bulgogi podcast with hanakattt

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is it love bombing or is it genuine interest? Apr 02, 2024

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are they trying to lock you down early? is it too intense, too quickly? do you secretly enjoy the whirlwind excitement of a new talking stage? are you being love bombed?! we're talking about it all this week.

xx,

hanakattt

SOURCES

https://health.clevelandclinic.org/love-bombing

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202212/how-to-tell-if-its-love-or-love-bombing

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feeling like a burden Mar 26, 2024

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do you ever feel like you can't share your problems? like you can't take up space? that you have to minimize yourself? this episode is for you. we're talking what it's like to feel like a burden and how to work on that.

xx,

hanakattt

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https://youtu.be/qjmlqN-JveA?si=P9fu3Yk_j1enQFBv

SOURCES

my brain

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how to feel less lonely being alone Mar 19, 2024

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this week we're talking about loneliness. this is a reminder that spending time alone is beautiful and you can be alone and not lonely. sometimes finding our "group" or feeling like we belong can be tough and i'm here for you <3

xx,

hanakattt

RELATED EPISODES

how-to-know-yourself-lead-with-honesty-in-relationships-feat--calebjooo

to-anyone-feeling-lonely

SOURCES

my brain

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how to handle uncertainty and embrace change Mar 12, 2024

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this week we're talking about the anxiety, stress, and unpleasant feelings that come with uncertainty. as things are constantly changing in our lives, we're talking about different mindsets to take on in times of transition and change!!xx,hanakattt

RELATED EPISODES conflict, confrontation, and communicationi lost my job... now what? feat. @joycechunvlogs

SOURCES https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-addiction/202110/understanding-the-process-changehttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-addiction/202110/understanding-the-process-change

https://ed.stanford.edu/sites/default/files/annurev-psych-psychology_of_change_final_e2.pdf

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/topic/mindfulness/definition

https://hbr.org/podcast/2022/07/the-case-for-embracing-uncertainty

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6gsu1D19tYvxpXkR6tt5GI?si=wn1tLP6zTIONPk2DgvfzOA

https://youtu.be/vLpBR_AREPM?si=6aMW_RL7sXZadifr

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conflict, confrontation, and communication Mar 05, 2024

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IM IN A FIGHTING MOOD THIS WEEK

but im tryna learn to fight better so we're here for an episode to learn how to be healthy, communicate clearly, and get in front of problems. i discuss the science behind conflict, use proven tools from the gottman institute, and what to do post-fight.

xx,

hanakattt

RELATED EPISODES

how to know yourself and lead with honesty in relationships feat. caleb joo

communication in relationships & how to train your bf feat. jenny heo

losing your best friend to their significant other

should i be worried about my boyfriend having a girl best friend

how to win in a fight with your s/o

SOURCES

https://hbr.org/2015/12/calming-your-brain-during-conflict

https://www.fastcompany.com/90805500/this-is-whats-happening-to-your-brain-in-the-middle-of-a-conflict

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2808029

https://www.shondaland.com/live/family/a40436785/art-of-friendship-how-to-handle-conflict

https://www.calm.com/blog/how-to-feel-your-feeling

https://www.tonyrobbins.com/personal-growth/self-awareness/

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mental health in asian communities: vulnerability, boundaries & immigrant mentality feat. jiggy yoon Jan 23, 2024

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this week we have on ⁠jiggy yoon⁠ to talk all things asian mental health.

i would like to take a moment to provide our listeners with a trigger warning. there is mention of su*cide in this episode. i understand that this is a sensitive and difficult subject for many, and i want to ensure that you are aware before continuing to listen.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255).

in this episode jiggy shares her upbringing as an immigrant, grieving the loss of loved ones, and understanding our asian parents. we're also learning tools around how to be vulnerable and set boundaries.

xx,

jiggy & hanakattt

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 intro

00:40 trigger warning

02:00 asian mental health & jiggy's story

27:20 vulnerability is dope

38:07 boundary setting

46:22 ♡ understanding our immigrant parents

things mentioned~

⁠https://www.instagram.com/asianmentalhealthproject/⁠⁠

https://brenebrown.com/⁠⁠

https://parentsarehuman.com/⁠

JIGGY YOON⁠

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https://www.instagram.com/vulnerabilityisdope/⁠⁠

https://www.instagram.com/theenergyandheartpodcast/⁠

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am i settling? dating, values, & goals feat. don carlo Jan 16, 2024

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this week we have los on the podcast to talk all things dating and music, my favorite things to talk about. we're going through what dating is like in la, in nightlife and why we're both single atm. be sure to check out los's album Silence Amidst the Infinite Noise and Cuffing Season!!!

xx,

Los & Hana

check me out!!!

Silence Amidst the Infinite Noise

https://www.instagram.com/cuffingseasonparty/

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 hi los!!

02:09 dating in la

04:32 attachment theory

06:11 reputation

06:40 dating within nightlife

08:44 expectations of dating

10:56 settling in a relationship

12:09 the perfect partner

27:22 Los’s album: Silence Admidst the Infinite Noise

35:47 producing your own music

38:42 putting out your art

LOS

https://www.instagram.com/doncarlo.wav/

https://linktr.ee/doncarlo.wav

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long distance relationships & interfaith couples feat. jackie Jan 09, 2024

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this week, jackie joins us to talk about her long distance relationship and dating someone "of a different faith". join us as we delve into what makes it work & what "rules" they have around communication!!xx,jackie & hanakattt TIMESTAMPS 00:00 hi jackie!! 02:11 jackie’s first & longest relationship 03:43 dating during covid 07:05 fart break 09:06 long distance relationship 10:46 devotionals together 16:35 growing individually AND together 18:17 interfaith dating 20:42 communicating expectations 23:30 “rules” around facetime 28:17 meeting friends 30:42 how to ldr 31:08 having a foundation in God JACKIE https://www.instagram.com/sunlit_recipes.nom/ HANAKATTT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/hanakattt/⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@hanakattt/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ BULGOGI POD⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@bulgogi.podcast/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/bulgogi.podcast/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/bulgogipodcast/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ~music in this episode provided by epidemic sound~ all social media + design work + cover art by ashley peng ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lilshashimii/ ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ sounds by 808kino contact us at bulgogipod@gmail.com

"the closure talk" Jan 02, 2024

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happy 2024 my gogis! i hope this year brings you lots of peace, blessings, and fun. this week we're getting into a story time about a guy i was seeing last year. its over and im over it but i had to do a lot of healing and reflecting on closure outloud with yall.

xx,

hanakattt

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I WOULD ABSOLUTELY DATE MYSELF feat. yayayayoung Dec 27, 2023

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for our final episode of 2023... listen to young be the weirdo that he is HAHAH this is a guy who will pretty much put anything on his face, treat his woman like a literal queen, and has more self love than may be healthy... listen to us get vulnerable about his dating life and see you next year gogis!!

xx,

young & hana

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 hi young!!

01:20 breast milk as skincare

03:12 are you dating?

04:34 getting vulnerable while dating

06:32 how long should you be dating for?

08:03 young’s 2023 dating wrapped

10:36 putting girls on a pedestal

11:57 young’s self love

14:15 hana’s food poisoning