Dear Son,

This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

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Dear Son, I Won’t Always Be Here | Life Planning | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 137 May 02, 2025

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In this deeply heartfelt episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac hold an essential conversation about life through the lens of fatherhood. They cover significant topics that affect us all: preparing for mortality, the importance of spiritual grounding, and the necessity of financial responsibility. They share personal stories and insights, emphasizing the need for transparent and early discussions on grief, loss, and life planning. Don't miss out on their invaluable advice and actionable steps to better navigate fatherhood and personal growth. Subscribe now to ensure you never miss an impactful episode.

00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:00:18 Hosts' Personal Updates and Reflections

00:01:26 The Importance of Health and Mortality Awareness

00:03:10 Preparing for Life's Uncertainties

00:06:46 Conversations About Family Roles and Responsibilities

00:10:33 The Necessity of Planning and Communication

00:20:21 Dealing with Grief and Loss

00:22:09 Planning for the Future

00:24:24 Understanding Grief

00:26:38 Parenting and Emotional Intelligence

00:30:33 A Lesson in Perseverance

00:36:34 Balancing Life's Priorities

00:40:40 Spiritual and Financial Guidance

00:43:19 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

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Invested In My Family | Entrepreneurship and Fatherhood w Xavier Miller | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 136 Apr 22, 2025

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In this powerful episode of The Dear Son, Show, our host, D Johns, engages in a deep and meaningful conversation with Xavier Miller, a remarkable guest who shares his unique life experiences. From growing up in the segregated neighborhoods of Chicago to joining the Air Force and eventually diving into entrepreneurship, Xavier opens up about the lessons he learned along the way. The discussion touches on the significance of fatherhood, the challenges of maintaining strong family relationships, and the invaluable advice received from elders. If you’re seeking wisdom on personal growth, leadership, and the delicate balance of life, this episode is a must-watch. Don't forget to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with more compelling conversations. God bless and peace!

00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:00:20 Meet Xavier Miller

00:00:46 Life in Chicago and Moving to Florida

00:02:57 Joining the Military and Life Lessons

00:04:37 Fatherhood Reflections and Lessons Learned

00:13:16 Entrepreneurial Journey and Financial Wisdom

00:21:21 Balancing Family and Business

00:34:16 The Importance of Environment and Influences

00:35:54 Protecting Innocence: A Father's Perspective

00:37:33 Parenting Through Generations

00:39:10 Marriage and Personal Growth

00:43:16 The Reality of Relationships

00:53:57 The Fear of Divorce

01:06:46 The Importance of Headship

01:13:11 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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Dear Son, We Need to Talk | Digging Below the Surface | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 135 Apr 18, 2025

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Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive into the importance of having real, impactful conversations with young boys and men on the verge of major life milestones. Drawing from personal experiences, the hosts discuss how to ask the right questions to get meaningful answers, the importance of checking in beyond routine responses, and why it's vital to support your children's true passions—even if they differ from your expectations. This powerful discussion is also inspired by a recent tragedy, emphasizing the importance of doing real-life check-ins. If you want to equip the young men in your life with the wisdom you wish you had, this episode is a must-watch. Like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest conversations!

00:00:00 Welcome to The Dear Son, Show

00:00:26 The Importance of Real Conversations

00:01:34 Dear Son, Let's Talk

00:02:52 Tragic Events and Real-Life Check-ins

00:04:21 Graduation Milestones and Parental Guidance

00:05:45 Navigating Post-High School Decisions

00:16:43 Comparing Paths and Individual Journeys

00:20:08 Modern Career Advice for the Next Generation

00:23:34 Meeting Mentors and Learning Procurement

00:24:14 A Challenging Lesson from a Manager

00:25:20 The Importance of Explaining the Right Thing

00:25:47 Parenting and the Right Answers

00:27:39 Supporting Children's True Passions

00:28:51 Avoiding Personal Regret in Parenting

00:31:48 Balancing Parental Expectations and Children's Desires

00:37:09 Planning for Children's Futures

00:42:05 The Value of Discipline and Finishing What You Start

00:44:04 Final Thoughts and Announcements

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Armed with Education | State of Emergency w Mr. Dangerfield | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 134 Apr 15, 2025

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Join us on this episode of The Dear Son, Show, where host D Johns engages in a profound conversation with educator extraordinaire Mr. Carvell Dangerfield. Dive into the intricate world of fatherhood, education, and personal growth as Mr. Dangerfield shares invaluable insights from his life journey. Discover the challenges and triumphs of raising a son, the impact of technology on today's youth, and the delicate balance of guiding students both in and out of the classroom. This episode is filled with relatable stories, practical advice, and a powerful call to be more intentional in our roles as fathers and educators. Don't miss this meaningful dialogue—subscribe now for more impactful discussions!

