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Enjoying the Holidays Without Stress - 240 Nov 20, 2024

Are the holidays feeling more like a to-do list than a time of joy?

This week on Equipped To Be, we're tackling how to reclaim the Christmas Season. Join me as we explore simple, practical ways to focus on what truly matters- without stress or financial strain.

You'll learn how to shift your mindset to enjoy connection over perfection. You'll also learn tips for setting a realistic holiday budget that works and creative, meaningful gift ideas that won't break the bank. Let's make this holiday season one you actually enjoy. One filled with the Lord, laughter, and lasting memories, not pressure and debt.

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Finding Hope Beyond Politics - 239 Nov 13, 2024

Finding Hope Beyond Politics - After an election, emotions run high, with some feeling hopeful and others fearful or uncertain about the future. In this episode, I talk about where to find a steady course of hope that goes deeper than any political win or loss. Whether you're celebrating or processing disappointment, this conversation is for you. Together, we'll learn ways to bridge divides, find unity in our shared values, and embrace a steady purpose regardless of political tides. Join me for an uplifting and heartfelt discussion about looking beyond politics to find peace, purpose, and hope in every season.

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3 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm - 238 Nov 06, 2024

Hey Friend, I know life feels overwhelming sometimes, like everything has been spinning out of control, and you're doing all you can do to keep it together. Maybe it's the constant news cycle, the pressures of motherhood, or just the weight of everything piling up on you. You're not alone in this. Today, I'm sharing 3 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm amidst the chaos - because I know how much you want to be a steady presence in your family. I want you to find peace, one small thought at a time, even when life feels too much. Join me as we learn how to overcome the overwhelm we all face.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/3-steps-to-overcome-overwhelm/

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How Stress Affects Children - 237 Oct 16, 2024

Did you know parental stress can negatively affect your child? Today, I'm discussing the powerful connection between stress and how it impacts our children. When life gets chaotic-- whether from work, personal struggles, or outside circumstances- our kids often feed off our emotional energy, sometimes without us even realizing it.

Listen to this episode as I share how our stress affects our children's emotional well-being, what behaviors to watch for, and, most importantly, how we can guide them through tough times. We want our children to learn how to regulate their emotions, communicate calmly, and create a sense of security when the world feels unpredictable.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-stress-affects-children/

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Finding the Silver Lining

Rethinking Parental Expectations

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Finding the Silver Lining - 236 Oct 09, 2024

Ever feel like life keeps throwing one storm after another your way? You're not alone. Life has a way of testing us, doesn't it? Some storms shake you to your knees and make you feel crushed under the weight of it all.

As a mom who's weathered my share of trials, from the chaos of raising five children to challenging personal storms -- literal and metaphorical -- I know how hard it can be to see the good around you when everything around you feels dark. But here's the thing: after years of navigating tough trials, God has taught me that even in the worst of times, there is always something good to be found if we look for it.

In this episode, I will help you learn how to capture your thoughts, discover your hidden strength, and come out stronger than before.

There is great beauty to be discovered when you walk through storms. Lessons learned, faith strengthened, resilience developed. Don't miss this one. I believe it can change your life.

Read the full show notes with links here: Finding the Silver Lining

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Holding Onto Hope - 235 Oct 02, 2024

Feeling overwhelmed? Tune in for a dose of hope for these trying times.

Let's be honest - life feels heavier than ever right now. With everything from global chaos to personal stress piling up. But there is good news: You don't have to navigate this alone.

This week, I'm focusing on Holding Onto Hope When the World Feels Out of Control.

We'll talk about finding peace in the midst of storm, ways to stay grounded, and why - even if like the hardest thing to do - hope is always worth holding onto.

Tune in to Equipped To Be- because no matter how tough things get, God is walking with you and leading you to the other side.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/holding-onto-hope/

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https://conniealbers.com/kindle-your-spark/

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Kindle Your Spark with Rachel Marie Martin - 234 Sep 25, 2024

Feeling like you've lost the fire that once fueled your life? Join Rachel Marie Martin and me for a life-changing conversation to help you Kindle Your Spark. We will tackle why so many moms lose their spark and, more importantly, how to get it back. If you've ever felt like you are just going through the motions or wondering, "If this is all there is?" this episode is for you.

In this episode, Rachel shares the personal and heart-moving story of how she got to the place of realizing she was numb to her feelings. She is candid, funny, and unexpectedly deep.

Whether you or someone you know has lost their spark, there is hope. We discuss rediscovering yourself, breaking free from self-imposed limits, fighting for your unique story, and embracing vulnerability. It's time to rekindle that spark within your soul so you can live the life God is calling you to live.

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Feeling Inadequate - 233 Sep 18, 2024

Parenting can be overwhelming, especially when we start to feel inadequate or judged by others. Today, I'm sharing truths and practical ways you can overcome those feelings of inadequacy many of us struggle with.

If you feel like you're not enough or that you are doing something wrong when your child acts up or acts out, that doesn't mean you are failing as a parent - it means you're on a journey like every parent. I'll help you reframe these struggles and help you learn to embrace the challenges of raising children. I'll provide real tools and encouragement to help you navigate parenting with confidence.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/feeling-inadequate/

Navigate Motherhood without Comparing

The Ministry of Motherhood

How to Parent a Passive Child

Parenting Beyond the Rules

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Teaching Kids to Form Coherent Arguments - 232 Sep 11, 2024

Want to raise confident, clear-thinking kids who can communicate their ideas with skill and ease? It all starts with teaching our children how to build a strong argument. In this episode, discover practical, easy-to-follow steps to help your children turn opinions into persuasive points and set them up for a lifetime of thoughtful, respectful communication.

We can teach our children to form coherent arguments; this episode will help you do that.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/teaching-kids-to-form-coherent-arguments//

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Rethinking Parental Expectations - 231 Sep 04, 2024

Are you a parent who struggling to balance your hopes for your child with how God made them to be? You are not alone. In this heartfelt episode, I share the art of rethinking our parental expectations and why it's so important to see for who they are, not what we think they should be.

I'll discuss the difference between guiding vs. controlling, how to set expectations that align with your child's unique strengths and interests, and the incredible transformation that happens when we are willing to adjust our expectations.

Listen today and discover the power that comes from seeing your child in a whole new light.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/rethinking-parental-expectations/

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https://conniealbers.com/helping-homesick-college-kids/

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https://conniealbers.com/children-need-structure-and-boundaries/

Resources: Parenting Beyond the Rules: Raising Teens with Confidence and Joy

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When Teens Stop Liking Parents - 230 Aug 28, 2024

Watching your teen pull away can be one of the most heartbreaking experiences as a parent. You might find yourself wondering where the sweet child who once adored you has gone or feel the sting of rejection as they seem to distance more each day. It's tough! And there's no sugarcoating it. But take heart: you're not alone in this journey, and it doesn't mean you're losing them forever.

When your teen acts like they don't like you and pulls away from the relationship, there are things you should do and things to avoid doing to protect your future relationship.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/when-teens-stop-liking-parents/

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Helping Homesick College Kids - 229 Aug 21, 2024

Helping Homesick College Kids find their way without coming home is the focus of today's podcast.

Did you know that 70% of college kids experience homesickness and often beg their parents to come home? That shouldn't surprise us. Our children traded what was familiar for the unknown. This big adjustment causes many kids to become completely overwhelmed.

It takes them time to find their way, but there is so much we can do to help them adjust to their new environment without quitting.

Tune in to this episode if you or someone you know has a college student. You can help them navigate this season with confidence and joy.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/helping-homesick-college-kids/

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Political Conversations With Kids - Part 2 - 228 Aug 14, 2024

In today's increasingly connected world, it's nearly impossible to shield our children from political discourse. As parents, our role is to equip our children with the tools they need to navigate political conversations with our kids in the safety of our home. When we teach our children how to have these conversations with friends and family in a respectful manner, their confidence and critical thinking skills grow.

I'm Connie Albers, a veteran homeschool mom who is married to Tom. Together, we have five grown children (three married) and many grandkids. I am committed to strengthening families through live TV, radio, podcasting, writing, and speaking. My book and audio, Parenting Beyond the Rules, Raising Teens with Confidence and Joy, helps parents navigate a critical season of parenting with a focus on building relationships.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/political-conversations-with-kids-part-2//

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Political Conversations with Kids - Part 1 Aug 07, 2024

In our fast-paced world, kids are constantly seeing and hearing political news. As parents, it's so important for us to help them understand what's going on around them. By talking about politics in our homes, we're not merely teaching about their rights and responsibilities as citizens; we're also helping them think critically about matters that will impact their future. Helping our children learn how to think critically will help them learn how to make wise decisions as adults.

Don't miss this opportunity to talk to your children so they learn how to navigate political topics.

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https://conniealbers.com/healthy-back-to-school-habits-part-2/

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/political-conversations-with-kids-part-1/

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Healthy Back to School Habits Part 2 with Loisann Fowler - 226 Jul 31, 2024

Today we are continuing with part 2 of Healthy Back-To-School Habits. My guest, Loisann Fowler, and I unpack three of the five non-negotiables for living well.

We will focus on movement, stress, and relational downtime. You don't want to miss part 2 of Healthy Back-to-School Habits.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/healthy-back-to-school-habits-part-2/.

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Healthy Back to School Habits Part 1 with Loisann Fowler - 225 Jul 24, 2024

This week, my guest, Loisann Fowler, and I share five healthy habits parents can implement to prepare their children for a new school year. Part 1 of this two-part series can dramatically impact your child's mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Don't miss this episode of Equipped To Be. Your children will be glad you listened.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/healthy-back-to-school-habits-part-i/

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Showing Children Respect - 224 Jul 17, 2024

Why do children need to be respected by their parents?

This week, I'm sharing why our children need our respect and understanding and why it's critical for their emotional well-being.

In this episode of Equipped To Be, you'll learn practical ways to show your child respect and what causes them not to feel disrespected. I'll share practical tips to make your children feel heard and valued, from active listening to valuing their opinions to modeling respectful behavior.

We want to create a home where respect and love abound. Showing children respect fills a core need that causes them to feel valued, safe, and confident.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/taking-a-break/

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Children Need Structure and Boundaries - 223 Jul 10, 2024

Without structure and boundaries, children get confused and anxious. Providing structure and boundaries creates a comforting sense of order and predictability. Plus, it helps children feel secure and protected as they learn to navigate the world around them.

Join me to learn the benefits of structure and boundaries and how you can help raise safe and secure children.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/children-need-structure-and-boundaries//

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Teaching Children To Trust - 222 Jul 03, 2024

Imagine a world where children can navigate the world with confidence, knowing they can trust the people closest to them. In this episode of Equipped To Be, I unpack the core need of every child: trust! A child's ability to trust their parents and caregivers shapes their emotional well-being and social development, and why it is so vital for their overall growth.

Trust is essential for children to feel safe, secure, and valued in their relationships with their parents, peers, and, eventually, the broader world. Teaching our children to trust us allows them to build healthy, positive relationships, which is critical for their future.

You don't want to miss this episode.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/teaching-children-to-trust/

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Teach Belonging To Your Children - 221 Jun 26, 2024

In today's culture, teaching children they belong within the family unit is desperately needed. Feeling needed is a core need we all experience, but it's especially important to cultivate this core need within our family.

This week, I focus on understanding and meeting one of our children's fundamental core need.

Home is where our kids learn belonging, worth, and value.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/each-belonging-to-your-children/

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The Impact of AI on Students - 220 Jun 19, 2024

Is the future classroom for students' education going to include Artificial Intelligence? How will this cutting-edge technology intersect with everyday learning? In our latest episode, I'm discussing the pros and cons of AI as it relates to our kids.

Is AI a powerful ally in personalized education, or is it a silent saboteur that undermines critical thinking and creativity?

Join me as I unpack the pros and cons of AI in education, featuring insights from educators, tech experts, and students themselves. Discover how AI is reshaping the way we learn, the potential pitfalls we must navigate, and the future of education in an AI-driven world. Tune in and get ready to consider the role of AI in your child's education.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-impact-of-ai-on-students/

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Raising Boys (Re-Air) - 219 Jun 12, 2024

Do you wonder how to raise boys to become strong, godly men?

Men who will one day lead a family, a company, a community, or maybe even a country. We want our sons to be risk-takers, adventurers, innovators, and creators, but it's hard when we live in a culture that does more to confuse boys than help them.

Summer is the perfect time to re-air one of ETB's most-listened podcasts. Mark Hancock, CEO of Trail Life USA, and I talk about what you can do to raise boys to become responsible men filled with integrity, honesty, and determination.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-boys-re-air/

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Raising Creative Children | Part 2 - 218 Jun 05, 2024

I'm excited to share with you Raising Creative Children Part 2. Part 1 aired last week, and parents and educators loved it.

The world needs help creative children who are innovators, risk-takers, and adventurous who create beautiful art, music, dance, and movies that reflect God's creation. Creative children need parents and educators to consider their need for time and space when putting together a daily schedule.

Join me for this episode of Raising Creative Children Part 2

You can read my notes from the show here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-creative-children-part-2/

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Raising Creative Children | Part 1 - 217 May 29, 2024

All children are creative. The struggle for parents is knowing how to nurture their children's creativity throughout childhood so they can flourish. Whether your child is a musician, a dancer, a photographer, a singer, a videographer, or an artist, you can help them hone their craft and bring beauty to the world by using their God-given talents.

Tune in this week and come back next week for part 2 of Raising Creative Children.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-creative-children-part-1/

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The Ministry of Motherhood - 216 May 22, 2024

When you think of the word motherhood, what comes to mind?

Have you ever paused to consider the profound impact you have on your children's lives? In a world that often underestimates the significance of motherhood, it's crucial to remember that motherhood is a ministry. It's a high calling, a divine appointment, an opportunity to shape the hearts and minds of the next generation.

Motherhood is a ministry, an intricate blend of love, sacrifice, and unwavering commitment. It's a role that God has uniquely designed for you, with your specific children in mind. In every smile, every tear, and every step they take, they are counting on you to be there, guiding them with your wisdom and nurturing their souls.

That's the focus of today's episode. Next time you feel overwhelmed, overlooked, or underappreciated, remember this: motherhood is indeed a ministry, and you are doing a remarkable job.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-ministry-of-motherhood/

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Previous episodes:

https://conniealbers.com/overcoming-obstacles/

https://conniealbers.com/communtiy-of-friends/

https://conniealbers.com/navigate-motherhood-without-comparison/

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Navigate Motherhood Without Comparison - 215 May 15, 2024

Have you ever felt like you're falling short as a mom, constantly comparing yourself to the picture-perfect lives of other moms? What if I told you there's a way to break free from this exhausting cycle and find joy in your unique journey? In today's episode, I'll be sharing five principles to help you navigate motherhood without comparisons that can transform the way you see yourself and your role as a mom. You don't want to miss this episode.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/navigate-motherhood-without-comparison/

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Reduce Kids School Year Stress - 214 May 08, 2024

Do your children get stressed out when faced with final exams, group projects, graduation requirements, and other end-of-year assignments are due? The truth is, most kids do. That's common. But we can help our kids reduce their school year stress so they can enjoy this season of life and not be filled with anxiety.

