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Ep. 171: Bible-Based Entertainment for Kids – PART 2 Apps Nov 14, 2024

We continue to examine Bible-based entertainment for kids by examining popular apps that promote biblical learning and fun. As always, we consider these apps and Bible-based play through the lens of Scripture and the biblical worldview. We seek to answer the question, ” Isn’t Bible-based content better than everything else?”

Articles referenced:

The Ultimate List of Bible Apps by MinistrySpark
Children’s Ministry: From Entertainment to Biblical Teaching

Bible-Based Apps Reviewed:

Bible App for Kids
God for Kids
SunSchool
Guardians of Ancora
Greatest Journey
The Superbook Bible

Mentioned but not reviewed: David & Goliath – A Righteous Tale

Scripture referenced:

John 6:25-27
1 Corinthians 10
Romans 12:2

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Ep. 170: Bible-Based Entertainment for Kids – PART 1 Streaming Media Nov 07, 2024

In this episode, Kelly unfolds her research into the current Bible-based (Christian) streaming entertainment services for kids and families. She also gives parents a way to think biblically about consuming streaming entertainment.

Streaming Services Reviewed:

Minno
YippeeTV
PureFlix
TweenXstream
FaithLifeTV
Faith Channel
RedeemTV
Up Faith & Family

Scripture referenced:

Philippians 4:19
2 Corinthians 12:10

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Ep. 169: Intelligence: Educational vs. Artificial Oct 30, 2024

In today’s episode, we discuss intelligence and learning. Is AI going to take over education? If so, when and what are parents and students to do in the meantime? We consider AI homework help apps, learning amongst kids, and what the AI leaders are saying about the future of education.

Previous podcasts referenced:

Ep. 138: ChatGPT & Education
Ep. 139: Chatbots & Relationships Part 1
Ep. 140: Chatbots & Relationships Part 2

Articles referenced:

Sam Altman says that if you’re afraid of AI taking your job, you should get good with AI
How ChatGPT Boss Sam Altman’s New AI Predications Affect Education
Generative AI in Classrooms: Cheating or the Future of Education?
Coursera CEO: AI won’t replace teachers—but it will transform education
88% of Parents Say AI Is Crucial but Worry Schools Aren’t Teaching It
How Will AI Like ChatGPT Change Education for Our Children?
Common Sense Media: The Dawn of the AI Era
‘No escaping it’: As S.A. school systems think hard about AI, teachers are plunging right in
Texas Alpha School Teaches Students with AI
Sam Altman Blog Post: The Intelligence Age

Scripture referenced:

Jeremiah 17:9
Romans 6:6
Colossians 3:23

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Ep. 168: Peace in Political Chaos – Less Media, More Scripture Oct 23, 2024

As the 2024 Presidential election draws near, anxiety is at an all-time high. And not just for adults! Children, too, are absorbing the stress, rhetoric, and divisiveness they see in media and the adults in their lives.

In this episode, Kelly reviews God’s sovereignty over nations and kings and how peace can be found in trusting God’s faithfulness throughout generations. This peace is much needed—peace that is achieved with less media and more Scripture.

Download the PDF version of the three steps, along with Scripture references.

Articles referenced:

We asked 10-year-olds about the election. Here’s what we learned
CNN study finds Democrat-leaning kids 5 times more likely to say they wouldn’t visit pro-Trump family’s house

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Ep. 167: Using the Bible App in Church Oct 16, 2024

In today’s episode, we consider the use of Bible apps during church worship services. Kelly and Chelsea survey the crowd at the Women in Apologetics conference about this topic, and they unpack the issue, looking at the benefits and detriments for ALL ages.

Articles referenced:

YouVersion Bible
BlueLetter Bible
Sexual Predator Uses YouVersion Bible App to Target Teen Girls in Church Youth Group
YouVersion Bible App Child Vulnerability Exposed

Other illuminating articles:

YouVersion Bible app hires former Facebook exec to fuel growth
When the Bible Turns Into Instagram
Why You Should Ditch Your Digital Bible

Scripture referenced:

John 4:24
Hebrews 12:28-29
Psalm 46:10
1 Corinthians 8:9-13

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Ep. 166: Parenting Competition, Comparison, & Expertise Oct 09, 2024

Today, we are unpacking the immanent and unhealthy social media culture of competition and comparison and the ‘Momfluencer’ movement. There is a growing norm of learning how to parent from so-called “experts” on social media. As always, Kelly & Chelsea evaluate this through the lens of Scripture. If we start with God’s word, how do we love our fellow parents in Christ and neighbors in light of the online comparison and parenting expertise culture?

Articles/Books referenced:

The New Parenting Gurus are the Mom Experts on Instagram
Social Media Said I Could Become the Perfect Mother, It Was a Lie.
Survey Shows that More than 70% of Moms Compare Themselves to Momfluencers on Social Media.
Momfluenced: Inside the Maddening Picture-Perfect World of Mommy Influencer Culture by Sara Petersen

Scripture referenced:

Genesis 4, 16, 29-30, 37
Galatians 6:3
James 3:14-16
Philippians 2:3-4
James 1:5
1 Thessalonians 4

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Ep. 165: Youth Pastors, Social Media & “Friends” Oct 02, 2024

In today’s episode, we examine whether Youth/Student Ministry Pastors should be friends with or follow their students on social media. We’ve been investigating this question, and we asked the attendees at the Women in Apologetics conference for their take on it. We biblically unpack the three most common reasons why Christians believe Youth Pastors should be friends/follow students.

Articles referenced

Youth Ministry in America (2014)
How Do Youth Leaders Disciple in a Media-Formed Generation?

Scripture referenced

Matthew 11:29
Galatians 5:17-18 (MSG version, in particular)
2 Corinthians 6:14-18
Romans 12:2
James 4:4
Ephesians 5:11

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Ep. 164: Instagram “Teen Accounts” & Gorilla “Screen Time” Sep 25, 2024

Today, we are discussing the newly announced Instagram “Teen Accounts,” which will automatically restrict teens under 18 to a private account, offer more strongly filtered content, and prevent them from being DM’d unless they are already connected. Is this praiseworthy news?? We give our two cents. And we’re discussing the Toronto Zoo’s problem with patrons allowing the gorillas to have too much screen time.

Articles referenced:

Meta: Introducing Instagram Teen Accounts
Instagram Makes Teen Accounts Private As Pressure Mounts on the App to Protect Children
Instagram Launches “Teen Accounts” As Child Safety Scrutiny Mounts
Instagram Teen Accounts Aren’t Really for Teens
Zoo Bans Phone Screens After Gorillas Become Addicted
Zoos Concerned as Gorillas Become Hooked on Smartphone Videos

Scripture referenced:

Jeremiah 17:9
Mark 7:20-23

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Ep. 163: Parental Stress – A Public Health Issue Sep 01, 2024

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In today’s episode, Kelly discusses the U.S. Surgeon General’s most recent advisory about parental stress in America. Dr. Murthy presents it as a serious public health issue, but Kelly walks us through the stress of parenting through the lens of Scripture. Why are parents so stressed and what can be done about it? Kelly has a few ideas.

And this episode has two surprise announcements!

Articles referenced:

Parental Stress is a Significant Public Health Issue, Surgeon General Advisory says
A Half Century of Surgeon General Warnings
Parental Stress is so Debilitating, the Surgeon General Declared it a Public Health Issue
Surgeon General Prescribes Much Bigger Government

Scripture referenced:

The Book of Genesis
Job 1:4-5
The Book of Proverbs
Luke 2:41-50
Luke 15:11-32
Matthew 21:28-31
Matthew 11:28-30

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Ep. 162: The Problem With Music Aug 14, 2024

In today’s episode, we discuss the norm of listening to music all day long and through earbuds/airpods. Is there such a thing as too much music? How does music impact someone’s mood? What about shutting the world out through airpods – is that healthy? And most importantly, what does Scripture have to say about music, its purpose, and its function in our lives?

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Articles Referenced:

Can Too Much Music Be Bad For Your Mental Health?
Why I’m Taking a 30-Day Break From Music
The Harmful Side of Music: Understanding the effects of rumination on adolescent mental health
Does Music Affect Your Mood?
Music Use for Mood Regulation: Self-Awareness and Conscious Listening Choices in Young People With Tendencies to Depression
Is Music Addiction Possible? Here’s What To Know
Do We Listen to Too Much Music?
Earbuds, Hearing Loss, and Social Isolation
The Lonely World of Earbuds
It’s hard to find a person not wearing headphones in San Fransisco
Headphones Everywhere

Scripture Referenced:

1 Sam 16:23
Deut 6:4-5
Deut 18:15
Matt 17:5
Psalm 81:8
John 10:27
Psalm 46:10
1 Kings 19
Exodus 14:14
Matt 11:28-30
Phil 4:6-7
1 Pet 5:7
Psalm 92
Col 3:16
Eph 5:18-19
James 5:20

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Ep. 161: Is Ms. Rachel Early Childhood Education? Jul 26, 2024

We have heard many parents refer to YouTube content, such as Ms. Rachel, as “early childhood education.” Parents tell us how much their babies and toddlers love watching Ms. Rachel (and shows like Cocomelon). In this episode, we address this common trend of infant and toddler screen time with what both science and the Bible have to say about it.

Articles referenced:

JAMA: Screen Time at Age 1 Year and Communication and Problem-Solving Developmental Delay at 2 and 4 Years

Scripture referenced:

Phil 2:3-15

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Ep. 160: The Case for Banning Phones in Schools Part 3 Jul 17, 2024

In the final week of our apologetic (defense) on why phones should be banned in schools (from the first bell to the last), we look at the justification that kids need phones because of “mass shootings” in schools. Kelly unpacks a greater threat that students face every day – one that gives far greater credence to school-wide phone bans.

Articles referenced:

California Joins Growing National Effort to Ban Smartphones Use in Schools
This Florida School District Banned Cellphones. Here’s What Happened.
How a Connecticut middle school won the battle against cellphones
School Cellphone Bans Gain Steam as Los Angeles Unified Signs On
Schools don’t want kids on cellphones. Is banning them the solution?
Alberta to ban cellphones in K-12 classrooms starting in fall
Smartphones are Damaging Our Kids
Will the Phone-Free Movement Work?
How Schools Can Help End the Phone-based Childhood
Cell Phones and Text messaging in schools
School Shooter Database from the Washington Post
National Center for Missing and Exploited Children
National Center on Sexual Exploitation

Scripture Referenced:

Phil. 4:4-18
2 Corinthians 6:14-7:1

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Ep. 159: The Case for Banning Phones in Schools (Part 2) Jul 11, 2024

This week, we continue our apologetic (defense) on why phones should be banned in schools – not just during class instructional time, but from the first bell to the last bell! In part 2, Kelly provides a counterargument for the common defense made for keeping phones in the classroom, hallways, and cafeteria: “Students need to learn proper use.”

