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Do not steal. It's about far more than shoplifting—it's a foundational principle that shapes families, communities, and entire nations. In this episode, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their 10 Commandments series with a deep dive into the eighth commandment, exploring its powerful relevance to everyday life and family culture.
From Paw Patrol pups to the moral roots of private property, Rob and Amy share stories and insights that reveal how this commandment applies far beyond the obvious. Whether it's returning a forgotten grocery item or addressing issues like cheating, plagiarism, and entitlement, the Bible gives practical guidance for building lives of integrity.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- Why "Do not steal" is about more than just theft - How Christian values shape law, justice, and community trust - What theft looks like in everyday parenting moments - How to help kids build integrity in a culture of shortcuts
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Shine by Amy Rienow — A Bible study for women seeking to embrace God's heart for them. Great for small groups or personal devotions: https://visionaryfam.com/shine
Visionary Family Community — Connect with families around the world committed to following Jesus and passing faith to the next generation: https://visionaryfam.com/community
Family Mission Trip: Dominican Republic — Support our family-led mission trip with Filter of Hope, bringing clean water and the gospel to families in need: https://visionaryfam.com/support
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Next week, Rob and Amy continue their discussion of "Do not steal" with practical tips on how to cultivate honesty and integrity at home. Don't miss it!
One of the most important ways we can love our children is to help them prepare for a future marriage. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their 10 Commandments series with a third conversation on the commandment: "You shall not commit adultery." But this time, the focus shifts to how parents and grandparents can proactively prepare kids to honor God in their relationships, avoid sexual pitfalls, and move toward lifelong, Christ-centered marriages. These principles apply even if God calls our child to be single.
Our culture pressures teens to date early, act independently, and hide romantic relationships from their parents. But God calls families to walk together. In this episode, you'll hear practical wisdom on building heart-connected conversations, resisting early dating pressure, and fostering an environment where we can walk with our teens in pursuing God's plan for their lives.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- How to prepare your kids for marriage starting in childhood - Why early dating can harm future relationships - What it means to "not awaken love before its time" - How to build ongoing conversations about sexuality and dating - Biblical encouragement for kids who have made mistakes—and their parents
Featured Resources:
Visionary Family Community — Connect with Christian families around the world committed to following Jesus and raising kids for Christ. Join us: https://visionaryfam.com/community
Let There Be Fish — A perfect devotional gift for graduates who love fishing! Combines Bible truths and fishing stories to share the Gospel. Available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C51V6NQS/
Visionary Family Events — We'd love to meet you in person! Join us this summer in Iowa, Michigan, or Wyoming. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/events
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We turn to the 8th Commandment: "You shall not steal." What does this mean beyond taking someone else's property? Find out next week as we explore how this commandment applies to integrity, generosity, and our hearts.
A faithful Christian marriage doesn't happen by accident. In this special 250th episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow share candid stories and biblical truths about protecting your marriage from temptation, emotional affairs, and pornography. Adultery doesn't start with a moment—it starts with a drift. Learn how to guard your heart, invest in your spouse, and pursue God-honoring intimacy in today's culture.
Marriage isn't just about avoiding disaster. It's about building joy, unity, and strength over time. Discover practical wisdom on social media boundaries, how fantasy shapes emotional detachment, and why investing in your spouse's needs protects both hearts. If your marriage feels stuck or threatened, this episode is for you.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- How emotional affairs begin and how to guard against them - Why pornography doesn't disappear after marriage - The connection between temptation, fantasy, and dissatisfaction - How to talk to your kids about protecting marriage in a digital age - Hope and biblical encouragement for couples struggling with betrayal or disconnection
Featured Resources:
Visionary Family Conference — Join us for a weekend that strengthens your faith and family. Upcoming events in Iowa, Michigan, and Wyoming. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/events
Visionary Family Community — Connect with families around the world committed to passing faith to the next generation. Join us here: https://visionaryfam.com/community
Jesus the Reigning King — A family devotional to help your household grow in faith after Easter. Available on Amazon and in English/Spanish: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1497471818/
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Join us as we continue our conversation on the 7th commandment and how it applies to our kids and families.
Jesus said, "What God has joined together, let no one separate." In this powerful episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deep and honest look at the Seventh Commandment: "Do not commit adultery."
