Dear Son,

This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

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You Are Not Your Mistakes | Live Event | Ep 173 Mar 04, 2026

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The Dear Son Network creates honest conversations about fatherhood, masculinity, and the life lessons many men never hear growing up.

Dear Son: Are You Shackled to Your Past? Fatherhood, Forgiveness & Breaking Cycles

In this live, unscripted episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac lead a candid conversation on the topic “Dear Son, you will always be shackled to your past,” exploring how past mistakes and family history shape identity, parenting, and relationships. They discuss using the past as a navigation tool rather than a prison, the duty of demonstrating change, and whether others get to decide when they’re “over” what you did. Audience members share stories about parenting older vs. younger kids, childhood trauma passed down from parents, rebuilding after incarceration, and how unforgiveness can keep people bound. The hosts emphasize accountability without labeling someone by their mistakes, encourage setting boundaries and having hard conversations, and challenge listeners to release people they’ve been holding hostage to the past.

00:00 Unscripted Show Setup

00:29 Welcome and Live Energy

01:57 Tonight’s Topic Past Shackles

03:30 Past Shaping Fatherhood

05:57 Absentee Dad Two Paths

09:22 Remorse With Older Kids

10:45 Audience Advice Parenting Never Stops

14:16 Shackled vs In Touch

15:30 Who Sets The Timeframe

17:00 Breaking Generational Shackles

20:32 Unforgiveness and Self Forgiveness

23:13 Who Benefits From Shackles

27:09 Tank vs Healing Sensitivity

29:44 Life As A Retakeable Test

30:04 Release Your Errors

30:28 Learn From Everyone

31:28 Unshackling Dad

36:17 Mistakes Aren't Identity

37:55 Parenting Without Trauma

45:34 Know Each Kid

47:14 Conversations Break Cycles

49:07 Humor Anger and Growth

52:58 Release and Reconnect

53:47 Disrupt to Break Cycles

57:54 Final Thanks and Outro

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Why Your Ego Must Die Before Marriage | Better Together | Ep 3 Mar 04, 2026

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The Dear Son Network creates honest conversations about fatherhood, masculinity, and the life lessons many men never hear growing up.

Marriage, Ambition & Ego: Leadership vs Dictatorship | Better Together

In this Better Together episode, the hosts (Joe T, Reggie George, Jey Blac, and D Johns) introduce themselves and dive into how marriage requires “dual thinking,” sacrifice, and making decisions with a spouse in mind rather than operating independently. They discuss the tension ambitious men can create in relationships, how male ego fuels aggravation when a partner questions plans, and why common courtesy and communication keep leadership from becoming dictatorship. They explore differing communication styles, red flags versus mere frustrations, and how asking “what will you do with that information?” can set healthy boundaries. The conversation addresses trauma, family upbringing, resentment from staying silent, and the idea that spouses should work on themselves rather than trying to fix each other. They close by emphasizing covenant, commitment, and that being equally yoked means doing the work together.

00:00 Big Decisions Together

00:54 Dual Thinking In Marriage

02:33 Meet The Hosts

03:11 Pace Setting And Partnership

05:14 Late Marriage Mindset

07:23 Assumptions Need Conversations

09:44 Courtesy Versus Dictatorship

12:44 Fear Of Being Controlled

14:41 Red Flags Or Aggravation

22:11 Ambition Triggers Ego

29:52 Welcome The Hard Questions

32:31 Let Your Copilot Fly

33:41 Trauma And Retraining Trust

37:27 Unpacking Bags Respect Love

39:55 Gods Daughter Perspective

40:28 Stop Trying To Fix Her

42:38 Marriage Reveals You

43:08 Rollercoaster Of Growth

45:31 Learning Each Others Signals

49:01 Train Her How To Treat You

49:55 Ambition And Trauma Question

52:47 Include Her In The Vision

01:00:05 Sacrifice And Selflessness

01:05:03 In Laws And Family Boundaries

01:09:10 Reject Marriage Ideology

01:11:18 Covenant Work Closing

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Dear Son: You Asked for This | Preparing for Purpose, Growth, and Relationships | Ep 172 Mar 03, 2026

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The Dear Son Network creates honest conversations about fatherhood, masculinity, and the life lessons many men never hear growing up.

