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Broken But Not Destroyed Feat. Kijafa Vick Sep 29, 2024

Join hosts, Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire for a brand new episode coming to you live from the vibrant #CasaLex! This week, they’re joined by the incredible Kijafa Vick—super mom, devoted friend, loving wife, and the executive producer of the latest Amazon Prime release, The Evolution Of The Black Quarterback.
In this heartfelt episode, Kijafa opens up about the powerful lessons she learned after the loss of her mother and the importance of being present for those we love. She also shares a bit about her parenting journey and goal to equip her children to navigate life’s challenges with resilience.
But that’s not all! Kijafa flips the script on our hosts, diving into their dating lives. While Alexis is thriving as a newly single woman, Ashley grapples with a fear of commitment, and Kijafa isn’t holding back on offering her real friend advice.
With a mix of laughter, vulnerability, and genuine girl talk, this episode is a reminder of the strength of friendship and the importance of showing up for one another.
✨ Don’t miss this inspiring conversation and hear Kijafa’s exciting news about her new project! Tune in now!
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A New Beginning... Jan 28, 2024

What’s that saying? Life is what happens to you when you’re busy making plans?

Ashley was ready to put the Dear Young Queen podcast on a break until God said Aht! Aht! Aht! Wait a minute! A listing in the Apple Podcast New Beginnings section has boosted the audience and also Ashley’s confidence in her dreams.

Dear Young Queen is no longer just a podcast, it is a network for podcasts by women with extraordinary voices. On this episode get introduced to the Dear Young Queen Podcast Network and the incredible podcasts under the umbrella.

05:38 - Meet Ask Ashley: The Podcast:

Do you know what unites women everywhere?
The unbelievable, hilariously offensive shit we go through – from failed relationships and disaster dates to trying to balance marriage and parenting a terrorist-like three-year-old.

You know what makes all of us okay? Laughing about it with your best friend.

Join @dearyoungqueen’s founder, Ashley W., and her bestie, Ashley N. for their intimate, unapologetic, unfiltered weekly check-in, as these two friends on opposite coasts coach each other through this thing called life.

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28:59 - Meet Ready Set Grow with S. Tia Brown:

If you've been listening to this podcast and you've already been introduced to S. Tia Brown, a licensed therapist and journalist, host of Ready Set Grow.

Ready, Set, Grow is the ultimate group therapy space where Tia has informative, impactful and entertaining discussions about ways to dynamically shift your mental health, practical life skills — and grow.

From healing past wounds and untangling toxic relationships to unearthing healthier coping mechanisms, each episode tackles the soft and hard skills needed to manage the toughest aspects of adulting.

This isn't just a podcast; This is a space to grow.

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40:42 Meet It’s Not That Serious with Drea & Lina:

Get ready to dive deep into the shallow end of pop culture. You'll get to meet Andrea the fashion maven with over a decade of style expertise and a PhD in celebrity gossip and on the other mic is Lina the wardrobe whisperer. She's a celebrity wardrobe stylist weaving through the glamorous sets of films, commercials, and the closets of your favorite athletes.
Join Drea and Lina every week as they spill the tea on everything celebrity, dissect fashion with surgical precision, and prove that life is just a runway, strut worthy and filled with laughter. Serious is so last season.

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Quiet Storm Feat. Mary Floyd Dec 31, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with a very special guest, one of Toronto’s finest, Mary Floyd.Mary, also known as MaryAnn or the enigmatic Windy Snow Blossom is a devoted mother, trusted friend, and a staunch supporter of Dear Young Queen. Mary steps out from behind the camera to take the spotlight in this engaging conversation.

In this episode, the ladies delve into the importance of supportive friends and also of showing up for yourself while challenging the timeless adage that insists, "you cannot pour from an empty cup."

Mary also lets the world in on a very little known fact, keeps it real about the cost of motherhood, and participates in a fire round of questions. Mary also shares her honest opinions on relationship hall passes, living forever, and how to approach friends that are being cheated on.

Tune in to discover Mary's refreshing honesty and join the conversation on the importance of authentic connections.

