yourself, as we explore themes like:

- Intuition as an unlearned language we all possess

- The liberating power of saying "NO"

- The Art of Continuous Addition and why "adding on" and never settling are keys to lifelong achievement.

Today's episode is for anyone looking to redefine their approach to life and leadership. Matt's story is a testament to the power of belief, resilience, and strategic action in the face of adversity. Another fun fact is, as you might have heard in the episode, Matt was kind enough to give us his time on his birthday, so thank you, Matt!

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Dive deeper into our content, browse past episodes, and discover the wealth of knowledge we've shared on overcoming obstacles to help you get out of your own way.

Themes: Entrepreneurship, Mindset, Leadership, Personal Development, Goal-Setting, Intentional Living.

How to Embrace the Unknown to Succeed with Anssi Viljanen Mar 26, 2024

Meet Anssi Viljanen – not your average insurance agent. Former preacher turned introspective entrepreneur, Anssi is on a quest to infuse every aspect of his life with meaning and significance. Join us Aaron as he uncovers our special guest's intriguing journey. Expect conversations on the intersections of faith, personal development, purpose, and so much more!

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00:00 From dedicated preacher to dominating in insurance claims.

03:13 The dark side of financial independence.

07:47 Are you wasting your time? Say ‘goodbye’ to input overload for good!

11:04 The opposite of faith is FEAR.

14:37 We must embrace the unknown and trust others.

17:15 Make choices despite uncertainty. Or, choose to stay stuck.

23:37 Run your business as if your employees would die for you.

26:20 Hot take on leadership.

33:44 How a game led to self-reflection on setting boundaries and being present.

37:02 We must say ‘no’ to good things, even in friendships.

41:40 Stop hustling for worthiness!

46:16 Phone usage is a blessing for self-awareness and habit-building.

48:33 How to bring more intellectual honesty in your life.

52:01 Journaling is CRITICAL for growth.

56:18 Closing thoughts.

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The Truth About Chasing Perfection Mar 21, 2024

Do you want to break free from the chains of perfectionism? In this episode, Aaron will help you step into a future filled with the growth and success you’ve been dreaming of. This eye-opening discussion will challenge everything you think you know about success as you discover the dangers of pursuing perfection and the empowerment that comes with progress. Tune in now and unlock your full potential!

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00:00 From panic to perseverance: Aaron’s journey.

05:32 The truth about chasing perfection.

08:38 The hidden danger of holding out for the ‘right’ investor.

10:22 How to make big life changes with just a few steps.

13:25 Stop sabotaging your future with this one simple tip.

17:06 The secret ingredient to unstoppable progress.

21:11 The ultimate wake-up call to move forward.

24:07 How a single step can transform your life forever.

26:21 Escape regret and transform your future!

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Overcoming Shiny Object Syndrome And Finding Fulfillment With Renee Bacon Mar 19, 2024

Do you constantly find yourself jumping from one thing to the next, unable to focus on a single pursuit?

In today’s episode, Aaron live coaches Renee Bacon, unveiling methods for overcoming shiny object syndrome, honing in on goals, finding professional fulfilment, and so much more. Oh and Renee is not just a multi-talented professional; she's also a supermom of four, who knows what it means to juggle the demands of parenting with personal ambition. Tune in for her stories that will touch your heart and strategies that will inspire your mind!

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00:00 Stop bouncing around and find your true calling!

06:36 Prioritizing competing goals in real time.

11:03 Stop making excuses and see all of your options clearly.

15:11 Unpacking “purpose.”

21:42 The good news about the seemingly never ending pressure of time and money.

27:29 Stop limiting yourself to constricted binaries aind a third route.

33:14 Be cautious of the emotional waves of the intensity/burnout cycle.

38:28 When “grinding” backfires.

44:22 Burnout vs. building: Aaron’s hot take.

49:52 How to set goals that you’ll ACTUALLY stick to.

54:30 The trick to finding fulfillment.

56:36 Success is IMPOSSIBLE without these two things.

01:03:53 You don’t need a lot going on. One thing is enough.

01:09:08 Keep moving by focusing on these key pieces.

01:13:02 Give this uncomfortable challenge a try to discover what focus REALLY looks like.

01:17:39 How Aaron finds peace, outside of meditation.

1:18:19 Closing thoughts.

