Celebrate Kids Podcast with Dr. Kathy

Raising Unique Kids and the Power of Sensitivity in Kids Feb 21, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the value of raising sensitive children and the best pathways for parents to nurture their unique traits. Dr. Kathy Koch discusses the pressures parents face from various cultural influences and how it can feel overwhelming when trying to understand the best way forward for their children. With insights from Dr. Kathy, the episode highlights the characteristics of highly sensitive children, including their ability to notice subtle details and absorb the emotions of those around them. The conversation emphasizes the importance of grounding parenting practices in faith and the finished work of Jesus Christ, offering a guiding light amidst societal expectations. Tune in for practical advice and encouragement for parents navigating the challenges of raising sensitive kids.

Self-Diagnosis and Social Media: Understanding TikTok's Influence on Youth Feb 20, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the growing influence of TikTok on teenagers, with over 84% of users aged 14 to 19 accessing the app daily. She discusses the concerning statistics surrounding TikTok usage, including the average of two and a half hours spent on the platform and the alarming trend of self-diagnosing psychological issues based on content viewed. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of guiding children in navigating social media, particularly in understanding and verifying the information they consume. The episode provides insights and strategies for parents to engage their kids in meaningful conversations about their online experiences and help them maintain a healthy relationship with technology.

Gender Pronouns and Identity Confusion: Advocating for Kids in a Confusing Culture Feb 19, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, the hosts discuss the challenges children face in today's confusing world, particularly regarding gender identity and societal expectations. They empathize with the confusion kids may feel, emphasizing the importance of parental support. Dr. Kathy shares insights on how parents can validate their child's feelings and help them advocate for their preferred pronouns. The conversation highlights the need for education on gender diversity and identity to empower both parents and children in navigating these complex issues. Tune in for valuable perspectives that inspire confidence and courage in addressing tough conversations with kids.

Navigating Developmental Delays: Insights from Dr. Kathy Koch Feb 18, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the anxieties parents face regarding their children's developmental assessments, particularly in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic. With many parents concerned about their children's progress on developmental charts, Dr. Kathy delves into the rising trends observed by speech pathologists, including increased social anxiety and a surge in referrals for attention difficulties and communication disorders among children under 12. She discusses how the pandemic and increased screen time have contributed to these challenges and encourages parents to navigate these concerns with understanding and support. Tune in for valuable insights on fostering healthy development in today's children.

Dad's Love Exposed on Reddit? - Dr. Kathy Explains the 8 Great Smarts and a Dad's Love Exposed on Reddit - Valentines Reair Feb 14, 2025

A millennial recently turned to Reddit for guidance in responding to her father's love. The commenter said her parents noticed she was struggling recently and her father changed how he expresses his love to her so the commenter felt it.

It led us to ask how we recognize the ways our kids feel loved. Dr. Kathy explores this story and explains the 8 great smarts to us as we seek understanding to love our children and the children in our lives well.

Empathy or Authority: Navigating Gentle Parenting Feb 13, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the concept of gentle parenting and its rising popularity among parents seeking effective discipline strategies. Highlighting a recent New York Times article featuring Kelly Medina Enos, a mother struggling with her 18-month-old son's behavior, Dr. Kathy discusses how gentle parenting emphasizes empathy, respect, and understanding. She delves into the importance of guiding children rather than controlling them, addressing concerns about children's anxiety and self-esteem. Tune in for valuable insights on how to gently encourage better behavior and foster positive emotional development in children.

Recognizing and Responding to Adverse Childhood Experiences in Our Kids Feb 12, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the critical topic of adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) and their impact on children's development. Dr. Kathy sheds light on the alarming statistics that show approximately 80% of adolescents have encountered at least one ACE, with emotional abuse and household issues being the most prevalent. The discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing changes in children's behavior, such as shifts in sleep, eating, and emotional well-being. Dr. Kathy encourages parents to engage in meaningful conversations with their children to address these challenges and highlights the hope and resilience that can be found through faith. Tune in for insights on how to support kids facing difficult times and the power of grace in overcoming adversity.

Education, Relationships, and Gen Alpha - The Covid Generation, or "Gen R" the Relationship Generation? Feb 11, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the often-overlooked aspects of education in the 21st century, particularly the emphasis on assessing children's intelligence and learning. Drawing from insights by Isabel Howell, executive director of the Stanford Accelerator for Learning, Dr. Kathy highlights a critical disconnect between standardized assessments and the true foundations of healthy development—relationships. As she explores what children are truly tested on at home and in school, listeners are encouraged to reflect on the values instilled in their children and consider how fostering deeper relationships can lead to more meaningful growth. This episode aims to inspire courage, confidence, and a shift in focus from mere academic measures to nurturing the essential connections that matter most.

The Importance of Play: Resilience and Confidence Building for Kids Feb 10, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the importance of play in childhood and how it shapes children’s self-worth and resilience. Highlighting a recent statement by Senator Lincoln Fillmore, Dr. Kathy reflects on the nostalgic view of childhood, emphasizing the shift from unstructured play to a more programmed and supervised environment. Fillmore argues that this change is hindering children's development of crucial life skills such as perseverance and self-confidence. The episode dives into the balance between safety and the necessity of allowing children the freedom to explore, learn, and grow independently. Join us for valuable insights on fostering independence in children and the critical role of play in their development.

Navigating the Reading Crisis: Moving Beyond Test Scores To Cultivate Joy for Learning in Kids Feb 07, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Dr. Kathy addresses the concerning trends in student literacy and academic progress revealed by the National Assessment of Education Progress. With recent data highlighting that many children are struggling to read and learn effectively, Dr. Kathy explores the emotional impact this has on parents and students alike. She emphasizes the importance of parental engagement in education, especially when faced with discouraging statistics. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their roles and find ways to be involved in their children's learning journey, even when it feels challenging. Tune in as Dr. Kathy provides insights and strategies for fostering a positive learning environment at home.

From Strongmen to True Leaders: Teaching Kids The Nature of Leadership Feb 06, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the importance of instilling consistent and automatic character in kids to prepare them for proper leadership roles. As the world witnesses a trend of young men gravitating toward authoritarian leaders, Dr. Kathy emphasizes the dangers of this mindset and the need for parents to guide their children toward understanding biblical leadership. She advocates for following the example of servant leaders, particularly Jesus, to foster a generation equipped to discern healthy leadership. The discussion also touches on a recent poll from the UK revealing concerning attitudes among young adults towards governance. Tune in for valuable insights on nurturing future leaders with integrity and discernment.

The Value of Summer Camps: Building Faith and Independence in Kids Feb 05, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the value of summer camps for children and offers guidance on how to choose the right camp. As the seasons change and families look forward to summer, Dr. Kathy discusses the importance of summer experiences in fostering family connections and personal growth. She addresses common concerns parents may have about sending their kids to camp, helping listeners understand the benefits of these summer programs. Tune in for insights that will assist in making informed decisions about summer camps for your children.

From Bubble Wrap to Bravery: Teaching Kids to Overcome Challenges Feb 04, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the idea of preparing our children for the realities of life by embracing challenges rather than shielding them from danger. Inspired by Susie Welch's article in the Wall Street Journal, Dr. Kathy discusses the impact of recent global events on the rising generation's sense of safety and purpose. She emphasizes the importance of teaching resilience through experience, encouraging parents to highlight their children's efforts in overcoming obstacles. By sharing stories of perseverance—whether in sports, music, or daily chores—parents can instill a sense of confidence and adaptability in their kids. Tune in to discover practical insights on fostering resilience in a world that often feels uncertain.

