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What Your Wife Actually Wants | S3E26 BEYOND I DO PODCAST Apr 09, 2026

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In this all-guys episode of Beyond I Do, Adam is joined by Sammy and Aaron for a real conversation about what it actually looks like to celebrate your wife well—and why most men miss it. They talk anniversaries, milestone birthdays, and the behind-the-scenes sacrifices wives make that are easy to overlook (especially in busy seasons with work, church, and kids).The guys also get practical: don’t just give what you would want—learn what she wants. That means paying attention, asking better questions, and understanding how your wife’s past (and even trauma) can shape what feels loving vs. overwhelming. The goal isn’t “big gestures” for show—it’s thoughtful pursuit, consistent honor, and building a home where your wife feels seen, celebrated, and safe to be herself.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Connect with Aaron & Erica Levyhttps://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_np/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Why Gen Z Is Coming Back to Jesus | S4E26 BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST Apr 06, 2026

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What if the “decline of Christianity” narrative isn’t the full story? In this episode, Sammy, Gabe, Sanaz, and Joseph unpack the surprising rise in spiritual openness—especially among Gen Z and younger—and why Jesus is showing up in conversations, culture, and curiosity again.They talk about what’s driving this moment (identity, meaning, boundaries, and a hunger for something real), why young men are increasingly drawn toward faith, and how the church can respond with more than hype—through discipleship, mentorship, and real-life examples worth following. Plus: practical encouragement for sharing your faith without fear, overthinking, or needing the “perfect moment.”--Connect with:Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Gabriel Guzman https://www.instagram.com/salinascyy/Sanaz Mesa https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/Joseph Valcarcel https://www.instagram.com/joseph_aaron_valcarcel/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Should a Widow Remarry? | S3E25 BEYOND I DO PODCAST Apr 02, 2026

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Remarrying after the death of a spouse can feel complicated—especially when it’s your parent. In today’s episode, Adam and Ashlee talk honestly about widowhood, grief, and what happens when a widowed parent starts considering dating again. Ashlee shares why the idea of her mom remarrying feels uncomfortable and emotional, and Adam offers a different perspective on companionship, healing, and what it can look like to move forward without “replacing” what was lost.This conversation is real, funny at times, and also deeply human. If you’ve ever wrestled with loyalty, family dynamics, fear of change, or what honoring the past while embracing the future can look like, this episode is for you. Whether you’re the one grieving, the one dating again, or the family member trying to process it all—there’s grace for the tension, and wisdom for the next step.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Gossip Grows Fast: How to Stop the Spiral | S4E25 BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST Mar 30, 2026

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Gossip doesn’t usually show up yelling—it shows up “helpful.” Just letting you know… Keep this between us… and before you realize it, a whole story has been built off assumptions, half-truths, and someone else’s “version.” In this episode, Adam and Aaron talk about how gossip spreads, why it’s so tempting, and how quickly it can damage trust, relationships, and even a person’s reputation.They also unpack the deeper issue underneath gossip—offense, insecurity, and the desire to feel in control—and share practical wisdom for shutting it down with integrity. If you’ve ever been burned by rumors, felt the pull to “join the conversation,” or realized you were unintentionally part of the chain, this episode will help you build discernment, protect unity, and choose honesty over noise.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Love Languages & Real Life | S3E24 BEYOND I DO PODCAST Mar 26, 2026

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In this special all-women episode, Ashlee is joined by Nancy and Alizé for a raw, honest conversation built around real stories they found online—and the emotions those stories bring up. From relationship expectations and “social media comparison traps,” to what it looks like to communicate needs without being petty, the girls unpack what healthy love actually looks like in real life (not just on TikTok).They also shift into deeper territory—talking about regret, healing, and how faith gives hope even when consequences feel heavy. With personal reflections, practical wisdom, and heartfelt encouragement, this episode is for anyone navigating relationship pain, shame, fear, or uncertainty and needing a reminder that God can restore, strengthen, and sustain you one step at a time.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Nancy Navas & Alize Robinsonhttps://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