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Meditations with Marty: Embracing New Standards Mar 14, 2024

A lot can come up when raising your standards. In this meditation, Marty guides you through a visualization that will empower you to embrace change, challenge fears, and foster self-growth. So, get in a comfortable place and learn to integrate all aspects of yourself with this powerful session.

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00:00 Marty and Aaron discuss changes that come with new standards.

07:18 Meditation begins.

17:47 You are enough, you are lovable.

21:18 Meditation ends.

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Create Success Through Self-Prioritization with Mycal Anders Mar 12, 2024

Are you ready to LOVE every step of the process? In today’s episode, seasoned coach and self-betterment aficionado Mycal Anders shares his tips on overcoming fear, making challenging decisions, and keeping promises to ourselves. Whether you're teetering on the edge of a big decision or looking for that nudge to prioritize self-improvement, this episode has got you covered.

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00:00 How to win your day by 10am every single day.

05:55 How to ensure success by prioritizing YOU.

11:13 The biggest opportunity for change.

20:16 How to increase awareness to make good choices,

23:53 The truth about progress.

29:09 Are you trapped in your comfort zone?

33:33 Success is not simply an outcome of education or experience.

39:51 No one has all the answers.

45:56 From expulsion to redemption: an unlikely journey.

48:21 A candid talk of struggle and success.

56:40 How to take the first step.

01:02:59 The secret to cultivating REAL courage.

01:09:18 STOP living in SCARCITY and REGRET!

01:15:33 The power of simplicity.

01:16:56 Recognize negativity and CHOOSE to change.

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Meditations with Marty: You Are Worthy Mar 07, 2024

Listen to this meditation in a quiet place, free of distraction, and enjoy this time to create a life and future you desire.

The meditation culminates with a journaling exercise to reflect on the experience and identify other areas of opportunity.

Join Marty as he helps you realize your inner worth and take steps to get out of your own way.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Introduction.

1:35 Meditation begins.

17:30 Conclusion, journaling.

LINKS:

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Visit https://getoutofyourownway.coach/ to learn about our retreats, workshops and so much more.

The Cost of Comparison in Your Business with Leon Wright Mar 05, 2024

The path of personal development ain’t always easy, folks. In this episode, transformed businessman Leon Wright explores the hurdles that comparison, distraction, and a fear of stillness pose to growth. In this episode, Aaron and Leon guide you to overcome the noise of comparison and build a life that truly resonates with your values.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Overcoming comparison.

08:30 Feeling behind or stuck?

16:01 The perfect recipe for shame.

19:55 Putting an end to the blame game.

27:42 The cost of comparing.

33:22 Choose THIS over comparison.

38:23 How Leon turned it all around.

44:22 What are you saying “no” to?

48:08 Escape comparison with this radical technique.

54:38 How to face fears and unhealthy coping mechanisms.

58:09 The challenge of stillness.

01:05:23 Transform your life with this simple practice

01:09:10 Closing thoughts and support.

LINKS:

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How to Shed The Victim Mentality with Amad Osman Feb 29, 2024

Today, we’re welcoming the inspiring Amad Osman to the show. In just one year, Amad went from self-declared insanity to completing two half marathons. Tune in as we hear about his year of triumphs in health, business, and international travel, all highlighting a deep gratitude for life's greatest freedoms. Brace yourselves because this episode is a masterclass in how to shed the victim mentality, set powerful intentions, and take daily steps to self-improvement!

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 2 half marathons after multi-decade running break.

04:26 What are you taking for granted?

07:10 23 years of genetically manipulating snakes.

12:40 The consequences of negative beliefs.

15:12 Prison during the crack epidemic became a life-changing meditation retreat.

18:35 The life-or-death decision faced in the hood.

23:23 From “I can't have anything” to “I can have it all.”

26:59 How prison fostered immense personal growth.

28:05 How to finally move on.

32:16 Leaving toxic relationships.

35:06 The life-changing results of gratitude.

39:18 Are you stuck in a dangerous comfort zone?

43:11 Key factors for business growth.

45:01 Trying to maximize your income?

49:06 How a childhood confession sparks transformation.

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What To Do When You’re Afraid to Fail Feb 27, 2024

With extensive experience in the real estate and hospitality industries, Jason Reagan exemplifies the spirit of modern entrepreneurship. In this episode, Aaron and Jason talk everything from facing fears, to supporting others, to coaching, and much, much more. This episode will not only challenge you to confront your fears but, will also provide a blueprint for growth and fulfillment in both your personal and professional lives. Let’s go!

