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Blocking and unblocking: Breaking the cycle Mar 06, 2022

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So you blocked and unblocked him? Maybe you've done this more than once. Maybe you've even done it over the course of years. Whether you did it unprompted or if he resurfaced and elicited you to do it, today's episode is for the girls who are stuck in this pattern, and we talk about how to break it and come to your senses (with love and compassion!).

No man = No value? Why this isn't true. Feb 13, 2022

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Today's episode addresses the topic of feeling like we don't have value until a man decides to see it in us by dating, or committing to us. This episode fights back against the idea that you can't have excitement, purpose, and fulfillment in your world without a man in it. Why you CAN have all these things, and how waiting for man to fulfill that role can be codependent and toxic to your sense of self and progress.

Block him and never look back Feb 06, 2022

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Debating on if it's time to block that man? Today's episode will push you over that cliff you're staring down. But first, two personal story times by Fleeksie! One based off a man from a previous podcast episode (Limerence and emotional dysregulation ft. the felon) and a second story time that inspired this episode specifically. This is meant to motivate you to stop holding out false hope that THAT man will ever change (spoiler alert - he wont) and to slam that door on his face once and for all.

Defining "dusty": What even is a dusty? Feb 04, 2022

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The word dusty gets thrown around so often, but what does it even mean? It seems like the ultimate insult, but is it an actual archetype? Today's episode defines dusty in the way fleeksie uses it and the ways it can be embodied by a man. We also discuss how these various embodiments of a dusty can affect your life, and what you should watch out for if you are dealing with this type of individual. We also discuss why it is so much more than a man who is just broke or 50/50 minded, and how your life path can be forever altered by one.

Emotionally unavailable men Jan 13, 2022

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Today's episode discusses emotional unavailability in dating! How it can be socially ingrained, and why it's not your job to make a man who's emotionally unavailable, to available.

Confidence: why you should be feral and ruthless Jan 06, 2022

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In todays episode, we discuss why you should operate ruthlessly in favor of yourself and make it everyone else's problem! How this mindset plays into dating, self validation, and sense of self worth. We also discuss being judged, how you will never be able to avoid it, and why trying to mitigate and minimize judgement from outsiders is a band aid on an issue that will never go away.

Confidence: where does yours come from? Dec 27, 2021

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Today's episode addresses the highly sought out question of "Where did you get so much confidence?". We discuss misconceptions of confidence and self esteem, knowing who you are, defining yourself, and addressing the topic of putting yourself online on a social media platform when you have people in your sphere who might judge you for it. We discuss why those people are wrong and stupid, and why you should cut them all off! This episode also shares a small story time of fleeksie's upbringing as a child, and how parents who coddle you from negativity and bullies are not a factor of your present self esteem.

Can men ever do anything with good intentions? Dec 24, 2021

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Has a man ever seemed like they were doing something kind, thoughtful, and in your favor, only for you to find out it was an action that secretly benefited him? Or worse, was being done to facilitate a false sense of trust, closeness, or to make himself seem more likable than he actually is? Today's episode details a list of actions men engage in that have secret hidden intentions that are gross, lame, or outright manipulative. Throughout each point, the questions are asked: why do they do this? How to spot it, and how to avoid it.

Entitled Trifling Dusties Dec 03, 2021

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Ever wondered if the man you're entertaining on a dating app is a dusty minded man who's entitled, before deciding to meet him? Today's episode looks at tell tale signs and nuances that give away when a man is approaching you with a self serving attitude, who could potentially be a thirsty MF who will try your life (online and in person). This episode is inspired by and recounts a story time with an entitled dusty fleeksie met up with, a week before this podcast was recorded, and another entitled dusty she almost met up with. The mutual behaviors they both displayed, the red flags she ignored, and how you can avoid these types of individuals by spotting the signs of their character and nature early on.

Limerence, Emotional Dysregulation, Post Vaccination Desperation & Fleeksie's Love after Lockup Experience Nov 23, 2021

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Today's episode takes a look at what it means to be "love drunk", or rather, the psychological terms for it, being limerent or even emotionally dysregulated. Defining both, how to manage if you deal with these things, and how these aspects of ourselves play into post vaccination desperation. Then, a personal story time of Fleeksie's experience dating a felon in her own post vaccination desperation episode (for comedic relief and a lesson in dating).

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