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I Still Said $500 Feat. Sue Tsai Dec 17, 2023

In this very special episode of Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from the Perez Art Museum Miami during #MiamiArtWeek. This week, the ladies sit down with artist and designer, Sue Tsai, for a mini episode in front of a live episode brought to you by Orbit Gum.

Sue's an artist and a designer born in New York City who has had a lifelong dedication to the visual arts. Sue's bold and edgy work reflects an impressive crossover of art, fashion, sports and pop culture. As an artist Sue works with acrylic on canvas as well as mixed media sculpture. Her inspiration is creating contemporary art for the younger generation, in hopes that they can relate and appreciate fine art in a world where everything is now digital.

Her pop-surrealism style has infiltrated into the music industry creating major collaborations with stars such as Rihanna and Wale. Sue's self-made brand has led to sold out pop-up shops worldwide and a wildly successful line of merchandise and collectibles. Sue has also used her unique female-empowered aesthetic to collaborate with notable brands such as the NBA, Puma, Bleacher Report, Space Jam and many more. Sue Tsai has That DiNG!

Tune in as she discusses growing up with a tribe who nurtured her career in art, love and heartbreak as a source of inspiration, and the confidence it takes to take a bet on yourself. From the neighbor who brought her first piece to the Puma display in Taiwan, Sue lets the ladies in on her beautiful journey. This is episode you don’t want to miss.

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Can't Stop, Won't Stop Feat Krystal Vega Nov 18, 2023

🎙️ Welcome to "Dear Young Queen," the empowering podcast celebrating exceptional women and their remarkable journeys!

Join hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire for a new episode of Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, broadcasting live from the vibrant #CasaLex. This week, they're joined by the unstoppable force that is Krystal Vega.

Krystal isn't just an on-air host—she's a dynamo, juggling three thriving businesses. She keeps herself busy with Fortune and Forks, a professional haven empowering women of color; Cositas, a stunning beauty brand boasting travel cosmetic bags designed to carry your makeup essentials wherever you go; and her groundbreaking e-guide, "Map to Media," a beacon for aspiring on-air talents.

In this conversation, Ashley, Alexis, and Krystal delve into the roots of Krystal's work ethic, exploring the influence of her family and the unwavering support from her significant other, who stands by her side through every dream pursued.

Amidst the hustle, Krystal unveils a profound motivation—creating extraordinary experiences for her family, the very backbone of her journey. Ashley and Alexis echo this sentiment, recognizing the immense power in uplifting those who've shaped their paths.

Shifting gears, the trio embarks on a fiery round of questions, placing Krystal in the hot seat as she navigates a rapid-fire session meant for the girlies.

🎧 Don't miss this intimate and energizing episode as Krystal Vega shares her stories and insights, inspiring every young queen to reach for their dreams!

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Permission To Feel Feat. Nikki Spoelstra Sep 24, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with Truth seeker and truth speaker, the remarkable Nikki Spolestra.

Nikki is a woman of depth, and in this episode, she graciously opens up about her journey to womanhood. As a child of an addict, she offers a heartfelt glimpse into her upbringing, allowing us to better understand the challenges she faced. Nikki boldly embraces the identity of an alcoholic, all in a bid to shed light on the very real struggles faced by everyday people. However, Nikki now lives her best life as a proud, sober woman.

She is also the creator and host of The Know With Nikki Spo podcast, where she highlights the experiences of women who are finding and celebrating their inner knowing. However, in this episode, the women dive deep into one of their favorite episodes from Nikki's show, "We're all F*cked up" and explore the notion that it's not about what happens to you, but how you respond, and the significant and subtle ways that generational trauma can impact our lives.

The ladies also delve into the importance of granting yourself the permission to feel your big a** feelings, the art of aging gracefully, and the liberating concept of not being tethered to a single storyline for your life.

It's a conversation that radiates warmth, wisdom, and the kind of camaraderie that makes you feel right at home. Tune in!

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When We Make Plans, God Laughs Feat @YesJulz Aug 12, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with the remarkable Miami legend herself, @YesJulz.