Articles referenced:

California Joins Growing National Effort to Ban Smartphones Use in Schools
This Florida School District Banned Cellphones. Here’s What Happened.
How a Connecticut middle school won the battle against cellphones
School Cellphone Bans Gain Steam as Los Angeles Unified Signs On
Schools don’t want kids on cellphones. Is banning them the solution?
Alberta to ban cellphones in K-12 classrooms starting in fall
Smartphones are Damaging Our Kids
Will the Phone-Free Movement Work?
How Schools Can Help End the Phone-based Childhood

Scripture Referenced:

Jeremiah 17:9
Mark 7:21-23

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Ep. 158: The Case for Banning Phones in Schools Jul 03, 2024

This week, we are laying out the case for banning phones in schools – not just during class instructional time, but bell-to-bell! Several states are now legislating policies requiring this, but not all parents (or students) are in full support. In part 1, Kelly lays out where the movement is headed and identifies the largest hindrance to school districts putting bans in place.

Articles referenced:

California Joins Growing National Effort to Ban Smartphones Use in Schools
This Florida School District Banned Cellphones. Here’s What Happened.
How a Connecticut middle school won the battle against cellphones
School Cellphone Bans Gain Steam as Los Angeles Unified Signs On
Schools don’t want kids on cellphones. Is banning them the solution?
Alberta to ban cellphones in K-12 classrooms starting in fall
Smartphones are Damaging Our Kids
Will the Phone-Free Movement Work?

Scripture Referenced:

James 3:5-12

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Ep. 157: Surgeon General Warning for Social Media Harms Jun 22, 2024

In this episode, Kelly talks about the U.S. Surgeon General’s opinion piece in the New York Times, calling for government warning labels for social media. Dr. Vivek Murthy points to the need for adolescents and parents to understand the risk, but this should be a warning label for all of society! Kelly expounds on 2 Cor. 6:14-17 as a call for Christians of all ages to reconsider their partnership with social media and their witness to the watching world.

Articles referenced:

Surgeon General: Why I’m Calling For a Warning Label on Social Media Platforms
What a Social Media Warning Label Can’t Do
The Surgeon General Proposed Warning Labels On Social Media For Teens, And Experts Have Thoughts
Big News: The Surgeon General Calls for a Warning Label on Social Media

Scripture referenced:

1 Peter 1:14-16
2 Cor. 6:14-17
Eph 2:1-2
1 Peter 5:8

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Ep. 156: Internet to the Ends of the Earth Jun 13, 2024

This week, we are discussing the recent New York Times article “The Internet’s Final Frontier: Remote Amazon Tribes.” After the internet was introduced to the Indigenous people in September, the members of the tribe had to grapple with the same ills American parents have been plagued with for fifteen years. Their story provides an object lesson for Christian parents on the importance of delaying access to the internet/smartphones/social media/games for the purpose of discipleship.

Scripture referenced:

Matthew 4:1-10
Matthew 28: 19-20

Phone Free Friday Challenge – sign up with this link

Brave Parenting Guide to Old School Summers

Books referenced:

Christian Heroes: Then and Now
The Faithful Spy: Dietrich Bonhoeffer

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Ep. 155: Pride in Children’s Media Jun 05, 2024

In this week’s episode, Kelly interviews Kenzie Cates, a recent high school graduate who completed a senior research thesis on lgbtq content in children’s media and entertainment. How much content is out there in children’s media? Is it blatant or is it so subtle it would be overlooked by children? What is the motivation for promoting lgbtq to children? And, of course, why does it matter for Christian parents, and what can they do?

References:

Daily Wire’s subscription-based Children’s Media: Bentkey
Common Sense Media celebrating pride in children’s media
Business Indsider’s database of lgbtq characters and growth tracking in media

Scripture references:

Genesis 1:27-28
Matthew 19:4-6
Romans 1:18-32
Leviticus 18:22

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Ep. 154: The Case for the DVD Player May 30, 2024

In today’s episode, Kelly and Chelsea offer a practical case for embracing the DVD player as an alternative to personal screens and media consumption. The technology may seem antiquated, but it is not obsolete and can provide families with much-needed sanity for summer screen time!

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Ep. 153: I’ve Changed My Mind About Snapchat May 23, 2024

In today’s episode, Kelly unpacks her most recent conclusions about Snapchat. For years, she has maintained that Snapchat was the worst social media platform for teens. Is Snapchat still the worst – or has it been dethroned?

Related episodes:

Ep. 133: Constant Companion

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Ep. 152: Move Slow & Protect Things May 16, 2024

A decade ago Facebook’s internal motto was “Move Fast and Break Things.” The broken pieces are all around us and Big Tech and now AI has not learned.
In today’s podcast Kelly & Chelsea talk through some recent AI and Big Tech headlines through the biblical worldview. It is clear to see that “Move Fast and Break Things” is still the general mantra. Brave Parenting recommends the alternative: Move Slow and Protect Things (such as childhood, human creativity, sacredness, marriage, etc.).

Articles referenced:

Catholic AI Priest Stripped of Priesthood
Catholic Group Defrocks Priest After it Gave Strange Answers
Meet Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang

Videos referenced:

Figure 01 (Humanoid Robot Demonstration)
Apple iPad Commercial

Scripture referenced:

Hebrews 13:8
Romans 2:15
Romans 1:20

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Ep. 151: Social Media Reform May 10, 2024

Social Media is a hot mess – which is making young people a hot mess of mental health, lack of purpose, and a failure to flourish. Everyone knows this, but how can social media be reformed? Change must come. Will it be voluntarily through Big Tech, legislatively through Government, or wisely and bravely through Parents?

In this episode, Kelly & Chelsea evaluate the present federal and state legislative initiatives to reform social media. By explaining the almost (but not completely) insurmountable obstacles, they demonstrate to parents where the hope of change really lies.

Articles referenced:

Senate Judiciary Hearings
U.S. Department of Justice Report calling for Section 230 reform
Bloomberg’s excellent video explaining Section 230
Florida Legislation to Protect Children
Privacy Concerns Rise – NPR Interview with Carl Szabo

Scripture referenced:

Romans 13
Galatians 5:13-23
1 Corinthians 10:13

Previous Episodes referenced:

Episode 141: Why 41 States Are Suing Meta

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Ep. 150: Big Tech & Sexual Exploitation May 01, 2024

It is time for our review of the 2024 Dirty Dozen List! This is the Top 12 Entities contributing to sexual exploitation as identified by the National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE). To no surprise, BIG TECH leads the way. In this episode, Kelly & Chelsea review the six that most impact parents raising kids. This content is so important to know! Maybe one of our most important episodes all year long.

**Warning** There are a lot of references to CSAM, nothing explicit but probably too much for young kids to listen along.

Be sure to check out the entire Dirty Dozen list, review their evidence, and consider responding to their call to action!

Episodes referenced:

Episode 107: Preparing Your Devices, Home, & Kids’ Heart for Summer
Episode 109: NCOSE Dirty Dozen List 2023

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Ep. 149: Managing Entertainment with a Biblical Worldview GUEST Elizabeth Urbanowicz Apr 24, 2024

Today, we have Foundation Worldview Founder Elizabeth Urbanowicz joining us to expertly answer questions regarding how to best handle concerns around entertainment media our kids want to watch/read/listen to.

We discuss fantasy books/movies like Harry Potter, music such as Taylor Swift, Netflix binging, and viral social media trends. Elizabeth has a wealth of wisdom in training kids to think biblically – this is practical wisdom you don’t want to miss!

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Ep. 148: AI Influence in Entertainment Apr 17, 2024

When you think about AI, how often do movies like Terminator or The Matrix come to mind? Futuristic and dystopian depictions of how AI will influence mankind has been a theme in the entertainment industry for almost a century! In this episode, Kelly & Chelsea review five portrayals of AI in the movies and consider each through the lens of our Biblical worldview. The goal is to help parents consider what is true and what is false about these portrayals in order to help kids think critically about the role AI will play in reality.

Articles referenced:

Could the Terminator Really Happen? Experts Assess Hollywood’s Visions of AI
The SAG-AFTRA Strike in Hollywood, Explained
From a Threat to Humanity to Savior of Mankind: AI Movies Then and Now
How Target Figured Out a Teen Girl Was Pregnant Before Her Father Did
What Does Coram Deo Mean?

Scripture referenced:

Matthew 6:25-34
Genesis 2:18-25
1 Corinthians 6:15-19
Romans 1:21-25
John 16:7
Hebrews 13:6

Book recommendation:

Knowing God by J.I. Packer

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Ep. 147: AI Scams Apr 10, 2024

In this episode, producer of the podcast Ryan Newcom joins Kelly in unpacking how Artificial Intelligence is allowing for more sophisticated scams. They review phishing attempts, voice cloning, and deep fake scams that are on the rise. Children and the elderly are common targets for internet scams making this an essential conversation to be had with the entire family!

Articles referenced:

10 Ways ChatGPT Shook Up the World in 2023
AI Robcalls Impersonate Joe Biden in an Apparent Attempt to Suppress Votes in New Hampshire
Political Consultant Behind Fake Biden Robocall Says He Was Trying to Highlight a Need for AI Rules
Finance worker pays out $25 million after video call with deepfake ‘chief financial officer’
‘Mom, these bad men have me’: She believes scammers cloned her daughter’s voice in a fake kidnapping

Scripture referenced:

Genesis 25:30-34
Genesis 27:1-30
Genesis 29:18-25

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Ep. 146: Generative AI Images & Art Mar 20, 2024

In today’s episode we are breaking down Generative AI Images and Art. After a brief lesson in engineering, we talk about the main concerns for kids when it come to AI generated images. Some are minor concerns like copyright and displaced careers but others are of serious concern such as deepfakes! As we walk through the different implications for kids (versus adults) we offer practical ways parents can ask questions and engage with their kids in new conversations in order to start shaping their worldview around AI – because if you don’t, their friends or the school will!

Articles referenced:

10 Unbelievable Ways ChatGPT Shook Up the World in 2023
AI is Now Accessible to Everyone: 3 Things Parents Should Teach Their Kids
The A to Z of Artificial Intelligence
New Jersey Teen Sues Classmate for Spreading Fake AI Nudes
The Best AI Image Generators of 2024
AI Models Spit Out Photos of Real People and Copyrighted Images

-> Beginners Guide to Stable Diffusion Models (this is the website with all of the mathematical equations!)

Scripture referenced:

Psalm 24:1-2
Gen 1:1
Exodus 35:35
Isaiah 30:18
Romans 12:19
John 17:17
Psalm 18:30
Psalm 119: 60
Isaiah 40:8
John 14:6
Psalm 13:5

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Ep. 145: Disconnected & Disengaged: Parents, Teens, & AI with Tim Nixon Mar 13, 2024

Today we interview Tim Nixon, retired pastor of 39 years and ACBC Biblical counselor and fellow. Tim offers insight to the state of the parent-teen relationship, how AI could worsen an already lacking bond, and the importance of connection and engagement! We talk about chatbot therapy, social media, and teen mental health crisis within the context of biblical parenting.

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Ep. 144: AI Influencers Feb 28, 2024

AI influencers are ostensibly benign, but when you pull back the curtain of AI-generated “magic” avatars and the aesthetic of perfection that AI creates, these AI influencers actually represent a dangerous and deeper theological and philosophical issue. What does it mean to post online under your likeness? Who really owns your likeness? Does it matter to anyone if AI takes over the modeling and influencing jobs of the world?