In this episode, you can apply to reduce your child's school-year stress by learning how to manage the extra load.

Last week, I focused on preparing for the time When Children Move Out. Though we are never fully prepared for that day, there are ways you can take a bittersweet moment and turn a bittersweet moment into a joyful experience for all.

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https://conniealbers.com/when-children-move-out/

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When Children Move Out - 213 May 01, 2024

It's hard to picture your active toddler moving out. But it happens faster than you can imagine. Letting go of our children as they venture into adulthood is a bittersweet journey that all parents must face. This transition involves understanding how children naturally seek independence, which is a necessary part of their development. As parents, our role changes too. We move from being needed to day-to-day tasks to prayer warriors, advisors, and supporters.

It isn't a process of stepping back- it's about reshaping our relationships to respect their new-found status while continuing to offer unconditional love and trusted friends.

How do you prepare to let your children go well? Today, I'm focusing on the heart of transformation, exploring the emotional and rewarding journey of letting go from a mom who has walked this path many times. I'll share real-life stories, expert insights, and practical advice to help you navigate the complex feelings of pride, loss, and love that come with watching your children grow into independent adults.

Whether you are facing an empty nest, grappling with new career choices your child makes, or adjusting to their new life relationships, this episode can help you embrace this new chapter with confidence and joy.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/when-Children-Move-Out/

Episodes you might have missed:

https://conniealbers.com/overcoming-obstacles/

https://conniealbers.com/community-of-friends/

https://conniealbers.com/let-kids-play-outside/

https://conniealbers.com/navigating-rejection-part-I/

https://conniealbers.com/overcoming-rejection/

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Overcoming Obstacles - 212 Apr 24, 2024

We all encounter obstacles in life, but the keys to overcoming them are developing the skills and using the right tools to turn these challenges into stepping stones. There is no reason to spin your wheels or fret over what to do but to change your approach and stop doing what isn't working.

Today's podcast focuses on how you can overcome the obstacles in your life by assessing why your stuck, identifying triggers and patterns, readjusting your thoughts, and developing new skills. Whether you're feeling stuck in your work or personal life or your child is, there's a way to get beyond the obstacle and begin moving forward.

Though obstacles are common, how we navigate them makes all the difference.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/overcoming-obstacles/

Episodes you might have missed:

Stop Mom Shaming

Let Kids Play Outside with Ginny Urich

Raising Boys with Mark Hancock

The Power of a Child with Raymond Arroyo

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Overcoming Rejection | Part II - 211 Apr 17, 2024

Overcoming rejection is possible when we focus on our emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual actions. No one wants to be rejected, but overcoming rejection is a part of life that we must learn to do well so our relationships stay strong.

This is part II of learning to manage being rejected.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/overcoming-rejection/

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Navigating Rejection | Part I - 210 Apr 10, 2024

Do you fear being rejected by your child? Does the thought of breaking the bond of closeness cause you to parent differently? Navigating rejection is part of the rollercoaster world of parenting, where the highs are dizzying, and lows can knock the socks off you. You're not alone, and there are ways you can handle any rejection while maintaining your relationship.

To any parent or grandparent walking through the shadow of rejection, know this isn't the end of your relationship.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/navigating-rejection-part-i/

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Popular episodes others have loved:

https://conniealbers.com/community-of-friends/

https://conniealbers.com/embracing-storms-not-chasing-them/

https://conniealbers.com/stop-mom-shaming/

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Trouble With Teens - 209 Apr 03, 2024

Are you lying awake wondering why trouble seems to find your tween or teen? Do you find yourself worrying about how to keep your teen out of trouble or on track? If you're nodding along, feeling the weight of these questions, you're not alone. In this episode of "Trouble with Teens" I'm sharing truths to help parents trying to navigate the season of adolences.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/trouble-with-teens/

Addtional episodes you might have missed:

https://conniealbers.com/your-child-is-a-masterpiece/

https://conniealbers.com/stay-engaged/

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Community of Friends - 208 Mar 27, 2024

Have you found your community? In the whirlwind journey of parenthood, amidst the sleepless nights and endless laundry, there exists and invaluable gift that makes family life easier: community.

Building a community of families who share similar visions and values can foster growth and confidence for parents and children. A community of friends has dual purposes: to provide a network of support for parents and to create a nurturing environment for our children.

Friends, we are not designed to live isolated lives. We need families to connect with. Today's episode focuses on how to build a community and what to expect from friendships.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/community-of-friends/

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Stop Mom Shaming - 207 Mar 20, 2024

Tired of being judged for every parenting decision you make? Join me for an encouraging episode on "Stop Mom-Shaming," where I share the truth about how harmful it is to shame moms and provide ways to stop it. From breast feeding battles to work-life balance struggles, I'm breaking down the barriers that perpetuate guilt and inadequacy among mothers. Tune in for insights, heartfelt stories, and honest conversations that celebrate your journey of motherhood.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/stop-mom-shaming/

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5 Skills Parents Must Teach Children - 206 Mar 13, 2024

Parents want to raise resilient and compassionate children who can navigate everyday life and succeed in adulthood. Join me as I share 5 Skills Parents Must Teach Children! From cultivating self-control to fostering collaboration and celebrating achievements, you'll gain insights that can help you teach your children.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/5-skills-parents-must-teach-children/

More shows:

https://conniealbers.com/raising-boys/

https://conniealbers.com/full-healing-after-martial-infidelity/

https://conniealbers.com/question-based-education/

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Full Healing After Marital Infidelity - 205 Mar 06, 2024

Is it possible for a marriage to fully heal after years of infidelity and betrayal? Yes! My guests, Phil and Priscilla Fretwell, will join me to share their story of how God rebuilt their shattered marriage after twenty-eight years of betrayal and infidelity. You will enjoy this transparent conversation and discover what you can do to strengthen your marriage.

Read the full show notes with links here: Full Healing After Marital Infidelity ETB #205

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Embracing Storms Not Chasing Them with Tracy Smoak - 204 Feb 28, 2024

Welcome to "Embracing the Storms Not Chasing Them," where my guest, Tracy Smoak, and I discuss how life's challenges can become stepping stones rather than stumbling blocks. We explore the idea of storms and how these difficult moments can be used as a catalyst for growth and change when we rely on the Lord and not ourselves. You will be encouraged to see storms a little differently.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/embracing-storms-not-chasing-them/

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Raising Boys with Mark Hancock - 203 Feb 14, 2024

Raising boys to become godly men is a question I'm frequently asked. As a mother of three boy, I know parenting boys requires some different skills and knowledge. Today Mark Hancock of Trail Life USA joins me for in important conversations about what boys need and how we can help them.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/taking-a-break/

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Finding Joy in Learning Biblical Truths - 202 Feb 07, 2024

Ever felt a little intimidated cracking open the Bible? You read page after page, but you don't understand it. You're not alone. The delightful Annie Weber joins me to discuss how you can find astounding truths hidden in the pages of scripture that can bring you joy and give your life purpose. Join us for episode #202 Finding Joy in Learning Biblical Truths.

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The Value of Community

The Urgent Need to Retreat

Embracing Your Fierce Calling with Doris Swift

Feasting on Truth with Erin Warren

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The Value of Community - 201 Jan 31, 2024

What's the value of community? Communities stitch together threads of warmth, creating a cozy haven where ever moms find a place to belong and an opportunity to share experiences. Are you like most people who long for friends or someone to share life experiences with? You aren't alone.

We are created for community, but how do we find our people? That's what Connie is focusing on in this episode of #EquippedToBe.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-value-of-community/

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200 Episodes and Counting - 200 Jan 24, 2024

A time of apreciation and gratefulness as we reach a milestone here at Equipped To Be.

We are thrilled to share this momentous occasion --the celebration 200 episodes of "Equipped To Be"! What an incredible journey. Today we look back at shows you love, the guests who've joined me, and the listeners we serve.

Thank you for joining us and being part of this amazing community.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/200-episodes-and-counting/

Thank you for being part of the Equipped To Be community.

~Connie

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Question Based Education with Jonathan Brush - 199 Jan 17, 2024

Ready to revolutionized your children's education? It's time for a shift from the old-school knowledge-packed approach to a cutting-edge, question-based education.

Gone are the days when more information equalled greater success. Enter the era of AI, where kids need to be adept at not justing finding information quickly but also mastering the art of asking questions that truly unlock knowledge.

Jonathan Brush joins me on the podcast to discuss the new educational paradigm.

~Connie

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Kids and Relationships - 198 Jan 10, 2024

What do you do when your child willinging visits online sites or watches videos that are not appropriate? How can you guide your child through this season and learn God's design for a healthy relationship without shaming your child?

Barb Winters joins me for a conversation on what to do when kids get exposed to images and videos that aren't good for little eyes.

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Let Your Kids Play Outside- 197 Jan 03, 2024

Do you want your children to have a happy childhood? Let them play outside! We must add more playtime to a child's day so they can learn how to be problem solvers and experience the wonder of simple playtime.

Ginny Yurich, founder and creator of 1000 Hours Outside, and I discuss what kids need and the benefits of letting them go outside to play.

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Tips for Parents to Protect Your Child with John DiGirolamo - 196 Dec 20, 2023

In a techno-driven world, parents can use all the information and guidance they can get to keep their children safe. Today, Connie and John DeGirolamo will share "Tips for Parents to Protect Your Child."

We can navigate the online world with our kids. Join us for a practical episode.

Read the full show notes with links here: Tips for Parents to Protect Your Child with John DeGirolamo ETB #196

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Setting Family Goals - 195 Dec 13, 2023

Setting Family Goals! As we stand on the cusp of a new year, it's the perfect moment to reflect, reset, and reimagine the future for your family. In today's episode on Equipped To Be, I will be unpacking into this topic that's not just about resolutions but about strengthening your family. Whether you're a seasoned goal-setter or someone exploring this concept for the first time, join me. This episode is full of practical, achievable, and heartwarming ways to set family goals that are easy to follow.

#familygoals #NewYearNewFamily #familylife

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Eliminating Holiday Meltdowns in Children - 194 Dec 06, 2023

Eliminating holiday meltdowns in children can be a challenge, especially if they don't get the gift they wanted or asked for. A moment that is supposed to be happy can suddenly turn into disappointment and even poor behavior. How can we stop meltdowns when a child doesn't get their way? Join me to learn how to make holiday gift-giving more memorable with our children.

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Homeschool Growth is Surging - 193 Nov 29, 2023

What is causing the surge in homeschooling? Today, I'll be discussing what parents need to know about the fastest growing educational method with Jim Mason, President of the Home School Legal Defense Association.

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Making Family Traditions - 192 Nov 22, 2023

Unlock the Magic of Family Traditions: A Journey of Joy and Connection!

Embark on a heartwarming journey with our latest podcast episode, where we dive deep into the art of making family traditions. From the chaos of holiday celebrations to the simplicity of intentional moments, we explore how these traditions weave the fabric of strong family bonds. Join us as we unravel the beauty of simple yet impactful rituals, discover the "why" behind each tradition, and get inspired with creative ideas for making lasting memories.

Tune into the podcast and start crafting your family's unique story through traditions! MakingFamilyTraditions #PodcastJoy #ConnectThroughTraditions.

Read the full show notes with links here: Making Family Traditions

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The Power of a Child - 191 Nov 15, 2023

Imagine a national holiday tradition, an influence on a U.S. President, and the indirect catalyst for pardoning hundreds in distress - all sparked by the power of a child. Now, what I have revealed is that this extraordinary child was far from perfect.

Described as mischievous, a prankster, and a troublemaker, this less-than-conventional child was also shunned by other children for having a cleft lip. Raymond Arroyo joins me again for a lively conversation about hope, the love of a grieving father, and the joy a child can bring to a family.

~ Connie

Read the full show notes with links here: The Power of a Child with Raymond Arroyo - ETB- #191

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Taking A Break - 190 Nov 08, 2023

Taking a break seems impossible. We think everything will fall apart if we don't keep going. But the opposite is true. Everything could fall apart if you don't prioritize taking breaks. In this episode, I'll share with you the warning signs and what you can do to ensure that you are able to keep going. Hint: It's okay to take a break. You'll be better becuase you plugged and took some time off.

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Empowering Parents to Safeguard Children Online with Richard Wistocki - 189 Nov 01, 2023

How can we shield our children from the dangers they face online? We discuss how people get you your kids and what you need to do to protect them. I want parents to know three specific steps they can take to shield their kids online. We can be a shield for our children.

I invited Richard Wistocki, a law-enforcement youth cyber crime trainer who is dedicated to keeping kids safe on their devices, to join us for this episode.

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Dealing with Changes - 188 Oct 25, 2023

Life is full of change, isn't it? Whether we like it or not, dealing with changes is essential to our personal, spiritual, and professional growth. We learn how to navigate situations by healing with changes healthily.

Instead of trying to avoid changes, we should learn to embrace them and trust the Lord to help you. In this episode, we address the common reasons that make change seem daunting and learn some ways you can navigate change successfully.

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Family Devotions Strengthen Relationships - 187 Oct 18, 2023

Parents often ask me if family devotions strengthen relationships, and the answer is yes. Family devotions cause us to focus as a a family on our relationships with the Lord and each other. They draw us to one another because we become aware fo God's love for us and our love for one another.

Truth is family devotions connect us in a deeper way. Today Karen Whiting joins me to discuss how you can make family devotions work for your family.

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How to Parent a Passive Child - 186 Oct 11, 2023

Parening a passive child requires thoughful and purposeful guidance. Whether it's their birth order or individual temperament, passive children often require extra support in developing decision-making shills and find their voice. While ti may initially seem uncomplicated to raise a passive child, it is cericial not to overlook the emotions brewing within them. In this episode, "How to Parent a Passive Child." we will explore key elements to nurture their growth and increase their confidence.

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Why Teens Don’t Talk to Their Parents - 185 Oct 04, 2023

Getting teens to talk to their parents might be a little easier than you think.

Today, Jackie Brewton joins me to discuss how you can get your teens talking to you about the issues that matter to them. We unpack their responses and examine two things parents can do to break teenage silence and get their teens to start talking. You don't want to miss this show!

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Online Trends and Challenges: How to Protect Your Child - 184 Sep 27, 2023

Online trends and challenges can be dangerous for kids in the ever-evolving social media world. But we can protect our children from the dangers lurking online. Join me as I share what you can do to help your children learn to navigate the constant bombardment of daily trends and challenges.

Read the full show notes with links here: Online Trends and Challenges: How to Protect Your Child - ETB #184

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When to Give Your Child a Smartphone - 183 Sep 20, 2023

When should I give my child a smartphone? What is the perfect age? Some parents want to wait until the later teen years, while others think the tween years are better. Is there a right age?

Most parents have doubts about when their child should have a phone. They also, have different ideas of what is appropriate for their child. Here's the truth: There is no one perfect age when a child should get a smartphone. There are pros and cons to consider before making such an important decision.

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Raise Interdependent Children - 182 Sep 13, 2023

Are you raising interdependent, independent, or co-dependent children? What you decide can have a huge impact on your children. Lori Wildenberg and I discuss why we need to raise interdependent children and how it can reduce their anxiety while increasing family connectedness.

