Facts Only Podcast

Episode 70: No Kissing During Sex Aug 26, 2020

Heyyyyyyy Y'all ! We ar eback like we never left. We've missed y'all these last few months. After a brief check in with our individual lives we embark on a discussion about a viral video featuring chocolate, foine-a** artist Xian Bell. In an interview on a YouTube talkshow, Xian is shunned by the hose for kissing during casual sex. Y'all really gotta hear all the content around his aversion. His "y'all really our here kissing women?" quote has us, here at Facts Only, ready to gently unpack what all of that truly means. Whoo chile!.... Tune in for the full episode now.

Episode 69: A Mother's Day KiKi May 10, 2020

Today we discuss a popular tweet warning women to steer clear of having children if they can not accept the idea of them growing up to have their own ideas, principles, values and identities. The conversation gets quite intense as we discuss our own parents’ decisions and how they’ve impacted our lives vs. our plans as future parents. The new mommy of the group, JB, also shares her personal plans for her daughter, Abigail, and how her ideas of motherhood have drastically shifted since she’s had her. This episode ends with a juicy wager between members about who and when the next mother of the group shall be. Care to join the wager?! 😏 Please remember to like review and subscribe to our podcast! Tell us what you think of the episode; your feedback means the world

Episode 68: Living The Dream w/ Amanda Booz May 04, 2020

Our friend Amanda Booz blesses us with a long over due hit chat about her experience as a full time host of her very own lifestyle talk show. She gives insight on what it's like to move across the country for work, politics of being an opinionated black woman in the south and even gives the major tips for social media branding. We also get to hear about how she maintains focused and what has kept her thriving during COVID-19. What started out as another girlfriend check-in turned into yet another episode of a guest snatching us bald with knowledge. Don't forget to like review and subscribe.

Episode 67: Cat's Out The Bag Apr 30, 2020

Today we discuss allegations regarding a popular host of an even more popular party series. We take a look at who we think is responsible for assault in cringey "rapey" situations vs. who the public often blames. If you leave with a man after the club is it now no holds barred? Is it the woman's responsibility to view all men as potential predators? What do y'all think? Catch the tea on what happened as well as how we feel about it. Don't forget to like, comment, review and subscribe.

Episode 66: He's Just Not That Into You W/ Teddy Apr 27, 2020

JB's brother Teddy agreed to grace is with his presence on this week's episode and we couldn't be more grateful. He's a married man of 13 years and we wanted to get his opinion on some ideas concerning marriage and commitment. For example, if a man is in a relationship with one woman and after that relationship ends, is engaged to another woman 6 moths later Teddy says the new sis just had a spark that the former relationship didn't have. The convo gets deeper into discussing topics to visit before marriage and even deciphering love languages. Don't forget to like, review, share and subscribe!

Episode 65: What Kind Of Pandemic Friend Are You? Apr 23, 2020

We’ve been seeing this meme going around debating whether this pandemic exposes how good of a friend you are or if you should get a pass on behavior because this is such a huge crisis. What do you think? Are you keeping tabs on who reaches out to you during this time or are you simply worried about yourself? Listen to us discuss this and go off on our own tangents about what we’ve been up to and how things have changed since Ms. Rona has been in our lives. Don’t forget to like, review, share and subscribe!

Episode 64: A Zodiac Dragging w/ Natali Nicole Apr 20, 2020

We hope your 4/20 is going all the way up! We wish you great “heights” in this quarantine. Please continue to relax and enjoy this week’s episode...We have a guest expert on astrology: Natali Nicole and gurlaaaa it gets crazy! Listen in and cackle while we play a game of “Which zodiac sign is most like to...” ghost, or shoot their shot or even still go to the club when they’re older. Lastly can someone mail us three new wigs because, our edges were collectively snatched bald as Natali read our natal charts (BRIEFLY) and dragged us for filth honey, FILTH! Listen as she gathers us and also hit her up for your own personal gathering, uhh we mean reading. (ig:@natali.nicole and click the link in her bio) Don’t forget to like, review and subscribe

