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**Family Twist: A Podcast Exploring DNA Surprises and Family Secrets**

Welcome to Family Twist, the podcast that dives deep into the tangled webs of family secrets and DNA surprises. Each episode, hosts Corey and Kendall Austin Stulce explore the complex and challenging truths that come with discovering you are a non-parent expected (NPE) individual, someone whose familial origins aren’t what they seemed.

Through candid interviews with people from the NPE, adoptee, and donor-conceived communities, Family Twist offers a platform for stories of unexpected parentage, family secrets, and the quest for identity. From the joyful to the heartbreaking, our guests share their journeys of discovery, acceptance, and healing.

Why subscribe? Family Twist isn’t just another family history podcast. It’s a support network, a place for healing, and a beacon for anyone navigating the emotional landscape of familial discoveries. Whether you’re directly impacted by these issues or just fascinated by the profound effects of family secrets, this podcast provides insights and company as you journey through the often-unspoken parts of family life.

Join us as we unravel the hidden threads of the past, bringing them into the light to foster understanding and connection. Hit subscribe to never miss an episode of Family Twist — where family stories are heard, secrets are revealed, and healing begins. And remember, family secrets are the ultimate plot twist!

Latest Episodes:

Discovering I'm 'A Stranger in My Family' Mar 26, 2024

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In this surprise-filled episode of Family Twist, we dive into filmmaker Luke Davies’ compelling journey of self-discovery, ignited by the results of a home DNA test. Raised in Rochdale, England, Luke grew up believing he was white British, only to have a DNA test in his 20s reveal a rich tapestry of ancestral backgrounds, including West African, Portuguese, and more. This unexpected revelation leads Luke on a quest to find his biological father, a journey documented in the BBC documentary, “A Stranger in My Family.”

What You'll Learn:

How Luke's DNA test results shattered his lifelong perceptions of his identity.
The emotional and psychological impact of discovering one's racial and ethnic heritage later in life.
Luke's process of approaching his mother for the truth, leading to the revelation of a holiday romance in Portugal.
The challenges and complexities of searching for a biological parent with limited information.
The role of commercial DNA testing in connecting Luke with distant relatives and ultimately his biological father.
Luke's exploration into filmmaking as a medium to document and navigate his journey.
Insights into Luke's current projects and how his personal journey has influenced his work and passion for telling stories of marginalized voices.

Episode Highlights:

[00:05:22] - Luke's initial reaction to his DNA test results and the moment of revelation with his mother.
[00:12:35] - The intricate dynamics of Luke's family relationships following the discovery.
[00:19:58] - The challenges and breakthroughs in Luke's search for his biological father.
[00:27:44] - Luke's transition from TV work to documentary filmmaking amid personal upheaval.
[00:34:17] - The serendipitous events leading Luke to take the DNA test and start his quest.
[00:42:55] - The impact of Luke's journey on his professional life and the development of new film projects.

Guest bio:

Luke Oliveira-Davies (He/Him) is an interdisciplinary Creative Producer and the Founder of Polari, an award-winning production company that champions the boundlessness of queer and intersectional lives through film, television, and more.

His short films have premiered and collected awards from BAFTA and BIFA-Qualifying festivals around the world, and his latest short ‘Run(a)way’ received funding from the BFI Short Film Fund.

Luke's debut documentary, Stranger in My Family, which he initially developed and produced, won the BBC Three Northern Docs Pitch at Sheffield Doc Fest (2022). It has been longlisted in the ‘Single Documentary’ category at the BAFTA Television Awards (2024), and received a ‘Best Documentary Programme’ nomination at the Broadcast Awards (2024).

The film is out now on BBC iPlayer as a Nine Lives Media production, in association with Polari.

Luke's work extends beyond Polari, including working as a Assistant Producer on Savage Waters, a multi-award-winning documentary by Emmy-winning director Mikey Corker, which released in UK and Ireland cinemas in 2023/24.

Luke is a BAFTA Connect member and is currently taking part in the Momentum program from We Are Parable x Sony Pictures Television & Channel 4, as well as the Thrive Freelance Development Programme from Creative Access x Lee & Thompson. Luke is also alumni of the BFI Creative Producers Lab (2019), and was nominated for an RTS Futures Award (2020) for his 48-hr short film Tomorrow.

Additionally, he was a finalist for Young Person in Business at the North West LGBTQ+ Business Awards (2022), and was longlisted for a Northern Gamechangers Award (2023).

Luke has received funding from BAFTA, Creative UK, Screenskills, and the Film & TV Charity to support his growth as an entrepreneur and filmmaker.

Luke is currently in development on his next short film as a Writer/Director (Anklet), as well as Polari’s first feature film projects.

Luke is a co-founder of the Queer Filmmakers Network CIC and ORIGINS: The Short Film Night.

Resources Mentioned:

“A Stranger in My Family” - BBC documentary featuring Luke Davies.
DNA testing services (23andMe, Ancestry.com) - Tools that played a crucial role in Luke's discovery.

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DNA Surprise Transforms Strangers Into Sisters Mar 19, 2024

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In this gripping episode of "Family Twist," we delve into Sharon Adams' remarkable journey of self-discovery, initiated by a curiosity-driven DNA test as she approached her 70s. This quest uncovers a hidden lineage, introducing her to a father and two half-sisters, Beth Mamo and Kathy Reddy, she never knew she had. Kendall navigates through their compelling narrative of discovery, acceptance, and the profound connections of family that defy mere genetics.

In This Episode, You'll Learn:

Sharon Adams' motivations behind taking a DNA test and the astonishing family connections it revealed.
The emotional labyrinth of connecting with unknown family members.
The critical role of understanding one's medical history and its impact on personal health decisions.
The dynamics of forming relationships with newly discovered relatives amidst a global pandemic.
The immediate bond and welcoming embrace shared among the newfound sisters.
How delving into one’s roots can lead to unexpected, life-altering realizations.

Episode Highlights:

The genesis of Sharon's quest for her medical history and the revelation of her biological family.
The pivotal moment Sharon reads the email that would change her life.
Beth and Kathy's perspective on gaining a sister overnight.
Adjusting to new family dynamics during times of social isolation.
The unforeseen medical insights gained from discovering one’s ancestry.
The sisters' plans for future gatherings to strengthen their familial ties.
Reflective thoughts on the essence of family, identity, and life’s unforeseen twists.

As we wrap up this episode of Family Twist, we've traversed the emotional landscape of discovering family ties previously hidden in the fabric of DNA. Sharon, Beth, and Kathy’s story illuminates the profound impact of exploring our roots, reminding us of the unanticipated connections waiting to be unearthed. It's a narrative that underscores the importance of curiosity, the resilience of newfound relationships, and the enduring nature of familial love that extends beyond genetics.

Thank you for joining us on this journey of discovery and emotional reunion. We hope it inspires you to delve into your own heritage, embrace the mysteries within, and possibly uncover stories of your own that reaffirm the deep-seated bonds of family. Until we meet again, keep weaving your own family twist, cherishing the old ties while being open to the new. This is Family Twist, where every episode is a new chapter in the larger story of who we are. Stay connected, stay curious, and who knows what fascinating tales your own family tree holds.

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The Comedy of Discovering I'm Not Who I Thought Mar 12, 2024

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Dive into an uproariously insightful episode with Lauren, a stand-up comedian whose journey from genealogical confusion to comedic triumph is anything but ordinary. With a warning for our listeners: we don't censor comedians, so expect some raw and real language. Lauren shares her tale of discovering her donor conception through a DNA test, her quest to find her biological father, and how these revelations have fueled her unique brand of humor.

The Comedy of Discovery

Key Moments:

Lauren's childhood feeling like a "Viking" in a family of Italians and her path to questioning her identity.
The life-changing moment Lauren took a DNA test and the cascade of discoveries about her donor conception.
Finding her biological father and connecting with half-siblings, turning complex emotions into comedic material.
Lauren's insights into "genealogical bewilderment" and using comedy as a way to heal and connect with others.
A glimpse into Lauren's stand-up routines and how her unique background shapes her comedy.

Lauren's journey is a powerful reminder of the unexpected ways our origins can shape us and the transformative power of laughter. Her story not only entertains but also offers profound insights into identity, family, and the courage to face life's surprises with a smile. Tune in next time for more compelling stories on Family Twist.

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DNAngels: Guardians of the DNA Galaxy Mar 05, 2024

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In this episode, we're thrilled to conclude the conversation Jennifer Schweibinz from DNAngels, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping individuals unravel genetic surprises. From uncovering unknown biological parents to shedding light on forgotten familial bonds, DNAngels highlights the importance of knowing our roots, no matter how twisted they may be.

In the conversation, we unravel the complexities and emotional journeys of individuals seeking to understand their genetic heritage.

DNAngels: Guardians of the DNA Galaxy

Specifically, we discuss:

The mission and impact of DNAngels, including their success in solving over 5,000 cases.
The unique challenges faced by individuals with genetic surprises and the specialized support provided by DNAngels.
The emotional rollercoaster of discovering family secrets and the importance of having access to one's genetic and health history.
How DNAngels navigates sensitive cases, such as those involving incest, with care and professionalism.
The transformative power of finding answers and the sense of community and support fostered by DNAngels.
The personal stories of discovery shared by Kendall, and Jennifer, highlighting the diverse experiences and outcomes of those seeking their genetic roots.
The importance of grace, forgiveness, and understanding in the process of uncovering and accepting one's genetic heritage.

Join us as we twist open the DNA bottle and spill the tea on family secrets, revealing the profound impact of genetic discoveries on individuals' identities and sense of belonging. Whether you're someone who has experienced a genetic surprise or simply fascinated by the stories of others, this episode offers a deep and compassionate look into the world of genetic genealogy and the quest for truth.

About DNAngels:

DNAngels is a collective of individuals, all of whom have been impacted either personally, or through a loved one. The organization is comprised of skilled genetic genealogy experts – Search Angels – along with other dedicated volunteers who offer support and advocacy for our clients. DNAngels was incepted in February 2019. They solve more than 90% of all cases accepted.

Guest Bio:

Jennifer Schweibinz is a Genetic Genealogist. Jennifer found her love for Genealogy when she stumbled across an old family secret. As she rolled up her sleeves and tapped into her Jersey Girl stubbornness, she relentlessly worked until she found answers. After that, Jennifer found herself volunteering as intake manager for an organization that could teach her a more methodical approach to being a Search Angel. When that organization merged with DNAngels, Jennifer was welcomed to the new team with open arms, and enjoys every moment of it.

In her personal life, Jennifer lives with her husband, Mark. They have four sons together. She grew up in a close-knit, supportive family and loves when the entire crowd gets together for barbecues in the backyard.

Jennifer’s love language is Acts of Service, which she attributes to her appreciation for everyone that reaches out to DNAngels looking for help. Jennifer was a keynote speaker for the 2022 Illinois State Genealogy Society Annual Conference, a presenter at 2023 Untangling Our Roots Summit in Louisville, KY, and an exhibitor at the 2023 National Genealogical Society conference in Richmond, VA.

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Farewell to King Richard Feb 28, 2024

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Corey here. Comedy has always been a passion of mine. I started watching stand-up on HBO when I only caught a handful of the jokes. Richards Lewis would be among the first I watched. I was transfixed. When I got the opportunity to interview him years later, it was a giddy joy. Sadly, the interview never surfaced. It was to preview some shows in San Francisco that Richard had to cancel, because his dear friend and fellow comic, David Brenner, was dying.

What does this have to do with Family Twist, you may ask? Well, conversing with comedians made me the interviewer I am today. And, when I think of my Dad, my first thoughts always go to comedy.

Here is my interview with Richard Lewis. Looking back, he says, "This is one of the most fun interviews I've had..." My eyes are welling. Rest well, King Richard.

From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part One Feb 27, 2024

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In an episode that epitomizes the very essence of Family Twist, we unveil a story so captivating it blurs the lines between disbelief and destiny. Sit tight as they introduce Jennifer Schweibinz from DNAngels, whose DNA test unraveled a family secret so profound it challenged her identity and reshaped her understanding of family.