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Make Homeschooling Easier with Zan Tyler - 181 Sep 06, 2023

My friend, Zan Tyler, joins us today to discuss ways to make your homeschool year easier and less stressful. During our conversation, you will learn spefics activties you can do, why your children respond positively to mid-week breaks, and the importance of building relationships along the way.

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Rooted Homeopathy: Bridging Faith and Wellness with Amanda Pelser - 180 Aug 30, 2023

Get ready for a few tears with this episode! I finally convinced my podcast editor to join me on the show. It's part thank you and part farewell as she moves on to what God has for her in this next season of her life. Amanda and I have known each other for over 10 years, worked together in several ways over the years, and have become great friends over that time. She helped me launch the Equipped To Be Podcast and do a lot of other technical stuff behind the scenes with the support of her husband Josh and their company The Pelsers Media. After battling chronic illness for many years and overcoming through much prayer, research, and the use of homeopathy, she has now launched Rooted Homeopathy, LLC to help other moms find wellness breakthroughs and care for their families in a natural, Biblical way by using homeopathy.

Disclaimer: Amanda is not a doctor or licensed medical professional. Nothing stated is meant to diagnose or treat disease. Amanda is educating you on the specialized area of homeopathic remedies and their possible uses for wellness support.

Get Amanda's guide to the Biblical roots of homeopathy here: https://rootedhomeopathy.com/ETB

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Helping Your Kids Find Identity In Christ with Tina Yeager - 179 Aug 23, 2023

I want to introduce you to Tina Yeager. She's a mental health professional, coach, speaker, and podcaster. In this episode, she helps me tackle some tough topics that are affecting families these days. There's so much tension, anxiety, and depression affecting our kids and it just continues to trend upwards. She helps us understand how to help our kids find identity in Christ in this crazy world.

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The Importance of Easing Kids Back Into School - 178 Aug 16, 2023

It's that time of year again – the start of a new school year! Whether you're a seasoned parent or you have a new kindergartener, the mixed feelings of nervousness, excitement, and anxiety are likely familiar. In this episode, we are going to talk about transitioning smoothly into a new school year and the importance of easing kids back into school.

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How to Win Over Worry with Keri Eichberger - 177 Aug 09, 2023

Do you worry? Seems like every time you turn around, there's another headline that strikes fear and causes worry these days. What about your kids? Do you worry about them? Do you worry you will ruin them? Do you worry about the things they will have to face? What can you do about worry? Well, Keri Eichberger is with me in this episode to talk about these big issues surrounding worry. Join me as Keri offers encouraging insights and reminds us of the power of God's truth in conquering worry and finding peace in all seasons of life.

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Developing Resilience - 176 Aug 02, 2023

The new school year is upon us. If you're like most families, there's some upheaval going on as you figure out new routines and rhythms for meals and bedtime, and more. As you work on getting everyone back into the swing of things again, developing resilience is key to smooth days. What is resiliency and why is it important?

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The Urgent Need to Retreat - 175 Jul 26, 2023

As I've traveled this summer, I've heard many people talk about being tired and overwhelmed. Just like you, I can't get everything on my list done in a day! As a part of a recent conference, I participated in a retreat. So today I'm sharing with you the importance of retreating, just as Jesus did in the Bible. There is an urgent need to retreat! Let's talk about this need for finding quietness and rest amidst the chaos of life and how retreating can provide strength, joy, and a renewed connection with God.

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Embracing Your Fierce Calling with Doris Swift - 174 Jul 19, 2023

This episode is sponsored by BJU Press Homeschool. Visit bjupresshomeschool.com for trusted educational resources from a biblical worldview.

I met Doris Swift a few years ago, shortly before we both started our podcasts. I've been a guest on her show and I'm delighted to introduce you to her in this episode. She's an author, podcaster, and founder of Fierce Calling Ministries. Listen in as we talk about embracing your fierce calling in using your gifts, navigating challenges, and embracing the seasons in your lives.

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Embracing Masculinity: The Warrior Poet Way with John Lovell - 173 Jul 12, 2023

This episode is sponsored by BJU Press Homeschool. Visit bjupresshomeschool.com for trusted educational resources from a biblical worldview.

John Lovell, the inspiring force behind the Warrior Poet Society, is joining me on the podcast. John's remarkable background as a former Army Ranger and special operations soldier, combined with his passion for masculinity and fatherhood, has propelled him to become a sought-after speaker and mentor. John is on a mission to redefine what it means to be a man in today's world so we can start embracing masculinity again. We dive deep into the balance between strength and sensitivity, the importance of being a protector and provider, and the invaluable role of fathers in shaping the next generation.

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Cultural Shifts with Michael Farris - 172 Jul 05, 2023

This episode is sponsored by BJU Press Homeschool. Visit bjupresshomeschool.com for trusted educational resources from a biblical worldview.

I had the opportunity to meet up with my long-time friend Michael Farris at the National Religious Broadcasters convention a few weeks ago. He graciously agreed to have a conversation with me to share with you here at Equipped To Be. Michael has such a breadth of experience and knowledge in the areas of homeschooling, the Constitution, free speech, and legal defense of these topics. We spent some time talking about the cultural shifts that are being seen in our country and what we as Christians can do about it.

What will you do next to stand up, show up, and speak up? Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/cultural-shifts-with-michael-farris

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The Benefits of a Summer Job - 171 Jun 28, 2023

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Do your children have summer jobs? Do they have a part-time job or work as an intern or volunteer somewhere? Fox 35 Orlando asked me to speak on this topic of teens and summer jobs and I always have so much more to say on these topics than I can fit into a short morning show segment. A lot of learning happens with summer jobs, so let's talk about the benefits of a summer job for your teen!

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Defending Young Minds with Kristen A. Jenson - ETB #170 Jun 21, 2023

This episode is sponsored by BJU Press Homeschool. Visit bjupresshomeschool.com for trusted educational resources from a biblical worldview.

I recently had the opportunity to meet up with Kristen A. Jenson to have a conversation about a topic that is extremely important in our world of expanding digital access: pornography. Kristen is the founder of Defend Young Minds and CEO of Glen Cove Press. She is an internationally acclaimed author and advocate for protecting young minds from the dangers of harmful media. Kristen is leading the charge in this area to make sure parents are equipped to protect and educate their children about these dangers.

Kristen and I discuss how her book Good Pictures, Bad Pictures came to be, the importance of normalizing conversations about pornography with our kids, and practical tips for educating our children on this topic. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/defending-young-minds-with-kristen-a-jenson

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Turnabout Tales: From Underdog to Hero with Raymond Arroyo - 169 Jun 14, 2023

This episode is sponsored by BJU Press Homeschool. Visit bjupresshomeschool.com for trusted educational resources from a biblical worldview.

I recently had the pleasure of meeting Raymond Arroyo, a New York Times bestselling author and Fox News contributor, at the 2023 National Religious Broadcasters Convention. He agreed to sit down and have a conversation with me for the podcast. There were so many things we could have discussed! We could have talked about politics or how the world is crumbling around us, but we landed on a topic that strengthens the family and I hope is going to encourage you. Raymond and I were talking about how children are curious and I knew this was the topic we needed to focus on! He's written a book series called Turnabout Tales that focuses on little-known yet fascinating stories of historical figures who went from underdog to hero, and the adults who inspired them to be true to themselves and do big things that changed the world. The first book in the series is about the life of Thomas Alva Edison and his mother Nancy.

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Making Daily Tasks Fun for Kids - 168 Jun 07, 2023

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Tasks. Work. Chores. Whatever you call them, there are things that need to be done in your home and frankly, no one really wants to have to do them. Since the magic fairy isn't going to be arriving anytime soon to handle these things, we as parents have to find a way to motivate our kids to get their share of the work done. I found that every age and stage and child requires a little different tactic and mindset, but it always comes back to adding an element of fun.

Learn more about how to add fun to daily tasks and the importance of knowing what motivates your unique child in this episode. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/making-daily-tasks-fun-for-kids

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Nurturing Spiritual Development in Children - 167 May 31, 2023

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I'm often asked these types of questions as I travel and speak to parents around the country and internationally: How do you raise godly kids? How do you raise kids that love Jesus? How do you raise kids who don't walk away from the church?

There's no formula to follow that will guarantee that your child will move from religion to relationship. It's a living God who works in the hearts and minds of each of us, including our kids. In this episode, I'm going to dive into nurturing spiritual development in your children.

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The Impact of Parents Who Lack Self-Control - 166 May 24, 2023

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Some extreme examples have been recorded and posted online of parents behaving badly at kids' sporting events recently in central Florida. In response, Fox 35 Orlando asked me to speak about parents who lack self-control. I love doing these segments, but there's never enough time to say everything so I'm expanding on this topic here on the podcast for you! In this episode, we're going to go deeper into the impact of parents who lack self-control, what your self-control teaches your kids, and how to turn it around if you've been a bad example.

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Building Stronger Relationships with Your Children Using Correction Not Criticism - 165 May 17, 2023

This episode is sponsored by BJU Press Homeschool. Visit bjupresshomeschool.com for trusted educational resources from a biblical worldview.

One of my purposes here with the Equipped To Be Podcast is to help you build stronger relationships with your children as you launch them into adulthood. In this episode, I dive into the differences between correction and criticism. I share biblical insights, the power of your words, steps to using correction, and the potential pitfalls of sarcasm. Getting a handle on these concepts now will strengthen your relationships with your kids and make them more likely to seek out your advice and counsel when they are older.

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Living a Biblical Worldview with David Closson - 164 May 10, 2023

I had the pleasure recently to talk with David Closson, the Director of the Center for Biblical Worldview at Family Research Council. I've known David for many, many years. He shares with me the sobering statistics regarding the gap between those who say that they are living a Biblical worldview and how their beliefs actually line up with a Biblical worldview. There's a larger gap than you might even guess!

David and I talk about the pressures on churches and the number one question churches are wrestling with today. Everything that we need is in Scripture! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/living-a-biblical-worldview

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Parents vs Educators: Who Knows Your Child Best? - 163 May 03, 2023

A news outlet recently asked me to talk about the boom in homeschooling. Why is there such a surge of parents choosing to homeschool their kids? I'm a little surprised they couldn't see the answer based on the news they are reporting. My kids are grown and having kids of their own, but I'm even more passionate about homeschooling now than I was years ago when I was homeschooling my own kids. It's important that you as a parent find your voice in the midst of the noise of this struggle with educators. Who knows your child best? You? Or an educator?

My passion for homeschooling started because I wanted a close family and figured I could teach them the basics just as well as the public school could. My perspective on why to homeschool has changed over the years. Let's talk in this episode about finding your voice, knowing your role, and determining your priorities in this battle for the heart and future of your child.

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What Can You Do When Your Child Has Secret Chats Online - 162 Apr 26, 2023

I was recently asked to do a news segment responding to a story about how a twelve-year-old and their friend snuck out of the house and drove four hundred miles to meet up with someone they'd met online. Sadly the age for children engaging in risky and dangerous behavior online is trending younger and younger. As a parent, how can you keep your kids safe online? What do you do when you find that your child is having secret chats online?

The goal is for your kids to learn how to use technology and social media well while they are still under your roof. Then when they go out into the world with unmonitored access, they've already learned to have good boundaries and make wise choices. How do you set boundaries and teach your kids to make wise choices? In this episode, I give you considerations for how to handle online access, tips for finding tools, and what to do if you find your child is already in trouble. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/secret-chats/

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The Search for Significance with Rachael Adams - 161 Apr 19, 2023

When I met Rachael Adams a few years ago at a podcasting conference, I was so intrigued by her kindness and her authenticity. We connected again at another conference last year and I was so excited to hear about the book she had coming out. Rachael has such a heart for women in their search for significance and purpose. I'm excited to introduce her to you!

In this episode, Rachael and I discuss her farm, significance vs accomplishments, the importance of one encounter and so much more. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-search-for-significance

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When Your Kid Wants a Credit Card - 160 Apr 12, 2023

The other day I was back in the Fox 35 Orlando studios to talk on air about another parenting topic. This time we were discussing kids and credit cards. Of course, a 3-5 minute morning TV segment gives little time to dig into the issue, so in this episode, I'm unpacking more of the conversations that need to be had and what to consider when your kid wants a credit card or debit card.

Let's dive into why your child might want a credit card, how to determine if your child is ready, and some considerations for what might work best for your child and family as a whole. This is an opportunity to teach your child the skill of managing money and will put them on a sure foundation for their adult years. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/when-your-kid-wants-a-credit-card

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Homeschooling in the Hispanic Community with Ana Bagnuoli - 159 Apr 05, 2023

I met Ana Bagnuoli many years ago at a homeschooling conference in Florida. Together with her husband, they began serving the Hispanic community and talking about homeschooling. The ministry has grown to the point that they now have a homeschooling conference for Spanish-speaking homeschoolers. Ana has such a passion for homeschooling in the Hispanic community and I'm so excited to introduce you to her!

In this episode, Ana and I talk about the need for homeschool materials in Spanish, their homeschool conference for Spanish speakers, the importance of family, and more. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/homeschooling-in-the-hispanic-community

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Hosting Sleepovers - 158 Mar 29, 2023

In the last episode, we discussed the pros and cons of sleepovers. Rather than making a blanket decision, I encouraged you to look deeper into the goals of your family and how sleepovers can fit or do not fit into those plans. This week I want to dig deeper into hosting sleepovers. What should you ask the host family? What can you do as the host home for a sleepover?

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The Pros and Cons of Sleepovers - 157 Mar 22, 2023

Do you allow your kids to participate in sleepovers? I'm personally not a fan of blanket directives because each family is unique. You have to make a decision about what is best for your family based on the pros and cons of having sleepovers.

I was recently on Fox 35 Orlando to talk about the pros and cons of sleepovers. It's hard to have an in-depth discussion on a topic like this in four minutes, so I'd like to dig in a little deeper here on the podcast with you. Let's talk about the reasons for and against sleepovers so you can be empowered as the parent to make the best choice that fits your family and each of your kids. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-pros-and-cons-of-sleepovers

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Guide Your Prodigal Home with Laine Lawson Craft - 156 Mar 15, 2023

Do you have a prodigal child? Are you desperate to guide your prodigal home? Laine Lawson Craft has lived this story with her three children. Now she's committed to sharing their testimony and showing parents how to fight the spiritual battle to guide their prodigals back home again.

In this episode, Laine and I talk about what a prodigal is, backsliding, staying in the game with your adult kids, and so much more! Read the full show notes with link here: https://conniealbers.com/guide-your-prodigal-home

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Extraordinary Forgiveness in the Life of Corrie ten Boom with Larry Loftis - 155 Mar 08, 2023

New York Times Bestselling author Larry Loftis is back on the show to talk about the story behind his newest novel. In this spy thriller, Larry tells the story of the life of Corrie ten Boom. Many of us are familiar with the story from The Hiding Place but that is maybe about ten percent of the story of Corrie's life. There's so much more to tell as Larry learned in his research. It's a story of extraordinary forgiveness.