Episode 63: Don't Cha Know That You're Toxic ?!` Apr 15, 2020

One of our listeners asked our opinion of toxic traits so we decided to make a list and: gas lighting, all about me, and a lack of loyalty all made the cut. Whhheeewwww Chile! We also made a point to highlight how we are toxic in our own very lives. Go on and press that play button to see if you've been toxic in your past. #LetsArgue This quarantine had us putting it all out on the table. So please remember to like, review and subscribe

Episode 62: Date Your BFF's Ex w/The Grown Man Podcast Apr 08, 2020

Oooh Chile, we were blessed and honored to record with the educated and opinionated brothers of "The Good Man Podcast" for today's episode. Not only did we get clarity about their beliefs around girl and guy codes, we also delve deep into older topics such as possession, menage trois and what it means to be a "Good Man" with the male perspective. We promise you you do NOT want to miss this seamless and hilarious collaboration. Please like, review and subscribe to our page as well as our guests' on iTunes and SoundCloud

Episode 61: A Man's Job Apr 06, 2020

Hey y'all! Hope your quarantine is going as smoovly as it can. We wanted to bless y'all with another episode since we all in the house on the Palm Sundee. Today we talk about a meme where a man references his female friend's plea to "no longer feel like the n*gga in her relationships". He said that what he once identified as a strength in women is now seeming like more of a burden. Y'all be feeling like y'all doing a man's job in your relationships? Or are all roles transferable regardless of gender? Let us know in the comments and don't forget to like, review and subscribe!

Episode 60: Self Love or Thirst trap? Apr 01, 2020

We're biggety back with another episode based on a video where a woman calls out the rest of the feminine community for disguising our thirst traps for self love. She says there aint no way we post pics simply for ourselves. She says it is perfectly fine to admit we like the fellas to look and comment as well. She tells us to cut it out and keep it a buck! Are all of the pics you post on the gram for your friends? Or do you want attention or acknowledgement from the male community? Hear what we have to say on the topic. Don't forget to.. LIKE! REVIEW! SUBSCRIBE!

Episode 59: Catch Up 2020 Mar 25, 2020

We're back for a 2020 catch-up! We know it's been a while but pull up, listen and see what mischief we've been up to!

Episode 58: Big D*ck Energy, Little D*ck Reality Jun 19, 2019

This week's episode starts out with a story about an extremely unfortunate event- one of us were led to believe they would have a fulfilling night of "thrashing" only to be bamboozled with child's play. Does size matter to you? Can skills in other areas redeem smaller equipment? Tune in to hear our very explicit thoughts about such a surprisingly common and age old dilemma.

Episode 57: Not Today! May 01, 2019

This week we start our discussion off reviewing our Game of Thrones reactions to the "Battle at Winterfell" (S8/EP3 SPOILER ALERT!!!!-skip to 13:29 if you haven't seen it this episode yet). OH MAN! We have so many feelings about how everyone performed this week but our bottom line is that Arya is the GOAT (PERIODT)! We then move on to talk about a woman who was forcibly removed from the premises of a school while trying to enroll her child because she was not dressed the way the principal saw fit. What is appropriate attire to drop your child at school? Do you agree with parental dress codes? Listen to this week's episode to hear our thoughts!

Episode 56: High Maintenance Apr 10, 2019

How do you define "high maintenance"? Do y'all have non negotiables that a person must fulfill before you'll date them (ie:higher salty, luxury car, masters degree, etc.)? We think some of y'all confuse high maintenance with having standards. This episode raised many questions, tune in and see if we answered these questions.

Episode 55: Ghosting Your BFF Mar 27, 2019

Gang Gang! We're back in this thang. We have some catching up to do as 2/3's of the squad has been world traveling and the other third has a baby baking in her oven! After catching up, we dive into this article about a woman ghosting her best friend. Where they do that at?! Is there any circumstance where that would be acceptable? Have you done it? Tune in to hear her case and see if she persuaded us. Also catch the new visuals to our episodes on RedSummerTv on Youtube!

Episode 54: Does No Ever Mean Yes? Feb 27, 2019

This week we grapple with a post we came across giving advice to men to pursue a woman (with abandonment issues) even after she's already said no. Ladies, is there ever a time when we say no to increase the chase or does no ALWAYS mean no? Later on in the episode we touch on a woman finding out her man is bi-sexual six months into dating him. Tune in to hear how the topic spirals into a whole 'nother lane.

