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The Mystery Bride (Guest: Laterras R. Whitfield) Aug 06, 2025

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In a rare and vulnerable twist, host Laterras Whitfield becomes the guest on his own show—and he’s answering the questions everyone’s been asking.

In this deeply personal episode, Laterras opens up about:

💍 His mystery bride and why they’ve chosen to keep her identity private until the wedding

🕊️ The heart behind their unconventional journey to the altar

🎯 His true intentions with marriage—and how he’s navigating this new season with God, grace, and intentionality

If you’ve been following the journey… this is the episode you can’t miss.

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Before We Get Married (Guest: Gary Chapman) Jul 30, 2025

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Laterras R. Whitfield welcomes relationship expert Dr. Gary Chapman to share wisdom on marriage, conflict resolution, and thriving in long-term relationships.

Overview: In this insightful episode, Dr. Chapman discusses key lessons from his bestselling book "Things I Wish We'd Known Before We Got Married." He shares perspective on the realities of marriage, the importance of learning your spouse's love language, and practical tips for handling conflict, money, and more. Dr. Chapman offers wisdom forged from his own 63-year marriage.

Timestamps:

00:05:20 - The 2-year lifespan of romantic love

00:09:30 - Letting go of irritations to find laughter

00:14:40 - Solving conflicts without arguing

00:19:10 - Setting a financial plan before marriage

00:24:30 - Thriving as a single while waiting for a spouse

00:28:50 - Serving others to find meaning in life

00:33:20 - Prayer for the host's upcoming book

Key Takeaways:

- Romantic love alone isn't enough to sustain a marriage long-term. Learn your spouse's love language.

- Laughter and finding humor in your spouse's quirks can strengthen your bond.

- Listen empathetically and look for win-win solutions when resolving conflicts.

- Agree on a financial plan for giving, saving, spending. Don't keep financial secrets.

- Your relationship with God is the foundation. Keep pursuing Him first.

CTA: If you're single, engaged or married, don't miss the wisdom in this episode! Tune in now to hear Dr. Chapman's insightful marriage advice.

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Singles Night (Guests: Pastor Kenneth Leonard & Tasha Cobbs Leonard) Jul 23, 2025

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Pastor Tasha & Kenny Leonard welcomed Laterras to host a special Dear Future Wifey Live for Young Adults Night at The Purpose Place Church in Greenville, South Carolina—and the conversation was REAL.

We dove into questions today’s young adults are wrestling with:

💬 How do singles in church really meet each other?

💍 Do young adults still desire marriage in today’s culture?

💸 Is financial stability a valid reason to delay marriage?

✝️ Are young adults practicing abstinence—or has purity culture lost its voice?

💖 Plus, Pastor Tasha & Kenny Leonard share their own love story and how God brought them together.

This episode is a mix of laughter, transparency, and truth for anyone navigating love, faith, and purpose in today’s world.

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The Silent Struggle (Guest: Joy Pittman) Jul 16, 2025

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In this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode, Joy Pittman takes us on a journey through love, faith, and the lessons she’s learned while living fully surrendered to God.

We discuss:

✨ Her personal dating journey and how faith reshaped her approach to relationships

🙏 What it really means to live a life completely yielded to God’s timing and will

💼 Why some men marry women solely to build their businesses—and the impact it leaves behind

💖 A sweet and funny story about her father’s unique dating philosophy, giving each woman he dated just one day a week

This episode is equal parts wisdom, humor, and a gentle challenge to reexamine how we approach love and purpose.

Don’t miss this one—it might change the way you see relationships forever.

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The Dating Decades (Guest Panelists) Jul 09, 2025

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Our first-ever live show in Chicago was nothing short of unforgettable! Hosted at Living Word Church, this powerful conversation brought laughter, vulnerability, and real talk about love, mental health, and the journey to “I do.”

🔥 Jason Wilson—the church’s funny guy—had the crowd in stitches while dropping serious gems about why it’s time to stop playing and start dating with intention.

🧠 Jacqulyne Horbrook, founder of Black Christian Influencers, opened up about her past marriage and the critical role mental health plays in relationships.