The Power of Handwriting: Unlocking Brain Potential in Parenting Feb 03, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, the host reflects on the challenges and inefficiencies of parenting, particularly when trying to nurture a child's potential. They discuss the importance of recognizing and encouraging a child's unique personality traits while acknowledging that parenting often involves navigating dark and inconvenient moments. The episode highlights a fascinating study from the Norwegian University of Science and Technology, which reveals that handwriting engages the entire brain, unlike typing. This insight serves as a reminder for parents to embrace less efficient, more meaningful interactions with their children. Tune in as the host introduces Dr. Kathy Cooke and delves into the implications of these findings for parenting and child development.

Family Values, Parental Trauma, and The Power of Elders in Kids' Development Communities Jan 30, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the evolving dynamics between parents and grandparents in child-rearing practices. Drawing on a recent Pew Research Center study, she highlights that nearly half of parents intend to raise their children differently than they were raised, with love and relationships being a key focus. The discussion delves into the idea of the "village" concept in parenting, contrasting past attitudes with present-day practices. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own familial relationships and the importance of intergenerational support in raising children.

Restoration Over Addiction: Teaching Kids About Sin and Redemption in a Digital Age Jan 29, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the concept of tech addiction through a different lens—one of sin and the human need for a savior. She discusses the implications of labeling tech dependence merely as addiction, suggesting that this perspective may overlook deeper issues of brokenness and our reliance on Jesus. Citing Jonathan Haidt’s works, including "The Happiness Hypothesis" and "The Anxious Generation," Dr. Kathy delves into the negative impacts of technology on young people today, emphasizing the need for a more profound understanding of these challenges beyond surface-level solutions. Join Dr. Kathy as she invites listeners to reflect on the complexities of technology's role in our lives and the importance of addressing these issues with a spiritual perspective.

Reframing Identity for "The Anxious Generation:" Instilling Confidence and Hope in a Pessimistic World Jan 28, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the importance of affirming our children's identities through a biblical lens. She reflects on how children perceive themselves, considering the influences of parental affirmations versus societal messages. Dr. Kathy discusses the impact of culture on children's self-image, particularly in light of recent research comparing AI systems trained on data from different cultures. With insights from the University of Wisconsin, the episode highlights the disparities in how societal problems are represented in discussions about teens. Tune in to discover practical ways to instill confidence in our kids and help them understand their true identity in Christ.

Mental Health and Tech - Understanding Kids' Identities in a Tech-Driven World Jan 27, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the impact of technology on children's development and identity. She discusses how the pervasive use of smartphones can alter children's perspectives and expose them to trauma prematurely. Drawing on a study from Sapien Labs, which surveyed over 10,500 teens aged 13 to 17 from the U.S. and India, Dr. Kathy highlights alarming trends: younger users are experiencing increased aggression, anger, and even hallucinations. The conversation emphasizes the challenge parents face in guiding their children to understand their identity amidst the influence of technology, which can often lead them to harmful places. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating parenting in a tech-driven world.

Dr. Kathy Says - Q&A 006 - Benchmarks for Success in Parenting and Adult Kids Comfort Parents Jan 25, 2025

Dr. Kathy opens the mail bag to answer some of your biggest questions. Today she reflects on a series she received from Summit Ministries. We open the conversation with an adult child asking how they can give confidence to their parents that they did a good job parenting, even when they don't believe it. We also look into how to guide children who are lying, and what the benchmarks of good parenting should be.

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Navigating Identity Amid the Rise in LGBTQ Identification and Suicidality Among Teens Jan 24, 2025

In this episode, we dive into alarming trends surrounding LGBTQ identification and suicidality among high school students, particularly focusing on the significant increase in LGBTQ identification among females, which rose from 15% in 2015 to 34% in 2021. We discuss the concerning rise in suicidal ideation, planning, and attempts among female students during the same period. With data from the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's biennial youth risk behavior survey, we explore the implications of these findings and the urgent need for supportive measures for youth questioning their gender identity. Join us as we emphasize the importance of prayer and community support in addressing these tragic statistics.

Parenting Kids When They're Not Your Favorite: Building Identity in Challenging Children Jan 23, 2025

Dr. Kathy explores the reality many of us face, that there are kids in our family who are challenging and not our favorite. Through developing helpful goals, Dr. Kathy gives encouragement and resource to alter our approach and guide us to have a strong outlook that guides us to better care for the kids God has given us, and not long for the kids we want to parent.

The Art of Confession: How to Discuss Past Challenges with Kids Jan 22, 2025

In this episode, we explore the delicate balance of discussing difficult family histories with our children. Inspired by Jessica Goudeau's thought-provoking question from her piece in Time Magazine, we delve into the potential impact of sharing challenging stories on our kids. The conversation emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and honesty, especially for parents, as they navigate their own pasts and the lessons learned. We consider whether exposing children to the darker aspects of family history can help them understand resilience and growth, or if it risks overshadowing the positive narratives. Join us as we unpack the complexities of these discussions and seek guidance on fostering open and healthy communication within families.

ChatGPT in the Classroom: Tool or Temptation? Jan 21, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the implications of using AI tools like ChatGPT in education, particularly among teens. Recent Pew Research Center data reveals a significant increase in the number of teens using ChatGPT for schoolwork, rising from 13% in 2023 to 26%. While over half of teens find it acceptable to use ChatGPT for researching new topics, a notable percentage still believe its use in writing essays and solving math problems constitutes cheating. Dr. Kathy encourages listeners to engage in meaningful conversations with young people about the impact of technology on learning, discernment, and the potential risks of relying too heavily on AI. Join us as we navigate this complex topic and consider the balance between utilizing technology and maintaining academic integrity.

From Daydreaming to Learning: Understanding Kids' Attention Jan 20, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the importance of awe and wonder in helping children develop focus and attention. She discusses how daydreaming and moments of distraction can actually contribute to a child's ability to pay attention, challenging the common adult perspective that these moments are just distractions. Drawing on new research from the Department of Psychology, Dr. Kathy highlights that children learn effectively even when they are not actively trying to focus, contrasting this with adults who often miss out on information when not paying attention. Tune in as Dr. Kathy encourages parents to embrace their children's natural curiosity and imagination while also guiding them to build their attention skills when necessary.

Navigating Disruption: The TikTok Ban and Other Disruptions Impact on Kids' Sense of Belonging Jan 17, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the important theme of belonging and the impact of social media on relationships. She emphasizes that true connection is not about quantity, but rather investing in meaningful relationships. The conversation shifts to the upcoming TikTok ban, which serves as a backdrop to explore how disruptions in social media can affect our sense of connection and identity, particularly for kids. Dr. Kathy shares valuable insights on navigating these challenges and guiding kids through moments of relationship disruption. Tune in for an enlightening discussion on fostering genuine connections in a digital age.

When Caring for Kids Is Hard and Mentally Exhausting: Clinging to Christ When It Feels Like You're Forgotten Jan 15, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the challenges faced by parents and caregivers, especially those who are navigating the complexities of raising children while also caring for aging relatives—a situation known as being a "sandwich carer." With an estimated 1.3 million people in the UK in this role, the episode explores the emotional toll and feelings of isolation that can arise when juggling these responsibilities. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of acknowledging struggles and the reality that faith does not exempt individuals from challenges. Tune in as she provides insights and encouragement for those feeling overwhelmed, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their journey.

