Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

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EP6: Significance & Style with Rebecca Sheperd Apr 30, 2018

Show notes

For a divorced woman experiencing loss, and perhaps on her way to losing the confidence she once had, enlightenment is necessary. Throughout my conversation with Rebecca, I learned that we have our own identity, and that we are powerful. I was reminded that we are all significant and that our style matters.

Our inner and outer beauty, indeed, needs an investment, and for it to grow, we need to take action by opening ourselves to new styles and embracing it.

In this episode, Rebecca and I discuss:

What to wear during the different milestones coming in our life
What to wear in court
Confidence as it relates to discovering personal style
Why appearance matters
How our confidence can strongly be influenced by what we wear
How to dress in different occasions
What women should have in their closet based on their fashion style and budget
How women can own their significance when they feel different types of emotions

Listen to this podcast as we reveal how to empower yourself through style. Always keep in mind that, "what we wear really makes an emotional impact on how we feel." - Rebecca Sheperd

Rebecca is a really amazing stylist who shares the same goal as me by helping women develop confidence through styling. You can reach her at https://rebeccasheperd.cabionline.com. Mention the Divorce Conversations for Women Podcast and get a free one-hour closet consultation.

Resources Mentioned:

Tapping Into Your Inner Beauty: Let it Shine From Within

Rebecca's Website

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EP5: Empowering Yourself to Navigate Finances With Gaylene Stingl, MST, CPA, CVA Apr 14, 2018

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Empowering yourself to make wise and informed choices regarding finances as you are going through divorce is one of the key factors as you are stepping into independence.

Gaylene Stingl has over 25 years experience in providing business management, tax and financial consulting to individuals and small businesses. She is a Certified Public Accountant, Certified Valuation Analyst, and has a Masters of Science in Taxation.

In this episode, we talk about empowering yourself, gaining knowledge, and confidence to make informed decisions in divorce settlements. Women typically struggle to understand the financial aspect of the process.

We break down the new tax law, settlement when a business is involved, and the different models of reaching a settlement and completing the divorce process.

Our goal is to help women become self sustaining. And it all begins by empowering yourself by...

Learning how to ask the right questions
Learning how to find the answers

More about our Guest:

Gaylene Stingl, MST, CPA, CVA

Blau Himmel LLC

www.blau-himmel.com

262-408-8888

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EP4: Managing your Self-Talk Mar 30, 2018

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There is a quote by Beverly Ingall that I want to share with you. "Turn down the volume of your negative inner voice and create a nurturing inner voice to take its place."

Why is it that when we are already down in the dumps, we become our biggest critic? Why is it that when we make a mistake, instead of learning from it, we obsess over it?

To help us go through a divorce, we must all be aware of our self-talk. Our biggest pep talk comes from within us.

I would like to share five tips on managing self talk:

Acknowledge our past relationship with money
Identify the situations and topics that can create feelings of shame, guilt and anxiety
Choose to begin our day with positive affirmations
Extend grace to yourself
Be open and intentional to the change process

Listen in as I expand on these tips and help you manage your self-talk. Remember that financial confidence begins with a little pep talk.

In this episode, I have mentioned Kathleen Burns Kingsbury. She is a wealth psychologist, and someone I greatly admire. I had the opportunity to be a guest on her podcast. If you would like to listen in, click the link. http://www.kbkwealthconnection.com/financial-psychology/financial-literacy-poverty/

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EP3: Seeking Financial Knowledge Mar 30, 2018

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One thing is for sure. Going through a divorce is overwhelming. It is a heavy, arduous thing to go through. And the question that floods our mind is, "What do I do now?"

The first step I always tell my clients is to identify your strengths. When you do, you can use your strengths as leverage and tackle this situation in a more logical and empowered way.

There are two key factors when seeking financial knowledge.

Get acquainted with the facts of your specific situation
Become familiar with financial terminology

With these two things in mind, we can get started on what course to take on this journey. If you are looking for a book to read on this topic, I highly recommend grabbing a copy of Smart Women Finish Rich by David Bach.

If you are curious to know your strengths, you make take the Strength Finder 2.0 assessment online.

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EP2: 10 Questions to Ask When Interviewing an Attorney Mar 30, 2018

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Let's be real. Contacting a divorce attorney may be hard enough, but asking the real questions may be harder. When a woman goes through a divorce, it's hard to stay focused on what to ask and what not to.

To help our listeners, I have listed some essential questions to ask your attorney.

What is your hourly rate?
How much is the upfront retainer?
How much do you bill?
Do you exclusively practice family law?
What is exactly the process?
What is your philosophy?
What is your post-divorce follow-up process?
Would you consider yourself a low-conflict or litigation attorney?
Are you familiar with the judges in my county?

Overwhelming? It really shouldn't be. Listen in as I dig step-by-step into these questions. If we ask the right questions, we will get the right answers.

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EP1: Introduction to Divorce Conversations for Women Mar 30, 2018

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I have worked with a lot of clients throughout the years. But working with women has always been special for me. And women who are going through divorce need more support, especially when it comes to finances.

Which is why I have given birth to this podcast. It is to be the go-to resource for increasing financial clarity for women going through divorce. With this podcast, I want to cover everything from the practical side, such as financial wellness, questions to ask lawyers, increasing cash flow, to the emotional side, such as maintaining creativity at work and redefining your life's purpose.

Let this podcast be a support to women who are going through this tough time and help them make wise decisions.

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