Enneagram and Marriage

Latest Episodes:

The 3-9 Glow with Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD and Drama-Free Marriage May 03, 2021

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Want both a drama-free marriage and the opportunity to work on conflict? Join the posh peacemaker Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD of the world renowned @mylovethinks as she takes us through this fascinating idea, sharing not only the depths and rhythms of her 3-9 Enneagram Glow pairing but also the ways she's learned to walk with patience each season, and with as little drama as possible. Dr. Morgan and Christa talk about the early years, mid point, and the best long game strategy for your pairing, too!

Find Dr. Morgan at www.mylovethinks.com

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Managing Couples Conflict Through the Lens of Harmonic Groups with the 1-5 Glow, Brittany of Enneagram Explained Apr 26, 2021

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Dealing with conflict in marriage takes a certain amount of wisdom, patience, and love. Enneagram coach Brittany Thomas of one of the biggest Enneagram accounts, Enneagram Explained, takes us on the journey to find just that as she explains not only her 1-5 pairing Glow, Classically Brilliant, but also through the lens of the harmonic groups. Learn about the blind spots and strengths of those in the competency group (1, 3, 5), the reactive group (4, 6, 8), and the positive outlook group (2, 7, 9) as well.

Find Brittany's website at www.enneagramexplained.com

Find Brittany's IG @https://www.instagram.com/enneagramexplained/

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Finding Your Marriage Balance Together with Robby, Enneagram 7 and Morgan, 1 of The Maxey Co Apr 19, 2021

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In this coffee and chat episode with the Maxey Co, Christa chats with Robby, 7sp and Morgan 1sp, to see how subtypes and gender cast a somewhat culturally different glow with a male 7 and female 1 in the mix. Learn exactly how the goodness of a body type can both ground and bring safety to a head type, while the head type brings self-compassionate and bigger dreams to the table. This couple is committed to bringing light and fun, yet vivid vulnerability as to what’s still in process, glowing and growing with grace.

Follow Morgan + Robby @ The Maxey Co:

https://themaxeyco.com/

Find Morgan + Robby on IG!:

https://www.instagram.com/themaxeyco/?hl=en

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Coping with Pregnancy & Child Loss in Marriage with 2-9 Enneagram Pairing Dave and Laura Diehl Apr 12, 2021

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Child loss is something no one can prepare for fully nor can we full recover. However, support is not only possible but vital and this episode is full of just that for those who have walked this journey, as well as those supporting friends and family through it. Christa interviews Dave and Laura, the 2-9 Loving Hospitality Pairing, as they share the process of walking through their own loss and through their worldwide grief ministry GPS Hope, share specific tools and strategies to other families with loss.

To visit this 2-9 pairing's awesome grief ministry visit:

https://www.gpshope.org/gps-hope/

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Using the So, Sx, and Sp Instincts for Personal & Relationship Growth Apr 05, 2021

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When you're stressed, you either go within, find a friend or spouse to chat with, or you aim to get social support with your favorite crew! In relationships, sometimes our favorite ways of surviving don't exactly appeal to our partners. What's more, often we sabotage ourselves by isolating one or two of the ways to survive and completely repressing the other. Join Christa in finding ways to soften your dominant instinct, to enliven your repressed one, and to join your spouse in balancing the best of it all!

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Healing Trauma in Marriage with Glenda Reagan, MA, LMHC, Enneagram 2 (2-5 Marriage) Mar 29, 2021

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Often in marriage, we bring our childhood wounds to the table in a way that carries on cycles, hurts our partners, and us too. Many times however, especially as we learn our Enneagram types, marriage can become a safe harbor for us to learn healthy vulnerability and attachment together. Join Christa in a talk with trauma expert Glenda Reagan who will help you find ways to grow close and to heal together and individually! Glenda also discusses her 2-5 Marriage Pairing!

www.emdria.org

https://app.trueself.io/landing

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Creating Healthy Sexual Intimacy Together with Sheila Wray Gregoire, Enneagram 8 Mar 22, 2021

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Have you wondered why sex is so often out of sync? Why it's often only pleasurable for one, or why there's so much emotional and physical pain in this supposedly wonderful area for many couples? Join Christa in interviewing Sheila Wray Gregoire, author of the new and vitally important book, "The Great Sex Rescue: The Lies You've Been Taught And How to Uncover What God Intended." As an Enneagram 8, Sheila has been championing this important topic with courage and tenacity and helps couples trade in misguided sex narratives for truly intimate and passionate times together.

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Cutting into Real Marriage Issues with Seth and Melanie Studley of Anatomy of Marriage, 9-7w8 Glow Mar 15, 2021

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Marriage issues cut deep to the heart and yet often it's uncomfortable to reveal ourselves at our vulnerable levels. Seth Studley, MA, LMFT and Melanie Studley, husband and wife and podcast hosts of the popular Anatomy of Marriage do NOT hold back as they admit to experiencing the rough edges of real marriage and how they've grown since finding the Enneagram. Join us as we talk about Melanie's 8 wing almost taking over as Seth as a 9 fell asleep, and hear how the Enneagram has been offering even a trained therapist and his family a chance to wake up to the possibilities of who they can become as they grow - and glow - together!

Find Seth and Melanie for podcast, community, and coaching here @

www.AnatomyofMarriage.com

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Raising a Strong and Joyful Family With Daniel and Christina Im, 3-3 Glow Mar 08, 2021

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When you're raising a family, how do you bring your personality type and subtypes in for the best form in family? Perhaps just as importantly, how do you block the worst of your pairing from showing up as well? Join Christa with husband-and-wife power couple Daniel and Christina Im, co-hosts of the popular Im Between Podcast to find out. This double heart, assertive 3-3 pairing share about their life lessons as a truly dynamic duo, ultimately called to a narrative of true joy and strength they never could have imagined on their own. Daniel and Christina's Enneagram gifts freebie https://imbetween.org/printables/ Find Daniel and Christina's website @ www.imbetween.org, Instagram https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshow/ Their Fb community https://www.facebook.com/watch/imbetweenshow/ and Daniel's new book https://www.amazon.com/dp/B083TD9CR5/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here

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The Enneagram and Newlywed Tips Type by Type Mar 01, 2021

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Are you engaged, planning a wedding, or in the first few years of marriage? Have you been married for awhile but you're struggling to remember the "musts" of marriage? Join Christa (and late in the episode, a surprise guest!) in this fun and all-inclusive episode that goes into marriage "do's and don'ts," the "Big 3" areas (sex, finances, and communication), and of course, type by type tips for you as well!

Episode Rersources

Premarital book:

https://www.amazon.com/Saving-Your-Marriage-Before-Starts/dp/0310259827

Money tips: https://www.rachelcruze.com

Tip for 5's on giving:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/vitality/201404/the-neuroscience-giving

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