Fight For Together

Latest Episodes:

74. Running a Marathon w/ a 7 year old May 11, 2023

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Ben and Kami talk about what it was like to train for and run the Flying Pig marathon with a seven year old. They discuss the rules, hate, and controversy and share a touching story from the end. Kami also shares why she decided not to run.

Marathon Boy Trailer

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bwb2MYmXqcw

Marathon Boy Documentary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3Nrfw0jx9k&t=1256s

73. Biggest Fight in our Marriage Mar 17, 2023

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Ben and Kami talk about their biggest marriage conflict that has gone on for more than 20 years. They discuss Ben's depression, what a fight looks like, and Kami's secret notecards.

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Date Filmed March 14, 2023

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FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (21), Eden (20), Seven (18), Memory (16), Filia (12), Rainier (7)

72. When One Partner Doesn't Care Mar 11, 2023

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Ben and Kami discuss Kami's process in finding her voice, the importance of giving someone space when they don't know what they want, and how it changed their sex life.

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Date Filmed March 7, 2023

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FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (21), Eden (20), Seven (18), Memory (16), Filia (12), Rainier (7)

71. We UNinvited our Son-In-Law to Everything Feb 24, 2023

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Good boundaries protect health and long term relationships. Ben and Kami discuss setting boundaries inside their family. Of all the boundaries they've set over the years with communities, friends and other toxic bullshit they feel like this is their masterpiece.

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether

MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com

Date Filmed February 21, 2023

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FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (21), Eden (20), Seven (18), Memory (16), Filia (11), Rainier (7)

70. What Our Children Have Taught Us Feb 05, 2022

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Ben and Kami discuss the most important things they've learned from their children over 20 years of parenting and the secret for how to transform any frustration into growth and opportunity. Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogetherPODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogetherFilmed Feb 1, 2022

69. Harnessing the Power of Inclusion: Disability and the Problem Child Jan 15, 2022

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Ben and, special guest, Tim Vogt talk about what Tim learned running a multimillion dollar non-profit that targeted people with disabilities. They discuss the problem with typical models of disability that separate the inconvenient and how this relates to parenting problem children. Tim also shares his secrets of how to create inclusion with anyone.

Tim Ferris Interviews Richard Schwartz

https://tim.blog/2021/01/14/richard-schwartz-internal-family-systems/ No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz https://www.amazon.com/dp/1683646681/?ref=idea_lv_dp_ov_d Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether Filmed Jan 11, 2021

68. Parenting Unmotivated Teenagers Jan 08, 2022

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Ben and Kami answer questions from the audience about how to deal with unmotivated teens, dealing with parenting regret, and how to make kids in large families feel loved equally. We also share the reactions of our friends when we started our riskiest endeavors.

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PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether

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OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether

Filmed Jan 4, 2021

67. When Your Partner Ignores You Jan 02, 2022

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Ben and Kami discuss a fight they got in and how they learned they need to ask specifically and directly for support each other on their artistic endeavors. They discuss how to deal with feelings when your partner ignores you, the benefits of opening up a closed relational system, and how important support can be for creatives.

Coaching from Ben

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https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether

Filmed Dec 28, 2021

66. The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill and Mark Driscoll | OUR REACTION Dec 26, 2021

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Ben and Kami discuss surviving COVID, Ben communicating in a disrespectful way to Kami, and what their thoughts are on the latest Christianity Today series The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill. Ben proposes three things the podcast does not address and lessons he thinks could be learned from Mars Hill.

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MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether

Filmed Dec 21, 2021

64. Educating Kids: The Secret to Lifelong Learning and more Money Nov 27, 2021

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Ben and Kami talk about how they transitioned from public school to homeschool to unschool and the learning and financial benefits they have seen. They discuss practical ideas for inspiring your children to become life long learners.

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Convergence Station Denver

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Buy the Album and Book [cheapest and most helpful for us] https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether

Date Filmed November 23, 2021