When Kids Say They Didn't Learn Anything at School: Guiding Students From Awe to Application Jan 14, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Dr. Kathy delves into the often overlooked aspects of children's education that go beyond traditional learning. She encourages parents to dig deep when kids say they haven't learned anything in school, and gives practical insight to help families do this. Dr. Kathy shares her concerns when children come home claiming they didn't learn anything, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the value of their education and real-world applications. She discusses a recent report from the Brookings Institution highlighting the disparity between parents' perceptions and children’s experiences in school. Tune in for insights on fostering deeper understanding and engagement in your child's educational journey.

Navigating Social Media by Teaching Kids to Discern Truth in a Complex World Jan 13, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the challenges parents face in navigating social media's impact on their children's understanding of truth and reality. As social media platforms like Instagram come under fire for their treatment of LGBTQ+ users, Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of community over popularity. She provides practical tools for parents to help their kids discern truth in a digital age where misinformation is rampant. Tune in for insights on how to foster critical thinking and meaningful connections in today's cultural landscape.

Dr. Kathy Says - Q&A 005 - Finding Purpose, Gender Identity, and Favorite Jan 11, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy and Wayne Stender dive into a listener's question regarding misbehavior in children and the effectiveness of compliments to encourage good behavior. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of specific compliments over generalized praise, suggesting that more detailed acknowledgments can lead to better outcomes. The duo discusses the balance between scolding and positive reinforcement, highlighting the complexities of discipline and mental health impact. Tune in for insightful strategies and practical advice on nurturing positive behavior in children while fostering their emotional well-being. Don't forget, if you have questions for future Q&A segments, you can submit them to wayne@celebratekids.com

Understanding Identity Crises: Insights to build identity with Dr. Kathy Jan 10, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids daily podcast, titled "Facing the Dark," Wayne Stender discusses the delicate balance parents must strike between guiding their children and allowing them to discover their own identities as designed by God. The episode features insights from Dr. Kathy, who references a blog by Summit Ministries. This blog addresses the contemporary identity crisis, linking it to a long history of Western individualism and questioning the nature of truth. The conversation also includes thoughts from an Education Weekly article on choice architecture, emphasizing how the way choices are presented can significantly influence children's decisions. Join us as we explore the importance of nurturing a solid self-identity in our children while recognizing the cultural forces at play.

Resiliency in Natural Disaster Crisis in the Wildfires in California - Reairing Dr. Kathy's Thoughts on the Hawaii Wildfires and Helping Children Overcome Loss and Trauma Jan 09, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the profound impact of natural disasters on children's education and emotional well-being. We are reairing an episode where we discussed the wildfires in Hawaii, which devastated schools and displaced over 3,000 students. Kids in California are experiencing something very similar today. Dr. Kathy provides valuable insights on how to support children during such tumultuous times, emphasizing the importance of understanding the complexities they face. The conversation highlights the need for compassion and guidance as families navigate the challenges of relocating education amidst ongoing uncertainties. Tune in to learn how we can help kids maintain hope and resilience in the face of adversity.

Embracing Snow Days: The Importance of Breaks in Education Jan 08, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, hosts discuss the impact of weather-related school cancellations, particularly snow days, on children's education and well-being. They reflect on how traditional snow days have shifted post-COVID, with many schools opting for remote learning instead of allowing kids a break from schoolwork. Dr. Kathy encourages listeners to use these moments of disruption to consider broader questions about the educational system and to explore opportunities for character development throughout a child’s schooling from preschool to grade 12. The segment aims to provide encouragement and insight into making the most of unexpected school closures.

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Reimagining Education: Celebrating Growth and the Love of Learning - ReAir Jan 07, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the challenges parents face when their children lack motivation to learn. She emphasizes the importance of helping kids recognize the value of education beyond financial incentives. Dr. Kathy explores the recent initiative in the Detroit Public Schools Community District, where high school students who are behind in reading will receive cash gift cards as incentives for attending after-school tutoring. This discussion highlights the complexities of encouraging learning and the need for innovative solutions to engage students effectively. Tune in for valuable insights on fostering a love for learning in our children.

The Power of Character: What Character Qualities Should You Target for Your Kids Jan 06, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores essential character qualities that parents should aim to cultivate in their children. Highlighting the importance of self-respect, self-control, and respect for others, Dr. Kathy emphasizes how these qualities not only enhance personal development but also strengthen relationships. She references insights from the late Dr. Adrian Rogers, who identified 21 critical qualities for parents to instill in their children. As the new year begins, this episode encourages parents to reflect on their parenting goals and the values they want to pass on, reminding them that navigating the challenges of parenting requires both courage and guidance. Join Dr. Kathy in facing these important questions without fear of the dark.

Dr. Kathy Says - Q&A 005 - Finding Purpose, Gender Identity, and Favorite Books Jan 04, 2025

In this Q&A episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy and Wayne Stender discuss the exciting launch of their new platform called Thrive in Five, designed to provide listeners with quick doses of encouragement and wisdom from Dr. Kathy. The platform aims to deliver insightful messages via email and text, making it easier for busy individuals to access valuable thoughts and ideas from Dr. Kathy's books throughout their day. Listeners will also have the opportunity to ask questions and seek guidance on various challenges they or their friends may be facing. Tune in to learn more about how you can integrate this support into your daily routine by visiting celebratekids.com. Submit questions to: wayne@celebratekids.com

Avoiding Conflict In The Digital Dilemma Following Pew's Research: Leading Conversations With Kids About Tech Jan 03, 2025

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the complexities of technology's role in our lives, especially concerning youth. As families reflect on personal growth and habit changes for the new year, the conversation turns to the challenges posed by technology in fostering peace and agreeability. Drawing on recent research from the Pew Research Center, Dr. Kathy discusses the pervasive nature of social media and smartphone usage among teens, highlighting that nearly half are online almost constantly. She provides insights on how families can engage in meaningful discussions about technology's impact while striving to cultivate healthier habits in a digitally-driven world. Join us for practical advice on balancing technology use with personal growth and well-being.

The Power of Friendship in the New Year for Child Development Jan 02, 2025

This episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast explores the importance of friendships for young people, especially teens and tweens. Dr. Kathy discusses the significance of guiding children in developing relationships and mentorships, highlighting recent research on the power of friendship. The conversation delves into the role parents and caregivers play in helping kids navigate the complexities of forming meaningful connections.

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Best of 2024 - Who Best Builds An Identity of Faith for Kids? - A Practical Guide to Forming Faith for Parents, the Church, and Disciplers Dec 30, 2024

This episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast delves into the important topic of discipleship and faith formation in children. Dr. Kathy discusses the roles of parents and the church in guiding children toward saving faith in Jesus. She sheds light on the challenges and responsibilities faced by parents and the church in nurturing children's spiritual growth, particularly in a post-pandemic culture. The episode emphasizes the significance of effective disciple-making and the need for a supportive community to help children navigate their faith journey.

Best of 2024 - Kids Are Leaving the Faith From Peer Pressure, What Should We Do? Guiding Kids in Faith Confidence Dec 27, 2024

In this episode, Dr. Kathy discusses the importance of helping children understand the value of their identities and beliefs in a world that often challenges them. She emphasizes the need for kids to know the "why" behind their choices, whether it's being a Christian, participating in band, engaging in drama, or being part of a sports team. Dr. Kathy also addresses a concerning trend revealed by a recent survey showing that a third of Jewish teens have stopped wearing symbols of their faith due to rising anti-Semitism. Through this segment of"Facing in the Dark," she provides insights on how to empower children to confidently express their faith and beliefs in various situations, encouraging them to navigate challenges with courage. Tune in for valuable strategies on fostering resilience and understanding in our kids.