The bottom line (spoiler alert) is is that this impacts kids WAY more than it impacts adults – and this is precisely why EVERY parent needs to listen.

Scripture references:

Exodus 32
Matthew 22:39
Genesis 1-2
1 Cor. 6:19-20
Ps. 19:1

Articles referenced:

This AI Fitness Model Makes $11.000/month
AI Influencers are Missing The One Thing Companies Hire Humans For
Parents Worry AI Influencers Promote Unrealistic Beauty Standards
Virtual Influencer: Meet the AI-Generated Figures Posing as Your New Online Friends as They Try to Steal Your Stuff
The Top 10 AI Influencers on Instagram

Books referenced:

Francis Shaffer “How Shall We Then Live”

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Ep. 143: AI & Transhumanism with Dr. Jacob Shatzer Feb 21, 2024

Today we are joined by Dr. Jacob Shatzer, professor, parent, and author of the book, Transhumanism and the Image of God. If you’ve never heard the term “transhumanism” before, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss! Transhumanism is the idea that humans can evolve to a post-human state with the aid of artificial intelligence. Seems crazy, right?! Our conversation will help explain it all and, best of all, Dr. Shatzer is a father of four and has great practical wisdom to share with parents!

Dr. Shatzer’s bio
Get his book: Transhumanism and the Image of God

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Ep. 142: AI Robots for Kids Feb 13, 2024

To no surprise, advancing AI technologies have lead to the production of AI toys for babies and toddlers in order to capture their dependence. In this episode, Kelly reviews some of the “top” AI Robots for Kids in order to help you evaluate their marketing propaganda and see through their lies. It will be easy to cave to their persuasive ploys so it is essential you listen and learn now – because these robots will be next big thing.

Articles referenced:

12 Best Smart Robots to Gift Your Kids
Would You Let Your Kids Play With AI Robots?
Kids Robot Moxie Get AI Upgrade and Tutoring Features
Transparent Robots: How Children Perceive and Relate to a Social Robot
Children-Robot Friendship, Moral Agency, and Aristotelian Virtue Development
Child Robot Interaction

Scripture referenced:

Genesis 2:15
1 John 4: 2-6

Helpful articles for further reading:
The A to Z of Artificial Intelligence
What Does it Mean to be Human?

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Ep. 141: AI Therapy Chatbots Feb 01, 2024

The Artificial Intelligence industry seems to be single-mindedly set on advancing the human-chatbot relationship. To no surprise, this has expanded into the mental health arena with new apps poised to meet the growing demand for providers. If research has shown that humans can develop relationships with chatbots – does this provide validity for therapy chatbots, or is it a grave concern? It’s imperative that parents have grounded convictions on this topic because it will likely become the norm of society.

In today’s episode, Kelly & Chelsea (a licensed ACBC Biblical Counselor) analyze the purpose, effective practices, and goals of counseling and compare those with what AI-powered therapy chatbots can offer. They review the horizon of therapy apps available, ranging from human teletherapy to mindfulness to chatbots trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, all in an effort to guide parents in the BEST option for their child or themselves.

Articles referenced:

Can AI Chatbots Ever Replace Human Therapists?
America Has Reached Peak Therapy: Why is Our Mental Health Getting Worse?
What Powers Woebot
Artificial Intelligence Could Help Solve America’s Impending Mental Health Crisis (2019)
AI Chatbots Could Help Provide Therapy But Caution is Needed
Chatbots for Mental Health Care Are Booming, But There’s Little Proof That They Help
Therapy by Chatbot? The Promise and Challenges in Using AI for Mental Health
Apps With Maps: Anxiety and Depression Mobile Apps With Evidence-Based Frameworks
Youth Suicide Rates Rose 62% between 2007 and 2021
Evidence of Human-Level Established With Digital Conversational Agent: Cross-Sectional, Retrospective Observational Study
Five AI Chatbot Mobile Apps That Aim to Put a Therapist in Your Pocket

Podcasts referenced:

Episode 108: APA Recommendation for Adolescent Social Media Use
Episode 105: The Content Driven Life
Episode 94: The Heart and Online Influence

Scripture referenced:

2 Timothy 3:16
Galatians 6:1-3
Galatians 5:13
James 5:16
1 Thessalonians 5:11

HOW TO FIND A BIBLICAL COUNSELOR

Helpful articles for further reading:
The A to Z of Artificial Intelligence
What Does it Mean to be Human?

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Ep. 140: AI Chatbots & Relationships Part 2 Jan 24, 2024

In today’s PART 2, examining AI chatbots and the relationships that people can develop with them, we dive into the deep waters of AI companion (or AI girlfriend/boyfriend) apps like Replika. As parents and Christians, there is much to be warned about and be discerning with regarding apps like these. And don’t worry, we did all the research needed for you! Kelly talks about her experience on Replika for one week and her AI ‘friendship,’ so you don’t have to test this one out to see if it is safe.

Check out our Brave Parenting Guide to Replika as well!

And Part 1 of this conversation if you haven’t listened.

Articles referenced:

The Man of Your Dreams
Everyday AI Chatbots are Changing How We Live and Work Today
Common Sense Media poll on AI
Parental Advisory: This Chatbot May Talk to Your Child About Sex and Alcohol
You Need to Talk to Your Kids About AI: Here Are Six Things You Should Say
When it Comes to AI, Let’s Move Fast and Fix Things
How AI Can Lead to Verbal Abuse and Unhealthy Attachments
AI Is Now Accessible to Everyone: 3 Things Parents Should Teach Their Kids
How Does AI Affect Kids? Psychologists Weigh In
The New Bing Told Our Reporter it ‘can feel or think things’
Kids Are Using ChatGPT to Socialize – and Parents Are Worried
Snapchat Tried to Make a Safe AI: It Chat With Me About Booze and Sex
AI-Human Relationships Are Flourishing-And This is Just the Beginning
AI Girlfriends Are Here-But There is a Dark Side to Virtual Companions

Books referenced:

The Benedict Option by Rod Dreher
Digital Liturgies by Samuel D. James

Scripture referenced:

Ezekiel 36:26
Hebrews 8:10
Matthew 9: 37-38
2 Timothy 4

Helpful articles for further reading:
The A to Z of Artificial Intelligence
What Does it Mean to be Human?

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Ep. 139: AI Chatbots & Relationships Part I Jan 17, 2024

In today’s episode, we begin the discussion of AI chatbots and the relationships people can have with them. The conversational “chat” nature of informational generative AI like ChatGPT and Copilot or relational generative AI such as Replika can deceive just about anyone with their human-like qualities. In Part I, we look at informational chatbots and consider the particular ways they feel human and consider their safety in the hands of kids (and adults).

Articles referenced:

Everyday AI Chatbots are Changing How We Live and Work Today
Common Sense Media poll on AI
Parental Advisory: This Chatbot May Talk to Your Child About Sex and Alcohol
You Need to Talk to Your Kids About AI: Here Are Six Things You Should Say
When it Comes to AI, Let’s Move Fast and Fix Things
How AI Can Lead to Verbal Abuse and Unhealthy Attachments
AI Is Now Accessible to Everyone: 3 Things Parents Should Teach Their Kids
How Does AI Affect Kids? Psychologists Weigh In
The New Bing Told Our Reporter it ‘can feel or think things’
Kids Are Using ChatGPT to Socialize – and Parents Are Worried
Snapchat Tried to Make a Safe AI: It Chat With Me About Booze and Sex
1 in 10 Teens Already Use ChatGPT For School – Here’s How to Guide Them

Scripture referenced:

Psalm 89:10
Numbers 6:25
James 4:14
Hebrews 11:3
1 Peter 4:8
Genesis 2:8

Helpful articles for further reading:
The A to Z of Artificial Intelligence
What Does it Mean to be Human?

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Ep. 138: ChatGPT & Education Jan 10, 2024

After ChatGPT’s release in November 2022, the educational world went from a panicked ban of the chatbot to now embracing it as an educational tool. In this episode, we examine what aspects of ChatGPT can actually be used to enhance learning and what aspects weaponized it against learning. We look at how parents can approach this widely popular app with middle school and high school students, as well as how to think biblically about it as a family.

Articles referenced:

ChatGPT is Going to Change Education (Not Destroy it)
Despite Cheating Fears, Schools Repeal ChatGPT Bans
How ChatGPT and Similar Will Disrupt Education
How to Use ChatGPT as a Learning Tool
1 in 10 Teens Already Use ChatGPT for School; Here’s How to Guide Them
10 Unbelievable Ways ChatGPT Shook Up the World in 2023
Chatbots Sometimes Make Things Up
Chatbots May Hallucinate More Often Than Many Realize
Unexplainable Answers of ChatGPT (according to Open AI)

Scripture referenced:

Galatians 6:7-8
Ephesians 4:28
1 Timothy 5
2 Thessalonians 3

Helpful articles for further reading:
The A to Z of Artificial Intelligence
What Does it Mean to be Human?

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Ep. 137: Understanding AI Lingo Jan 05, 2024

Today, we begin our series unpacking AI (Artificial Intelligence) by defining many of the terms, acronyms and general jargon surrounding all things AI. What is Artificial General Intelligence? What is the big deal about quantum computing? What does GPT stand for? Kelly and her husband, Ryan walk through the basic terms that will help serve as a foundation for the series of podcasts forthcoming to help parents navigate the nuances of AI through a biblical worldview and while raising and discipling kids.

Also, check out Ep. 131: “Ethical” AI Porn

Helpful articles for further reading:
The A to Z of Artificial Intelligence
What Does it Mean to be Human?

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Ep. 136: Sports Betting Apps Dec 29, 2023

Sports betting has been a long-standing practice, but now that it is legal in 37 states and apps have made it easier than ever to place a bet on your favorite team, it has woven itself into teen culture. In this episode, Kelly discusses the whole scope of the sports betting issue, the apps, the ads, and addiction. And a point that cannot be overlooked – how video games set teens up for problematic gambling.

Also, check out our Brave Parenting Guide to Sports Betting Apps

Articles referenced:

History of Sports Bettting
These are the Real Dangers of the Sports Betting Boom for Young Men
As Legal Gambling Surges, Some States Want to Teach Teens About the Risks
How To Protect Kids From Online Gambling Addiction
Teens are Developing ‘Severe Gambling Problems’ as Online Betting Surges
It’s Like an Addiction – American Teenagers Fall Victim to Online Sports Betting Apps

NCAA Sports Betting Activity Survey April 2023

Scripture Referenced:

Matthew 6:24
Matthew 18:6
Proverbs 22:6
Joshua 1:9

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Ep. 135: Evolution of Shopping & Apps Temu and Shein Dec 20, 2023

Shopping has not only moved from malls to the internet, it has also evolved from being a pattern of socialization to a game-show-style transaction. As Brave Parenting continues to evaluate the ways media and technology have changed how people live, communicate, and relate, today’s look at shopping and the massively popular app Temu provides excellent context. Be sure to check out our Brave Parenting Guide to Temu at braveparenting.net for more information.

Articles referenced:

Why the Death of Malls is About More Than Shopping
One of China’s most popular apps has the ability to spy on its users, say experts
How China took over the world’s online shopping carts
Addictive, absurdly cheap and controversial: the rise of China’s Temu app
TEMU AND SHEIN: A DEEP DIVE INTO THEIR DIFFERENCES

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Ep. 134: Proposed Solutions to the Loneliness Epidemic Dec 13, 2023

We are living in a global loneliness epidemic. Headlines saturate media news surrounding the growing problem – we collected at least ten published within twenty-four hours. In today’s episode, we highlight some of the first solutions offered by the new global initiative to combat loneliness by the World Health Organization, co-led by the U.S. Surgeon General. Like always, we look at them through a biblical worldview and the lens of Scripture. Naturally, we provide a few Brave Parenting solutions that are both pragmatic and biblical.

Articles referenced:

‘Everybody has experienced loneliness’: US Surgeon General talks mental health with ASU students
Sex therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer appointed New York state’s first loneliness ambassador
WHO makes loneliness a global health priority with new Commission on Social Connection
Chris Murphy Wants to Make America a Little Less Lonely
‘You live in your own bubble’: Swedish city takes on loneliness with a simple hi
Feeling Lonely? Your Brain May Process the World Differently

U.S Surgeon General’s Advisory on the Healing Effects of Social Connection and Community

Scripture referenced:

James 1:27
Genesis 2
Ephesians 2:1
Galatians 5:19-21
Hebrews 10:25
Romans 12:10
Hebrews 10:24
John 14:6

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Ep. 133: Constant Companion – A Review of Common Sense Media’s Report Nov 22, 2023

Common Sense Media published research about a week in the life of a young person’s smartphone use, and they named it “Constant Companion.” In today’s episode, Kelly and Chelsea review the key findings in the study as well as unpack the implications of a smartphone as a “constant companion” in the lives of young people today. As always, we look at these findings through the lens of Scripture and provide suggested solutions.

Articles referenced:

2023 Constant Companion Report

Scripture referenced:

Gen 2:18-22
1 Peter 2:9-11
Galatians 5:19-22
Mark 8:36-37

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Ep. 132: Why 41 States are Suing Meta Nov 08, 2023

In this episode, Kelly and Chelsea discuss the recently filed lawsuit against Facebook and Instagram’s parent company, Meta. Currently, the attorney generals of forty-one states have united against one common enemy in order to protect and preserve the well-being of one common victim: children. Is this legitimate? Why are the states taking action instead of the parents? What harm is actually done by algorithm-driven social media platforms? Brave Parenting has identified five core ways social media leads to the demise of mental health and well-being among young people today. These should help motivate you to wait and limit social media until after age 16.

Articles referenced:

Meta’s Instagram linked to depression, anxiety, insomnia in kids – US states’ lawsuit
Here’s Why States Are Suing Meta for Hurting Teens with Facebook and Instagram
‘Social Dilemma’ star says Meta lawsuit will have ‘lasting impact’ compares Facebook to Big Tobacco

Scripture referenced:

Ezekiel 13:8
John 14:6
John 6:22
John 8:12
Matthew 6:24

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Ep. 131: “Ethical” AI Porn Nov 01, 2023

November is the month that we shine a light on the dark reality of online pornography. And today, we specifically highlight the newest debate on the ethics of AI porn. Is it now “ethical” since it doesn’t exploit people in the making of it? We provide clear definitions for you to understand the intricacies and an apologetic (defense) for you to use when dealing with this topic.

Articles referenced:
Women’s Health Magazine: Ethical Porn
Tech Crunch: As AI Porn Generators Get Better the Stakes Get Higher
NCOSE: Why Ethical Porn is a Myth
Fight the New Drug: Would AI Generated Nudes Solve the Ethical Problems of Porn Sites
Fight the New Drug: Exposing the New Wave of Extreme Hentai Animated Porn
Inside Edition: Meet Milla Sofia the AI Influencer
Influencer Creates AI Version of Herself That You Can Rent as a Girlfriend
AI Porn is Colloding With Human Sexuality and Raising Some Ethical Red Flags
Wired: Deepfake Porn is Out of Control
Viewing Porn Increases Unethical Behavior

Scripture referenced:
Isaiah 5:20
1 Corinthians 6:18
Romans 1:18-32

Resource Recommendation:
Brain Heart World by Fight the New Drug

Check out last year’s No Porn November podcasts for more on this topic: Episodes 79, 80, 81, and 82
and our No Porn November Resource Guide

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Ep. 130: Busy, Productive, or Fruitful Oct 25, 2023

Have you ever answered someone’s “How are you?” question with “Busy”? Today, we aim to define the difference between busyness and productivity and seek to honestly answer how much of that would change if our media/screen/entertainment time went down (or away completely). The word of God tells us we are to “be careful how we live, not as unwise but wise, making use of every opportunity because the days are evil” (Eph 5:15-16). Therefore, our “careful” approach to living should involve scrutiny of where and how we spend our time.

This episode was a requested topic by a Youth Pastor who recognized all of the church’s families were becoming too “busy” for church.

Articles referenced:

BlueLetter Bible
BetterUp – What is productivity?

Scripture referenced:

Ephesians 5:15-16
1 Peter 1:13
Genesis 1:26
Genesis 1:12
Habbakuk 3:17-18
Matthew 7:18
John 15
Deuteronomy 6:7
Ephesians 6:4
Matthew 22:37-39
1 Corinthians 16:14
Genesis 3:15
Galatians 5:22
Matthew 28:19-20

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Ep. 129: Social Media News Headlines Oct 18, 2023

Today we are talking about some recent news headlines surrounding social media and the culture it breeds. How do parents handle Snapchat? Do you know what the new research reveals about teens notifications? Why are Gen Z young adults so lonely? Should I got to college to be an influencer? All of this from a biblical worldview.

Articles Referenced:

Should I let my kid use Snapchat?
Kids and Teens Are Inundated With Phone Prompts Day and Night.
Cell Phone Shocker as 97% of Kids Use Their Device During School
Photo-Sharing App Lapse Hits Top of the App Store By Forcing You to Invite Your Friends
Gen Z Loneliness is So Bad That Some Young Adults Are Spending Thousands to Make Friends Through Gym Memberships and Social Clubs
Many in Gen Z Hope to be Influencers. There’s Now a Degree For It.

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Ep. 128: Babies & Toddler Screen Time – Beneficial? or Detrimental? with Dr. Vivian Carlin Oct 04, 2023

Continuing our conversation about baby and toddler screen time, today we have Dr. Vivian Carlin providing her expert insight as a pediatrician. We discuss the potential benefits and detriments of consistent screen time at young ages (whether that be television, iPads, smartphones, or video games). Dr. Carlin explains the nuances of research out there and provides practical ways parents can navigate the ubiquity of screens while raising young children.

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Ep. 127: Babies, Toddlers, & Screens: A Win-Win? or Win-Lose? Sep 27, 2023

In today’s episode, we’re reflecting on and wading through the murky waters of screen time for our youngest kiddos. We look at the pros and cons of screen time for babies and toddlers and discuss the nuanced nature of scientific research surrounding this topic. As online media and screen technology continue to advance at a rapid speed, this topic isn’t as black and white as we’d like it to be, but the word of God is sufficient to help us.

Overall, we want to encourage every parent to simply consider whether the screen time is a Win-Win for you and the child or a Win-Lose (where you win, but they lose).

Scripture referenced:

Ephesians 6:4
Matthew 16:24-26
Matthew 4:1-11
Matthew 14:13-21
Philippians 2:3-4

Articles referenced:

World Health Organization recommendations
American Academy of Pediatrics recommendations

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Ep. 126: Kids & Smartwatches Sep 20, 2023

This week, we are sharing our best practices for giving kids smartwatches. Are they appropriate? At what age? What type of watch is best for kids? We’ve got answers to all these questions and more. We also analyze the narrative surrounding smartwatches on parenting websites and blogs through a biblical lens.

Scripture referenced:

Psalm 119:11
Proverbs 22:6
1 Cor 7:35

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Ep. 125: Applying Biblical Boundaries & Restrictions Sep 13, 2023

In this episode, Kelly discusses the WHY of boundaries and restrictions for media and internet-connected devices. Parents, you must know the WHY before you can APPLY. Otherwise, when it gets tough, you’ll give up. Also, Kelly reviews the best kid-safe smartphone for parents to consider and reviews all of Brave Parenting’s best practices for boundaries and restrictions for the devices in your home.

Bottom line: We cannot be afraid of our kids! Don’t fear their anger at you for enforcing boundaries or fear they will find a way to access the internet regardless. We must fear God and be good stewards of our children’s souls.

Scripture referenced:

Matthew 16:26
Ephesians 6:4
Ephesians 6:1
Hosea 14:9
Exodus 20:12
Deuteronomy 6:6-7
James 4:1
1 Peter 5:8
James 4:4

Books referenced:

The Toxic War on Masculinity by Nancey Pearcey
Managing Media Creating Character by Kelly Newcom

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Ep. 124: Learning the Bible at Home with Sam Langenbahn Sep 06, 2023

While it seems like Gen Z has lost their faith and their way, we have another guest today who will shatter that presumption. Sam Langenbahn is finishing his senior year at Texas A&M while simultaneously in seminary at Dallas Theological Seminary. He shares with us how his home life growing up: learning to study Scripture, praying as a family, attending and serving in church, and (you guessed it!) limited access to social media helped shape his faith and, ultimately, his calling into full-time ministry.

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Ep. 123: Learning Theology at a Young Age with Mary Katherine Aug 30, 2023

Every small, next, right step parents take to help raise their children in the knowledge and discipline of the Lord makes an impact. If that’s prayer, if it’s family devotionals, Bible reading, or if that step is private school or home curriculum on worldview or theology – every bit of that adds to the foundation of a child’s faith.

Today, our Gen Z ambassador Mary Katherine is back talking about how God used her parent’s faith and dedication to the Church, as well as taking theology classes in high school shaped her strong Christian faith. You don’t have to wait until your child is an adult to move away from Bible “stories” to doctrinal truths and theological training!

Books referenced:

You’re Not Enough (And That’s Okay) by Allie Beth Stuckey
Holiness Day by Day and The Pursuit of Holiness by Jerry Bridges

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Ep. 122: Phone Free Student Ministry with Nick Rodgers Aug 23, 2023

As Christian parents raising children in the knowledge and discipline of the Lord, student and youth ministries serve as a vital adjunct to our kids’ discipleship. What happens, though, when their smartphones and online media content become a stumbling block during student ministry? How can the youth pastor do his job if the phone constantly vies for the kid’s attention? Today we are talking to a youth pastor who has successfully made his youth ministry PHONE FREE. This is a great conversation and it will equip you with immediate action steps to help both your student and your pastor.

Scripture referenced:

Ep. 121: WISDOM Screen Time and Education with Aaron Southwick Aug 16, 2023

Continuing in our SET UP FOR SCHOOl series, today we have the perspective of a Classical Christian private school headmaster. In last week’s episode, we heard a public school perspective on how online media and screen time impact education; check it out if you haven’t already. Asking the same questions today, we think you might be surprised by the similarities and differences between each administrator’s answers. This interview is sure to stimulate conversation, so listen with a friend!

