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When The "Nice Guy"... Is An App? Jan 25, 2025

Have you ever had a man tell you he's going to die, you go on a roller coaster of emotions as you're told he will be saved, then he won't, on and on until he ultimately fades into the darkness... only to have him return 14 hours later like nothing happened? Well, we haven't either. But we HAVE had that happen with an app. Today we're talking about the rise, fall, and resurrection of Tiktok.

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Pushing Boundaries Like Baldoni Jan 11, 2025

With the lawsuits between Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively being all over the news, it's time to talk about a specific type of "Nice Guy". The Spiritual, Reformed, Enlightened Nice Guy. We're not saying Justin IS that guy, but he has admitted to several behaviors that lean that way. Pushing boundaries isn't okay, even if it's for the sake of "openness" and "spirituality"... like telling your co-star and lead actress that you are communicating WITH HER DEAD DAD!

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Krampus is Coming For the "Nice Guy" Dec 21, 2024

It's the last episode of the year so we're giving you a very special gift... stories about men who give the WORST gifts for Christmas. And when the wives aren't pleased with said "gifts" they aren't upset with themselves, they are furious at their wives. How DARE they be so selfish! By the end of this episode, you'll see why these men deserve a one way ticket into Krampus' sack!

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How "Nice Guys" End Up On The Naughty List Dec 14, 2024

Nothing brings out the "Naughty" side of a "Nice Guy" like the holiday season. On this week's episode we've brought Payton back to talk about all the things that men do around the holiday season that earns them a permanent spot on the naughty list.

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When The "Nice Guy" is Actually A Manipulative Mom-fluencer Dec 07, 2024

Let's be real... mom-fluencers are everywhere. And while Kate and Regan always have issues with the way these moms care more about monetizing their children than protecting their privacy, some moms have taken it even farther. Actively putting their kids in harm's way to grift for gifts and rage bait for views. And if you haven't guessed already, we're talking about the Resilient Jenkens and the 17 Diapers Mom aka Nurse Hannah.

What Happens When A Popular "Girl Dad" Gets Called Out Nov 30, 2024

What happens when an ex-football player turned podcaster "Girl Dad" gets critiqued online? Well, apparently a lot and none of it is good. Just ask Paige Connell aka @Sheisapaigeturner.

Paige dared to use a video from this "girl dad" to critique some common issues we see with moms vs. dads. It's amazing how quickly men who "love women" change their tune when they're met with criticism. And that's not even mentioning the thousands of men who jumped into her comments and dms.

PAIGE'S INFO

Across platforms at @sheisapaigeturner

Paige's Substack

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Dealing With The People Who Back Narcissistic Abusers Nov 23, 2024

Lately, one question has been on a lot of people's minds. How can they support this man when they know the horrible things he has said and done? So we've brought back Eleni to talk about the people who stand by abusers, why they do it, how it makes us feel, and what to do about it.

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https://calendly.com/no-narcsense-healing

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The Men Are Emboldened, Enraged, And All Up In My Comments Section Nov 16, 2024

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Tales from The Crypt-ic "Nice Guys" Of Our Past Nov 02, 2024

On this week's very special HALLOWEEN episode, we're swapping truly haunting tales from our past in the traditional spooky story style! Due to the somewhat silly nature of our storytelling, all of these stories are extremely trauma-lite but are sure to spook you (at least a little).

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How To Spot "Nice Guy" Covert Manipulation and Control Tactics Early Oct 26, 2024

Spotting a manipulative "Nice Guy" in the early days isn't easy, but it's not impossible. We've brought back covert abuse expert Eleni Sagredos to talk about some of the red flags to look out for with a covert "nice guy" narcissist. And yes... we do talk about the "Jonah Hill" manipulation tactic.

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Love Is Blind...ly Bringing You A "Nice Guy" Oct 19, 2024

This week is an extra long episode, but what would you expect when Kate and Regan are breaking down this season of Love is Blind?!? And might we just say... this season may be the worst yet. The damage isn't being done by blatant assholes. It's being done by "nice", "feminist", "god-loving" gentlemen". Grab a drink, grab a snack, and buckle up because we're taking you through this season and all it's jaw dropping twists and turns.

Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men".

When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy.

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Women... Heal Your Trauma So You're Fun To Hang Out With (With Jamila) Oct 12, 2024

This week Regan's joined by the amazing Jamila aka Tiktok's Bright Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men".

When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy.

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Regan and Kate Take On Reddit Oct 04, 2024

We're back baby! On this week's episode, we're appealing Reddit's verdict on whether or not a mom who was disappointed in her 40th birthday is the asshole. We've got the facts, the anecdotal evidence, and all the opinions. In the end, you get to be the judge!

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When A Woman Asks Men On Tiktok A Question And A "Nice Guy" Has "All The Answers" Sep 07, 2024

Recently a woman online did the unthinkable... she asked men on Tiktok "Why are you all seemingly resistant to evolving the definition of manhood you simultaneously hate to live by?"

Of course, many men had many things to say. But one man in particular caught our attention. He presents himself as a "nice guy", a "reasonable guy", and seemingly a "guy who gets it". But when you break down his argument you see... what he really is... is WRONG.

Kate and Regan are dissecting this "nice guy" argument to hopefully help you all be able to defend yourselves against similar men with similar tactics and talking points. Buckle up because it's a doozy and quite honestly a RANT.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Regan is going out of town so this week we did an extra-long episode. Instead of cutting it into two episodes, we left it as is and will be skipping posting next week. Then back to our regular schedule.

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When "Nice Guys" Did You Dirtier Than You Remember (Part 2) Aug 31, 2024

We're back with Part 2 of our discussion about the "nice guys" that did us dirtier than we remembered. And this week we're talking about two stories that we unpacked recently - meaning our conversation is a little more raw than normal.

Oh and ... Fun Fact - Regan has some horrible virus this week so apologies for the scary intro.

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When "Nice Guys" Did You Dirtier Than You Remember (Part 1) Aug 24, 2024

Have you ever had the unfortunate displeasure of realizing that the "Nice Guy" from your past was even worse than you remember? This week Kate and Regan are taking a journey down memory lane to unpack the "nice guy" situations that they now realized they were seeing through rose-colored glasses.

In part one, we talk about the guy who stalked Regan for 2 years in college and the school's administration that excused, ignored, and frankly facilitated his abuse. And yes, we are bringing receipts.

EPISODES MENTIONED:

"Nice Guys", Mean Girls, Stalkers, OH MY! (Date: March 25, 2023)

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Class is In Session... Narcissism 101 (Part 2) Aug 17, 2024

We're back with Eleni to finish off our conversation on narcissism. Picking up right where we left off, we're talking about the discard, hoovering, reverse hoovering, and our final thoughts on the narcissism cycle and red flags.

Oh and lucky for you... the audio is better!

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Class is in Session... Narcissism 101 (Part 1) Aug 10, 2024

We talk a lot about Narcissism on this podcast, but this week we're taking it back to basics. So I've brought back my favorite "Nice Guy" Narcissist expert Eleni Sagredos. We're breaking down the basics, sharing stories, and giving you some red flags to look out for.

And shocker... we had a lot to say so this will be a two part episode.

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When "Nice Guys" Cheat... For the Lord? Aug 03, 2024

For this week's episode, we're sharing a super interesting conversation from my other podcast - the Mr. Pick Me and Manhater Podcast that you all are going to love... or hate? Hate to love?

It's the story of a man who cheats on his pregnant wife - told by the woman he betrayed. But this isn't a tragic tale. No, no, no. According to them, this is an inspirational tale of a woman who stood by her man for the Lord. This is about HER strength (not HIS transgressions). And believe me, transgressions is PLURAL.

And not only does this couple think they are the picture of true love, they think they are qualified to be both relationship and faith coaches for other couples. Listen to the episode and let me know if you think they're qualified.

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Ballerina Farms & The Truth Behind Trad Wives Jul 27, 2024

When it comes to Trad Wives, we can all agree that they're looking to take us back to olden times. Little did they know, the Times would be the one to deliver the biggest blow to the facade they attempt to project. And by Times, we mean the New York Times.