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Why Children Resist Instructions - 154 Mar 01, 2023

Do you have kids who resist your instructions? You tell them to do something and they don't do it. You beg. You lecture. You try to explain why. But, they don't do what you say or they simply ignore you. Why do children resist instructions?

In this episode, we're digging into why children resist instructions. There are five reasons you might be experiencing this resistance. Let's dig into them! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/why-children-resist-instructions

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Season 3: A Look Back at God's Faithfullness - 153 Feb 22, 2023

I want to take a moment to talk about God's faithfulness. The Equipped To Be Podcast has reached a major milestone. With this episode and the transition to Season 3, we have marked three years of episodes! There were ups and downs along the way, but I'm so excited to have shared this journey with you!

Equipped To Be began in February 2020 right before the pandemic turned our world upside down. Amanda from The Pelsers Media was sitting in my office talking to me about starting the podcast and she said she'd help me. I couldn't do this podcast without my team, you my listeners, and my sponsors and partners. Many thanks to all of you! Join me in this episode to hear the story of God's faithfulness over the last three years!

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How to Deal with Mom Guilt - 152 Feb 15, 2023

Mom guilt is this pervasive feeling that you're not doing this mom thing right. Even when you think things are going well, you see another mom doing something differently and think she must be right and I am now wrong.

In this episode, I want to talk with you more about what mom guilt is and some steps for dealing with it. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/mom-guilt

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How to Help Kids Manage Boredom - 151 Feb 08, 2023

How do you manage boredom? Boredom plagues us all at one time or another. No one is immune to it. Boredom is often a sign that you're tired of the same things over and over, even if you like routine. But, boredom is actually a good thing. It means that you have time and margin in your day to stop and think. Boredom means you have the space for creativity, innovation, and adventure rather than a robotic existence.

In this episode, I share three steps to managing boredom plus a list of practical ways to redirect your kids (and you!) when they say they are bored. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/manage-boredom

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Feasting on Truth with Erin Warren - 150 Feb 01, 2023

I've known Erin Warren from Feasting on Truth for many years online. I recently had a chance to finally meet her in person at a women's conference. Erin has a passion for God's word that I think you'll hear in this conversation about life, ministry, and the work she's doing.

In this episode, Erin Warren and I talk about a lot of things including:

Learning about God through her husband's chronic illness
Laying something down when God leads
Helping women discover God's word for themselves through inductive Bible study
and so much more!

About Erin Warren

Erin H. Warren is passionate about equipping and encouraging women to discover God’s truths for themselves. She is the author of Feasting on Truth: Savor the Life-giving Word of God, leads and teaches Bible study through her ministry Feasting on Truth, and has published several Bible studies. She and her husband, Kris, have three littles (who aren’t so little anymore), and they live in Central Florida. She loves a house full of people and a table full of food and hopes tacos never go out of style.

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How to Curb Cheating with OpenAI - 149 Jan 25, 2023

Have you heard about OpenAI? It's all over the news right now and kids are learning to use this platform to their advantage. It is so easy to use OpenAI to cheat. As parents, we need to look at how to curb cheating with OpenAI.

Let's talk about what OpenAI is, why kids cheat, and three things you can do as a parent about cheating with OpenAI (or any lack of integrity).

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Mending Fractured Sibling Relationships - 148 Jan 18, 2023

When members of the family live in close proximity and spend a lot of time together, there is bound to be tension in relationships at times. As a parent, you can see those nudges, unkind words, and rolled eyes. You can feel that tension between siblings. You can feel the distance that is growing between the siblings in your family. How do you mend fractured sibling relationships?

My husband and I have instilled into our children that they cannot leave a fractured relationship. Unspoken hurts and broken trust cannot be swept under the rug. We want peace and harmony but that requires doing the hard work of addressing conflicts and tensions. Not addressing sibling conflict is not an option!

In this episode, I share the steps that I take to assess and prepare to take action, how to talk to the children involved, and how to handle oblivious kids. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/mending-fractured-sibling-relationships

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How to Help Kids Set and Keep Goals - 147 Jan 11, 2023

When you set goals, do you set goals for and with your kids?

In this episode, I want to talk with you about how you can help your kids set and keep goals. I have gathered together some general goal-setting advice as well as ways to support your kids in their goals. I also have a list of examples of goals that kids can set and achieve.

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Asking God to Change Us - 146 Jan 04, 2023

I spend time every year journaling and reflecting on the previous year. I have mixed feelings going into 2023, but I want to see this new year in the way that God wants me to see it. What if we chose to ask God to change us when we encounter challenges and struggles instead of focusing so much on changing others around us?

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Raising a Creative Child - 145 Dec 28, 2022

Our family has a wonderful announcement to share with the world! My son recently won an Emmy for cinematography for his part in a documentary called Challenge Accepted about a young girl named Faith-Christina. Every child is different, but I want to share with you some ways in which we went about raising a creative child who went on to win an Emmy.

This is the beginning of a series of episodes about raising different kinds of kids to adulthood and preparing them for their desired careers. There's no right way to walk this path, but there are good practices and wise choices. I can share through what I know about Strengths Finders and personalities some of how and why we did what we did. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-a-creative-child

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How to Reflect and Refocus for the New Year - 144 Dec 21, 2022

As we come to the end of another year, this is the perfect time to think about the year behind you and what you did or did not accomplish. Maybe you're wearily thinking that something has to change for 2023. Maybe you're looking forward in anticipation for this new year. Either way, I want to share with you some ideas for how to reflect and refocus for the new year during these finals days of this year.

As you wrap up your Christmas celebrations, the week between Christmas and New Year's is a great time each year to reflect and refocus on your goals in various areas: General life, spiritual, relational, and more! In this episode, I talk about the benefits of journaling and how I go about reviewing what God did in the previous year and how to write out hopes and goals for the coming year in various areas of your life. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/reflect-and-refocus

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Praying For Your Children - 143 Dec 14, 2022

A friend recently suggested to me that I should talk to you about how God answers our prayers and specifically prayers of protection for our kids. Praying for your children is an important part of the spiritual development of your kids and for you as a parent.

In this episode, I share some recent experiences with prayer and the importance of praying for your children - not just praying for those risk-takers who naturally drive you to your knees but for all for your children. Prayer is action! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/praying-for-your-children

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Holiday Rituals Your Children Will Remember - 142 Dec 07, 2022

We're moving into the holiday season with lots of parties, gatherings, and festivities! In this episode, I want to focus on creating traditions and holiday rituals your children will remember. How you do create memories and create traditions that your children will want to continue to do as they get older and desire to implement with their own families?

Tune into this episode to hear some activity ideas that we did over the years and how my kids are starting to take some of these traditions and holiday rituals into their own families. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/holiday-rituals-your-children-will-remember

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How to Help Others in a Crisis - 141 Nov 30, 2022

We've experienced a lot of change in the last few years. Everywhere I turn, I'm reading or hearing about someone else in crisis. I've had seasons of crisis in my own life recently. Today, I thought it would be helpful to talk about how to help others in a crisis.

Whether it's the loss of a loved one, a medical diagnosis, the loss of a job, a wayward child, or just the concern about how to put food on the table this week, there's someone near you in crisis. People want to know that they are not alone! In this episode, I share some thoughts and tips for how to help others in a crisis. read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-help-others-in-a-crisis

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Teaching Appreciation to Kids - 140 Nov 23, 2022

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Teaching Kids Not to Quit - 139 Nov 16, 2022

In the episode last week, I talked about resting vs quitting. So many of you contacted me asking about kids who have a tendency to give up on something too soon. How do you go about teaching kids not to quit?

It's really important to know each of your children as individuals. There tend to be a few basic reasons that kids want to quit and the way you go about helping and encouraging these kids is very different. In this episode, I talk about three different types of kids, why they want to quit, and things to consider as a parent when you're trying to teach kids not to quit.

Each of your children is different, but you are just the parent they need to become who God has created them to be! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/teaching-kids-not-to-quit

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It's Okay to Rest - 138 Nov 09, 2022

There's a difference between resting and quitting. Many times I feel like I want to quit. Today, I want to remind you that it's okay to rest, but it's not okay to quit.

In this episode, I'm being vulnerable and sharing some recent life events that have made me want to quit. I know I can't quit, but I also know that God is calling me to a season of rest for a while. I talk you through some helpful advice and considerations for evaluating where and how to rest. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/okay-to-rest

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How to Keep Kids Safe Online - 137 Nov 02, 2022

I speak frequently about how to keep kids safe online. I've found two camps of parenting styles when it comes to technology and internet usage. On one side, some parents decide to give no access at all to technology. On the other side, they allow their kids near unrestricted access.

If you've been around the Equipped To Be Podcast for very long, you know that I'm not a proponent of restricting all access to technology and the internet. At the same time, I've found that giving too much access without much monitoring and deep conversations with your kids can also backfire. I believe that the best middle-ground approach to tech usage is to use parental controls AND to have close relationships with your kids.

What does this look like in practice? How do you keep your kids safe online? Listen to this episode for ideas for building relationships AND simple practices for safe tech usage. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-keep-kids-safe-online

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Teaching Kids to Serve with Samaritan's Purse - 136 Oct 26, 2022

In episode #134, I told you that teaching kids to serve is a great way to help manage the impacts of stress. I mentioned the recent devastation in southwest Florida from Hurricane Ian and that Samaritan's Purse is an excellent ministry to give money to or to partner with for serving in person in a disaster area. This week, Shannon Dailley from Samaritan's Purse joins me to talk about the work that ministry is doing in Florida and around the world.

Shannon and I discuss the kinds of work that Samaritan's Purse does in disaster areas around the world. We also talk about how families can get involved together and how impactful that can be for kids for the rest of their lives. Shannon describes what volunteer day looks like starting with breakfast and devotions through volunteering for and ministering to a homeowner.

*Please note that volunteers with Samaritan's Purse must be at least 14 years of age due to the nature of the work and proximity to heavy equipment.*

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Raising Christian Kids with Lee Ann Mancini - 135 Oct 19, 2022

It's a scary world out there. Humanistic culture is trying to take your kids and instill in them a worldview contrary to our biblical worldview. This week, Lee Ann Mancini is with me on the podcast talking about raising Christian kids and fighting against this evil worldview.

We talked about the story behind Lee Ann's children's books and the Sea Kids animated show plus much, much more! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-christian-kids-with-lee-ann-mancini

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Q&A: How to Manage the Impacts of Stress and Failure - 134 Oct 12, 2022

This week on the podcast I'm doing something a little different. I'm answering some reader questions! Two types of questions that I receive regularly from parents center on stress and failure. So in this episode, I'm going to address how to manage the impacts of stress and failure for your kids.

I give you four steps to consider in managing stress as a parent and a list of questions to help you decide when to step and when it is better to allow your child to fail. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/manage-the-impacts-of-stress-and-failure

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Raising Resilient Kids with Dr. Kathy Koch - 133 Oct 05, 2022

I'm excited to welcome Dr. Kathy Koch back to the podcast! Dr. Kathy has a new book about kids and resiliency. She's back to talk with me today about this book titled Resilient Kids and to define and expand upon resiliency. This is about so much more than the trauma of living through a pandemic! I recently saw a statistic from Max Lucado that something like 80% of young people are feeling stress, anxiety, and/or depression. The mental health crisis in our country is staggering! Dr. Kathy and Celebrate Kids are doing what they can to educate parents. She's optimistic but realistic in the way that she teaches. In this episode, Dr. Kathy defines resiliency. She talks about things like walking with your kids through struggles, toxic positivity, working on self-talk, Big T vs little t trauma, and so much more! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/resilient-kids-with-dr-kathy-koch

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How to Implement Parenting Advice - 132 Sep 28, 2022

Parenting is hard. Deciding how to implement parenting advice can be even more difficult. There are a lot of parenting books out there. I even wrote one myself! Sadly, many parenting books can come across as being the only right way to parent your child. You might start to think, "What is wrong with my child?" when doing what the author says on page 76 isn't working.

In this episode, I want to encourage you to be careful of who you choose to listen to when it comes to parenting advice and show you how to decide which parenting advice to implement.

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Don't Let Your Kids Be Quiet Quitters - 131 Sep 21, 2022

There's a new term in HR departments around the country: quiet quitters. It refers to people who don't want to overexert themselves. They do just enough to get their paycheck and not get fired. Your children have the opportunity to take the marketplace by storm in this quiet quitter culture!

In this episode, I talk about how to raise kids who pursue excellence and know how to put in a good day of work instead of doing just enough.

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Immerse Yourself in Today - 130 Sep 14, 2022

Are you immersing yourself in today? Or are you wrapped up in taking pictures "so you won't forget?" Or consumed with what someone else is doing? Or thinking about work that needs to be done? I have the same temptations and I want to encourage you to focus more on immersing yourself in today rather than the cares of tomorrow.

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How many times when you're on vacation or on a nature walk with your kids, do you pull out your phone and take pictures? You start snapping pictures of everything because you want to remember it all. You want to be able to look back and relive the moment later. How often do you take pictures but forget to be fully present in the moment?

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How to Get Through Trials - 129 Sep 07, 2022

I've recently come through a very difficult season in my life. Trial after trial kept coming. I couldn't get through most days without at least a few tears or without feeling exhausted. For me, this season carried a lot of death and painful losses. For you, maybe it's saying goodbye to someone you love, a financial situation, or a wayward child. How do you get through trials?

In my 20s, I was full of hope and expectations. My 30s were much of the same, running towards my goals for my life. But trials hit us all at some point in life. I wrote an article on this topic of trials recently in the Homeschooling Today Magazine. I shared how when we're in the midst of trials, it's easy to get discouraged and frustrated. It's hard when we can't accomplish what we're used to accomplishing!

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How do you survive these times of trial? I have some suggestions and encouragement for you! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-get-through-trials

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How to Follow God's Will with Brittany Ann - 128 Aug 31, 2022

Brittany Ann is with me in this episode to talk about how to follow God's will as well as her upcoming virtual conference, Called to Act. She was on the show a while back and I encourage you to listen to episode #48 to learn more about Brittany Ann and her ministry.

This time, Brittany Ann and I had a great conversation surrounding learning how to follow God's will. I think you'll be inspired and encouraged by what she has to say! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-follow-gods-will

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How Grandparents Can Support Their Homeschool Grandkids - 127 Aug 24, 2022

As a parent, it can be a tricky balance to decide how much to share or not to share with your parents about your homeschooling journey. You may have parents who are supportive or you may have parents who are not supportive of your schooling choice. I've had both experiences. Grandparents can be a great support for their homeschool grandkids if they make intentional choices.

I give a little advice for parents in this episode, but I really focus the conversation on grandparents. I have a list of suggestions for ways that you can support your homeschool grandkids - and their parents.

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How to Strengthen Sibling Relationships - 126 Aug 17, 2022

What shapes family relationships? How can your kids grow up to be close friends? I wish I could tell you that you can build sibling relationships using a simple three-step formula. It can be simple, but it does take work and more than three steps to create an environment that will strengthen sibling relationships.

I love watching the relationships that have been built between my kids over the years. Let's talk about some ways that you can create an environment to strengthen sibling relationships. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/strengthen-sibling-relationships

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Your Child is Uniquely Created (PBTR Part 11) - 125 Aug 10, 2022

How does your child think? How do they process the world around them? If you have multiple children as I do, you have probably seen that one child can be extremely different from another child in your family. This is because each of your children is uniquely created by God!