00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sun Show

00:00:16 Guest Introduction: Mr. Carve Dangerfield

00:00:45 The Importance of Documenting Conversations

00:01:09 Mr. Dangerfield's Background and Education

00:01:49 Experiences at an HBCU

00:02:58 Challenges and Realities of College Life

00:10:13 Transitioning to a Career in Education

00:11:10 Roles and Responsibilities of a Teacher

00:11:53 Navigating Educational Politics

00:20:53 Student Motivation and Technology Distractions

00:25:35 Parental Involvement and Challenges

00:28:34 Accolades and Teaching Philosophy

00:32:45 Balancing Fatherhood and Teaching

00:36:09 Navigating Music and Parenting

00:45:10 Reflecting on My Relationship with My Father

00:55:09 The Role of God in My Life

00:57:19 Lessons Learned and Advice for My Son

00:01:01:24 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Projects

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The Man Code | Dispelling the Myths | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 133 Apr 11, 2025

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Join hosts D Johns and Jey Blac for a captivating episode of The Dear Son, Show, where they unpack the intricacies of 'Man Code' in the context of fatherhood, relationships, and personal growth. From hilarious personal anecdotes to deep reflections, this episode dives into the phases of manhood and how societal expectations shape our boys into men. The hosts discuss the importance of emotionally intelligent conversations, the generational transfer of values, and the evolving definition of masculinity. Don't miss out on their insights about modern parenting, the impact of peer pressure, and the importance of providing comprehensive guidance to the next generation. Subscribe, join the conversation in the comments, and stay tuned for more enriching discussions!

00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:00:19 Hosts' Positive Vibes and Weekly Updates

00:01:16 Membership and Support

00:02:28 Feedback and Man Code Discussion

00:04:22 Defining and Challenging Man Code

00:14:48 Maturity and Life Phases

00:23:56 The Man Code Debate

00:24:49 Cultural Differences and Manhood

00:26:41 Influence of Peers and Environment

00:29:59 The Importance of Education and Entrepreneurship

00:33:53 Father-Son Dynamics and Masculinity

00:43:10 Concluding Thoughts and Future Discussions

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My Father Prepared Me for Life | Lineage & Legacy w Johnny L Collins II | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 131 Apr 07, 2025

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Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, host D Johns sits down with the remarkable Johnny L. Collins II for a heartfelt and insightful conversation about fatherhood, legacy, and the pivotal moments that shape our lives. From Johnny's early years in the title business to his reflections on being a son and a father, this episode delves deep into the lessons learned and the values passed down through generations. Johnny shares his personal stories, the wisdom imparted by his late father, and his own unique approach to parenting. Don't miss this inspiring and thought-provoking discussion that promises to resonate with fathers, sons, and anyone interested in the profound impact of fatherhood.

00:00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show

00:00:19 Guest Introduction: Mr. Johnny L. Collins II

00:00:44 Johnny's Career Journey in the Title Business

00:03:17 The Importance of Fatherhood Conversations

00:03:50 Johnny's Childhood and Family Dynamics

00:05:20 Lessons from Johnny's Father

00:10:16 Parenting Styles and Discipline

00:17:41 Impact of Father's Teachings on Johnny's Life

00:23:30 Embracing Humor and Openness

00:24:06 Entrepreneurship and Personal Struggles

00:24:41 Never Looking Back at Jobs

00:25:24 Faith and Resilience

00:27:09 Sharing Challenges with Family

00:28:21 Teaching Life Lessons to Children

00:29:50 Legacy and Family Values

00:32:58 Fatherhood and Generational Wisdom

00:42:03 Reflections on Loss and Love

00:46:18 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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What About Me | How To Cope When It Isn’t Your Turn | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 131 Apr 04, 2025

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In this engaging episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the challenges and rewards of parenting, personal development, and setting goals. From navigating the teenage years and prepping for graduation, to discussing personal and professional growth, the hosts provide invaluable insights and anecdotes that resonate with both parents and young adults alike. Join the conversation as they share personal stories, discuss the pressures of achievement, and explore the balance of individual desires and communal responsibilities. Plus, stay tuned for a major announcement that promises to add more excitement to the journey. Don't forget to subscribe, share your thoughts, and hit the notification bell to never miss an episode!