On today's episode we are talking about Ballerina Farms and more specifically Hannah Neeleman. And while it may be hard to find sympathy for someone pushing this lifestyle, in this episode we break down how this life may not be all that it seems... and not at all what Hannah had in mind. I wonder whose idea it was....

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Beware of the "Nice Guy" Tiktok Therapist Jul 20, 2024

Buckle up friends, this one is the dooziest of doozies. Our guest today is Lisa aka Tiktok's _Stronger_than_before. She's a relationship coach who specializes in abusive relationships... and the perfect co-host to talk about an extremely popular "nice guy" Tiktok therapist that has some truly terrible takes.

Oh you want an example? How about him making MULTIPLE videos about how people pleasers can be just as toxic as narcissists. And that's not even the half of it...

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When He Tortures You With... Jar lids? Jul 13, 2024

Did anyone have tightening jar lids on their manipulation bingo card? Us either. But this week we're talking about a man who tightened jar lids right into a divorce. At first this story seems silly, but as we dig deeper into the details we realized it was never about the lids and always about control.

And we wan't to hear from you! What do you think of this Jar Lid Debacle? And what's the simple thing your toxic ex did to drive you "crazy"?

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The Insane Kane Story Jul 06, 2024

Buckle up friends because this is one of the craziest stories yet. We're talking about the absolutely insane story of Brooke Schofield, Clinton Kane, and one of the most unhinged PR strategies of all time - using a woman you traumatized for Tiktok clout to market your new song. And that's not even the craziest part...

This episode has everything... mentions of handsome squidward, 14 part Tiktok tell alls, one fake accents, multiple fake deaths, and so much for.

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The Real Damage From The Imaginary Friend Zone Jun 29, 2024

Kate is back and ready to talk about a topic that gets both hosts thoroughly heated.... THE IMAGINARY FRIEND ZONE.

If you're on the internet then you've undoubtedly heard men complain at some point about being "friend zoned" because apparently the worst thing in the world is to be... a woman's friend. But what doesn't get talked about enough is the real pain women suffer when they realized the "friend" they thought they had was just a man manipulating them to get in their pants.

So... we're going to talk about it.

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Ashley Madison & The Family Vlogger "Nice Guy" Jun 26, 2024

Chesko (The Speech Prof) is back and we're talking about the Ashley Madison (the cheater's only dating website) documentary but more specifically - the Viral "Christian Family Vlogger" with an Ashley Madison account. Because if "Nice Guy"s love anything, it's being absolute hypocrites.

Buckle up my friends because this episode is an absolute DOOZY where just when you think it can't get any worse, it does.

If you want to listen to the full episode and see our lovely faces at the same time, watch this episode on the The F the Nice Guy Youtube page!

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When People Choose To Protect Predators Jun 22, 2024

Buckle up friends because today we are spilling some very personal, piping hot tea. Recently we had to speak out against a predator in our community and let's just say.... it didn't go as planned.

We were askedan organization to share our experiences with a predator, they did the right thing and chose not to use him, but their other choices.... you'll have to hear to believe.

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CHERI'S BOOK

Baby Bear In The Chair

Crazy Shit Men On The Internet Have Said To Me Jun 15, 2024

When you're a woman making content on the internet, one thing is certain. Men are going to say some CRAZY shit to you. And we're not talking your average mean troll comments, we're talking absolutely unhinged.

On this week's episode, we're breaking down some of our craziest comments and as always my friends... BUCKLE UP! This episode has. everything toxic men talking about diapers, toxic men talking about trees, and above all else, toxic men doing what they do best... being absolute hypocrites.

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Circle Up For Our Family's Favorite "Nice Guy" Story Jun 08, 2024

You all are in for a special treat this week. We're brought Payton back on to tell one of our family's favorite "nice guy" stories. It is truly a classic and something that could only ever happen to Payton - the queen of the 90's rom-com shenanigans. This episode has everything... brocollini, bunk beds, break up marathons, and so much more!

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The Dangers of The "Nice Guy" Bro-caster With Therese May 25, 2024

In a world where so many horrible men have podcasts, it's refreshing to hear a self proclaimed "neutral" podcaster who kindly and calmly discusses "important" issues. But often these "nice guys" are just wolves in sheep's clothing pushing the same misogynistic BS in prettier packaging.