When “Equality” Gets Twisted | S3E23 BEYOND I DO PODCAST Mar 19, 2026

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In this episode, Adam and Ashlee get real about confrontation—why some people avoid it, why others run toward it, and how a couple can navigate conflict without letting it turn into chaos. From TSA drama to road rage stories, they unpack the difference between being good at confrontation versus being fueled by pain, trauma, or the need to feel heard. Adam also shares how his upbringing shaped his instinct to protect peace, while Ashlee explains what it feels like to find your voice without crossing the line.They also talk about respect between men and women—why “equal” doesn’t mean “identical,” and how a culture that pretends there’s no difference can produce real harm. Adam breaks down what it looks like to lead with honor, protect without controlling, and teach sons to treat women with dignity—especially in a world where people are increasingly bold, aggressive, and dehumanizing.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

Stop Chasing Viral Sermons | S4E23 BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST Mar 16, 2026

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What makes preaching actually land—not just sound good? Sammy sits down with Dan for a behind-the-scenes convo on preaching, preparation, and how to handle the pressure to be “engaging” without losing biblical depth. They talk about why the next generation can be passionate but unclear, how to avoid building sermons around vibes instead of Scripture, and the difference between being a “great communicator” and being a faithful preacher of the text.Dan breaks down a simple framework for sermon development (starting points, observation, structure, research, illustration, and outlining), plus a practical way to study Scripture using different “views” (airplane, car, running, crawling). They also get into how pain shapes longevity, why you can’t shortcut formation, and end with the funniest on-the-spot challenge: Pick It Up & Preach It—because sometimes the best growth comes from doing the work in real time.--Connect with:Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Dan Fernandez https://www.instagram.com/danfernan/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Your Spouse’s Next Affair Might Be AI | S3E22 BEYOND I DO PODCAST Mar 12, 2026

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AI isn’t just a “work tool” anymore—it’s walking straight into the relationship world… and it’s about to get weird. Adam and Ashlee break down a new TLC story where a woman is openly dating her AI boyfriend (yes, he has a name, a personality, and access to her devices). And while the internet laughs, they ask the real question: what happens when a generation that’s already lonely, anxious, and craving affirmation discovers a “partner” who never says no, never challenges you, and can be customized to fit your every need?Then the conversation gets serious: emotional affairs with AI, VR/AR “dating,” kids having access to AI way too early, and how this could disrupt marriages even more than social media already has. They talk boundaries, mental health, parenting wisdom, and why “what’s weird now” might become normal faster than we think—unless believers learn discernment and build healthier habits today.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

When Politics Gets Personal: Navigating Race, Immigration and Bias | S4E22 BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST Mar 09, 2026

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In this episode, Adam and Sammy unpack what it actually looks like for Christians to navigate politics and social issues without turning faith into a team sport. They reflect on Adam’s recent conversation on the Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast, then zoom in on why so many political takes feel like shallow soundbites instead of thoughtful, researched convictions. The goal isn’t to tell you what to think—it’s to help you learn how to think with wisdom, clarity, and Christlike maturity.They get real about why these conversations feel so complicated: lived experience, cultural blind spots, generational pain points, and the way social media rewards outrage instead of understanding. From immigration and assimilation, to racial bias, to “limited comments” hypocrisy, Adam and Sammy challenge believers to build a diverse circle, ask better questions, do honest research, and choose unity without pretending every issue is simple. If you’ve ever felt stuck between extremes, this episode is an invitation to trade hot takes for discernment—and protect your witness while engaging the real world.--Full Leadership Podcast with Carey NieuwhofApple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/emergency-episode-pastoring-angry-people-when-to-speak/id912753163?i=1000751173095YouTube: https://youtu.be/Hle3Wg9sAcc?si=fef8kK-PrM4mXSeB--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

My Wife Has a Spending Problem… and Wants a Farm | S3E21 BEYOND I DO PODCAST Mar 05, 2026

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This episode is pure chaos in the best way. Adam and Ashlee bounce from marriage money talk to “Mrs. Adam Mesa” identity jokes, to why taking your spouse to their “dream place” might actually make things worse. Ashlee opens up about her shopping habits (hello, TikTok dopamine), what it felt like realizing it was getting out of hand, and why letting Adam take the wheel financially has actually brought peace—not punishment.Then the conversation takes a HARD left into the dream farm era: Highland cows, goats, chickens, barns from Lowe’s, and why Adam is now publicly refusing responsibility for “the cow fund.” Oh—and somewhere in the middle, a homeless man in Nashville confirms Adam is a black man (his words, not ours), and the episode ends with… both Adam and Ashlee casually admitting they’ve been arrested before. Yeah. It’s one of those episodes.--Contribute to Ashlee's Cow Farm:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aq5WXmQQooo--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

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