Churchboy Confessions

Taking a Break... Apr 28, 2024

God is working on me, be back soon. Until then please feel free to go back and replay old episodes to be encouraged. Love yaw.

Read: 1 Peter 5:6–7

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How to Be a Christian During a Solar Eclipse Apr 15, 2024

Let's face it, we've all fell down the rabbit hole of an end time conspiracy at some point in our lives by now. Or maybe instead of a conspiracy, we sat through the a false teacher or prophet preaching a whole lotta of anti-biblical nonsense. Realistically, we will never be able to escape with the frenzy of conspiracies, false prophecies and heresies that drop every week on the internet. Nevertheless, it's important that we not be deceived, and the Word of God is here to guide us through all the lies and deception.

Read: Ephesians 4:11–15 (NKJV)

Resources for Reading the Bible

https://www.gotquestions.org/ - Great for Bible questions
https://www.blueletterbible.org/ - Get original Hebrew & Greek definitions to words used in english translations.
https://www.bibleref.com/ - Get explanations on tough Bible verses
https://courses.dts.edu/ - Free Bible courses from my seminary school

My God is Humble and He Loves Me Apr 01, 2024

Most conversations surrounding the gospel talk about the physical pain, suffering and death that Christ experienced on our behalf. Today I want to talk about something else Jesus endured for our sakes, and that's humiliation. Some people think God is egotistical, but when we really take time to consider what it meant for the Creator to humble Himself and suffer at the hands of His own creation, the "egotistical" label simply doesn't stick. Let's unpack.

Read: Philippians 2:1–8; Hebrews 12:1–3; 2 Peter 3:9

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A Conversation on Desirability, Purpose and more ft. The Women of UA Mar 25, 2024

Today I invite 3 women from the UN-ASSOCIATED team on to talk about what it means to be women who are "set apart" in today's society. Danielle Clayton (Editor-in-Chief), Dena Williams (Live Events Director) and Maddy Owusu (Social Engagement Director) open up about their adolescent years as Believers, their ideas on purpose, marriage, and desirability politics.

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Are We Overthinking "Purpose"? Mar 18, 2024

The conversation around our individual purposes can be an exciting one or anxious one depending on who you ask. I've noticed a large amount of anxiety our generation has when it comes to this. We are in a point in our lives where we want to know our purpose, but it seems like God doesn't want to give us a clear answer to what that is. How do we continue to navigate our day-to-day, uneventful, unfulfilling lives until He answers us?

Read: 1 Samuel 16–17; Matthew 6:33–34; Psalm 118:24

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7 Ways to Know You Are Depending On God. – Part 2 Mar 11, 2024

What are the 7 ways you can know you're depending on the Lord? Here are 4–7.

(4) you work with and trust others in a team rather than trying to do everything yourself

(5) You can take a day off working

(6) You rely on God when you're tank is empty

(7) You chase God instead of worldly things.

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7 Ways to Know You Are Depending On God. – Part 1 Mar 04, 2024

Dependency on the Lord is an essential part of our relationship with Him. Despite this, many of us are still hell-bent on doing everything ourselves. We typically refer to this act as "trusting in the flesh". God is not a fan of this. In fact, He's cursed the Israelites for doing this in Jeremiah 17. Not only is trusting in the flesh offensive to God, it can also lead to a life of anxiety, stress, fatigue and rocky relationships. In this episode, we do some self evaluation in order to gauge where we can improve in our dependency.

Read: Jeremiah 17:5–8; Matthew 10:26–31; Proverbs 3:5–6; Philippians 4:6–7

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Man After God's Heart Feb 26, 2024

Are you too busy for God? On the 200th episode of Churchboy Confessions – and after a long time away – I want us to reflect on the ways we've put our relationship with the Lord on the backburner. (We're wasting zero time). By defining what it means to be a man/woman after God's heart, my hope is that you understand your relationship with the Lord is more important than any responsibility you have in life.

Read: 1 Sam 13:14; 1 Sam 14:30; Psalm 51:10–11

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How To Set Goals While Being Subject to God Dec 04, 2023

We all have goals we are after. However at the same time, many of us carry the intention of not going before God and always being intentional about being in His will. Today I'll answer a couple Ask Churchboy submissions to discuss goal-setting and enduring the valley seasons of life. This is the last episode of the season and year of CC. Thank you all for a great 2023. Merry Christmas!

Read: Proverbs 16:9; Isaiah 55:8–9; Psalm 23:4; John 1:12–13; Romans 8:28

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Dependency & Manhood w/ Malik Amos Nov 27, 2023

As men we are told we need to be strong and independent. However, that does not mean we should be independent from the Lord. To be a man is to be DEPENDENT on the Lord. How can we, as men, acknowledge and embrace our need for God in a society that teaches us to hide our weaknesses?

Read: 2 Corinthians 12:1–10

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Pride and Manhood w/ Jon Bloom Nov 20, 2023

Back in February of this year, I did published a series of episodes about pride that were heavily inspired by 2 articles I found on DesiringGod.org. Today, in honor of our Men's Month, I got the priviledge to sit down with Jon Bloom - author of "Lay Aside the Weight of Pride" and "Lay Aside the Weight of Low Self Image". He is the co-founder of Desiring God, and we are going to talk about pride in manhood and how we, as men, can combat it.

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Read: Phil 2:5–8; Luke 15:11-32

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Transparency and Manhood w/ Chiebuka Egwuonwu Nov 13, 2023

It's Men's month. We're kicking off a series of episodes on topics for the M.O.G. (men of God) community with a conversation between my and my cousin Cheb on transparency. If you are a man who has found it hard to be transparent with others, we hope this episode can be a blessing to you by encouraging you to be intentional with opening up to people that love you about how you're doing.

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Overcoming Sexual Sins (bonus) Nov 06, 2023

This week we are rediscovering thi Overcoming Sins episodes from 2020. I opened up about my past struggle with sexual sin and how the Holy Spirit has helped uncover the lies of the enemy that kept me in "the cycle". I pray this episode holds power to help free you from any lustful struggle you are facing. One very important thing to note - it is possible to beat it.

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Check Your Entitlement. Oct 30, 2023

God's love is much easier to recognize when we get past our sense of entitlement. Entitlement writes off the ways God shows us His love as the bare minimum. We might not say it, but deep in our hearts, many of us think God owes us food, shelter, water, health, money, and life. In reality, He owes us nothing...but gives us everything because of His love.

Read: James 1:17; Numbers 11:1–33; 1 Corinthians 10:9–13

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The Power of Friendship Oct 23, 2023

Godly friendships/relationships are the most important thing in your life besides Christ. One day, you job, money, spiritual gifts, degrees, and property will mean nothing. What will remain will be God, us and the love that bonds us. We need friendship. Let's talk about it.

Read: John 15:13; 1 Corinthians 13:8–10; Ecclesiastes 4:9–12; Matthew 5:23–24

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What Should Be the Christian Response to Israel and Palestine? Oct 16, 2023

I decided to make this episode to speak about the recent tragedies in Gaza and Israel. There's been a lot of rallying and split-support for both sides, which has made it hard to really discern truth from lies. I'm someone still being careful to fully understand the present and history of this issue. Nevertheless, among many of the takes I've seen online, a very important principle has been consistently absent - God's command to love our neighbor.

Read: Luke 10:25–37

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I FORGOT ABOUT GOD’S LOVE. Oct 09, 2023

God's love is the purest motivation to live. As basic as the topic of love might sound, it is the foundation of our relationship with God and others. Without love, we have nothing. I forgot about God's love, but I am thankful that He reminded me about it this week.

Read: Romans 5:8 (yes, again); 1 Corinthians 13:1–13

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Spiritual Gifts: Pride, Envy and Collaboration - Part 2 Oct 02, 2023

Then God said, "Teamwork shall make Mine dream work." God may have not said that explicitly, but in His Word, His love for teamwork and collaboration is explicit enough. In this second (and last) part of our spiritual gift series, let's talk about how God's vision for His Church is for it to grow through the communal effort and collaboration from ALL members in the body of Christ. Let's learn about the importance of teamwork.

Read: Ephesians 4:15-16; 1 Corinthians 12:4–7; Matthew 9:35–38

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Spiritual Gifts: Pride, Envy and Collaboration - Part 1 Sep 25, 2023

In this 2-part episode series, we break down this quote from my Spiritual Formation course curriculum: "...we must remember that spiritual gifts are not given for the purpose of providing a sense of personal satisfaction or achievement...Spiritual gifts are given for the common good, for building up the Body of Christ." Let's have a conversation about spiritual and how they can be misused or misperceived.

Read: Ephesians 4:11–13; 1 Corinthians 12:23–25

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How to Deal with a Quick Temper Sep 18, 2023

When we are angry, we end up doing or saying things that we regret. That's because our anger does not produce the righteousness of God (James 1:20). In this episode, let's recall the importance and role of the Holy Spirit as our Life Coach in order to help us realize the steps we can take to being more like Christ.

Read: Galatians 5:22–23; John 14:15–18; James 1:19–20; Luke 6:32–36

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Overcoming the Shame of Your Past Sep 11, 2023

The Bible says all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. That means we've all done things we are not proud of, and sometimes that makes a gag at the thought of who we once were. What's worst, is that some of us have to deal with people that look down on us because of our past, making it even harder to overcome the shame. Let's talk about it.