This is episode eleven of a series I've been doing on my book, Parenting Beyond the Rules. From the beginning of parenting, I wanted to know how my kids tick and what ticks them off. We have already talked about how the goal is to reach the finish line with your relationships with your children intact. You want them to know that you are their greatest cheerleader and that you are trustworthy. Part of that process is to help each child find how they were uniquely created and this requires a lot of observation on your part.

Let's talk about how to observe and support your kids in finding out who they are uniquely created to be. Read the full show notes with links at https://conniealbers.com/uniquely-created

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Stay Engaged (PBTR Part 10) - 124 Aug 03, 2022

Ever have that desire to jump into the car for a very long drive... ALONE? Or feel the need to take a long walk by yourself rather than deal with another teenage drama or toddler meltdown? As a mom of 5, I know the feeling. But, you can't quit. Take a break, but remember it's always too soon to quit. Your kids need you to stay engaged! Yes, even those teens who act like they don't need you at times, they need you too!

This is episode ten of a series I've been doing on my book, Parenting Beyond the Rules. Friend, we are in a fight for our families and for relationships with our kids. You can't check out mentally, emotionally, or physically. You don't have the luxury of telling them to come back when they are 18 or 25. Let's talk about why you need to stay engaged and some ways to stay engaged when this parenting things gets hard. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/stay-engaged/

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Squash the Fear (PBTR Part 9) - 123 Jul 27, 2022

We have been gripped by fear for the last several years. The pandemic and waves of uncertainty hit us on top of the more common day-to-day fears. But, God says there's no place for fear in our lives! He tells us not to fear because He is with us (Isaiah 41:10). Do you believe that? Are you ready to squash fear?

In this ninth episode of the series we've been doing on my book Parenting Beyond the Rules, I want to show you how to squash the fear in your life so it no longer paralyzes you. Let's also talk about 6 ways that you can respond to sticky parenting situations that cause fear to arise in you. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/squash-the-fear

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The Power of Words (PBTR Part 8) - 122 Jul 20, 2022

How many times have you said something and then wished you hadn't said those words? Have you reacted to something your child did without thinking and you snapped at them in the process? The power of your words can be a tool or a weapon.

This is the eighth episode in a series on my book, Parenting Beyond the Rules. Last week we talked about learning to listen and this week I want to pivot to monitoring your mouth. The power of words can be used to build up or tear down. Neutrality isn't really an option. And, the power of words doesn't end with your kids. This applies to your spouse, friends, and coworkers too.

Let's talk about what it looks like to monitor your mouth and harness the power of your words. And I have some tips for getting started in using your words wisely. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-power-of-words/

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How to Listen to Your Child (PBTR Part 7) - 121 Jul 13, 2022

I've worked with kids from little ones to college kids for over 30 years. The number one complaint I hear from parents is: "My kids don't talk to me!" On the other side, the number one complaint I hear from kids is: "My parents don't listen to me!" You want our kids to talk to you, but do you know how to listen to your child?

It's up to you as the parent to become a better listener. In this episode, I'm sharing tips to help you learn to listen to your child. Over time, you'll be able to show yourself as trustworthy and reliable so your child is more likely to choose to talk to you. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-listen-to-your-child/

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How to Understand Your Child's World (PBTR Part 6) - 120 Jul 06, 2022

Have you ever felt like you're trying so hard but you're losing the battle to talk to your kids? First, I want to tell you that is a defeatist mindset and I invite you to change the way that you look at the situation. There are things you can do! Second, there are so many forces out there who are against you and trying to speak into your child's life. Don't give up! You have to learn how to understand your child's world and have the hard conversations in order to develop a strong relationship with your child.

In this sixth episode in a series about Parenting Beyond the Rules, I want to give you some suggestions for how to understand your child's world. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-understand-your-childs-world/

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Unconditional Love (PBTR Part 5) - 119 Jun 29, 2022

When you have a baby, there is unimaginable joy. It's hard to understand how much a mom or dad loves their child. But, we have to be careful to not put conditions on that love as they grow older. There are hindrances that can pop up to giving your kids unconditional love. In this episode, I'm discussing four hindrances that could prevent you from giving your kids unconditional love and giving you suggestions for overcoming those hindrances. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/unconditional-love/ Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend!

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Foundation of Relationship (PBTR Part 4) - 118 Jun 22, 2022

My father-in-law is an architect. Years ago, when my kids were little, I was in his office looking at the artwork on the walls. It was a collection of buildings that he had designed. One, in particular, caught my eye. It was a building designed on the side of a mountain with metal posts going into the ground. As I talked to him about it, I learned about foundations and what it takes to know how to build in a situation like this. His answer: the soil. You have to know the soil. It's the same with your kids. To build a strong foundation of relationship with them you have to know their soil and how to best build on that soil.

God created your child to be a masterpiece, as we've already discussed in this series. It's up to you to learn about the soil of each of their hearts to help build a strong foundation in them. You have to become an expert on your child. What gets them excited? What lifts them up? What drives them to tears? Each of your children is different so it's important to adjust your approach so you do not wound the sensitive one but also get through to the strong child.

In this 4th episode in a series about Parenting Beyond the Rules, let's dive into what it takes to build trust with our kids. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/foundation-of-relationship/

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When the Picture Gets Blurry (PBTR Part 3) - 117 Jun 15, 2022

Did you get a parenting manual when your child was handed to you? Sometimes it feels like it would have been easier if we had been given a guide or some 3-step formula when they were born. Instead, you're searching the internet for quick tips and hacks to get you through the current parenting struggle. Sometimes the picture gets blurry... but God is not done with the story!

Maybe you're currently looking at a picture of life and of your child that isn't quite what you thought it would look like back when they were little. Maybe your teen is rebellious. Maybe you have a child who is simply ignoring you. Maybe you've thrown up your hands and declared, "It is what it is!" That may be true, but only for this moment. God created that masterpiece in the making and He is not done yet!

In this third episode in a series about Parenting Beyond the Rules, I'm talking about the top 5 parenting styles and how you can adjust to the needs of each of your children when the picture gets blurry. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/when-the-picture-gets-blurry/

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Your Child is a Masterpiece (PBTR Part 2) - 116 Jun 08, 2022

The purpose when I started writing Parenting Beyond the Rules was to talk about the principles that we're trying to instill into our kids as we're raising them: Discipline, kindness, sharing, honesty, trustworthiness, etc. But, it is so easy to get confused and think that this parenting thing is all about the rules. If you break a rule, then here's the consequence. It is so much more than that!

As I wrote the book and it went through the editing process, the message changed along the way. The cover of the book so perfectly illustrates what the book really turned out to be. The paint brushes and the strokes of paint show how it's really about how your children are each a masterpiece in the making. Your kids are not all the same. We're not making assembly line parts!

Tune into this episode for tips for helping your child become the masterpiece they were created to be. Read the full show notes with links here:

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The Importance of Parenting Beyond the Rules (PBTR Part 1) - 115 Jun 01, 2022

I've made mistakes in my parenting journey. Plenty of mistakes! I didn't do it all right and I don't have all of the answers. If I were to go back and start this process all over again, I would just make different mistakes because imperfect parents can't parent perfectly. And your kids are imperfect too. In this series of podcast episodes centered on the themes from my book Parenting Beyond the Rules, I want to help you see how you can parent beyond the rules.

In this first episode, I share how Parenting Beyond the Rules came to be and the importance of parenting beyond the rules to help each of your children become the unique masterpiece God created them to be. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-importance-of-parenting-beyond-the-rules

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How to Overcome Toxic Thinking with Alicia Michelle - 114 May 25, 2022

Our minds are powerful. Sometimes our thoughts run away from us. We find ourselves falling into destructive self-talk and negativity. This mindset not only affects us personally, but we end up bringing this baggage into our marriage and parenting. How can you overcome toxic thinking?

Alicia Michelle joins me to talk about mindset, toxic thinking, and how to use science and the Bible together to make changes. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/toxic-thinking-with-alicia-michelle/

About Alicia Michelle

Alicia Michelle is an author, Bible teacher, podcaster, and certified NeuroCoach. Known as the Mindset Makeover Coach, she equips Christian women with practical brain-and-biblically-based tools so they know how to renew their minds in order to overcome toxic thinking patterns (such as perfectionism, fear/worry, and not feeling “enough”) so they can cultivate godly confidence.

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Equipping You to Love Where You Are with Somer Colbert - 113 May 18, 2022

Sometimes it can be hard to be and to love where you are. It is so tempting to try to speed up time and pass over sticky, messy seasons. We want to rush through suffering and pain. But, there are lessons to be learned and relationships to be built in these seasons. Somer Colbert joins me in this episode to talk about these things and how to love where you are.

About Somer Colbert

Somer Colbert is a writer, speaker, and host of the Love Where You Are podcast. She is the Director of Adoption and Foster Care Ministry at Crosschurch and Connected Champion with the Arkansas Baptist Children’s Home and Family Ministries where she creates support, awareness, and advocacy for families seeking to serve in the areas of adoption and foster care. Somer is also a part of the Hope in Grief writing team where she encourages families walking through adoption grief. She creates weekly podcast episodes and resources to equip and empower Christian families to identify their influence for the gospel in every season, live life on mission, and share Jesus right where they are. Somer is passionate about equipping spiritually healthy families and seeing a movement of God's people step into confidence in their ability to change the world around them through the way they love! She resides in Arkansas with her husband, three kids, and three dogs. She's obsessed with British docudramas and cooking shows and can always be found with a cup of hot tea in hand. Her life has been forever changed by the love of Jesus, marriage to her favorite person, parenting her crazy crew, and walking multiple adoption journeys.

Tune in to this conversation where we discuss how to love where you are in every season of your life, building relationships, and living out Deuteronomy 6. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/love-where-you-are-with-somer-colbert

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The Smiling Homeschooler with Todd Wilson - 112 May 11, 2022

Do you smile in your homeschool and in your family life? Raising your kids, homeschooling, and developing relationships are all hard work. Sometimes you lose your smile... You're not alone in this journey! Todd Wilson from The Smiling Homeschooler wants to see you have joy and smile.

In this episode, Todd had me laughing as we talked about having joy in homeschooling, dads taking responsibility in the family, and more. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-smiling-homeschooler-with-todd-wilson

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Taste the Spice of the Gospel with Stephanie Rousselle - 111 May 04, 2022

Translating between languages can be tricky. Sometimes one word just can't encompass all of the nuances of meaning or one words contains the concepts of two words from another language. When translated into French from English, delight is one of these complicated words. In the French language and culture, you can't separate the idea of delight from deliciousness. This means that God is both delightful and delicious! Stephanie Rousselle joins me in this episode to talk about how to taste the spice of the Gospel and so much more.

About Stephanie Rousselle

Stephanie Rousselle is the founder of Gospel Spice Ministries. Her motto is, “God’s glory, our delight!” Born and raised in France, she has lived for her One over the last two decades on three continents, four countries, and five cities through six professional roles. She is a wife, mom, podcaster, public speaker, Bible teacher, former women’s ministry director, and strategy consultant. And she is 100% French. Stephanie thrives on Bible-centered inspirational writing and speaking, and dark chocolate. She loves sharing nuances taken from the French and English languages and cultures to experience the New Testament from the inside out. She has quoted her favorite words more times than she can count, first to herself and her children, and then also in settings as diverse as Bible studies, conferences, podcasts, and more: “There is nothing you can do for God to love you more; and there is nothing you can do for God to love you less." Her favorite verse and passion is Philippians 3:10, “For my determined purpose is to know Christ, and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship in His suffering.”

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Nurturing Relationships with Blythe Daniel & Dr. Helen McIntosh - 110 Apr 27, 2022

We tend to have relationships based on what was modeled for us as children. That's the first place we learn about relationships. As parents, we have the opportunity to change the negative patterns and teach our children about nurturing relationships and how to navigate the subtle nuances of relationships.

In this episode, I had the opportunity to talk with my friends Blythe Daniel and her mom, Dr. Helen McIntosh. We discuss:

How to deal with "mother wounds"
Making a deliberate decision to change patterns
Resolving distance in relationships
and much more!

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When Mountains Crumble: Navigating Grief with Danita Jenae - 109 Apr 20, 2022

Navigating grief is not easy. I've endured several seasons of loss in the last few years, so I know this firsthand. My guest on this episode is sadly well-acquainted with grief but has turned her story into one that serves and encourages others as they navigate grief.

Danita Jenae has learned to navigate grief by holding both joy and sorrow in the same breath as a military widow who was already familiar with trials. Shortly after making what was to be their final military move, which would lead into finishing out her husband Dan's final year of service before retiring, he passed unexpectedly while hiking in the mountains of Colorado. She says that her mountains crumbled that day, in more ways than one.

Danita shares how she rebuilt in this new location, how she handled isolation when the pandemic started just months later, and so much more. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/navigating-grief-with-danita-jenae/

About Danita Jenae

Danita Jenae is a young mom and recent military widow learning to carry both joy and sorrow in the same breath. As an author, speaker, poet, and artist, she walks alongside the broken-hearted, offering practical and creative ways to lead a Spirit-led life.

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A Woke World: What Should You Do? - 108 Apr 13, 2022

Are you biting your nails a little more than usual lately? Are you flat-out irritated or angry about what you see happening around you? I'm right there with you! We're living in a woke world. So, what should you do?

Whether it's Disney, Florida Governor DeSantis signing the law to prevent early elementary-aged children from being taught about gender, or Will Smith and Chris Rock's "slap heard 'round the world," anyone with a microphone is trying to tell you how you should think or what you should do in response.

How are they supposed to know what you're supposed to do? There are blatant attacks on your values at every turn. Let's talk about running your race in a work world. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/woke-world/

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The Benefits of Repetition - 107 Apr 06, 2022

Are you a sunrise or a sunset person? Do you like rising early to start the day and ponder what is ahead of you as the sun comes up? Or do you prefer to sit and consider what happened in your day as the sun goes down? Every day there's a beautiful rhythm and repetition to our days. But, what are the benefits of repetition? Why do we need these rhythms to our days?

Whether is it the story your children ask you to read over and over again or whether is it the discipline that needs to become a habit in your life, repetition has much value in your life. Read the full show notes with links here:

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Resolve Conflict to Restore Relationships - 106 Mar 30, 2022

You can't ignore conflict and have that conflict just disappear. You also can't resolve conflict by addressing it straight up. Working out conflicts is a complex process. Let's talk through some ways that you can better handle conflict resolution, whether the person on the other side is your child, your spouse, your friend, or your coworker. The goal is to resolve conflict to restore relationships.

In this episode, I share some tips and thoughts on how to handle conflict whether you are the offender or the offended in the situation. Read the full show notes with links here:

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4 Responses You Can Have to Teens Leaving the Church - 105 Mar 23, 2022

It used to be that college kids were the ones who would walk away from their faith. Now, it's teens leaving the Church. It is kids aged 15-17 who are are the ones walking away at an alarming rate. This is rooted in the pandemic and the deeming of churches as non-essential.