Episode 53: The 80:20 Rule Feb 13, 2019

This week we get into the 80/20 rule...but not the one Tyler Perry discussed in "Why did I get married", This 80/20 rule deals with splitting the bills. Should your partner pay 80% of the bills? Or do you think it should be evenly split? We also spoke about whether or not we are faithful during the talking stage. P.S.- When do ya'll give all joints the boot? Let's get into it

Episode 52: The Cancelation Episode Jan 30, 2019

It's been a while but we are BACK! Grab ya headphones and turn up the volume! First up at the top of the cancellation list is Trump....of course, but do we gotta add Auntie Gladys Knight & Big Boi too?! We talk pullin up to the Millennium Tour in our best 2000's fashion, Oh, and did y'all peep the Cardi & City Girls Twerk video?! Were you left feeling empowered.... or scarred?! Tune in and see how we felt about it all.

Episode 51: Thank You, Next Dec 12, 2018

This week we're tackling life changing gestures that people have done for their significant others. Would you donate a kidney to bae if he/she needed it? How would you feel if they no longer wanted to be with you after said gesture? As you can imagine that opened the floodgates for what you've done for the D/P? Have you built someone up for them to leave you for the next person? Are you single single or are you engaged? Join us as we go down the relationship rabbit hole.

Episode 50: Be Careful With Me Nov 28, 2018

When is it your responsibility to learn things you didn't during your adolescence? Are there some things you just have to accept from your partner based off of how they grew up? This week we tow the line between understanding a person's conditioning and holding them accountable for knowledge as an adult.

Episode 49: That Part Nov 14, 2018

This week we discuss the idea that when a woman has an attitude or is in the middle of a mood swing, she not only wants space, but attention as well. Have y'all figured that out yet fellas? It's a very easy concept! What do y'all think? Have any of you found the healthy balance yet?

Episode 48: Don't Touch Her Hair Nov 01, 2018

This week we give our opinion on the Nicki/Cardi feud as well as discussing a post we stumbled across where a grandmother relaxed a child's hair against the wishes of her mother. The father was very nonchalant and didn't seem to grasp the importance. How would y'all handle this?

Episode 47: Twerky Matrimony Oct 10, 2018

We end our hiatus on the tail end of wedding season discussing the fad that is wedding dances. For those who aren't familiar, this is when the bride and/or the bridal party(OR groom and groomsmen) do a choreographed dance for their partner during the reception. What are your thoughts? Are they over done? As a guest how does it make you feel? Find out our thoughts on this week's episode! Please rate review and subscribe.

Episode 46: Run Me My Money Jul 04, 2018

This week we catch up on the new music that has been released like Teyana Taylor's album and The Carters' album. We also get into the nitty gritty of the fact that Lee Daniels admits (after being pressed) that he owes Dame Dash TWO MILLION DOLLARS. Dame lent him money to help fund the movie Precious and he hasn't seen it since. What kind of baldheaded foolishness is this?! Get into this episode honey!

Episode 45: WYPIPO Jun 27, 2018

This week we talk WYPIPO. We discuss the dynamics of being a black in Corporate America and knowing how to code switch when appropriate.

Episode 44: Check Please! Jun 20, 2018

This week we talk about one woman's aversion to paying to celebrate a friend's birthday. She believes if you don't have the coin to pay for your guests at your own event, don't have one! Hmmm. Tough cookie. We also get into whether you should split the bill evenly if you go out with friends or if people should put up their own bread. What do y'all think? Weigh in with your two cents and join the convo! @itzfactsonly

Episode 43: Hey Best Friend Jun 13, 2018

Get into this week’s episode as we discuss Slim Thug’s aversion to a title in a relationship. He said prefers you to be his “best friend first”. Do y’all think a title is important? Should your “best friend” be privy to your goodies? Derrick Jaxn gets him together and we give our own feedback on the matter. Pull up with a cup and join the conversation.

Episode 42: Twitter Fingers May 30, 2018

Today we talk about Roseanne Barr's racist tweet that got her show cancelled. Is it fair that your personal opinion can negatively affect your career? We discuss all the ratchet, non-pc, things that we've said that could very well come back to bite us in the butt. It's such a sticky topic because everyone is entitled to their opinion, right? Join the conversation. Rate, review and subscribe.

Episode 41: Age Ain't Nothin But a Number May 23, 2018

In this week's episode, we grapple with the idea of dating younger men. We see J. Lo, Black Chyna, Amber Rose, and even Gabrielle Union scooping up these Pretty Young Fellas and we're trying to decide if it's best to lower our age standards. What's the youngest age you'd date and why?

Episode 40: This Is America May 16, 2018

This week, we talk about the video that shut down the internet from Donald Glover aka Childish Gambino. This video was jam packed with provocative imagery, much of which was focused on the black experience. This led to Black Twitter challenging his “woke-ness” because of the fact that he has children with an Asian woman and a White woman. Whatchall think? Does an artist’s personal life have to reflect that of their music?

Episode 39: The Catch Up May 02, 2018

Because we missed y'all last week, we had to play catch up! The catch up includes: Beychella , Invasion of Privacy, Chun Li, and Kanye's desire to "Make America Great Again"

Episode 38: Put In Work Apr 18, 2018

This week we start the episode comparing our high school courtship process versus the new age ones. According to one twitter user, the only thing young guys need to do nowadays when trying to "get to know" a girl is invite her over to chill. In OUR day, personal CDs were necessary as well as coding your myspace profile to reflect the desires of your crush- I'm talking her favorite song, her actual name dropping down in letters like the matrix, and even making her number one in your top 8. We had to put in work! This week we ALSO do a light segue into a scenario where a hotel room serves as a date location. HMMM whatchall think? Join us as we spill this tea.

Episode 37: Coons Gone Coon Apr 11, 2018

Newly Baldheaded Tamar heads over to the Steve Harvey show to discuss her past choices to be aesthetically pleasing for her ex. Uncle Steve feels that if you don’t look right as woman, he shouldn’t act right as a man. We head on over to social media personality Derrick Jaxn to get his take. Listen up to see who’s side you fall on.

Episode 36: You Aint Alone Tyrone Apr 04, 2018

Gucci, Gucci, Louis, Louis, Fendi, Fendi Prada, Tyronne took all your Financial Ad and he aint leave ya NADA! This week we talk about Good Brother Tyrone Hankerson and the substantial amount of money he allegedly took from Howard University. We'd like to acknowledge his finesse and look back on some of our past ways. Thank God for Deliverance.

Episode 35: Introducing..The Reverse Curve Mar 28, 2018

Listen while we grapple with a concept that has recently been brought to our attention: What if all the times you curved a dude, HE was actually setting you up to do the curving? Wouldn't that mean HE curved YOU? *INSERT MR. KRABS' DISORIENTED MEME HERE* We decided to name it "The Reverse Curve". Mind, blown, right? We even break down scenarios in which this can occur! Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe. Follow us on our social media @itzfactsonly

Episode 34: Wimenz, Wimenz, Wimenz Mar 21, 2018

Sparked by a post featured on The Shade Room as well as Women's History Month, we talk about the wimenz in our lives (Hey Bro. Andrew Caldwell!). We talk strength, impactful moments as well as give a few shoutouts to our own personal SHEros. Share this episode with a queen who needs good vibes today!

Episode 33: Wakanda Forever Featuring Kevin Wilson Mar 14, 2018

Join us as we discuss one of the blackest, most successful and inspirational movies of (dare we say it?) all time! We talk favorite characters, scenes, memorable feelings AND we have the pleasure of doing so with our very own most humbly decorated Aggie Oscar Nominated Kevin Wilson.

Episode 32: Move B*TCH, Get Out The Way! Mar 07, 2018

This week we discuss bae’s bestie staying in their lane. Are their certain boundaries a best friend shouldn’t cross? What is that EXACT line? Is their ever a time where the bestie pulls rank? Get into this conversation. Listen Now!

Episode 31: Get Ghost Feb 28, 2018

We start this week's episode by discussing a woman who "ghosted" her man of five years after she caught him in bed with another woman. We discuss our own reactions in similar situations as well as if there is ever a time when ghosting shouldn't happen. Join the convo!

Episode 30: Bills, Bills, Bills Feb 21, 2018

Can you pay my bills? Umm... Wait, hold up! We ain't talking to bae this week like Destiny's Child was in the song. THIS question was asked from a mother to her FIVE year old. (Hmm) When we come across a viral tweet discussing a certain mom's decision to financially prepare her baby by charging her for rent and utilities, it gets a little sticky between FactsOnly members. Listen to this episode to hear the whole tweet and to see which side you agree.

Episode 29: Does Size Matter? Feb 14, 2018

I know what y'all are thinking, but chill...this episode has NOTHING to do with body parts or anything below the waist so get your mind out of the gutter and into the game. This Valentine's Day episode is about ENGAGEMENT RING size. We discuss the interesting notion that gold diggers are the only women who should care about rock size. How much should be spent on a ring? Is it really only the thought and commitment that count? Head on over to our IG page @itzfactsonly to take a gander at the ring that sparked this topic.

Episode 28: Hey, My Loves Feb 07, 2018

Hey My Loves Join us as we enter our second season discussing Mo’Nique’s plea to boycott Netflix. We try to find the validity (if any) in her request while also examining all the facts, including her and her husband’s homemade Instagram videos. We’re so glad to be back and can’t wait for y’all to hear what the rest of this season has in store. We love y’all for real!

Episode 27: New Year, Same Facts! Dec 20, 2017

In our final episode of 2017 we discuss holiday traditions, New Years’ resolutions as well as wonderful things FO has in store! Join us for one more rendezvous before our year-end hiatus. Be sure to catch up on previous episodes in the season so you can pull up with a cup in 2018.

Episode 26: Dating in 2017 Dec 13, 2017

We start off this hilarious episode answering a question we received from a subscriber about not only "sliding in the DMs" but more importantly- coming out that thang with a zaddy. The conversation evolves as we discuss the evolution of dating as welln as economic date night options that are still swaggy enough to keep you in the game.

Episode 25: Extra Strength Perm Dec 06, 2017

We reminisce about the olden days with our relaxers and the Dominican blow dryers burning our scalps away. We also explore the reasons we began our individual natural hair journeys. Listen while talk briefly about hair care, products as well as our loved ones' perceptions of our big chops.

Episode 24: Too Old To Turn Up? Nov 29, 2017

Is there an age where you should stop “turning up”? 30s? 40s? Listen to us hold on to our youth. We also discuss alternate options for group fun other than the club. What’s your fav way to turn up?

Episode 23: It's Almost Thanksgiving Time Nov 22, 2017

We are bringing y'all the do's and don'ts of the season. Talk about our family traditions and starting new traditions. What's ya family tradition? Fav dish? Do y'all say you gonna eat at 1pm but really eat at 8pm? After you listen, make sure you mail us some mac & cheese, collards, & wings!!

Episode 22: Supporting Black Business Nov 15, 2017

This week we chop it up about the pressure of supporting black business. Are you obligated to buy from your friends even if you have no use for their products? Do you really have to download their music if you've already listened and didn't like it? Are you a bad friend by not spending money on your friends product? Let's talk about it!

Episode 21: Eat the booty like groceries?! Nov 08, 2017

Gabrielle Union once said that "in the bedroom, reciprocity is key" so ladies, if bae starts "eating your groceries", are you returning the favor? Guys do you guys even like "eating groceries"? Also, we touch on a couple of bonus topics this week-P.D.A. and shacking up.

Episode 20: Shoot Your Shot, Sis! Nov 01, 2017

A wise man once said "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take". So you know what that means? Go for it! We discuss whether or not it's appropriate or desirable to be the first to court a man.

Episode 19: Who Comes First? Oct 25, 2017

This week we discuss a viral insta video. In the video, sis talks about dropping her girls for bae. We're trying to figure out who takes priority in life- bae or your bestie? If you HAD to choose between the two, who's it gonna be and why? Listen to us try to get to the bottom of this conundrum.

Episode 18: Yo! Deadass, deadass?! Oct 18, 2017

Y'all deadass draggin' it, my guy, not knowing what we're saying so FOH, heard ju. We comin' at you with the ah ah ah so pull up!

Episode 17: What's Your Flavor?! Oct 11, 2017

Tall, Dark, Handsome? Redbone with light eyes? Brown skin w/ meat on his bones? Listen while we talk physical preferences as well as who gets extra points in the aesthetics department and why?

Episode 16: It's Homecoming, Y'all!!!! Oct 04, 2017

Listen to us reminisce about our craziest, most memorable G.H.O.E. (G.reatest H.omecoming O.n E.arth) moments post graduation at NCA&T SU as well as some juicy stories we leak about our undergraduate tenures. This is the perfect episode to pre- pre game to before the homecoming festivities this fall!

Episode 15: Should he Manscape? Sep 27, 2017

This week we chop it up about a few topics, such as puberty, periods, and grooming. Listen as we get personal and share some stories and our opinions on these subjects.

Episode 14: Slut Walk=Feminism? featuring Troy Sep 20, 2017

We and our FIRST guest host discuss the Amber Rose Slutwalk, the infamous morning after walk of shame, and if and why body counts matter. Check out the male perspective. This is an episode you don't want to miss!

Episode 13: Platonic Friendship, Really?! Sep 13, 2017

We define and discuss emotional cheating. Is that a real thing? Can't you just have an innocent platonic friendship? Or is bae entitled to ALL your emotions?

Episode 12: Bodak Facts Sep 06, 2017

"These expensive, these is red bottoms, these is bloody facts!" Listen to us talk about Cardi B's relevance in music as well as Mona Scotts' influence with her reality tv platform.

Episode 11: Double Standards Aug 30, 2017

Today we discuss how different groups benefit from certain double standards. Women can't have the same amount of sexual partners as men and keep a good reputation. Men are expected to spend twice as much money at the club than women. Who has the shorter end of the stick?

Episode 10: Is that Booty Natural or..? Aug 23, 2017

In a world of Kim K, Bernice Burgos, Lil Kim, and Tiny we just wanna know where the Aaliyah's are. KB, JB, & Dani chop it up about the difference between Plastic Surgery and Cosmetic Surgery. Are the downstairs basements and DR establishments worth looking like an ant from A Bug's Life? In the words of the great Philosopher T.I. "Is you happy?"

Episode 9: Girl Code Pt 1 Aug 16, 2017

What is your girl crew's girl code? How honest are you with your girls? You keeping it a buck fifty??! Who made these rules anyways? This week on Episode 9 we scratch the surface of #GirlCode

Episode 8: To Share or Not to Share? Aug 09, 2017

That is the question! Should we set limits to what relationship tea we spill with family and friends? When should bae make an appearance on our 'gram? Should we keep certain things between us and bae?

Episode 7: Marriage or nah? Aug 02, 2017

Listen to us discuss the necessity of marriage (or lack thereof). Is there a point anymore?

Episode 6: Hatfish Jul 26, 2017

Ladies & Gents, per the good sister Iyanla Vanzant, we have to live in our truth. When you're meeting someone keep it a buck, beloved! Don't be a hatfish!

Episode 5: BudSex?????? Jul 19, 2017

Listen to us define, discuss and dissect this concept. #LawdHelpUs #Confused #WhatsHappening

Episode 4: The Art of The Curve Jul 12, 2017

The Art of The Curve is a fine art. This week JB, Kalilah & Danni will break it all down for you. Listen as we teach you how to know you're being curved and how to accept the curve and move on.

Episode 3: Side Chickery Jul 01, 2017

To be or not to be... a Side Chick.

Episode 2: Polyamory Jun 30, 2017

Me + Him + Her +Them = HELL NAH

Episode 1: How JB met KB who knew Dani B Jun 26, 2017

Welcome! We finally did it! We've been cooking up this podcast for a minute and here we are! This is a weekly podcast about everything under the sun, such as relationships & dating, goals, sisterhood and the culture. Today's episode is about how we met.

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