Tune in as she candidly shares her journey of motherhood. Just days after her engagement, Julz found out she was pregnant and just a few weeks after that, she found out the baby she was carrying had developed a birth defect called Gastroschisis. Against all odds, she chose to keep her baby and defy any possible challenges that might come her way. Now, she shares the miraculous story of her child's birth and her incredible growth as a happy, healthy baby.

The ladies dive into Julz's early days in the entertainment industry, tracing her evolution from a table host at one of the hottest nightclubs in the country to the visionary founder of her own agency, YesJulz Agency, a venture that seamlessly transformed into the inspiring 1am Productions.

Julz also opens up about the highs and lows of her career. Breaking artist 070 Shake was both a triumph and a setback for her, and honestly, a moment in time that she's still healing from. However, through it all she found solace in the wisdom of Kanye West, who reminded her that life's challenges are opportunities in disguise.

Discover how Julz turned industry disappointments into opportunities for creative resilience. Her story is a testament to the power of perseverance, reminding us that failure is just a stepping stone to success.

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OCD, BiPolar 1, & Schizoaffective Disorder Feat. Mel & Jihan Jul 01, 2023

In this week's heartfelt episode of Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire take you on an intimate journey with two extraordinary best friends, Melissa Duncan and Jihan Gabart. Live from the cozy confines of #CasaLex, the women delve deep into the powerful narrative of friendship, mental health, and unwavering support.

Mel & Jihan share a bond that began in middle school and has weathered the test of time. Hailing from Jamaican roots, the two embarked on an IT business venture that catapulted them into the world of entrepreneurship. However, success came hand in hand with challenges, as it unveiled an array of unresolved issues within Mel.

In a candid account, Mel & Jihan reveal their journey of confronting mental health head-on. The years of strained communication, misinterpretations, and concealed secrets culminated in a life-altering diagnosis. Mel was diagnosed with OCD, BiPolar 1, & Schizoaffective Disorder, marking the onset of her role as a mental health patient while Jihan stepped into the uncharted territory of becoming her devoted "caregiver."

Together, they found strength in vulnerability and founded SoMypolar INC, a non-profit organization committed to raising awareness and eradicating stigmas surrounding mental health. From riveting discussion panels to shedding light on the essential role of caregivers, Mel & Jihan embarked on a mission to change the conversation.

Their latest creation, Tatu’s Adventures, a children’s storybook series, brings their journey to a younger generation. The inaugural book, titled 'Don’t You See,' narrates Mel's earliest encounters with delusions at just five years old, providing a profound understanding of her mental health evolution.

Her firsthand account serves as a beacon of hope, demonstrating that even in the darkest moments, triumph is possible. It is an honor to have Mel & Jihan on the show, proving that women can not only survive but thrive through any adversity.

As you listen to their remarkable journey, remember these key takeaways: First, do not friend superficially. Second, embrace the liberation that comes from accepting help. And third, your candid story could illuminate a path for someone else's struggles.

Tune in to this impactful episode of Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, and witness the power of friendship, resilience, and the pursuit of mental well-being.
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Officer Mom Feat Aisha Ali Parker May 27, 2023

Welcome to "Dear Young Queen," the podcast where we celebrate extraordinary women and their incredible journeys. In this episode, we sit down with Aisha Ali Parker, a talented photographer, soon-to-be mother, and a loyal friend hailing from Chicago.

During our conversation, Aisha opens up about her unique upbringing as a cop's kid, affectionately calling her mom "officer mom." We delve into the intriguing dynamics of growing up with a law enforcement parent, discussing how it proved both helpful and challenging. From navigating her way out of trouble to exploring the realities of the Fraternal Order of Police (FOP), Aisha sheds light on her experiences, including a story of personal transformation following a DUI incident.

Pregnancy takes center stage as we dive into Aisha's journey to motherhood. Expecting a beautiful baby girl, she shares the raw realities of morning sickness that left her unable to even keep water down and enlightens us about the unexpected aspect of pregnancy: the vivid nightmares that caught her off guard. Our hearts melt as she reveals how this little one has already become the center of her universe, demonstrating a selfless love that transcends her own well-being.