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Managing multiple businesses and THRIVING.

05:19 Fear of failure and feel fear of success go hand in hand.

07:10 The key to finally overcoming your fears.

11:18 REMEMBER: You have control over your choices.

16:55 Do THIS to face fears when making a decision.

19:20 What to do when you’re afraid to fail.

22:59 This Japanese concept will help you find purpose in life.

26:18 What businesses REALLY need to grow.

28:34 Facing the realities of growth.

32:29 The game-changing approach to confronting your fears.

35:26 Control your adversaries and WIN.

38:42 Eliminate your fears by FACING them.

44:24 What you need for progress and success.

47:20 An unbelievable transformation in just three months.

49:27 Where to find support.

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Power vs. Force Feb 22, 2024

Today Aaron and Marty shed light on the personal transformations that shifted them from exhaustion to empowerment. Tune in to this deep conversation surrounding forceful leadership versus powerful collaboration, and the key moments that prompt us to choose authenticity over hollow success. Will you push with force or align with power?

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00:00 The inspiring story of maintaining resilience through hardship.

05:09 Taking a stand and inspiring action when no one else wants to.

06:45 What happens when you embrace potential persecution.

10:11 Force burns us out.

15:35 What makes go-getters so attractive?

17:53 Overcoming force with abundance and love.

20:49 Revelations from adversity.

26:50 Prioritize YOUR values, not what the world tells you to value.

27:44 How to endure challenges while staying true to your beliefs.

32:32 The limits of force. Yes, you can ask for help.

36:12 The only person who can validate your power.

38:02 Approaching diverse perspectives.

41:27 Supporting and empowering others with positive language.

45:42 The keys to retaining team members.

49:04 The power of small changes.

51:41 How embracing invitation over force leads to empowerment.

53:15 What to do when you feel trapped.

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Stop Letting Fear Get in Your Way with Dr. Anthony Balduzzi Feb 20, 2024

In today’s episode, Aaron engages in a deep, thought-provoking conversation with renowned guest Dr. Anthony Balduzzi. Together, they explore the transformative power of taking a stand, confronting inner fears, and aligning personal beliefs with business leadership. Dr. Balduzzi shares his wisdom on creating a resonant and consistent internal message, the importance of personal alchemy in navigating change, and nurturing leadership-level individuals within organizations. Join us as we delve into the concepts of directional efficiency, the evolution of business dynamics, and the role of authentic human connection in driving productivity. You won't want to miss this enriching dialogue that provides actionable insights and transformational perspectives.

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00:00 The inevitable part of our path that no one wants to talk about.

09:10 How to stop running away from change.

12:10 The power of adversity

18:01 The importance of balancing masculine and feminine energy.

21:44 Don’t be afraid to polarize.

27:04 Why feel restricted?

36:16 Stop letting fear get in your way!

38:23 Distraction: Fear’s best friend.

43:45 Redefining “focus.”

49:52 The keys to team success.

57:28 Why you must prioritize open time, delegation, and creativity.

01:01:14 How to cultivate faith and trust.

01:06:05 Unlock your power with internal alignment.

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Fit Father Project: www.fitfatherproject.com

Fit Mother Project: www.fitmotherproject.com

Meditations with Marty: Worthy of a New Standard Feb 15, 2024

Create lasting change in your life with the support of this powerful meditation led by Marty. Listen to this meditation in a quiet place, free of distraction, and enjoy this time to create a life and future you desire.

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The Power of Emotional Regulation and Finding Your Purpose with Dave Van Der Laan Feb 13, 2024

Aaron chats with Dave Van Der Laan, the Chief Operating Officer of Nourish Housecalls.

Dave shares the importance of understanding and managing your emotions and how he transitioned from his highly successful, high-stress law career to a more fulfilling and purposeful life. Dave talks about the challenges and rewards of this major life change and how you can navigate potential career changes that come your way. -

Chapters:

00:00 Structured morning routine and business planning practice.

05:19 Transitioning to purposeful work.

12:49 Challenges of working with a romantic partner.

17:20 Reflecting on courage and overcoming self-doubt.

22:53 Transitioning from law to entrepreneurship.