The Best of 2024 - Character Age vs. Chronological Age: Rites of Passage and Benchmarks for Kids Dec 26, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the power of words and their impact on children, emphasizing the importance of speaking life and affirmation rather than criticism. As the year winds down, she discusses the significance of choosing a "word of the year," highlighting Merriam-Webster's selection of "Polarization" for 2024. Dr. Kathy unpacks the meaning of polarization, defined as division, and how understanding such words can guide children amid cultural shifts. Join Dr. Kathy as she encourages listeners to be mindful of the language they use and its influence on the next generation.

Letting Kids Into Our Lives: The Patience, Purpose, and the Gift of Children - Best of 2024 ReAir Dec 24, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the profound journey of parenthood, from the exhilarating moment of bringing a child home to the subsequent challenges of exhaustion and anxiety. Wayne Stender and Dr. Kathy discuss the deeper questions surrounding why we invite children into our lives and the cultural importance of caring for them. A recent report from Forbes.com highlights the difference between immediate happiness, likened to the pleasure of chocolate, and reflective happiness, which provides meaning and fulfillment. Join us as we delve into these concepts and examine the unique factors that make raising children a rewarding experience.

From Polarization to Connection: The word of the Year and Why We Should Reframe it Dec 23, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the power of words and their impact on children, emphasizing the importance of speaking life and affirmation rather than criticism. As the year winds down, she discusses the significance of choosing a "word of the year," highlighting Merriam-Webster's selection of "Polarization" for 2024. Dr. Kathy unpacks the meaning of polarization, defined as division, and how understanding such words can guide children amid cultural shifts. Join Dr. Kathy as she encourages listeners to be mindful of the language they use and its influence on the next generation.

TikTok's Parent Controls Aren't Working - Helping Teens Find Identity Beyond Social Media Dec 19, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the pressing issue of technology's impact on children's mental health, particularly focusing on social media usage. Citing a 2019 JAMA study, she highlights that kids using social media for more than three hours daily face a significantly increased risk of anxiety and depression. Dr. Kathy addresses the challenges parents face in guiding their children through the digital landscape, especially when technology companies acknowledge the negative effects but struggle to implement effective solutions. She explores tools introduced by platforms like TikTok designed to help manage screen time and promote healthier online habits. Join Dr. Kathy as she provides valuable insights on navigating these concerns and fostering a respectful, healthy relationship with technology for our children.

Understanding the Power of Purpose In the Face of Lower Grad, Birth, and Marriage Rates: Helping Kids Think What Success Looks Like: Dec 18, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the concept of the "millennial success sequence," a research initiative highlighting the path to success for younger generations, specifically Gen X, Gen Y, and Gen Z. The sequence involves three key milestones: graduating from high school, working full-time, and marrying before having children. Dr. Kathy discusses the significant findings of the research, revealing that only three percent of individuals who follow this sequence end up in poverty. However, she notes concerning trends such as declining graduation rates, rising unemployment, decreasing marriage rates, and falling birth rates. Join us as we delve into the implications of these trends and what they mean for the future of these generations.

Talking with Kids to Build Security and Resiliency After the Abundant Life School Shooting in Madison, Wisconsin Dec 17, 2024

In this episode, the Dr. Kathy and Wayne Stender grapple with the tragic reality of school shootings, focusing on the recent incident at Abundant Life Christian School in Madison, Wisconsin, where two lives were lost and several others injured. They discuss the alarming rise in school shootings, with statistics indicating a significant increase in incidents in recent years. The conversation delves into the underlying issues facing today’s youth, exploring themes of despair, violence, and the search for meaning or justice. The Dr. Kathy gives helpful conversation tips on topics to cover and how to approach each unique child in a way that they'll best process things to build resiliency. This episode serves as both a reflection on current events and a call for deeper understanding and action in the face of such tragedies.

Exercise Boosts Brain Power in Kids and Drives Them to Genius Qualities Dec 16, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Wayne Stender shares his fears and reflections on parenting, particularly the challenge of guiding children towards their true strengths and potential. The conversation then shifts to Dr. Kathy, who discusses the vital connection between exercise and brain development. Citing a recent meta-analysis published in Pediatrics, she highlights how structured physical activity programs can lead to an average increase of four points in IQ scores among young people. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of nurturing children's unique abilities and encouraging them to pursue their God-given paths. Tune in for insights on how to support your kids in becoming their best selves while fostering both physical and mental growth.

Dr. Kathy Says - Q&A 004 - Talking to Adult Kids who are Gender Dysphoric, How to Start Family Devotions, Why Talk to Kids about Purpose? Dec 14, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy engages in a Q&A segment, sharing her insights and wisdom in response to listener questions. The host Wayne Stender introduces an exciting new platform called Thriving Five, designed to provide quick, five-minute encouragements from Dr. Kathy right to your inbox or phone. This initiative aims to offer bite-sized wisdom from Dr. Kathy’s books for those who may not have time to read daily. Listeners can also interact with Dr. Kathy by submitting their questions, allowing for a more personalized experience as they navigate challenges in their lives. Tune in to learn more about how this platform can support you in your journey!

Understanding Loneliness in Today's Kids Dec 12, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we delve into the recent warning from the U.S. Surgeon General about the significant health effects of loneliness, which are comparable to smoking tobacco. Host Dr. Kathy discusses the challenges parents face in today's interconnected society, where understanding children's online behavior and social interactions has become paramount. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing loneliness in teens and offers insights into how parents and caregivers can navigate these difficult feelings with confidence. Dr. Kathy shares practical advice on supporting children through dark and lonely moments, reminding us that we are never truly alone. Please tune in for valuable perspectives on fostering connections and mitigating the impacts of loneliness in our kids' lives.

Character.ai Endangers Kids: How To Build Resiliency to AI Chat Bots Dec 11, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the challenges parents face in guiding their children through a culture increasingly influenced by artificial intelligence, such as chatbots and AI-driven technologies. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's identity and the truth found in the Bible to discern what is good and harmful. Dr. Kathy warns against the deceptive allure of these technologies, which can lead children to believe they can achieve enlightenment akin to being like God. The episode offers practical insights and strategies for parents to help their kids navigate these cultural pressures and build resilience against misleading influences. Tune in to learn how to effectively guide your children in this digital age.

From AI to Authenticity: Understanding Friendship and Belonging Dec 10, 2024

In this episode, we explore the profound impact of friendship on our lives and futures. The discussion begins with a cautionary perspective on the influence of negative friendships, highlighting the importance of surrounding ourselves with positive, supportive individuals. Wayne shares personal experiences, including a pivotal moment from his youth when a parent made the difficult decision to distance them from a friend whose family exhibited negative behaviors. This decision sparked a deeper understanding of friendship as more than just companionship; it is about personal growth and the people who inspire us to realize our potential. The episode emphasizes the significance of making intentional choices about our friendships in a complex world, encouraging listeners to reflect on the relationships that shape their lives.

Building Gender Confidence in the Wake of Tennesee's SB1 at the Supreme Court Dec 09, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the complexities surrounding gender identity and the recent Supreme Court deliberations on laws related to transgender surgeries for minors. She emphasizes the importance of modeling self-acceptance and confidence, drawing from her own experiences with her low voice, which she views as a unique advantage. Dr. Kathy also explores practical steps parents can take to foster gender confidence in their children, providing insights on how to navigate these challenging discussions at home. This episode aims to equip parents with the tools they need to support their kids in a world that can often feel dark and confusing regarding issues of gender identity.