Did you know that 16.5% of people don't believe in good and evil? I guess this could explain all of the hostility, rudeness, and violence we're seeing these days. If you don't believe in good and evil, then what do you believe in? This is what your kids are facing! So what can you do in response to this? I have 4 suggested responses in this episode. Read the full show notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/teens-leaving-the-church/

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P.R.A.Y. to Be Genuine - 104 Mar 16, 2022

I've been at the National Religious Broadcasters conference this past week. My experiences there made me think about people and how they pitch themselves to others. There's a time and a place for pitching yourself, such as in a job interview. But, I think as Christians, we have to be careful of constantly self-inflating or making sure that people around us know how great or wonderful or accomplished we are. We want to teach our children to be discerning about this as well.

Our purpose is to elevate Jesus, not ourselves. We don't have to self-elevate because God equips us for what we need to do. We need to be living a life that is promoting and causing other people to see the Lord because it's not about us. We need to be teaching this truth to our children as well.

I encourage you use to use the acronym P.R.A.Y. to help you keep your focus on God in these situations. Read the full show notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/be-genuine/

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How to Manage Device Use at Family Gatherings - 103 Mar 09, 2022

I've been doing a lot of research about technology and how it affects our families and our kids. Since the beginning of the pandemic, online usage, especially social media, has risen 50% or more. But, I've said many times, technology is not the problem! It's the usage of technology that is the problem. It's how we are using it and how often we are using it. How can you manage device use when your family is gathered together so that relationships are kept top priority?

In this episode, I'm sharing how to set expectations for device usage when your family is gathered as well as how to approach a disengaged family member who is using their device too much.

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Developmental Milestones: How to Equip Your Children - 102 Mar 02, 2022

The CDC recently released new developmental milestone markers for children. This new guidance sadly shows that our children have been developmentally delayed and emotionally hindered during the pandemic. Young children are taking longer to get to their first steps, to smile for the first time, and to wave goodbye. All of our lives have been interrupted in the last two years, but the fallout is showing up in our children.

Your child doesn't have to be a casualty of the experiment or remain a statistic. Let's talk about some ways that you can equip your children in this season.

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Following God: The Story of Schoolhouse Rocked with Yvette Hampton - 101 Feb 23, 2022

Yvette Hampton from Schoolhouse Rocked and her family have an incredible story of following God. God called them to sell their home, buy an RV, leave California, and create a documentary about homeschooling. Yvette shares how the perfect author of our lives does amazing work when we trust Him and allow Him to do His work. He is a faithful God!

This is a fascinating Abraham-type story that you have to hear straight from Yvette's mouth. I hope it encourages you to follow God even when the circumstances seem impossible!

I'm thankful for the opportunity to have been a part of Schoolhouse Rocked and hope that you'll take the time to watch the documentary for yourself and share it with your friends.

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Staying the Course: A Look Back at 100 Episodes - 100 Feb 16, 2022

It's been a long road for this podcast, but I've stayed the course. The Equipped To Be podcast began just a few weeks before COVID hit and the world went into lockdown. I knew we were supposed to be doing this podcast. People had been asking me for a podcast for years. And so in February of 2020 we prepared and then went live at the end of that month. That was almost two years ago! And now, here we are at episode 100! Let's take a look at these first 100 episodes and what is needed for staying the course.

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See Through the Lens of Your Child: Creating Your Unique Parenting Style - 99 Feb 09, 2022

When I talk to teens, I hear this time and time again. Teens want to be heard, but they feel like their parents are not listening. Parents tell me that their teen doesn't talk to them. Your teen has few true choices at this point in their life. You are choosing where they live and where they go to school. Their choices in food and clothes are likely limited by budget or other restrictions. They are desperately trying to mature from a child into an adult, but they are not going to navigate that path perfectly. Some of the tension comes because you as the parent need to work on creating your unique parenting style and figuring out how that fits with your unique child.

Can you change your parenting style? Tune in to this episode and find out the two starting steps for changing your parenting style. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/creating-your-unique-parenting-style/

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How to Discipline Your Mind - 98 Feb 02, 2022

it all done? If you look at the Proverbs 31 woman and think that you'll never measure up, I want to remind you that story is a picture of this woman's whole life, not a snapshot of a 24-hour day! You can build the life, the credentials, and the tools needed to fulfill what God has called you to do. And you have to discipline your mind to get there.

Listen in as I share some practical advice for how to discipline your mind. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-discipline-your-mind/

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Live a Life of Excellence - 97 Jan 26, 2022

I was reviewing some data recently for a project that will soon lead to another book. As I analyzed that data, it made me think about excellence. I pondered what it means to live a life of excellence. What are God’s standards? Excellence is important in education, in your parenting, and in your business. Whatever your task is today, excellence in that task is of utmost importance!

Listen in as I share some thoughts and encouragement for living a life of excellence. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/live-a-life-of-excellence/

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Building a Family Name - 96 Jan 19, 2022

What's in a name? You could call it leaving a legacy or building a heritage, but are you casting a vision to your kids for what you want your family to be? Are you building a family name that has lasting meaning to your kids? What do you want your kids to say about your family after they've left the nest? You can start making changes now and cast that vision to your kids of who you want your family to be.

Walk with me through making a list of things that you want for your family and see the example of the vision that we cast to our kids over the years. There were three things in particular that we wanted our kids to know about our family name. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/building-a-family-name/

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Embracing Change in 2022 - 95 Jan 12, 2022

A new year always brings some kind of change that must be embraced. And there have been so many changes in these last couple of years of disruption! Maybe you're homeschooling or distance learning now, but you weren't last year. Maybe you're still working from home or maybe you're transitioning back to the office. How do you adapt to these changes? Are you holding on to the One who can help you be stable in the midst of disruptions? Are you confident in the One who can help you with embracing change?

The rules of life seem to be constantly changing. How do you adapt without losing your focus or losing your why? To thrive and not just survive in 2022, it's time to take a look at our thinking patterns of why we do what we do. Let's walk through how you can embrace change this year.

Listen in as Connie walks you through evaluating your family rules and making changes for the new year. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/embracing-change/

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How to Be the Parent Your Child Needs - 94 Jan 05, 2022

Your tweens and teens have been through a lot of change. They need you to help them cope with these changes. Society at large says that they will be fine because they can handle more than their parents think they can handle, but can they? While kids are resilient, that doesn't mean that they don't have wounds from what happens to them. What they really need is a parent. Their parent. They need a parent who will stand up to culture and do the unpopular hard work of real parenting.

How can you be the parent your child needs? Let's dig into some of the simple starting points! Read the full shows notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/parent-your-child-needs/

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Citizens for America with Dr. Chris Hughes - 93 Dec 29, 2021

Dr. Chris Hughes from Citizens for America is back on the show today. He shares more about his background, what Citizens for America is, and encouragement for you as a believer in our current culture.

Tune in as well for a couple of exciting developments coming in 2022! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/citizens-for-america/

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The Sexualization of America's Children with Dr. Chris Hughes - 92 Dec 22, 2021

We’ve heard so much about CRT in the last couple of years, but have you heard about the sexualization of America’s children? Yes. You read that right. This is happening and it’s being funded by the federal government. Dr. Chris Hughes joins me in this episode to talk about this important issue.

As parents, we are responsible for the education of our children. For some, this might mean sending your kids into the public school system. But, choosing this form of education doesn’t mean that you are removed from involvement in what your children are learning. When Dr. Chris Hughes’ kids were growing up, he was paying close attention to what was being taught to his kids in school. He knew who their teachers, principals, and administrators were. He went to the school board meetings. This is when he started learning about the graphic sexual material being taught in schools and saw how few parents were choosing to opt out of this teaching.

Listen in as Connie and Dr. Hughes discuss the Common Sexuality Education curriculum and how you as a Christian parent can respond. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/sexualization-of-americas-children

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The Importance of Family Traditions - 91 Dec 15, 2021

The holidays can be hectic. The plays, parties, and gatherings. The decorating, shopping, and wrapping. What do you do around the holidays that are unique and repeated traditions for your family? The importance of family traditions comes out over time in the building of strong family relationships and connectedness.

Family traditions are important to creating strong family relationships. Connie talks about the why and gives suggestions for how to create these traditions in this episode. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/importance-family-traditions

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When Mentors Replace Mothers - 90 Dec 08, 2021

Mentors are important and play a special role in our lives. Unfortunately, it is far too easy for mentors to replace mothers, or fathers, in a child's life. God has given parents a special calling and responsibility that mentors cannot replace in the life of a teen or young adult. What do you do when the mentor-mentee relationship lines have been blurred to the point that the mentee sees the mentor as an authority above the parent?

In this episode, Connie gives tips to both the mentor and the mother for how to handle this unforunate situation. Listen in and read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/mentors-replace-mothers

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How to Give Advice to Older Children - 89 Dec 01, 2021

Your older children are facing a world with so much chaos and conflicting information. If you're like me, you want them to know what you think. You want to protect them from failure or pain. But whether your older children are teens, college-aged, young adults, or older, there comes a point when you can't make them do or say the right thing. You can't force them to navigate a situation well. These older children are now adults, or close to being adults. It's a new season and you need to learn how to give advice to older children.

In this episode, Connie shares three tips for giving advice to your older children. Read the full show notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/advice-to-older-children/

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Teach the Principle Behind the Rules - 88 Nov 24, 2021

Do you have kids who say things like this: "Mom, you just don't understand. You're always on my back. You constantly criticize and tell me what I do wrong." I want you to know that there is a way to build a relationship with your kids while enforcing the rules of your household. The key is to teach the principle behind the rules.

Listen in to this episode as Connie gives insight on finding the principles behind the rules to build deeper relationships with your kids and reduce the push back you get from them. Read the full show notes with links here:

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Living with a Rebellious Child - 87 Nov 17, 2021

What should you do when you have a rebellious child? When your child pulls away from you? When your adult child is estranged from you? We don't openly talk about these kinds of struggles or share these heartbreaking experiences readily on social media. The picture of life can become blurry during these kinds of painful seasons, but there are things that you can do. Let's talk about the possibilities!

Listen in as Connie shares encouragement as well as some tips for navigating this heartbreak with rebellious children or estranged adult children. Read the full notes notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/living-with-a-rebellious-child/

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How to Build Sibling Relationships - 86 Nov 10, 2021

Tom and I did a lot over the years to cultivate close sibling relationships within our family. I hear frequently that this is an issue of importance and concern for you as you raise your kids. You want to build strong sibling relationships between your kids. So, what do you want to see for your relationship with your kids when they become adults? What do you want to see in the relationships between your children when they become adults? Let's talk about how you can build a strong foundation starting now to achieve that vision.

Listen in for Connie's specific tips and encouragement (Hint - trust is key!) Read the full show notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/build-sibling-relationships/

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Learn to Love Struggles and Trials - 85 Nov 03, 2021

How can you learn to love struggles and trials? We are conditioned to ignore and suppress struggles and trials in order to not appear weak or vulnerable. But, God can use struggles and trials to grow and change you if follow His leading.

Listen in as Connie shares how she's learned to learned to love struggles and trials and why you should too! Read the full show notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/love-struggles-and-trials

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Walking Wisely Through Seasons of Grief - 84 Oct 27, 2021

Grief is part of life. Death, loss, separation, trials, unmet needs, or unfulfilled expectations are a few things we find ourselves grieving over. How can you walk wisely through seasons of grief?

How we deal with grief can depend on our age, temperament, the ages of our children, faith or lack thereof, and the circumstances surrounding the situation. With all these factors to consider, walking through seasons of grief is a rather personal matter. How you process what you are feeling is unique to you.

Join Connie has she talks through how to wisely walk through seasons of grief. What will you do with grief? Will you let God refine you along the way? Read the full show notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/seasons-of-grief/

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How to Fight for Your Family: 3 Tips for Picking Your Battles - 83 Oct 20, 2021

There are so many different crises vying for your attention these day. As hard as you might try, you can do it all. You can't fight every battle at once. So, how do you pick the battle or battles that you will fight? How do you best fight for your family?

Connie shares 3 tips for determining on which battles to focus your limited time and attention to best fight for your family. Read the full show notes with links here:

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How to Successfully Raise a Strong-Willed Child - 82 Oct 13, 2021

Strong-willed children do not want to surrender; they want to have their way. Therefore, they often view your instructions as mere suggestions. If they win the argument or don’t have to do what you tell them to do, then they win. The problem is that doesn’t prepare them for life. You are the parent! So, how do you successfully raise a strong-willed child?

Listen into this episode for Connie's suggestions on raising strong-willed kids (or strong-minded future leaders)!

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https://conniealbers.com/successfully-raise-a-strong-willed-child/

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How to Create a Positive Digital Footprint - 81 Oct 06, 2021

Do you know how to create a positive digital footprint and why it matters to your child’s future?

Most of us know what we shouldn’t share online. We also know the sites we visit and that conversations aren’t private. But children don’t know this! Most children think what they do will vanish after a short time. The idea that every click and conversation is being archived or watched by big tech screeners is unfathomable to them.

Listen to Connie's tips for teaching your kids how to make wise clicks and create a positive digital footprint. Read the full show notes here:

https://conniealbers.com/positive-digital-footprint

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Raising Tech-Savvy Kids - 80 Sep 29, 2021

Parents are rightly concerned when it comes to technology. But unfortunately, devices are often the source of disagreements, threats, and angry outbursts in many families. Kids don't understand the dangers, and parents don't know how to navigate online usage. What do you need to know for raising tech-savvy kids?

In March of 2020, the number of hours children spent online drastically increased. Most kids didn't have a choice. They had to do school virtually, which meant more tech time. And because every activity was canceled, kids needed to "do" something because they couldn't go out the way they were accustomed to. At first, the shock of all the disruption parents found themselves letting their children spend way more time than they've ever allowed before. But now, parents are revisiting their children's digital usage.

Is technology bad? Is the Internet safe? The simple answer to both questions is no. Technology isn't bad; it's neutral. It only does what it's programmed to do. And the Internet isn't safe, but that doesn't mean we can't or shouldn't learn how to use the Internet wisely.

In this episode, we'll focus on two points every parent must consider so that they can raise tech-savvy children who know how to use these powerful tools skillfully.

Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-tech-savvy-kids/

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3 Ways to Honor Parents - 79 Sep 22, 2021

Does God want us to honor our parents? Or is that only for children?

The answer is yes! We need to honor our parents as we teach our children to honor us. The best way to teach your children to honor us is by example. When they see us honor our parents, they learn what honor means.

Listen in for 3 ways you can honor your parents and be a good example for your children! Read the full show notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/honor-parents/

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How to Keep School Kids from Being at Risk - 78 Sep 15, 2021

Are your school-aged kids at risk? How will this back-and-forth sort of schooling impact our kids? First, the back and forth disrupts children's rhythm and routine. They don't know what to expect when things change from day to day. Some children can roll with the ebbs and flows with great ease, but the disruption throws them off for other children. So what can you do as a parent to keep your kids from being at risk?