Read: Genesis 3:6–8; 1 John 3:20; Ephesians 1:3–5

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Jesus Made It Hard to Fit In - Guest: Danielle Clayton Sep 04, 2023

Many of us have experienced not being able to fit in at some point in our lives because of our faith. In these times, we might start to view our sanctification as something discomforting and negative. However, if we shift our mindset to focus on biblical truths, we can learn how important it is to walk in our Christian identity despite the discomfort.

Read: John 15:18–23; Philippians 3:7–8; Romans 12:1–2

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Has God Ever Let You Down? Aug 21, 2023

We've all experienced praying hard for something, but not getting it. Better yet, many if not all of us have experienced suffering that made us question God's character. We probably felt like God let us down. Nevertheless, we still choose to follow Him. Why?

Read: Job (lol)

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Rediscovering: I Forgot About Grace Aug 14, 2023

After talking about God's redemptive power to redeem us after our sins and mistakes last week, I thought it would be great to revisit the topic of grace. About 2 years ago I published this episode about the grace of God, and it's time the conversation be brought back to the forefront.

Read: Romans 5:1; Luke 15:17-20; John 14:23

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Did I Mess Up God’s Plan for My LIfe? Aug 07, 2023

Is God’s will for your life now messed up because you fell short or made a mistake? This is a question some of us have probably asked ourselves, and the fear of it being the case keeps us up at night. Did we blow it? Are our sins and mistakes redeemable?

Read: Ecclesiastes 3:11; 1 Samuel 13:14; Ephesians 1:7

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Being a Control Freak is Stressful Jul 31, 2023

As a control freak, I have grown accustom to living a life filled with frustration and anxiety when life doesn't go as planned. Control freaks often make idols of efficiency and comfort, however, these oftentimes are not God's focus when working our His purpose. Let's unpack.

Read: Acts 21–28

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”That All of Them May Be One...” May 28, 2023

In John 17, Jesus prayed to the Father, requesting He help all Christians to be one as They are one. The Church is meant to be united in love and truth, and be a testament of the gospel to the world. However, many of the issues we bear inside our communities hinder this from happening. It's time we search our own hearts.

Read: John 17:20–23; 1 Peter 4:14–16

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Imposter Syndrome in the Church May 22, 2023

Church is supposed to be a safe space, so why do many of us feel like we don't belong? When imposter syndrome kicks in, what are some things we can remind ourselves of that help us know we belong.

Read: Luke 18:10–14; 1 Corinthians 6:9–11; John 3:19–21

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Do You Envy The Lives of Unbelievers? May 15, 2023

The Christian walk is not easy. It is filled with spiritual warfare, trials and tribulations, and sacrifices. If you are anything like me, you've sometimes found yourself growing envious of unbelievers who don't deal with the convictions and sacrifices you deal with on a daily basis. How should we feel about this?

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Read: Psalm 37:1–2; Matthew 16:24–27; Isaiah 49:4

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You Can’t Sanctify Yourself May 08, 2023

I see that a lot of us can get caught up trying to make ourselves holy for God's approval. Many of us are tortured by the pressure of trying to sanctify ourselves, as if we ever had the power to. One thing we all must acknowledge is that if we could purify ourselves, we wouldn't need a Savior.

Read: 1 Corinthians 6:9–11; Philippians 1:6; 1 Corinthians 10:12-13

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You Can Do All Things Through Christ May 01, 2023

Phil 4:13 is one of the most famous verses in the Bible. We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. Is this a verse meant to rally us about defeating foes and trampling over obstacles? Or is it a message to those who find themselves wandering about the stressful ups and downs of life? Let's break it down.

Read: Philippians 4:10–13; Isaiah 43:1–2; Deuteronomy 8:2–3

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Glory in Tribulation Apr 24, 2023

Our suffering often tempts us to think God hates us, left us or disapproves of us. However, the Scripture tells us that even we who have peace with Him through Christ will experience tribulations. It's in these trying times we are given the opportunity to let God's glory shine through us.

Read: Romans 5:1–4; Psalm 75:6-7

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Correcting Others with Gentleness Apr 17, 2023

Galatians 6:1 instructs us to restore our brethren who've been overtaken by sin with a spirit of gentleness. However, it seems a lot of Christian critique tend to come from a place of resentment and pride. In this episode, we all need to look inwardly and ask ourselves the question: When we are correcting our brothers and sisters in the Lord, are we doing so with the intent to restore them or shame them?

Read: Galatians 6:1; 2 Timothy 3:16-17; Luke 18:10-14

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Lord, Break My Cycle of Sin Apr 10, 2023

Sinful habits die hard. Sometimes we are tempted to lose hope for our deliverance, but we must hang on, and understand the power of the Holy Spirit that dwells inside of us. You cannot save yourself from sin, but I know someone who can rescue you.

Read: Matthew 11:28-29; Romans 8:11–14; Romans 8:33–34; Matthew 19:16–26

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Homosexuality + Overcoming False Teachers Apr 03, 2023

In 2023, there are too many false teachers and doctrines to keep track of. Nowadays it's not enough that someone disagrees with the Bible, but people even go as far to misconstrue its contents to justify their world views. Today we set a few things straight. Additionally, I want to talk about homosexuality and homophobia. It's a past due conversation on this podcast. This is a huge topic in our generation, so I pray you're able to listen with an open heart and ears. Let's open the Bible and get to work.

Read: Romans 1; Matthew 4:1–11; Matthew 16:24

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When I’m Weak, I’m Strong. Mar 27, 2023

What are the first words that come to mind when you think about King David in the Bible? Are they strong, leader, brave? That might be the idea we get from 1 & 2 Samuel, but what about Psalm 7, 13 or 18 when he's crying and praying for deliverance? How can someone so strong, be so dependent at the same time?

Read: 2 Samuel 8; Psalm 13; Psalm 18

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His Gifts, His Glory Mar 20, 2023

God created us to bear His image, not build up our own. To do this, He's given us gifts and blessings all meant to glorify His name. However, all too often, instead of seeing these gifts as a points of gratitude, we use them as points of pride. Let's unpack.

Read: Ezekiel 16

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Happy 4 You (Not Really) Mar 13, 2023

Our pride has a way of turning other people's testimonies into our reasons to envy them. I think we all want to be happy for other people when good things happen to them. However, in those times, it's really hard to not think "God, when it is my turn?" or "God, what about me?" Let's talk.

Read: John 3:27–30; 1 Peter 5:6-7; 1 Peter 2:9

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A Warning Against Impatience Mar 06, 2023

We all have visions of where we think we "should be" in life. However, it's important to remember that saying yes to God's plan is saying yes to His timeline as well. Oftentimes when we feel like we aren't making progress as fast as we feel we should, we grow impatient and frustrated. I pray this episode helps relieve the tension impatience creates in your life.

Read: Ephesians 2:10; Ecclesiastes 3:11; Proverbs 3:5; Isaiah 40:31

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Overcoming Pride Part 2: Comparison & Envy Feb 27, 2023

Envy stems from unholy comparison, and unholy comparison stems from pride. This episode, I cover one of the ways our pride can materialize into comparison and envy, and the negative effect that has on us and the people around us.

Read: Genesis 4:6-7; James 3:13–4:10; Romans 12:3-6; Luke 22:24-27

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Overcoming Pride Feb 20, 2023

"I was more addicted to pride than I ever was sexual sin."

I pray this episode really makes you sit and wrestle with the pride that might be running free in your life. On another note, thank you all for your patience and support. God is so good, and I'm excited to continue to teach and grow together.

Read: 1 Corinthains 4:6-7

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My biGgESt FeAr Nov 07, 2022

God's been working on me, and He continues to. I am not perfect, and God isn't shy to let me know that. In this episode, I open up about the sin currently in my life and how God is working in me. I'll also touch on the proper way to perceive His chastisement. This is the last episode I'll record for a while, as I'll be taking a break from Churchboy Confessions for a season. I'll still be around so hit me/us on ig for any questions or advice you need! (@un_associated or @iheke_)

Read: Hebrews 11:1-11; John 15:1-2

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Lazy Busy Oct 31, 2022

Can you be lazy and busy at the same time? A week ago I thought that was impossible. After reading this desiringgod.com article, I have a lot that I want to discuss on the topic of laziness. I pray this episode encourages all of those struggling with the sin of slothfulness. Remain faithful to what God has put in front of you.

Read: Proverbs 6:9-11; Proverbs 21:25; Ephesians 2:10; Deut 29:29

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3 Reasons You Should Go to Church Oct 24, 2022

I hate to see my generation normalize our absence in the church, and it's time to speak on it. I genuinely hope this episode convinces you to go back to church if you stopped.

Read: Hebrews 10:25; Hebrews 12:14-15; John 13:35; 1 Cor 12:6-7

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Does Jesus Work On Mental Health? Oct 17, 2022

Most of the conversations I hear around the church and mental health aren't good. People struggling don't want to "find Jesus" and "pray more" when they open up about their struggles with mental health. A lot of people think Jesus doesn't even belong in the conversation. I wanna talk about all of it. Got questions or just want to talk, DM us on instagram @un_associated.

Read: James 2:14-17

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I Hate Myself When I Make Mistakes (Bonus) Oct 10, 2022

Bonus episode: If you're anything like me, after you make a mistake your mind is full of self-deprecating thoughts and you find it hard to get back up because of the shame. Many of us have formed a habit of condemning ourselves for our mistakes, even though God does not. What do we have to realize for us to finally be more forgiving of ourselves and get back up stronger than ever?