Resources discussed:

Dr. Keith McCurdy: Live Sturdy
Plato’s Allegory of the Cave: The Republic Book VII
Plato “Whatever is honored in a country will be cultivated there…” The Republic Book VIII, 551a
Neil Postman Amusing Ourselves to Death

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Ep. 120: BALANCE Screen Time & Education with Matt Myers Aug 09, 2023

We have another episode in our SET UP FOR SCHOOL series. Today we are talking with a public middle school principal about how kids’ time in front of a screen consuming online media content impacts their education. A lot of times, it isn’t how media and technology are used (or misused) during the school instructional hours but what happens outside of school that has a tremendous impact on a child’s ability and willingness to learn.

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Ep. 119: THEOLOGY Over Entertainment with Krista Bontrager Aug 02, 2023

Today is another episode in our SET UP FOR SCHOOL series, and we are talking with theologian and mom Krista Bontrager. In a way, we are all theologians, Krista explains, and because most Christians spend more time consuming online media than reading God’s word, we have a lot of wrong theology. How can parents correct this and how important is having a right theology as you raise and disciple your kids?

Find Krista and her tons of resources at TheologyMom.com, at the Center for Biblical Unity, and on her YouTube channel.

Articles Referenced

Arizona Christian University Cultural Research Center

Ep. 118: TRUTH Can Be Known with Elizabeth Urbanowicz Jul 26, 2023

Kicking off our SET UP FOR SCHOOL series is a gifted teacher and blessing to the Christian community, Elizabeth Urbanowicz. Today we will discuss with her the importance of a Biblical Worldview: when and how to start teaching it and how online media and entertainment impact it.

Elizabeth holds an M.A. in Christian Apologetics from Biola University. Several years into her teaching experience in a Christian school, Elizabeth realized that despite being raised in Christian homes, attending a Christian school, and being active in church, her students thought more like the culture than like Christ. Elizabeth began searching for curricular materials that would equip her students to think critically, helping them discover that Christianity is the worldview that lines up with reality. After not finding any materials that met this need, she began creating a curriculum for her students.

Today, she offers this curriculum through her organization, Foundation Worldview, which exists to equip Christian adults with the resources they need to train children to soundly interpret Scripture, carefully evaluate every idea they encounter, and understand the truth of the biblical worldview.

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Ep. 117: Biblical Encouragement to Set Up for School Jul 25, 2023

Today Kelly introduces the upcoming series of Set Up for School. We have an amazing lineup of interviews to help parents keep them grounded in a Biblical worldview as the new school year begins. Before the episodes kick-off, however, Kelly gives Biblical encouragement to do this brave, hard work of teaching, admonishing, disciplining, and discipling your kids. What good is it to get straight A’s if they deny Jesus along the way?

Scripture referenced:

Ephesians 6:4
Mark 8:36
Matthew 16:26
Luke 9:25
Colossians 2:8
James 2:18
James 1:2
James 1:12
John 15:18
Romans 5:3
John 1:1
2 Corinthians 5:21

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Ep. 116: Threads App, BP Guide & What the Internet is Saying About it Jul 19, 2023

In this episode, Kelly and Chelsea overview the new Threads app connected to Instagram that aims to be a better option than Twitter. As with all social media apps, there is much to consider when creating an account, and even more so if your child desires a presence on the app. After highlighting 5 FACTS parents need to know about Threads, they look at some popular news outlets’ take on Threads.

Check out the full App Review on Brave Parenting’s website: https://braveparenting.net/brave-parenting-guide-to-threads/

Scripture referenced:

Jeremiah 17:9
Romans 1:18-32
Ephesians 5:11
2 Timothy 3

Articles referenced:

What we love and hate about Threads, Meta’s new Twitter clone
The Missing Threads Features Adam Mosseri Says Are ‘On The List’
What Threads Needs to Beat Twitter
Instagram’s Threads app reaches 100 million users within just five days
Scoop: Branded content tools coming to Threads
Zombie Twitter Has Arrived
Threads is all the Worst Parts of Twitter and Instagram in One Very Bad App
Threads Review: Twitter Without the Rough Edges or News

Ep. 115: A Biblical View of Video Gaming Jul 11, 2023

Today we have a conversation with Reagan Rose, Bible teacher, ministry leader, and author of the book A Student’s Guide to Gaming. Regan has so much wisdom and insight to share with parents about what Scripture says about addictive/obsessive entertainment as well as practical tips for parents to help navigate gaming.

Reagan’s Ministry: Redeeming Productivity
Reagan’s Book: Student’s Guide to Gaming

Scripture referenced:

Ephesians 6:4
Romans 7
Hebrews 10:22-25

Ep. 114: WW AI Beauty Filters Jul 05, 2023

Artificial Intelligence has enabled the creation of dedicated beauty filtering apps as well as filters built into social media apps. These have given rise to increased demand for plastic surgery as patients desire to look like their filtered selfies. Tragically, there has also been an increase in Body Dysmorphic Disorder. Kelly & Chelsea take a look at this topic from the Biblical point of view of false witness, idolatry, and covetousness.

Articles referenced:

Picture Perfect – The Hidden Consequences of AI Beauty Filters
From ‘Instagram Face’ to ‘Snapchat Dysmorphia’: How beauty filters are changing the way we see ourselves
Plastic Surgery Inspired by Filters and Photo-editing Apps isn’t Going Away
Plastic Surgeons Are Worried About a Condition Called Snapchat Dysmorphia
‘Snapchat Dysmorphia’ Points to a Troubling New Trend in Plastic Surgery
Snapchat Dysmorphia and the Real Dangers of Perceived Flaws
Snapchat Dysmorphia’: Is the Stress of Social Media driving young people to plastic Surgery?
Beauty filters face legislation to protect mental health
NHS: Body Dysmorphic Disorder
Clinical Child Psychology and Psychiatry: Body Dysmorphic Disorder: Reflections on the last 25 years
Prevalence of BDD
TikTok’s Bold Glamour Filter

Scripture referenced:

Romans 5:12-14
Galatians 2:20
Luke 9:23
Matthew 6:33
Galatians 1:10
Genesis 1:31
Genesis 29:16-20
1 Samuel 16:7
Psalms 31:30
Isaiah 55:8
Proverbs 10:9
Galatians 6:5-6
Romans 12:2

Ep. 113: Christians & Social Media – An 18 Year Old’s POV Jun 27, 2023

Today we are joined by recent high school graduate Mary Katherine. After her parents restricted her from social media at age 13, she made the radical (and amazingly wise) decision at 16 to abstain from social media altogether. Kelly & Mary Katherine talk about the impact that has had on her life: how she maintains friendships without Snapchat, relevance without Instagram, and news without everything else. This is an inspiring and joyful conversation that will give every parent SO MUCH HOPE!

Books referenced:

Who Are You Following? Pursuing Jesus in a Social Media Obsessed World by Sadie Robertson Huff
Why Social Media is Ruining Your Life by Katherine Ormerod
You’re Not Enough (And That’s Okay) by Allie Beth Stuckey

Ep. 112: WW Dopamine Detoxing Jun 21, 2023

Today’s Worldview Wednesday episode discusses the TikTok trend #dopaminedetox. Time magazine has noted the “moment” dopamine detoxing is having on social media platforms. At the core, the idea is to create better, healthier habits. However, this social media trend also provides great lessons for learning discernment with online media. How can we ourselves and our kids critically think about the content promoted: is it true? What is their motivation for sharing the content? And how can we take what is good and leave behind what is wrong?

Articles referenced:

The ‘Dopamine Detox’ is Having a Moment
What is a ‘Dopamine Detox’?
I Tried the ‘Dopamine Detoxing’ Trend to Find Peace Again

Scripture referenced:

Ephesians 4:22-24
1 John 1:8-9
Galatians 5:16-17
Colossians 3:1-2
Romans 7:14-25
Colossians 2:8

Ep. 111: The “Reality” of Apple Vision Pro Jun 13, 2023

Today, Kelly and her husband, Ryan, discuss the new mixed reality headset, Vision Pro, announced at Apple’s Worldwide Developers Conference on June 5, 2023. What is this device exactly? How will it be used? And what are the implications for the future?

Ryan is enamored with advancing technology, while Kelly is cautious about its impact on personal relationships. Their common ground is found only in the Word of God and their hope in Christ.

Articles referenced:

Introducing the Apple Vision Pro (9 min YouTube video)
Apple Vision Pro: I Tried the New Mixed Reality Headset
Hands On With Apple Vision Pro: The Opposite of Disappearing
Apple’s ‘Vision Pro’ Wants to Be the $3499 Anti-Metaverse
Apple Vision Pro is Apple’s New $3499 AR Headset

Scripture referenced:

Hebrews 10:24-25
Genesis 1:26-27
1 Cor 6:12
Eph 2:10
Isaiah 43:7
1 Cor 10:31

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Ep. 110: WW Social Media & Smartphone News Headlines Jun 07, 2023

In today’s episode, we look at four major news headlines over the past two weeks. The Surgeon General’s advisory on social media and kids, Early smartphone ownership linked with greater mental health issues, Montana bans TikTok, and Stephen & Ayesha Curry’s social media regret. This episode is great to listen to as a family, and Kelly & Chelsea give thought-provoking questions you can begin with your kids.

Articles referenced:

Surgeon General Fears Social Media is Harming the Well-being of Our Children
Surgeon General’s Advisory
Smartphones Take a Toll on Teenagers: What Choice Do Parents Have?
Age of First Smartphone/Tablet and Mental Well-being Outcomes Report by Sapien Labs
Montana Governor Bans TikTok
Ayesa Curry Admitted She Regrets Overexposing Her Daughter on Social Media When She Was a Toddler

Scripture referenced:

Mark 9:42
2 Tim 1:7
Romans 12:2
Matthew 12:36
Psalm 141:3
1 Peter 2:16
Luke 9:23

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Ep. 109: NCOSE 2023 ‘Dirty Dozen List’ May 30, 2023

Every year the National Center on Sexual Exploitation researches and compiles a list of the twelve mainstream entities that facilitate, enable, and even profit from sexual abuse and exploitation. This campaign is called the Dirty Dozen list, and on today’s episode, Kelly and Chelsea discuss the twelve and what parents are to do with information like this. Do you boycott? Do you advocate for change? Do you use it to train others? The short answer: Yes.

Articles referenced:

NCOSE 2023 Dirty Dozen List
NCOSE Victories

Scripture referenced:

Psalm 34:14-16
Psalm 97:10
Psalm 119:101
Proverbs 4:14
Proverbs 8:13
Proverbs 14:6
Isaiah 5:20
Romans 12:9
1 Thes 4:3
1 Peter 3:17

Ep. 108: WW A Critique of APA’s Recommendations for Adolescent Social Media Use May 24, 2023

On May 9, 2023, the American Psychological Association released its first Health Advisory Report on adolescents’ use of social media. Parents everywhere await expert organizations like the APA to guide and direct their decisions and even affirm their concerns regarding the risks of kids’ use of social media. Unfortunately, this report provides nothing of value that the everyday non-psychological scientist parent doesn’t already know. Kelly and Chelsea walk through the recommendations provided in this report and counter them with the truth and sufficiency of Scripture.