Dr. Kathy Says - Q&A 003 - Finding Identity | Adult Kids Who Struggle | Why Bad Things Happen And There's No Lesson Dec 07, 2024

Dr. Kathy sits down with Wayne Stender to go through the questions they've received over the past few weeks. Dr. Kathy answers how a person determines who gets to speak into their life. She also explores how to support an adult child who is struggling with gender identity. They spend most of the show looking at how to process bad things that happen when there's no apparent silver lining or lesson. To send in your own questions email Wayne at wayne@celebratekids.com

From Adolescence to Adulthood: Parenting Tips for Holiday Gatherings Dec 06, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the complexities of parenting and connecting with children who are transitioning into adulthood, particularly during the holiday season. She emphasizes the importance of fostering healthy independence in kids, helping them balance family connections while becoming self-sufficient. The episode addresses the challenges families face when kids return home from college, including potential disengagement and the struggle to communicate meaningfully. Dr. Kathy also introduces a short course designed to help parents and grandparents navigate these interactions during the holidays. Tune in for valuable insights on encouraging young adults during this pivotal time in their lives.

Helping Kids Develop Well - From Malls to Coffee Shops: Where Can Teens Find Their Place? Dec 05, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the challenges and opportunities that today's youth face as they transition into adulthood. Wayne discusses personal reflections on growing up, highlighting the importance of having spaces where young people can practice adult responsibilities and learn from their experiences. Special insights from Dr. Kathy delve into the concept of the "youth control complex," as articulated by Victor Rios from the MacArthur Foundation, emphasizing how societal perceptions often hinder positive interactions between youth and public spaces. The episode raises critical questions about the support systems available for teenagers and the necessity for environments that foster growth and maturity. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on nurturing resilience and independence in the next generation.

What Are Kids For: Do Kids Have Present Value Or Only Future Potential? Dec 04, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Wayne Stender discusses the vital role children play in today's society with Dr. Kathy, arguing against the notion that they are merely the church's future. He reflects on a meaningful conversation with his son about the purpose of kids in a family and within culture. This leads to deeper questions about how society perceives children—whether they are seen as participants in cultural building or simply as a legacy for the future. Dr. Kathy explores these themes further, drawing insights from philosopher Anastasia Berg’s work, "What Are Children For?" This episode encourages parents and caregivers to wrestle with the significance of children's roles in the present and the challenges that accompany these perspectives. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that aims to reshape how we view and nurture the children in our lives.

Anxiety, Creativity, Outside Play, and Identity: A Unifying Link to Them All Dec 03, 2024

Dr. Kathy considers a recent article that linked depression to the decrease in outside play and forming identity. She has some important insights for parents to inspire being creative, guiding outside play, and forming identity for their kids. According to some, the mix of those three in repeated succession drives kids to strong mental health.

Raising Resilient Kids: The Importance of Character Development in Parenting Dec 02, 2024

Today we take a few extra minutes to explore Dr. Kathy's new book on character, titled Parent Differently. Dr. Kathy explains why she chose specific character traits to include in her book and how those caring for kids can build places for character formation. Buy the book today at www.celebratekids.com

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Navigating Holiday Gift-Giving: Understanding Kids' True Needs This Holiday Season Nov 29, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the complexities of gift-giving during the holiday season. She explores the expectations surrounding gifts for children and how these expectations can sometimes lead to challenges for parents. The discussion highlights the difference between gifts based on children’s curated lists from social media and those that parents feel might be more beneficial or meaningful. Dr. Kathy encourages parents to consider the deeper significance of gift-giving and to take thoughtful risks in choosing presents that reflect their understanding of their children. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating the holiday season and fostering genuine connections through thoughtful gift-giving. Support Celebrate Kids and Dr. Kathy Koch by making a year-end donation. celebratekids.com/give

Guiding Kids Through the Holiday Performance: Expectations, Rest, and Family Wisdom Nov 28, 2024

In this episode, we explore the dynamics of family gatherings during the holidays, particularly Thanksgiving. Dr. Kathy discusses how children may react differently to the holiday feast, with some eagerly enjoying traditional dishes while others stick to familiar comfort foods. Drawing on insights from dietitian Diana Rice, she highlights the unique challenges kids face during these gatherings, such as excitement, anxiety, and unfamiliar foods. The conversation shifts to the pressure families often feel for their children to "perform" socially during these events. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of understanding and supporting kids in this context, encouraging parents to approach family interactions with empathy and openness. Tune in for valuable strategies on navigating family dynamics and fostering a positive holiday experience for everyone.

Parenting Differently: The Essential Role of Gratitude in Family Life ReAir Nov 27, 2024

In this episode, we delve into the significance of gratitude, especially during the Thanksgiving season. Dr. Kathy discusses how a regular gratitude practice can heal past traumas and foster resilience for future challenges, as highlighted by Stanford professor Andrew Huberman. Dr. Kathy shares insights from her book, "Parent Differently," emphasizing the vital role gratitude plays in family dynamics and personal growth. The conversation explores practical ways to cultivate gratitude within families and the profound impact it can have on our emotional well-being. Tune in to discover how gratitude can transform your relationships and mindset, particularly around the holiday table.

From Boredom to Belonging: Understanding Boredom and Its Link to Teen Vaping Nov 26, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we delve into the importance of teaching children the purpose of boredom. Dr. Kathy discusses the challenges parents face when their kids experience boredom and the potential negative consequences, including the turn to substances as a coping mechanism. Dr. Kathy shares valuable insights on how fostering resilience in the face of boredom can help children navigate life's challenges. The conversation highlights recent research indicating that many teens now use vaping as a way to relax from stress, underscoring the need for healthier coping strategies. Tune in for practical advice on guiding our youth through boredom and stress, helping them build essential life skills.

Helping Kids Find Security in Scripture: Overcoming Loneliness and Anxiety Nov 25, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the transformative power of Scripture and its role in rebuilding identity for both individuals and their children. She reflects on the common tendency to rely on personal problem-solving skills rather than turning to prayer or biblical teachings during challenging times. Dr. Kathy emphasizes that accepting and believing in the truth of the scripture can lead to a deeper understanding of one's purpose and security in God’s goodness. The episode also discusses insights from the American Bible Society's recent study, the Eighth Chapter, which is part of their State of the Bible in the USA 2024 report. Join us as we explore how engaging with scripture can illuminate our paths and strengthen our identities.

Dr. Kathy Says - Q&A 001 - Navigating Tech Lies, Reclaiming Family Time, and Success vs. Significance Nov 23, 2024

In this special weekend edition of the Celebrate Kids podcast, hosts Dr. Kathy and Wayne Stender introduce an exciting new initiative aimed at addressing the pressing questions of parents and caregivers. Drawing from Wayne's observations at various conferences, the hosts recognize the need for a platform where individuals can seek guidance and support. Listeners are encouraged to submit their questions via email to Wayne at wayne@celebratekids.com, ensuring that their concerns are heard and addressed. Join Dr. Kathy and Wayne as they embark on this interactive journey, fostering meaningful conversations and providing valuable insights to help navigate life's challenges.

J.K. Rowling and Challenges Defending Identity: Guiding Kids From Confusion to Clarity Nov 22, 2024

In this episode, we explore the fundamental differences and attributes that define gender, emphasizing the importance of understanding God’s design in creating male and female. The discussion delves into the challenges parents face in equipping their children to embrace their true identities amidst cultural pressures. Dr. Kathy shares insights on the recent political shifts among influential figures like Bill Maher, Elon Musk, and J.K. Rowling, who have moved towards conservative viewpoints, largely in response to the rise of gender ideology and its impact on women. Join us as we navigate these complex topics and reflect on what it means to support our children in being who they are meant to be.

The Dangers of Nearsightedness for Kids in Culture - ReAir Nov 21, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the alarming increase in nearsightedness among children. She explores the shift from genetic factors to environmental influences as a possible cause, particularly the excessive screen time and lack of outdoor activities. The World Health Organization's warning that 40% of the world's population will be nearsighted by 2030 is a concerning statistic. She delves into the implications for culture and the potential impact on children's spiritual lives. They also explore potential solutions, such as using glasses or training the eyes to focus on distant objects.

Navigating the Digital Playground: Protecting Kids in Online Gaming Nov 20, 2024

In this episode, we delve into the complexities of identity formation in children and the significant role that external influences play, particularly in the realm of online gaming. Dr. Kathy discusses the potential dangers associated with platforms like Roblox, which not only offer a variety of user-generated games but also a social media component that encourages interaction among users. She highlights the alarming trends reported in a Bloomberg Businessweek article regarding the safety of these platforms, emphasizing the need for parents to be vigilant. Dr. Kathy provides valuable insights on guiding children towards a healthy understanding of their identity, rooted in their purpose and values, amidst the challenges posed by the digital world. Tune in for essential advice on navigating these modern parenting dilemmas.

Teaching Kids the Stages and Values of Friendship Without Romanticism Nov 19, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the complexities of relationships in a hyper-sexualized world and how the church can play a pivotal role in guiding our understanding of friendship and romantic partnerships. Dr. Kathy discusses the challenges parents face in teaching their children about meaningful connections amidst cultural pressures that often misconstrue appreciation between individuals. She references biblical figures like David and Jonathan to highlight the need for a renewed perspective on relationships, emphasizing that we are designed for connection. Dr. Kathy provides insights and scripture-based guidance, encouraging listeners to foster healthy relationships that bring light to dark times. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion aimed at equipping parents with the tools they need to navigate these important conversations.

Are Parents Interchangeable? Exploring the Impact of Mothering and Fathering Nov 18, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Dr. Kathy explores the unique and vital roles that mothers and fathers play in children's development. Drawing on a recent study from the University of Leeds, the discussion highlights how a father's involvement positively influences educational outcomes while a mother's engagement enhances cognitive behavior and social skills. The episode addresses the implications of these findings in the context of diverse family structures, considering how to communicate with children about having friends with two moms or two dads. Tune in for valuable insights on the distinct contributions of both parents in fostering children's growth.

Dr. Kathy Says: Essential Truths and Lies Every Parent Should Know Nov 16, 2024

In this episode of Dr. Kathy Says, Dr. Kathy aims to provide us with the core needs to address the tech lies that are in the world. She explores how we build identity and how we reinforce a Biblical identity to attack lies by addressing the lies that are attacking us form technology. Listeners are encouraged to join Celebrate Kids as we prepare to launch big initiatives in the new year as we launch this new program that will turn into a Q&A segment next Saturday. To support Dr. Kathy and Celebrate Kids give at celebratekids.com/give

The Trans Youth Project: Analyzing Satisfaction and Regret in Transition Care for Kids Nov 15, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the complexities surrounding the topic of gender, particularly for children and teenagers. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and connecting with young people to help them navigate confusing messages about gender identity. Dr. Kathy discusses a recent study published in JAMA Pediatrics, which reveals that transgender teenagers who have undergone medical interventions, such as puberty blockers and hormone therapies, report high satisfaction with their care and experience low levels of regret. This conversation aims to equip parents with insights and conversation points to engage with their children thoughtfully, fostering understanding and reducing confusion about gender issues. Tune in as Dr. Kathy unpacks the findings of the Trans Youth Project and offers guidance on how to support kids in their journey of understanding gender.

Building Resilience in Kids: Understanding and Addressing Adverse Childhood Experiences Nov 14, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Dr. Kathy Cook discusses the significant impact of adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) on adolescents, emphasizing that around 80% of children experience at least one ACE, with emotional abuse, household mental health issues, and physical abuse being the most prevalent. Dr. Kathy encourages parents to recognize drastic changes in their children's behavior, including sleep, eating, and overall joy, as potential signs of underlying struggles. She offers insights on how to approach these issues with compassion and understanding, highlighting the importance of real conversations with kids. The episode aims to provide hope and guidance for navigating the challenges children may face, underscoring that they can overcome adversity through the grace of Christ. Tune in for valuable strategies to support your child's emotional well-being.

From Cringe to Confidence: The Benefits of Dad Jokes for Kids - ReAir Nov 12, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the surprising benefits of dad jokes for children's development during challenging cultural moments. Dr. Kathy discusses the pressures parents face to equip their kids with the right tools for navigating today's world, often leading to overwhelming feelings of inadequacy. However, recent research by humor expert Mark High Knutson suggests that dad jokes, despite their potential to embarrass, can actually foster positive growth in children. The episode highlights the importance of humor and laughter in family dynamics, emphasizing that sometimes, a little light-heartedness is exactly what kids need. Join us as we delve into this fascinating topic with Dr. Kathy Cooke in our daily segment, Facing the Dark.

Are Kids Destined To Have Anxiety? - Dr. Kathy Considers "The Anxious Generation" - ReAir Nov 11, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the pressing issue of teenage anxiety and its implications for parenting in today's world. Citing statistics that reveal anxiety is a common experience for teenagers, Dr. Kathy explores whether managing this anxiety is the most critical responsibility for parents. She references a conversation between Jonathan Haidt and Russell Moore, which delves into the factors contributing to childhood mental health crises, including the impact of social media, smartphones, and the COVID-19 pandemic. The discussion highlights a shift in parenting approaches over the decades, likening child-rearing to a school project, and examines how this has redefined childhood itself. Dr. Kathy encourages listeners to consider the unique challenges facing today's youth and how parents can navigate these complexities. Join us for an insightful look into the realities of modern parenting and the importance of understanding the changing landscape of childhood.

Tracking Trust: How Teens Want Parents Involved in Their Lives Nov 08, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we delve into the evolving relationship between teens and technology, particularly focusing on location tracking. Recent studies reveal that a significant number of teens and young adults actually desire their parents to monitor their whereabouts using apps like Apple's Find My and Life 360. This marks a shift in mindset for Gen Z, who, according to the New York Times and Wall Street Journal, are the most anxious generation to date, influenced by the pervasive presence of social media and real-time news coverage of global events. With 87% of Gen Z respondents utilizing tracking technology, we explore the reasons behind this trend and discuss how the increased anxiety levels and closer bonds with parents are reshaping the dynamics of parental engagement in the digital age. Tune in for an insightful conversation about the implications of these findings for families navigating technology together.

Unlocking the Million-Word Gap: Why Reading to Your Children Matters Nov 07, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the crucial role of reading aloud to children and its numerous benefits. She discusses research findings indicating that a significant portion of four-year-olds are not being read to regularly, highlighting the importance of early reading habits. Dr. Kathy emphasizes that reading to children as young as one to two and a half years old can greatly enhance their vocabulary, reading comprehension, and motivation to read. She also shares insights from a study showing that children exposed to at least five books daily enter kindergarten with an impressive 1.4 million words worth of exposure. Tune in for practical tips on how parents can cultivate reading habits that fit into their busy lives and promote a love for reading in their kids.

From Bubble Wrap to Brave: Teaching Kids to Overcome Adversity Nov 06, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the importance of preparing children for an unpredictable and often dangerous world by fostering resilience rather than simply ensuring their safety. Drawing on insights from Susie Welch's article in the Wall Street Journal, Dr. Kathy highlights the challenges faced by today's youth, including the lingering effects of the COVID pandemic and other societal anxieties. She emphasizes the significance of teaching kids to overcome obstacles and the value of effort and teachability in their growth. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on how they can support their children in developing resilience through everyday challenges, whether in sports, academics, or daily tasks. Tune in for practical advice on nurturing a mindset that embraces learning from difficulties and trusting in the process of growth.