From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part One

Episode Highlights:

The Revelation: Jennifer's world turns upside down with a DNA test result that rewrites her family history.
Parallel Paths: Kendall shares his own riveting story, creating a powerful echo of Jennifer's experience, highlighting the raw emotions surrounding family secrets and the quest for belonging.
The Emotional Odyssey: From disbelief to determination, Jennifer and Kendall navigate the tumultuous journey of confronting their new realities.
Finding Closure: The episode delves into the complexities of seeking acceptance, the pain of rejection, and the eventual peace in new beginnings.

Closing Thoughts:

The first part of our episodes with Jennifer isn't just about the shock of discovery—it's a testament to human resilience, the search for truth, and the creation of new family bonds from the fragments of the past. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who believes in the power of truth to transform lives.

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From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part Two Feb 27, 2024

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In the second half of our eye-opening episode, Family Twist host Kendall continues the conversation with Jennifer from DNAngels. This segment illuminates the incredible work of DNAngels in reuniting individuals with their biological families and the profound impact of finding community through this podcast. The discussion delves into the essence of healing, grace, and the friendships forged in the fires of shared experiences.

From DNA Trauma to DNAngel Part Two

Episode Highlights:

The Mission of DNAngels: Jennifer explains the organization's goal to become a beacon of hope for those facing genetic surprises, offering their services free of charge for those seeking to find their biological parents.
Success Stories and Specialized Support: With over 5,171 cases solved, DNAngels demonstrates the vast need for such services, highlighting their specialized teams that cater to unique cases, including those involving incest and adoption from various regions.
Finding Community: Both Jennifer and Kendall touch on the importance of finding a community that understands and shares similar experiences, offering solace and support in times of turmoil.
Healing and Moving Forward: The conversation circles back to the themes of healing, giving grace to oneself and others involved in the discovery process, and the strength found in newfound connections.

Closing Thoughts:

This episode not only showcases the remarkable efforts of DNAngels but also reflects on the personal growth and understanding that comes from facing our origins head-on. Through their stories, Kendall, Corey, and Jennifer remind us that while the journey may be fraught with challenges, the destination of self-discovery and community can offer unparalleled peace and reconciliation.

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A Deep Dive into Donor Conception and Connection Feb 20, 2024

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This week, our guest, Jaclyn Frosolone, shares her compelling narrative, shedding light on the profound impacts of discovering one's origins in the world of donor conception. Prepare to be moved, educated, and inspired as we explore themes of identity, family secrets, and the quest for belonging.

Beyond the Donor: A Deep Dive into Conception and Connection

Episode Highlights:

Jaclyn's initial discovery through a DNA test and the emotional rollercoaster that ensued.
The complexities and confrontations within her family following the revelation about her donor conception.
An insider's critique of the fertility industry, underscored by Jaclyn's personal encounters and the shared experiences of her half-siblings.
The formation of an unexpected community among Jaclyn and her half-siblings, despite threats and challenges, showcasing resilience and solidarity.
Jaclyn's reflections on health, genetics, and her advocacy for transparency and change within the donor conception community.
Contemplating the future: Jaclyn's musings on parenthood, hereditary health concerns, and the legacy of her donor's decisions.

We hope this episode has opened your eyes to the multifaceted experiences of those touched by donor conception and sparked conversations on the nuances of modern family dynamics. As we close this chapter, let's carry forward the courage to face our truths, the strength to forge connections, and the grace to embrace the diverse ways families come together. Stay tuned for more episodes that challenge, enlighten, and celebrate the twists and turns of family life.

Topics mentioned in this episode:

‘I slept with my half-sibling’: Woman’s horror story reflects loosely regulated nature of US fertility industry

Laura High

Women discover 200 siblings from same sperm donor

Love Canal

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Navigating Multiracial Identity and Family Dynamics in Adoption Feb 13, 2024

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In this soulful episode of the Family Twist podcast, we are joined by Janeen, a vibrant soul who embarked on an unexpected journey into her past, unraveling secrets that would forever change her understanding of identity, family and belonging. Following the death of her father, Janeen, along with her brother Jermaine, delved into building a family tree. Their quest for connection led to DNA tests, revealing a truth hidden for decades: Janeen was adopted. This discovery catapulted her into a whirlwind of emotions and revelations, including her mixed racial heritage and a vast, unknown family waiting to embrace her.