30:42 How to find joy in your work.

35:31 Optimizing health AND business goals.

43:07 Invest energy wisely.

47:10 Parenting challenges with atypical child behaviors.

50:21 Complexities of human behavior and feeling secure.

55:46 Committing to shadow work while raising children.

01:01:46 Emotional regulation as a coach.

01:09:06 Using a visual aid to understand emotions.

01:14:37 Reflecting on daily interactions and refining behavior for positive change.

01:19:34 Taking the leap into a new career.

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Create More Abundance in Your Life with This Mindset Shift Feb 07, 2024

Aaron and Marty dive deep into the difference between lack and love and how it impacts your ability to create abundance in your life.

The guys also share the impact of your words in creating abundance, how to invite others into your mission to promote change, and why your entrepreneurial goals should come from a place of love, not lack.

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Chapters:

00:00 While lack leads to toxic feelings, love leads to abundance.

03:40 How to invite others to a bigger mission and promote change.

09:50 Why choose love over external pressure for fulfillment?

12:28 Navigating growth through style and self-confidence.

15:34 Embracing desires without needing to justify anything.

16:52 Entrepreneurial goals should stem from love.

21:47 The atonement theory and its implications.

26:11 The time and work behind discovering oneself.

28:15 How to architect and design a life of abundance.

31:44 The power of cultivating childlike joy.

36:08 Setting goals based on vision of success.

42:45 Reflection and the goal-setting process.

45:16 Passion, pursuit, and personal growth.

47:09 Closing thoughts

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Is Grit is Holding You Back in Your Business? Jan 31, 2024

Grit has always been promoted as a defining trait of successful entrepreneurs but is it holding you back in your business?

Aaron brings it today on Get Out Of Your Own Way by taking the concept of grit head on. He shares the dangers of equating grit to not quitting, why you should embrace tough decisions, and how to overcome victim mentality in your business.

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00:00 Growing up with grit.

06:01 Seeking growth through suffering.

08:09 Redefining grit.

11:38 The victim mentality.

14:17 Sometimes, quitting is necessary for personal growth.

18:52 Making tough choices and, defining freedom.

20:36 Maintaining toughness.

23:12 You’re worthy.

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Master Your Fears with Polar Explorer Akshay Nanavati Jan 24, 2024

In this episode, we have the privilege of welcoming Akshay Nanavati, a remarkable individual who has conquered his own fears and challenges to embark on extraordinary journeys. Akshay shares his personal journey of transformation, from battling fear and addiction to finding courage and purpose. The conversation delves into the concept of embracing fear, the importance of self-awareness, and the pursuit of a worthy struggle. Akshay's upcoming 110-day solo, 1,700-mile crossing of Antarctica is discussed, along with the mindset and preparation involved in such a monumental endeavor. Join us as we explore the transformative power of confronting fear, embracing pain, and finding the courage to get out of your own way.

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00:00 Overcoming fear, PTSD, depression, and addiction to become an adventure athlete pushing his limits.

08:47 Embracing the greater struggle.

13:36 How courage is key to mastering any virtue.

20:14 Fear is okay.

23:42 Overcoming fear and embracing life fully.

28:47 Calculated actions towards personal growth and discomfort.

34:30 Seek transcendence, embrace discomfort, and redefine suffering.

40:28 Struggle with worthiness, enoughness, and lovability.

45:48 Challenging worthiness and love in relationships.

48:24 How strong relationships are built on self-worth and trust.

53:12 Seeking fulfillment through connection, not materialism.

58:16 Gratefulness and positive surroundings.

01:03:45 Changing questions changes answers.

01:08:56 Finding meaning in mortality.

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How To Meditate And Why Jan 17, 2024

In this episode, Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi take us on a journey to understand the true essence of meditation and its significance in our lives. They share personal insights, reflections, and offer a unique meditation session that will help you center yourself and tap into your inner voice. Join us as we explore the transformative impact of meditation and learn how it can empower us to navigate life's challenges with clarity and purpose.

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00:00 Common struggles with meditation and letting go of thoughts.

03:47 How creating space allows for mindful responses.

08:06 How the world shapes our beliefs about ourselves.

11:18 A guided meditation: Find comfort in 10 minutes.

14:12 Directing breath to a tense space to let go and embrace.

17:25 The unstoppable fire inside.

