Dad Saves America

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Nate Boyer Has Been A Green Beret, Texas Longhorn, And NFL Player | The Show Apr 06, 2023

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What are you going to do with the rest of your life? That’s the big question we all face, especially after graduation. If you feel directionless, don’t worry. You're not alone.

Today's guest, Nate Boyer, didn't have a clear path after high school, dropped out of college, and spent a year swabbing the deck on a fishing boat. He became a Green Beret, a walk-on player for the University of Texas Longhorns, played for the Seattle Seahawks, and even directed, wrote, and starred in a feature film. Nate is living proof of how far a growth mindset will take you towards unleashing your full potential.

Now Nate dedicates much of his time and energy to his nonprofit called MVP, which connects combat veterans to former professional athletes to help each other transition back to civilian life after leaving their uniforms behind.

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Learn more about MVP: https://vetsandplayers.org/

Watch the movie: https://filmrise.com/film/mvp

Follow Nate on Twitter: https://twitter.com/NateBoyer37

Follow Nate on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nateboyer37/?hl=en

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Outline:
[0:00] Intro
[1:43] Tried college, but ended up on a fishing boat
[9:44] Early interest in film and TV
[12:45] Answering the call to service
[30:56] What is a Green Beret?
[42:40] How Nate ended up at UT Austin
[48:25] Becoming a Texas Longhorn
[57:33] Training to be a long snapper
[1:11:14] NFL, national anthem, and Colin Kaepernick
[1:35:15] Bringing together veterans and retired athletes
[1:44:55] Writing, directing, and starring in a movie
[1:52:01] Mental health crisis and rising suicide rates
[1:58:52] Dad’s role as inspiration
[2:00:49] Lightning round Q&A
[2:15:13] Outro

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Dad Saves America is a channel dedicated to celebrating heroic fatherhood while teaching the next generation of fathers strategies they can utilize in parenting their children. We believe strong children come from a strong family. We’ve had many experts in the studio, including Jonathan Haidt, Dr. Drew Pinsky, Troy Kotsur, John Mackey, Ben Askren, and Adam Carolla.

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Quantum Computing, AI, And Our Future Robot Overlords | The Show Mar 23, 2023

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For years, we have had artificial intelligence in our homes and pockets through voice assistants like Siri and Alexa. However, everything is changing with the newest generation of technologies, led by OpenAI's ChatGPT.

The future of education, work, and human creativity has already been turned upside down, but recent advances in quantum computing may supercharge this transformation even further. These new systems can solve complex problems that today’s fastest supercomputers would take thousands of years to solve.

Today’s guest, Whurley, is at the forefront of this new era. He’s an Eisenhower Fellow, a serial entrepreneur, and the founder and CEO of Strangeworks, which seeks to make quantum computing and quantum AI accessible and useful to everyone. Whurley believes that in the near future, breakthroughs in quantum computing will unlock the astounding potential of artificial intelligence.

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Learn more about Strangeworks: https://strangeworks.com/
Read Whurley's blog: https://whurley.com/
Follow Whurley on Twitter: https://twitter.com/whurley?ref_src=twsrc^google|twcamp^serp|twgr^author

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Outline:

[0:00] Intro

[2:33] Strangeworks, Eisenhower Fellowship, and Honest Dollar

[7:22] How John and Whurley met

[8:56] Chaotic Moon Studios

[14:41] Working as a ‘master inventor’ at IBM

[17:18] Answering calls at Apple and gaming the college system

[19:07] What is quantum computing?

[24:24] Why quantum computing matters

[37:31] Possibilities of a quantum future

[44:58] Gaining the power to test the multiverse

[50:54] AI vs AGI vs SI

[57:11] What makes ChatGPT special?

[1:00:59] Media sensationalism and AI dystopia

[1:07:40] Learning, intelligence, free will, and determinism

[1:14:33] Bringing together quantum computing and AI

[1:20:07] Tech exposure can teach kids how to learn

[1:28:46] Purpose vs passion

[1:38:22] The key attributes of an entrepreneur

[1:47:41] AI makes inspiration the only constraint on individual creativity

[1:50:45] Outro

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She Lets Her Kids Fly Alone, But Never On Direct Flights | Pop Wisdom Mar 16, 2023

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Alyce Dailey has some wisdom to share.

She’s the daughter of immigrants, a successful business owner, and the author of The Magic Mom. Alyce is also the mother of four daughters and believes that “being a mom is the most entrepreneurial venture that exists on the planet.” Her approach to parenting may be unconventional, but the results are undeniable. Alyce has raised four independent, confident, and capable young entrepreneurs who are ready to go out into the world.

Alyce’s framework for entrepreneurial parenting offers moms and dads alike a powerful way to help our kids head into the world like explorers on an adventure. Our actions and how we live our lives teach a more powerful example than our words ever can. If we want our kids to manage their emotions and conquer their fears, we need to show them what that looks like by doing it ourselves!

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Purchase a copy of The Magic Mom: https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Mom-Principles-Entrepreneurial-Daughters/dp/B0BF35J9MP

Alyce's website: https://alycedailey.com/

Alyce on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alycedailey/?hl=en

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If Kids Are Scared To Fail At Home, The Real World Will Be Torture | The Show Mar 09, 2023

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Recent studies show that for nearly half of adults, fear of failure is the biggest barrier to achieving their goals, and kids today are the most fear-driven, anxious generation on record. Where have we gone wrong as parents and what can we do to the ensure that the next generation is ready to head out into the unknown and thrive?

Today’s guest, Alyce Dailey, is the author of The Magic Mom. She’s the daughter of immigrants, a successful business owner, and mother of four daughters who believes that “being a mom is the most entrepreneurial venture that exists on the planet.”

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Purchase a copy of The Magic Mom: https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Mom-Principles-Entrepreneurial-Daughters/dp/B0BF35J9MP

Alyce's website: https://alycedailey.com/

Alyce on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alycedailey/?hl=en

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Outline:

[0:00] Intro

[2:13] What does it mean to be an immigrant?

[4:51] Is it better to keep your passions and your career separate?

[10:33] How Alyce and her husband found their way into business

[15:37] Building a real estate brokerage

[20:34] Everything looked great, but it was time for a change

[24:37] Hiking Mount Kilimanjaro made the hardest challenges possible

[30:02] What is a MAGIC mom?

[32:20] Model the behaviors and values that you want your kids to have

[41:11] Affirm the truth about yourself and grapple with self-deception

[51:03] How Alyce’s daughter got herself to a Tony Robbins conference

[56:19] Have grace with yourself, not just your family

[1:00:45] Ask your kids questions without assuming you know the answer

[1:04:45] The difference between a coach, a mentor, and a consultant

[1:15:18] Empower moms and expect more from dads

[1:16:58] Outro

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'CODA' Oscar Winner Troy Kotsur Used To Clean Up At Poker As A Kid | Pop Wisdom Mar 02, 2023

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Troy Kotsur has some wisdom to share.

Much like his character in CODA, Kotsur is the proud father of a teenage daughter. As you’d expect from any dad, he may embarrass her from time to time, but in the end, his priority is to support his family and be the best father he can be.

At the 94th Academy Awards, Troy Kotsur won the Oscar for Best Supporting Actor for his role in CODA, available on Apple TV+. He is first deaf man, and second deaf performer after Marlee Matlin, to win an Academy Award.

However, long before this historic accomplishment, Kotsur already had a successful career on stage, particularly in Deaf West Theatre productions. He also has appeared in movies and on TV, including joining George Lucas’ Star Wars universe as a Tusken Raider in Disney’s The Mandalorian, created by Jon Favreau and currently streaming on Disney+.

Kotsur visited Austin, Texas in June to collaborate with Dad Saves America on an upcoming documentary about his story, with a focus on the impact of dads on the flourishing of their children. Kotsur’s visit culminated in a live event at Texas School for the Deaf, during which he taught an acting workshop for students and, later in the evening, gave a speech that drew a packed audience.

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Troy's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/troykotsur/?hl=en

Troy's Twitter: https://twitter.com/TroyKotsur?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor

Texas School for the Deaf: https://www.tsd.state.tx.us/

Deaf West Theatre: https://www.deafwest.org/

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Make Sure To Check In With Your Teen’s Mental Health | The Show Feb 23, 2023

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There’s a mental health crisis among boys and men. The warning signs of depression and other mental health issues in males, particularly teenage boys, are not widely known, and so they often go overlooked. The first step towards reversing this concerning trend is learning to recognize when young men are suffering.

Dr. Warren Farrell has spent half a century researching and writing about the biggest issues facing boys and men. His most recent book, The Boy Crisis, provides an eye opening glimpse into the reasons behind the ‘purpose void’ afflicting many of today’s young men, its detrimental effect on their mental health, and how active and involved moms and dads can restore a sense of purpose.

Dr. Farrell is a political scientist and activist who started his career as a board member for the National Organization for Women, and is the only man to have served three terms in that position. His expertise on the challenges facing both sexes provides valuable solutions for parents to help us heal our kids and our nation.

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Warren's book, The Boy Crisis: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1948836130/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_CCZJ2MPNCW8Q4XC6RS7Y

Warren’s Website: https://warrenfarrell.com/

Warren’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/drwarrenfarrell

Warren’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drwarrenfarrell/

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Outline:

[0:00] Intro

[1:59] What is the ‘purpose void’?

[8:58] The rise of dad-deprived families

[13:22] Risk-taking, consent, and rejection

[18:11] ‘Toxic masculinity’ isn’t about privilege

[22:01] Today’s boys have opportunity without direction

[24:48] How video games stunt social skills

[33:58] Porn addiction is about avoiding rejection

[38:15] What depression looks like in boys

[47:27] How dads can help their sons find purpose

[52:11] Gender liberation for men

[57:06] Listen, don’t try to solve the problem

[1:01:19] Consider your child’s skills and motivations

[1:08:53] Parents should model healthy relationships

[1:18:08] The first step for young men in crisis

[1:21:32] Heroic intelligence vs health intelligence

[1:25:38] Men need to seek out balance in life

[1:26:26] Outro

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Mac And Cheese Is A Recipe For Parenting Success | Pop Wisdom Feb 16, 2023

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Denisha Allen has some wisdom to share.

As a leader at the frontlines of education reform, and as a new mother, Denisha has a lot invested in the future of our country. Her path from at-risk student to education policy wonk is full of wisdom for parents. After all, we want our kids to succeed regardless of their circumstances, and Denisha has done exactly that.

Denisha founded an organization to tackle our dysfunctional education system head on. It’s called Black Minds Matter and it’s a non-profit dedicated to promoting access to high-quality school options for black students. She’s also a Senior Fellow at the American Federation for Children, and previously served as School Choice and Youth Liaison at the U.S. Department of Education. She is a powerful voice for change because she knows the failures of our education system firsthand.

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Follow Denisha Allen on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DenishaMweather

Learn more about Black Minds Matter: https://www.blackmindsmatter.net/

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Money Is Not The Problem With Our Schools | The Show Feb 09, 2023

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Quality education can be a great equalizer and a platform for success in life, but our current public school system may be the most regressive and unequal institution in our society.

Today’s guest, Denisha Allen, founded an organization that's tackling this issue head on. It’s called Black Minds Matter and it’s a non-profit dedicated to promoting access to high-quality school options for black students. She’s also a Senior Fellow at the American Federation for Children, and previously served as School Choice and Youth Liaison at the U.S. Department of Education.