Listen in as I share simple practical ways to minimize the chances that your kids will be at risk in this season of disruption. Read the full show notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/school-kids-at-risk/

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3 Ways to Create Memorable Moments for Your Children - 77 Sep 08, 2021

Parents, you have the opportunity to shape and create memorable moments your children will think about for years. A few years ago, I read The Power of Moments by Chip Heath and Dan Heath. If you've read Parenting beyond the Rules, then you know I write about how we can create defining moments with our children. I was doing this when my children were young, which is why I enjoyed reading the book. It affirmed much of what I believed about memory-making. I knew childhood memories were important. I also knew most of my childhood memories were ones I did not want to remember. Actually, there are very few childhood memories I care to remember. That is why I became so passionate about creating memorable moments with my family.

Listen to this episode and learn about 3 ways you can create memorable moments for your kids! Read the full show notes here:

https://conniealbers.com/create-memorable-moments/

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Importance of Playtime for Children - 76 Sep 01, 2021

You can learn so much about your children from playtime. Playtime for children can be more revealing about who they are than talking or even watching them in a vocation as they get older.

When there is no test to pass, no educator to please, God-given strengths can flourish through playtime. So as parents, it's important to remember not to confuse an interest that your child has in something with a strength that remains through life.

Helping children pursue interests is not about pushing them to be their best at something or jumping into something you think is a natural fit for them.

The best way to lead your children in the process of discovery is through observation.

When you pay attention to the interest of your child, their strengths start to emerge. So ask questions, listen, and watch what they wonder about. Children are full of surprises.

Listen in and read the full show notes with links here:

https://conniealbers.com/playtime-for-children/

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Your Kids Are Watching You - 75 Aug 25, 2021

You know that your kids are watching you, right? They are watching and learning from you how to communicate from the time they are little and well past the teen years into young adulthood.

Last week we finished up the series Knowing Your Strengths. We spent four episodes talking about what strengths are, how to discover your strengths, understanding your strengths, and how to use your strengths. You can listen to that conversation in episodes 71, 73, 73, and 74. That series then made me think a little more about how strengths tie into my life now and a recent situation. I needed to talk with one of my daughters and we needed to be able to speak face to face, eye to eye. So I sent a text to set up the meeting.

Listen to the story of that conversation and how strengths can help you be set a solid foundation for relationships with your kids and communicating well. Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/your-kids-are-watching-you/

Knowing Your Strengths Part 4 - 74 Aug 18, 2021

Why does knowing your strengths, talents, and the domain order matter?

If you missed episodes #71, #72, or #73, go back and listen to those first before jumping into this episode.

In this episode we dive into three reasons why you should utilize the Talent Theme Domains.

Read the full show notes: https://conniealbers.com/knowing-your-strengths-part-4/

How to Transition from School to Homeschool - 23 Aug 11, 2021

Where is your child going to school? Will it be public, private, or homeschool? You aren't alone. Millions of parents are making hard decisions back-to-school plans. Are you struggling with the transition from school to homeschool? In this episode, I share what I've learned from being in the education field for thirty years. If homeschool is your choice, this episode is for you!

Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/transition-from-school-to-homeschool/

Knowing Your Strengths Part 3 - 73 Aug 04, 2021

Knowing your strengths and your child’s strengths can bring great clarity to you and your child so that everyone can see the masterpiece God designed them to be. While many personality assessments are available, few have the research behind them that StrengthsFinder does. That is based on the work of Donald O. Clifton. The researchers at the Gallup Organization have spent over five decades developing CliftonStrengths. If you missed episodes #71 and #72, go back and listen to them. I explain strengths in greater detail.

Now back to knowing your strengths. You must first understand that all of the 34 talents are good. That’s right! There are no bad ones. Certain strengths aren’t better than others, so dispel that thought now. My goal as a Strengths Practitioner is to help you come to a place of peace, knowing God made you who you are and reminding you that you can’t be excellent at everything! I know many people want to be excellent at everything, but the truth is you can excel at a few things. It’s essential to understand that from the get-go.

Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/knowing-your-strengths-part-3/

Knowing Your Strengths Part 2 - 72 Jul 28, 2021

Do you know your strengths? Have you spent time trying to discover what you are uniquely designed for? Do you know why you do what you do? Do you know why you think, feel, and behave in a certain way?

In this episode, I will go deeper into the world of strengths and how knowing your strengths can help you understand yourself and others with great clarity.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/knowing-your-strengths-part-2/

Knowing Your Strengths Part 1 - 71 Jul 21, 2021

Do you know your strengths? Are you like most people who spend a good deal of time trying to strengthen your weaknesses? Do you dwell on what you aren't particularly good at doing?

Chances are you do. Most people do.

While that might make you feel better knowing other people struggle the way you do, that will not help you in the long run. It can't! Not if you want to become the person God created you to be and run the race with excellence.

Dwelling on weaknesses is counterproductive. What's the alternative?

To know your strengths and learn how to develop them properly so you will gain more confidence to engage with the world around you.

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/knowing-your-strengths-part-1/

The 4-Hour School Day with Durenda Wilson - 70 Jul 14, 2021

When I began homeschooling in the early '90s, most people didn't know it was legal or if it was possible. Parents had a lot to prove to society, especially since professional educators had convinced parents that only qualified "teachers" were fit to educate children.

Well, we worked hard to prove that parents could educate their children thereby disproving their decades-long messaging. It was a tactic used to make parents doubt their ability to educate their children. After thirty years of shaping a movement, parents are still told they don't have what it takes to teach their children. Something I find hard to imagine. Thankfully, millions of parents don't buy into that argument anymore.

In this episode, Durenda Wilson, author of The 4-Hour School Day, shares what she has learned along the way. We debunk myths surrounding homeschooling and discuss the positive elements of children learning at home. Our goal is for you to have a positive attitude towards parenting and motherhood.

Listen to our conversation and read the detailed show notes with resource links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-4-hour-school-day/

Praying Mom with Brooke McGlothlin - 69 Jul 07, 2021

Do you know you should be praying for your kids but don't know how? Or do you wait to pray when life is difficult? I have. Do you want to be a praying mom? So why don't we pray continually?

Join Brooke and me for a conversation about her new book "Praying Mom: Making Prayer Your First and Best Response to Motherhood."

Listen in to this conversation and read the detailed show notes with resource links at https://conniealbers.com/praying-mom/

Goal Setting Can Lead to Greater Fulfillment - 68 Jun 30, 2021

Are you a fan of goal setting? Do goals matter? They should because God has an assignment for you to complete! It's one only you can fulfill if you are willing to accept it.

People often ask me how I know what goals I'm supposed to set. That's not always easy to know at first, so I start by paying attention to what God is leading me to do.

Another common question is how to make them achievable? To make a goal achievable isn't the goal - not really. The goal is to help you get moving in a specific direction.

Listen Connie's process and full thoughts in this episode and get the written details in the show notes: https://conniealbers.com/goal-setting/

When to Step Away or Push Through - 67 Jun 23, 2021

Have you been torn between deciding when to step away or push through a difficult situation? Sure you have. We all have. Making tough decisions is part of life.

Life decisions aren't easy for most of us to make. It takes time to wrestle with the possible outcomes! I call them the "What if scenarios."

Well, what if I told you there is freedom in the pivot. You heard me! Freedom comes after you decide to pivot. That freedom is something you need to consider.

In this episode, I'll share three keys that will help you with the decision-making process!

Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/step-away-or-push-through/

Run Your Race with Confidence - 66 Jun 16, 2021

Are you running your race with confidence or looking around at what others are doing? Do you know why running your race is important? Do you find yourself looking at others and trying to imitate them?

How you run your race depends on your season of life. A twenty-something runs differently than someone in their forties or sixties. Why? Life experience, the demands of children, and physical health. It is wise to accept the realization that your race will change as you age. God designed it this way.

Every runner knows the speed at the beginning of their race will get slower the further they run. It's natural to slow down. This is true of you. It is true of me. Understanding this reality early in life will profoundly impact how far you can go later in life.

But running your race with confidence requires you to consider a couple of truths. You can't run your race if you are in someone else's lane. And you have to know what race you are running. Life is not a sprint; it's a marathon. Sure there are times one needs to sprint, but the amount of energy it takes to sprint can't last long. Our bodies are designed to run a marathon at a sprint pace.

Listen to this episode to hear more about how to run your race with confidence and read all of the points in the show notes: https://conniealbers.com/run-your-race-with-confidence/

You Can Overcome the Character Crisis - 65 Jun 09, 2021

Do you see what I'm seeing? Parents and leaders across the country are noticing the character crisis permeating our communities. Lying, marginalizing, undermining, spreading partial truths all seem okay now. Are they? Not according to God's standards!

The character crisis we see on display doesn't mean we should partake. Actually, we need to do just the opposite. We need to be more diligent in living a life of integrity. The ends don't justify the means. Never have, never will.

As a believer, our behavior should be a reflection of what we know to be true. God puts a great emphasis on character.

When we choose to live a life pleasing to God, we don't need to lie, practice shady business deals, tell falsehoods about others.

Listen to this episode and read the full show notes with Connie's tips and points to ponder: https://conniealbers.com/character-crisis/

Candid Interview with Larry Loftis, author and NYT Bestselling Espionage Author, Part II - 64 Jun 02, 2021

We are back in the studio of Equipped To Be for part II of my interview with international bestselling author Larry Loftis. We begin this episode with how I met Mr. Loftis through a mutual friend.

During this part of the conversation, I share an untold story of how his advice positively impacted my journey to becoming a first-time author with a well-known publishing house. While writing Parenting Beyond the Rules: Raising Teens with Confidence and Joy, Mr. Loftis provided sage advice that helped me navigate the publishing world with increased confidence.

In the next segment, we change the topic back to Mr. Loftis. He began his writing career early in life by publishing numerous scholarly legal articles in university law reviews and professional bar journals. His desire for excellence drove him to author several business books, which he found dry and boring. When the housing market collapsed in 2008, he decided to take some time off to figure out what he was passionate about and interested in.

Listen in for the whole story and read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/interview-with-larry-loftis-part-ii/

About Larry Loftis

Larry Loftis is the New York Times and international bestselling author of the nonfiction spy thrillers CODE NAME: LISE: The True Story of the Woman Who Became WWII's Most Highly Decorated Spy and Into the Lion's Mouth: The True Story of Dusko Popov—World War II Spy, Patriot, and the Real-Life Inspiration for James Bond. His third nonfiction thriller, The Princess Spy: The True Story of World War II Spy Aline Griffith, Countess of Romanones, is now out and was an instant New York Times bestseller. His books have been translated into multiple languages around the world, including Dutch, Portuguese, Chinese, Czech, and Serbian.

Prior to becoming a full-time writer, Mr. Loftis was a corporate attorney, publishing scholarly legal articles in the University of Florida Law Review, Suffolk Transnational Law Journal, Georgia Journal of International and Comparative Law, Florida Bar Journal, National Law Journal, and Florida Banking. He also has served as a Teaching Fellow at the University of Florida Law School, where he taught writing and appellate advocacy. He received his B.A. and J.D. from the University of Florida, where he served on the Law Review as Senior Executive Editor and Senior Articles Editor.

Candid Interview with Larry Loftis, author and NYT Bestselling Espionage Author, Part I - 63 May 26, 2021

The odds of becoming a published author are low, but becoming a bestselling author is extremely difficult. Larry Loftis not only beat the odds, but he has also hit the NYT bestseller list multiple times. He is a highly acclaimed nonfiction thriller author who specializes in writing about WWII espionage.

Mr. Loftis joins me for a candid interview to discuss how he did beat the odds and the lessons he learned along the way.

Read more of our conversation and get links to the resources discussed in the full show notes: https://conniealbers.com/interview-with-larry-loftis/

About Larry Loftis

Larry Loftis is the New York Times and international bestselling author of the nonfiction spy thrillers CODE NAME: LISE: The True Story of the Woman Who Became WWII's Most Highly Decorated Spy and Into the Lion's Mouth: The True Story of Dusko Popov—World War II Spy, Patriot, and the Real-Life Inspiration for James Bond. His third nonfiction thriller, The Princess Spy: The True Story of World War II Spy Aline Griffith, Countess of Romanones, is now out and was an instant New York Times bestseller. His books have been translated into multiple languages around the world, including Dutch, Portuguese, Chinese, Czech, and Serbian.

Prior to becoming a full-time writer, Mr. Loftis was a corporate attorney, publishing scholarly legal articles in the University of Florida Law Review, Suffolk Transnational Law Journal, Georgia Journal of International and Comparative Law, Florida Bar Journal, National Law Journal, and Florida Banking. He also has served as a Teaching Fellow at the University of Florida Law School, where he taught writing and appellate advocacy. He received his B.A. and J.D. from the University of Florida, where he served on the Law Review as Senior Executive Editor and Senior Articles Editor.

God Can Heal Your Marriage with Jill Savage - 62 May 19, 2021

Marriage can be messy and far from normal. But what can we learn about loving our spouse when they don't love us back? How do we trust God to work in us when hope seems lost? Can God heal your marriage?

God has not called us to be normal because normal doesn't exist. Not in life or our marriage. When we let go of our expectations and trust God, we have peace knowing He can repair the broken and redeem what was lost.

Jill Savage, author, speaker, and podcaster, joins me for an honest conversation about life and marriage when anything but normal.

Read the points we cover and get links to the resources we discussed in the show notes: https://conniealbers.com/heal-your-marriage/

About Jill Savage

Jill Savage is an author and speaker who is passionate about relationships.

Founding Hearts at Home, a national organization that served moms for 24 years, Jill now speaks to thousands of men and women each year about their priorities, passions, and purpose. She has been called one of today’s most exciting female speakers. Her honest, engaging communication is strengthened by her ability to make her audience laugh while they learn.

Jill is the No More Perfect Podcast host and the author of fourteen books, including Empty Nest, Full Life, Real Moms, Real Jesus, the best-selling No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Kids, Better Together, and No More Perfect Marriages. Jill and her husband, Mark, live in Illinois and have five children and eight grandchildren.

How to Cultivate Curiosity with Cheryl Bastian - 61 May 12, 2021

We enter life curious. We wonder about the world around us, but as the years unfold that natural curiosity for life and learning can fade. So, how can we cultivate curiosity in our children?

In this episode, Connie talks with Cheryl Bastian about how to cultivate curiosity in our children.

Read the full show notes and get the links to references here: https://conniealbers.com/cultivate-curiosity/

About Cheryl Bastian

Cheryl’s home education journey spans twenty-seven years with eight children, ages thirty-one to five. Her vast experiences allow her to journey alongside families at many stages of learning. As an author and speaker, Cheryl encourages parents to be intentional, real, and relational as they raise life-long learners. Her resources are available at www.cherylbastian.com.

Little Faith, Big God with Debbie W. Wilson - 60 May 05, 2021

Do you ever feel like you don't have enough faith to do what God asks you to do? Or that God isn't big enough to help you? If you answered yes to either question, you're not alone. Even Abraham and Noah also struggled when God gave them instructions!

We need to remember that it's not about having faith in ourselves. God isn't interested in the amount of faith we have when we start, but it is the faith we place in God that matters. Faith in ourselves doesn't impress the Lord.

Throughout scripture, God commends people who obeyed Him despite their lack of faith. We start our race, and as we obey, our faith in God grows.