Aisha's life took a remarkable turn when she met her loving husband, who played a pivotal role in guiding her career transition. Having spent years in the music and sports industries, she yearned for change but was initially hesitant to take a leap of faith into her creative pursuits. However, when the pandemic struck, Aisha embraced the opportunity to step behind the lens and officially embark on her photography journey.

Amidst these changes, Aisha also managed to have a dream wedding, relocate to Miami, and embark on the beautiful journey of motherhood.

Join us as we celebrate the resilience and growth of Aisha Ali Parker in this captivating episode of Dear Young Queen.

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2.5 Apple Electronics Apr 15, 2023

This episode of Ask Ashley: The Podcast is brought to you by Fat Ham. Get your tickets at www.fathambroadway.com Use Code: @DYQFH for $39 mezzanine and $79 orchestra
This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex. Alexis had a big birthday bash and friends from all over the country came to celebrate. This beautiful celebration prompts the ladies to dive deep into the complexities of adult friendships.

The two friends reflect on their own experiences with adult friendships, both the good and the bad.From social media friends to navigating friendships through breakups and divorce, Ashley and Alexis explore the different types of friendships that exist in adulthood and offer advice on how to navigate them. They also tackle the age-old question of whether platonic friendships are truly possible.

As they do on every episode, they answer "first time" and "last time" friendship questions, offering a glimpse into their own friendship dynamics and what they've learned over the years. Tune in to the "Dear Young Queen" podcast to hear Ashley and Alexis's honest and relatable take on navigating adult friendships.

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Mama Has Lived Feat Calyann Barnett Mar 31, 2023

On this week's episode of Dear Young Queen The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex for a candid and inspiring conversation with Calyann Barnett. Calyann is a Florida-based wardrobe stylist and creative director who has worked with some of the biggest names in sports and entertainment.

As the stylist and creative director for Dwyane Wade, Calyann spent 14 years building the NBA legend into a style icon, and she's also worked with clients like Nicki Minaj, Usain Bolt, and Spike Lee. In addition to her work as a stylist, Calyann is also the founder of The Shop Miami, a new retail concept that celebrates fashion, entrepreneurship, and the city of Miami. She shares the story of how she launched The Shop Miami, and discusses the challenges and rewards of being a Black female entrepreneur. She also shares the story of a life-changing trip to Mykonos, where she went from being a party animal to a designated driver. Caly details her decision to convert to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the impact it has had on her life.

Throughout the conversation, Calyann also offers valuable insights on the importance of following your dreams, working hard, and defining your own happiness. Whether you're interested in fashion, entrepreneurship, or personal growth, this episode is a must-listen.

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🗒️Table of Contents🗒️

0:44 - Make this week’s cocktail “BERRY NICE”

3:44 - Meet our Guest - CalyAnn Barnett

6:24- What is The Shop Miami?

11:43 - Life As An Black Female Entrepreneur

21:47 - How did CalyAnn get started in styling?

24:17- “Do the things you have to do, so you can do the things you want to do.”

26:34- CalyAnn’s take on Athletes & the Fashion world

31:45- Counterpoint The Label

34:00- Calyann Converts to LDS

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A Praise Report Mar 25, 2023

In this episode of Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire take a break from their usual routine and catch up on each other's lives. Alexis shares about her recent travels, she just hit 42 countries and hasn't even been 40 for a month and Ashley is working her ass off, literally & figuratively.

Later in the episode, they revisit some of the questions they've asked their guests in the past few episodes. You’ll get to hear Ashley and Alexis' own answers to these questions, providing a personal glimpse into their lives.
Join the ladies for a laid-back, fun episode filled with personal anecdotes and insights.

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She's A Regular Feat Ashley Wheeler Mar 18, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with HBCU graduate, mom, wife, friend, realtor, and “Pull up Queen” Ashley Wheeler.