Read: Psalm 37:23-24; Colossians 3:17

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Pray for Christian Leaders Oct 03, 2022

How often do you pray for your pastor, spiritual mentor, or favorite gospel artist? It's time we as Believers stop focusing on only "getting" but also incorporate "giving" into our walk. Those in leadership often get treated like the "strong friend" - we ask them for advice but never ask them how they are doing. Satan tempts them too, and they need our support. No one is infallible. We need each other.

Read: 1 Kings 11:1-8; Philippians 2:12; Hebrews 10:25

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Self-Denial & Self-Discovery Sep 26, 2022

Last week we talked about how our obsession with overcoming our insecurities can lead us to sin. This week, we're going to expand on things and talk about how self-denial is the pathway to self-discovery, confidence, and a number of other blessings that come as a packaged deal with following Christ. I pray this episode can help free all from their battles with insecurities. Let Christ be your focus.

Read: Matthew 16:24-26

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The Criteria (Remastered) Sep 19, 2022

I recorded this episode in Sept, 2019. Many of us deal with insecurities, but don't realize that oftentimes the enemy uses these insecurities to provoke us to sin. Never let "conquering your insecurities" lead you away from God. I'll probably expand on this topic in the near future. Hope this can help set someone free.

Read: Matthew 4:1-11

I Am Equipped. Sep 12, 2022

As you begin a new school year, or any challenge for that matter, I want you to remember to never doubt the power of God moving through you. If you're anything like me, you have trouble keeping your confidence levels up, and always imagine yourself crumbling under the weight of the pressure. But do not forget that if God called you to it, He will make you everything He needs you to be to conquer it.

Read: Exodus 3:7-10; Exodus 4:9-12

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God is Faithful To You Sep 05, 2022

This week I had an epiphany about God's faithfulness. As I enter my sophomore year of my Masters Program, I am at peace knowing God is faithful (loyal) to me and will help me endure and overcome the semester. Think about it this way, God is more faithful to you than a person who decides to remain with their spouse after they've committed adultery. I know that's very specific, but it's something that truly captures a glimpse of the undeserving love God showers over us.

Read: Lamentations 3:22-24; Ezekiel 16

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Let’s Talk About Spiritual Warfare...Again Aug 29, 2022

I felt like there was more that needed to be shared about spiritual warfare, so here's part 2 to our discussion in episode 159. How do we fight against spiritual warfare, and why is it so important for us to practice our spiritual disciplines in this time even if we don't feel like it? If you've had to deal with intrusive thoughts trying to rule over your life, let's talk about it.

Read: 2 Corinthians 10:3-6; Philippians 4:8-9; James 1:2-4

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God’s Way Yields No Regrets Aug 22, 2022

This week, I uncover episode 99, where I discussed how following God's way can sometimes look like you are missing "opportunities." Please remember, God does not miss anything, nor does He cause us to miss anything that was indeed meant for us. When living a life led by His Spirit, we never need to carry regret.

Read: Psalms 18:30-35; 1 Samuel 26:10-11; Jeremiah 1:9-10

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Let’s Talk About Spiritual Warfare Aug 15, 2022

Spiritual warfare is real but isn't talked about enough, so let's change that. Coming off a challenging week filled with spiritual warfare, I wanted to take this time to preach on both the importance of acknowledging spiritual warfare and how we ought to fight against it.

Read: Ephesians 6:10-18

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The Importance of Community w/ Natalia Casiano (Bonus) Aug 08, 2022

This week, I dove into the archives to recover an episode withNatalia Casiano. I invited her onto the podcast to have a very touching conversation about her struggle with homosexuality, her story of coming to know Christ, and the role that a loving "Christian community" played throughout the entire journey.

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Have I Missed Out On My Youth? Aug 01, 2022

For many of us who found Christ at a young age, every now and then we might wrestle with the thought of us missing out on living a "full life" in our youth. For us, our days have consisted of service, sacrifice and responsibilities that can all be quite challenging and tiring. So...did we make the right choice to serve Christ or are we just missing out on all the "fun?"

Read: Galatians 5:16-25; Galatians 6:7-9

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Does God Have an Ego? Jul 25, 2022

There i was... scrolling down Tik Tok, when I stumbled upon a Tik Tok Creator that had some interesting things to say about Yahweh. She argued that God was egotistical; why else would He be forcing us to worship Him and give Him all the glory, honor and praise? I'm sure many of you might have asked this question before...so let's answer it.

Read: 1 John 1:5; Matthew 5:44-48; Proverbs 21:2

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Art vs. Blasphemy Jul 18, 2022

There's so much art and media out there in the world...and for some reason not many of them have something positive to say about Christianity. Are people just being "creative" or is there a deeper explanation to what could be going on?

Read: 2 Corinthians 11:13-15; Romans 12:14-18; Matthew 28:19-20

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Why Do You Hate Yourself? Jul 11, 2022

This one might be a touchy topic, but it's one that needs to be spoken on nonetheless. Many of us carry physical "flaws" that make us hate ourselves, and it's time for us to understand that our flaws do not warrant self-hatred. Let's unpack.

Read: John 9:1-7; 1 Samuel 16:7

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Why I Follow ”Sky Daddy?” Jul 04, 2022

This might sound weird, but I don't believe in Jesus because all the evidence points to Him. Although there are archaeological findings and logical arguments that testify of Jesus, I can't say that, that's why I follow Him. If I can admit this, then what is my reason for following Him? Do I have a reason, or am I just a fool?

Read: 1 Corinthians 1-2

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Supernatural Response (I have limits) Jun 27, 2022

Trusting God isn't natural. Therefore, we need to be intentional when it comes to our faith and relationship with God. This episode is for the people who are often stalked by their anxieties every morning and night. I pray this episode teaches you what the source of true peace actually is.

Read: Philippians 4:6-9; Isaiah 26:304; Jeremiah 17:5-8

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Share Your Freedom Jun 20, 2022

Happy Juneteenth! Today we celebrate the freedom of the African American people here in the States, who didn't know about their freedom until 2 years after the Emancipation Proclamation. Like these enslaved people, there are many people today who aren't aware of news of a freedom that is accessible to them, which is Jesus Christ. As His followers, it is our duty to tell those people about Him.

Read: Matthew 28:19-20; Matthew 5:14-16; Romans 8:33-34

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Let’s Conquer Temptation! Jun 13, 2022

Today let's talk about what it takes to conquer that temptation in your life. Maybe you have tried to break that cycle of sin in your life for years to no avail...but did you try with the power of the Holy Spirit? Let's talk about it.

Read: Romans 6:6-7; Romans 8:12-13; 1 Corinthians 10:13

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Are You a Stumbling Block? Jun 06, 2022

Inter-Christian relationships is an important topic. As believers, we must love and cherish one another. Sometimes that love looks like refraining from behavior and things we really like. Today, we talk about what it means to be a stumbling block and the proper way to correct each other as siblings in Christ.

Read: 1 Corinthians 8; John 13:34-35

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Fear of Disappointment May 30, 2022

In the past I've struggled with the fear of being disappointed. I hate getting my hopes up about something only to face failure, rejection or a let down in the end. Sometimes it caused me to not want to have faith about anything at all. If you can relate, this episode is for you. I'll cover why this fear is so dangerous and some advise on adopting a new mindset.

Read: Isaiah 55:10-11; Psalm 27:13-14; Matthew 9:27-31

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YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES May 23, 2022

Stop doubting your God-given abilities. If God gives you the task, He gives you the ability to complete it as well. It's time we stop asking God to choose someone else. It's time we stop telling ourselves we don't have what it takes. We do have what it takes...and it's time you accept that.

Read: Matthew 25:14-30; Exodus 4; Jeremiah 1

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Stop Facing satan Alone May 16, 2022

It's not something we want to admit, but it's something we need to admit: satan is stronger than us. When we are able to admit this, we realize our constant need for God. Life is spiritual warfare, and we need to put on the armor of God to overcome it.

Read: Ephesians 6:10-18; John 16:33; Romans 8:35-37

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How to Break Sin In Your Life May 09, 2022

Many of us desperately want to quit that sin in our lives. We fall into sin, then make promises to ourselves and God that we will try our best to never do it again, only to fall back into sin again. How do we break the cycle?

Read: Romans 6:4-7; Galatians 5:22-23; Romans 8:5-9

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For When You’re Feeling Ugly (Bonus) May 02, 2022

This week we rediscover a message I covered back in December 2019. No matter how pretty or handsome you know you are, many (if not all) of us have suffered from body dysmorphia and us feeling like we are ugly, and unworthy. In this episode, I offer a response to those that are being tortured by those thoughts.

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I Disagreed with God... Apr 25, 2022

Last week, while on my knees in prayer, I told God that I disagreed with how He was handling situations in my life. I know this sounds crazy, but I figured that God already knew how I felt, so I decided to be upfront and transparent with Him. It's still crazy to think I told Him this, but I've been captivated with His response and I wanted to use this episode to share what I received. Hope this can help anyone who feels the same.

Read: Lamentations 3:1-27; 1 Peter 5:6-7; Job 42

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Your Resurrected Life. Apr 18, 2022

Yesterday was Resurrection Sunday, and I'm still on 10. Today are goin to discuss one of the significant observations we can make about the resurrection of Jesus Christ, and what we as believers benefit from it. This message God gave me had TRULY blessed me and I pray it blesses you as well.