22:19 You are enough, worthy, and lovable.

24:58 Experience your own integration of business and life.

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Overcoming Disappointment and Setbacks: The Power of Adjusting Goals and Moving Forward Jan 10, 2024

In this episode, hosts Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi dive deep into the emotional challenges of setting and missing goals, the crippling effects of negative self-talk, and the resilience needed to adapt and continue pursuing our dreams.

From personal anecdotes to practical advice, they open up about their own experiences and guide listeners toward a path of self-discovery and intentional goal-setting. Join us as we navigate the complexities of self-doubt, fear, and regret, and learn how to move forward with purpose and self-trust.

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Why Embracing Change is the Key to Success with Adam La Barr Jan 03, 2024

Adam La Barr joins the show to discuss the importance of making intentional choices, being disciplined in order to achieve freedom, and why your decisions should be made through the lens of your core values.

Tune into find out how you can use change to help you achieve more in 2024!

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Overcoming Your Fear of Rejection is Your Answer to Success Dec 27, 2023

Welcome to the "Get Out Of Your Own Way" podcast, where we help you conquer the obstacles holding you back and achieve your full potential. In this episode, hosts Aaron Velky and Marty Nocchi delve into the fear of rejection and the fear of success, two common challenges that can hinder personal and professional growth. They discuss the impact of these fears on entrepreneurship, personal development, and the importance of navigating rejection for success. Through their insightful conversation, they provide valuable tips on overcoming these fears and embracing rejection as a catalyst for growth. Join us as we explore the transformative power of confronting fear and stepping into the path of success.

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Escape the 9 to 5 and Reclaim Your Identity with Jamie Gruber Dec 19, 2023

Aaron Velky is joined by the one and only Jamie Gruber.

Jamie Gruber is the leader of Gobundance Emerge, which has produced over 40 millionaires and also the host of the Tribe of Millionaires podcast, one of the top podcasts in the world.

Jamie fearlessly shares his experiences of making life-altering decisions, from quitting a job to starting a business, and the personal growth and transformation that ensued.

In their poignant exchange, Aaron and Jamie offer wisdom and practical advice for navigating life's transitions and embracing personal growth, providing compelling insights and inspiration to help listeners on their own journeys of self-discovery and empowerment.

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Meditations with Marty: Visualizing Your Future Self Dec 19, 2023

Marty Nocchi leads you on a powerful meditation that will help you focus on visualizing and becoming your future self. Listen to this meditation in a quiet place, free of distraction, and enjoy this time to create life and future you desire.

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How to Uncover and Overcome Self-Sabotage: A Deep Dive into Wealth, Health, and Relationships Dec 19, 2023

In this episode, Aaron and Marty share their insights on recognizing and overcoming self-sabotaging behaviors and beliefs, emphasizing the importance of taking responsibility for initiating change.

The guys also touch upon the role of money and how it ties into one's sense of worth, as well as addressing the fear of change and the impulse to self-sabotage when confronted with it.

Stay tuned to learn how to navigate the intricacies of self-sabotage and Get Out of Your Own Way!

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The Power of Saying No: Embracing Boundaries for Personal Growth and Success Dec 19, 2023

Aaron Velky is joined by Get Out Of Your Own Way Integrator, Marty Nocchi, as they delve into the transformative practice of saying no and cutting ties with things that no longer serve a purpose.

Together, they share personal experiences, offer practical advice, and emphasize the impact of letting go to make room for meaningful opportunities. They also discuss why you should say no more often and how to identify an opportunity versus a distraction.

Tune into this week's episode to learn how to set personal boundaries so you can grow and attract success in your business and life.

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The 5 Ways You Get In Your Own Way Dec 19, 2023

In this episode, host Aaron Velky delves into the five ways individuals unknowingly hinder their own progress.

From aligning goals with values to breaking free from societal expectations, Aaron shares valuable insights and personal anecdotes to help listeners navigate their own paths to growth.

Join us as we explore the power of rewriting our own stories and embracing change for a brighter future.

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Welcome to Get Out of Your Own Way Dec 12, 2023

Aaron Velky, a transformational coach, introduces himself and his mission to help listeners solve their biggest problem—themselves.

With a blend of personal development, business insights, coaching, learning, and laughter, Aaron and his team coach leaders, entrepreneurs, teams, and companies to reach their next level of success and impact.

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