This sharpshooter shares how her father and an ROTC scholarship taught her the importance of knowing your way around a gun. Alexis & Ashley Wheeler dive into their personal choices on supporting the right to carry.

Ashley was a commissioned officer in the Army for 8 years until her husband, retired NFL linebacker Phil Wheeler, came in and swooped her off her feet. After getting married and having her second child, she was inspired to enter a bodybuilding competition. It didn’t take long before Ashley was competing (and winning!) which she describes as the biggest test of discipline in a very toxic, dangerous industry.

As they do on every episode, Ashley & Alexis ask Ashley Wheeler about a few of her “firsts” and “lasts,” but unlike every other episode, a potty break turns into a conversation about golden showers and it’s obvious these three ladies are really friends. There’s tons of fun girl talk including their thoughts on grown men playing video games, Bank of America errors, and even a therapeutic moment on ending friendships as adults.

This is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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Just The Two Of Us Mar 11, 2023

On this week’s episode of Dear Young Queen: The Podcast take a moment to get to know your hosts Ashley & Alexis better.

As they do on every episode, Ashley & Alexis explore a few of their “firsts' and lasts” but this time, they turn the questions on each other. Both of the ladies explore some more personal moments including the first time Ashley broke someone's heart and the first time Alexis saw a positive pregnancy test.

With no guest in the hot seat, the ladies finish off with a quick rapid fire game that proves that Alexis clearly is the more decisive one around here.

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ESPN Didn't Call Feat. Ashley Nicole Moss Mar 04, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with native New Yorker, sports media’s It-Girl-in-the-making, and newest member to the 30’s club, Ashley Nicole Moss.

Knowledgeable, honest, stylish, and unapologetically authentic —Ashley Nicole Moss is carving out a path all her own in the world of sports media. Additionally, she just became the first female and non-athlete co-host of the popular podcast ‘I Am Athlete’. Previously, she was the face of Sports Illustrated’s premium digital series, Laces Out, and served as a co-host of Uninterrupted and The SpringHill Company’s weekly basketball and culture podcast Certified Buckets.

However, it’s not all sports talk on this week’s episode, it’s Ashley’s honest take on her experience turning 30 that sparks conversations about Solar Returns, maintaining your identity in the workplace, and the importance of never giving up on your dreams- no matter how long it takes.

As they do on every episode, Ashley & Alexis talk to Ashley Nicole about a few of her “firsts” and “lasts” including, “When was the first time she fell in love?” amd “When was the last time she caught a sunrise or a sunset?” Her answers will certainly surprise you. Ashley Nicole Moss has only just begun to make her mark, check her out!

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Paging Doctor Lyn Feat. Dr. Safiya Lyn Feb 17, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with Licensed Integrative Medical Cannabis & Emergency Medicine Physician, Dr. Safiya Lyn. We love a queen with a title… well, multiple titles.

With several years of experience in Emergency Medicine, Dr. Safiya Lyn educates communities across the country on the multiple benefits of cannabis as a medical treatment for chronic pain, mental illness, seizure and inflammation. Her medical knowledge, progressive approach to pain management and digital media presence distinguish her as one of today’s leading voices for medicinal cannabis policy reform. She has been featured on CNN, Essence, Revolt TV, and numerous media outlets.

But it’s not all cannabis talk, on this week’s episode we also explore the nuances of being a full time working mom, debunk some mom guilt, and chat about the importance of maintaining a work life balance. As they do on every episode, Ashley & Alexis talk to Dr. Lyn about a few of her “firsts” and “lasts” including, “when was the last time you had your heart broken?”

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Ride or Die Feat Neri Santiago Feb 04, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with Neri Santiago, wife, mother, reality TV star, owner of Juicy Juice, and as the ladies have coined her, the first lady of podcasting. This cool, calm, & collected Queen is the walking definition of ride or die, she’s been married to N.O.R.E, hip hop star and host of Drink Champs Podcast for over a decade.

In this week’s episode, she lets us in on the fears that come along with being married to a man in Hip Hop in today’, shares with us some of the difficulties of launching a business, and gets emotional while speaking about the men in her life, past and present.