Read: Romans 6

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Why Did Jesus Weep? Apr 11, 2022

The shortest verse in the Bible reads, "Jesus wept." Despite the brevity of the verse, there is so much that needs to be unpacked here. Does God have emotions? Does He ever get sad? If so, what on Earth could make the God that rules over everything sad? Let's talk about it.

Read: John 11: 17-44

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Approachable God Apr 04, 2022

It's important to know that we serve an approachable God. God is perfect, holy, and powerful, and sometimes that can be intimidating. Because of this, many of us feel like we can't be transparent and vulnerable with Him. In this episode, I'll talk about God's desire for us to not only see Him as our master, but as our refuge as well.

Read: Psalm 6; Luke 15:17-20

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Rest Is Not Laziness. Take a Break. Mar 28, 2022

A couple of weeks ago I suffered from burnout. God has recently been pushing me to take my resting periods more seriously. We all need time to rest and regroup, and this time needs to be accompanied with fasting, prayer, meditation on the Word or all of the above. Resting is not laziness, it's necessary. A lot of us think we are pleasing God when we overwork, but in reality, pleasing God doesn't always look like "working hard." When He says "rest," be obedient and rest.

Read: Luke 10:38-42; 1 Samuel 15:20-22

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Why Are Christians Lonely - Part 2 Mar 21, 2022

In Part 2 of "Why Are Christians Lonely" we ask the question: Why does God separate/isolate us? Many of us may not realize that God has purposefully separated us from certain places, people and situations because the work that He wants to do in us requires no distractions or disruptions. These times are for maturing, but instead of focusing on God, many of us use this time to sulk in our loneliness...

Read: The Story of Joseph Genesis 37-41

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Does God Forgive Every Sin? Mar 14, 2022

Does God really forgive every sin that we've ever committed? Well, what about the really big ones? Better yet, what about the sins that you can barely forgive yourselves of? We've all heard of God's grace...but how realistic is it?

Read: 1 John 1:6-10; Romans 5: 8-10

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Divine Validation Mar 07, 2022

I wish we could all proudly say the only validation we rely on is from God. Unfortunately for many of us, even after we have received His divine validation, we commonly live in doubt, low self-esteem and feelings of unworthiness. Today I address the person that has been too timid to do the things God has called him or her to do. It's time to quit being timid and buy in.

Read: 1 Corinthians 15:9-10; Ephesians 1:7; Isaiah 40:13-16

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Why Are Christians Lonely? Feb 28, 2022

I noticed many of us are feeling lonely. Some of us lost our friends and significant others when we started to take Jesus seriously and just want to know why. Is it something we did, or is it the "light inside us" that people are always talking about? Today, let's discuss loneliness: what causes it and how can we cope with it?

Read: Matthew 5:11-16; Deuteronomy 8:3

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Listen to This When You’re Feeling Envious Feb 21, 2022

I've been sitting on this topic for weeks. Today let's talk about one of the roots of envy. No one ever likes to admit that they are envious of anyone. Envy is dangerous; it ruins lives and sometimes ends them. I pray this episode frees the envious person from that bondage, and helps you experience what it truly means to genuinely root for other people's success.

Read: Genesis 4:1-10; Philippians 2:1-4

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Let’s Talk About (Christian) Romantic Relationships Feb 14, 2022

On today's Valentine's Day edition of the Churchboy Confessions podcast, we talk about romantic relationships. What is marriage about anyways and why is it a big deal? Is it just about being happy and fulfilled or is there more to it?

Read: Genesis 2:18-24; Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas

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Can We Actually Save This World? Feb 07, 2022

As Christians, should our aim be to save the world? Should we wake up every morning with the goal of making a utopian society our reality? Many of us want to save the world, but did God ever ask us to? Today, I'll discuss the reality of the future our world awaits and the role that I believe believers are meant to play.

Read: Rev 21:1-4

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Let the Storm Finish (TUPJ4) Jan 31, 2022

Two days after the Poetry Jam...there's still a lot I want to process. And int the meantime, I thought it was only right to revive this archived episode from Feb. 1st, 2021 that related to a message I spoke on, on Saturday. The message is titled "Let the Storm Finish". I pray that what you get our of this episode is a new outlook on how you should respond to the trials in your life.

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Read: James 1:1-8

”My Life Sucks…Does God Hate Me?” Jan 24, 2022

Right now, your life sucks. Does this mean that God hates you? Why can't you just live a life where everything is a blessing and never causes you stress? Today I want to speak to anyone who has ever had these thoughts running through their heads. Why does God allow hardship, and why does His discipline seem so hatred?

Read: James 1:1-4; Hebrews 12:4-12; Isaiah 43:2

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My Birthday Blues (WHY AREN’T I BALLING YET?) Jan 17, 2022

Birthdays used to be a time of genuine happiness and celebration. Unfortunately for me and a lot of us, it has turned into a time where we stress about not being as far along in life as we want to be. Today, I want to talk about this, and how many of our desires in life emerge from our own sinfulness. It is when we put God first, we are able to curb this depression and walk in the path He's called us to.

Read: Deut 29:29; 6:19-24; Matthew 16:24-27

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Getting Over Past Failures Jan 10, 2022

A lot of us are strong and courageous enough to step up to the plate and fight it out. But how many of us are strong and courageous enough to get back up after getting knocked on our butts. There is one thing that we must grasp in order to be empowered enough to get back up after a failure...and that one thing is God's grace. Let's talk about it.

Read: Joshua 7

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YOU MUST HAVE FAITH TO FOLLOW GOD. Jan 03, 2022

It's 2022. This year, we are focusing on following God to where He has called us. The road may not be easy, but I believe that if you have faith, you will be able to withstand and conquer any trial. I want this year to be a faith-filled year. No longer will our days be filled with doubt and self-pity. In 2022, we will keep our eyes on the Helper.

Read: Matthew 16:21-27; Matthew 14:25-31; Hebrews 11:6; John 14:27

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What Are You? (Listen to this before 2022) Dec 27, 2021

What you are is not something that you earn. It is simply what you are. In this episode I just wanted to run some thoughts about identity with you. And ultimately, I hope that as you look to strategize your approach to 2022, this episode stands as a point of influence in that process.

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Emmanuel Iheke

Read: Genesis 1:27

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God Provides For Those He Calls Dec 20, 2021

Riddle me this:

You asked God's will to be done.
You've been obedient. You seek His kingdom first.
But you're still worried about not fulfilling your destiny?
That don't add up...Merry Christmas btw. Let's talk about it.

Read: Luke 1:26-38; Philippians 2:5-11

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Delighting in Your Weaknesses - Part 2 Dec 13, 2021

Rather than seeing our weaknesses as a platform for God's glory to stand on, we turn to being insecure individuals on a quest to be self-reliant. It is this misconception of our weaknesses that lead many of us into a life of sin. Let's expand on this...

Read: Genesis 1:27-30; 2 Corinthians 12:9; Jeremiah 9:23-24

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Into the Thick of It! Dec 06, 2021

God grabbed your hand, and told you to follow Him. Only one problem...He hasn't told you where you're going. Typically, before one begins a journey, he or she knows the destination. Knowing the destination empowers one to persevere through today's trials in hopes of one day reaching the mountaintop. But when God doesn't reveal to you what the destination is, what is supposed to empower you then?

Read: Hebrews 11:8

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Delighting in Your Weaknesses Nov 29, 2021

Some of our weakness continue to be a burden on us because God allows them to stay there for a reason...a good reason.

(Pray that God helps you to really listen to this episode. At first, the concept seems like a hard pill to swallow but remember that God loves you and knows the perfect route to perfection.)

Read: 2 Corinthians 12:2-10

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Your Calling is a Command Nov 22, 2021

Knowing that the calling God has placed over your life is actually a command comes with huge benefits. For starters, God does not command humans to do anything we cannot accomplish with His empowerment. This gives us confidence to move forward in our calling, knowing that God has already made a pathway to a successful mission. All we need to do is listen, trust and obey.

You are never too unqualified or unclean to follow a command of God. In fact, following His commands is how we express our love to Him.

Read: Jeremiah 1:4-10; Deut 31:7-8; Isaiah 40:8

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Humility is Required. Nov 15, 2021

It is impossible to live a life that glorifies God without humility. That is how important this topic is. It's never a comfortable conversation to have, but it is imperative that we have it. Many of the things our generation does is for our own self-exaltation. We've traded in our testimonies of God's goodness for instagram captions that only praise ourselves for the hard work we do. Where does glorifying God still fit in our lives?

Read: John 3:26-30

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I Forgot About Grace Again. Nov 08, 2021

When we lose sight of grace, we lose sight of God.

Some of us think we are morally superior to others because we follow more rules in the Bible. Others of us hate ourselves after we sin and think God never wants anything to do with us. It's time we revisit what it means to be saved by the grace of God, and not by our own works.

Read: Galatians 5!!!!!

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How to Respond to Closed Doors Nov 01, 2021

Closed doors exist for many reasons....but not because God can't open them. As we live a life directed by the Spirit, we should never panic and pout at the sight of closed doors, but lean on God to make a way where there seems to be no way. Can I get an amen or what?

