Dear Future Husband

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Could SIN Be Why Many Christian Women Are Still Single or Date Toxic Men? ft. John Bevere (Pt. 2) Jan 22, 2026

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In our second conversation, with my father-in-law and renowned author, John Bevere, he confronts the spiritual roots shaping modern relationships. We explore how sin nature influences attraction, why God’s design for marriage clashes with today’s dating culture, and how compromise—often mistaken for chemistry—can quietly cost us covenant.
Drawing from biblical truth and traditional Jewish courtship, John challenges common dating patterns and unpacks why so many Christian women (and men) find themselves choosing the wrong partners again and again. This episode calls listeners to move from emotion-led decisions to discernment rooted in truth.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

"Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?"—A Raw Conversation About Healing After Divorce ft. Laterras Whitfield Jan 15, 2026

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What does it really look like for a man to take responsibility for his healing?
In this episode, Laterras R. Whitfield of Dear Future Wifey shares his journey from infidelity to integrity and how owning his past became the turning point that prepared him for a second chance at love.
Rather than blaming circumstances or others, Laterras chose a harder path. He took accountability, did the internal work, and became the kind of man a future wife could trust. This conversation explores what real healing requires, why integrity must be built before marriage, and how responsibility shapes the husband a man becomes.
Whether you are single, dating, married, or rebuilding after divorce, this episode challenges us all to forgo outsourcing our healing, and rather, to believe and become redeemed and transformed.
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How can YOU begin preparing for your future marriage too? Pre-order the "Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal" and "Future Husband, Present Prayers" book today and start praying intentionally for the spouse you are believing for—and becoming!
(Both Launch February 10—Pre-order for exclusive gifts)

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

3 Things I Wish I Knew BEFORE Getting Married Jan 08, 2026

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Maybe you know you want to get married someday—but no one has really talked to you about what actually makes marriage work.

I’ve been there. Before I got married, there were things I wish someone had told me—things that would’ve saved me confusion, unrealistic expectations, and a lot of learning the hard way.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 things I wish I knew about marriage before getting married. Whether you’re single, engaged, newly married, or years in, these insights can help you build a healthier, stronger marriage—now or in the future.

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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Maybe God Allows Hard Waiting Seasons for This Reason! (The Tool of Joy ft. Rachel Awtry) Dec 29, 2025

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Have you ever felt like waiting is taking too long—or that dating should be easier by now? Have you caught yourself comparing your love story to others and feeling disappointed?
In this episode, Rachel Awtry shares powerful insights from her new book on why we can—and should—be cultivators of joy in every season of life. We talk about how choosing joy, even in the waiting, can transform not only our outlook but our outcomes.
Whether you’re single, dating, or simply wrestling with unmet expectations, this conversation offers encouragement, perspective, and hope for wherever you are right now.
Get Rachel's book, "Love Your Life (Even When You Don’t Like It All the Time)" here: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Your-Life-Even-When/dp/B0DJY765XF

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

She Prayed for Her Future Husband... But THIS Almost Ended Everything (ft. Joren and Mia Dunnavant Pt. 3) Dec 18, 2025

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What do you do when God answers your prayer… and you’re afraid He might take it back?
In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with Mia Fields and her husband, Joren Dunnavant, to share their love story—the waiting, the surrender, and the moments when trusting God felt risky. From placing an answered prayer back on the altar to learning how to hold a promise loosely, this conversation speaks to every woman who has ever questioned God in the middle of waiting.
If you’ve ever wondered whether you can trust what God gave you, this episode is for you.
As you listen, you may resonate with the prayers and questions shared throughout this conversation. Christian recently released two resources for women in seasons like this—the Future Husband Present Prayers Book and the Dear Future Husband Journal—created to help you pray, reflect, and trust God with your love story, even when faith feels fragile. (Pre-Order Both Here: https://christianbevere.com/future-husband)

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Your Future Husband Will Be Impacted By What You're Praying Now—ft. My Husband Arden Dec 11, 2025

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Your prayers for your future husband matter more than you think!
In this episode, my husband shares how the prayers I prayed over him while I was single impacted his heart and our marriage. If you’ve ever questioned whether your prayers make a difference — especially in a season of waiting — this conversation will remind you: they do!
We're giving you a preview of the other side of YOUR prayers—a testimony of the power of a praying (future) wife! We'll touch on: longing and surrender, to meeting “the one,” to how those early prayers shaped our relationship. If you’re single, dreaming, praying, or simply hoping with faith — this is for you.
If you want to go deeper into prayerful preparation for marriage, I wrote TWO resources for you: the book to guide you, "Future Husband, Present Prayers" & the companion prayer journal, "Dear Future Husband". Both lead you to pray intentionally, grow spiritually, and prepare your heart for the love God has planned.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

"You Have Not (A Husband) Because You Ask Not?!" ft. Exclusive Announcement Dec 04, 2025

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James 4:2 says, “You have not because you ask not,” and that verse hits differently when you think about the desire to be married. If you have felt shy, unsure, or even a little guilty about asking God for a spouse, you are not alone! In this episode, we talk honestly about why that happens and what this verse can mean for your dating life and your faith.
Now, for those of you who have been praying for your future husband and want guidance, structure, and deeper support along the way, I have news I am so excited to finally share! I took the heart behind my own Husband’s Bible and turned it into something you can hold. Actually… two somethings!!
As part of the Dear Future Husband community, you get the very first opportunity to pre-order Future Husband, Present Prayers Book and The Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. These resources are created to help guide your prayers with clarity, direction, and bold expectation and give you a beautiful space to record your prayers and even create a meaningful gift for your future spouse.
EXCLUSIVE: Pre-Order yours below!
Future Husband, Present Prayers: https://rstyle.me/+sJxs3oFbPhgbsTb2QCRzrQ
Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal: https://rstyle.me/+A0KV7G_H8lt_6klK8nY8UQ

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

“Are You Still Single?” — How to Stop Explaining Yourself This Holiday Season Nov 13, 2025

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If that question makes you cringe every holiday season, this episode is for you. 💕

I’m sharing 4 key truths to help you respond with grace, confidence, and faith — without letting anyone steal your peace. Because your worth isn’t tied to your relationship status, and God’s timing is never late.

And here’s a date you do want to have: December 4th! That’s when Season 6 officially launches — and you, the Dear Future Husband Community, get the exclusive on a very special, long-awaited announcement.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Is There Still A LoveStory Waiting For You After You've Been Waiting For Decades?! Oct 30, 2025

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"Is there any hope left for the single, Christian woman waiting in her 30s or even 40s?" many of our community have asked. Well, Sarah Glover is here to tell you YES, there is!
But more than that, she shares the ups and the downs of prolonged waiting. The areas that we have to deny flesh—settling or disappointment—and lean harder into faith—trusting and waiting well.
Tune in as this hilarious Tasmanian, renowned chef, shares her first testimony and love story for the first time.

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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

How to Know Which Date is Worth Keeping Pt. 2 ft Dr. Henry Cloud Oct 23, 2025

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Who are you dating—or hoping to date—and how are you attracting them?

These questions might sound familiar, but I invite you to explore them more deeply. Often, we don’t realize that the “type” we’re drawn to may be shaped by old insecurities or unresolved wounds. Or that, when we do date, we may unintentionally hold back parts of ourselves out of fear or self-doubt.

In this episode, Dr. Henry Cloud unpacks how to move beyond just getting a date—and how to recognize whether the person you're seeing is truly someone worth investing in. Find more of his teachings from his book, "How to Get a Date Worth Keeping," available wherever books are sold.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayersand trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

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