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Abi Feltham: Alcoholism, BPD, Crack and Brain Tumours Dec 11, 2025

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TW: In this episode we discuss drug use, alcohol abuse, suicide and cancer. This week Reed sits down with the brilliant, brutally honest, and heart-meltingly funny Abi Feltham - the creator and influencer who talks openly about addiction, recovery, BPD, crack binges in Thailand, brain cancer, and somehow has you laughing through the tears. If you’re flirting with sobriety, trying to hold on to it, or just feeling shaky as the festive season ramps up, this one is for you. Gentle, honest, raw, and full of “holy shit” wisdom. And if you want the ad-free video, plus our cosy December check-ins and community support, join us on Patreon. We love you. We’re proud of you. And we’re sober-curious with you. Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink your bits — and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious 💋 Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Follow Abi: @abi.feltham and check out her Linktree with all the details

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Squirting - JOYclub’s Step-by-Step Guide Dec 04, 2025

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This week, Florence & Reed are diving vulva-first into squirting science with JOYclub’s brand-new step-by-step squirting course - and yes, they watched it live so you don’t have to… except you’ll definitely want to after this 😂💦 Have a sneak peak here.

From “is it pee?” to “why does it feel like I’m about to pee?” to “HOW THE ACTUAL F**K DID SHE SQUIRT LIKE THAT?!”, we’re breaking down the myths, the muscles, the mess, and the magic. We learnt why squirting ≠ ejaculation, why relaxing is half the battle, and why your G-spot is actually a G-ZONE (yes, fckers, is an expansive pleasure!).

Plus, we talk positions, toys, confidence, and how to unlock your own waterfall - solo or with a partner.

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Orgasmic Births & Pleasure Hypnosis with Lucia Nicolini Nov 27, 2025

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This week Florence sits down with pleasure-hypnosis and orgasmic-birth practitioner Lucia Nicolini for a mind-melting journey into how hypnosis can transform pregnancy, pleasure, and even the way you give birth.

From reconnecting to your body after trauma (Florence shares her own experience) to the wild truth about orgasmic birth, nipple-stimulation hacks, sexy self-hypnosis, and why your mind is the biggest birthing muscle you have - this episode is equal parts soothing, spicy, and seriously paradigm-shifting.

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Sex Trends Throughout Time Nov 20, 2025

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This week Florence and Reed ride the ADHD mania wave straight into sex trends, porn obsessions, squirting reviews, and the hottest holiday horniness you didn’t know you needed. From orgasm-during-pregnancy revelations to airport sex stats that blew everyone’s minds, it’s chaotic, juicy, and very, very curious.

And THEN - after the watershed - we flip the switch. The second half is XXXtra filthy and only for our Patreon babes. Think explicit stories, fresh-out-the-bedroom updates, and Reed’s newest naked adventures… unlocked only on Patreon.

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Why is having a boyfriend embarrassing? Meet the writer Chanté Joseph Nov 13, 2025

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She broke the internet with her latest article 'Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrasing Now?' and now she's joining Reed to talk about the dilemmas of modern dating.

This week we've got writer Chanté Joseph on the show to dive into why posting your partner feels cringe, the heterosexual repair industry, and how to date without compromise. From breadcrumbing to boundary-setting, Chanté shares her unfiltered take on why men need to do better and how women can stop accepting less than they deserve.

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Busting myths & maximising moans w/ Amari Nov 06, 2025

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This week, Florence and Reed are joined by certified sex educator and founder of Admin by Amari, the brilliant Amari Leigh, to bust some of the biggest sex myths and unlock the secrets to truly maximising your moans.

The trio gets candid about kink safety, sex toys, and the forty (yes, forty!) types of orgasms you can have. Plus, we explore the stigma around bi men, discover kinky Swifties (yep, Taylor Swift sex parties are real), and learn why average can be amazing.

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40 Orgasm guides

Lube guide

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What Cancer Taught Me Oct 30, 2025

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This week Florence sits down with Harley Dee - friend and inspiration - to talk about life, loss, and learning to love your body after breast cancer. Harley opens up about treatment, scars, and the emotional rollercoaster of facing chemical menopause in her 30s. Together, they explore everything from hair loss to egg-freezing, and rediscovering pleasure when your body doesn’t feel like it used to. It’s a raw, truthful and deeply important conversation about survival, self-love, and what cancer really teaches you about being alive. Get to know Harley on IG @theharleylama Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you think, feel or be less alone - and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious - listen and watch AD-FREE! Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx

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What We Learnt Making Anal Porn Oct 23, 2025

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This week Florence and Reed get cheeky (literally) as they spill all the behind-the-scenes secrets from directing their first anal porn film. From the beauty of real chemistry to the chaos of lube, fluff, and butthole talk - it’s a deep dive into everything they learnt about anal on and off camera. Expect laughs, lube, and a lot of love for the bum. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: ⁠patreon.com/comecurious⁠ Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx

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Ceros - His stories: Schizophrenia and bisexuality Oct 16, 2025

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This week, we go beyond the mic with Ceros - an online tornado of truth known for his YT channel Ceros TV sharing stories about his bisexuality, schizophrenia and femboy loving G-Pa. From marrying a 90-year-old at 18, to sleeping with her daughter... and granddaughter, we go beneath the viral chaos to learn more Ceros's experiences of masculinity, pain and survival.

No filters. No performance. Just raw humanity.

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Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby.

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Quitting OnlyFans Oct 09, 2025

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Big news, Curious F**kers - our gorgeous Florence is expecting a baby! 💕

With life changing in every sense, Florence and Reed are getting real about transformation, identity, and what it means to let go - including Florence (potentially) saying goodbye to OnlyFans.

It’s honest, thoughtful, and full of heart - a conversation about growth, boundaries, and change in all its messy, beautiful forms.

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