Read: Isaiah 41:19: Job 39:4-11

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How to Be Present in the Lord Oct 25, 2021

This week God told me to "be present." I asked Him how, and this is the message I've been inspired to preach on today. I don't think being present is the goal, as much as it is the product of reaching the goal. I think the real goal is learning how to not linger in the past nor worry about the future. In today's message, we focus on the topic of the future.

Read: Matthew 6:19-34

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He Gives Strength to the Weary Oct 18, 2021

Isaiah 40:29-31

He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

Let's talk about God's power.

Read: Isaiah 40:21-31; Psalm 121:4; Deut 8:3

Comparison & Covetousness (Emmanuel‘s Idolatry: Extended) Oct 11, 2021

It's hard to feel content while comparing other people's blessings to yours. The truth is, our envy and covetousness for other people's things root from our urge to glorify ourselves. This is a problem, because we were created with the purpose to glorify God. When we find ourselves more concerned with glorifying our own image than the image of God, we become idolators.

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Read: Colossians 3:5; Ephesians 2:10; Matthew 6:19-21

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Emmanuel‘s Idolatry Oct 04, 2021

Today I had a lot to get off my chest about my current state of mind. I've been very covetous (greedy) as of late. It's all been mixed in with some comparison, envy, frustration and more. This is part 1 to the discussion since it got cut short.

Read: Colossians 3:5

The Blessing That Came With Challenges Sep 27, 2021

The blessings come, but we still aren't in heaven. We will still face challenges. Some of us have arrived at a new level, and with every new level comes new challenges. This is not a time to shrink back, but a time to buckle down and go to work. The Lord is your strength. He's brought you hear and He will lead you through.

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Hurt People (Don‘t Have the Right to) Hurt People Sep 20, 2021

I pray this one doesn't go over anyone's head. There must be a balance between acknowledging the the trauma, upbringing, and environments that cause us to have a tendency to behave a certain way, and taking responsibility for our actions. Sometimes, we hear "hurt people hurt people" as a way to pardon people from their bad behavior. Although this statement holds truth, God wants His children admitting their own fault everyday.

Read: Genesis 3:8-14; 1 John 1:8-10; Luke 18:9-14

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Another Episode About Being Incompetent Sep 13, 2021

I've been fed these messages by the Holy Spirit, encouraging the people who think they are too dirty or don't have what it takes. If you're the person this is for, God is trying to let you know something. If He's died for you, and if He has called you, stop thinking you are too dirty or not gifted enough. Hope this episode blesses someone.

Read: Exodus 4:1-8; 1 Samuel 17:38-40; 1 Kings 17:14-16; Matthew 14:16-20

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I‘m Incompetent and It Bugs Me Sep 06, 2021

I've been wrestling with this voice of the enemy in my head. It's been telling me that I am too incompetent; I don't have what it takes to handle what God has put on my plate. Many of us hear this same voice everyday. In this episode, we address the voice head on.

Read: Romans 4:18-22; 1 Corinth 1:27-29; Isaiah 55:10-11

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I Forgot About Grace Aug 30, 2021

There are some of us that woke up this morning and skipped prayer and God time because we think we are too dirty for God. If you are one of these people, or ever have been, let's take time to remember what Jesus Christ did for us. We are going back to the basics because it is the foundation. We cannot build up without it.

Read: Romans 5:1; Luke 15:17-20; John 14:23

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God's Love In Our Suffering Aug 23, 2021

This entire week is about love as we commemorate the UA's 3rd anniversary. Many of us see our suffering to indicate that God has left us and no longer loves us. However, this is not the case. Suffering is expected in the life of all human beings, and our comfort doesn't come from them being absent. It comes from our faith in God being present. #DTDOYY21

Read: Isaiah 43:2; Romans 8:35-39; Rev 21:4

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How To Be Content In Life Aug 16, 2021

Even us Christians can confess to being discontent in life. Does this mean that God is not enough for us?

God told us, " man doth not live by bread only, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of the Lord doth man live." Let's break down what that means.

Read: Phil 4:11-13; Jeremiah 17:7-8; Galatians 5:22-23; John 15:1-5; Duet 8:2-3

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You're In Your Own Head Aug 09, 2021

"Sounds like you're in your own head." That's what my homie Charles told me, and I can't stop thinking about it. In this episode we talk about the enemy within.

Read: Matthew 14:26-31; Ephesians 6:12-16; Romans 8:32

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Should Christians Be Social Justice Warriors? Aug 02, 2021

Today we answer a question submitted to Ask Churchboy: Hey "...How do you think us, children of God, should approach differences in opinion within our own church? Different generations have different lenses when it comes to how proactive we should be within our community battles and political conversations, especially when comes to about speaking on racial and gender injustice. Should we speak up or brush it under the rug?"

Read: Luke 10:30-37; James 4:17; Galatians 6:1

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Don't Be Afraid Of Their Faces Jul 26, 2021

Caring too much about what people think is an underrated issue. In fact, I think this issue is one of the most relevant for our generation. Fact of the matter is: this issue has the power to keep people from living out their lives as an offering to God. In this episode I'll explain how.

Read: Jeremiah 1:4-10; Matthew 5:16; Matthew 5:13

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Is Jesus God? Jul 19, 2021

PULL OUT THAT BIBLE. Tbh I didn't expect for this one to be this heavy but whatever. There's been too much confusion in our generation, so I believe its time to slow it down and cover one of the fundamental doctrines of our faith: The Divinity of Jesus. I pray this message ultimately encourages you see the importance of studying the Word, asking questions (to the right people), and taking your walk in Christ more seriously than you are right now. Love yaw, let's get into it!

Read: John 1:1-3 & 14; Colossians 1:15-17; John 8:54-58; Matthew 16:13-17

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Hard Work vs. Dependency on God Jul 12, 2021

Should I trust God for a miracle or should I make things happen on my own? Do we work hard because we don't trust God? Are we mediocre because we expect God to give us a miracle? Hope episode gives some clarity.

Read: 1 Samuel 17:48-49; Duet 8:4; Duet 8: 11-20; Matthew 14:31

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The Problem with Always Being Unproblematic Jul 05, 2021

Many young Christians of our generation are so scared to be problematic. We're scared to be cancelled and we are scared to be seen as a bad person. Our addiction to praise has finally exposed itself, as we are so much more concerned with being an amazing person in the eyes of the world than we are serving and representing Christ. Today I'll unpack all this and I hope that you DON'T feel attacked but enlightened.

Read: Matthew 5:14-16; Joshua 24: 14-15; 1 John 2:15-17
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Laziness Is Unrighteousness Jun 28, 2021

Many of us need this one. We've been lazy, slow, and unmotivated. I hope this message can quicken your spirit and help you make the connection between your hard work in any area and honoring the Father. You can't do anything for God's glory if you're not doing.

Read: 1 Corinthians 10:31; Genesis 2:15; 2 Samuel 24:21-25

More verses on laziness: https://www.openbible.info/topics/laziness

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Ecclesiastes 3:11 (God's Calendar) Jun 21, 2021

Life hasn't been going as expected. You've been obedient, but are still discontent with where you are in life. You are waiting for God to bless you...and nothing is happening? Are you doing something wrong; is God mad at you? Or maybe it just isn't His time. What will you do now? Will you fall in shambles or persist towards victory?

Read: Ecclesiastes 3:11; Psalm 27:13; Hebrews 11:6

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The Full Picture Jun 14, 2021

Cheers to 100! This episode, I wanted to take the time to be transparent. Getting to episode 100 took more than I had in the tank, but I'm thankful to God that every time I was ready to walk away from this platform, He directed me back on track. Moral of the story is this: be able to carry on even when God doesn't give you the full picture. Don't stop until He says "stop."

To this community, thank you so much! Thank you for listening, watching, commenting, following, DM'ing - the whole shebang. God has used you all to bless me and help me carry on and I'll never take you all for granted. I love you all. We will continue!

Read: Proverbs 3:5-6
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God's Way Yields No Regrets Jun 07, 2021

Following God's way can sometimes look like you are missing "opportunities." But please remember, God does not miss anything, nor does He cause us to miss anything that was indeed meant for us. When living a life led by His Spirit, we never need to carry regret.

Read: Psalms 18:30-35; 1 Samuel 26:10-11; Jeremiah 1: 9-10

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God's Peace Doesn't Have To Wait May 31, 2021

Is it real peace if you have to wait for the storm to finish in order to feel it? Do you actually experience God's peace or are you just comforted by having everything in your life under your control? Today, I discuss what God's peace looks like amidst a life of many afflictions.

Read: Psalm 34:19; Mark 4:35-40; Jeremiah 17: 5-8; Isaiah 42:2

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"Progressive" Christianity & "Conservative" Christianity Part 2 May 24, 2021

This week, it's part 2 to the 2-part series on Progressive and Conservative Christianity. In this episode, I cover Progressive Christianity, and the 3 reasons I believe this heresy (yes, heresy) is popular amongst our generation. This episode is incomplete without the previous episode, so if you're planning on listening, make sure you check out Part 1 first (ep.96). Definitely open to any questions you might have after this one. Send them here: https://www.un-associated.com/askchurchboy/

Read: John 14:6; 2 Timothy 4:3-4; James 4:4; John 15:18-20

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"Progressive" Christianity & "Conservative" Christianity Part 1 May 17, 2021

This week, I start a 2-part series on Progressive and Conservative Christianity. I will be highlighting the ways in how people who identify themselves with either or, might miss the mark. This week, I cover Conservative Christianity, and next week I will cover Progressive Christianity. These episodes won't dissect every facet of each stance, but cover the overview. This episode is incomplete without the next, and the next is incomplete without this one. Hope this clears things up about the Word of God and proper conduct of a child of God.

