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🙏 Helping dads be awesome dads through:
CONVERSATIONS 🎙️ 📖 🔥
CHALLENGES 🚲 🏃 💪
COACHING ✈️ 🎯 🌊
Turning HEARTS toward HEAVEN & toward HOME.
FEATURED
Most men are getting lived by their lives instead of actually living them. In this conversation, Alan Briggs unpacks how a life of constant escape leaves us empty at the end of the day, and what it looks like to design something we can actually engage with instead. From Yes Days with your kids to preparing for the car ride home the way you'd prepare for a business meeting, Alan brings practical insight that will reshape how you show up as a dad this week.
TAKEAWAYS---The best dads aren't the ones with the most time. They're the ones who prepare for the small moments with the same intentionality they bring to work.
---A coming of age year for your son doesn't require waking up at 4 a.m. It just requires showing up consistently and inviting other trusted men to speak life into him.
---Celebrate who your kids actually are instead of trying to make them love what you love. Curiosity is the doorway to connection.
---We were built for both meaningful work and real rest. Without a healthy theology of both, we swing between burnout and apathy.
---The question that changes everything: What is the good life for you and your family three years from now?
GUESTAlan Briggs is a coach, author, and adventurer based in Colorado Springs. He runs two and a half companies, including a coworking space, and spends his days helping leaders find a lighter, more sustainable way to live and work. He's the author of multiple books, including his latest resource on anti-burnout, and the host of his own podcast for leaders. Alan and his wife are raising four kids ranging from 12 to 23, including two adopted children. He loves the mountains, disc golf with his son, and learning to cheer for his kids in the worlds they love most.
QUOTESJoin the DadAwesome Prayer Team: Text "pray" to (651) 370-8618
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
7-Day Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
DadAwesome Podcast: dadawesome.org/podcast
Free Chapter + Intro Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
Apply to join the next DadAwesome Accelerator Cohort: Email awesome@dadawesome.org
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
Dad Awesome book: dadawesome.org/book
Alan's BOOKS
🎙️ Brandon Lake's dad on the DadAwesome podcast.
Mac Lake (a.k.a. "Pops") joins us for a powerful conversation on speaking life, leading at home, and shaping your kids into who God already sees them to be.
✅ The biblical definition of leader — disciple, servant, apostle (and why "I'm not much of a leader" is insecurity, not humility)
✅ How a posture of unhurried presence changes everything (Pops TV, dinosaur eggs, and football for 60 minutes if they want 60)
✅ Why discipline is discipleship — and how to stop disciplining out of a wounded ego
SUMMARYThe words you speak to your kids today become the voice inside their head for the rest of their lives — for better or worse. In this episode, Mac Lake (yes, that Mac — Brandon Lake's dad) shares the leadership wisdom he's spent a lifetime giving away: how to speak life over your kids, why "I'm not much of a leader" is insecurity in disguise, and how a biblical definition of leader — disciple, servant, apostle — changes how you show up at home. Plus Pops TV, dinosaur eggs, and why discipline is discipleship.
TAKEAWAYSMac Lake is a pastor, leadership coach, and the founder of The Multiplication Center, where he trains church leaders to identify and develop multiplying leaders. He's the author of The Multiplication Effect and has spent decades coaching pastors and executives in leadership pipeline development. He and his wife Cindy ("CeCe") have three grown kids — including worship artist Brandon Lake — and six grandkids who know him as "Pops." They live in South Carolina.
LINKSJoin the DadAwesome Prayer Team: Text "pray" to (651) 370-8618
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
7-Day Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
DadAwesome Podcast: dadawesome.org/podcast
Free Chapter + Intro Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
Apply to join the next DadAwesome Accelerator Cohort: Email awesome@dadawesome.org
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
Dad Awesome book: dadawesome.org/book
FROM THE VAULT with Bob Goff:
✅ Why hovering over your family is one of the most important things you can do as a dad
✅ How to leave behind treasures your kids will discover long after you are gone
✅ The courage it takes to quit something that no longer fits and start fresh
✅ What Bob learned from his friends at San Quentin about feeding the people around you
SUMMARYThere are around 8 billion people alive right now, and there have been 107 billion who came before us. That context changes everything about how you spend today with your kids. In this From the Vault conversation, Bob Goff returns to talk about hovering over your family the way God hovered over the earth, leaving behind treasures your kids will discover for years to come, and finding the courage to make bold moves when something in your life needs to change. Bob shares why being fully present matters more than providing, how to live a "no capes" kind of life, and why the small moments will be the bookmarks your kids carry forever.
