Dear Prudence

Latest Episodes:

My Partner’s Relationship With His Ex Makes Me Feel Like the Third Wheel. Help! Sep 15, 2023

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In this episode, Tia Williams (bestselling author of The Perfect Find) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about how to cope with excessive Facebook photos of your partner’s ex, how to mourn a racist in-law’s death, and how to have a cute summer romance in Italy.

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Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.

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My Sister Is Lying to My Nephews About Their Father's Identity. Help! Sep 08, 2023

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In this episode, Gene Demby (co-host of NPR's Code Switch) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about crushes that are complicated by power dynamics, family secrets about racial identity, and whether loud talking is a cultural issue that could end a relationship.

If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members.

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Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.

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Relationship Podcasts Are Ruining My Friend's Life. Help! Sep 01, 2023

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In this episode, Dr. Orna Guralnik (host of Showtime's Couples Therapy) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about what to do when a friend is obsessed with misogynistic love and relationship podcasts, when your husband just can’t figure out birthday gifts, and when you’re wondering “Does therapy just not work for me?”

If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members.

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Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

My Wife Goes Braless Around Our Teenage Sons. Help! Aug 25, 2023

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In this episode, Brian Lehrer (host of WNYC’s The Brian Lehrer Show) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about how roommates should handle mismatched levels of COVID caution, how to split a check when your friends forget they had appetizers, and how to settle a debate about going braless around teenage sons.

If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members.

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Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.

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I Told My Husband I May Have Postpartum Depression—He Did Nothing. Help! Aug 18, 2023

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In this episode, Lori Gottlieb (advice columnist and co-host of the Dear Therapists podcast) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about postpartum depression, wedding-planning anxiety, and what to do when you think neurodivergent people are getting away with way too much.

If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members.

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Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.

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My Co-Worker Won’t Stop Sending Me Friend Requests Online. Help! Aug 11, 2023

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In this episode, Joel Anderson (the host of the latest season of Slate’s Slow Burn) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters about persistent friend requests from colleagues, allegations of white supremacy surrounding graduation attire, and what to do when your biggest relationship issue is cat litter in the bed.

If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members.

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Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.

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My Sister Is Doing Everything She Can to Make Me Suffer at Her Wedding. Help! Aug 04, 2023

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In this episode, Jasmine Guillory (a New York Times bestselling author) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers who are obsessing about what happens when an affair partner becomes a coworker, girls’ trip drama, and friends with benefits who also have benefits with other friends.

If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members.

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Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.

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My Boyfriend Hid His Hobby From Me—Civil War Reenactments. Help! Jul 28, 2023

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In this episode, Damon Young (a writer, critic, and a self-proclaimed “professional black person”) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers who are obsessing about their lackluster high school tennis careers, their awkward interaction with their crushes, and whether participation in civil war reenactments is a dating deal breaker.

If you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate’s membership program. Jenée answers an extra question every week, just for members. This week she answers a question about what to do when a grandparent food-polices a toddler.

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Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.

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How Do I Disclose to My Kids That I've Had an Abortion–Twice? Help! Jul 21, 2023

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In this episode, Jessica Valenti (a feminist columnist and author) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer readers’ letters about whether it’s okay to ghost friends who don’t respect your reproductive choices, how to deal with a spouse who is a slob, and when to tell your kids you’ve had an abortion.

Go to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It’s just $15 for your first three months.

Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.

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My Friends Got Me a Terrible Birthday Gift. Help! Jul 14, 2023

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In this episode, Josh Gondelman (author, producer, and stand-up comedian) joins Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer readers’ dilemmas about workplace coffee runs, unwanted birthday gifts, pets who steal food—and husbands who react really strangely when that happens.

Go to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It’s just $15 for your first three months.

Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Brandon Nix.

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