Read: 1 John 4:7-12; Galatians 5:22; Matthew 5:20-22; John 8:3-7

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Asking Amiss (aka Rise & Grind Christianity) May 10, 2021

When we ask God for something, we must believe He is our provider. And when we ask, we shall receive. However, in the times we do not receive, is it because God is incapable of giving? Or could it be that we haven't received because we have asked amiss?

Read: Matthew 6, Matthew 7:7-11, 1 John 1:5, James 4:2-3

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I Hate Myself When I Make Mistakes. May 03, 2021

If you're anything like me, after you make a mistake your mind is full of self-deprecating thoughts and you find it hard to get back up because of the shame. Many of us have formed a habit of condemning ourselves for our mistakes, even though God does not. What do we have to realize for us to finally be more forgiving of ourselves and get back up stronger than ever?

Read: Psalm 37:23-24; Colossians 3:17

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Has God Put A Gun To Our Heads? Apr 26, 2021

Is God putting a gun to our heads? Is He forcing us to worship Him/have a relationship with Him, and punishing all those who don't choose Him by sending them off to hell? Are those of us who are Christians unknowingly serving an authoritarian dictator who's a narcissist?

Of course not.

Read: James 1:17; John 3:18; Romans 5:12-19

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Is A Mundane Life Worth Living? Apr 19, 2021

For many of us, we have been experiencing a period of time in life with a lack of excitement, newness, and passion. Sometimes this can be a result of us doing something wrong, however, these can also be times God Himself calls us to exist in. It's easy to lose sight of the purpose of it all while living a mundane life, but like every part of a Christian's life - it has purpose, and we must endure it.

Read: Romans 8:28; Philippians 4:6-7 & 11-13; Matthew 6:31-34

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Stop Hiding Your Faith w/ Danielle Clayton Apr 12, 2021

Today, we host Editor-in-Chief of UN-ASSOCIATED, Danielle Clayton, to talk about her journey of coming to realize that her faith was nothing to keep quiet about. Many of us get so distracted or scared, that we choose to not share our faith with others and keep Jesus private. However, our faith in God should permeate from every facet of our lives as a testimony to who He is.

Read: 1 Corinthians 2:14; 1 Peter 3:15; Matthew 10:32-38

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The Dangers of Having a Prideful Heart Apr 05, 2021

When God calls us to a journey from mountain peak to mountain peak, we often are tempted with pride - exalting ourselves instead of giving the glory to God. Every good thing we have, has been given to us by God. However ,many of us rather boast about our accomplishments without ever mentioning God because we are more concerned with our self-image than anything else...

Read: Acts 14:8-18; 1 Corinthians 4:7; 1 Corinthians 1:27-31

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Loving Like A Christian In 2021 Mar 29, 2021

Christians have inherited a terrible rep in this generation. We are seen as hateful, judgmental, hypocritical, and more. Are we getting called all these names for Christ's sake, or could it be that we actually all have these faults that need to be acknowledged and corrected. Additionally, how should a Christian navigate a generation where disagreeing has become synonymous with hatred?

Read: 1 Peter 4:12-16; Luke 10:25-37; John 15:18-19

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Breaking Down the Dangers of Self-Pity Mar 22, 2021

In life, God can call us to journey through the mountain peaks or the valleys, and each environment needs a different strategy for endurance. In the valley especially, self-pity is a very present and UNDERRATED enemy. Getting trapped in this pit will only slow you down and distance you from God. It's time we give this enemy the attention it needs to be defeated.

Read: Numbers 13:31 - 14:5; 2 Corinthians 12:9-10; Romans 8:35-39

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Overcoming Sexual Sins - Part 2: satan Hates You. Mar 15, 2021

On part 2 of "Overcoming Sexual Sins", I talk about a common tactic the devil would use to tempt me into sexual sin: making it seem like he was my friend. Yeah, I know that sounds silly - who would ever believe satan is anyone's friend. However, in hard times, the enemy can sometimes approach you as an angel of light, as your friend, your solace, your provider of pleasure. And if we aren't careful, we can be deceived to the point of death.

See: Episode 75 for Part 1

Read: Matthew 24:14 - 27:5; Proverbs 7; Romans 8:33-34

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Does Manifestation Belong in Christianity? Mar 08, 2021

#askchurchboy:...I'm wondering if you could dig deeper into what the Bible says about manifestation and whether or not Christians should be practicing it.

This week, we FINALLY take on the concept of Manifestation. What exactly is this new age principle, and is it something that goes in line with God's word? Let's settle it.

Read: Matthew 16:24-26; 2 Timothy 4:3; 1 John 5:14-15

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How Do I Know If I'm Truly Saved? Mar 01, 2021

#askchurchboy: I have doubts on my salvation...how do I know if I am truly saved?

Today I answer what it means, and looks like to truly be saved. As elementary as this topic may be for some, it is the most important message that I could ever preach on - as being sure of salvation is the most important thing in all of our lives!

I honestly don't preach about this enough. But the key takeaway from this message is that we are saved by faith in Jesus Christ. He has paid the price, washing away our sins, and when we surrender our lives to Him and make Him our Lord, we secure salvation and go through a real transformation. I wish this experience on every human, I pray that as you listen to this message the Holy Spirit convicts you to be sure of your salvation. This episode will either make some feel more comfort or make some feel more discomfort - either way, GOOD. Love you all, enjoy!

Read: Romans 10:9; Matthew 7:21; Galatians 2:16; James 2:16-22

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Consider Not The Contrary: The Origin Story of UN-ASSOCIATED Feb 22, 2021

Just because God has called you to something doesn't mean you won't face opposition. In fact, 9/10 you should expect opposition, as satan works hard everyday to get you to doubt God by sending you messages and circumstances that contrast everything God has told you. In these times it's important for us to stick to God's word, know who we are, hold the line.

Read: Matthew 14:22-24; Matthew 27:27-44; John 1:46; Ephesians 1:7; Romans 8:28

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My Fear of Embarrassment Feb 15, 2021

My fear of failure was actually a fear of embarrassment. Have you ever been embarrassed even though no one else was in the room? What does the Bible say about embarrassment and how we can carry on past it? We need to know this because - let me tell you - that embarrassment makes me want to quit sometimes.

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Hold Onto Your Seat Feb 08, 2021

When God places us on a seat at the table, we can expect there to be people (or even our own thoughts) that try to convince us we don't belong there. However, when God places us on a seat, we need to hold onto that seat until He - and only Him - tells us to get up. That's that.

Read: 1 Samuel 17:28-37

Let the Storm Finish: The Game-plan for Endurance Feb 01, 2021

It's not every time a storm comes that our main prayer point should be for God to deliver us out of the mayhem. Sometimes the storm needs to run its course. Times like these are when we need to know what it means to endure.

What It Means to Serve a Sovereign God Jan 25, 2021

At first, the idea of turning 23 only left me with panic and fear of the future. So many of us are currently in positions we never saw ourselves being in? What do we do with all of these built-up emotions and uncertainty for the future?

(I think this is an episode that could really change a life.)

Read: Isaiah 41

The Dangers of Social Media Jan 18, 2021

Social media. A world of endless content - a wonderful platform to share the gospel. However, in the same way it has become a tool of the enemy to spread false doctrine and feed our addiction to attention. It's time to go a bit deeper and call out the dangers of these apps, and figure out what we each can do better as individuals.

The Power of Imagination Jan 14, 2021

Mom asked me what I was going to do after graduation....that sucked. So now how do I get rid of the anxiety that question just placed on me? Maybe I have to use to power of my Imagination...

The Importance of Community w/ Natalia Casiano Jan 11, 2021

Christian Influencer, Natalia Casiano, is invited to the podcast to have a very touching conversation about her struggle with homosexuality, her story of coming to know Christ, and the role that a loving Christian community played throughout the entire journey.

Should I Even Try This Year? Jan 04, 2021

One thing 2020 showed us all is that this world is truly unpredictable. After what was such a hard year for many of us, should we even try to expect big things or anything good to happen this year? If you're having trouble deciding on whether to be optimistic or skeptical about this new year, please listen.

Read: Luke 5:1-11

So You're Christian...But Do You Know God? Dec 28, 2020

On this episode Emmanuel speaks with Christian Influencer, Delon Lawrence, to talk about the importance of knowing the character of God and how it is the foundation of our faith/trust in Him. The devil has been working hard to misconstrue our image of God since he first fell away. Now it's time we uncover the tactics of the enemy.

Follow Delon on instagram: @delonlawrence

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Overcoming Sexual Sins Dec 21, 2020

This week Emmanuel opens up about his past struggle with sexual sin and how the Holy Spirit has helped uncover the lies of the enemy that kept him in "the cycle". We pray this episode holds power to help free you from any lustful struggle you are facing. One very important thing to note - it is possible to beat it.

Forgiving, and Sacrifice w/ Leo Sanchez Dec 14, 2020

Sometimes we are the obstacles between ourselves and a healthy relationship with God. When we don't forgive and we choose to hold on to what God wants us to let go of, we separate ourselves from Him and even hinder our own growth and healing processes. This week Emmanuel welcomes Leo Sanchez, a brother in the Lord and fellow tiktoker, to discuss his journey of coming to know Christ.