😳 One panelist revealed she’s 26 and has never been on a date—and her honesty sparked an eye-opening discussion.

💍 And let’s just say… you might want to watch until the end. Two contestants may be on the path to engagement 👀

This isn’t just a podcast episode. It’s a moment.

Tap in, laugh loud, and lean into the conversation we all need to be having.

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Love & Leadership (Guests: Dr. Alduan & Mecca Tartt) Jul 02, 2025

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This week’s episode features a dynamic conversation with Dr. Alduan & Mecca Tartt—a power couple whose love story challenges traditional gender roles while highlighting the beauty of mutual respect, faith, and growth. We dive deep into:

💥 Their unique dating journey and how Mecca—an unapologetic alpha woman—set the pace

❤️ What it looks like to pursue and court a strong woman who knows what she wants

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Navigating parenting, the decision to expand their family, and how they raise their daughters

🛠️ Real talk about compromise, reconciliation, and the work required to build lasting love This is not just a relationship—it’s a partnership rooted in purpose.

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe and join the conversation on love, leadership, and letting go of old narratives.

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I Believe in Love (Guest: Shari' Nycole) Jun 25, 2025

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What does healing, purpose, and partnership look like for a woman at the top of her game? In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with Shari’ Nycole—TV producer, media personality, and co-host of the Willie Moore Jr. Show—to unpack her journey from public success to private introspection.

Shari’ opens up about:

Her powerhouse career with TV One, ESSENCE’s Women in Sports initiative, and more

How a season of solitude became sacred preparation for marriage

Why the Church must expand its language around singleness and womanhood

Whether she's open to dating outside her race based on modern relationship statistics

This episode is for every woman redefining what it means to be whole—and every man who wants to understand her better.

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Divided We Fall (Guests: Lamar & Ronnie Tyler) Jun 18, 2025

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In this deeply moving and empowering episode, we sit down with Lamar and Ronnie Tyler, the trailblazing founders of Black and Married with Kids. What started as a blog became a national movement—and this conversation shows you why.

We cover:

💡 How their #1 priority is educating Black families on financial literacy

📈 How they launched their business and built an empire that centers Black love

🤝 How to earn trust in marriage—not just with words, but with results

💬 Lamar’s powerful perspective on never pre-judging his wife for bringing children into the marriage, shaped by being raised by a single mom himself

👩🏾‍🎓 Ronnie’s brave journey of hiding her pregnancy while at Spelman, only to discover her parents’ unexpected love and support

🎓 Her academic success—graduating with honors from Spelman and pursuing engineering in grad school

🎤 A preview of their impactful marriage and family conference

🚨 And finally—their bold take on the #1 enemy threatening Black marriages and families today

This episode is a masterclass in love, legacy, and building something that lasts.

👇 Drop a comment with your biggest takeaway.

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Heaven Holds Her (Guest: Nick Stotzer) Jun 11, 2025

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In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Nick opens up about the divine timing of their love, the joy of fatherhood, and the unthinkable grief of losing his soulmate. With powerful honesty, he shares how he’s held onto faith, rebuilt his life for his sons, and continued to believe in purpose even through pain.

This is more than a story — it’s a testimony.

🙏 Share this with anyone walking through loss, questioning God’s plan, or needing a reminder that beauty can still rise from ashes.

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Mr. & Mrs. Black Love (Guests: Tommy Oliver & Codie Oliver) Jun 04, 2025

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What happens when two visionaries fall in love and decide to champion healthy Black relationships for the world to see? In this unforgettable episode, Tommy & Codie Oliver—the powerhouse couple behind the groundbreaking Black Love docuseries—join Dear Future Wifey to share the behind-the-scenes story of their marriage, mission, and movement.

From navigating the highs and lows of entrepreneurship and parenting to preserving intimacy while producing a cultural phenomenon, the Olivers get real about what it takes to build something beautiful—on-screen and off.

🎥 They didn’t just film love stories. They lived one.

💬 Get ready for honest dialogue, raw emotion, and priceless wisdom.

❤️ This is a masterclass in purpose-driven partnership.

If you’ve ever questioned whether love and legacy can coexist, this episode is your answer.

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