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A Kindergarten Mishap May 26, 2024

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In this episode, Angie and Aric celebrate Carter's high school graduation! Angie also shares details on a trip back to her old school that involved a mishap that felt very much like kindergarten. They express gratitude for their family, friends, and moments of joy. Everything minus Jesus equals nothing.
Thanks for listening! Angie & Aric
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The Empty Chair May 19, 2024

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In this episode, Aric and Angie discuss their experiences during their daughters' graduations and Mother's Day. They share their emotions, grief, and the importance of their faith in navigating through difficult times. They also introduce the concept of the 'Seven F's' as guiding principles for dealing with grief and storms in life.
1. Faith & trust in God
2. Figure out your tribe
3. Freedom to just be
4. Find a therapist
5. Fitness
6. Forego eliminating the pain
7. Fly with Patience and Grace
Takeaways

Grief is a complex process that involves releasing emotions, letting go, and finding strength to move forward.
Vulnerability and deep conversations can strengthen the connection between spouses in times of grief.
Trusting in God and surrendering to Him in the midst of storms can provide comfort and guidance.
Finding moments of joy and celebrating milestones can bring healing and connection in the midst of grief. Trust in God and lean on your faith to navigate through difficult times.
Surround yourself with a supportive tribe of people who are faith-based and comfortable discussing emotions.
Embrace the freedom to be and allow yourself to feel and process your emotions.
Find a therapist who is the right fit for you and normalize therapy.
Prioritize physical, mental, and emotional fitness to support your overall well-being.
Instead of trying to eliminate pain, embrace it as an opportunity for growth and learning.
Practice patience and grace with yourself and others as you navigate the healing process.

Thanks for listening! Angie & Aric
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A Mother's Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth May 11, 2024

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In this episode, Angie speaks directly to female listeners on Mother's Day, acknowledging the challenges and importance of being a mom. She shares her own journey of self-discovery and growth, from growing up in a large family to becoming a fierce, independent, resilient, and empowered woman. Angie discusses her experiences as a single working mom, a community builder, and a wife in a blended family. She also opens up about the devastating loss of her daughter and the strength she has found in her faith, fitness journey, and support system.

Takeaways

Being a mom is a challenging and important role, and it's okay to acknowledge the difficulties and prioritize self-care.
Self-discovery and growth are ongoing processes, and it's important to reflect on who we are and what matters to us.
Single working moms face unique challenges and juggle multiple responsibilities, but they are strong and capable.
Building a supportive community and lifting each other up is essential, especially for women in male-dominated fields.
Loss and tragedy can be devastating, but finding strength in faith, fitness, and a close support system can help in the healing process.

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Surrendering to God in Chaos May 05, 2024

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In this episode, Aric and Angie discuss their recent challenges and experiences, including health issues, and a car accident involving a best friend's daughter. They emphasize the importance of surrendering to God and finding peace in the midst of chaos and uncertainty. Angie also shares a snippet from his upcoming book, 'Are You With Me?'
Takeaways

Facing difficult situations requires surrendering to God and finding peace in the midst of chaos.
Taking time for silence and prayer can help strengthen your relationship with God and provide clarity in challenging times.
Writing and sharing personal stories can be therapeutic and inspiring for both the writer and the reader.

Thanks for listening! Angie & Aric

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The Power of Vulnerability in a Marriage Apr 28, 2024

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In this episode, Angie and Aric celebrate their third wedding anniversary and reflect on their journey of grief and healing. They share moments of joy and signs from their daughter, Hallie, who passed away. They discuss the constant presence of grief and the waves of joy that come and go. They emphasize the importance of vulnerability and communication in a marriage and the choice to face challenges and rise above fear. Overall, they offer support and understanding to listeners who are also navigating the pain of loss.

Takeaways

Grief is constant, while joy comes in waves.
Sharing pain and vulnerability in a marriage strengthens the relationship.
Choosing to face challenges and rise above fear leads to growth and healing.
Moments of joy and signs from loved ones bring comfort and remind us of their presence.
Everyone is going through something, so it's important to be empathetic and kind to others.

Thanks for listening! Angie & Aric

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Katie Kuperman "The Only Way Out" Apr 21, 2024

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In this episode, author Katie Kuperman discusses her book inspired by Amanda Todd's story and the issue of bullying. She shares how she found her inspiration and the journey of writing her book. Katie also talks about the importance of speaking up and breaking the silence around bullying and mental health. The conversation delves into the impact of social media on bullying and the need for open dialogue within families. Katie's book has been used as an educational resource in schools, and she discusses the positive response and impact it has had on students.
In this conversation, Katie Cooperman discusses her novel 'The Only Way Out' and its impact on students and parents. She shares how the book engages students in anti-bullying campaigns and encourages them to speak up. Katie also talks about the emotional connection and empowerment that the book provides. She discusses the target audience and age range for the book, as well as the feedback she has received from parents. Additionally, Katie shares her experience in choosing the title of the book and her plans for future projects.
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Link to Katie's bio and book: https://www.katiekuperman.com/

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Shannon Self: Part 2 Life after Grief? Apr 14, 2024