Articles referenced:

Full APA Health Advisory Report (PDF)
Should kids use Social Media? US psychology experts share their do’s and don’ts -Popular Science
American Psychological Association released its 10 science-backed recommendations for social media use for teens. – DigitalWellbeing.org
How Parents Can Actually Help Their Teens Navigate Social Media – The New York Times
Can Too Much Screen Time Harm You?

Scripture referenced:

Hebrews 10:24
Romans 1:18-32
Matthew 6:21
1 Peter 3:3-4
Romans 16:17
Philippians 3:17-19
Romans 16:19-20

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Ep. 107: Preparing Your Devices, Home & Kids’ Hearts for Summer May 18, 2023

Summer is upon us and in this episode, Kelly & Chelsea help you prepare for the desire and propensity for extra screen time! First, they discuss the general boundaries every family needs in their home, and based on that, they discuss the common ways kids get around boundaries and parental controls. Frustrating, but it is the reality. Finally, Kelly & Chelsea look at preparing your kid’s heart for the boundaries and limits by demonstrating obedience to Christ through God’s word.

Scripture referenced:

Matthew 5:1-7:29 (The Sermon on the Mount)

Articles referenced:

Best Home Routers with Parental Controls
Brave Parenting Guide to VPN apps

Podcasts to be sure to check out!

The Heart & Online Influence
The Content Driven Life

Ep. 106: WW Bullying & Suicide May 10, 2023

This week’s Worldview Wednesday covers three recent headlines of young people who are bullied and then take their own lives. If bullies have always been a part of every generation – what is so different about bullying today that it leads to such tragic ends? Even more, why is suicide now the go-to solution for kids? Kelly and Chelsea look at scripture to find answers to these questions.

Articles referenced:

In His Final Moments, Indiana Middle Schooler Blamed His Bullies

New Jersey school suicide: Mother of 11-year-old discovers ominous cellphone recording

New Jersey school superintendent resigns after 14-year-old student’s suicide.

Veteran teacher breaks down why teachers are quitting

Scripture referenced:

John 10:7-15
2 Cor 1:3-4
Psalms 6:5-7
James 1:2
2 Corn 4:8-9
Isaiah 61:1
Hebrews 10:23
Jeremiah 6:16

Ep. 105: The Content Driven Life May 05, 2023

This week Kelly & Chelsea tackle what it means to grow up living a “Content Driven Life.” This refers to the online content consumed or created that shapes their thoughts, behaviors, and beliefs. More specifically, we address the Social Contagions that take hold in a content driven life and how dangerous that is.

Articles Referenced:

Psychology Today: Nihilism
Psychology Today: Social Contagion
Dove Commercial: Mary’s Story

Scripture Referenced:

Proverbs 4:23
Phil 2:3-5
Mark 12:31
Romans 12:10
Galatians 6:10
Matthew 23:12
James 4:10
Ephesians 6

Book References:

Not Enough Faith to be an Atheist Teen/Young Adult edition

Ep. 104: WW Underage Alcohol Delivery Apr 26, 2023

This week we are looking into the reality of alcohol delivery to minors through apps like UberEats and DoorDash. It’s a growing problem that these delivery services are trying to navigate, but as we know, teens have a lot of time and a lot of tech savviness to find workarounds. As always, we look at this issue through the lens of Scripture.

Articles referenced:

Investigators Find Delivery Service Apps Getting Alcohol to Underage Students
Will Delivery Services Let Your Kids Order Alcohol
Home Delivery Companies Aren’t Checking IDs When Dropping Off Booze
Parents Sue Snapchat Parent Company After Drug Delivery Deaths
Here’s How Drug Dealers Use Snapchat & Instagram to Reach Kids

DEA Emojis Decoded

Scripture referenced:

Galatians 5:19
Ephesians 5:18
Proverbs 23:29-35
Romans 14
Proverbs 28:13
Proverbs 4:23

Nothing Safe About Secret Sin

Ep. 103: Five Myths of Social Media Apr 18, 2023

To live in the world but not be of the world can be a challenge for every Christian. In the age of social media it is all too easy to slowly slip into believing lies. Whether that be bad or false ideologies or that social media itself poses no risks to you.

Today, Kelly & Chelsea discuss 5 common myths Christians often believe about social media and their presence on it. This episode might set your defenses up but we pray that the Holy Spirit would reveal to you whether you believe these myths and restore a holy and kingdom-centered mindset. All for the glory of God!

Scripture referenced:

Ephesians 5:1-21
Romans 10:17

Resources mentioned:

John MacArthur Study Bible
Face-to-Face Relationships

Ep. 102: WW Sharenting and Using Kids as Content Apr 12, 2023

What is the impact on kids when their parent is (or wants to be) an online influencer? What about when the kids are the content?

In this Worldview Wednesday episode we look at headlines surrounding what is known as Sharenting: the sharing of kids pictures, videos, and lives by parents. What are the long term benefits (if any)? What are the unseen consequences? Most importantly, what does God’s word say about this issue?

Articles referenced:

Influencer Parents and The Kids Who Had Their Childhood Made Into Content
‘Sharenting’: Why is France trying to stop parents from oversharing their children’s images online?
French MPs examine bill on children’s right to privacy on social media
Who Know What About Me?
Mommy Influencer Announces Bizarre Meet-and-Greet Tour for 3 Year Old Daughter

Scripture referenced:

1 Tim 5:8
Prov 4:23
Eph 6:4
Ezekiel 18:4
1 Cor 10:23
1 John 1:9

Ep. 101: Screen FREE Time with Special Guest Joey Odom Apr 05, 2023

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Ep. 100: Celebrating 100 Episodes with Special Guests Ryan Newcom & Zach Hezel Apr 01, 2023

We are so excited to share our 100th episode with you! Joining Kelly & Chelsea today are the husbands behind Brave Parenting: Ryan Newcom & Zach Hezel. They are the technical equipment support crew and production team that keeps us running. But more than that, they are Fathers doing the hard work of waiting and limiting with an end goal of holiness, not happiness. We ask serious questions and then quiz the men on their media and cultural savviness. We finish with a look into where Brave Parenting is headed.

Ep. 99: Pedophiles on Pinterest? Mar 22, 2023

In this Worldview Wednesday, we look at recent investigative reports regarding the pinboards created on Pinterest by adult men of young girls. We look at three different articles surrounding the growing problem of child sex abuse material through a biblical worldview in order to help parents make wise and God-honoring decisions regarding their child’s use of social media platforms.

Articles referenced:

“Men on Pinterest are Creating Sex-themed Image Boards of Little Girls: The Platform Makes it Easy.”

Child sex abuse content is exploding online. We’re losing the fight against it.

Senators seek answers from Pinterest after NBC News investigation.

Scripture referenced:

Genesis 3
Mark 7:22-23
1 Peter 5:8
1 John 4:1-3
Ecclesiastes 2:11-12

Ep. 98: Biblical Worldview – Do I Have One? Mar 15, 2023

This week we are aiming to answer the question, “What exactly is a Biblical worldview?” and, more importantly, “Do I have a Biblical worldview?” When we consider how secularism and materialism can become subtly absorbed worldviews just by living in Western society, it becomes obvious that it intentionality is required to decipher how the Bible should inform our views. Our special guest, Pastor Logan Talamas, provides awesome conversation on these topics.

Articles referenced:

Worldview Research

Scripture referenced:

Ep. 97: WW – TikTok Announces Default Time Limits Mar 08, 2023

In today’s episode, we look at the recent headlines about TikTok’s announcement that users under 18 will soon have a default time limit of 60 minutes. Summarizing five different articles, we apply a Biblical worldview to the reality of unhealthy habits (such as multiple hours of TikTok per day), how to stop, and whether or not it is sinful to continue doing what your conscience tells you is wrong.

Articles referenced:

TikTok announces 60-minute daily screen time limit for users under 18
TikTok to limit the time teens can be on the app. Will safeguards help protect them?
Will TikTok’s New Screen Time Limit Actually Change Anything?
TikTok Admits It’s as Clueless on Teens as the Rest of Us
TikTok restricts screen time for teens: Hour limit after White House ban

Scripture referenced:

Proverbs 4:23
Romans 7:15
Romans 7:19
Romans 14:14
Romans 14:23
Romans 7:23-24

Resources referenced:

John MacArthur New Testament Commentary: Romans 9-16
Brave Parenting Podcast: Episode 88
Brave Parenting Podcast: Episode 90
Brave Parenting Podcast: Episode 92
TikTok Screen Time Help Center

Ep. 96: BeReal App Review Feb 28, 2023

Today’s episode is an app review of ‘BeReal’. Voted the 2022 iPhone App of the Year, this app aims to give users a realistic glimpse into what their friends are doing, seeing, and experiencing. What do parents need to know? What age is it appropriate? Listen in!

If you prefer to read about BeReal, check out our app review on BraveParenting.net

Ep. 95: WW “Teen Girls & LGBTQ+ Youth in Crisis” Feb 22, 2023

This week’s Worldview Wednesday highlights headlines that swept the nation on February 13, 2023. The CDC released its most recent Youth Risk Behavior Survey for 2021, and the results show teen girls and lgbtq+ youth are in a major crisis and at risk. Kelly & Chelsea walk through the results, the proposed action steps, and how ridiculously insufficient they are. They provide five alternative reasons to explain the crisis – all of which parents can take action on immediately.

Articles referenced:

2019 Youth Risk Behavior Survey Results
2021 Youth Risk Behavior Survey Results
2011-2021 Data Summary and Trends Report

CDC data shows U.S. teen girls ‘in crisis’ with unprecedented rise in suicidal behavior
Teens, especially girls, are experiencing more violence, suicidal thoughts, and mental health challenges, CDC survey finds
CDC Report on Teen Mental Health is a Red Flag

Podcast referenced:

Brave Parenting #73: Modern Marijuana Use
Brave Parenting #79: It’s Time to Do Something About Pornography
Brave Parenting #80: No Porn November Worldview Wednesday
Brave Parenting #81: Sugar Dating
Brave Parenting #82: OnlyFans and Digital Sex Work

Scripture referenced:

Gen 1:27
Romans 1:19-32

Books referenced:

American Girls: The Secret Life of Teenagers by Nancy Jo Sales
iGen: Why Today’s Super-Connected Kids are Growing Up Less Rebellious, More Tolerant, Less Happy – and Completely Unprepared for Adulthood by Jean Twenge

Ep. 94: The HEART and Online Influence Feb 14, 2023

In this Valentine’s Day episode, Kelly & Chelsea take a biblical look at the HEART and how it is impacted by media and technology. Proverbs 4:23 says to “guard your heart above all else, for everything you do flows from it.” How do we guard our hearts against negative online influence? What happens if our hearts are left unguarded? Today, we get to the HEART of all these questions.

