Enneagram and Marriage

Latest Episodes:

Life and Marriage with an Enneagram 6, Heather Richmond Mar 15, 2023

Show notes

Join us for a cup of matcha and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type as well who has been journeying for awhile, too. Today we are interviewing singer, dietician, momma, and wife, Heather Richmond, Enneagram Type 6 on all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a 6!

Specifically, you will hear about:

Marriage and family with a 6

The Compliant/Dependent Stance (and the Counterphobic side of a 6 also!)

Present Orientation of a 6 from a 6

What a 6 appreciates in marriage

When a 6 is spinning with anxiety and self-doubt

And more!

Grab the Deep Dive on Type 6 Here!

Visit Heather's page >> here

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A Powerful Conflict Tool w/Psychologist Dr. Wyatt Fisher, PsyD Mar 13, 2023

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Psychologist Dr. Wyatt has an important mission: to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time and today on the Enneagram and Marriage podcast, he does just that. As one of the leading marriage and relationships podcasters, today we are in for a treat as he vulnerably shares not only from an objective clinical lens but from a visceral empathy from his own marriage trauma healing over seasons as well. As we study conflict together all month, this episode gives you a very practical look at shaping your marriage healthily through one of Dr. Wyatt's nine tools - the five-minute, small but mighty "Bullseye" tool so you can get moving in a healthy direction right away!

Show links:

Find Dr. Wyatt Fisher's clinical marriage podcast here, and more about his practice, app, and website >> here

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Life and Marriage with an Enneagram 7, Alaina Pompa Mar 08, 2023

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In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type as well who has been journeying for awhile, too. Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing artist and illustrator, Alaina Pompa, Enneagram Type 7 of Ray of Light (the artist behind our glow guides and planner!) all about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a 7 and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a 7!

Specifically, you will hear about:

Marriage and family with a 7

The Aggressive/Assertiveness Stance

Future Orientation of a 7 from a 7

When you feel like your 7 won't slow down and address the feelings under the motion

When a 7 won't change their planning fixation

And more!

Grab our Glow Guides and E + M 52 Week Planner Designed by Alaina Here!

Visits Alaina's Ray of Light Shop >> here

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Stances, The Repressed Centers of Intelligence in Marriage with Best-Selling Enneagram Author & Master Teacher Suzanne Stabile, Enneagram 2 Mar 06, 2023

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Join us for a deep dive into a relationship chat on our repressed centers of intelligence, or stances, with Suzanne Stabile, best-selling author, speaker, and Master Enneagram teacher (The Road Back to You, The Path Between Us, The Journey Toward Wholeness). Suzanne shares her wisdom from connecting with thousands of families and across thirty-five years of marriage, offering honest advice for marriage success. As we discuss changing instincts across seasons and a conversation about our stances or repressed Centers of Intelligence, we increasingly learn to balance thinking, feeling, and doing with more consistency and balance with intention.

Show links:

Find Suzanne's books and courses, including her The Table Membership >> here

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Lessons in Love By Enneagram Type from Jane Austen Character Arcs Mar 01, 2023

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In today’s mini-podcast just-for-fun episode, we take you through the nine Enneagram types by way of some of our favorite classical characters in the Jane Austen novels! In particular, we walk you through the 9 types as found in Persuasion, Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Sensibility, and Emma. Join Christa as we analyze character arcs, talk love tropes, share mini-book reviews, talk Enneagram typing, and most of all, bring love lessons from the world's number one romantic writer of all time together to bring refreshment and wisdom to our days together! Become an E + M Certified Coach! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

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Life & Marriage with an Enneagram 8, Laurie Palau, This Organized Life Feb 27, 2023

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In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with a person of each personality type as well. Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing writer, teacher, and master organizer, Laurie Palau, Enneagram Type 8 of This Organized Life about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask an Eight as well as a few tips about her very 8 way of bringing clarity and order to a sometimes overwhelmed family with her worldwide business!

You'll learn all about Laurie's major wiring and ways of love with an 8. Specifically, you will hear about:

Marriage and family with an 8

The Aggressive/Assertiveness Stance

Future Orientation of an 8 from an 8

When you feel bulldozed by an 8

When an 8 won't apologize

And more!

https://www.simplyborganized.com/

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An E + M Mini: The Four Types of Love You Need in Marriage from CS Lewis & The Four Loves Feb 22, 2023

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This Ash Wednesday, as we consider our fallibility in loving perfectly and yet our strong need for community and connection as humans, we're talking about four encompassing and diverse ways of love in a marriage.

Join us as we discuss eros, filial love, affectionate love, and agape love so you can see which ones you're thriving in and which ones you need support in with today's refreshing reminders as we allow in some practical encouragement from CS Lewis' work, The Four Loves.

We're also doing a brief reflection together so we can engage with God for strength and encouragement on the journey together this Ash Wednesday.

Jan Richardson's Ash Wednesday: Blessing the Dust

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Life & Marriage with an Enneagram 9, Emily Wingfield, Enneagram with Emily Feb 20, 2023

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Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing an Enneagram Type 9 speaker and coach, Emily Wingfield, about all the nitty gritty Nine issues you've been wondering about!

You'll learn all about Emily's work, family, and love story, and at the 18 minute mark, you will hear about:

Marriage and family with a 9

Withdrawing

Merging

Past Orientation

Action/Sloth

And more!

https://enneagramwithemily.com/

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An Enneagram Valentine's Day Mystery Mini-Episode Feb 14, 2023

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In this fun shortie episode, Christa invites listeners to join her in a personality-type excavation to find the Enneagram types of a couple in a brief, light case study as we welcome listeners to a Valentine's Day Mystery Contest (and share the results post-Valentine's Day) as well as open the doors to studying actual case studies in our E + M Certification program.

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Loving Each of the Enneagram Types in Marriage w/Dani Cooper of Deep Waters Enneagram Feb 13, 2023

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As we explore the heart of romance together, one of the most important ways we can connect hearts together is by really understanding the deepest needs of our spouse. As we walk through today's episode with Dani Cooper, certified Enneagram teacher, author, and coach for individuals, couples, and teams, (and 1-6 marriage pairing with her hubby Sean), we get clarifying reminders about what each personality type really ultimately delights in receiving in terms of their deepest needs. Don't miss this heartfelt episode and fun episode even as we gently challenge one another to the most bountiful kinds of love!

Show Links:

Dani Cooper is a Certified Enneagram Teacher and Coach for individuals, couples and teams. She is the author of a new book, The Enneagram for Christian Couples, which came out in March 2022.

Visit Dani at her website and get her book and freebies here!

Visit Dani @deepwatersenneagram on Instagram here!

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Fun videos: Coach Jessica Vangsnes and her husband Travis doing 1990's E + M Love Songs reels!

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Wes and Christa Hardin doing a fun Superbowl type by type reel!

https://www.instagram.com/reel/ColbDSHg4Za/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

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