This week we've brought on one of my favorite creators Therese Lee to breakdown one such man. Buckle up my friends, this one's a doozy.

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Kate's Family: Nada Alaraj & Her 3 Little Girls

The Bumble Fumble May 18, 2024

When a "feminist" brand made for women by women puts up billboards with taglines like "Thou Shalt Not Give Up On Dating and Become A Nun"... you know you've got a problem.

But this advertising choice is not as off brand for Bumble as you may think. Follow us down the rabbit hole.. or rather take this hike down the hive as we breakdown the Bumble fumble.

Go Fund Me's of The Families

Regan's Family: Yousra Saving Her Sick Dad

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The Breakdown Of The Drake Clown (& Other Famous Creeps) May 11, 2024

Kendrick Lamar and Drake are in the midst of an epic rap beef with Kendrick bringing up one particularly damning and disturbing topic... Drake's inappropriate behavior with underage girls. But for those of us who've been paying attention, this is not new information. He's been creepy. He's just had no push back. And he's not the only one.

On this week's episode, Kate is back and we're breaking down some of Hollywood's worst creeps who somehow have gotten away with it, what they did, and why we think they've been getting away with it. Believe me when I say, buckle up.

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We Need To Talk About Grooming (Part 2) May 04, 2024

We're back to finish our conversation on grooming... so buckle up because this conversation is a rough ride. As we jump back in, we're diving into why people stay, why they go back, and all of the other "questionable" things people in "groomed" relationships do that actually make perfect sense once you understand the dynamics. This is not an easy listen, but it may be our most important episode yet.

TW: Mentions of grooming and hints at abuse (no specific details)

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We Need to Talk About Grooming (Part 1) May 04, 2024

This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us.

TW: Grooming and mentions (without details) of abuse

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Why We Stayed With Our Terrible Exs (With Kate) Apr 20, 2024

So a few weeks ago we talked about the terrible things our ex's did and we STILL stayed. Then someone asked us a question. WHY? Why would we stay with men who were doing unquestionably awful things. Victim blaming aside, the answer to that is complicated... but we're breaking it down. Hopefully some of you can relate.

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"Nice Guy" Redditors, Pranking Brothers, Coddling Mothers, OH MY! Apr 13, 2024

This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle up because this one is a DOOZY!

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Things Our Exs Did And We STILL Stayed (With Kate) Apr 06, 2024

There's a trend going around on Tiktok of people saying the worst things their exs did and they STILL stayed. Well, this trend is right up our alley. Kate's back and we sharing our 100% true and 100% embarrassing stories that include being abandoned at a golf course, being told asthma is all in our head, peeing on clean laundry, texting other girls that you love them, and so much more!

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Everything Wrong With Alpha Dom (It's Worse Than You Think) Mar 30, 2024

If you're on the Feminist side of Tiktok, a certain "alpha" "dom" "dating coach" may have been dominating your feeds lately. And yes, all of those quotes are necessary. But if you think you know how bad he is, you've only seen the tip of the douche-berg... because we've found his "podcast pilot". So buckle up as Regan and Abby Rosmarin do a deep dive to prove that this seemingly misguided guy is much more harmful than he appears...

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When I Say "Nice Guy", You Say "Covert Narcissist" Mar 23, 2024

When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"!

Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People. We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder.

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When the Other Woman...Is Your MOM Mar 16, 2024

Buckle all the way up friends because this "nice guy" horror story is almost to messed up to believe... if we didn't have all the receipts. My guest Catherine's life was turned into a Jerry Springer-esque nightmare when her "nice guy" husband was caught cheating. But not with just anyone... WITH HER OWN MOTHER.

We're breaking down what led up to this, all the bizarre and horrifying details, and how Catherine has chosen the highroad of healing.

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When A Groom Says I Do... Not Care About Our Wedding (Part 2) Mar 09, 2024

Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater have returned to bring you Part 2 of these HORRIBLE wedding vows. And if you thought the last guy was bad... buckle up.