And as they do on every episode, the ladies talk to Neri about some of her firsts and lasts, including when was the first time she felt real pain? The last time she felt like she had to stand by N.O.R.E’s side or the decision he made, even though she may not have agreed with it, and the last time she took a beat to thank God for her life.

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Money Talk Jan 28, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with Shea, a licensed Financial Advisor. This successful, confident, boss babe is determined to make us have the tough conversation with ourselves, friends, family, and potential suitors….you know, the ones about money.
In this week’s episode, Shea gives us tips on saving & investing, encourages women to take control of their financial future, digs in deep on the power dynamics between money and relationships, and tells us about the best investment we can make this year.

Shea’s Gems:

Free investment platforms: E-Trade, Vanguard, and Fidelity

General Questions That Could Lead to healthy financial discussions:

What are your goals for the next 10,20,30 years?
Do you have college debt?
Do you have any other financial obligations that I should know about?
What is your money style? Are you a saver? Spender? Investor?
Did you talk about money with your parents growing up?
How did your parents deal with money issues? Did they have money issues?
Was it a source of stress and family fights?
If you inherited $100,000 tomorrow, how would you spend it?
What do you think about prenups?
How would you envision splitting up household expenses and who would be responsible for managing these home's finances?
Do you have health insurance?
Do you have life insurance?

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Is It A Trend Feat. Faith Haslem Jan 18, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with athlete, boy mom, wifey, investor, and brand ambassador of The Flowery, Faith Haslem.

This Flower child has traveled the world with Alexis but resides in Florida where her family ties are strong. She is the Queen of The Man Cave AKA The Haslem Ranch, where she lives with her husband, two sons, and 6 male King Corsos. You would think most women would be going nuts as the only woman in her house, but this former tomboy and track star from VA loves every second of it.

On this week’s episode, Faith shares her experience growing up a biracial woman, sparks a good conversation on interracial relationships, life as a student-athlete, and takes us back 20 years to the first time she crossed paths with her husband, NBA champion & Miami Heat Legend Udonis Haslem. The ladies explore is love at first sight and as they do on every episode, they talk to Faith about a few of her “firsts” and “lasts.”

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Make This Week's Cocktail "A Snowy Night in Toronto"
Dear Young Queen, This flavorful cocktail will elevate your tastebuds just like the elevation in Toronto on a snowy night. Enjoy this lighter, citrusy vibe !!
2 OZ of Vodka
1.5 OZ of St. Germain (optional)
.5 OZ lemon juice
.5 OZ lime juice
3-4 OZ Oz of lemon Elderflower Soda
Garnish with Lime
+Add Ice, Vodka, St. Germain, Lemon & Lime juices in a Shaker
+Shake and Pour over ice
+Add Elderflower Soda on top.
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04:08 - Alexis & Faith reflect on their travels together

08:00- The Only Girl In The Haslem Ranch

09:53- Faith Haslem On Growing Up Biracial

18:00 - Are Interracial Relationships Trendy?

22:10 - Faith Talks Running Track & SelectingThe University of Florida

26:02- Life As A Student Athlete

27:54- Faith & Her Husband Have been together 20+ years

28:25- The First Time Faith Saw Udonis On Campus

32:33- Is Love At First Sight A Real Thing?

35:54- Faith Talks About Raising & Feeding Her Big Babies

43:44- Faith Talks Cheering On Her Man Vs. Her Kids

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Love Yourself or Fix Yourself Feat Zoe Chin Loy & Natasha Gross Jan 11, 2023

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with guests Zoe Chin Loy and Natasha Gross.

Natasha is a Miami-based makeup artist the ladies have nicknamed “Fairy Glam Mother” and Zoe is a mommy, wifey, plus size Model, and the CEO of Mint Brows. The two friends are in the business of instilling confidence in women, Natasha doing the outward work and Zoe doing the inward work.

Zoe shares how a 71-year-old client changed her life and led her down a path of self-acceptance and love. She details the moments when she hated herself most and the adjustments she had to make to help her accept her “new normal.” Natasha shares how important it is for every woman to experience full glam, shares personal anecdotes of procedures she’s had done and puts us up on the surgery game in Miami.

