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Chosen People Problems

Yael Bar tur, secular sinner, and Chaya Leah Sufrin, pious Haredi, ask each other the hard questions, from Torah to Tinder askajew.substack.com

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ASK A JEW (39): Sorry, Not Sorry Oct 05, 2022

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The Yom Kippur special extravaganza!

Just as the girls are about to shut their pie holes for 25 hours (to abstain from eating, not talking) they meet to beg your forgiveness.

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ASK A JEW (38): Rosh Hashanenigans, from Adam Levine to Idi Amin Sep 28, 2022

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Let's party like it's 5783!!

What's worse: Rosh Hashanah services or New Year's eve in Times Square? Also, is it Hasidic Jew migration season? Turns out they have some days off where they're allowed to do things, which explains why they are in bloom in city's parks and zoos. It's a beautiful sight.

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Cooking for the holidays: a great Rebettzen vs. a Hot Mess.
Chaya Leah is giving you the day off from work.
Posting things on your Instagram about Iran is good. Yael doesn't like a documentary she hasn't watched yet.
The Miami Boys Choir
Listener feedback about out Orthodox Yeshiva episode (they hated it but love us, that's all that matters)
Your hosts share a little mushy towards the end, sweet as honey.

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ASK A JEW (37): Offensive Crayons Sep 20, 2022

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The girls welcome special guest Peter Shankman - tech entrepreneur and 5-time best selling author.

Learn more about Peter here

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ASK A JEW: The NY Times vs Hasidic Schools - Yiddish Translation Coming Soon Sep 13, 2022

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The girls welcome Yehoshua (Jason) Bedrick, fellow at the Heritage Foundation's Center for Education Policy, and the man who literally WROTE THE BOOK on Yeshivas vs. New York. What follows is a friendly sparring over religious liberty, school choice, the importance of the English language, and swinging chickens around your head for spite.

Follow Jason on Twitter @JasonBedrick

Read his book Religious Liberty and Education

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ASK A JEW: One Star Review Sep 07, 2022

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Yael and ChayaLeah need therapy over their first negative review.
Yael explains that ChayaLeah failed at meditation and should never try again.
They also answer a listener's questions about seven days of post-wedding parties, and give legal opinions on religious liberty (considering that neither of us went to law school you can take it or leave it!)
ChayaLeah describes visiting her dead grandparents and the Rebbe, while Yael explores doing triathlons and moving to Idaho.

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ASK A JEW: Moishe the Grouch Aug 24, 2022

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It's a back to school special! Today we talk about the trauma inflicted by Sesame Street (spanning continents and age groups), Chaya Leah's business idea for a fat-person only gym, the holy site to all religions that is Target, and some podcast recommendations that will make you smarter. Plus, did Covid kill swinging? Also, what is swinging?

At some point of course we get serious (not too serious, but a little) and talk about how Yael's relationship to Judaism has changed since meeting Chaya Leah, why seculars feel embarrassed by religious Jews, and why hugging is amazing even though the torah doesn't like it when y'all touch each other.

Book recommendation:

The Source

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ASK A JEW: America Don't Worry, Israel is Behind You, with Eli Lake Aug 16, 2022

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Today we welcome national security correspondent, journalist and podcaster Eli Lake. Since we have such an esteemed guest with us, we spend plenty of time talking about reality tv, hot members of congress, and circumcisions. But also: why are people so obsessed with Israel, the ortho-woke, Salman Rushdie, Trump vs. Netanyahu, Kanye West, Zen and the art of dodging missiles, getting high in the bible, and much much more...

Check out The Re-Education with Eli Lake

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ASK A JEW: Little Miss Has No Confidence Aug 10, 2022

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In this episode of AAJ the girls go real deep on being confident and dealing with their shortcomings, all while blaming their moms (and the Holocaust) for their problems. They also discuss Yael's bday party that you weren't invited to, ChayaLeah's obsession with a Mormon family on Instagram, why Yael refuses to be saved by a podiatrist, and of course, cats that look like Hitler.

Movie Rec: The Little Dictator

Book rec: The Hitler Haggadah

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ASK A JEW: The Naked and Afraid Archeologist Aug 03, 2022

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Yael and Chaya Leah debate the hot issues of the day, from the Israeli-Palestinian conflict to something happening to someone in China? (We weren't really paying attention).

Also: how we define our Judaism (surprisingly the girls have very different answers for this), the best and worst airports, Chaya Leah gets fat-shamed by an (anti-semitic) TSA dog, Yael pulls off a major international smuggling operation at the age of 14, and much much more!

Book recommendation: Spies of No Country, by Matti Friedman.

Broadway recommendation: MJ the Musical (It's amazing. Don't @ me.)

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ASK A JEW: Better Sorry Than Safe Jul 19, 2022

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Chaya Leah and Yael welcome parenting guru and "America's Worst Mom", Lenore Skenazy. We talk about how to let your child grow freely (whatever the opposite of helicopter parenting is), deadly laundry baskets, anxious parents, and crappy kids. We talk about the importance of play, take some questions about screen time, and how parents and kids can slowly learn how to chill. This is a great conversation even if you don't have kids!

Lenore is the president of Let Grow, the nonpartisan nonprofit promoting childhood independence and resilience. A reporter by trade – including 14 years at The New York Daily News -- Lenore came to prominence/infamy after her newspaper column “Why I Let My 9-Year-Old Ride the Subway Alone” landed her on The Today Show, MSNBC, Fox News and NPR. Allowing her son that unsupervised trip garnered her the nickname “America’s Worst Mom.” She went on to write Free-Range Kids, the book-turned-movement claiming “Our kids are safer and smarter than our culture gives them credit for.” The book’s second edition just came out this summer, with a forward by Let Grow co-founder Jonathan Haidt. (And his wife! And daughter!) Lenore has been profiled in The New Yorker, lectured everywhere from Disney to DreamWorks to the Bulgarian Happiness Festival (a real thing). And you may have seen her reality show, World’s Worst Mom.

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