They unpack the biblical foundation for marriage, examine the real-life consequences of adultery on individuals, families, and society, and share how repentance and healing are possible through Christ. Whether you're married, preparing for marriage, or walking alongside someone who has experienced unfaithfulness, this episode will offer biblical clarity and hope.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- Why adultery is more than just a private sin—it's a violation of covenant and community
- How modern culture tries to redefine and diminish the seriousness of adultery
- The difference between emotional and physical unfaithfulness—and how both impact marriage
- How to begin the process of healing if adultery has entered your marriage
- What Scripture says about purity, fidelity, and the sacredness of the marriage bed
Featured Resources:
Visionary Family Camp — Spend an unforgettable week with your family in God's creation. All generations welcome! July 19–25 in Michigan's Upper Peninsula. Register by June 1: https://visionaryfam.com/camp
Visionary Family Community — Connect with families around the world committed to passing faith to the next generation. Join us here: https://visionaryfam.com/community
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Next week, we continue with Part 2 on the Seventh Commandment as we explore Jesus' words about lust and how to protect your marriage from temptation in a sex-saturated culture.
"I hate you." If you've ever heard those words from your child, you know how painful and jarring they can be. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deep dive into the Sixth Commandment—"You shall not murder"—and how Jesus reveals that anger and hatred in the heart are spiritual expressions of that same sin.
They unpack what it means for parents and children to struggle with anger, bitterness, and hatred—and how we can proactively disciple our families toward healing, grace, and reconciliation. This is a timely conversation for any parent dealing with emotional outbursts, strained relationships, or the heartache of children turning away.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- Why anger and hatred are spiritual violations of the Sixth Commandment
- What to do when your child says "I hate you"
- How the words we use—like "idiot" or "hate"—reveal the condition of our hearts
- The cultural danger of justifying hatred in the name of righteousness
- A biblical strategy to help children (and parents) find freedom from anger
Featured Resources:
Free MP3 Seminar — Helping Your Child Find Freedom from Anger: https://visionaryfam.com/freedom
Visionary Family Camp — Join us at Cedar Bay, July 19–25. Register by June 1: https://visionaryfam.com/camp
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Next week, we take on the Seventh Commandment—"Do not commit adultery"—and talk about how to help our children and teens pursue purity in a world filled with temptation.
Do guilt and perfectionism sometimes hold you back as a mom? In this special edition of Family Vision, Amy shares a powerful conversation with D6 podcaster Jeremy Lee. They dive deep into the common spiritual battles moms face, including the pressures of perfectionism and guilt, and how the enemy uses these struggles to attack our hearts and relationships with our children. Through biblical wisdom and personal stories, Amy offers practical advice for breaking free from these burdens and embracing God's grace in our parenting.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- How guilt and perfectionism can sabotage your parenting and relationship with God
- Why moms often feel like they're "bad moms" and how to overcome this lie
- The importance of being real and embracing imperfection in your motherhood journey
- Amy's personal journey with guilt and her advice for other moms
- The power of letting go of control and trusting God's plan for your family
Featured Resources:
Not So Perfect Mom — Amy's new book on navigating the challenges of motherhood with grace and authenticity. Available on D6 Family or Visionary Family Ministries.
Family Worship Guide — Download the free family worship guide: visionaryfam.com/grace
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Next week, we'll continue our series on the 10 Commandments by diving into "Do Not Murder" and Jesus' teaching on anger and hatred. You won't want to miss it!
Your church has a biblical calling and responsibility to equip and strengthen families. Does your church have a family ministry action plan? In this special edition of Family Vision, Rob Rienow shares a powerful conversation from the D6 Podcast. Whether your church is just catching the vision for family discipleship or looking to go deeper, this episode will give you practical tools and theological clarity to build a family-equipping culture.
Rob unpacks why family ministry is not just a parenting program—but a biblical call to equip every believer to live out their faith first in the home. You'll also learn how to start strong, how to avoid burnout, and how to make family discipleship more than just a trend. From pastors struggling with their own families to parents overwhelmed by family worship, this is an encouraging, hope-filled conversation you don't want to miss.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- How to build your church's theology of family ministry
- Why family ministry is about more than parenting programs
- Practical ways to equip parents, grandparents, singles, and empty nesters
- Why repetition is key in equipping parents and church leaders
- How to make family worship simple and effective—even if you're not a Bible expert
- Encouragement for pastors and leaders who feel like they've "failed" at home
Featured Resources:
D6 Conference — Learn more about the leading family ministry conference: https://d6family.com
Visionary Church Book — Cast vision and equip your team with Visionary Church: How Your Church Can Strengthen Families. Available at: https://visionaryfam.com/visionary-church/ or on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1614841187
Family Worship Free Guide — Download our Genesis Family Worship Guide: https://visionaryfam.com/grace
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According to surveys, people say that breaking this commandment is the most serious sin of all. Do Not Murder. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the 10 Commandments with a deep dive into the Sixth Commandment and what it means for families, nations, and our hearts.