Read the full shows notes of Connie's conversation with Debbie W. Wilson and get links to the resources mentioned in this episode: https://conniealbers.com/big-god/

About Debbie W. Wilson

Drawing from her personal walk with Christ, 24 years as a Christian counselor, and decades as a Bible teacher, Debbie W. Wilson helps people—especially overachievers—give themselves a break and live in God’s grace so they can enjoy fruitful and fulfilling lives.

She is the author of and Little Faith, Big God. She and her husband Larry founded Lighthouse Ministries, a nonprofit ministry offering counseling, life and relationship coaching, and Bible studies. She is an Advanced Writers and Speakers Association certified speaking and writing coach. Her ministry assignments have taken her across the USA and overseas. Debbie enjoys exploring new places, reading a good mystery, eating dark chocolate, and laughing at the antics of her two standard poodles.

Make Homeschooling Easy with Lea Ann Garfias - 59 Apr 28, 2021

Is it possible to make homeschooling easy? Homeschooling is too hard! Where do I start? I could never do that! Are common questions parents ask when considering if they should homeschool their children.

I frequently thought, "I'm not qualified to teach my kids. I don't have a teaching degree. I don't know phonics or Physics." The cool part is I didn't need any of those to homeschool. I needed the Lord to lead me, a willing heart, a desire to figure it, and the resolve to stick with it. And, my friend, that's what you need too! You don't have to have a degree to teach you children either.

Homeschoolers have a proven track record of successfully homeschooling their children.

Read more in the full show notes: https://conniealbers.com/make-homeschooling-easy/

About Lee Ann Garfias

Lea Ann Garfias is a homeschool graduate, a homeschooling mother of six, and the author of four books, including three on homeschooling. She and her husband, David, live in Dallas, Texas. Besides "author," she holds the titles of "professional violinist," "French-press owner," and "friend."

Don't Let School Drive Out Your Child's Creativity with Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang Part II - 58 Apr 21, 2021

Is school driving out your child's creativity? Is a formal degree the only way to a fulling or financially rewarding career? Is your child's degree making your child unhirable?

After fifteen years of teaching college students, Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang quit her job as a professor.

Kids are taught they need a college education to enjoy a fulling or financially rewarding life. But that isn't true! Dr. Ai believes we might be doing a disservice to our kids by telling them college is the only way to succeed or that college education might be making them unhirable in the real world.

Today's kids need permission to do everything. Kids are so afraid of making a mistake or not getting an "A" that don't try! They don't know how to think on their own. Our current educational system is driving the creativity, innovation, and curiosity out of our children. And we need to change that.

Tune into my conversation with Dr. Ai we discuss the loss of child creativity.

Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/school-child-creativity/

About Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang

Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang is an educator and an entrepreneur. She received her MA and Ph.D. in Communication from Syracuse University and the University of Maryland. Ai is the founder of Classroom Without Walls, an alternative school to future-proof the next generation. Ai is also an Adobe Insider, Adobe Education Leader, and HubSpot Academy Instructor. Dr. Ai’s work has been featured in Forbes, Inside Higher Education, Pearson Education, Entrepreneur, The Today Show, & others. Additionally, Dr. Ai hosts two weekly live streaming shows, where she interviews industry leaders in Business and Education, such as Seth Godin and Guy Kawasaki. Dr. Ai additionally serves as a SEMrush Webinar guest and host. Dr. Ai frequently speaks at academic and industry conferences, including Inbound, VidCon, SEMrush Global Marketing Day, Social Media Day, Social Media Week Lima (the largest social media marketing conference in the midwest), and others.

What Parents Can Do About The Broken Education System with Ai Addyson-Zhang Part 1 - 57 Apr 14, 2021

Parents know the public educational system is broken, but most don't know what they can do about it. Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang was a college professor for over a decade and knew first hand what's happening in the classroom and why she walked away from her teaching job to pursue something better. What can you do about the broken education system?

In this episode, we discuss why the system is broken, and practical things parents need to know so their child can obtain a superior education that focuses on learning, not test-taking.

About Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang

Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang is an educator and an entrepreneur. She received her MA and Ph.D. in Communication from Syracuse University and the University of Maryland. Ai is the founder of Classroom Without Walls, an alternative school to future-proof the next generation. Ai is also an Adobe Insider, Adobe Education Leader, and HubSpot Academy Instructor. Dr. Ai’s work has been featured in Forbes, Inside Higher Education, Pearson Education, Entrepreneur, The Today Show, & others. Additionally, Dr. Ai hosts two weekly live streaming shows, where she interviews industry leaders in Business and Education, such as Seth Godin and Guy Kawasaki. Dr. Ai additionally serves as a SEMrush Webinar guest and host. Dr. Ai frequently speaks at academic and industry conferences, including Inbound, VidCon, SEMrush Global Marketing Day, Social Media Day, Social Media Week Lima (the largest social media marketing conference in the midwest), and others.

Biblical Citizenship in Modern America with Rick Green - 56 Apr 07, 2021

Biblical Citizenship is grounded in faith and encourages Americans to embrace their freedoms. America is changing. What part do you play? Rick Green joins me to talk about Biblical Citizenship and how we can protect the freedoms we've enjoyed for centuries.

https://conniealbers.com/biblical-citizenship/

About Rick Green

Rick Green is a former Texas State Representative, national speaker, author, and radio host. He is America’s Constitution Coach. He and his family travel the nation speaking on America’s forgotten history and heroes, emphasizing our moral, religious and constitutional heritage. Rick and David Barton co-host the national daily radio program, WallBuilders Live! He is the author and executive producer of Constitution Alive, America’s most engaging and entertaining study of the U.S. Constitution.

Rick and his wife, Kara, founded Patriot Academy, an elite leadership training program specializing in applied civics with a Biblical, historical, and Constitutional Foundation. Through their Constitution Coach program, they are training and empowering adults across the nation to educate their communities about the Constitution.

Rick and Kara have 4 older kids and two grandchildren. They have homeschooled for 18 years.

Is Self-Protection Hurting Your Faith and Friendships? - 55 Mar 31, 2021

Self-protection isn't new. People disappoint us, so we put up walls. God doesn't answer our prayer, so we stop praying. We deal with pain and suffering by self-protecting. It feels safer. But, is it how Jesus handled pain and suffering? Did he avoid people who hurt him? No. Then maybe we should live by his example.

A friend recently shared something about self-protection from the book 40-Days to Decrease by Alicia Britt Chole. Her text was so good that I had to pull my copy off the shelf and read more.

I found myself wondering if I'm guilty of self-protection. Sadly, I am. Most of us are. I think the longer we live, the more pain and suffering we'll experience, but we have a choice. Put up walls or let our light shine by being different.

In this episode, I share some reasons people self-protect, what God's taught me about not using self-protection to keep others at a distance, and why we should follow Jesus's example.

Read the full show notes and see all the links here.

A Conversation about Love-Centered Parenting with Crystal Paine - 54 Mar 24, 2021

With all the parenting books available, what makes Love-Centered Parenting, by Crystal Paine, unique? Like many books, where the authors focus on results-based parenting. Love-Centered Parenting has a different approach.

To many, Crystal Paine had it all together - a happy marriage, a successful business, a vibrant faith, and national selling books as the Money Saving Mom®. But one day, her world turned upside down.

The crisis she and her family faced was the being of a transformational process in her parenting. Before she could make changes, God had to change her from the inside out. It was through this painful process that she discovered a new way to parent her children.

In this episode, Chrystal shares her raw story of transformation and what lead to Love-Centered Parenting. This honest conversation about God's love, her transformation, and how her parenting has changed.

About Crystal Paine

Crystal Paine is the founder of MoneySavingMom.com, host of “The Crystal Paine Show” podcast, New York Times bestselling author of Say Goodbye to Survival Mode, and author of Money-Making Mom. Her desire is to help women across the globe live with more joy, purpose, and intention in their everyday lives. She lives with her husband and kids in the Nashville, Tennessee area, where she is actively involved in her local church. Her biggest passions are helping women understand how the Gospel can radically transform their lives, raising awareness for foster care, going on adventures with her family (locally, domestically, and internationally), finding great deals at the grocery store, heartfelt conversations, and trying to read too many books at one time!

In Love-Centered Parenting, Paine gives examples of how she’s learned to listen to her children, sit and be present, ask meaningful questions, and not pass judgment. In addition to hard-won lessons, major changes, and a radically different parenting approach, Paine also provides practical, tangible resources for parents.

Get all the details, resources, and links in the full show notes for this episode.

Stop Giving People Headspace - 53 Mar 17, 2021

Do the words of others linger in your mind? You can hear them play over and over again. You want to erase their words, but you can't get them out of your head. It's because we've given people headspace. It's like giving free rent in my head to others, and it has to stop.

Most people can remember a time when someone said something they couldn't let go of:

You're a jerk!
You're no good at that!
You should give it up and try something else!

Those become haunting words that trigger emotions and attitudes, causing us to alter our behavior.

Read the full show notes here.

The Future of Homeschooling with Ashley Wiggers Part 2- 52 Mar 10, 2021

What is the future of homeschooling? The future looks bright!

While homeschooling and at-home learning surged due to school closures, parents are considering continuing this educational method in the future. The freedom and flexibility that comes with learning at home are among the many reasons parents list.

Although parents had little time to figure out how to pivot to at-home learning, parents overcame many obstacles thanks to the vast support they found online. Bloggers, vloggers, online classes, and social media platforms offering a litany of support that most parents didn't know existed until now.

Ashley Wiggers is back to talk with me about the future of homeschooling.

About Ashley Wiggers

Ashley Wiggers speaks at homeschool seminars, serves as Public Relations Director for GeoMatters, and is the author of the Profiles from History series. She also joins Homeschooling Today magazine as a co-executive editor and writes the column, Lessons My Mother Taught Me.

Ashley grew up in the early days of the homeschooling movement. She was taught by her parents, Greg and Debbie Strayer, who are authors of numerous homeschooling materials and were part of the founding group of Homeschooling Today magazine back in 1992. As a homeschool graduate, Ashley has a deep appreciation for the opportunity to homeschool and the need for encouragement and support of homeschooling families.

Tips for Running a Business and Homeschooling with Ashley Wiggers Part 1 - ETB #51 Mar 03, 2021

Are you among millions of parents trying to run a business and homeschooling your children? You're not alone. Millions of parents are faced with the tension that comes with juggling deadlines, making sure the kids are doing school, planning meals, and spending hours in the kitchen.

Whether you're working a few hours or full-time, the challenge to fit it all in is real. The guilt and frustration from day-to-day can leave you discouraged and worn out.

Running a Business and Homeschooling

Today, Ashley Wiggers is joining me on the podcast. She is a second-generation homeschool graduate whose parents were pioneers in the homeschool movement. Greg and Debbie Strayer were respected leaders, mentors, speakers, authors, and magazine owners/editors. Ashley grew-up watching them juggle the demands of running a business and homeschooling.

Read the full show notes with Ashley's tips here.

About Ashley Wiggers

Ashley Wiggers speaks at homeschool seminars, serves as Public Relations Director for GeoMatters, and is the author of the Profiles from History series. She also joins Homeschooling Today magazine as a co-executive editor and writes the column, Lessons My Mother Taught Me.

Ashley grew up in the early days of the homeschooling movement. She was taught by her parents, Greg and Debbie Strayer, who are authors of numerous homeschooling materials and were part of the founding group of Homeschooling Today magazine back in 1992. As a homeschool graduate, Ashley has a deep appreciation for the opportunity to homeschool and the need for encouragement and support of homeschooling families.

Generational Living: How to Make it Work - 50 Feb 24, 2021

Generational living is a way of life that is back in vogue. Have you thought about it? It's when multiple generations live under one roof. It can be by choice or because circumstances require this lifestyle. Either way making generational living work for your family requires prayer and careful consideration.

Doing life together has its pros and cons. This episode provides you with specific points for you to pray about and ways to make it work.

Tom and I talked about generational living when our children were younger. We wanted to help take care of our parents when they needed assistance and help our children get through college without incurring debt or getting loans. That was a big goal and one we took seriously. The more we thought about this way of life, the more generational living appealed to us. Other countries practice this lifestyle with success, but for many years Americans shunned the idea.

When I was a guest on a financial podcast being interviewed on how we put five kids through college debt-free, the host was shocked when I mentioned our children lived at home during their college years. The conversation quickly turned to adult children living at home and the wisdom of that decision. There was a concern that it was not a good idea because it keeps the child from learning how to navigate adulthood.

Fast forward to 2020, multiple generations living together became not a strange concept but a way of getting through a pandemic. No longer are our adult children being put down for failure to launch. The opposite is true. Now American families realize the value of this lifestyle or the necessity of this way of life.

Generational living, while it is beneficial, does take planning and communication.

Read the full show notes here as you consider generational living for your family.

Foster Respect Between You and Your Teen - 49 Feb 17, 2021

Fostering a foundation of respect between you and your teen requires time and intentionality. The good news is that your investment now pays off in the long run as you show your child respect.

Respecting each other is not just good idea to help your relationship grow stronger, but God requires that we show respect. In I Peter 2:17 (NIV) the Bible says, "Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor."

Read the full show notes and more about Connie's tips for fostering respect between you and your teen here.

Launching Your Child AND Maintaining Relationships - 48 Feb 10, 2021

Launching your child brings a host of emotions. For most parents, it's a bittersweet experience. Feelings of loss, fear, excitement, and satisfaction are some of the more common emotions parents have to work through. But launching your child doesn't mean the end of your relationship or influence.

Like most parents, I remember the day we launched our first child. He was eager to begin a new season of life. Starting a new chapter is both exhilarating and scary for a young adult. Tom and I were excited for him, but we were a little sad because it meant our lives were changing too.

I've learned the experience of launching a child isn't the same for every child. We were a little more nervous with some than others. Temperament, readiness, and security were on our minds.

Recently, we launched our fifth child...

Read the full show notes with Connie's tips for launching your child here.

How To Teach Children Well - 47 Feb 03, 2021

People often ask me how did I teach my children. I love when I get the opportunity to share how we homeschooled our kids. But what I love even more is helping parents teach their children! Let's talk about how to teach children well!

Parents have been led to believe that one needs a degree or some special training to be a good teacher. I wrestled with feeling like I didn't have what it takes to be a teacher for many years. I had neither an education degree nor special training. What I did have was a desire to provide an excellent education for my children. But that didn't mean there weren't times I felt inadequate for the job. Honestly, I've never met a parent who didn't question themselves from time to time. The truth is education isn't a mystery.

In today's episode, I'll unpack three key strategies that will help you teach your children.

Read the full show notes here.

How to Move Forward with New Leadership - 46 Jan 27, 2021

Do you feel like 2021 started rough? Does it feel overwhelming? Are you unsure of how to move forward with new leadership? Or are you eager to see God work in your family?

People are passionate about what they believe. And when power shifts from one party to another people become uncertain. Where ever you find yourself, I encourage you to look for ways to move forward with new leadership by exploring the possibilities before you.

Life is full of change. Who occupies leadership positions does not have to limit us in pursuing truth or the path set before you.

In this episode, I will discuss what you can do when new leadership comes into power.

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