Dear Son: You Asked for This — Preparing for Purpose, Growth, and Relationships

Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac open The Dear Son Show by describing the mission of having honest conversations about life through fatherhood for those with fathers and the fatherless. They recap a Mardi Gras trip and discuss an upcoming live show on 2/24/26 at 7:00 PM, encouraging viewers to subscribe and get tickets. The main discussion centers on the realization that when you pray for growth and expanded territory, you must accept the full load that comes with it—time demands, visibility, responsibility, and the unseen work behind results—summed up as “you asked for this,” and reframed as purpose rather than simply being “busy.” They talk about the need to be prepared and to steward what you ask for, using analogies like the real upkeep of owning a yacht and the extensive setup required for producing episodes. The hosts also address accountability and showing respect for the platform, including the importance of effort, preparation, and feedback for growth. They connect these ideas to marriage and parenting: supporting a spouse’s vision without becoming a ‘dream killer,’ balancing consequences with repeated guidance for children, and not letting a child’s history prevent offering grace and wisdom. They share examples of their sons’ maturing communication and learning from real-world consequences, and close by urging sons to acknowledge when their fathers were right and encouraging consistent investment in relationships so they don’t wither.

00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son Show (What This Space Is About)

00:33 Catching Up: Mardi Gras, Kids in Crowds & Weekend Check-In

01:18 Housekeeping: Subscribe + Live Show Tickets (2/24/26)

01:51 Topic Drop: 'Dear Son, You Asked for This' (Stop Complaining)

03:21 Busy vs Purpose: Choosing Better Words for a Full Life

05:14 A Day in the Life: Packed Schedule, Family Runs & Showing Up

06:33 Praying for Expansion… Then Handling Visibility & Responsibility

07:22 The Hidden Cost of What You Ask For (Time, Upkeep & Lifestyle Shifts)

12:39 Accountability on the Platform: Taking the Work Seriously

19:34 Growth Through Feedback: Drafts, Principles & Applying Lessons to Fatherhood

23:11 Consequences vs. Conversation: Fixing the Approach in Parenting & Marriage

24:27 The “Duck Through the Door” Metaphor: Coaching People Toward You

25:38 Teaching Kids Systems (Not Shame): When “One More Time” Becomes 20

26:34 Not Erasing Consequences: Responding When Growth Requires More

27:53 Supporting Your Partner’s Vision: Avoiding ‘Dream Killer’ Mode

33:56 History vs. Grace with Adult Kids: Respecting Who They’re Becoming

35:47 Seeing the Change: Communication, Adversity, and New Maturity

43:23 Let Lessons Land: Application, Parenting Environment, and Patience

44:58 Final Charge: Don’t Let Relationships Wither—Keep Pouring In

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Your Arrogance Is Ignorance | Navigating Life, Health, and Success | Ep 171 | The Dear Son, Show Feb 09, 2026

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DSN Live!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1982055664849?aff=oddtdtcreator

The Dear Son, Show: Navigating Life, Health, and Success

Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in meaningful conversations aimed at helping young men navigate life's challenges. They discuss a mix of personal experiences, including health scares, and the emotional complexity that follows. This episode dives into themes of humility and arrogance, practical advice on parenting, maintaining a balance between guidance and independence, and the business acumen required for long-term success. They also share excitement for their upcoming live event on February 24th, 2026. Tune in for valuable life lessons coupled with candid reflections.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:24 A Day of Mixed Emotions

01:15 Health Scares and Wake-Up Calls

02:35 Upcoming Live Event

04:25 The Importance of Humility

07:54 Teaching Sons About Relationships

13:07 Balancing Advice and Experience

25:55 The Dangers of Removing Safety Nets

26:55 Balancing Arrogance and Confidence

27:54 Building a Business: Timing and Preparation

29:19 Educating Youth on Business Realities

33:37 The Importance of Accountability and Self-Awareness

35:14 Lessons from Personal Experiences

41:58 Navigating Fatherhood and Family Dynamics

48:24 Concluding Thoughts and Announcements

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Better Together | Ep 2 | Exploring Growth, Challenges, and Purpose Feb 03, 2026

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Better Together - Episode 2 | Exploring Growth, Challenges, and Purpose

In this engaging episode of Better Together, our hosts dive deep into their personal and professional journeys. They discuss their thoughts and experiences on collaboration, the importance of purpose, handling adversity, and navigating new spaces. From entrepreneurial challenges to maintaining relationships, this episode encapsulates the essence of growing and thriving together. Join us for insightful conversations, practical advice, and a celebration of unity and individual contributions. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to our channel and leave a comment on your favorite part of the episode!

00:00 Introduction and Initial Setup

00:25 Discussing Shooting Schedules

00:56 Momentum and New Beginnings

02:09 The Importance of Activity and Engagement

03:03 Navigating Transitions and Challenges

06:43 Personal Growth and Maturity

12:42 Balancing Relationships and Responsibilities

15:53 Communication and Partnership

28:11 Asking for Help and Collaboration

31:03 Overcoming the Victim Mentality

31:15 The Power of Reaching Out

33:17 Assessing Capacity in Entrepreneurship

36:14 Delegation and Team Building

41:22 Balancing Joy and Growth

43:44 Staying Aligned with Purpose

47:39 Navigating Life's Forks in the Road

54:01 The Importance of Being Present

56:27 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Trust the Process | Stop Looking for Results | Ep 170 | The Dear Son, Show Jan 30, 2026

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Trust The Process: Growth, Family, and the Dear Son Show's Journey

Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts D Johns and Jeyblac dive deep into meaningful conversations concerning life, growth, and fatherhood. They discuss the inspirational journey of the show, the importance of trusting the process, and the significant transitions happening in their personal lives. The hosts also touch on the balance between professional and personal commitments, and share insights on creating a nurturing environment at home. Join them as they reflect on the show's beginnings, their experiences from their recent live show, and their excitement for the future. Don't miss this engaging discussion and remember to like, share, and subscribe!

00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:30 Studio Updates and Personal Reflections

03:23 Trust the Process

04:17 Live Show Success and Audience Engagement

11:47 The Importance of Diverse Perspectives

15:33 Building a Network and Expanding the Platform

20:19 Engaging with the Audience

21:18 Meaningful Conversations and Personal Connections

21:59 Parenting and Community Influence

22:50 Inclusivity in the Dear Son Network

25:54 Consistency and Growth in Podcasting

35:27 Trusting the Process in Personal and Professional Life

45:48 Excitement for Future Live Shows

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Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went | DSN Live! Experience | Ep 169 | The Dear Son, Show Jan 21, 2026

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Dear Son: Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went - Real Talks on Accountability and Relationships

On this first-ever live episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss the importance of intent versus outcome in personal and family relationships. The conversation covers multiple angles, including father-son dynamics, the impact of delivery over intent, and the nuances of loving someone the way they need to be loved. Insightful audience interactions address practical examples such as dealing with curfews, academic standards, and maintaining relationships. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes accountability and self-awareness in nurturing healthy relationships, both within families and with significant others.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:13 First Live Show Excitement

01:10 Topic Introduction: Intent vs. Outcome

02:21 Parenting Insights: Intentions and Actions

07:02 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons

10:02 Setting Standards and Consequences

21:05 Relationship Advice: Understanding Love

26:07 Lessons from My Marriage

27:11 The Importance of Communication

28:43 Intent vs. Action in Relationships

32:21 The Role of Accountability

35:03 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections

37:58 Navigating Expectations and Standards

48:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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Emotional Regulation for Fathers w Jason Schnitzer | Ep 168 | The Dear Son, Show #emotionaliq Jan 20, 2026