00:00:00 Welcome to the Dessan Show

00:00:27 Greenhouse Adventures and Family Life

00:00:55 School Updates and Graduation Countdown

00:01:54 Major Announcement Teaser

00:02:38 The Topic of the Day: What About Me?

00:03:25 Navigating Personal and Professional Goals

00:17:50 Parenting and Preparing for the Future

00:25:32 Reflecting on College Expectations

00:26:42 The Value of Trade Schools

00:27:45 Success Beyond College Degrees

00:34:14 Parental Expectations and Generational Wealth

00:40:17 Parenting and Children's Independence

00:47:39 Closing Thoughts and Announcements

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I Can’t Let My Dad Down | Living Up to Expectations | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 130 Mar 31, 2025

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Welcome to The Dear Son, Show, where we engage in meaningful conversations about life from the perspective of fatherhood. In this episode, join host D Johns and special guest Stanley Nash Jr. for a candid discussion on fatherhood, life lessons, and personal growth. Stanley Nash Jr., a father, husband, and community influencer, shares his journey from growing up in a close-knit, rural community to becoming a voice of positive change. Hear about his upbringing, the impact of his father's guidance, and how he strives to instill the same values in his daughters. This episode offers a heartfelt exploration of the challenges and rewards of fatherhood, the importance of authentic relationships, and the powerful influence of parental love and advice.

00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:00:25 Meet the Guest: Stanley Nash Jr.

00:01:06 Stanley's Upbringing and Family Life

00:03:06 Lessons from a Strong Father Figure

00:04:32 The Youngest Sibling Experience

00:10:57 Work Ethic and Life Lessons

00:15:12 Fatherhood and Passing Down Values

00:22:31 Navigating Marriage Conversations

00:23:58 The Wedding Dilemma

00:24:22 Fatherly Advice

00:25:13 Online Reactions

00:29:31 Living for Parents

00:32:30 Breaking Free

00:39:23 Parenting Lessons

00:47:13 Final Reflections

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Dear Son, Put A Ring On It! | Fatherhood, Marriage, and Personal Growth | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 129 Mar 28, 2025

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In this enlightening episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in a heartfelt discussion about life through the lens of fatherhood, marriage, and personal growth. They share their experiences and challenges, providing invaluable insights for fathers, sons, and the fatherless. As they celebrate personal milestones—10 and 20 years of marriage—they talk about the importance of communication, understanding, and self-awareness in maintaining a successful relationship. The episode also touches on the transformation that comes with marriage, emphasizing how it pushes individuals to be their best selves. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation, and don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more enriching discussions!

00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son Show

00:00:18 Springtime Vibes and Internet Radio

00:01:08 Excitement About the Network

00:03:23 Anniversary Episode: Celebrating Milestones

00:04:13 Marriage Reflections: First and Second Chances

00:13:52 Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

00:20:44 Choosing the Right Partner

00:24:49 Making Space for Love

00:25:39 Marriage and Maturity

00:27:47 The Reckless Past

00:29:00 Accountability and Stability

00:30:47 Temptations and Realizations

00:32:41 Longevity in Marriage

00:38:29 Communication and Expectations

00:39:35 Intentional Dating

00:42:49 Self-Discovery Through Marriage

00:44:55 Reflections and Gratitude

00:50:22 Closing Thoughts and Announcements

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Life After Corporate | Fatherhood, Career, and Identity | Ep 124 w TJ Davidson | The Dear Son, Show Mar 28, 2025

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In this episode of the Dear Son Show, host D Johns sits down with the inspiring TJ Davidson for an engaging conversation that delves into life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the significance of open communication in relationships, the impact of corporate careers on family life, and the journey of self-identification beyond job titles. Both fathers talk about their parenting philosophies, the sacrifices they've made, and the importance of showing their children how to strive for greatness. Join us for a heartfelt conversation that touches on everything from raising kids to overcoming career challenges and finding true identity.

00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:00:17 Meet the Guest: T. J. Davidson

00:00:31 Family Life and Parenting Challenges

00:02:10 Discovering the YouTube Family

00:04:50 Creating Content and Career Beginnings

00:07:10 Growing Up in the 757

00:09:00 Balancing Church and Personal Life

00:18:50 Parenting Philosophies and Approaches

00:27:34 Corporate Journey and Life Changes

00:28:25 Generational Expectations and Career Choices

00:29:22 Corporate Life and Its Discontents

00:29:59 The Turning Point: Embracing YouTube