Navigating Multiracial Identity and Family Dynamics in Adoption

Episode Highlights:

The Spark of Curiosity: Janeen's story begins with the loss of her father and a desire to connect more deeply with her roots, inspiring her and her brother to explore their family history.

A DNA Test's Unexpected Turn: What started as an exciting exploration took a dramatic twist when Janeen's DNA test results uncovered her adoption, a fact unknown to her and her siblings.

Revelations and Emotional Turmoil: Janeen shares the emotional rollercoaster of discovering her adoption, mixed racial heritage, and the existence of biological parents and family members previously unknown.

The Search for Truth: Determined to understand her origins, Janeen reaches out to the adoption agency, leading to a series of revelations about her birth, foster care, and the loving intentions behind her adoption.

Building New Bridges: Janeen narrates her poignant experiences of connecting with her biological family, including her parents and siblings, and the profound impact of these newfound relationships on her identity and worldview.

The Power of Storytelling: Inspired by her journey and as a means to explain adoption to her children, Janeen authors a children's book, "Hello Sweet Baby," exploring themes of adoption, family diversity, and acceptance.

Healing Through Therapy: Janeen emphasizes the importance of therapy in navigating the complex emotions and challenges that arose from her discoveries, advocating for mental health and the power of professional support.

Closing Reflections:

Janeen's journey is a profound reminder of the intricate tapestries that compose our identities and the strength found in embracing our truths. Her story not only highlights the complexities of adoption and the search for belonging but also celebrates the resilience of the human spirit in the face of unexpected revelations. Through her courage to confront the unknown, Janeen has forged new connections, redefined family bonds, and inspired others with her vulnerability and strength.

Guest bio: Janeen Jackson received her B.A. from Norfolk State University and completed her Master’s in Education Leadership and Change in 2020 from Antioch University, Los Angeles. She has over 25 years combined experience in art and design, and equity and justice and education Currently, she works at Oakton College as an Equity Coordinator for Black student success.

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College Student Reveals I Have 75 Brothers and Sisters Feb 06, 2024

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This episode takes us through an extraordinary exploration of family, identity and the unforeseen connections DNA testing can reveal. Our guest, Brenna Siperco, shares her compelling story of curiosity, discovery, and the complex emotions surrounding donor-conceived relationships. This episode not only peels back the layers of Brenna's personal journey but also delves into broader discussions on the implications of genetic testing and the ethics of donor conception.

College Student Reveals I Have 75 Brothers and Sisters

Episode Highlights:

The Catalyst for Discovery: Brenna details her initial decision to undergo a 23andMe DNA test, driven by a lifelong curiosity about her biological origins and the possibility of having siblings she's never met.
A Sibling Network Unveiled: The revelation that Brenna has discovered 75 siblings through DNA testing, surpassing her wildest expectations and leading to a mix of astonishment and excitement.
Emotional Encounters: Brenna recounts the profound experience of meeting her siblings for the first time, highlighting the surreal and immediate connections that challenge traditional notions of family and belonging.
Navigating Anonymity: The discussion shifts to the anonymity of the sperm donor, known only by a number, and Brenna's nuanced views on privacy, respect, and curiosity about her biological father.
Voices from the Donor-Conceived Community: Brenna shares insights into the donor-conceived community's perspectives, advocating for more transparency and regulation while respecting individual choices and circumstances.
Shared Traits and Interests: An exploration of the diverse ages, interests, and talents among Brenna's siblings, revealing surprising similarities and the role genetics and environment play in shaping us.
Support Systems and Future Aspirations: The episode touches on the support Brenna received from her parents, the dynamic within the sibling group chat, and dreams of a grand family reunion.

Through Brenna's story, "Family Twist" listeners are invited to reflect on the meaning of family in the modern era, the power of genetic connections, and the evolving landscape of reproductive technologies.

Closing Reflections:

Brenna Siperco's journey into the heart of her genetic lineage offers a profound look at the unexpected paths our lives can take when curiosity meets science. Her story is a testament to the strength of newfound connections and the resilience of individuals navigating the complex web of donor conception. As we conclude this episode, we're reminded of the endless possibilities that come with opening the door to our past and the future relationships we might find on the other side.