For When You're Feeling Ugly Dec 07, 2020

Feeling ugly and body dysmorphia are things many of us - if not all of us - have experienced in life. It's about time we realize that our looks are not indicative of our worth. Literally - Jesus didn't ask about the size of your forehead before He decided to die for you...

The Definition of Success Nov 30, 2020

"If your vision of success is not related to the tasks God has put you on this planet to fulfill, then it is not success, it is a distraction."

Enjoy this word, and send it to someone who you know needs to hear it.

Comparison Is A Never-ending Process Nov 23, 2020

#Askchurchboy Question: How does pride cloud our understanding of God's character and His fullness?; Comparison truly is the thief of joy, and today Emmanuel explains why he calls it the "never-ending cycle of self-inflicted, mental, torment."

Why Rejection Cannot Define You Nov 16, 2020

Rejection is something we all hate to experience. We fear it because it makes us feel like we are not enough or that something is wrong with us. However, the life of Jesus is an example of someone who remained the Son of God, even when the world rejected Him. In this episode I cover why rejection is nothing to fear, and has no power while you are walking in God's path.

Sin, Failure & Comparison Nov 09, 2020

Jesus dying for us means more than our sins being washed away. His death gave us access to a relationship with the Father, in which we have freedom, identity and purpose. In this episode I talk about how since we've accepted Jesus into our lives, we then no longer have to allow sin, failure and comparison to define us.

Note: These past couple of weeks I've been mourning the passing away of a loved one. I had to take time away, as I didn't even know what to say and did not want to talk to or about God. But I'm back because I rediscovered that God is good and loves us all even through death. Thank you all for the love. Love you, OJ.

Insecurities Check Oct 19, 2020

For the people who have a hard time with their self image.

Read: 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 & Matthew 4:1-11

Anger Management Oct 12, 2020

2020 has been a year filled with many emotions - a prominent one has been anger, as there has been much to be angry about. So what does the Bible say about anger management? Cuz we can all use the advice right now... This episode is for the folks that are always mad all the time.

When Giants Become Bread Oct 05, 2020

This episode is for those who may have a problem with complaining and murmuring too much. The message highlight a man named Caleb, who was able to acquire God's promise because of his "different spirit." Sometimes the spirit we operate with is the deciding factor of whether we enter God's promise or not.

My Prayer Life Is Poppin' Sep 28, 2020

First, prayer was always that boring, painstaking thing I had to do when I was a kid. Then it became the thing I only did when I was scared about the future. I've witnessed a lot of growth, and now prayer has truly become a peace-evoking action for me - here's how.

Is "Jesus" a Curse Word Now? Sep 21, 2020

Why is it easy for us to talk about God but hard for us to mention the name of Jesus? Jesus has been omitted from our speech, our TV shows, even some of our prayers. Do we even remember why Jesus is important?

Defining Rock Bottom Sep 14, 2020

We all fear being the version of ourselves we visualize at rock bottom. It's a shameful depiction. And our fear of that vision becoming reality sometimes hinders us from saying "yes" to God. This is a problem.

The Afraid & The Aggressor Sep 07, 2020

There are 2 types of people in this world: the afraid and the aggressor. Are you the one that shrinks back in fear or the one that's confident enough take the first step? What makes the aggressor so confident anyway?

Is What You're Chasing After Worth It? Aug 31, 2020

What's the prize? And is the prize worthy of being your prize? Does your vision of the perfect life do anything to advance the Kingdom of God? If it doesn't, then is there a point to it?

Walk by Faith. Aug 24, 2020

I've been running God's company for 2 years now and the #1 lesson I've had to endure revolves around what it means to "walk by faith and not by sight." A simple saying - but very difficult to act on. In this episode I breakdown the importance of living life with your eyes closed. #DTDOYY20

Should Happiness Be Our Goal? Aug 17, 2020

The question stands: Is "doing whatever makes you happy" and "following your heart" really always the right thing to do? I may very well sound like a jerk for the first half of this episode but I promise it gets better. Listen in and hear my answer.

There's Purpose To This Pressure Aug 10, 2020

The Moral of Saul's Story: There are consequences to cracking under pressure. When under pressure, we feel the urge to disregard God's words and draw up our own plays. Listen to why that's not a good idea...

Read: 1 Samuel 13; Duet 8

Seek Ye First Aug 02, 2020

Matthew 6:33 - "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."

Discouragement is a Part of the Journey Jul 27, 2020

I used to get mad at myself for feeling discouraged because I thought it only indicated a lack of growth and faith in God. However, I now see that there is more to it. Discouragement is a natural part of the journey.

My Breakthrough WAS NOT Around The Corner Jul 20, 2020

It's gotten to the point where I don't even know what to ask God for. I've asked, I've had faith, I've been obedient, I've worked hard - so now what? In this episode I talk about what to do after you realized your breakthrough WAS NOT around the corner.

Can Christians Cut People Off? - Part 2 Jul 17, 2020

We continue our conversation from last episode by touching on our use of discernment. How do we know who belongs in our circle and who does not? What boundaries should we be setting? How do we know when enough is enough?

Can Christians Cut People Off? Jul 06, 2020

"Can a Christian cut someone out of their life? Is that okay? It doesn't seem like that's ever the Christian thing to do, so what do I do when I can't deal with this person anymore?" If you've ever asked yourself these questions before, please listen to this episode.

Heart 2 Heart Jun 29, 2020

On the cusp of Churchboy Confessions turning 1 years old, Emmanuel looks back on the top 3 things he learned from the journey thus far.

For Black Men & Women - with Kendra Smith Jun 22, 2020

The division amongst Black men and women is deeply rooted in misogynoir, abandonment, abuse and resentment. In this episode, Emmanuel invites Kendra Smith, from the "Kreate with Kendra" podcast, to have a preliminary discussion on the plight of Black women and how Black men can do more to support them.

I Just Graduated Without A Job Offer Jun 15, 2020

I graduated, and it's great! But the fact that I don't know what will happen next makes me scared straight. A lot of us are entering the sea of adulthood without a life jacket. That can make you want to just crawl back into your comfort zone. What do we do now? (Please share this episode with someone you believe needs to hear it.)

To The Judgmental & Hypocritical Jun 08, 2020

Judgmental and Hypocritical Christians have become the infamous gatekeepers of Christianity, turning people away from a relationship with Jesus with their tendency to make people feel like crap. It's time to discuss this and hold people accountable. What does the Bible have to say about this so called "gatekeepers"?

The (Unlikely) Christian Response... #justiceforgeorgefloyd Jun 01, 2020

Today I address the silent Christians and the those of the Black community that have lost hope. #justiceforgeorgefloyd

How Can A Loving God Allow This Pain May 25, 2020

It's the question we have all asked ourselves at some point. In this episode I speak to the people who feel like God must hate them for the things He is allowing to happen right now.

Money, Money, Money, Money....Monaaaaay May 18, 2020

Our paper trails are truly all just Paper Trails of Tears. The love of money is the root of all evil, and can be the root of your demise, yet it seems like we don't care and continue to condition our lives to revolve around it anyways. In this episode I breakdown how money is the false symbol of status, happiness and justification.

Crunch Time: Faithfulness v. Fruitfulness May 11, 2020

You're so close, but you seem so far, and now you just have a little bit of doubt that you'll every make it. Understand this, God would have never given you your task if He didn't believe you had the ability to accomplish it. He gives each of us talents according to our ability. Remain Faithful.

Interview with Tim Harrison May 04, 2020

Tim talks about his journey to self-discovery, and the life lessons he learned along the way. One of them being his "bake or burn" mentality; the trials we face can either burn us or bake us to perfection. This is a talk about purpose and reflection. Enjoy.

Pace Yourself. Apr 27, 2020

Are you chasing your dreams or are you running away from anxiety? Why do you get up to work everyday? Is it to claim the prize or is it to quiet the guilt of not working? Hard work is nothing without strategy. In life, going 100mph without pacing yourself can be the reason you fail.

The Mis-Representatives of Christianity Apr 20, 2020

In this episode Emmanuel calls out the misrepresentation of Christianity you see in the media, politics, public schools and everywhere else - smh. It's time to finally talk about the white supremacists, the judgmental folk, the overly-emotional holy-ghost catchers, the "why not both" folk, and the corrupt politicians. You're in for a long one...

Justified & Qualified: Resurrection Day Apr 13, 2020

Through faith, not only are we justified, but we are also qualified. Jesus dying for our sins gave us the free gift of justification - the same way our faith in God has given us the qualifications to fulfill our life purpose no matter how big they are.

At the Inconvenient Moment Apr 06, 2020

It's hard to do the right thing at inconvenient times. However, in these inconvenient times, our responses hold the most weight. What we decide to do at our most uncomfortable periods can yield the most growth.

The Problem Isn't God, It's Your Faith Mar 30, 2020

Faith is like the gateway between everything God wants to do in our lives and the physical realm. We have the responsibility of keeping that gateway open and maintained. If it closes down, we don't receive what's ours. Without faith, we have nothing.

Peace Be Still Mar 23, 2020

Has the way you've responded to the crisis aligned with the vision of one that has unquenchable faith in God? If not, then there is room to grow, and that starts with acknowledging that we could do better. This is your test, your next response will determine whether you pass or not. Trust God.