TAKEAWAYSBob Goff is the bestselling author of Love Does, Everybody Always, Dream Big, and Undistracted, along with several children's books co-written with his daughter Lindsey. He is the founder of Love Does, a nonprofit that operates schools and safe houses for children in conflict zones around the world. Bob and his wife, Sweet Maria, live in San Diego and spend much of their time at The Oaks, where they host gatherings for dreamers and world changers. They have three grown children and several grandchildren.
QuotesJoin the DadAwesome Prayer Team: Text "pray" to (651) 370-8618
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
7-Day Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
DadAwesome Podcast: dadawesome.org/podcast
Free Chapter + Intro Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
Apply to join the next DadAwesome Accelerator Cohort: Email awesome@dadawesome.org
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
Dad Awesome book: dadawesome.org/book
SUMMARY
I brought a real story to Dr. Michelle this week. A small mistake on my part, a hurt little girl, a defensive dad at bedtime, and my wife catching my eye across the room. What unfolded was a live coaching moment I needed more than I knew. Dr. Michelle gently walked me back through what I missed, what was actually under the anger, and how to do the repair that actually reaches a daughter's heart. If you have ever blown it with your kids and tried to talk your way out of it instead of leaning in, this conversation is for you.
TakeawaysDr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a licensed counselor, speaker, and the host of The Dad Whisperer podcast. She founded The Abba Project, a nine month group for dads of daughters between thirteen and thirty, and has spent the last fifteen plus years coaching fathers in the work of pursuing their daughters' hearts. She is the author of Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You and Let's Talk, and her writing on fatherhood has reached dads in all fifty states and around the world.
QuotesYou probably think you're closer to your daughter than she'd say you are. The research keeps proving it. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is back with the question every dad of daughters should ask this week:
✅ The zero to ten question that closes the closeness gap
✅ Why one word of affirmation revives what looked dead
✅ A five senses experiment to pursue her on purpose
✅ Jeff opening up about missing it with his four year old the night before
MOM AWESOME CHALLENGE >Text MOM to (651) 370-8618 // or click here
SUMMARYMost dads think they're closer to their daughters than they actually are. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield has spent 30 years sitting with dads and daughters in the gap between, and she came on DadAwesome to say it plain: your words water her dry soul, your anger can wipe out nine good days, and pursuit is the muscle every dad has to keep building. This is part one of a two part conversation, and Jeff brings a real story from the night before about missing it with his four year old.
TAKEAWAYSDr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a licensed counselor, speaker, and the host of The Dad Whisperer Podcast. She founded The Abba Project in 2010, a group coaching experience for dads of daughters, and has written two books for fathers: Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You and Let's Talk.
QUOTESText MOM to (651) 370-8618 // or click here
Join the DadAwesome Prayer Team: Text "pray" to (651) 370-8618
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
7-Day Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
DadAwesome Podcast: dadawesome.org/podcast
Free Chapter + Intro Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
Apply to join the next DadAwesome Accelerator Cohort: Email awesome@dadawesome.org
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
Dad Awesome book: dadawesome.org/book
Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield: drmichellewatson.com
Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You by Dr. Michelle Watson
There's a moment in Interstellar where Matthew McConaughey sits down and watches 25 years of video messages from the kids he left behind. Daniel Chesnut drove home from that movie snot-crying, climbed into bed next to his sleeping two-year-old, and asked God a simple question: why is this wrecking me? What he heard back changed the way he has fathered for the last decade. In this conversation, Daniel shares listening prayer with your kids, why vulnerability is actually strength, how to play the long game with a 14-year-old, and the truth that's rescuing him in every transition: nothing is lost.
✅ The listening prayer practice he does with his 14-year-old son every year
✅ Why spending your 30s building a future can cost you the people you're building it for
✅ How to cultivate access to your kid's heart (hint: it's not across the couch)
✅ The truth rescuing him in every transition: nothing is lost
TakeawaysDaniel Chesnut is a filmmaker, storyteller, and the founder of Process Creative. He and his wife Katie live in Southern California with their 14-year-old son Brooklyn. Daniel has spent years helping people tell their stories on film and is part of the Pursuit Beach Fitness men's discipleship community. He writes about fatherhood, faith, and becoming on his Substack.
QuotesText MOM to (651) 370-8618 // or click here
Join the DadAwesome Prayer Team: Text "pray" to (651) 370-8618
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
7-Day Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
DadAwesome Podcast: dadawesome.org/podcast
Free Chapter + Intro Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
Apply to join the next DadAwesome Accelerator Cohort: Email awesome@dadawesome.org
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
BABY SWIM LESSONS - The Ultimate Routine to Help Our 2 YR OLD Swim and Deep Dive Underwater (The Bucket List Family)
Most dads are carrying something they never dealt with... Mark Odland is a trauma therapist who works with high achieving men, and he joined us for one of the most honest conversations we've had on this show.
✅ How stuck memories quietly affect the way you parent
✅ A simple tapping technique you can use with your kids right now
✅ Why doing your inner work is one of the most important things you can do for your family
SUMMARY
Most dads are carrying something they never dealt with. In this episode, therapist Mark Odland explains how unprocessed memories stay stuck in the brain and quietly shape the way you parent, the way you react, and the way you show up at home. You'll also hear what trauma therapy actually is, why doing the inner work is one of the bravest things a dad can do, and how healing in one generation changes everything for the next.
TAKEAWAYS
GUEST
Mark Odland is a licensed therapist, trauma specialist, and the founder of Lion Counseling. He's also the author of Escape the Cage. Mark and his wife have four kids and live in Duluth, Minnesota, where yes, he has surfed Lake Superior.
QUOTES
LINKS
DADAWESOME Book:dadawesome.org/book
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
7-Day Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
DadAwesome Podcast: dadawesome.org/podcast
Free Chapter + Intro Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
"A man who can't regulate his emotions forces his wife and kids to do it for him."
Seth Dahl back for a 5th conversation on DadAwesome.
He breaks down what's actually happening when dad loses it and what it takes to change.
✅ Why emotional dysregulation is an identity issue, not just a temper problem
✅ The loaded gun analogy that will change how you think about anger at home
✅ Teen boundaries, the Wise Phone, and how to give freedom without losing your mind
SUMMARY
A man who can't regulate his emotions forces his wife and kids to do it for him. That's the hard truth Seth Dahl drops early in this conversation, and it only gets more honest from there. This is a raw, alumni-only Zoom call that turned into something worth sharing with every dad who's ever lost it over something stupid and wondered why.
Takeaways:
GUEST:
Seth Dahl is an author, speaker, grief recovery specialist, and emotional health coach. He and his wife have three kids and have developed a deep framework around completing past emotions, processing present emotions, and shaping future ones. Seth is a longtime friend of DadAwesome and is featured in the DADAWESOME book.
LINKS
DADAWESOME Book:dadawesome.org/book
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
7-Day Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
DadAwesome Podcast: dadawesome.org/podcast
Free Chapter + Intro Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
Jay Heck of Being Sons flips the mic and digs into the DADAWESOME book with some really honest questions.
✅ The prayer counseling session that broke a 15-year lie Jeff had been living under
✅ Why parenting from scarcity makes your voice smaller (and what changes when you don't)
✅ The black pen blue pen journaling exercise that helps you actually hear from God
✅ Three things every father can bring to their kids: proximity, placing hands on, and prayer
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SUMMARY
Most dads are trying to figure out the right strategy. But what if the thing holding you back isn't a lack of tactics, it's a lie you've been believing about whether you're even loved? In this mic flip episode, Jay Heck of Being Sons turns the tables and interviews Jeff about the Dad Awesome book, and the conversation gets honest fast. You'll hear about the prayer counseling session that changed everything, what it means to set the scoreboard to infinity, and how a dad who's operating from fullness becomes the most compelling voice in the room.
TAKEAWAYS
GUEST
Jay Heck is the founder of Being Sons, a fatherhood ministry focused on dad and daughter and dad and son adventure experiences. He hosts the Being Sons podcast and is passionate about helping men step into the father heart of God so they can lead their families well.
QUOTES
LINKS
21 Day Prayer Team - surrounding the DADAWESOME book launch.
DADAWESOME Book:dadawesome.org/book
Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
7-Day Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
DadAwesome Podcast: dadawesome.org/podcast
Free Chapter + Intro Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
What do you do when your schedule is maxed out and you feel like you're failing at the very thing you preach? In this episode, Jeff gets honest about dropping the ball on dad-daughter dates, shares three raw discoveries from book launch week, and tells the story of a flaming ball of toilet paper on a frozen lake that never made it into the book — for good reason.
Without a concrete accountability loop, even your highest priorities will quietly slip off the calendar.
In your fullest, most pressured seasons, adding one stabilizing anchor — not removing things — might be the wisest move you make.
Daily prayer with other men isn't just spiritual discipline; it's a stabilizing force that steadies you when everything else is swinging.
Bringing two simple questions to a dad-daughter date can surface honest feedback and spark some of the most important conversations you'll have with your kids.
Fatherhood grows through friendships and focus — those two things, compounded over years, change everything.
DADAWESOME BOOKhttps://www.dadawesome.org/book