Beyond Envy: Building Stronger Values and Identity in Our Children Nov 05, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the challenges young people, especially young women, face in today's culture regarding identity and the perception of heroes. In the segment "Face in the Dark," she discusses a thought-provoking quote from Carrie Gress of Newsweek, highlighting how feminism has altered traditional narratives around womanhood, suggesting that envy has shifted from being seen as a downfall to a badge of honor. Gress argues that the push for women to emulate men—both mentally and biologically—has led to a loss of what it truly means to be a woman. Dr. Kathy addresses these issues head-on, offering insights and guidance for parents on how to support and encourage their children in navigating these complex cultural dynamics. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that touches on the nuances of modern femininity and the importance of embracing authentic identities.

The Power of Vulnerability: Finding Strength in Weakness in the Rise in Teen Anxiety and Depression Nov 04, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the concerning rise in mental health issues among young adults and teens, despite the availability of resources. She emphasizes recognizing and celebrating children's strengths, even during challenging times. Dr. Kathy discusses the recent CDC report indicating an increase in the percentage of children receiving therapy, highlighting a shift in how mental health is approached today. Listeners will gain valuable insights on how to guide their kids through difficult moments and understand the complexities behind the mental health crisis. Tune in for thought-provoking discussions and practical advice.

The Normalizing of Fear and Depression for Kids and Empowering Resilience Nov 01, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the complexities of anxiety and depression among young people. She highlights the distinction between normal anxiety related to specific events and the broader issue of anxiety disorders. With alarming statistics indicating that one in five teens face mental health struggles, Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of creating environments for open discussions about feelings and mental health challenges. She encourages parents to adopt a proactive mindset, fostering courage to engage with their children on these sensitive topics. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating the mental health landscape for today's youth.

Navigating Parental Surveillance: Trusting Our Kids in a Digital Tracking Age Oct 31, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the growing trend of parental surveillance through location-tracking apps. With around half of U.S. parents reportedly monitoring their adolescents, Dr. Kathy explores the implications of this behavior on the development of children. She discusses a recent study published in the Journal of Family Psychology, which reveals a discrepancy between parents' use of tracking apps and their children's awareness of being monitored. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of understanding our root fears around surveillance and how it can affect our children's resilience and independence. Tune in for insightful strategies on fostering healthy boundaries and building trust with our kids as they navigate their own paths.

Tampons in Boys' Bathrooms at School to Help Reading: Addressing Gov. Tim Walz's Controversial Approach to Learning Oct 30, 2024

In this episode, we dive into a controversial educational policy proposed by Minnesota's Governor Tim Walz and his wife, Gwen Walz. During a discussion on Katie Couric's podcast, Gwen Walz expressed her belief that providing tampons in boys' bathrooms is a necessary step to help students focus on learning, particularly in the context of addressing hunger and other barriers that hinder educational success. She argues that removing these obstacles is essential for closing the learning gap, especially when it comes to foundational skills like reading. Dr. Kathy reframes the purpose of learning and school for us from the Walz's perspective, and helps us think in a helpful manner as we guide and encourage kids. Join us as we explore this topic and unpack the implications for education and parenting in today's society, featuring insights from Dr. Kathy.

Navigating Self-Diagnosis: Understanding Kids' Mental Health in the Digital Age Oct 29, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the rising trend of young people self-diagnosing mental health and neurodevelopmental conditions influenced by social media. Drawing from a recent article in Education Psychology's journal, she highlights the complex reasons behind this phenomenon and the systemic barriers that hinder access to proper support for children and adolescents. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of compassion and understanding, reminding parents, grandparents, and teachers that they do not need to be experts to offer a safe space for children to express their concerns. Join us for valuable insights as we navigate these challenging times together.

Helping Kids with Identity Crises From Politics and Culture As Americans in the Election Season Oct 28, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the complexities of identity in the current political climate, particularly for Americans and Christians. She reflects on the rich tapestry of our identities formed through family, community, and personal interests, and how these may be challenged in uncertain times. The discussion delves into the struggles faced by children as they navigate their own identities amidst peer and societal pressures. Dr. Kathy also highlights the importance of civics education, referencing New Hampshire's requirement for high school students to pass a U.S. citizenship exam, and addresses the uneven results of this initiative. Tune in for valuable insights on understanding and parenting through these identity challenges.

The Paradox of Overprotection: How It Affects Lifespan and Resilience in Kids Oct 25, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the surprising findings of a new report that suggests overprotective parenting may actually decrease life expectancy for children. Dr. Kathy discusses the challenges faced by caregivers who want to protect their children's hearts, minds, and bodies while navigating the fine line between overprotection and fostering resilience. She shares insights on how children with resilient qualities engage with life differently and offers practical strategies for parents. The episode emphasizes the importance of balancing protection with opportunities for growth, and highlights the encouraging power of the gospel of Jesus during challenging parenting moments. Tune in for valuable perspectives on raising healthy, resilient children.

Guiding Kids From Friendship to Romance in a Hyper-Sexualized World Oct 24, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we delve into the complexities of relationships in today's hyper-sexualized culture and the role of the church in providing guidance. Dr. Kathy discusses the challenges parents face in teaching their children about meaningful friendships amidst societal pressures that often misinterpret the nature of those relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of turning to scripture for a healthier understanding of relationships. The episode also highlights a survey by Communo, revealing the complacency of churches in supporting couples and families. Tune in for valuable perspectives on fostering healthy connections in a confusing world.

Raising Resilient Kids in a Culture that Snowplows Paths for Teens Oct 23, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Dr. Kathy addresses the crucial topic of building resiliency in children. She emphasizes the importance of modeling resilience for kids, rather than focusing solely on their happiness. Dr. Kathy reflects on the societal tendency to shield children from negative experiences, arguing that facing challenges is essential for personal growth and strengthens their character. She shares her insights on how overcoming adversity can deepen a child's faith and prepare them for future obstacles. Join Dr. Kathy as she explores practical strategies for fostering resilience in children, enabling them to confidently navigate life's challenges.

Are Today's Teens Really Struggling? A Look at Mental Health vs. Traditional Success Metrics Oct 22, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the evolving standards by which we gauge adolescent well-being. While statistics show that high school graduation rates are up, smoking rates are down, and youth drug use is declining, many teens report increasing struggles with mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts. Dr. Kathy discusses the disconnect between traditional measures of success and the contemporary realities of adolescent life, questioning whether the goalposts for teen success have shifted. She emphasizes the importance of addressing mental health alongside tangible achievements, urging listeners to consider how societal perceptions of youth may impact their well-being. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating the complexities of growing up in today's world.

Overcoming Parent Pressures - Responding to Adrian Rogers 21 traits of Good Parenting Oct 21, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the pressures parents face from societal expectations regarding parenting. The discussion centers around 21 qualities that the late Dr. Adrian Rogers suggested every parent should instill in their children. While these traits are well-intentioned, Dr. Kathy offers a fresh perspective, highlighting insights that aim to illuminate a more constructive approach to parenting. Join us as we navigate parenting challenges in a way that fosters a positive environment for our kids, providing a hopeful outlook in the often overwhelming journey of raising children.

Navigating Doubt: Helping Kids Build Faith in a Confusing World Oct 18, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the daunting challenge parents face in helping their children believe in Jesus amidst a culture that often fosters doubt. The discussion highlights the emotional turmoil for parents when kids express uncertainty about their beliefs, whether it’s something small like trusting a sibling’s apology or larger questions about faith. We delve into the process of building trust and confidence in beliefs, drawing insights from the Bible and how Jesus addressed doubt with figures like Thomas and Peter. The episode also references a recent Barna Group study, revealing that more than half of teens and adults experience doubts about their religious beliefs at varying frequencies. Join us as we navigate this critical topic and offer guidance for parents seeking to nurture their children's faith.

From Anxiety to Autonomy: Encouraging Creativity and Decision-Making in Children Oct 17, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the concerning decline in mental health among children and adolescents, highlighted by new research from Peter Gray at Boston College. The discussion focuses on the impact of reduced unsupervised activity on children's independence, anxiety, and depression. Dr. Kathy cites alarming statistics, including the rise of suicide as the leading cause of death for individuals aged 10 to 24 in 2019. The episode also references psychologist Jean Twenge's findings on the increase in anxiety and depression from the 1960s to the 90s, alongside a significant drop in internal locus of control. Tune in to gain insights into the psychological needs essential for healthy development and learn how to better support our kids in navigating these challenges.

Loneliness: The Silent Epidemic and Its Impact on Our Kids Oct 16, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we explore the recent warning issued by the Surgeon General regarding loneliness and its alarming health effects, comparable to smoking tobacco. We discuss the challenges parents face in today's interconnected society, where knowledge about kids is abundant yet the risk of loneliness remains significant. Dr. Kathy shares valuable insights on how parents and caregivers can navigate moments of loneliness with confidence, emphasizing the importance of connection and the understanding that we are never truly alone. Join us as we tackle the topic of loneliness and discover ways to support our children in building meaningful relationships.

How Phone Interruptions Impact Teen Development: Strategies for Managing Tech Disruption Oct 15, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the impact of smartphone notifications on teens' growth and development. Drawing from recent research by Common Sense Media, she reveals that teens receive an overwhelming number of notifications—around 237 daily, with some even approaching 5,000 in just 24 hours. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of non-judgmental conversations between parents and children regarding their online activity and suggests that threats to take away phones should be reserved for extreme circumstances. She encourages adults to support teens through their unique experiences with technology, highlighting the role of distractions in their lives. Join us for insights on navigating this digital landscape with confidence, courage, and conviction.

Why Kids Quit and How Substances Like Cannabis Drive a Quitting Culture Oct 14, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the pressing issue of adolescent substance use, particularly focusing on cannabis and its impact on academic performance. Drawing from a comprehensive report that analyzed 63 studies with over 438,000 participants, she highlights the correlation between cannabis use among individuals aged 24 and younger and decreased school grades, lower high school completion rates, and reduced chances of obtaining post-secondary degrees. Dr. Kathy offers valuable insights for parents on navigating these challenging cultural times and emphasizes the importance of fostering resilience in children, encouraging them to confront difficulties rather than seek immediate gratification through substances. Tune in for practical advice on cultivating a positive perspective on aging and guiding our kids toward healthier choices.

Understanding Race, Justice, and Unity Through a Biblical Lens with Monique Duson and Krista Bontrager Oct 12, 2024

In this bonus episode of "Celebrate Kids with Dr. Kathy," host Dr. Kathy Koch dives into the crucial topics of race, justice, and unity. Joined by friends Krista Bontrager and Monique Duson, the conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding the biblical foundation surrounding these issues. Dr. Kathy, known for her commitment to deep discussions, encourages listeners—moms, dads, grandparents, educators, and pastors—to engage with these subjects and equip their children with knowledge rooted in scripture. Tune in for an enlightening dialogue that aims to foster a celebration of kids in a way that reflects Jesus' love and teachings.

Lawsuits Claim TikTok is to Blame for Teen Mental Health...Is it? Exploring The Importance of Rest and Connection For Mental Health Oct 11, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the pressing concerns surrounding children's mental health and the role of social media and technology. She opens with a heartfelt acknowledgment that many parents may owe their children an apology for introducing them to smartphones and social media without fully understanding the consequences. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the need for parents to reconsider their decisions and take proactive steps to protect their children's well-being.

The episode highlights recent legal actions against TikTok by multiple states, where a bipartisan group of attorneys general accuses the platform of contributing to the mental health crisis among teenagers through its addictive features. Dr. Kathy provides valuable insights on how parents can navigate these challenges, encouraging them to walk alongside their children and foster healthy relationships in a digital age. Tune in for practical advice and a hopeful perspective on addressing the complexities of technology and mental health.

Why Kids Aren't Driving - Build Confidence in Teens to Grow Up Oct 10, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the emotional challenges surrounding children’s reluctance to grow up and embrace independence, particularly in the context of getting their driver's license. She discusses how parents may fear losing their connection with their children as they transition into adulthood and highlights the increasing trend of young people delaying this rite of passage. With statistics indicating a significant decline in the number of 16-year-olds obtaining their licenses since the 1980s, Dr. Kathy offers insights and encouragement for parents navigating these complex feelings and situations. Join us for this enlightening conversation that addresses the fears and doubts children may experience as they approach independence.

Teens Want Mentors - Understanding the Leadership Aspirations of Gen Z and Millennials Oct 09, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the dynamics between younger generations, particularly late millennials and Gen Z, and their desire for guidance from older leaders. Through a discussion sparked by insights from a group of late millennial professionals, Dr. Kathy highlights the importance of understanding generational differences and how current leaders can effectively mentor aspiring young adults. The conversation focuses on the traits these younger professionals wish to see in their leaders, emphasizing the need for engagement that shapes positive habits, values, and emotional well-being in today's cultural landscape. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how to bridge the generational gap and foster meaningful connections with the leaders of tomorrow.

Social Media May Not Be the Problem We've Been Told It Is - Reframing Social Media Conversations From Restriction to Understanding Oct 08, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the complexities of social media's impact on children. Addressing the growing concerns among parents, she emphasizes that simply removing kids from social media may not be enough to foster positive development. Instead, Dr. Kathy advocates for a proactive approach that involves teaching children about the challenges they face in the digital landscape. The episode highlights recent legal actions against major social media platforms, including lawsuits from public school districts and state attorneys general, citing the harmful effects of social media addiction on youth. With new legislation emerging in the UK and EU, Dr. Kathy provides valuable insights to help parents navigate the difficult conversation around social media use, encouraging a deeper understanding of the issues rather than a reactive stance. Tune in for thoughtful discussions and practical advice that aim to empower both parents and children in the digital age.

Why Bullying Matters and Guiding Kids to Know Who They Are Oct 07, 2024

On the Celebrate Kids Podcast today Dr. Kathy unpacks how bullying can and does impact kids. She gives good reason to know that it's happening and how to engage it when it happens. She shares that we need to continue to tell kids who they are, and build their identity in Christ in special ways.

Can AI Replace Reading for Kids? The Importance of Reading, Writing, and Composition in a Tech-Driven World Oct 04, 2024

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy explores the critical importance of reading in a world where technology often makes it feel obsolete. She emphasizes that reading helps us understand the larger narrative of life, particularly for children who may become lost in the fast-paced cultural moment. As artificial intelligence becomes increasingly capable of generating fluent prose, Dr. Kathy warns that this could reduce the urgency for kids to develop their own writing skills. Instead, she encourages parents and educators to foster a love for reading and help children build their own ideas and understandings. Tune in for valuable insights on how to navigate these challenges and support children's development in an evolving digital landscape.

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