Know the Truth, Beat the Crisis Mar 16, 2020

When in crisis, the thing that will get you through it all is your knowledge of the truth. The truth is something you must know, it goes beyond feelings - it has the ability to change everything. Our faith in God rests on the truth, so make sure you know it.

My Post-Grad Blues Mar 09, 2020

Raise your hand if you don't know what's going to happen next, and fact of not knowing it's been killing you inside. Raise your hand if the pressures to be successful - whether it comes from society, your parents or even your pride - are eating you up. It's time to fear not. Please have a listen.

Get Out Your Feelings Mar 02, 2020

Oftentimes we allow out eternal identities to be determined by our temporary feelings. This is dangerous, as it makes us vulnerable to satan's influences. We need to find a way to make our feelings conform to our identity, not the other way around.

You Have NOTHING to Prove Feb 24, 2020

Jesus never did a miracle with the purpose of PROVING anything to anybody. Everything He did was to serve others. He didn't make a reputation while concerned with the superficial, but by being concerned with service. This is an example we need to emulate. No need to proving what you already know - let your service reveal to "them" who you are.

Myth: Your Past Obstacles Define You. Feb 17, 2020

The obstacles you faced in the past did not make you, nor do they define you. This is a myth. Your responses to those obstacles are what have the true influence on who you are now; Correcting the negative images of the "past you" is imperative. How we view our past selves can very well have an impact on how we approach our future.

My Response to Life’s Ups & Downs Feb 10, 2020

We may encounter situations that are great and others that are bad, but that does not mean our mindsets or the narratives of our lives have to follow that fluctuating pattern. There is power in being moderately-minded.

Faith Week! Feb 03, 2020

God can chastise us for us to be stronger, not to harm us. Chastisement may not be joyful, but oftentimes those experiences are what we need for our faith to grow. When your faith grows, you grow.

The Stars Will Never Align Jan 27, 2020

Too many of us waste our life away waiting for everything to be perfect before we chase our dreams or be obedient to God. You're busy waiting to see "it" so you can move, while God is waiting for you to move so you can begin to see "it." No more waiting - work.

- R.I.P. Kobe

Do I Have to Choose Between Passion and Academia? Jan 20, 2020

Can students be "too goal-oriented"? Is it okay for students to get so caught up in academia they neglect all of their other passions? Today Emmanuel sits down with his very first guest. Close friend, Michael Okene, got to a point in his academic career where he had to make a decision on whether or not he should continue to manage the UCLA basketball team or focus more on his med-school route.

New Wine, Old Wineskins Jan 13, 2020

The reason you came down off that spiritual high is not because God wore off. Sometimes the reason we lose the new ideas and messages God has given us is because we still operate with an old mindset. New wine needs new wineskins; God needs your imagination to grow parallel to the visions He's giving you.

God Gives It Before You See It. Jan 06, 2020

When our prayers have aligned with God, God gives us what we ask for. The true mission comes in our process of receiving that blessing. We need the faith and attentive ears needed to follow instructions and not faint. When we realize how God has already given us what we prayed for it helps us to acknowledge the inevitability of our destiny.

3 Tips for Going into the New Year Dec 30, 2019

In this episode I speak on 3 tips that will help one enter the new year in a healthy fashion. Happy New Year everyone!

The Dangers of Uncertainty Dec 23, 2019

Uncertainty gives birth to the type of fear that paralyzes. God doesn't want you to be stuck one place. He needs you to move, He needs you to expect. We need to stop second-guessing ourselves for the sake of the fulfillment of God's promises in our lives.

It's Not All About You, That's Why You Can Be Confident. Dec 16, 2019

God isn't helping you to fulfill your life purpose JUST for you to be happy. He's using you to bless others. When we realize that, we are able to focus less on ourselves (insecurities, fears, doubts), and just know that God will use us according to His will for the sake of helping the people He loves.

Self Image Starts with "Self" Dec 09, 2019

I have mistakenly lived a life of seeking affirmation from other people in order to believe I was special. I didn't feel special until other people treated me like I was special. That is no way to live, as compliments are just as inconsistent as people are. The only person you need to treat you like who you are in order to be you, is you.

The Two Foundations Dec 02, 2019

Being a Christian doesn't mean life becomes easy. You will still face problems, still have hardships - however the difference lies in how you are able to conquer them. Building a foundation on Christ is like building your foundation on the rock - it will allow you to withstand the flood.

Optimism is a Tool Nov 25, 2019

Optimism is a result of our faith in God. This is what we must use to access God's promises for us. Positive thinking, and hope for a better future is what will get us through our current, hard times. Optimism is more than a feeling, or a word used to describe a type of person, it's a tool that opens doors and a keeps us from giving up.

Let God Handle "Your" Business Nov 18, 2019

When we realize that everything is not about us - but about others - we are able to stress less about our personal insufficiencies and focus more on God's ability to change lives through us. When we serve God we don't have to know "how", we just need to make sure we are obedient and serving as He wishes.

Service links to Destiny Nov 11, 2019

Sometimes, amidst being 100% goal-oriented, we become too fixated on an action plan - then loose sight of the actual reason behind us accomplishing said goal. Ultimately, each of us have a purpose to serve God and other people, and when we get distracted from service, we lose all authenticity when approaching a task. Remember - service is everything.

Live Life Now Nov 04, 2019

Many of us spend our entire life preparing for the future. This is great, however, this habit - like all habits - need to be managed. Too much preparation for the future can distract one from living and loving their life in the present. Everyday of your life has purpose - even now, before you're financially stable, with a family and big house.

How to Take an "L" Oct 28, 2019

Somehow at the end of a week in which I took 2 fat L's - I managed to be very proud of myself and content with life. This is because ultimately, I've been growing, and starting to understand more about the purpose behind L's and the best ways to respond to them.

"The Guilt Will Kill You..." Oct 21, 2019

There is a difference between "guilt" and the Christian definition of "conviction". The latter means to be remorseful and know wrong - while the other is a device used by the enemy to make you think you are too unworthy to have a relationship with God. It's time to get rid of the guilt before it kills you.

A Word for My Stressed-Out Folks Oct 14, 2019

Yes, your Churchboy has indeed been stressed out. I've been praying, I've been doing my best - but there's just so much to do and so much pressure. School work, job work, side-hustle work. What can us stressed folk do in a time like this?

How I Got Rid of My Hoop Dreams Oct 07, 2019

Many of us still don't know what our purpose is and it stresses us out EVERYDAY! What's the steps one needs to take to find it all out? What's the answer? I don't think theirs a step-by-step process or a blanket rule for everyone to follow - however there are some common denominators in all of our journeys. I talk about those 2 common denominators on this episode.

Use Your Gift in Every Scope Sep 30, 2019

OK, we get it. You know you got it going on. You know that you're going to be a superstar one day because of your awesome gift. However, right now you work a menial job that has nothing to do with that vision. It get's hard to find purpose in this situation, so much that sometimes you want to quit using your gift all together. That's you? Listen and hear why you should be using your gift no matter what scope you're given.

Being "You" Doesn't Always Come Natural Sep 23, 2019

How does one remain "changed" while going back to an environment that fed their unhealthy habits? After a summer filled with self-discovery - I get ready to go back to a school, the place that cultivated all of my past fake facades. How do I be the "new me" and make sure I don't revert to my past behavior on accident?

Just Do It. Sep 16, 2019

No matter where you are or what the problem is - God reigns. That anxiety you may have for the future needs to be met with a confident forearm straight to it's chin. Take that step that you've been scared to take - don't think too much, just do it.

"What You See Is What you Get" Sep 09, 2019

9 times out of 10, how you view yourself or your future is indicative of how you end up. You have control of what goes on in your head - use that ability to your advantage. You can envision the best, or you can envision the worst - the choice is yours.

The Criteria Sep 02, 2019

True freedom is found when you know who you are. True freedom is kept when the knowledge of your identity withstands the attacks of the enemy.

UA Anniversary Day! Aug 26, 2019

August 26th, 2018 marked the launch of www.un-associated.com. Today, on August 26th, Emmanuel speaks on the year long journey that brought the company here and the importance of gratitude and remembering where God has brought you from! Enjoy!

The Perception Prison Aug 19, 2019

What is a Perception Prison? It is the box we put each other in. The low expectations we place on others that we never want them to overcome. Today, we are so used to placing people in categories that we tie people’s potential down. In this episode we take another look at a passage, Luke 4 - when Jesus broke out of his perception prison.

God Makes You Enough Aug 19, 2019

What proof do you have of being "enough". What makes you think you have what it takes, or that you are sufficient to complete the task in front of you? Our Answer? - Guess...Yeah - God again.

When God Is Silent Aug 16, 2019

There comes those times in life when we are so frustrated and overwhelmed and want God to speak up now more than ever - however, He chooses to remain silent. What do we do then? How do we react? Does this mean that God has left us alone?

What Validates You? Aug 15, 2019

Where do you turn to when you need some self-validation? Your friends? Your parents? Your accomplishments? How about to the person that gave you your purpose?

"Scared Outta My Mind" Aug 15, 2019

Fear is something we all have to deal with. It cannot be avoided - it must be beaten. It may start as a mental battle, however, ultimately the battle is won with your hands and feet.

Pilot - What I Used To Be Aug 12, 2019

What is the story behind the “un-associated lifestyle”? How did the idea come about? Hear from the horses mouth on the first recording of the Churchboy Confessions.

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