We're breaking down terrible vows, talking about the ACTUAL BS double standards when it comes to holding bad men accountable, going on a couple tangents, and giving you a very exciting update about our new podcast Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater!

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When A Groom Says I Do... Not Care About Our Wedding (Part 1) Mar 02, 2024

The Dynamic Duo is back - Chesko and Regan... or as an internet troll named us... Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater!

On today's episode we're taking on our worst villains yet... grooms who go out of their way to humiliate their brides on their wedding day.

We'll be talking about violent cake smashers and breaking down some viral videos of absolutely disgusting wedding vows. We're really trying to get to the heart (or lack their of) of why these men feel the need to destroy, demean, and degrade on supposedly the "happiest day" of their lives.

And make sure to listen to the outro because we have a SPECIAL announcement!

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Lessons in Decentering Men From A Recovering "Cool Girl" With Melanie Hamlett (Part 2) Feb 24, 2024

If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 of this episode.

But, Melanie Hamlett is back and we're talking more about decentering men, the "healed Hollywood man" who refuses to be accountable, why platonic love is so necessary, and so much more!

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When A Straight Guy Goes to A Lesbian Bar... Feb 18, 2024

Today's title sounds like the start of a bad joke... but this experience was anything but funny for our guest Katie aka @im.that.lesbian.

This story blew up when a straight women complained about a bad experience she had when bringing a straight man to a lesbian bar. She tells us an unprovoked and seemingly angry lesbian asked "what are you doing here" to her "nice guy" friend. The video ends with her asking for feedback and boy...did queertok deliver.

That's when Katie (that "angry" lesbian) entered the chat to tell us what REALLY happened. Not only was the man acting out of line and entitled, but the whole experience was just one of many bad experiences queer women face when straight men come to lesbian bars.

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Lessons in Decentering Men From A Recovering "Cool Girl" With Melanie Hamlett (Part 1) Feb 10, 2024

You all asked for it.... and it's finally here.

This week's episode we are joined by Mel Hamlett. As a self-proclaimed recovering "cool girl" Mel has some unbelievable stories about what the "cool girl" goes through, what made her say f*** that, and how she began the journey of decentering men. Believe me when I say... buckle up.

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When A "Nice Guy" Tiktoker Weaponizes WOMEN Feb 03, 2024

When a "Nice Guy" 'feminist" Tiktoker is told his take on a topic needs some adjustment... what is he to do? Be accountable like he demands of other men? Of course not! He does the one thing he can to strike back without looking "mean", he weaponizes the women who love him.

Abby Rosmarin is back to share a recent run in with a "nice guy" "feminist" Tiktoker and what happens when a "Nice Guy" wants to strike back so women become his weapon. We're breaking down what happened, why we think it happened, and how to spot this very predictable "Nice Guy" Tiktoker pattern.

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Send the "Nice Guys" To The Sewer With The Rat Girls (Part 2) Jan 27, 2024

We're back with Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls Podcast to bring you perhaps the most terrifying tale of all... A "Nice Guy" origin story. We're swapping stories about the "Nice Guys" of Improv, Comedy, and yes... we do mention Matt Rife. DUH!

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Send the "Nice Guys" To The Sewer With The Rat Girls (Part 1) Jan 20, 2024

We're tired of being civilized.... it's time to get feral and release our inner rat. And we've found just the ladies to help us out. This week we're joined by Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls podcast and we're swapping stories about some seriously... sneaky.... snakey "Nice Guys". Sss...ee what I did there?

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When the ”Nice Guy” is Feeling Artsy w/ Seema Jan 13, 2024

It's time to tackle a "Nice Guy" topic that's long overdue - the "Nice Guy" in the arts. And you know that means we had to bring on Tiktok's very own Seema! We're pulling no punches this week as we do a deep dive on these "sensitive souls".

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New Year, New Theme Song, Same Nice Guy BS Jan 06, 2024

Happy New Year and welcome back to the new season of the F the Nice Guy Podcast! We've got a new theme song and a shocking couple of stories for you.

The lovely ladies behind our new song are sharing they're Nice Guy tales of men in the music industry. When I tell you jaws were on the floor multiple times while recording.... I mean it.