Are they two friends that sit on opposite sides of the coin when it comes to “love yourself or fix yourself?“

And as they do on every episode, the ladies talk to Zoe & Natasha about some of their firsts and lasts. For Zoe, when was the first time you looked in the mirror and didn't recognize yourself?

And for Natasha, when was the last time you did a procedure to correct a physical imperfection and regretted it?

Happy New Year & welcome back to Dear Young Queen: The Podcast! Don't forget to subscribe to our youtube and rate us 5 stars on your favorite podcast app!

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🗒️Table of Contents🗒️

00:00- Welcome to Dear Young Queen: The Podcast
03:20 - Men saying “You have too much makeup on”
14:00- Defining Beauty
18:17- Zoe On Her Body After Pregnancy
23:23- Ashley on physical insecurities
25:26- Love yourself or fix yourself?
26:58- Natasha on Plastic Surgery

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Make This Week’s Cocktail” “Glamorous Ruby”

Ingredients:

Prosecco
Pomegranate

Step 1: Add pomegranate to the bottom of a champagne glass

Step 2: Title Champagne glass and pour Prosecco

Step 3: Enjoy!

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It's A Choice To Be Happy Feat Mieka Joi Dec 30, 2022

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with guest, Mieka Joi.

This Boy Mom and CEO & Designer of Rich Girl Candy, has been making splashes with her very progressive co-parenting style but she sits down with the ladies of Dear Young Queen: The Podcast to explain her choice, to put her son above all.

But that’s not it! Alexis keeps the ladies warmed up for the final episode of the year with this week’s cocktail, “The Grinch Who Stole Miami” and yes hunny, it got the conversation flowing. These Midwest girlies discuss Mieka & Alexis’ very colorful fashion sense, the importance of owning your own story, and the “real” difference between real and fake bags!

And as they do on every episode, the ladies talk to Mieka about some of her firsts and lasts, including what was the first business Mieka started? What was the first designer piece she purchased on her own? And when was the last time she did something for herself? Not for her child.

This is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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Make This Week’s Cocktail” “The Grinch Who Stole Miami”

Bring a little heat to an iconic classic by adding jalapeno and tajin to your Margarita. Green Jalapeños are paired with the sweet Miami Mango. Your tastebuds may walk on fire, until the citrusy sweetness of the Cointreau balances the flavor.

Enjoy Queen & don’t be mean .. the tajin gives all the spice you need.

Ingredients:

2 OZ Tequila or Mezcal (smoky)
1 OZ Cointreau
Half lime squeeze
1 OZ Mango juice
1 Slice jalapeño
Mango slice
Tajin for garnish/rim

Step 1: Combine all ingredients in a cocktail shaker, including the lime
Step 2: Add ice and shake until well-chilled
Step 3: Strain into a chilled glass
Step 4: Garnish with a jalapeño pepper and mango slice add Tajin around the rim or on top.

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Run That Outfit Back Feat. Lina Palacios Dec 24, 2022

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with guest, Lina Palacios.
This Colombian Queen sits down with Ashley & Alexis to share what it really means to work in fashion as a wardrobe stylist and costume designer. Her grandmother, with her sewing machine and her mother, with her bedazzler inspired a career that includes work TV, film, major commercials, music videos, and a host of personal clients.
On this week’s episode, Lina gives her take on fast fashion, entrepreneurship, shares the difference between dating black men and Latino men, and more. And as they do on every episode, the ladies talk to Lina about some of her firsts and lasts, including what was the first piece of clothing she designed from inception to completion? When was the last time she brought a man home? When was the last time she went out dancing on a date?
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Keep Running Feat. Sahar Bitaraf Dec 15, 2022

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with guest, Sahar Bitaraf.

This Persian Queen sits down with Ashley & Alexis to chat working out with Sahar- a survivors story, the bravery of the women in Iran, and finding a career in tech.

When Sahar was 13, her parents sent her to Iran to live and learn more about her culture. Her first time in Iran was more than culture shock. From squat toilets to a run in with The Moral Police over red nail polish, Sahar’s personal experience helps the ladies learn more about the current state of affairs for women in Iran.

As they do on every episode, the ladies talk to Sahar about some of her firsts and lasts. When was the first time she felt “other than?” When was the last time she exchanged gifts with a man?

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Take Risks feat. Cassidy Jordan Dec 08, 2022

This week on Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex with THE Director Of Vibes, Cassidy Jordan for a super fun episode you won’t want to miss.
This New York-born, Miami-bred Jamaican Queen sits down with Ashley & Alexis to chat about her upbringing, taking risks, setting realistic boundaries, and navigating the relationships with her parents along the way.
Do your parents understand what you do for a living?
This former Def Jam executive has stepped out on her own as a digital marketer, influencer, and content creator and the term “pressure” has taken on a whole new form. From family pressures to her own personal internal pressures, Cassidy lets everyone in on her journey to womanhood.
As they do in every episode, the ladies talk to Cassidy about some of her "firsts" and "lasts." When was the first time she brought a man home to meet her parents? When was the last time she broke someone else's heart?
This Week’s Drinks:
Stoudemire Estate Collection - Pinot Noir

This Week’s Meal:
Chicken Tortilla Soup
Plus, Cassidy drops off her Miami restaurant recommendations:
Gekko
8 SE 8th St
Miami, FL 33131
ZZ’s Club
151 NE 41st St
Miami, FL 33137
Magdoos
30 NW 34th St
Miami, FL 33127
Dukunoo Jamaican Kitchen
316 NW 24th St
Miami, FL 33127
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Dear Young Queen... Stay Safe! Nov 28, 2022

On the first episode of Dear Young Queen: The Podcast, your hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire are coming to you live from #CasaLex.

Ashley Weatherspoon, Queen of @dearyoungqueen and host of Ask Ashley: The Podcast is joined by Alexis Stoudemire, mother, philanthropist, investor, food & drink aficionado, and international solo traveler.

This week, get to know your hosts when they answer the weekly questions about their firsts and their lasts. Alexis shares details about her first solo trip and how it inspired her big trip which included 11 countries in 32 days. Ashley shares her last- first date. That’s a mouthful, but also a single girl whose last first date was in the summer? What is she expecting, a man to break into her house?!

Welcome to Dear Young Queen: The Podcast!

Make This Week’s Cocktails:
Ashley: Sexi Lexi Mule- Alexis’ twist of the classic Moscow Mule. Simple and refreshing, this is a perfect cocktail for your day-to-night VIBEZ that add a fizzy feeling to your tastebuds.
2 Oz Cointreau
1 OZ Tequila
Half a lime juice
2 OZ ginger beer
* Step 1/3: Combine all ingredients in a cocktail shaker, including the lime
* Step 2/3: Add ice and shake until well-chilled
* Step 3/3: Strain into a chilled mule cup
Alexis: #CasaLex Cosmo- This sexy, tangy cosmo will tickle your tastebuds and turn your evening into a sexy celebration even if it’s just enjoyed with your girlfriends in the city.
1 oz Cointreau
2 Oz Vodka
1 OZ cranberry juice
1 oz fresh lime juice
* Step 1/4: Combine all ingredients in a cocktail shaker, including lime
* Step 2/4: Add ice and shake until well-chilled
* Step 3/4: Strain into a chilled coupe or cocktail glass
* Step 4/4: Garnish with an orange twist

Welcome to Dear Young Queen Oct 18, 2022

Welcome to Dear Young Queen: The Podcast. Welcome to your safe place. Welcome to the place where women just like you are shedding their skin for a good laugh, a moment of inclusivity, and yes, the occasional tear.

Each week, hosts Ashley Weatherspoon and Alexis Stoudemire invite women, at various stages in their journeys, to share some of life’s most memorable moments. By exploring their “firsts” and “lasts” we are able to identify the unique pieces of their crowns that molded them into the Queens they are today.

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