Scripture referenced:

Matthew 22:37
Proverbs 4:23
Luke 6:45
Jeremiah 17:9
Ezekiel 36:26
Matthew 9:4
Mark 8:17
Luke 12:34
Luke 16:22
John 14:1
Matthew 5:28
Colossians 3:1-2
Philippians 4:8

Ep. 93: WW School Monitoring Software Drops LGBTQ Word Alerts Feb 08, 2023

In this Worldview Wednesday episode Kelly and Chelsea tackle just one headline. The veteran school communication monitoring software company Gaggle has deemed it now irrelevant and unnecessary to alert school administration when words falling under the LGBTQ banner are used in student communications. The company’s stated goal is to ensure the safety and wellbeing of every student but one must ask, based on statistics of mental health and wellbeing of LGBTQ youth, if their change in ethics actually serves their goals? And, how does all of this impact a Biblical worldview?

Articles referenced:

Gaggle Drops LGBTQ Words From Student Surveillance Tool Following Bias Concerns
CDC statistics on sexual violence based on orientation

Scripture referenced:

John 19:1-16
Eph 5:11-12

Books referenced:

Knowing God by J.I. Packer
One Perfect Life by John MacArthur
and yes, Elephant & Piggie: The Complete Collection by Mo Willems
A Practical Guide to Culture by John Stonestreet and Brett Kunkle

Ep. 92: Talking About TikTok With Kids Feb 02, 2023

In this episode we tie up our summary of some of the the intricacies of TikTok and its use by children and teens. Kelly & Chelsea cover 5 talking points parents can use to begin conversations around the value and dangers of the app. Kids will start asking for the app at young ages, so if you haven’t been asked yet – it’s coming. Prepare yourself with this episode!

Five Talking Points:

TikTok Challenges
Explicit Content on TikTok
Government and Privacy Concerns
TikTok Hashtags
Co-Viewing TikTok Content

Articles referenced:

TikTok Challenges
TikTok Ban on Government Devices and on University Campuses
TikTok Mascara Controversy

Ep. 91: WW Childhood Obesity, Big Tech Wants Birth Dates, M3gan Challenges Tech Reliance, & Seattle Sues Big Tech Jan 25, 2023

How does the pervasive influence of media and big tech companies impact childhood development and worldview? You probably aren’t surprised to learn the impact is huge and (too often) destructive! This is precisely what Kelly & Chelsea address as they look at news headlines through the lens of Scripture in this week’s episode of Worldview Wednesday.

Articles referenced:

Childhood Obesity

Big Tech Wants Birth Dates

M3gan Challenges Tech Reliance

Seattle Sues Big Tech

Scripture referenced:

1 Cor 6:19-20
Rom 12:1
Phil 4
Rom 8:13
Prov 12:17
Prov 12:19
Prov 14:25
2 Cor 6:14
Heb 10:19-25
Ecc 2:10
Eph 4:22-24
Col 3:12

Commentaries referenced:

Expositor’s Bible Commentary
John MacArthur Study Bible

Ep. 90: TikTok Influencers & the Shaping of Kids’ Ideologies Jan 17, 2023

Having established the power of TikTok’s algorithm in Episode 88, Kelly and Chelsea discuss the gravity of the impact Influencers on TikTok have on the hearts and minds of kids. They discuss the reality of the Dunning-Kruger Effect as young people with low knowledge but high confidence have the time, energy, and creativity to propagate their ideologies as influencers.

Articles referenced:

“Champagne Problems”
The Dunning-Kruger Effect

Resources referenced:

The Dynamic Heart in Daily Life
Foundation Worldview

Scripture referenced:

Ecc 1:2
2 Cor 11 and 12
Eph 4:22-24
Rom 12:1-2
Rom 8:13
1 Pet 5:5
2 Cor 11:14
1 John 2:15
Mat 11:28
Mat 18:6

Ep. 89: WW -Thought Crimes, Age Verification for Porn Sites, Sport Are Important, & New Year’s Values Jan 11, 2023

Our first headlines of 2023: Establishing values for the New Year, UK woman arrested for ‘thought crime,’ Sports are important until they aren’t at all, and Louisiana enacts law for age verification on pornography websites. Kelly and Chelse look at these news pieces through the lens of Scripture and parenting.

*CLARIFICATION: It is stated that OnlyFans requires age verification – this is true only for the OnlyFans creators, not the fans.

Articles referenced:

https://www.wsj.com/articles/for-the-new-year-figuring-out-what-matters-most-11672415574
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11571487/Catholic-woman-arrested-charged-PRAYING-outside-Birmingham-abortion-clinic-buffer-zone.html
https://www.pcmag.com/news/louisiana-law-requires-id-to-view-porn

Scripture referenced:

Phil 2:4
Rom 15:1
Rom 12:1-2
Gen 3:1
Ps 119:9-11
Mark 8:36
Ecc 2:10-11
John 5:44
1 Cor 4:16
1 Thes 1:6
Gal 1:10

Ep. 88: The Power of TikTok’s Algorithm Jan 03, 2023

Just how powerful is the algorithm which determines what videos TikTok users will see? In this episode we discuss the recent push for algorithm transparency and TikTok’s response. All of that to help answer the question: how does this algorithm impact us as Christians? How should Christians approach an app like TikTok for ourselves or our children with what we know about the algorithm? We look at two major areas of concern regarding the content pushed: CONSUMERISM and FAME, and what God’s word has to say about this.

Articles referenced:
https://www.vice.com/en/article/4axmzq/tiktok-self-harm-eating-disorder-teens-algorithm
https://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/57833/1/demystifying-algorithm-social-media-tiktok-eating-disorder-self-harm-twitter
https://blog.hootsuite.com/tiktok-algorithm/
https://newsroom.tiktok.com/en-us/new-studies-quantify-tiktoks-growing-impact-on-culture-and-music
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2022/dec/15/tiktok-self-harm-study-results-every-parents-nightmare
https://www.legalreader.com/tiktok-algorithms-are-exposing-preteens-to-self-harm-eds/
https://www.theverge.com/2021/7/21/22587113/tiktok-algorithm-wsj-investigation-rabbit-hole
https://9to5mac.com/2022/12/20/how-tiktoks-algorithm-works/
https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/interactive/2022/tiktok-popularity/
https://uxdesign.cc/i-was-on-tiktok-for-30-days-it-is-manipulative-addictive-and-harmful-to-privacy-9e25445a9122

Scriptures referenced:
James 1:22
Phil 4:8-9
Luke 12:15
1 Tim 6:6-8
Phil 3:20
1 Cor 10:31
1 Tim 6:9
John 6
James 4:3
James 4:10
James 4:1-4*
Psalm 139*
Phil 2:1-5
*Use when discussing with children.

Documentary referenced:
Generation Wealth (Rated ‘R’)

Ep. 87: Worldview Wednesday Dec 28, 2022

In today’s Worldview Wednesday Kelly & Chelsea talk about some popular headlines from December and how to think about them through the lens of Scripture. From the 2022 Word of the Year to AI image-generating app Lensa, climate change fear, and a Navy SEAL detransitioning are analyzed with a Biblical Worldview so that parents and young people can learn to think Biblically about the news of the world.

Articles referenced:

‘Goblin mode’ is Oxford’s word of the year. What does it mean?

The Cut’s definition of Goblin Mode

The Dead Sea is dying. These beautiful, ominous photos show the impact

‘Magic Avatar’ App Lensa Generated Nudes From My Childhood Photos

Retired Navy SEAL made famous after coming out as trans announces detransition: ‘Destroyed my life’

Scripture referenced:
Gen 2:15
2 Thes 3:10-12
Prov 15:19
Prov 10:4
Prov 26:15
Col 3:23-24
Rom 1:18-32
Gen 3:17-18
Isa 51:6
Mat 24:35
Rev 21:1-7
Rom 8:22
Ps 24:1
Ps 46:1-3
Deut 6:7
Luke 8:15
Rom 8:25
Col 3:12
Jam 5:7
2 Tim 4:2
Rev 4:11
Ps 66:4
Jam 3:16

Documentary referenced:
Dysconnected

Ep. 86: ChatGPT & How This Will Change Everything Dec 20, 2022

In today’s podcast, Kelly & Chelsea are joined by our resident technology expert, Ryan Newcom, to talk about Open AI’s public release of ChatGPT. We aim to answer the question of what this type of advancing technology means for parents, children, careers, and especially students – both now and in the future. If AI can write your essay for you, what will stop students from using it?

Articles referenced:
Atlantic OpEd: The End of High School English

Ep. 85: Worldview Wednesday Dec 14, 2022

In today’s Worldview Wednesday we look at headlines about (1) Pastors countering ‘Drag Queen Story Hour’ with gospel-centered local library reading hour, (2) a new Virtual Reality therapy app for peer counseling, and (3) the drama associated with Balenciaga, their ad campaign with children and BDSM gear, and Kim Kardashian questioning her relationship with the company. Kelly and Chelsea think Biblically about these news stories in order to help parents apply God’s truth to parenting.

Articles referenced:
“Pastor Story Hour”
https://thefederalist.com/2022/07/07/the-epidemic-of-fatherless-boys-is-unraveling-our-society
https://ifstudies.org/blog/life-without-father-less-college-less-work-and-more-prison-for-young-men-growing-up-without-their-biological-father
“Virtual Reality App Focuses on Mental Health”
“Kim Kardashian ‘re-evaluating’ Balenciaga relationship over child images”

Podcasts referenced:
Breakpoint: Fashion World Embraces Pedophilia
Relatable w/ Allie Beth Stuckey: The Balenciaga Story is Even Worse Than You Think

Documentary referenced:
Dysconnected

Scripture referenced:
1 Timothy 5:8
Genesis 2:18
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Hebrews 10:24-25

Ep. 84: Why, When, and Which First Smartphone? Dec 06, 2022

We are talking all things FIRST smartphone in this episode. We distinguish between a child wanting and needing a smartphone, the difference between needing to use a smartphone and full smartphone ownership, and the wrong reasons to give a child a smartphone. We dive deep into the responsibility and readiness that demonstrates a child is ready for smartphone ownership and how as a parent, you can set your child up for successful smartphone use. Finally, we review which smartphones are out there and how you can choose the best one for your child.

PDF to set up iOS ScreenTime

PDF Comparison Guide to Kid-Safe Phones

Books Mentioned:

Managing Media Creating Character

Scripture Mentioned:

Proverbs 1:7
Galatians 5:22-23

Ep. 83: Worldview Wednesday (Good News Edition) Nov 30, 2022

This is a special edition of Worldview Wednesday – all good uplifting stories that remind us of the importance of family, friendships, humility, and forgiveness. We still look at these stories with a Biblical Worldview but it’s definitely an episode with “all the feels”.

Articles mentioned in this episode:
Football Player Gives Homecoming Crown to More Deserving Student
Kentucky coal miner goes viral over a picture of him at son’s basketball game
A 95-year-old woman who survived Auschwitz and became a psychologist says having a happy family has brought her healing
Adorable Grandmother Took Notes During 30 Marvel Superhero Films so She Can Relate to her Grandkids

Scripture referenced in this episode:
Romans 5:6-8
Phil 2:3
1 Cor 9:19-23
Duet 4:9

Bonus Episode: PROVERBS 7 Teaching Sexual Wisdom to Kids Nov 27, 2022

A bonus episode to put a bow on our “No Porn November” Series. This episode is definitely one you SHOULD listen to with your kids! This is the audio from Kelly’s exegetical teaching assignment on Proverbs 7 for her Master’s class. There is also a video if you’d rather watch the 20-minute teaching.