Denisha is a powerful voice for change because she knows the failures of our education system firsthand. Her path from at-risk student to education policy wonk is full of wisdom for parents. After all, we want our kids to succeed regardless of their circumstances, and Denisha has done exactly that.

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Follow Denisha Allen on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DenishaMweather

Learn more about Black Minds Matter: https://www.blackmindsmatter.net/

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Outline:

[0:00] Intro

[2:07] What is Black Minds Matter?

[6:00] Denisha’s upbringing and experience as a student

[12:38] The teachers’ union tried to defund her school

[18:03] Issues at home don’t have to doom a child’s education

[20:23] Charter schools do more for less

[23:36] Black Americans have a long history with school choice

[30:21] Families with money have always had school choice

[37:12] The public school-to-prison pipeline

[40:19] What is education freedom and why does it matter?

[47:03] Reasons to have hope for the future of schooling

[50:59] The NAACP puts politics above the needs of black students

[55:24] How Black Minds Matter is making a difference

[1:02:30] The political barriers to school choice

[1:07:04] Other organizations tackling the struggles families face

[1:11:15] Overcoming partisanship in education reform

[1:14:32] Male role models helped Denisha stay on the right track

[1:18:20] Denisha’s role in the American story

[1:19:43] Outro

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He Fell 100 Feet And Lived To Tell The Story | Pop Wisdom Feb 02, 2023

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Jeff Sandefer has some wisdom to share.

After striking it big in the oil industry before the age of 30, Jeff set off on a path of discovering where true meaning and purpose can be found and how individuals can maximize their impact on the world. He’s applied the purposeful risk-taking of entrepreneurship to raising his own kids, going as far as to let his son start paragliding at age three!

Jeff is a successful entrepreneur-turned-business school professor who was considered to be one the best business professors in the country during his time at UT’s McComb School of Business. Later, he went on to found Acton MBA, a tough-as-nails business school that rivaled Harvard and was attended by the likes of Navy Seals and Olympic athletes. He also co-founded Acton Academy, a global network of innovative K-12 schools, alongside his wife Laura Sandefer.

Jeff’s latest project is called “Next Great Adventure,” which is a program to help people of all ages find their calling and live a life of meaning, without bankrupting students in the process.

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Learn more about Next Great Adventure: https://www.nxtgreatadventure.com/

Learn more about Acton Academy: https://start.actonacademy.org/?gclid=CjwKCAiA5sieBhBnEiwAR9oh2jvDytxDsskXKyqjCxmcb733-e9TakqXC9fKYLAK_-XZxxojjKYl8hoCMagQAvD_BwE

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Why College Is A Ripoff | The Show Jan 26, 2023

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At one time, a college degree came with the legitimate promise of a better life. For generations of families it was part and parcel with ‘The American Dream.’ Unfortunately, the return on investment isn’t what it used to be.

Today’s guest, Jeff Sandefer, knows this issue inside and out and is working to provide parents with an alternative to educate their children. He’s a successful entrepreneur-turned-business school professor who was considered to be one the best business professors in the country during his time at UT’s McComb School of Business. Later, he went on to found Acton MBA, a tough-as-nails business school that rivaled Harvard and was attended by the likes of Navy Seals and Olympic athletes. He also co-founded Acton Academy, a global network of innovative K-12 schools, alongside his wife Laura Sandefer.

Jeff’s latest project is called “Next Great Adventure,” which is a program to help people of all ages find their calling and live a life of meaning, without bankrupting students in the process.

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Learn more about "Next Great Adventure": https://www.nxtgreatadventure.com/

Learn more about Acton Academy: https://www.actonacademy.org/

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Outline:

[0:00] Intro

[2:32] Teenage lessons in working efficiently

[6:44] Jeff’s big break in big business

[12:33] Taking a year off to find a purpose

[14:23] Jeff becomes a top-tier business professor

[21:13] The 7 principles for running a good university

[28:37] What are the real benefits of college?