Dear Young Married Couple

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Why You’re STUCK (And the Sentence That Changes Everything) May 27, 2025

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Ever feel like you're grinding hard but still going nowhere fast? 🚀This episode is for anyone who's ever asked, “Will I ever make a difference?” Adam and Karissa get raw about one of their most humbling seasons—single-bedroom-living, weed-whacking-in-the-heat, tears-outside-a-gas-station kind of raw.

But in the midst of that, something shifted: belief. They unpack how changing your inner dialogue could be the most powerful move you make toward a better future. Are you stuck because you’re failing—or because you’ve actually succeeded and thought that was your ceiling? What if this is just the floor of your next level?

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How Delight Shapes Your Child’s Identity (Not Just Their Mood) May 20, 2025

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🎈Ever wonder what makes a child feel deeply known, safe, and joyful—not just in the moment, but for life?

This episode explores the power of delight in parenting and how tiny moments of joy can quietly shape your child's sense of identity, emotional health, and their view of God. From bath bombs to sticky note lunchbox quotes, we unpack how delight isn’t spoiling—it’s soul-building.

What do your kids think makes your eyes light up? Do they feel enjoyed or just... managed? 💭 Listen in for real stories, practical tips, and questions you can ask your kids tonight at dinner.

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Attachment Theory by John Bowlby

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From Betrayal to Intimacy: A Guide to Rebuilding Trust May 13, 2025

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❤️‍🩹 When trust shatters, rebuilding isn’t about rushing to forgiveness—it’s about slow, relentless pursuit. In this episode, we unpack what it actually takes to rebuild trust after betrayal, and why “just moving on” doesn’t work.

What does a betrayed spouse truly need to feel safe again? And how can the one who broke the trust stay present in the pain without getting defensive or giving up? If you're in the thick of repair—or know someone who is—this conversation offers real hope and tangible steps forward.

Are you showing up—or just showing off? Can you name the pain, or are you trying to avoid it? Let’s talk.

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80 Healing Questions for Broken Trust (FREE PDF)

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Why Parenting Feels HARDER Now and What To Do About It w/ Dr. Leonard Sax May 06, 2025

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📲 What if the very screens that entertain your kids are sabotaging their character—and your authority as a parent?

In this jaw-dropping episode, Dr. Leonard Sax joins Adam and Karissa to expose the shocking truth behind the culture of disrespect dominating today’s youth. From the dopamine addiction of TikTok to the dangers of AI girlfriends and porn-fueled expectations, Dr. Sax shares the science—and the soul—behind why kids are spiraling and what parents must do to turn the tide.

Why are girls abandoning boys in record numbers? How is screen time sabotaging family connection? And what does it really take to raise respectful, resilient kids in today’s chaos? What changes are you ready to make in your home? How are you modeling respect to your kids? Let’s talk.

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Why Gender Matters by Dr. Leonard Sax

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Girls on the Edge by Dr. Leonard Sax

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Boys Adrift by Dr. Leonard Sax

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The Collapse of Parenting by Dr. Leonard Sax

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Before the Aisle: Why Premarital Counseling is a Game-Changer Apr 29, 2025

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What if one conversation could save your future marriage from years of pain? 💭 Hear Adam and Karissa uncover why premarital counseling is so much more than a checkbox.

It’s not therapy-speak or couch confessions—it’s strategy, clarity, and tools you’ll actually use when life gets real. Think: reusable, confidence-building recipes for communication, conflict, and connection.

They’ll unpack five make-or-break conversations couples often ignore... until it’s too late. So ask yourself: Do we know how to fight fair? Are we headed in the same direction? Or are we just hoping love will be enough? ❤️‍🔥

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Not Just a Wedding: A Journey to Oneness Apr 22, 2025

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You’re planning a wedding—but are you preparing for a marriage? Hear Adam and Karissa pull back the curtain on three major blind spots that engaged couples often overlook. Why does communication seem so easy before the vows—but crash and burn after? What if marriage wasn’t designed to make you happy... but holy? And how do love and respect actually work when you're frustrated, not infatuated?

Whether you’re engaged, newly married, or have been in the game for years, this episode will challenge what you think you know about marriage and inspire you to build something stronger, deeper, and more Christ-like.

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10 Conversations You MUST Have Before Saying ‘I Do’ Apr 15, 2025

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You’ve heard the phrase “when you know, you know”—but is love alone really enough to build a lasting marriage? 💭

In this episode, we’re diving into the 10 essential conversations every couple should have before they say “I do.” From spiritual alignment and family dynamics to sex, conflict, and forgiveness, these aren’t fluffy questions—they’re the deep, sometimes awkward, always necessary topics that shape your future together.

Are you just planning for your wedding, or are you preparing for your marriage? Grab your fiancé (or send this to someone who’s engaged) and start asking the real questions today.

Resources:

We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now for Nashville, September 12-13! ♥️

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💬 Download the free conversation guide PDF mentioned in this episode: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/MustHaveConversationsBeforeMarriage

📝 Take the Love Languages quiz: 5lovelanguages.com

🧠 Take the 16 Personalities assessment: 16personalities.com

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ONE Bible, TWO Believers, and ZERO Clue Where to Start w/ Dr. Philip Nation Apr 08, 2025

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Is praying together awkward? Do you struggle to make Bible reading a “we” thing instead of just a “me” thing? If your Bible is collecting more dust than highlighters, this episode is for you! 📖 We’re sitting down with Dr. Philip Nation—pastor, author, and VP at Thomas Nelson Bibles—to talk about why spiritual habits in marriage so often stall out and how to build rhythms that actually bring life.

Dr. Nation shares practical wisdom on creating spiritual intimacy with your spouse, moving past the pressure to “lead perfectly,” and how to make your faith a daily, shared experience. Don't miss this conversation—it could be the key to transforming your marriage from spiritually stagnant to spiritually thriving.

Resources:

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The Open Bible - 50th Anniversary Edition

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Habits for our Holiness by Philip Nation

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Spiritual Leadership by J. Oswald Sanders

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Humility by Andrew Murray

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The Silent Struggle of DEPRESSION w/ Pastor Cortt Chavis Apr 01, 2025

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What happens when you have everything you’ve ever wanted—yet you still feel empty? In this powerful conversation, Pastor Cortt Chavis shares his deeply personal journey through trauma, depression, and the unexpected road to healing. He opens up about childhood wounds, battles with unforgiveness, and the moment he realized that retribution would never bring peace.

If you've ever felt unseen, if you've wrestled with unspoken pain, or if you’ve struggled to understand why you're not okay even when life is good—this episode is for you.

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How to Win Friends and Influence People

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The Bait of Satan

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The Center for Apostolic Counseling

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Wild at Heart

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The Traveler’s Gift

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Boundaries

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What if Your Sex Drive Gap Isn't the Problem? (And What No One Told You About Female Orgasm) w/ Dan Purcell Mar 25, 2025

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*disclaimer* This episode includes discussions on pleasure and anatomy. If you’re not comfortable with your little ones hearing these details, consider popping in your headphones or saving it for a private moment.

Most couples struggling with mismatched sex drives think the problem is obvious—one person wants it more, and the other wants it less. But what if that’s not actually the issue? 🤯

Let’s sit down with Dan Purcell, founder of Get Your Marriage On, to uncover the hidden dynamics behind sex drive differences. What if the real issue isn’t desire, but something deeper? And what if understanding this could transform not just your intimacy but your entire marriage?

Listen in as we tackle the unspoken truths, the role of female pleasure, and what makes a marriage truly thrive.

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Previous Episode with Dan Purcell

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Connect with Dan Purcell

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