By the way, I cannot recommend The Master’s University more highly!

Ep. 82: OnlyFans & “Digital Sex Work” Nov 22, 2022

Continuing in our “No Porn November” series this episode exposes the app and platform “OnlyFans” and its role in pornography and sex work. Kelly and Chelsea walk through a few testimonies from college girls on the platform and their reality in light of Scripture. OnlyFans highlights the movement towards desensitizing “sex work” in our culture, which explains why both TikTok and Twitter have announced they will begin allowing “Adult Content” on their platforms for a fee.

Articles referenced in this episode:
“Bella Thorne on OnlyFans”
“Cardi B on OnlyFans”
“The Naked Truth”
“College OnlyFans Creator Says Sex Work Isn’t the Best Creative Outlet”
“Living in a Fancy Prison”
“OnlyFans Bans Porn”
“OnlyFans Says Porn is Here to Stay”
“TikTok Introduces Adult Content”
“Twitter Introduces Adult Content”

Resources:
https://www.covenanteyes.com/
https://accountable2you.com/
https://www.joinfortify.com/

Scripture References:
Romans 1:18-26
Isaiah 44:9-20
Proverbs 4:4-9

Ep. 81: Sugar Dating Nov 15, 2022

This episode could be confusing to children and adolescents, please listen first before inviting your kids into the conversation. Kelly and Chelsea dive into the growing trend of Sugar Dating, exposing the lies that are fed to young women on social media and looking at the topic Biblically from the perspective of Christians, parents, and spouses.

We can no longer look at fringe trends around sex in our culture and expect them to never impact our lives. With social media – they always will.

Articles referenced in this episode:
Glamour Magazine
What is Sugar Dating?
Students Finding Sugar Daddies to Pay Skyrocketing College Costs
Sugar Dating is No Easy Way to Improve Finances, I’ve Seen the Murkier Side of it.
Sugar Babies’ Whose ‘Daddies’ Die Want Their Grief Taken Seriously
A Sugar Date Gone Sour
History of Sugar Dating
60 Minutes Australia on Sugar Dating

Resources:
Covenant Eyes
Accountable2You
Fortify

Scripture References:
Proverbs 7:21-23
2 Timothy 3
1 Cor 6:16
Ephesians 4:17-24
1 John 2:16
1 Thessalonians 4:3–5
1 Peter 5:7-9

Books Referenced:
Strange New World by Carl Trueman
Love Thy Body by Nancy Pearcey

Ep. 80: Worldview Wednesday (No Porn November Edition) Nov 09, 2022

This episode could be confusing to children and adolescents, please listen first before inviting your kids into the conversation. Kelly and Chelsea take a biblical look at recent news headlines surrounding pornography culture. In this episode, they discuss accountability apps deemed “Shameware,” deep fake pornography on Twitter, and Pornhub getting kicked off Instagram for the second time.

Articles referenced in this episode:
https://www.wired.com/story/covenant-eyes-anti-porn-accountability-monitoring-apps/
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-62821117
https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/instagram-takes-down-pornhub-second-221640917.html

Resources:
Covenant Eyes
Accountable2You
Fortify

Scripture References:
John 8: 1-10
Psalm 51
2 Cor 7:9-11
1 John 1:9
Proverbs 4:23 23
1 Thessalonians 4:3–5
1 Cor 6:18
Acts 15:20
Romans 13:13
1 Cor 10:8
Colossians 3:5
James 1:18

Ep. 79: It’s Time To Do Something About Pornography Nov 01, 2022

This episode is for our adult, Christian audience. Kelly and Chelsea take a biblical look at God’s design for purity, what Scripture says about masturbation, and the cultural reality of online pornography’s use of violence and children for the entertainment of the masses – and how this grieves God’s heart. This episode will also equip every listener with at least ONE thing they can do today for the prevention and treatment of pornography use.

Articles referenced in this episode:
Covenant Eyes
Pornhub Stats 2021
Truth in Love Podcast: Masturbation
Meta-Analysis of Aggression in Pornography
Children and Pornography Research
Exodus Cry Pornography stats
BBFC Research
Pornhub Disdains Age Verification
Raised on Porn Documentary
Barely Legal Documentary
NCOSE Dirty Dozen List: Etsy
Moral Revolution
Fight the New Drug
Allie Beth Stuckey Ep 674
Find a Biblical Counselor

Scripture References:
1 Cor 6:15-20
1 Timothy 4:1-2
Romans 11:36
Heb 4:12-14
Matthew 5:28
James 1:22
1 Corinthians 6:18
1 Corinthians 7:5
Gal. 5:22
Proverbs 6:27
Romans 2:14-15
Hebrews 3:12-14
Isaiah 6:10
Romans 12:1-2
Col 3:2
Ezekiel 36:26
Rom. 8:6
Phil. 4:7-8
2 Corinthians 7:1
Lamentations 3:22
1 John 4:9

Book Mentions:
“Christ’s Call to Reform the Church” by John MacArthur
“Finally Free: Fighting for Purity with the Power of Grace” by Heath Lambert
“Rescue Skills: Essential Skills for Restoring the Sexually Broken” by Deepak Reju
“Rescue Plan: Charting a Course to Restore Prisoners of Pornography” by Deepak Reju and Jonathon D. Holmes
“The Attributes of God Vol. I” by A.W. Tozer

Ep. 78: Worldview Wednesday Oct 26, 2022

Today we think Biblically about headlines about McDonald’s “Adult Happy Meals”, Sara Michelle Gellar’s comments regarding not allowing her kids to use social media, and common misbeliefs about adolescents and sleep.

Articles referenced in this episode:
https://www.chicagotribune.com/dining/ct-food-adult-happy-meal-20221007-dznvzrtpbjampic4pasyje4jye-story.html
https://www.yahoo.com/news/sarah-michelle-gellar-likens-kids-225036074.html
https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2022/09/parents-are-so-wrong-about-teenage-sleep-and-health/

Scripture References:
1 Corinthians 13:11
Proverbs 22:15
Proverbs 1:7
James 1:5
Hosea 8:7
Psalm 127:2
Romans 12:1
1 Tim 5:23
James 5:15

Book Mentions:
“The Good News We Almost Forgot” by Kevin DeYoung

Ep. 77: The Magical Age of 13 Oct 18, 2022

In this episode, we discuss how COPPA deems 13-year-olds to be “internet adults” and the implications of this 1998 policy on parenting. We highlight recent research that shows a frighteningly large percentage of kids under 13 who are regularly using social media apps as well as recent TikTok-challenge deaths in kids under 13.

Articles referred to in the show:
https://mottpoll.org/reports/sharing-too-soon-children-and-social-media-apps
https://www.theverge.com/2022/7/7/23199058/tiktok-lawsuits-blackout-challenge-children-death
COPPA 2.0 basics: https://www.commonsensemedia.org/sites/default/files/featured-content/files/coppa_2.0_one_pager_2021.pdf
COPPA 2.0 in depth: https://www.ftc.gov/sites/default/files/documents/public_comments/2010-childrens-online-privacy-protection-act-rule-review-547597-00052%C2%A0/547597-00052-54901.pdf

Scripture referenced:
John 8:44
1 Corinthians 11:14
2 Corinthians 4

Ep. 76: Worldview Wednesday Oct 12, 2022

Today we think Biblically about headlines about Beyonce’s popular song ‘Church Girl,’ the NYU professor fired for his Organic Chemistry class being too hard, the state of theology in America, and Google offering a service to clear your personal information from their search engine. Our conversation circles around the need for parents to be actively living out their Christian faith in practical ways so that today’s young people can discern the relativistic teaching of culture versus that of Scripture. We pray that you find practical application and encouragement from today’s discussion.

Articles referenced in this episode:
https://www.gsgmedia.co/beyonce-church-girl
https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/what-beyonce-church-girl-means-to-black-christian-women_uk_62ea4c4be4b09d09a2bf5e3c
https://nypost.com/2022/10/04/nyu-professor-allegedly-fired-after-students-say-class-was-too-hard/
https://breakpoint.org/what-the-state-of-theology-tells-us/
https://gizmodo.com/google-search-results-scrub-phone-number-address-1849603859

Scripture References:
John 7:24
Philippians 1:9
2 Corinthians 13:5
Colossains 3:17
Colossains 3:23
Romans 5:3
Proverbs 6
Proverbs 7

Book Mentions:
“The Good News We Almost Forgot” by Kevin DeYoung
“Why the Word Matters” by Dave Jenkins

Ep. 75: Why Reading Still Matters Oct 04, 2022

Literacy rates are dropping and new data shows that children’s reading level is the lowest it has been in 20 years. In today’s episode, Kelly and Chelsea discuss the lack of reading of books compared to the abundance of screen media among children and adults today. What does Scripture say about reading? Why is reading essential for the Christ-Follower? And, most importantly, what role do screens play?

Brave Parenting’s Character-Driven Booklist

We also recommend Foundation Worldview’s free monthly book club recommendations

Chelsea’s Counseling point of reflection:
Are you parenting out of the love you have for your children or out of the love you have for God? Reflect on Deut 6:4-7 to ensure your heart is properly ordered.

Ep. 74: Worldview Wednesday Sep 28, 2022

This week we are looking into news headlines about cyber-flashing, self-harm on Twitter, deciding the world is too scary to have kids, and Pornhub’s Instagram account. Whether or not your kids read these headlines, chances are that they are absorbing some of the ideas that surround these news headlines. It’s so important to have conversations with your child in order for them to think critically about what is truth, what is good, and what is right.

Articles cited this week:
https://www.yahoo.com/video/southwest-airlines-pilot-reprimands-passenger-203719010.html
https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2022/08/30/self-harm-hastags-twitter/
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/gen-z-millennials-speak-out-on-reluctance-to-become-parents/
https://www.theverge.com/2022/9/5/23337535/instagram-removes-pornhub-official-account

Scripture discussed:
Ephesians 5:5-14
Psalm 53
1 Corinthians 6:19-20
Genesis 1:28
Psalm 127, 128, & 139
Proverbs 17:6
Matthew 19:14

Other resources discussed:
Fight the New Drug at fightthenewdrug.org
NCOSE (National Center on Sexual Exploitation) at endsexualexploitation.org

Ep. 73: Modern Marijuana Use Sep 27, 2022

In this episode we discuss the increased legalization of recreational marijuana in the U.S. and the shockingly high potency of THC in modern marijuana compared to that of 30 years ago. These two factors have led to increased mental health concerns as well as psychosis diagnosis, especially in young people. Social media is vocal on its approval of recreational marijuana use while the Bible is silent on the topic of “drugs”. Therefore Brave Parents must stand in the gap and begin having conversations with their kids about today’s use of marijuana. We dive into these issues and help you open the door to conversations with your children.

Articles/Reports referenced in this show:

Cannabis Policy: Public Health and Safety Issues and Recommendations

Highly Potent Weed Has Swept The Market, Raising Concerns About Health Risks

Marijuana and the Pediatric Population

Psychosis, Addiction, Chronic Vomiting: As Weed Becomes More Potent, Teens Are Getting Sick

Highly potent weed creating marijuana addicts worldwide, study says