So buckle up and set the rage dial to max because this episode is uncensored and unhinged.

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TERA LYNNE FISTER

All socials: @Iamfister

Website: iamfister.com/links

Spotify: Tera's Spotify

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Insta/FB: Saraspicermusic

Youtube: Sara Spicer

Spotify: Sara's Spotify

Ho Ho Ho....ld Up... Santa and Love Actually Said WHAT? Dec 23, 2023

It's time for the F the Nice Guy Holiday Episode! Because this Christmas, Santa brought Kate an unexpected gift... the word of God and the urge to call the police.

But we're just getting started, because after we chat about a certain Naughty St. Nick, we're diving into Love Actually. We've found out information that makes this movie WORSE ACTUALLY and proves this movie is nothing more than the "Nice Guy" Fantasy gift wrapped as a Holiday Rom Com.

(This episode will be the last episode of the year so stay tuned for our next episode - January 6th)

When Podcasts About Dating Women Come From Men Who Love Hating Women W/ The Speech Prof (Part 2) Dec 16, 2023

We're back and we've saved the best... or maybe worst... for last. Regan and the Speech Prof have clips from some of the worst men to have microphones -- Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, and of course... Matt Rife. You literally will not believe your ears.

This episode is BLEEP free... so buckle up.

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When Podcasts About Dating Women Come From Men Who Love Hating Women W/ The Speech Prof (Part 1) Dec 09, 2023

If you're looking for a toxic man to tell on himself... get him in a room for a couple hours with other toxic men, a few microphones, and give them the topic of dating advice. And since we're talking about podcasting men... who better to bring back then The Speech Prof himself. And yes... this is a multi parter... DUH!

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When A ”Loveable” Tiktok Comic is RIFE with Misogyny (Part 2) Dec 02, 2023

Part 2 is here with a vengeance becaue we're not done with Matty yet. And we think we've cracked the code as to why this man came so hard for women. We're also taking red flags to look out for from men in your every day life. And surprisingly -- we end on a little hope?

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When A ”Loveable” Tiktok Comic is RIFE with Misogyny (Part 1) Nov 21, 2023

Come on... you know we had to do it. We're bringing you this episode early because we NEED to talk about Matt Rife's fall from grace. And we're giving you the deets so you don't have to waste any time watching the man who made his special... mediocre. And since this man loves to punch down on women, victims of DV, people with disabilities, the elderly, etc.... we're not pulling any punches either. Hope those chiclet veneers are insured.

TW: We talk about Matt's quotes that include: jokes about DV, talking about the well endowed high school boy with Down syndrome, degrading conversations about women's genitalia, etc.

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Talking About the Traits Toxic ”Nice Guys” Love with Abby Rosmarin Nov 18, 2023

If you've dealt with a "nice guy", you've probably found yourself asking the question... why me? Well, on this week's episode we've brought back Abby Rosmarin give you some answers.

While we are NEVER here for "victim blaming", we have noticed that "nice guys" are attracted to certain traits. So we're breaking down what traits they love, how they manipulate these should be wonderful traits, and what we've learned through our experience.

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Abby Rosmarin's Links

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When The ”Nice Guy” Fantasy Filmmaker Ruins A Woman’s Reality (Part 2) Nov 11, 2023

We're back to end the Whedon "Nice Guy" Fantasy Filmmaker Saga. Make sure to check out Part 1 because we're starting right where we left off. And if you thought last episode was bad... buckle up. This episode has everything - Whedon Vs. WONDER WOMAN, punishing actresses via their characters, zero accountability, ALL THE AUDACITY, and so much more!

TW: Fictional S/A scenes are mentioned (respectfully), abuse of power, men forcing women to be "method" in abuse on camera, racism

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When The ”Nice Guy” Fantasy Filmmaker Ruins A Woman’s Reality (Part 1) Nov 04, 2023

We're keeping this episode in the family - but this time we've got Payton! And she is bringing ALL the receipts about the Fantasy Filmmakers who force us to watch their violent, sexual fantasies under the guise of content. We're touching on Tarentino, the Gonads behind Game of Thrones, and landing on the King Baby "Nice Guy" Joss Whedon. This episode has it all - Directors forcing multiple women to be "method" when being choked, LITERAL waterboarding, cis het white men being the voice of women, ex-wife takedowns, and so much more!

TW: Fictional S/A scenes are mentioned (respectfully), abuse of power, men forcing women to be "method" in abuse on camera

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When Halloween Has You Summoning Tiktok’s Infamous Villian Life Coach Oct 28, 2023

Buckle up my friends, it's about to get spooky, scary, and downright antagonist. On this week's Halloween episode, we've brought on Kitti from Tiktok. She's uncovered a tactic that is as repulsive to the "Nice Guy" as garlic is to a vampire. And that is - TO DISTURB THE LIVING HELL OUT OF THEM! Haunt their dreams. Make them wish they never asked for your number. And she's here to teach you some of her tricks! NO TREATS FOR THE "NICE GUY"

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KITTI'S SOCIALS

Tiktok: caffinatedkitti

When The ”Nice Guy” Has You Twinning (Part 2) Oct 21, 2023

Megan's back to finish her episode and if you think it can't get weirder, you're wrong. This episode as it all - the ole drunk dial from a dude from highschool, husbands hitting on you with horse sounds, snakes getting called out, lesbians cosplaying as heteros, calling out snakes, and so much more!

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MEGAN'S SOCIALS

Tiktok: _odriewdlocenots_

Instagram: _stonecoldweirdo_

When Roasting the ”Nice Guy” Has You Twinning (Part 1) Oct 14, 2023

For these weeks episode, we're bringing on one of my Tiktok favorites - Megan Rose. Little did I know, Megan and I share more than just 85% of our names. We've have a lot of shared experiences. This episode has it all - partners being nothing but problems in the delivery room, horrific ex husbands, retaliation reputations in high school, "pick me" teachers, James Bond marathons that are scarier than any horror movie, and so much more!

TW: Mentions of S/A (Nonconsensual sexual contact)

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MEGAN'S SOCIALS

Tiktok: _odriewdlocenots_

Instagram: _stonecoldweirdo_

The ”Woo Woo” That ”Nice Guys” Do (Part 2) Oct 07, 2023

Make sure to check out last week's episode because we're starting right where we left off... with Kate's story. Buckle up because this is a cautionary tale about what spiritual men can get away with under the guise of "helping you heal".

TW: Sexual Contact Without Constent/Groping

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The ”Woo Woo” That ”Nice Guy”s Do (Part 1) Sep 30, 2023

Inspired by a ton of viral stories about "spiritual" men, Kate and Regan are bringing out some true tales from their personal vaults. This episode has it all - repeated requests for Regan to go into the woods, men talking to trees, video voice note evidence, criss cross applesauce confessions, and so much more!

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When A ”Nice Guy” Comes For Booktok Sep 23, 2023

This week we're bring you an extra long episode about what happens when a "Nice Guy" comes to Booktok. And of course, if we're talking Booktok, there's not better lady to bring on then Amber aka Sensible_amber from Tiktok. This episode has it all - incel authors, elaborate fake book reviews, performative wokeness, joker references, and so much more...

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Amber's Links

Website: Amberwardell.com

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When Time’s Up On A ”Nice Guy” Tiktoker (Part 2) Sep 16, 2023

Abby Rosmarin is back to finish her "Nice Guy" Tiktoker story, and you better buckle up. Just when you think it can't get ANY worse, it does. This man isn't just a "nice guy", he is truly a monster... a monster with a huge following. And Abby's story is a perfect reminder to be skeptical, be cautious, and be-ware of the "Nice Guy" Tiktoker.

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Abby Rosmarin's Links

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When Time’s Up On A ”Nice Guy” TikToker (Part 1) Sep 09, 2023

If we've said it once, we'll say it a million times... Don't trust "Nice Guy" Tiktokers. You know, the men who build a platform as defenders of women but use said platform for fame, validation, and to slip into vulnerable women's DMs.

Well this week, we have Abby Rosmarin telling their cautionary tale of dating a very popular "nice guy" tiktoker. Listen to her story to know how these men function, the red flags to look for, the subtle ways they lie and manipulate, and the power we have when we band together against these men to say enough is enough.

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When The ”Nice Guy” Plays Guitar AT You (Part 2) Sep 02, 2023

We're back with Allison to finish up this "Nice Guy" tale. And it's about to get ROUGH. This episode has everything ... trying to boost your EP stats at a funeral, boyfriends wanting a treat for doing far below the bare minimum, weaponizing therapy talk, and the true shocker -- a surprising amount of optimism.

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ALLISON LINKS!

Insta: Donutroyalty

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When The ”Nice Guy” Plays Guitar AT You (Part 1) Aug 26, 2023

This week we have Allison who has an epic "Nice Guy" story - and yes it does include an acoustic guitar. It also includes a whole lot of tangents to buckle up! This episode has everything forced serenades, American Eagle make outs, Mommy Issues, weaponizing fights in the form of song lyrics, and so much more!

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ALLISON LINKS!

Insta: Donutroyalty

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When The ”Nice Guy” On Below Deck Gives Us A Reality Check Aug 19, 2023

This week we've brought back Kate to talk about a truly disturbing incident that happened on Below Deck Down Under. It's been all over social media, but we've decided to do a dive deep. We're talking not only about the details of what happened but also the aftermath and the red flags that were missed/blatantly ignored.

TW: This episode contains boundary pushing, unsafe situations, kissing without consent, and details about an undressed man getting into bed with a sleeping woman.

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When ”Nice Guys” Have Women Going Rogue (Part 2) Aug 12, 2023

We're back to finish our conversation with Kristín from Tiktok (@Thriving_Imperfectly). We're giving our final thoughts and some wise words to keep women away from "Nice Guys" or empower them to leave. This episode has it all - the dark center of the "Nice guy" Tootsie Pop, "sharking", grown man tantrums, long distance relationships with reality, and so much more!

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When ”Nice Guys” Have Women Going Rogue (Part 1) Aug 05, 2023

On today's episode... we're going rogue! We've got Kristín from Tiktok (@Thriving_Imperfectly) and she's telling us her "Nice Guy" story... of course she has a different name from them. It rhymes with... sasstole. This episode has all the "Nice Guy" classics, grown men acting like toddlers, the dreaded age gap, men cosplaying as Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hide my bad behaviors from everyone but my partner, and so much more!

And remember if you have a "Nice Guy" story, send it to Ftheniceguy@gmail.com

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When A”Nice Guy” Nightmare Leaves You Voice Notes w/ The Speech Prof (Part 2) Jul 29, 2023

We're back with The Speech Prof to bring this "Nice Guy" Voice Note Nightmare saga to an end. And if you thought the last half was bad, buckle up and prepare your puke bucket. This episode has too much -- dad jokes to hint at being well-endowed, weaponized therapy talk, the definitely imaginary Plumfette swan couple, sexualizing with saltines, and unfortunately so much more.

And make sure to check out The Speech Prof's podcast - Bad Advice Wednesdays!

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When A ”Nice Guy” Nightmare Leaves You Voice Notes w/ The Speech Prof (Part 1) Jul 22, 2023

What's worse than a "nice guy" (that is a stranger) sending you unsolicited facebook messages trying to date you? Answer: The 10 Minutes of voice notes that follow. And buckle up friends, it only gets worse.

The Speech Prof is back to comment on this absolute Nice Guy Nightmare. This story has everything - a delusion man believing he invented being a musician, multiple Gilmore Girl references, inventing old butt-grabbing women to brag about being in shape, misogyny sandwiches, and so much more!

You can find the Speech Prof's socials with a quick google search and make sure to check out his new podcast - Bad Advice Wednesdays!

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It’s Time for A Toxic Dating Coach Take Down Jul 15, 2023

On this truly spooky episode, Kate and Regan are in the woods, ACTUALLY in person, and in for a nightmarish experience - listening to Toxic Dating Coaches. Because if you want to know what women want, you don't turn to women. You turn to random men on the internet who dish out misinformation with a heavy dose of misogyny. This episode has it all - self proclaimed alphas, aggressive tickling, insane marker board break downs, and so much more!

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