At first glance, most of us would say we've never broken this command. But what does Jesus say? And what about abortion, capital punishment, and self-defense? You'll hear biblical teaching and real-life stories as Rob and Amy bring grace and truth to this sobering commandment—and offer compassionate help for anyone who has walked through an abortion experience personally or in their family.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- The difference between "kill" and "murder" in the original Hebrew
- Why the Sixth Commandment allows for self-defense, just war, and capital punishment
- What Jesus says about anger and hatred being murder of the heart
- A biblical view of abortion and why language matters
- Why the battle for your child's heart begins at conception
- How to respond with both grace and truth to abortion in our families and culture
Featured Resources:
Join the Visionary Family Community — Families around the world are saying "yes" to following Jesus and helping future generations do the same. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/community
Family Camp 2025 — Join us July 19–25 in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan for a powerful week of family worship, teaching, and fun. Details here: https://visionaryfam.com/camp
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Next week, we take the Sixth Commandment even deeper. Jesus says that anger and hatred in our hearts are equivalent to murder. What does that mean for how we treat each other in our homes? Don't miss this important follow-up conversation.
What's the promise behind the Fifth Commandment? "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land." In this powerful follow-up episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow explore the biblical promise connected to honoring parents—and why it's about more than just long life for individuals.
You'll learn how this commandment affects not only individual families, but also entire nations and cultures. Plus, the Rienows offer practical wisdom for teaching children the difference between obedience and honor, and why cultivating a heart of honor leads to deeper faith and healthier relationships.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- What the Bible really means by "that your days may be long in the land"
- The corporate blessing tied to generational honor and faith
- How to teach children to honor you without being authoritarian
- The crucial difference between obedience and lifelong honor
- How dishonor in the home leads to breakdown in society
- Encouragement for parents who feel awkward requiring honor
Featured Resources:
Free PDF – Healing Family Relationships Discover biblical wisdom and steps toward reconciliation in your family. https://visionaryfam.com/healing
Cedar Bay Family Camp – July 19–25, 2025 Build lifelong memories and grow closer to God and each other in the beauty of Michigan's Upper Peninsula. https://visionaryfam.com/camp
Visionary Family Community Join a global network of families dedicated to passing faith to the next generation. https://visionaryfam.com/community
Upcoming Live Events Don't miss our Healing Family Relationships Seminar, D6 Conference, and Visionary Family events in IL, FL, GA & IA! https://visionaryfam.com/events
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Next week, we continue the 10 Commandments series by exploring "You shall not murder." What does that mean beyond the physical act? And how do anger and hatred play into the deeper meaning Jesus gives us? Join us for a conversation that hits close to home.
"Honor your father and mother." Easy to say, harder to live. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue the 10 Commandments Series by diving into the Fifth Commandment and why it's one of the most culturally ignored and misunderstood commands today.
You'll hear how modern media undermines this biblical truth, how parents can practically teach honor at home, and why honoring parents is foundational to a child's spiritual and emotional health. Plus, discover how this commandment is directly tied to God's blessing for generations to come.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- Why biblical honor is countercultural in today's world - How TV and media subtly teach children to disrespect authority - Why parents—not teachers or churches—must primarily cultivate honor in children - How Eli's failure to correct his sons led to devastating consequences - Practical ideas to help parents encourage their kids to grow in honor
Featured Resources:
Visionary Family Camp – July 19–25, 2025 Join us in the beautiful Upper Peninsula of Michigan for a life-changing week of family discipleship, fun, and rest. Info & registration: https://visionaryfam.com/camp
Visionary Family Community Join families around the world who are dedicated to passing faith to the next generation. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/community
Upcoming Live Events Be part of a Visionary Family event in West Chicago, Orlando, or Atlanta. Full schedule: https://visionaryfam.com/events
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Next week, we'll continue exploring the Fifth Commandment—honoring your parents—and provide practical ways your family can grow in this essential virtue. Don't miss it!
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