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When I Say "Nice Guy", You Say "Covert Narcissist" Mar 23, 2024

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When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"!

Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People. We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder.

Eleni's Links

Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense

Eleni's AMAZING book!

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon : Patreon!

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

When the Other Woman...Is Your MOM Mar 16, 2024

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Buckle all the way up friends because this "nice guy" horror story is almost to messed up to believe... if we didn't have all the receipts. My guest Catherine's life was turned into a Jerry Springer-esque nightmare when her "nice guy" husband was caught cheating. But not with just anyone... WITH HER OWN MOTHER.

We're breaking down what led up to this, all the bizarre and horrifying details, and how Catherine has chosen the highroad of healing.

Catherine's Tiktok - KATenacious

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon : Patreon!

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

When A Groom Says I Do... Not Care About Our Wedding (Part 2) Mar 09, 2024

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Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater have returned to bring you Part 2 of these HORRIBLE wedding vows. And if you thought the last guy was bad... buckle up.

We're breaking down terrible vows, talking about the ACTUAL BS double standards when it comes to holding bad men accountable, going on a couple tangents, and giving you a very exciting update about our new podcast Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater!

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon : Patreon!

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

When A Groom Says I Do... Not Care About Our Wedding (Part 1) Mar 02, 2024

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The Dynamic Duo is back - Chesko and Regan... or as an internet troll named us... Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater!

On today's episode we're taking on our worst villains yet... grooms who go out of their way to humiliate their brides on their wedding day.

We'll be talking about violent cake smashers and breaking down some viral videos of absolutely disgusting wedding vows. We're really trying to get to the heart (or lack their of) of why these men feel the need to destroy, demean, and degrade on supposedly the "happiest day" of their lives.

And make sure to listen to the outro because we have a SPECIAL announcement!

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon : Patreon!

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Lessons in Decentering Men From A Recovering "Cool Girl" With Melanie Hamlett (Part 2) Feb 24, 2024

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If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 of this episode.

But, Melanie Hamlett is back and we're talking more about decentering men, the "healed Hollywood man" who refuses to be accountable, why platonic love is so necessary, and so much more!

MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS

https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications

Mel's Tiktok

Mel's Youtube

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon : Patreon!

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

When A Straight Guy Goes to A Lesbian Bar... Feb 18, 2024

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Today's title sounds like the start of a bad joke... but this experience was anything but funny for our guest Katie aka @im.that.lesbian.

This story blew up when a straight women complained about a bad experience she had when bringing a straight man to a lesbian bar. She tells us an unprovoked and seemingly angry lesbian asked "what are you doing here" to her "nice guy" friend. The video ends with her asking for feedback and boy...did queertok deliver.

That's when Katie (that "angry" lesbian) entered the chat to tell us what REALLY happened. Not only was the man acting out of line and entitled, but the whole experience was just one of many bad experiences queer women face when straight men come to lesbian bars.

HUNGRYROOT LINKS

Go to Hungryroot.com and use code NICEGUY40 for 40% off your first order and a free gift

Katie's Tiktok

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon: Patreon Page

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Lessons in Decentering Men From A Recovering "Cool Girl" With Melanie Hamlett (Part 1) Feb 10, 2024

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You all asked for it.... and it's finally here.

This week's episode we are joined by Mel Hamlett. As a self-proclaimed recovering "cool girl" Mel has some unbelievable stories about what the "cool girl" goes through, what made her say f*** that, and how she began the journey of decentering men. Believe me when I say... buckle up.

HUNGRYROOT LINKS

Go to Hungryroot.com and use code NICEGUY40 for 40% off your first order and a free gift

MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS

https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications

Mel's Tiktok

Mel's Youtube

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon: Patreon Page

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

When A "Nice Guy" Tiktoker Weaponizes WOMEN Feb 03, 2024

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When a "Nice Guy" 'feminist" Tiktoker is told his take on a topic needs some adjustment... what is he to do? Be accountable like he demands of other men? Of course not! He does the one thing he can to strike back without looking "mean", he weaponizes the women who love him.

Abby Rosmarin is back to share a recent run in with a "nice guy" "feminist" Tiktoker and what happens when a "Nice Guy" wants to strike back so women become his weapon. We're breaking down what happened, why we think it happened, and how to spot this very predictable "Nice Guy" Tiktoker pattern.

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon: Patreon Page

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Abby Rosmarin's Links

Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree

Insta: abbyrosmarin

Send the "Nice Guys" To The Sewer With The Rat Girls (Part 2) Jan 27, 2024

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We're back with Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls Podcast to bring you perhaps the most terrifying tale of all... A "Nice Guy" origin story. We're swapping stories about the "Nice Guys" of Improv, Comedy, and yes... we do mention Matt Rife. DUH!

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon: Patreon Page

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Rat Girls Links

Rat Girls Podcast

Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok

Send the "Nice Guys" To The Sewer With The Rat Girls (Part 1) Jan 20, 2024

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We're tired of being civilized.... it's time to get feral and release our inner rat. And we've found just the ladies to help us out. This week we're joined by Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls podcast and we're swapping stories about some seriously... sneaky.... snakey "Nice Guys". Sss...ee what I did there?

F THE NICE GUY LINKS

Patreon: Patreon Page

Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok

Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Rat Girls Links

Rat Girls Podcast

Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok