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Dear Son, I've Had One Too Many | A Conversation with Rudy Ortega, Sr | The DSP Ep. 11 Nov 30, 2021

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Dear Son, I've had one too many. Can you imagine having to explain that to your oldest son (or any family member for that matter)? Rudy's story is riddled with highs and lows, and his transparency is sure to help someone. Ultimately, he beat the odds and has reclaimed his greatness through overcoming alcoholism, restoring family relationships, and ultimately becoming the man he and his family can celebrate with pride. This is a must listen for anyone who has struggled with, seen, or simply is compassionate toward that struggle with addictions. I was truly blessed by this conversation, and I pray that you will gain something from it as well.

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Dear Son, I’m Listening | A Conversation With My Son | The DSP Ep 9 Nov 16, 2021

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Dear Son, I'm listening. No really, I hear you. This will forever be the most meaningful conversation I have on this platform as it is reflection of how the podcast was birthed. See, I wasn't great at communicating important life lessons to my son. Heck, I'm still a work in progress. The articulation has never been my challenge, but great articulation does not a great communicator make (at least not that alone). This journey is about overcoming the fears, the inadequacies, the shortcomings of being father. I am convinced that we can shift the trajectory of the next generation of fathers through vulnerable, transparent conversations about fatherhood. Me and my lofty dreams....I get it. This is the cause, my hill if you will, upon which my life's work will be built. Legacy.

The condensed version is that I love my sons (and daughters equally), and will invest in them daily to ensure they are prepared for the world that awaits. Grab a snack and enjoy. This is going to be a great one! Be blessed, fam.

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Dear Son, Save Your Community! Nov 09, 2021

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Dear Son, save your community. In this episode of The Dear Son, Podcast, we take a journey with community advocate, Tracey Parker, as he reveals the why behind his mission. He chronicles his life’s challenges and triumphs. The Newport News (VA) native learned the importance of ‘the village’ concept very early as he depended on friends and extended family members to fill the void of his biological parents not being in his life consistently. Tracey excelled in sports during his adolescent years, and found a father-figure in a high school coach. His life has been a roller coaster of highs and lows, but he found purpose when he met his Queen (Joy) who showed him unconditional love and ultimately challenged him to be a better man. Today, Tracey’s mission is to save everyone, literally. Lofty? Perhaps. His innate desire to help so many is reflective of the pain he experienced throughout his life. He simply doesn’t want others to experience it. There’s so much more to glean from this conversation, and I sincerely hope that you give it the attention due. The Friendship Lottery: The Friendship Lottery, founded by Tracey Parker and Noelle Parker, is a 501c3 non-profit organization on a mission to empower and educate our communities through outreach, partnerships with other non-profits, advocacy and financial blessings http://thefriendshiplottery.com/ info.thefriendshiplottinc@gmail.com instagram.com/thefriendshiplottery www.thedearsonpodcast.com Support the pod by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: www.johnsandcompany.co Love Kisha J Studios: www.etsy.com/shop/LoveKishaJStudios Let’s connect socially: www.instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast www.twitter.com/dearsonpodcast www.facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
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Dear Son, You Are Your Brother’s Keeper | The DSP Ep. 7 w/ Mikel Brown Nov 02, 2021

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"Dear Son, You Are Your Brother's Keeper"...what a tremendous charge on anyone's life. During this conversation with Mikel Brown (www.instagram.com/iammikelbrwn) I was afforded insight into his journey into fatherhood, having lost his father, his hero, at the age of eight. While there's no good time to lose a parent, losing one during this impressionable stage of life can be very traumatic, and negatively alter the course of a child's life. Thank God that this isn't how Mikel's story plays out. His older brother stepped in and transitioned into a father figure, caring for Mikel as he did for his biological children. Did they lose the brotherhood relationship in the process? Was there any resentment for the additional burden?

There's also the dynamic of the relationship Mikel had with his mother after his father died. He offers a very transparent perspective of blame turned guilt, turned forgiveness. Through it all, he found the lessons in time, and explains how he applies them as a father and husband. As some say, there's no manual for this thing called life. I offer Mikel's story as proof that there is hope beyond the loss of a parent. From fond memories of fedoras, diner runs, and a precious Cadillac, this conversation gave me all the feels. Grab a snack and enjoy this one with me. Be blessed, Fam!

#copingwithloss #losingaparent #losingafather #ittakesavillage

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Dear Son, I Love You Too Much to Spare Your Feelings | The DSP Ep. 6 w/ Javan Blackston Oct 26, 2021

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I had the pleasure of conversing with Javan (www.instagram.com/therazorscut), a Cybersecurity Systems Engineer by day, small business owner by night, about his fatherhood story, and there were many lessons to be gleaned. As a product of a blended family, he very quickly recognized the importance of creating family bonds and establishing the values he would later instill in his boys (15 & 22). He is passionate about helping others and, specifically, advocating for young black men to ensure their voices are heard and their developmental needs are met. Grab a snack. This is gonna be a great one!

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Dear Son, I’m Your Father, Not Your Friend | The DSP Ep. 5 Oct 19, 2021

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In this episode of The Dear Son, Podcast I took a hard look at my parent-to-friend ratio when it comes to my son. Let me explain (see what I did there), in the previous episode my father broke explained the meaning of a quote he’d tell me throughout my youth: “I’m your father, I’m not your friend.” You see, he was more concerned with providing me the right direction as an authority, than watching me fumble my way through life because he was too busy being my friend. I wanted different for my kids…or so I thought. Now I’ve created this parent-friend dichotomy; picking and choosing when to act in each capacity. I err more on the side of parent, but those moments where I slip up and get too friendly could be costly. Fatherhood is tough.

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Dear Son, Let Me Explain! | A Conversation With My Father | The DSP Ep 4 Oct 12, 2021

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In this episode I dig deeper into my fatherhood story through an intimate conversation with the man who birthed me. The big showdown with my father! Well, not so much the smoking guns, but we both gained clarity on how we perceive each other, how we could’ve benefited from a more engaging relationship earlier in life, and ultimately, how much we appreciate and need each other now more than ever. Are there any relationships in your fatherhood story (as a father or between you and your father) that you regret not repairing before it was too late? I encourage you to take full advantage of the opportunities to repair or restore those relationships that still have a chance. I appreciate your time and attention. Be blessed, Fam.

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