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Mastering Emotional Intelligence in Fatherhood with Jason Schnitzer | The Dear Son, Show

Join us for a profound episode of 'The Dear Son, Show' as host D Johns engages in a heartfelt and candid conversation with Jason Schnitzer. You’ll explore the complexities of fatherhood, emotional intelligence, and how previous life experiences shape who we become as men and fathers. Jason shares his own journey from aspiring Major League Baseball player to emotional intelligence coach, offering invaluable insights on regulating emotions, effective communication, and the importance of self-awareness. Whether you're a father, soon-to-be father, or simply interested in self-growth, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Don’t miss it! Remember to subscribe and share your favorite part in the comments below.

00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sun Show

00:17 Guest Introduction: Jason Schnitzer

01:28 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

04:40 Family Dynamics and Childhood Experiences

07:56 Marriage and Personal Growth

22:12 Coaching and Self-Reflection

30:35 Reflecting on Near-Death Experiences and Fear

31:09 Parenting Challenges and Passing on Wisdom

31:53 The Impact of Social Dynamics and Shame

33:38 Navigating Fear and Emotional Suppression

35:49 The Struggle with Failure and Identity

38:05 Overcoming Past Failures and Embracing New Challenges

39:39 The Journey from Baseball to Personal Growth

46:25 Helping Others Navigate Emotional Challenges

54:09 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks

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Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself | Fatherhood Guide | Ep 167 | The Dear Son, Show Jan 18, 2026

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Dear Son: Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself - Meaningful Conversations for Men

On this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a dynamic and heartfelt discussion on the theme 'Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself.' They delve into personal and family life, sharing how they balance personal growth with maintaining their true selves. The episode covers a broad range of topics including the importance of physical and mental health, navigating relationships, parenting strategies, and maintaining individuality in the face of societal and personal pressures. With an emphasis on real-life experiences and personal accountability, this conversation is designed to inspire and provide practical advice to both men and women on their individual journeys. Tune in for an engaging, humorous, and insightful episode.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:32 Catching Up on Life

01:17 School and Future Plans

02:34 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Don't Lose Yourself

03:14 Personal Reflections and Podcast Journey

07:08 The Importance of Seeking Help

13:18 Parenting Challenges and Approaches

20:57 Teaching Life Lessons to Young Men

26:13 A Father's Awareness and Involvement

27:23 Balancing Work and Family Life

28:13 The Importance of Being Present

30:21 Navigating Relationships and Expectations

32:25 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

37:34 The Impact of Change on Identity

42:48 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans

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Do As I Say, Not As I Did | Ep 166 | The Dear Son, Show Jan 11, 2026

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Dear Son, Do As I Say, Not As I Did - Lessons for the New Year | The Dear Son, Show

In this engaging episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations centered around fatherhood, discussing their personal experiences and the challenges of raising sons. They touch upon topics such as the importance of aligning actions with words, the lessons they've learned from their own fathers, and the significance of being intentional with parental guidance. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about their holiday experiences and offer insights on various life lessons they wish to impart to their sons as they journey through manhood. This episode is packed with valuable advice and relatable stories aimed at fostering better father-son relationships.

00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show

00:19 New Year Vibes and Studio Updates

00:40 Family and Holiday Reflections

03:26 Live Show Announcements

04:33 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Do as I Say, Not as I Did

06:29 Father-Son Conversations and Lessons

11:45 Conflict Resolution Among Young Men

16:10 Teaching Practical Skills to Sons

20:12 Generational Criticism and Changing Times

21:20 Handling Confrontation with Wisdom

22:20 Teaching Moments and Personal Growth

27:37 Communication and Responsibility

40:57 Aligning Actions with Words

45:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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