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In this episode, Shannon Self, a bereavement coordinator, joins Aric and Angie to discuss various aspects of grief and loss. They emphasize that grief is individual and there is no right or wrong way to grieve. The importance of listening, being vulnerable, and supporting each other is highlighted. Communication and asking for what you need are crucial in navigating grief. They also discuss re-engaging with life after loss and the challenges of guilt and letting go. The episode concludes with a discussion on processing feelings of jealousy and finding peace with the choices made. In this conversation, Angie and Shannon Marie discuss various aspects of grief and loss. They explore the emotions of jealousy and anger that can arise when grieving the loss of a loved one. They also discuss the importance of validating and supporting each other in the grieving process. Shannon provides insights into the physical toll of grief, including the experience of brain fog and memory loss. She emphasizes the importance of creating new memories and finding support from others who have experienced similar loss. The conversation concludes with a discussion of favorite traditions and the importance of gratitude and support in the grieving journey.

Takeaways

Grief is a personal experience, and there is no right or wrong way to grieve.
Listening and being vulnerable are essential in supporting someone who is grieving.
Communication is key in navigating grief, and it is important to ask for what you need.
Re-engaging with life after loss can be challenging, but it is a process that takes time and self-compassion.
Guilt is a common emotion in grief, but it is important to acknowledge that you did the best you could with the information you had. Grief can evoke complex emotions, including jealousy and anger.
Validating and supporting each other in the grieving process is crucial.
Grief can have physical effects, such as brain fog and memory loss.
Creating new memories and finding support from others can help in the healing process.

Thanks for listening! Love, Aric & Angie
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Shannon Self - Part 1: Understanding Grief Apr 07, 2024

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In this episode, we are joined by Shannon Self, a bereavement coordinator, to discuss the topic of grief. Shannon shares her personal journey of losing her mother and how it led her to her current role. The conversation explores the importance of understanding grief and the difference between grieving and mourning. They also discuss the challenges of supporting someone who has lost a child and the need for active listening and validation. The episode concludes with advice on how to be supportive to those who are grieving. The conversation highlights the long-term nature of grief and the importance of finding comfort in signs. They also emphasize the need to live with grief every day and the importance of understanding and supporting each other.

Takeaways

Grief is an internal process that affects every aspect of a person's life.
Active listening and validation are crucial in supporting someone who is grieving.
Comparing losses or rushing someone to get over their grief is insensitive and unhelpful.
Building a support system within family and allowing vulnerability can help in the grieving process. Expressing grief can be challenging, and it's important to create a safe space for individuals to share their feelings.
Silence and listening are powerful tools in supporting someone who is grieving.
It's okay to ugly cry and let out emotions in a healthy way.
Finding ways to express grief, such as writing letters or engaging in rituals, can help in the healing process.
Grief is a lifelong journey, and it's important to find ways to live with it every day.
Signs and symbols can provide comfort and a sense of connection with loved ones who have passed away.
Understanding and supporting each other in grief is crucial for healthy relationships.
The conversation ends with gratitude and anticipation for future discussions.

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Jesus Brings Refuge - Happy Easter He Is Risen! Mar 31, 2024

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In this episode, we discuss the significance of Easter Sunday and the hope found in the resurrection of Jesus Christ. They talk about finding refuge in God and share a personal story of receiving a surprise gift that symbolizes refuge. The Psalms are highlighted as a source of comfort and guidance, and the importance of being raw with God and accepting His love is emphasized. We also reflect on Easter traditions! This Easter Sunday reflect on the true meaning of Easter and the refuge we can find in Jesus.
We hope you have a blessed day with your family and friends and don't eat too much candy!
Thanks for listening! Love, Aric & Angie
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Laurence Bowers: Life Journey Powered by Resilience Mar 24, 2024

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In this conversation, we discuss with our guest, Laurence Bowers, the importance of resilience and overcoming challenges in life. We talk about how resilience can be learned through both hardship and positive examples. Laurence shares his personal journey of growing up in a challenging environment and how he was able to overcome adversity with the help of supportive mentors and coaches. We also discuss the impact of sports on resilience and the importance of surrounding yourself with positive influences. Laurence shares his experience of dealing with a career-ending injury and how he was able to find purpose and fulfillment in other areas of his life. The conversation explores the themes of spreading love, resilience, constant growth as a parent, the importance of love and being a positive example, family traditions, and fun and laughter.

Takeaways

Resilience is a key trait that can be learned through both hardship and positive examples.
Sports can play a significant role in developing resilience, teaching work ethic, leadership, and perseverance.
Having supportive mentors and coaches can make a difference in overcoming challenges and achieving success.
Self-talk and surrounding yourself with positive influences are important for maintaining resilience and a positive mindset. Spreading love and fighting against evil is a core responsibility as Christians.
Being resilient and surrounding oneself with good people is essential for personal growth.
Parenting requires constant growth and learning, and being a positive example is crucial.
Love and kindness can make the world a better place.
Family traditions, such as praying together, can strengthen bonds.
Having fun and laughter is important for a happy and healthy family life.

Thank you for listening! Love, Angie & Aric
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